Reply With QuoteDecided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.
Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.
Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.
Last time i was there in manila i was dating a girl and when we go to make love she was asking me not to use condom but pull out before cum, is that phil girls don't like to use condom because of religion?
I presume ''dating'' means she knows your name,address,phone number and various other personal details. Maybe her church was the ''you are the daddy baby and i want lots of dollars and you are fucked for the next 20 years.''
Very popular church that one in SE Asia!!!!
Yes thats exactly what happened.
How did you know?
Withdrawal is a popular method of contraception in Phils. I've had a couple of girls whom suggest it. It's not always a setup, more just lack of knowledge. I always decline the offer, prefer to miss out than take the risk on STI or pregnancy.Originally Posted by mista
Wise move, statistics show that your chances of catching sti are higher with the average girl that sleeps around rather than a safe sex wl that gets checked frequently.
Have you seen all of the girls lining up at the clinic in AC? It's somewhere on a backroad. I know the ABC drivers take a short cut past that place.
Provides some sense of security for the girls but it's only as good as their health practices on the next punt.
I'm nto si sure about the statistics. What might work in our favour is that girls get banned from bar work if they have a few positive tests. Then they freelance.
Just FYI, those Weekly clinical checks do nothing for the girls. The clubs have an arrangement with the clinic where by the fees are deducted from the girls wages. These checkups DO NOT TEST FOR STI/STD's! Primarily, they do a physical inspection and a PAP test. They do not check Urine and rarely check blood.
If you practice unsafe sex for whatever reason (non-judgemental here), please be aware that even though the girl(s) get checked each weekly, they are not being checked properly. Thus the girls are not lying when they tell you that they get checked regularly and that they are clean. It is true, but the problem is that they aren't being checked properly.
On a different note, if a girl asks you to have natural sex with them, it is because they want a kid from you. Whether the motive is to tie you down or want a memory of you, that's something that is between the 2 people in question. I'm not here to judge either party. Just from the Bloke's PoV, understand what you are getting yourself into. If you already have a family back home, then think carefully before each time you perform this act. Unlike 1st world countries, once a girl in Philippines gets pregnant it's a one way street as abortions are illegal and home methods of abortion ends tragically for the girl.
Whether you end up supporting the kid &/or mother or not, there are enough father-less kids roaming around the streets of Manila and Angeles City already. No need for us to add to the population of 96 Million.
Just travelling back from a visit to Philippines. This trip I kept clear of the bargirls and just happy to enjoy a regular massage.
One hour massage - ~$6.25
Tip for sexier massage with happy ending- ~$3.75.
Based on that I was saving ~$90 a time.
Freelancers that I found were $25 - $50 for all nighters, another $200 saving per time
Can you guys just remind me to save my money for the next trip as I think I'm cash flow positive after this trip.
oops, forgot to factor in the India Viagra, $7.50 box of 4.
w.billy
On a different note, if a girl asks you to have natural sex with them, it is because they want a kid from you
I tend to use this advice also with any girlfriend who has been with me more than 3 months, without wanting condom, and not on the pill
I have one girl in Phils whom wants to have a kid with me. She says no strings attached as she already has one daughter being cared for by her mum. She just likes the idea of my tall slim genes. She has straight up asked me twice over the past six months. I've stopped having sex with her - too risky for me.
She also said she has a tomboy friend whom want to get pregnant to a foreigner.
Remember, that the kids are no impediment to these girls. They just pop them out and send them home for moma to look after.
Brainsex
If its all about your genes, then no doubt the lady just wants the baby
Its not personal
In other words plenty of men will give her the baby once you back in Sydney if you say no
She will just ask around
And if the kids have the fathers details, assume they will visit in the future
Absolutely agree about the future visits. I've seen this particular lady on my visits over the past 18 months. Nothing serious just an overnight catch up each time I'm in town.
Agree with what you both have said, especially re: If you don't impregant her then some else will -but at least it won't be my problem. It will be someone else's. After going there for 10+ years, the last thing I need is more shit to deal with in addition to dealing with shit at home.
The main idea of punting overseas is that everything is at an arm's length away, quoting the old adage "don't shit in your own backyard". Once, you start doing that even when o/s (i.e. regular punting grounds), that shit starts to pile up.
Over the years, I've heard of the "no strings attached" proposals. I'm lucky as I have learnt from others who have been punting there longer than I have, who actually live there. Their advice is invaluable. When some shit hits the fan with the baby you have gave them, they will come back and ask for help. They will pull out the "it's your baby card" to help them with them being sick, school, food, shelter etc etc....when they realise that they have lost their looks or beauty and can no longer be one of the top bar girls from their bar or bars to generate the much needed income for the family, then it starts. These are the ones that end up at the crappy bars and the old Head Job Alley.
Whichever way it happens, it's mostly doom and gloom for the girl and the kid unless you end up supporting both forever...then it's doom and gloom for you...
I agree with w.billy. I'm not falling for it, just reporting it as it happens.
My friend had a one night stand in the back of his car
A few days later he got an sms saying "Could you have made me pregnant ?"
The condom had fallen off during the enjoyment in the back seat, but he is pretty certain that there was no spillage
Anyway, if a one nighter can contact you regarding a baby, someone who knows you better will certainly be ringing back
If I was going overseas, I would be going as "Alan Bond, 1 Americas Cup Road, Fremantle, WA"
I already do have a complete set of severable ID, phone and email.
The only chink I have is one girl whom I took to Hong Kong. In order to get through outgoing Philippines immigration we had to be interviewed so she needed to know my full name.
Anyway, it would only take P100 to the hotel clerk for a girl to obtain a copy of my check-in details I am sure.
Better to always play safe.
"would only take P100 to the hotel clerk for a girl to obtain a copy of my check-in details I am sure"
Scary. What is the best defence for this if we are inviting a lady into our room ?
I dont want false accusations, and police being called to the room the next day
False allegations including assault or whatever to get money from me would not be welcome
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