Originally Posted by
harmony
"In my definition, a gold digger is not someone who ask for $5,000! A typical gold digger is more like a Anna Nicole Smith or Rose Hancock who married a super rich."
I disagree
These are all examples of gold diggers IMHO
1)A lady you don't really know, who wants to tell you her financial problems, and only is interested in you, if you show interest in helping her with her financial problems. REALITY CHECK: My best friend doesn't tell me his financial problems, unless he knows me really well. Its not something you generally talk about in normal relationships.
2)A lady who is after prestige, and chases any man who drives a flashy car, and owns property. She is the lady who will sleep behind your back, if you work in a busy industry
3)A lady who has expensive tastes, despite not having a good job, and if she learns you are renting not owning property, she drops you within a week
4)A lady who has been married before, but to a poor foreigner, and is now in Australia to land a man with money. She doesn't want commitment however, so a divorce within a few years is quite acceptable, as long as she can have a baby, so to attract a good settlement amount
I am not making any value judgements here. These lifestyles above just arent uncommon
There are many other examples, this is just scraping the surface
A gold digger isn't only seen chasing the multi millionaires, they can pop up in your social circle too