I have 2 phones, with the 2nd being my boner phone. It is locked at all times and I keep it on silent. My wife knows of it as i palm it off as phone for my business. the closest scare I get is if my g/f rings, which normally she doesn't do when I'm at home, but on occasion she has. or when my wife's phone broke and she asked if she could borrow it for the day, but i said it was broken and promptly bought her a cheap one for while hers was being repaired.