Reply With Quoteshe should find someone else.
the past is the past, each made choices to do certain things.
while sure the past involves them both since it happened, it shouldn't matter before they got serious.
First, he has emotional problems he has to sort out with himself so he's not wounded by someone's past every time he gets upset.
Second, she has communication problems that she'll need to sort out so she's not asking other people to talk to her husband every time she gets upset.
The fact she used to be a WL is totally irrelevant. Those two problems means that the relationship is doomed to fail even before it starts.
Just tell your friend to enjoy the ride and be grateful for every day that a woman chooses to stay with him (especially one who has had 1000+ men and still chose him) . Tell the girl to be proud of her past and use tap that experience to be strong enough to ask for what she wants from her husband.
she should find someone else.
the past is the past, each made choices to do certain things.
while sure the past involves them both since it happened, it shouldn't matter before they got serious.
If he is.using her past for arguement, she can so the same thing too. It is a never ending circle which will lead to breakup.
thought abt this situation. It is very hard for any person to keep their past secret from their spouse. It's like a sword hanging near ones neck all the time--for WL as well as punter. Both these personalities are not in a position to judge either , and in fact though both individuals actually need to have the highest level of compassion for each others reasons and causes for engaging in this activity. Once it's resolved and accepted the sword is no longer pointed at ones neck, the burden is lifted off and what the 2 did is only their business and no one else's concern. I find it a huge burden that I've done this over 400 sessions when I started 7 years ago in a flurry of 3 years , and though I've limited this to 1 or 2 times a month over the last 3 the numbers just keep accumukatimg , it's something I don't know can be understood by an ordinary girl. I am not good at secrets and some of my friends know I did this. So it's a huge burden. I've come to the position that perhaps only a WL might be able to accept this if I were to find a wife. Having said that tell your friends that the past is gone. Looking behind is of no use. It's hard enough finding anyone these days --so to be happy that they've got each other.
Have regular threesomes and it will drown whatever regular sex experiences they had in the past into insignificance.
I posted my opinion on this thread, but having done so, i subsequently read much of the poster's threads. i agree with you, ,most of these posts sound very fictitious. wl and spouse may know of each other and their friends may know (some of them) but it would be strange to believe they would say this to each other's friends. this post is BS. thanks for pointing it out.Originally Posted by Massage King
TT & MK I respect everybody is entitled to their opinion.
That's what a forum is for is a healthy , robust , open
debate. Nobody is right or wrong . A debate would be
boring if u didn't get two sides to every story.
TT please read post 8.
Cheers have a nice day.
I agree, the poster sounds like a serial liar who needs attention.
Actually he sounds like the poet toll:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.ph...814#post442814
Wow !!
You give me too much credit.
I wish I was that smart LoL
Grygor's story on Nana. Just reading that and puttin the pieces to understand that story. That was EPIC lol
Yeah, what a loser (Poet Troll = Grygor = cuttlefish), seems he has hated women ever since:
http://forum.aus99.com.au/cgi/forum/...565/#num127565- he got infactuated by a Korean girl called Nana @ 647 Elizabeth St. in 2011 and then spewed hate on her and named her on a number of forums and posted a picture of her.
http://forum.aus99.com.au/cgi/forum/...978/#num127978
http://forum.aus99.com.au/cgi/forum/...295/#num127295
http://forum.aus99.com.au/cgi/forum/...460/#num127460
http://forum.aus99.com.au/cgi/forum/...856/#num142856
http://forum.aus99.com.au/cgi/forum/...668/#num154668
Keep up the taunts. You are quite amusing. I respect everybody is entitled
to their opinion. So u latest conspiracy theory is some guessing game .
Gee I haven't had this much fun since I was a kid & played pin the tail
on the donkey LOL
There is nothing to debate. You are a hoax and a waste of time.
I'm just surprised so many here engage with you on your useless and made up bullshit topics.
Keep up u taunts. You are hilarious the Jim Carrey of this forum. Lol
Most probably his writing is not good enough to find a publisher to publish his novel, the forum is ideal to find some unsuspecting readers without too much effort !
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There is always next year. I was hoping to win theMost probably his writing is not good enough to find a publisher to publish his novel, the forum is ideal to find some unsuspecting readers without too much effort !
Pulitzer Prize. Thanks W u saved my $ 50 entry fee.
My favourite author is Jane Austen. I guess I will
have to improve my grammar. Tks for the tips.
Yes, there's always next year ! After getting banned one year, you can always come back next year as you've been doing !
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Your application of asian english was pretty good! I had a laugh at Cunninglinguist's growing suspicions though. Eg "Time to scuttle the cuttle."
CL can be suspicious & I respect everybody is entitled to their opinion.Your application of asian english was pretty good! I had a laugh at Cunninglinguist's growing suspicions though. Eg "Time to scuttle the cuttle."
But he nearly breaks every Aus 99 Moderator rules in trying to prove
what ? As I said in my post ' Profile of a Hobbyist online punter its a
hobby that's all.I 'am not trying to solve Global warming & just posting
my experiences. I respect everybody privacy but CL seems to cross this
by his personal taunts. Y thinking why I am posting this well I just
don't want another punter to be subjected to CL relentless taunts.
I don't want to say anymore because that would be breaking
Aus 99 moderators rules.
i know a few guys who married working girls.
there history shouldn't really matter, if he really does love them.
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