I’m of the opinion that what a guy does is his business. His money. He can burn it, give it away, punt it or do all three.
Doesn’t matter if you’re married, defacto, have a GF or are a hermit. What you do with your time and your money is entirely your decision and no one’s business.
Anyone that lives their life according to others is a fool. I have no respect for subservient guys.
You’re a male, be one.