Originally Posted by
mongerloid2
Greetings lads. This year I decided to pick up punting.
Cheesy backstory time
I'm not very sexually experienced and the handful of times I had sexytimes, "something" would happen eg. couldn't get hard, couldn't come at all, came too quick. This all basically culminated in a pretty bad mindset around sex: that it would only lead to disappointment and embarrassment. This made me reluctant to engage with women in my life and countless times I've subconsciously "rejected" advances made on me because of this mindset.
But fuck man, life's too short to be like this. Women are so gorgeous, and I really want to be able to get over this and properly enjoy sex. I could have decades of indulging in the delight that women are before I get old, wrinkly and impotent. I can't fucking miss this.
So not too long ago, I finally got a job after 2 years of not having steady income. I won't make that much money but it'll do. I've decided to not rent, and use that saved rent money to punt (and probably a bunch of other stuff to help me on this journey).
TL;DR: I'm soy as fuck and I'm determined to change that. Gonna use this thread for a bit of accountability
Experience 1: The Leadup
I decided for my first experience I'll go for a massage and see where it leads. I half considered 165 Canterbury due to the "new manager discount" thing they had going, but their reviews and pics weren't great. Then I considered 130 Dreamgirls due to it's convenient location for me, but the stories of the dragon lady receptionist scared me off.
In the end, I hit up SBM's WeChat, checked out the roster and asked to book Fiona as her description mentioned she allows touch and I love putting my hands on pretty women. I took 10mg of tadalafil to give my lil buddy a boost in case, then hopped on a train toward Museum Station.
First time at an MP and the place is smaller than I imagined. Receptionist was sitting behind a small glassed booth, and the upstairs floor was basically 1m^2 that immediately led to a few doors. Anyway, I mentioned my booking to the receptionist, paid some damage ($140) and walked up to the room I was assigned like a good boy.
Experience 1: The Session
Mid undressing, I hear a knock on the door before little Fiona walked in. This was when I learnt lesson #1: you can't rely on the pictures on the websites. Thankfully, she's still gorgeous; petite frame, cute little butt, a really cute face and enhanced C(?) cups. After a quick shower and exchanging basic pleasantries, we got started with part 1.
Part 1 was kinda nice, but a personal learning for me here is that I don't really enjoy massages all that much. I don't get (regular) massages often, and I don't recall ever getting one where I was amazed by it (happy to take recommendations for regular massages though!). Still, it is pretty nice to know your being touched by a pretty lady; I'd just rather be doing other things with her.
A possible mistake by me during part 1 was that I was basically silent the whole time. Maybe a missed opportunity to start building some rapport and connection with the ML? One thing I did chat about and find out was that she's been in Australia for 5 years, which leads me to lesson #2: you can't trust the info about the girls on the websites. I highly doubt she's 22 years old after being here for 5 years, and she definitely isn't a "new" girl.
Towards the end of part 1, she switched up her technique to a more playful and teasing style, and also leant into my ear and did some ASMR-style breathing and moans, which I thought was a nice touch. She told me to flip around, saw my cock was already rearing to go and gave me a coy smile: "you wan BJ??". Too mesmerized by a naked lady to think straight, I nodded like a retard. "Extra fipty dolla ok?". I nodded again. Lesson #3: with a clear mind, understand and clarify what you are signing up for. I had no idea if it was CBJ or BBBJ at the time of the retard nod, but fuck it we ball.
To my disappointment, she doms me up. Another personal learning is that CBJs don't do much for me, sensation wise. But it was still kinda awesome having someone hot suck my dick. After some time, she switches positions so now her legs are toward my head. I took this as a sign that I could touch and started caressing her thighs. Milky smooth skin, soft to the touch. Definitely my favorite part of the session was feeling her up, and rubbing my face all over her thighs while she sucks me off.
Every now and then, she would stop (probably to rest) and present her breasts for me to play with and suck on. I really wanted to kiss her too, but somehow felt too shy to ask (fucking ridiculous right? She's literally naked and on top of me, but my brain...)
Time was starting to run out, and TBH was I not really close to cumming. CBJ wasn't quite doing it, still had some background nerves in my mind AND to boot, I really needed to pee. Lesson #4: don't drink so much damn water on the trip up. You can survive 8 hours sleep without water, you can live for 2 hours without it too.
Needing a bit more stimulation, I asked her to try oiled HJ instead. HJ technique was kinda mechanical, and put together with the other things I had going on, I couldn't cum by the time it was up. Oh well. In hindsight, Fiona was such a great girl trying her best to please this awkward dude.
Total damage in the end was $140 (for the massage) + $50 (CBJ granted by the retard nod).
Quick afterthoughts: I'm not sure if I'll do another massage. So much time (30min) spent lying face down that could've been spent doing other things. TBH, I'd rather give the girl a massage for 30min. Though, I could have my mind changed if someone convinces me of a good way to do the ML game that I'm fucking up.
Questions for anyone who wishes to answer
(1) What the heck do you guys do if you need to pee during a session?
(2) Any tips for building rapport with the ladies? I can imagine good rapport can make sessions go better.
My Next Quest
Hitting up Ginza fo sho.