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HKHoney888
02-01-2022, 04:28 PM
Hello fellow punters,
(This topic may have been mentioned before???)

Isn't it blatantly obvious to our partners that if they don't give us some pleasure we
end up seeking alternative outlets. Some of my mates are so frustrated that they no longer
Feel any guilt paying for a shag or picking some one up. It's not like we expect daily roots but some guys havent
got any action for up to a year from their misses.
They are all randy as hell before the wedding cake but after they are like a totally different person!
Is this the ultimate bait & switch??? Pretty fucking clever ...
Any other brothers experienced this?

It's extra tough now with bloody rampant covid!!!

warwick1
02-01-2022, 04:51 PM
It works both ways, maybe your "missus" is getting hammered elsewhere.....

HKHoney888
02-01-2022, 04:55 PM
I wish she was & I would encourage he if she did.. ..but no it ain't happening.Like several mates female partners I know they have closed up shop..probably for good...shame though as some are hot..

Climax598
02-01-2022, 04:59 PM
Is both way, you might have less interest her compare when you are try to win her and give her special attention.

Vader
02-01-2022, 05:43 PM
It works both ways, maybe your "missus" is getting hammered elsewhere.....

That's correct. More women have affairs than men and the usual reason is that their partner doesn't show them much affection.

punter-pie
02-01-2022, 05:59 PM
Hello fellow punters,
(This topic may have been mentioned before???)

Isn't it blatantly obvious to our partners that if they don't give us some pleasure we
end up seeking alternative outlets. Some of my mates are so frustrated that they no longer
Feel any guilt paying for a shag or picking some one up. It's not like we expect daily roots but some guys havent
got any action for up to a year from their misses.
They are all randy as hell before the wedding cake but after they are like a totally different person!
Is this the ultimate bait & switch??? Pretty fucking clever ...
Any other brothers experienced this?

It's extra tough now with bloody rampant covid!!!Yep, they should expect this but don't apparently.

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JJBlows
02-01-2022, 07:22 PM
How many of you farts have forgotten the simple date night? It usually helps out between the hustle and bustle of kids and careers. I have spoke to alot of older married women and they all say the same thing "date night" and don't take her for granted

divinefist
02-01-2022, 07:26 PM
yep it's exactly that, once they've secured the bag and they no longer need to work.

even if they end up giving you the booty it still feels like a transactional sex. which means you bring home the bread and egg, i let you smash. she will be doing the bare minimum.

dont get into relationship or marriage when she is looking for a provider
only get into relationship or marriage when she lusts you

a good way to find out if she lusts you is, has she ever initiate sex? or start playing your little brother? blowjob without being asked?

lead the relationship with sexual charisma, not money

Alpha Male Strategies on youtube has a lot of good infos on female hypergamy

Vader
02-01-2022, 07:27 PM
How many of you farts have forgotten the simple date night? It usually helps out between the hustle and bustle of kids and careers. I have spoke to alot of older married women and they all say the same thing "date night" and don't take her for granted

Basically what I said earlier.

Warrabong
02-01-2022, 07:30 PM
I reckon the girls close up shop long before we would like. It’s a shame as in most cases our wives are hot, but not delivering in the bedroom department

Fred Flintstone
02-01-2022, 09:03 PM
How many blokes actually want to root their missus? She’s probably fat and ugly after the age of 40. After putting up with her nagging, complaining, gas lighting and bullying, would any bloke really be in the mood to root her? And then you would have to negotiate BBBJ, CIM, DD?? No way hahaha. Cow girl might also not be possible if she’s fat.

Seriously, can you blame a bloke for wanting to root a hot, sexy young Asian babe? An hour away from the troubles of life. Once you’ve fucked a gorgeous, 45 kg, three-hole spinner with long black hair, you’re gone man! And you ain’t going back

Warrabong
02-01-2022, 09:34 PM
How many blokes actually want to root their missus? She’s probably fat and ugly after the age of 40. After putting up with her nagging, complaining, gas lighting and bullying, would any bloke really be in the mood to root her? And then you would have to negotiate BBBJ, CIM, DD?? No way hahaha. Cow girl might also not be possible if she’s fat.

Seriously, can you blame a bloke for wanting to root a hot, sexy young Asian babe? An hour away from the troubles of life. Once you’ve fucked a gorgeous, 45 kg, three-hole spinner with long black hair, you’re gone man! And you ain’t going back

Haha we must have a few of those spinners in common

Sibon
02-01-2022, 09:36 PM
Hello fellow punters,
(This topic may have been mentioned before???)

Isn't it blatantly obvious to our partners that if they don't give us some pleasure we
end up seeking alternative outlets. Some of my mates are so frustrated that they no longer
Feel any guilt paying for a shag or picking some one up. It's not like we expect daily roots but some guys havent
got any action for up to a year from their misses.
They are all randy as hell before the wedding cake but after they are like a totally different person!
Is this the ultimate bait & switch??? Pretty fucking clever ...
Any other brothers experienced this?

It's extra tough now with bloody rampant covid!!!

A female colleague of mine was a friend of a mistress of a business man. She told her how she often changed her hairstyle and dress style to keep renewing herself and to keep the man interested in her.

You probably could enourage her to do likewise.

poida
02-01-2022, 10:44 PM
add kids and ya wife will have zero interest. been through 2 marriages and i can tell you your partners/wives will start out as 'hot' but its all downhill from there.

and yes as many have mentioned, once ya taste the fruit of a beautiful young spinner, ya never going back. if ya a frumpy 40+ woman, its gonna be hard to compete...

vitrium
02-01-2022, 10:59 PM
Yep, when there's a stunning 20-something Thai girl with huge cans and a big ass shoving her shaven pussy in your face while she sucks on your cock. It's hard to go back to anything else.

mattemeiser
02-01-2022, 11:06 PM
How many blokes actually want to root their missus? She’s probably fat and ugly after the age of 40. After putting up with her nagging, complaining, gas lighting and bullying, would any bloke really be in the mood to root her? And then you would have to negotiate BBBJ, CIM, DD?? No way hahaha. Cow girl might also not be possible if she’s fat.

Seriously, can you blame a bloke for wanting to root a hot, sexy young Asian babe? An hour away from the troubles of life. Once you’ve fucked a gorgeous, 45 kg, three-hole spinner with long black hair, you’re gone man! And you ain’t going back

This 100%.
Bros probably in the past put up with their negative attitudes + the nagging, complaining, gas lighting & bullying because their wives were once hot.

When the wives get older & blow-up like a balloon & with their attitudes, can understand husbands not being in the mood and the ever increasing divorce rate.
-Matt-

mattemeiser
02-01-2022, 11:10 PM
I reckon the girls close up shop long before we would like. It’s a shame as in most cases our wives are hot, but not delivering in the bedroom department

It is almost if they use sex as a carrot and once they reach their goal (putting a ring on it), they close-up shop. I think its a bit selfish of the wives to restrixt a key part that maintains a healthy marriage.

-Matt-

Momoe
03-01-2022, 12:10 AM
First, how much effort you put into maintaining yourself would also affect how much effort she is willing to put for you. If you started farting / burping in front, becoming sloppy and not longer having the romantic nights etc, then you have answered your own question

Secondly, wives are not WL/prostitutes, they probably don't have the skills to keep your brother hard all time. So once you start enjoying girls outside, you will start comparing her with them.

Fred Flintstone
03-01-2022, 07:05 AM
Secondly, wives are not WL/prostitutes, they probably don't have the skills to keep your brother hard all time. So once you start enjoying girls outside, you will start comparing her with them.

Spot on mate. After fucking their way through hundreds of hookers, most blokes are more experienced than their wives. If you start giving the missus directions on how to suck your cock better or how to position her ass correctly etc, she’s going to wonder how you know so much.

CharlieM
03-01-2022, 07:36 AM
A couple old jokes.

How do you stop a woman from giving blowjobs? .... you marry her.

Why does the bride smile when walking down the aisle? ... because she knows she will never have to give another blow job.

schloong
03-01-2022, 07:46 AM
A couple old jokes.

How do you stop a woman from giving blowjobs? .... you marry her.

Why does the bride smile when walking down the aisle? ... because she knows she will never have to give another blow job.


Here's another oldie but a goodie: Scientists have discovered a compound that reduces a woman's sexual appetite by 95%. It's called "wedding cake"... hehe

tpol
03-01-2022, 08:05 AM
And race doesn't matter.

Though are Islamic women required to?

GoldfishMan
03-01-2022, 09:55 AM
Hello fellow punters,
(This topic may have been mentioned before???)

Isn't it blatantly obvious to our partners that if they don't give us some pleasure we
end up seeking alternative outlets. Some of my mates are so frustrated that they no longer
Feel any guilt paying for a shag or picking some one up. It's not like we expect daily roots but some guys havent
got any action for up to a year from their misses.
They are all randy as hell before the wedding cake but after they are like a totally different person!
Is this the ultimate bait & switch??? Pretty fucking clever ...
Any other brothers experienced this?

It's extra tough now with bloody rampant covid!!!
The ultimate bait & switch, haha, that’s a good one!!

There are a lot of different factors bro, but to give yourself the best chance of having a good partner for sex, better choose one that is much younger than you are. Go 10 - 20 years younger if you can.

It also depends on how you do sex. Like if you’re the type who likes to be “serviced” with BJs, rimming, cat bath, etc, you’re not going to have much success getting a wife or partner that can give you that. If you like to dish out the foreplay yourself, you’re more likely to find a girl that enjoys sex with you.

Even dick size can be a problem, and not just small dicks. If you’re too big for her, she won’t find the sex enjoyable and will try to avoid it.

Carissawhore
03-01-2022, 11:37 AM
Regular girls on higher proportion do not do cat bath, pussy slide, nuru massage, after sometime, drive for sex wears off after being in long term relationships, both parties take sex for granted since it is available when ever they want, that is why couples breakup after 5-7 years once both of them are tired of each other. Your girl can be hot as hell, after a while you will get tired of her, small things adds up. After being in multiple relationships with super hot girls, I found that staying single and fucking multiple WL's and ML's is best life, this way you do not have the guilt of cheating on your partner. Also having partners and doing what we do is like playing Russian roulette, if you get caught, you will loose half of your stuff at the time of seperation and the shit that you have to go through with blood sucking lawyers and drama between 2 families will alone make you kill yourself. If you have kids think about all the trauma you put in your own kids, it is good prostitution is legal in Australia un like USA.

On second thought, lot of marriages are saved because of WL's and ML's, when sex drive goes away partners can indulge into sex acts with beautiful young girls in brothels or massage shops.

HKHoney888
03-01-2022, 01:40 PM
You are right. WLs & MLs can save a relationship.

jacobus
06-01-2022, 09:47 AM
How many blokes actually want to root their missus? She’s probably fat and ugly after the age of 40. After putting up with her nagging, complaining, gas lighting and bullying, would any bloke really be in the mood to root her? And then you would have to negotiate BBBJ, CIM, DD?? No way hahaha. Cow girl might also not be possible if she’s fat.

Seriously, can you blame a bloke for wanting to root a hot, sexy young Asian babe? An hour away from the troubles of life. Once you’ve fucked a gorgeous, 45 kg, three-hole spinner with long black hair, you’re gone man! And you ain’t going back

you just described my marriage perfectly! excellent post! :):):)

:)Jacobus:)