That's all women bro not just WL's. At the time when you ask for their number they are in a good mood. When you text them it could be a different story. It all depends if they gave you their number. Which is a good sign they want to see you but if you ask for it they might not want to lose you as a customer, so they will give it and text a little bit but falter out after a while or bluntly tell you come see me at the shop.
I have limited experience because I haven't really felt the need to ask many WL's out. I enjoy the hour I see them every week or so and that's enough, hassle free. The one time I did ask for this WL's number because I thought there was a decent connection. I texted just a few times and tried to get her out for a coffee which would have been just a measly 30 minutes. She said "if you want to see me come to the shop, I can't see customers outside". That was it, no further texting from her.
I deleted her number after that. I ain't even mad but I can't say I wasn't disappointed especially when I thought she liked me "more than a customer" as you might say.
I did go back to see her since because I'm not salty and nothing really has changed about her, she is still sexy and is a great fuck. The only thing that has changed is that I don't like her anymore I just wanted to confirm it. She did ask me what I wanted to "do with her" outside the shop. I really didn't have an answer for her. What really killed it for me was a lame excuse she gave why she wouldn't see anyone outside of the shop. I'm an adult I understand if you don't want to see customers outside the shop of course there are always exceptions to the rule. You aren't the exception so you can move on but I don't appreciate the insincerity when she said she trusted me and still likes me but wouldn't even see me on her time. Her English isn't the best so I didn't really press her on it but yeah actions speak louder than words.
Asking for the number and trying to get see them outside the shop even for a coffee can be the snap back to reality or a cure for oneitis if you have it for a particular WL.
Especially in the case if they don't give you a number when you ask or they do but don't follow up on it and end up ignoring you. I'm sure you will find that you don't want to see her anymore and you'll move on to the next girl.
I'm not a big fan of dating in general but I have found some of WL's interesting and to see them on their own time for a coffee anything non-committal even once I wouldn't mind.
Though as always the medium is the message.
http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/0...s-the-message/I hate the term ‘Mixed Signals’ or ‘Mixed Messages’. More often than not there’s nothing ‘Mixed’ being communicated and rather it’s a failure (willful or not) to read what a woman is communicating to a man. The average guy tends to ‘get’ exactly what a woman has implied with her words, but it takes practice to read her behavior and then more practice in self-control to apply it to his own interpretation. When a woman goes from hot to cold and back again, THIS IS the message – she’s got buyers remorse, you’re not her first priority, she’s deliberating between you and what she perceives is a better prospect, you were better looking when she was drunk, etc. – the message isn’t the ‘what ifs’, the message IS her own hesitation and how her behavior manifests it. 10 dates before sex? This IS the message. Canceling dates? Flaking? strong interest to weak interest? This IS the message.
I almost forgot. The best advice I can give is to NOT actively try and date WL's in the first place. Though if you do manage to get a number or she gives you one. Don't text too much just enough for a bit of rapport.. then try get them on the phone and set up a date/meet. You didn't get her number to be text buddies.