Straying off topic a little bit. Would like some useful advice please 🙏.
I went to a dinner party, I met a friend of a friend of my wife. And I am so rizzed. She was the most charming and beautiful looking Caucasian girl I’ve ever met in real life. Gorgeous smile. The type that gave me a warm fuzzy feeling just thinking about her every day in a the past week. We had very light conversations only and never exchanged any details, but I could reach out on facebook if I wanted to.
Being Asian background I am feeling a little self conscious to reach out. Also although she is not in my wife’s circle, she is friend of a friend of my wife. I also don't want a long term adultery partner, I don’t don’t think I need the emotional part, I love my wife dearly and have no intention to divorce. But I cannot stop myself thinking about her the whole week and super tempted to reach out.
Sorry about the long rant. Please give me all the reasons I shouldn’t do it and snap me out of this