Originally Posted by
rooter
You should always start of nice and slow and gentle especially if you are with a new young inexperienced girl and especially if you are bigger than average.
Then be aware of the girl's response, ask if she is OK, and if it's OK, gradually, gradually, slowly, slowly go a bit harder or faster or deeper, but always check with the girl if she is OK. Go with the flow. You may end up fucking hard or you may end up fucking gently intimately sensually passionately. Go with the flow and with the girl's vibe.
Fucking is a shared experience. You open up a whole new world of pleasure if you are riding the same wave as the girl.