How have you been caught? She physically saw you,.saw messages? You brought back an infection?
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If she knows what you have been doing, and you got caught physically then not much you can do.
How many of you have been caught out by your spouse's and how did you get out of it
How have you been caught? She physically saw you,.saw messages? You brought back an infection?
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If she knows what you have been doing, and you got caught physically then not much you can do.
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If you have been caught then the only path is complete capitulation.
Be prepared for How did it happen? Do you love her? When did you meet? What did you do? Did you use Condoms etc etc
Assuming you are a decent chap and worth staying married to, then just take the pain and in a few months you'll be back.
I've been married 20 years since I was last caught and that wasn't the first time in marraige, I've just gotten smarter,
What would be more interesting was if a guy did a sneaky dash to the local parlour behind his Mrs’ back only to find his Mrs was working there as a side job unbeknownst to him.
"What would be more interesting was if a guy did a sneaky dash to the local parlour behind his Mrs’ back only to find his Mrs was working there as a side job unbeknownst to him."
I hope it doesn't happen to anyone here, but love to see this in AV.
Totally agree with BumShot, be smarter next time.
As many punters mentioned, it depends on situation. If you have a wife / partner / GF /BF, and if you are seeing MLs / WLs / FWBs, yes there is a chance to get caught.
But denying everything is not a wise way to do it especially if you are caught red handed. That will lead you to losing half of everything you own. Denying everything will prove that you are a cheater, liar and beyond help. Being proactive is a better way. Even after that, if you got caught, face the music.
I regularly go for a massage, never been questioned by any partner. It’s just a massage. Although one asked about happy endings and wanted to watch and if there were happy endings for girls.
Shopping shopping and more shopping
i told her I’d ask around. It’s horses for courses, if they feel secure in the relationship and are open minded in the bedroom they do not mind you getting a hj. Everyone of my handful of threesomes has been organised by a girlfriend, so a massage is tame in comparison.
Its just a massage with a handy you have to do something after she stopped putting out regularly
Never been caught but I'm sure she knows. I am in a very enviable position. She is Asian and loves me to death. She lets me travel and even encourages me and yes I go to Thailand, Philippines, etc . She's not dumb and seems to have an Asian mindset of " as long as he comes home to me every night then its ok" In her home country many older men have mistresses and this is quite common. BTW she isn't a kept woman and has a job in middle management in a multinational company. She contributes.
One thing I do not do is shove it in her face, I'm very discrete. I've often said if one day she came to me and said give up the mongering I would. She's a keeper for life.
Do I feel guilty - sometimes a little - but I love her, the "others" are just a recreational pursuit. Flame me if you wish.
My advice is read the situation very carefully with your spouse/gf. Most Aussie/ Western girls will not have a bar of it. Women are so good at detecting the presence or previous presence of another women. Unless you are actually caught in the act, and only a dumb ass would put himself in that situation then deny deny deny. As we all know - massage shops are just that - massage shops, nudge nudge wink wink say no more , say no more ( for all the MP fans)
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Asian girls are well superior than western girls in my personal view.
Enjoy your freedom but when you are hoop, stay hoop.