Spanky, your like a dog on a bone with this champ. We know you have a GF and we know that you have it all planned and we know your the smartest one here. 👍
I’m the dumbest because I don’t respect her. I’ve already given her a hard time yesterday, maybe too hard and there’s no going back. I treated this like a game.
The expression being I’ve burnt the bridge.
Even though she’s a working woman she’s still a young girl at heart. I realise that now.
Time will tell.
And the made up story continues…..yawn.
Much like one of your other stories under a different username. http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread...mal-life/page2
The first 3 words here are the truest you have written mate. I don't want to give you a hard time because everyone else seems to be already doing that so I'll give you a compliment instead.
You are one of the best fantasy fiction writers I've ever read. I think JR Toilken and Frank Herbert could learn from you. Well done. Very entertaining
I’m not that person so try another and if it’s me I’ll agree to it. Can’t be fairer than that.
That’s a bit old. Bring up something relevant. Thx
What’s to say, except we were out once again today. Yum cha, a bottle of nice red, though for some strange reason the restaurant served it in an ice bucket. Half a doz beers then onto another place for more drinks.
Yes we got a hell of a lot of looks again. I suppose drinking a nice red at 11am was strange. We needed to celebrate getting back together after my stupidity. I’ve been forgiven and I’ve learnt my lesson plus I’ve got more of an insight into what she’s like under duress and forgiveness.
She looked simply stunning as usual. Everyone seems to check her out, guys and women. I’m serious. Like a Ferrari or a Lamborghini if you know what I mean. She’s got the same sexual status appeal. People just have to look. I don’t care because she’s mine, I’m the guy all over her, I’m the guy who is receiving all the attention from her and I’m the guy she wants… for now. I’ve told her if she finds a guy better than me then fuck me off. I’m fully confident she won’t. Otherwise I wouldn’t tell her such.
I’ve come to think we are both as crazy as one another and well suited. Perhaps I’m worse as I’m a womaniser and cannot be trusted. I came oh so close to losing her last night but as fate would have it I was given a second chance. She's got a strong character and did test me this morning but I didn’t wilt under pressure. Maybe that’s why she’s still interested in me. I stand my ground where most guys would succumb to her beauty and fall at her feet.
Who knows where this will all end?
I think if I burn her one more time it’s over as she’s a genuine person with a kind heart.
Well guys I punted her this morning.
She’s gone.
She works in three shops listed on this forum. She was an A grade hottie but a B grade gold digger with all the attributes you folk had mentioned on this thread and other warning threads elsewhere.
I never fucked her.
BBFS was offered yesterday as I tested her but I didn’t follow through. She already has three mugs on the go and quite possibly one or two are on this forum. So guys if you live in the CBD or northern suburbs are Aussie she’s spilled the beans on who you are, what you do, your married situation, your divorce, your reconciliation and your pics and chat logs together.
I’ve deleted everything she’s ever sent me but she’s a hoarder of pics. If you are one of those mugs then request her to delete them, otherwise who knows where they’ll end up.
That’s all I have to say really.
Next one I pick up and run with I’ll keep you updated.
Till then it’s Big Daddy Spanky over and out !
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Not ashamed at all. No other man on here has punted five in one day. So sex isn’t an issue. I made it an issue with her but it would have been the deal that sealed my fate. We had a connection and already I feel lost without her. I know her future is doomed let’s leave it at that. I wasn’t here to be her saviour but that may have happened. This whole clusterfuck is my doing.
Dumping her was the easy part. Pulling through the next few days without being lost will be my next test. I seem to want all or nothing. I chose nothing and now I’ve got my just desserts, nothing.
I should have gone to a brothel this morning and changed my outlook. Now I’m lamenting and I don’t want to go pounding a pussy that’s already been used today. I have a date already lined up with someone else but to tell the truth I already miss this latest failure.
Sex isn’t everything she said and she was right.
Anyway these are my problems, no one else’s.
You just get to read about them.
Just last week, a WL had told me she was onto her 3rd customer/boyfriend. She is constantly arguing with the current one because he wants her to quit. Anything new ? lol. I look back and think what a waste of time the whole dating shit is with a WL. Punt, fuck, leave. I learnt the hard way like a lot of other punters that have been in my shoes
Even when dating normal girls there's easy tell-tale signs whether she's wife material or divorcee material. Wife material don't play games, BBFS is always on the cards and she's constantly trying to make you happy. Divorcee material plays the shit test game, makes you wait months for sex, doesn't even allow BBFS during safe days and plays super hard to get.
The dangerous side of the divorcee material girl is when she pushes you away and suddenly does a 180° by giving you so much attention just to make you come back, then proceeds to stonewall you again.
OP's girl should've been shown the door ages ago. She's giving BBFS to her paying customers but won't even have safe sex with the person she's in a relationship with. Signs that she's trouble and nothing good will come out of her. She'll get worse if she's in her 30s.
I don’t want her to quit her job.
If anything just to stop seeing her current BFs. I thought I could handle that but I cannot. Yes I’m possessive, I don’t know what love is but I have intense feelings in her goodness irrespective of whose cock she sucks at work.
Work is work and then there is us.
In this relationship I’m definitely the troublemaker. I’m a womaniser, a cheater and a punter. Plus I’m a liar. Perhaps working women are exactly the same? Perhaps some are not. I tarred her with the same brush when I feel I shouldn’t have. Some people are kind and nice.
It didn’t start out this way. I wanted to flex on what I had scored. Instead I’m writing a Shakespearean tragedy. My life is laid bare on this forum for all to see. I’ve fallen on my own petard twice now in this ML relationship when I should have bowed down and thanked the gods for granting me my wish.
Why do I do these things?
Why am I causing a beautiful flower to wilt with my poisonous words and devil like behaviour?
Tell me why?