Our secret spot

[pingers]

Anyone tried our secret spot sex club. Seems like a good deal. $100 for males for a few hours punt if you manage to get in.

[robnw2]

You mean the swingers club on Parramatta Rd?

[Sleazypeazy]

I was tempted, but it is a $100 with no guaranties you would pick up /swing etc. I know that some events organized by Redhotpie. You also need to fill in a form subject to approval. I can understand as probably the ratios would be skewed otherwise but seems like too much work. Would be great if any punters would share their experience.

[re89]

You fill out a form as they are selective which single males they let in, as most swingers parties/clubs are and have been in the past. If you are attractive and young, you have a much better chance of getting in. Once in, it's very YMMV. If you don't click with anyone, you might not get any action at all other than watching.

[Aussieguyinsf]

Anyone been recently? I have a sugarbaby who has agreed to go Saturday?

[Raybo]

Anyone been recently? I have a sugarbaby who has agreed to go Saturday?

If you are taking a girl and as adventurous as you are, I would just rock up with her. Guaranteed entry and if you have a girl with you, chances are other girls would be interested!

[Aussieguyinsf]

Thanks. Do you have to dress up to go? https://oursecretspot.com.au/faq/

[Raybo]

Thanks. Do you have to dress up to go? https://oursecretspot.com.au/faq/

I haven't been, there or other swing clubs TBH. Have had a couple of mates that have gone before, alone or with another guy. Based on those conversations and your will to try new stuff, just have a crack. Not sure I could do it.

Smart casual with a g-banger is my guess. 🤣

[Johnisfun1969]

I have been there few months ago. The party was called Three C’s. It was my first experience. I had to fill a from and got invited to buy the ticket. I must say sometime back I had also requested invite to their newbie swinger party but did not get that invite. The place is clean and well run. Everyone was well behaved. You are only allowed to participate if the girl allows. It’s a great venue for girls who want to experience ducked up by few men on one night. The dress for this event was smart casual. There are other events organised by OSS where more bolder style dresses will be required. You can see the pics on their web site.

This was more like girls single and couples coming for swinger style event. There were 30-40 odd men and 20 or more women/girls. There are common areas where you can be enjoy voyerrism and private rooms. The private rooms can have open door where anyone can join or they could have with a rope meaning you Can watch but only join if invited. Then one could close the door if they wanted privacy.
In terms of the girls ages there were some in early 20s to maybe late 40s. The older ones were with partners more like cuckold where the men were not participating but came to fulfil the girl’s fantasies.

As an experience it was good. But I did not have any sex. I was stressed that week and could not get it up when required. Moreover the younger girls were going for younger men who seem to be the ones in demand. Me in my 50 with hairy chest felt bit ordinary. I think it was also I am not that pushy. The worst thing was there were couple of hot girls and looking at some other dude being invited to fuck them.

Maybe I will try a second time and see what happens. Maybe take a bigger dose of the K pill haha. I also want to try going there with a SB. Maybe pair up with someone else on this forum as when you are in numbers it’s easier to get single girls to join you.

[legolover]

Was keen to go and try this with a side piece before but then she pulled out cause she was too nervous. Would be something i'd like to try if could pair up with a trio!

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[Aussieguyinsf]

I have been there few months ago. The party was called Three C’s. It was my first experience. I had to fill a from and got invited to buy the ticket. I must say sometime back I had also requested invite to their newbie swinger party but did not get that invite. The place is clean and well run. Everyone was well behaved. You are only allowed to participate if the girl allows. It’s a great venue for girls who want to experience ducked up by few men on one night. The dress for this event was smart casual. There are other events organised by OSS where more bolder style dresses will be required. You can see the pics on their web site.

This was more like girls single and couples coming for swinger style event. There were 30-40 odd men and 20 or more women/girls. There are common areas where you can be enjoy voyerrism and private rooms. The private rooms can have open door where anyone can join or they could have with a rope meaning you Can watch but only join if invited. Then one could close the door if they wanted privacy.
In terms of the girls ages there were some in early 20s to maybe late 40s. The older ones were with partners more like cuckold where the men were not participating but came to fulfil the girl’s fantasies.

As an experience it was good. But I did not have any sex. I was stressed that week and could not get it up when required. Moreover the younger girls were going for younger men who seem to be the ones in demand. Me in my 50 with hairy chest felt bit ordinary. I think it was also I am not that pushy. The worst thing was there were couple of hot girls and looking at some other dude being invited to fuck them.

Maybe I will try a second time and see what happens. Maybe take a bigger dose of the K pill haha. I also want to try going there with a SB. Maybe pair up with someone else on this forum as when you are in numbers it’s easier to get single girls to join you.

Yeah, I put feelers out for a sb to join me. Originally I had a sb in her 20s but the more I chatted with her the more caveats and we’ll sees came up. So I traded for an early 40s milf who loves swinging and girls and is guaranteed a good time. $450 to join me whole night from 8-1. Will let you know how it goes. Other chicks were quoting $1500 and shit.

Still tickets available tonight if anyone wants to join us. Easy to find someone on SA to go or bring your partner.

[Johnisfun1969]

Yeah, I put feelers out for a sb to join me. Originally I had a sb in her 20s but the more I chatted with her the more caveats and we’ll sees came up. So I traded for an early 40s milf who loves swinging and girls and is guaranteed a good time. $450 to join me whole night from 8-1. Will let you know how it goes. Other chicks were quoting $1500 and shit.

Still tickets available tonight if anyone wants to join us. Easy to find someone on SA to go or bring your partner.

Good one mate looking forward to hearing your feedback. It’s also good this girl is more on the mature side and you could get away looking like a couple.

One of the things to remember is of the girl does not want to take part in any activity she does not have to.

[Dumbjai]

Oh wow so you got in as a single older male? I’m married but into swinging by my wife is not. I would love to go but I’m a short Asian male and thinking I would not make the criteria! Any tips would be helpful! I don’t mind not having sex just the chance to observe or be invited would be awesome

[Johnisfun1969]

Oh wow so you got in as a single older male? I’m married but into swinging by my wife is not. I would love to go but I’m a short Asian male and thinking I would not make the criteria! Any tips would be helpful! I don’t mind not having sex just the chance to observe or be invited would be awesome

I think they would accept men of all backgrounds provided you are well groomed and presentable. It gets easier if you are with a girl. Keep on the look out as they also have the events like I have mentioned for single men. They limit the single entries to keep a balance. It’s a known fact men need recovery time. So you got to have more in numbers than the girls at a swinger party. Otherwise the party will end in 2-3 hours. An average man in their 40s to 60s may be able to come 2-4 times in a night.

There is a girl in her late 40 lives in Chippendale on Seeking and would accompany men to swingers party. Unfortunately I have lost her details. On kik she sent her long list of instructions and what she offers. It was very intinicing but since I was looking for normal sugar babe experience did not keep the info. From memory her profile name was Bree bree.

[Aussieguyinsf]

So I sent an Uber to collect my sb and deliver her at 8pm for the clubs opening. While I waited there was already a line up of couples waiting outside 191 Paramatta Road. At first glance, wow this crowd is young. Average age late 20s or early 30s.

Sb rocks up. Tall Dutch woman, larger size, but nice features and warm personality. We enter club, hand over our phones and get locker key. I slip her the agreed $450 discretely as we check our stuff into the locker.

Fuck this place is busy. As we await a newbies tour there’s a swathe of young bodies. I’ve been to swingers clubs before but never seen this amount of young people.

We get a tour of the place, get read the rules and then are encouraged to mingle. Sb and I chat up a single white woman - slim, early 30s giving it a go for the first time. I speak with a young Asian chick while waiting to use the restroom. Sb and I then start making out in the couch. She’s licking my nips and touching my cock. People are looking but it’s a bit too early to join in.

After meeting a few more people we go upstairs to the play room. It’s packed as fuck. A voyeurs playground. A kardashian blonde is getting smashed by a buffed Leb, there’s two beds joined with girls going girls, cocks in holes and lots of moaning. But after being read the rules, it’s not as simple as taking out your cock and joining in.

Sb puts on her lingerie and I strip down to my underwear. We sit down and she sucks my newly shaved cock. It’s exciting as I take in all that’s going on.

It’s busy though and no bed is freeing up. So we decide to go downstairs to the dungeon room which has couches. On the way I see the Asian chick I chatted to earlier. I introduce her to sb and she introduces her bf. We ask them if they want to come downstairs. Yes!

Now I’m 52, did I mention I have a thick white cock? It’s shaven now. Sb is 42. Asian chick is 21 and her white bf is 22. Holy shit this has taken a turn. We sit on a couch and sb asks Asian has she ever been with a woman. No. Would she like to try? Yes!

It’s on, the two girls are kissing. I start touching Asian chick with no objection. Then sb goes down on her while me and her bf suck her tits and I dfk her. Fuck her 21 year old skin is so soft. She’s lost in another world having the time of her life. This is so hot. Asian chick plays with my cock. I can’t even really remember the rest but it was so good.

Then another white couple - slim, big tits want to join in. There’s hands and cocks and tits everywhere. My sb gives the Asian chicks bf a blowie while I play with Asian as she watches on. First load blown.

But they just keep at it and the orgy continues for another 30 mins and I finish by blowing a load on sb mouth while watching another tight Asian chick getting plowed next to me.

Shower, some clothes back on and back to bar. We chill for a while then sb tells me Asian baby wants more. We try to find a room but the only room available is the one with a swing that is not so popular. We awkwardly plop Asian in swing. Sb eats her while her bf and and I lick her tits and dfk her. This time she’s getting more into it and squirts. Oh yeah. I start rubbing my cock on Asian baby’s tits - so soft - and deposit a load of cum. Wiping on her stomach. It’s not done though. Sb wants a turn so gets in swing while asian eats her out.

So no shit, this is the first time asian has been with a woman. She is a natural.

We have another drink while the girls try pole dancing. An announcement comes on that club is closing soon. It’s 1230. We get dressed. Outside we ask them do they want to do it again? Yes! So we exchange numbers. It turns out I live close to them so we share a ride home while sb goes opposite direction.

A fucking fun experience. Ymmv and nothing is guaranteed. Having a willing sb is key. The thing is a lot of Sb’s will say yes I’d like to check out a swingers club but might not fully participate when they get there. Make sure you pick the right one. I chose mine less than 24 hours before and got lucky.

Also don’t think you can fuck everyone. A lot of newbies are there just to look and might not want some old dick.

A fun night indeed.

[Zoobender]

What a night mate! Where do you get a SB from? Is there a site?

[ditchtheboss]

What a night mate! Where do you get a SB from? Is there a site?
I use seeking.con and I find it great

[ditchtheboss]

Thoroughly impressed, sounds like great fun.

[Johnisfun1969]

So I sent an Uber to collect my sb and deliver her at 8pm for the clubs opening. While I waited there was already a line up of couples waiting outside 191 Paramatta Road. At first glance, wow this crowd is young. Average age late 20s or early 30s.

Sb rocks up. Tall Dutch woman, larger size, but nice features and warm personality. We enter club, hand over our phones and get locker key. I slip her the agreed $450 discretely as we check our stuff into the locker.

Fuck this place is busy. As we await a newbies tour there’s a swathe of young bodies. I’ve been to swingers clubs before but never seen this amount of young people.

We get a tour of the place, get read the rules and then are encouraged to mingle. Sb and I chat up a single white woman - slim, early 30s giving it a go for the first time. I speak with a young Asian chick while waiting to use the restroom. Sb and I then start making out in the couch. She’s licking my nips and touching my cock. People are looking but it’s a bit too early to join in.

After meeting a few more people we go upstairs to the play room. It’s packed as fuck. A voyeurs playground. A kardashian blonde is getting smashed by a buffed Leb, there’s two beds joined with girls going girls, cocks in holes and lots of moaning. But after being read the rules, it’s not as simple as taking out your cock and joining in.

Sb puts on her lingerie and I strip down to my underwear. We sit down and she sucks my newly shaved cock. It’s exciting as I take in all that’s going on.

It’s busy though and no bed is freeing up. So we decide to go downstairs to the dungeon room which has couches. On the way I see the Asian chick I chatted to earlier. I introduce her to sb and she introduces her bf. We ask them if they want to come downstairs. Yes!

Now I’m 52, did I mention I have a thick white cock? It’s shaven now. Sb is 42. Asian chick is 21 and her white bf is 22. Holy shit this has taken a turn. We sit on a couch and sb asks Asian has she ever been with a woman. No. Would she like to try? Yes!

It’s on, the two girls are kissing. I start touching Asian chick with no objection. Then sb goes down on her while me and her bf suck her tits and I dfk her. Fuck her 21 year old skin is so soft. She’s lost in another world having the time of her life. This is so hot. Asian chick plays with my cock. I can’t even really remember the rest but it was so good.

Then another white couple - slim, big tits want to join in. There’s hands and cocks and tits everywhere. My sb gives the Asian chicks bf a blowie while I play with Asian as she watches on. First load blown.

But they just keep at it and the orgy continues for another 30 mins and I finish by blowing a load on sb mouth while watching another tight Asian chick getting plowed next to me.

Shower, some clothes back on and back to bar. We chill for a while then sb tells me Asian baby wants more. We try to find a room but the only room available is the one with a swing that is not so popular. We awkwardly plop Asian in swing. Sb eats her while her bf and and I lick her tits and dfk her. This time she’s getting more into it and squirts. Oh yeah. I start rubbing my cock on Asian baby’s tits - so soft - and deposit a load of cum. Wiping on her stomach. It’s not done though. Sb wants a turn so gets in swing while asian eats her out.

So no shit, this is the first time asian has been with a woman. She is a natural.

We have another drink while the girls try pole dancing. An announcement comes on that club is closing soon. It’s 1230. We get dressed. Outside we ask them do they want to do it again? Yes! So we exchange numbers. It turns out I live close to them so we share a ride home while sb goes opposite direction.

A fucking fun experience. Ymmv and nothing is guaranteed. Having a willing sb is key. The thing is a lot of Sb’s will say yes I’d like to check out a swingers club but might not fully participate when they get there. Make sure you pick the right one. I chose mine less than 24 hours before and got lucky.

Also don’t think you can fuck everyone. A lot of newbies are there just to look and might not want some old dick.

A fun night indeed.

Well done mate looks like you had lots of fun. I think good on you to meet the young couple. It looks like a very erotic experience.

[Hemingford Gray]

Nice report. I imagine myself going to the church after that sinful experience. Haha.

[Dumbjai]

Damn sounds amazing! Yes my problem will likely be I need to find an SB but I don’t have an account. Will check it out or try to get in as a single male. I mean I’m a fit male late 30s but not sure that’s going to get anywhere at a swinger club

[scottie2222]

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[Aussieguyinsf]

Thinking about checking out https://www.fun4two.com.au/ at Rydalmere on Saturday if anyone wants to meet up with their partner or sugarbaby

[cuteguy]

What was included in the price when you took your SB to the swingers event? Drinks? Finger food? Condoms? Is there lots of BB action or most people going safe with strangers?

[Aussieguyinsf]

It’s byo but they supply mixers. Condoms provided. Safe sex.

[kiddoh]

What an experience! Just logged in after a good break… all the best mate. Waiting for another write up of your experience

[Aussieguyinsf]

What an experience! Just logged in after a good break… all the best mate. Waiting for another write up of your experience

Just trying to push a few limits and get the most out of life.

[Aussieguyinsf]

I’m taking her to Fun4two swingers in Rydalmere tonight. Let me know if you’re going too. https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/fun4two-aust-meet-greet-and-play-tickets-490876343357

[justincase]

I’ve been to a few clubs and want to try this place.

[Aussieguyinsf]

So I sent an Uber to collect my sb and deliver her at 8pm for the clubs opening. While I waited there was already a line up of couples waiting outside 191 Paramatta Road. At first glance, wow this crowd is young. Average age late 20s or early 30s.

Sb rocks up. Tall Dutch woman, larger size, but nice features and warm personality. We enter club, hand over our phones and get locker key. I slip her the agreed $450 discretely as we check our stuff into the locker.

Fuck this place is busy. As we await a newbies tour there’s a swathe of young bodies. I’ve been to swingers clubs before but never seen this amount of young people.

We get a tour of the place, get read the rules and then are encouraged to mingle. Sb and I chat up a single white woman - slim, early 30s giving it a go for the first time. I speak with a young Asian chick while waiting to use the restroom. Sb and I then start making out in the couch. She’s licking my nips and touching my cock. People are looking but it’s a bit too early to join in.

After meeting a few more people we go upstairs to the play room. It’s packed as fuck. A voyeurs playground. A kardashian blonde is getting smashed by a buffed Leb, there’s two beds joined with girls going girls, cocks in holes and lots of moaning. But after being read the rules, it’s not as simple as taking out your cock and joining in.

Sb puts on her lingerie and I strip down to my underwear. We sit down and she sucks my newly shaved cock. It’s exciting as I take in all that’s going on.

It’s busy though and no bed is freeing up. So we decide to go downstairs to the dungeon room which has couches. On the way I see the Asian chick I chatted to earlier. I introduce her to sb and she introduces her bf. We ask them if they want to come downstairs. Yes!

Now I’m 52, did I mention I have a thick white cock? It’s shaven now. Sb is 42. Asian chick is 21 and her white bf is 22. Holy shit this has taken a turn. We sit on a couch and sb asks Asian has she ever been with a woman. No. Would she like to try? Yes!

It’s on, the two girls are kissing. I start touching Asian chick with no objection. Then sb goes down on her while me and her bf suck her tits and I dfk her. Fuck her 21 year old skin is so soft. She’s lost in another world having the time of her life. This is so hot. Asian chick plays with my cock. I can’t even really remember the rest but it was so good.

Then another white couple - slim, big tits want to join in. There’s hands and cocks and tits everywhere. My sb gives the Asian chicks bf a blowie while I play with Asian as she watches on. First load blown.

But they just keep at it and the orgy continues for another 30 mins and I finish by blowing a load on sb mouth while watching another tight Asian chick getting plowed next to me.

Shower, some clothes back on and back to bar. We chill for a while then sb tells me Asian baby wants more. We try to find a room but the only room available is the one with a swing that is not so popular. We awkwardly plop Asian in swing. Sb eats her while her bf and and I lick her tits and dfk her. This time she’s getting more into it and squirts. Oh yeah. I start rubbing my cock on Asian baby’s tits - so soft - and deposit a load of cum. Wiping on her stomach. It’s not done though. Sb wants a turn so gets in swing while asian eats her out.

So no shit, this is the first time asian has been with a woman. She is a natural.

We have another drink while the girls try pole dancing. An announcement comes on that club is closing soon. It’s 1230. We get dressed. Outside we ask them do they want to do it again? Yes! So we exchange numbers. It turns out I live close to them so we share a ride home while sb goes opposite direction.

A fucking fun experience. Ymmv and nothing is guaranteed. Having a willing sb is key. The thing is a lot of Sb’s will say yes I’d like to check out a swingers club but might not fully participate when they get there. Make sure you pick the right one. I chose mine less than 24 hours before and got lucky.

Also don’t think you can fuck everyone. A lot of newbies are there just to look and might not want some old dick.

A fun night indeed.

Haters say I’m a shill for some places. Give me a break. Who else brings content like this to your humdrum lives?

[justincase]

It’s the intel that’s needed.

[Pattyherb]

So I sent an Uber to collect my sb and deliver her at 8pm for the clubs opening. While I waited there was already a line up of couples waiting outside 191 Paramatta Road. At first glance, wow this crowd is young. Average age late 20s or early 30s.

Sb rocks up. Tall Dutch woman, larger size, but nice features and warm personality. We enter club, hand over our phones and get locker key. I slip her the agreed $450 discretely as we check our stuff into the locker.

Fuck this place is busy. As we await a newbies tour there’s a swathe of young bodies. I’ve been to swingers clubs before but never seen this amount of young people.

We get a tour of the place, get read the rules and then are encouraged to mingle. Sb and I chat up a single white woman - slim, early 30s giving it a go for the first time. I speak with a young Asian chick while waiting to use the restroom. Sb and I then start making out in the couch. She’s licking my nips and touching my cock. People are looking but it’s a bit too early to join in.

After meeting a few more people we go upstairs to the play room. It’s packed as fuck. A voyeurs playground. A kardashian blonde is getting smashed by a buffed Leb, there’s two beds joined with girls going girls, cocks in holes and lots of moaning. But after being read the rules, it’s not as simple as taking out your cock and joining in.

Sb puts on her lingerie and I strip down to my underwear. We sit down and she sucks my newly shaved cock. It’s exciting as I take in all that’s going on.

It’s busy though and no bed is freeing up. So we decide to go downstairs to the dungeon room which has couches. On the way I see the Asian chick I chatted to earlier. I introduce her to sb and she introduces her bf. We ask them if they want to come downstairs. Yes!

Now I’m 52, did I mention I have a thick white cock? It’s shaven now. Sb is 42. Asian chick is 21 and her white bf is 22. Holy shit this has taken a turn. We sit on a couch and sb asks Asian has she ever been with a woman. No. Would she like to try? Yes!

It’s on, the two girls are kissing. I start touching Asian chick with no objection. Then sb goes down on her while me and her bf suck her tits and I dfk her. Fuck her 21 year old skin is so soft. She’s lost in another world having the time of her life. This is so hot. Asian chick plays with my cock. I can’t even really remember the rest but it was so good.

Then another white couple - slim, big tits want to join in. There’s hands and cocks and tits everywhere. My sb gives the Asian chicks bf a blowie while I play with Asian as she watches on. First load blown.

But they just keep at it and the orgy continues for another 30 mins and I finish by blowing a load on sb mouth while watching another tight Asian chick getting plowed next to me.

Shower, some clothes back on and back to bar. We chill for a while then sb tells me Asian baby wants more. We try to find a room but the only room available is the one with a swing that is not so popular. We awkwardly plop Asian in swing. Sb eats her while her bf and and I lick her tits and dfk her. This time she’s getting more into it and squirts. Oh yeah. I start rubbing my cock on Asian baby’s tits - so soft - and deposit a load of cum. Wiping on her stomach. It’s not done though. Sb wants a turn so gets in swing while asian eats her out.

So no shit, this is the first time asian has been with a woman. She is a natural.

We have another drink while the girls try pole dancing. An announcement comes on that club is closing soon. It’s 1230. We get dressed. Outside we ask them do they want to do it again? Yes! So we exchange numbers. It turns out I live close to them so we share a ride home while sb goes opposite direction.

A fucking fun experience. Ymmv and nothing is guaranteed. Having a willing sb is key. The thing is a lot of Sb’s will say yes I’d like to check out a swingers club but might not fully participate when they get there. Make sure you pick the right one. I chose mine less than 24 hours before and got lucky.

Also don’t think you can fuck everyone. A lot of newbies are there just to look and might not want some old dick.

A fun night indeed.

Yuk. I wouldn't touch anything that's been near a lebo

[chemistry84]

Isn't the problem with these places there's always seedy indian men who are trying to enter without a partner lol?

[Roydemeo]

Isn't the problem with these places there's always seedy indian men who are trying to enter without a partner lol?

Aren’t seedy Indian men the problem everywhere?

[justincase]

Isn't the problem with these places there's always seedy indian men who are trying to enter without a partner lol?

Single men have to fill a questionnaire via email apparently and get vetted.

[Pattyherb]

100% Indians are not getting let in that place, even if they bring their three of their aunties with lentil rolls around the hips.

[Roadsideman]

Really loved reading this Aussieguyinsf , am especially interested in the (Sb Tall Dutch woman, larger size, but nice features and warm personality.)
she sounds awsome

[justincase]

I’m curious on the overall appearance of the guests there, the body shapes, attractiveness and such.

Can Aussieguy give a heads up on that?

[Cairns]

I have always driven past here but never knew what was going on around there

[Umitabi]

Yuk. I wouldn't touch anything that's been near a lebo

Well I think you won’t be touching 99% of the population that likes to be touched

[Aussieguyinsf]

I’m curious on the overall appearance of the guests there, the body shapes, attractiveness and such.

Can Aussieguy give a heads up on that?

Mate, there's been a few of these places over the years. A couple in Surry Hills used to hire girls to service the single guys who paid a hefty sum to get in. The problem is that they were filled with ugly bogans. Our Secret Spot blew me away - average age I'd say would be 30. Young, dressed up (in the beginning anyway) and well behaved crowd. Honestly, it's one of the best such places I've seen anywhere in the world.

[justincase]

Thx for the info, I’d been to the one in commonwealth street with my GF previously and the place was ok. I’ll go check the one on parramatta rd.

[ColesBag]

Mate, there's been a few of these places over the years. A couple in Surry Hills used to hire girls to service the single guys who paid a hefty sum to get in. The problem is that they were filled with ugly bogans. Our Secret Spot blew me away - average age I'd say would be 30. Young, dressed up (in the beginning anyway) and well behaved crowd. Honestly, it's one of the best such places I've seen anywhere in the world.

I've heard very good things about Secret Spot from straight blokes and lezzo's alike.

[Jordan1901]

Great read. The Mrs doesn’t know I punt but she has suggested seriously that we go to a swingers club several times. I’m the one who pulls the plug - mainly because I’m not interested in seeing her get fucked by another bloke. Is it normal at swingers clubs to come as a couple and just invite girls to join? Also happy to just watch if the girl doesn’t want me joining (though that isn’t the preference). I was also worried about ages and whether it would be an older crowd or a sausage fest. For reference we’re in our early thirties.

[ekafonk]

Great read. The Mrs doesn’t know I punt but she has suggested seriously that we go to a swingers club several times. I’m the one who pulls the plug - mainly because I’m not interested in seeing her get fucked by another bloke. Is it normal at swingers clubs to come as a couple and just invite girls to join? Also happy to just watch if the girl doesn’t want me joining (though that isn’t the preference). I was also worried about ages and whether it would be an older crowd or a sausage fest. For reference we’re in our early thirties.

I personally dont know why you are hesitating. If my wife went to this place with me more often I wouldnt be on this forum. In my experience the place was very professional and well run. Consent is clearly communicated. My wifey felt safe and had a fun time. You just go upstairs and fuck really. To me its a supercharged feeling fucking in amounst people, I dont care ifothers get involved with us or not. And I guess if you like the persons fucking next to you, and they like you, well you just join. Its not a sausage fest at all, almost 100% couples. Single men and only allowed on some nights and to be honest the ones that are there look to me like they work there ... they are part security / cleaners and just sit to the side unless invited. . One annoying guy was having a wank but thats it. Pretty broad mix of ages groups from 30s to 50s in my observation Downstairs are for people who like beating / slapping each other, if thats your thing.

[DogBouy]

I personally dont know why you are hesitating. If my wife went to this place with me more often I wouldnt be on this forum. In my experience the place was very professional and well run. Consent is clearly communicated. My wifey felt safe and had a fun time. You just go upstairs and fuck really. To me its a supercharged feeling fucking in amounst people, I dont care ifothers get involved with us or not. And I guess if you like the persons fucking next to you, and they like you, well you just join. Its not a sausage fest at all, almost 100% couples. Single men and only allowed on some nights and to be honest the ones that are there look to me like they work there ... they are part security / cleaners and just sit to the side unless invited. . One annoying guy was having a wank but thats it. Pretty broad mix of ages groups from 30s to 50s in my observation Downstairs are for people who like beating / slapping each other, if thats your thing.

"One annoying guy was having a wank". I have not been to this place but I remember 20+ years ago a house in Riverwood that was swingers, as single guy I paid to get in, they had hookers there to service us. I remember spit roasting and there he was squatted naked bedside, this Hairy Hamood (actual name, asked him) was violently jerking off to us, really off putting to say the least. I laughed at your remark in relation.

[DogBouy]

Great read. The Mrs doesn’t know I punt but she has suggested seriously that we go to a swingers club several times. I’m the one who pulls the plug - mainly because I’m not interested in seeing her get fucked by another bloke. Is it normal at swingers clubs to come as a couple and just invite girls to join? Also happy to just watch if the girl doesn’t want me joining (though that isn’t the preference). I was also worried about ages and whether it would be an older crowd or a sausage fest. For reference we’re in our early thirties.

Bro, really hard pill to swallow. You need to be evolved in such a way that makes you impervious and not give a hoot. Watching some dude ball you old doll is not fun if you honestly love her, but you can find ways to soften it so to speak. Her letting you dog around, bring her friends over for your enjoyment etc but in the end it will be her turn and you have to be brave enough to deal with it. Took me 4 years and I admit, I still get instinctively miffed so to speak. I have mates that have happily let me blow load in their girls gob, but fuck man, it's a real walk through the dark alley so to speak. Shit comes up when you are drunk!!!! for me anyway. I see how the young ones are now, partner swapping is like giving you a sip of my drink or a bite of the sandwich.