How well could you control your punting habits?

[Sibon]

How well could you control your punting habits?

If I want to limit them I would do something to distract myself e.g. today I spent my time giving the tropical fish tank a good wash, cleaning up the canister filter and gravels, draining 1/3 of the water and slowly filling them back in 15 minutes intervals.

By the time I finished it I didn't feel like changing, walking up the station, catching a train to a shop and blowing $160 for an hour of sweaty sex.

One thing I can't control is when a friend rocks up at my place and invites me to go and find a ML or WL with him. It's difficult to say no to such a fun-loving and jovial person with lots of dirty stories about the ladies. And we'll go somewhere nice to eat as we'll get hungry and thirsty after releasing our loads.

[local]

Well for someone with onloy 3 months punting, I actually believe you just might be zooilla

[StiFFFy]

Excel spreadsheets, budgeting and self control (you don't eat wagyu for dinner every day or drink top shelf liquor, same thing with punting; everything on moderation).

With the hobbies you hit the nail on the head.
Keeping the mind preoccupied while time passes is best way to go about it.
Bonus points if they involve strenuous physical activity to keep you fit and look better naked.

[StiFFFy]

Well for someone with onloy 3 months punting, I actually believe you just might be zooillaNot to derail thread, but this is the 3rd time seeing someone being accused of this zooila character. Happened twice to me a few threads ago.
What the go with this guy that everyones upset?
Piss in the punch bowl or something?

[Ziggurat]

The same guy under a different name said he'd spent time cleaning his fish tank a very little while ago. He even posted pictures of it. It couldn't possibly need cleaning again, he's running out of ideas to post, or forgotten he had.

Even so, it is relaxing to consider fish tanks, which is why they are so often in dentist's waiting rooms its become a cliche'.

[Azzkikr]

How well could you control your punting habits?

If I want to limit them I would do something to distract myself e.g. today I spent my time giving the tropical fish tank a good wash, cleaning up the canister filter and gravels, draining 1/3 of the water and slowly filling them back in 15 minutes intervals.

By the time I finished it I didn't feel like changing, walking up the station, catching a train to a shop and blowing $160 for an hour of sweaty sex.

One thing I can't control is when a friend rocks up at my place and invites me to go and find a ML or WL with him. It's difficult to say no to such a fun-loving and jovial person with lots of dirty stories about the ladies. And we'll go somewhere nice to eat as we'll get hungry and thirsty after releasing our loads.

Mate how many times do you need to clean your fish tank? Didnt you say you cleaned it already like two weeks ago? And why do you need to limit yourself in punting? You only started punting like 3 mths lol. Anyway keep your “imaginary stories” coming.

[Sibon]

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[warwick1]

3 months? I think one needs to go to an institute of higher learning for 3 years to learn to be a competent punter.

This looks like having the promise of an interesting thread. :)

A recent post you said 6 months minus 3 because of lock down, if your gonna lie you need a good memory Zoo......

[Jamit]

When you get the urge just think of a dud punt. Eg woman with bad breath and bad standoffish attitude who treated you like you shouldn't have been there and wanted you to pay way more than market rate. Or maybe one that was so full on that you suspect she was riddled with STIs.

[virgileco]

Is it possible to learn this power?

[dotcumdotinyou]

I work, make money and save money.

[hornedbeast]

Once you start it's too late. The urge to unload cannot be suppressed

[Budgyboy]

Got to remember there's guys like me that have been on this site for a very very long time. Trolling got pretty full on a few years ago and punters come and go. If someone of long standing references something about someone, nine times out of ten its not malice or picking on someone. Its because that person has been disrespectful, silly or just a plain pain in the arse before. You can change your avatar on this site. Another review site wont let you do that, hence the no dickheads policy and they end up back here as another avatar. But they peddle or spruik the same crap, they are not hard to pick.

[Cameo]

Yes, punting is very addictive, I've learnt that. luckily for me, my work and other comittments limit my available time to punt, otherwise I think i'd be in therapy.
Like most urges, once it's satisfied I tend to shelve it until it starts to build up again. For me it's not necessarily about the release. As I typically just visit ML's (not FS) there's always that anticipation of the game (unless it's a regular) about what's on offer, how will the exchange pan our, how good etc the experience will be. I feed off that. Obviously the HE in which ever format nicely ends the experience.
I think keeping busy is the best way to control the desire to punt, too much time and money would be an issue..

[mustyincognito]

I agree with what others have said. The first couple of weeks is pretty tough but once I get back to the routine with work and other commitments, my urge to punt decreases. But then again, probably that is because I am poor lol.

[storry_teller]

It’s hard, extremely hard, keeping myself away from it. One day, I will give up totally. Hope I’m not too weak to comeback

[Sibon]

One thing in my favour is beside a regular I frequent I've been having dud punts. That put me off punting to a certain extend. I'm able to punt less now as a bad punt is worse than no punt.

[rjdin]

I've splurged the last two months as money just goes in and out during the holidays. Once work settles in next month I don't see myself punting around much. Money controls me pretty well, if I won the lotto then I'd be out of control... Who wouldn't. I agree with the above, bad punts do turn me off from trying new places but it's kind of hard to resist going back to regulars who give a good time.

[poida]

Life gets in the way - work, hobbies, sports, mma training. Current distraction is jdm cars, complete money pit, punting is nothing!!

[Candy1234]

For me I usually walk in a new massage shop and hope for WL ladies that don’t interest me, decline and walk away. By the time I got to the car the urge disappeared. Money saved for another week. Weird ey.

[Cameo]

For me I usually walk in a new massage shop and hope for WL ladies that don’t interest me, decline and walk away. By the time I got to the car the urge disappeared. Money saved for another week. Weird ey.

Plently of opportunities for you down here in the gong. You'll be cured in no time.

[Candy1234]

Plently of opportunities for you down here in the gong. You'll be cured in no time.

Yo bro, nice. Don’t know, sometime when that happened I actually felt proud of myself to not punt that day. I mean if there’s a hot one standing there, I’ll jump on it in no time.

[Johnisfun1969]

I used to punt often 2-3 times a month so not couple of times weekly person. But I would either go to a massage place or look for privates. With few ordinary experiences with ltime wasted I kind of was put off and stopped. The same time I also got opportuity to travel to South East Asia where I was able to make FWB who would spend time without asking for money upfront. My last punt with a WL was in Singapore in Jan 2019 and was not the same as I was drunk. I tried the Saigon Princess massage last year. It was allright but nothing that would get me to start again. I guess covid is partly responsible also.

So alltogether distraction is important if someone wants to reduce punting. I would say best thing will be to start a investment plan whether it is $100 per week or $1000. You will be surprised how quickly it grows to 10-20 000.

[Double_Adapter]

So alltogether distraction is important if someone wants to reduce punting. I would say best thing will be to start a investment plan whether it is $100 per week or $1000. You will be surprised how quickly it grows to 10-20 000.

+1 Sound advice Mr Johnisfun1969

If people are throwing away too much money on punting, WLs, MLs, or SBs then I suggest you start working on your body game, your mouth piece, your masculinity, your intellect, your interests, your finances, your time, your hobbies, your business or career etc and in no time you’ll be attracting plenty of ladies and you’ll be fucking them for free….in fact they’ll be the ones chasing you especially if your sex game is also on point.
Ultimately every woman has some form of baggage the tip is to find one that travels light.
Anyway the moral of the story is to work on the “self” and not the “selfie”

As a side note, punting should be used for
- releasing unresolved sexual tension and stress
- developing and improving your sex game

[Jamit]

Good suggestion.DA and JIF. However I also suggest labelling that savings account as money for fun and satisfaction. This could be saving up for an overseas trip, shouting a trouble friend a fancy dinner out, a new bike or to buy yourself and your better half some great looking sexy clothes. Now that I have recently acquired a girlfriend (unfortunately long distance) I spend my former punting money on sex toys and sexy lingerie for her. When in town we go bra shopping as she has 16Fs and you wouldn't believe how much a good balconette bra costs these days. I get to enjoy at dinner from the other side of the table.

If you don't have a girlfriend, label the account "sexy honeypot fund" for when you eventually acquire one that you want to hang on to. The less you punt the more money for spoiling you have down the track

[slickg]

Strong advice, invest in yourself and reap the rewards later

[suka02]

during lockdown it was constant easy saving money. after lockdown once I begin it’s draining my savings, it’s hard to stop bcoz when you have that free time outside work/activities the urge just kicks in mind. even in public when I see girls outfit. blows my mind. No matter how often excercise too. I try to focus myself find a wife but don’t know where to start or i’m just being picky.

I don’t know why i prefer to go regular shops than discovering new shops with uncertain service. Any recommendations for great legit massage in eastern sub? that will reduce my intensity and cost less.

[Aussieguyinsf]

How well could you control your punting habits?

If I want to limit them I would do something to distract myself e.g. today I spent my time giving the tropical fish tank a good wash, cleaning up the canister filter and gravels, draining 1/3 of the water and slowly filling them back in 15 minutes intervals.

By the time I finished it I didn't feel like changing, walking up the station, catching a train to a shop and blowing $160 for an hour of sweaty sex.

One thing I can't control is when a friend rocks up at my place and invites me to go and find a ML or WL with him. It's difficult to say no to such a fun-loving and jovial person with lots of dirty stories about the ladies. And we'll go somewhere nice to eat as we'll get hungry and thirsty after releasing our loads.

Punting with a mate, nah. It’s strictly a solitary activity for me.

[cryptex]

I control by strict budgeting. But once I hit my saving goals, I will spent it without any guilt.

[kingqxxx]

It’s hard, extremely hard, keeping myself away from it. One day, I will give up totally. Hope I’m not too weak to comeback

If you know the context, this comment is actually quite funny. Is it the money or enjoyment that's the hard part? I suppose it is the money right?

[Sibon]

FOR THE ONE WHO CAN COTROL YOUR LUST
THE LORD SMILES ON YOU
THY SOUL SHALL BE SAVED

FOR THE ONE WHO LETS HIS LUST CONSUMES HIM
THOU ARE THE SAVIOUR BEYOND SALVATION AND PITY
CONFESS THY SIN AND FREE THY SOUL
OR WALK THE VALLEY OF DARKNESS ALONE
MAY FEAR BE WITH YOU

[Axeman123]

For me it's the temptation that I wrestle with. During lockdowns not problem. Total abstinence and not a thought otherwise. Doors n legs open and I couldn't help myself.

[Veets]

Lay off the porn and service sites and obviously this forum is a good start

[BDU]

Only new to it in recent times but after my initial splurge I have now not punted for close to two weeks so I think I am able to control it.
Mind you I am kinda saving up for a feast of sex over Christmas.

The best thing to take your mind off it is either go full on celibate or regularly jerk off.
Not saying which route I have taken :startle:

[Raybo]

Punting with a mate, nah. It’s strictly a solitary activity for me.

Until recently. Don't think I could go with another punter but do respect those that try it.