Rejecting extras

[Rookiestones]

When a ML (maybe even WL and SBs) offers you extras at the beginning, during or towards the end of the session (regardless) and you reject/decline them because the price was too much or the girl is not your type or both parties couldn't negotiate/agree on certain things... Whatever the reasons for turning it down.

I feel a sense of awkwardness at that point and can't help to think that this will impact on the services for the remaining time.

I know it's hard to prove but does anyone else feel that way or is able to validate this from your experiences?

[Lookha]

If the girl is not my type or the price is too high then I leave. I would rather have some small regret now than bigger regret later on.

[rooter]

It's always a delicate balance with WLs/MLs.
On the one hand you want to make sure you get the service you want (or don't want) but on the other hand you don't want to upset the girl, put her in a bad mood, and risk having a shit session.

[luckyluke]

This is where tiered rates are good. E.g. standard, gold, diamond because you know what you are going to get. Saying that not all WL's have been up to the task you paid for in the tiered rate so it's a bit pot luck really. Catching the right girl on the right day.

[1inchguy]

Few years ago I went to a new message shop. Spoke to this pretty Chinese girl. Lead me to the room told me to get naked and lay on the table so she went outside.
In comes a granny.. apparently the other girl is busy.
Granny offered extras. I felt bad but I had to say no ....

[Rookiestones]

Few years ago I went to a new message shop. Spoke to this pretty Chinese girl. Lead me to the room told me to get naked and lay on the table so she went outside.
In comes a granny.. apparently the other girl is busy.
Granny offered extras. I felt bad but I had to say no ....
Lol is this what they call a classic in-house 'bait and switch? What a major let down.

[Kennyg912]

Few years ago I went to a new message shop. Spoke to this pretty Chinese girl. Lead me to the room told me to get naked and lay on the table so she went outside.
In comes a granny.. apparently the other girl is busy.
Granny offered extras. I felt bad but I had to say no ....
Senior ml is beneficial for rheumatism
Not bad for once a while returning:D

[OLD SNAKE]

i always try to negotiate before any money is handed over especially if i am trying out a new place,
its very simple to do, just be polite and straight to the point and ask what extras does the girls do and how much for the tip,
and if its doesn't fall into the tip pre limiters $20HJ/$50NHJ/$100FS, then ask her will she do it for this price, they will always want a tip.
if not walk away and go somewhere else.

[limbi8888]

yeah if they quote too high for additional extras i pass, but its normally $50 for NHJ, that's pretty standard.
If its anything else i just go for the normal $50

[cuteguy]

Lol is this what they call a classic in-house 'bait and switch? What a major let down.

This is why you should never get naked and pay your fee until you see the girl who is actually doing the massage. If it means taking a few minutes of your session then let it be. At least you know what you're getting and whether the ML may be accommodating. No wonder guys are taken as fools because they let themselves be taken advantage of by these sneaky and dodgy mamasans.

Nothing wrong with rejecting offers. It's your choice. Some MLs will try to overcharge you. If it's not reasonable don't accept it. You can negotiate with the ML. If you make a reasonable offer and she doesn't accept your offer then it's her loss. Some MLs have stated some guys and in particular some nationalities offer very little and want everything. In such case, a ML will reject unreasonable offers.

[priapus1966]

It's not necessary to reject them outright. You can just say you don't have enough cash on you. If they then suggest charging it to a card, well obviously that's a no no, because ''er indoors" always checks the account. That approach once got me a free BBBJ because the ML complained her arm ached too much after a busy day. A pleasing but albeit rare occurrence.

[wilisno]

It's not necessary to reject them outright. You can just say you don't have enough cash on you. If they then suggest charging it to a card, well obviously that's a no no, because ''er indoors" always checks the account. That approach once got me a free BBBJ because the ML complained her arm ached too much after a busy day. A pleasing but albeit rare occurrence.
You should have suggested fucking was even easier for her, she didn’t have to move a muscle because you would do all the work ! ;) ;) ;)

[punter-pie]

Few years ago I went to a new message shop. Spoke to this pretty Chinese girl. Lead me to the room told me to get naked and lay on the table so she went outside.
In comes a granny.. apparently the other girl is busy.
Granny offered extras. I felt bad but I had to say no ....That's when you just get dressed

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[local]

Its all dependant upon when extras are offered.
If you only have less than 10 minutes of a 60 minute session, what value are you really getting ?
If she offers half way thru, maybe.
But always remember that once you knock her back, you have a 90% chance of having time cut short and shit service.
Best is always say, tell me the price for next time and I can bring the extra cash.
Its an incentive for them to finish properly and maybe something thrown in to entice.
You also find out how many pineapples and have time to consider their off and whether worthwhile returning.

[dotcumdotinyou]

It's a two way street, they have the right to reject our offers and we have the right to reject theirs. But you have to walk if you reject their offer early on as you will get shitty service.

[priapus1966]

You should have suggested fucking was even easier for her, she didn’t have to move a muscle because you would do all the work ! ;) ;) ;)

Valid point, perhaps I was a bit slow! But a bird in hand etc. - or in this instance, a bird not in hand.

[cuteguy]

It's a two way street, they have the right to reject our offers and we have the right to reject theirs. But you have to walk if you reject their offer early on as you will get shitty service.

Some MLs will be upfront about extras while others will wait once massage is done to offer some extras in the hope she has to do little in the remaining time. In the latter case, you don't know what the ML's attitude will be if you reject her offer. That's why it's best to know at the beginning of the session what's available.

[Sibon]

Once after I rejected a ML's offers she stopped showing any interest to serve me.

One hand she was motionless holding my little brother the other hand busy on her mobile phone.

My little brother had to go through the ordeal of 10 minutes of severe shrinkage in her cold hand.

[cuteguy]

Once after I rejected a ML's offers she stopped showing any interest to serve me.

One hand she was motionless holding my little brother the other hand busy on her mobile phone.

My little brother had to go through the ordeal of 10 minutes of severe shrinkage in her cold hand.

I know the feeling. This is why providing feedback to the boss if asked is worthwhile doing.

[apokalypse]

I know the feeling. This is why providing feedback to the boss if asked is worthwhile doing.

yes..always trying to give feedback to the boss ASAP...

[asiafever]

yes..always trying to give feedback to the boss ASAP...

Correct, and that's why frequenting shops that actually take feedback on board is so worthwhile.

[zacsuck]

I always ask before payment so its easy to walk.

[Nebuzu]

It can be a little bit awkward, if decline also gives the chance to haggle.

[Jesus666]

I hate "Extras" service. I am not stingy and will tip for good service. I find extras ladies are money focused only.

[cuteguy]

I hate "Extras" service. I am not stingy and will tip for good service. I find extras ladies are money focused only.

You'd be going for extras too if you were only paid one third of the massage fee paid by the customer to the shop. No wonder the MLs are willing to do extras for extra cash.

[schloong]

My regular recently told me when I asked that she only gets $25 for a $60/ hr massage, so I reckon that explains the situation pretty well...

[floppydick]

I actually had a sore back the other day whilst I was up in Brookvale, so when I drove past Mali Mali I decided to drop in.
20 minutes before the end of a 60min session the tt started. and the flip was done.
The girl then rubbed me down the fron with plenty of tt. After 5 mins suggest I might like extras ?
I actually said first up then that I only came for a massage, but tell me what was available ? She ask what did I want, so I asked how much for what ?
she gave her prices and I asked whether there was a shower available, the answer was no. So I said what a shame. She was confused and asked again what I wanted, I simply said without a shower nothing. So down came the prices...
Show how desperate for extras, I could have had fs for just a single pineapple !! but no shower ? well not interested. If she told me where she worked other days WITH a shower, I would see her there, but I got no response.
She finished the massage hinting a hj, but I really wasn't interested.

fs for 50 ? naaa, be a dead fuck anyway.

[GoldfishMan]

My regular recently told me when I asked that she only gets $25 for a $60/ hr massage, so I reckon that explains the situation pretty well...

Yes, the extras are literally their ham and cheese. If they don’t get that, it’s only bread and butter.
So here’s the thing. If you want to reject extras and just enjoy a good massage, you can give a tip up front and tell the ML you just want a good massage. It would cost you a lot more than $60 an hour to get a good legit massage anyway. Tipping $20 would only make it about the same price as a legit massage.

Gotta make sure you do this up front though or else the ML wouldn’t know what was the “main attraction” for you. And of course, do this with an ML that you know it’s good at part 1!

[Jesus666]

You'd be going for extras too if you were only paid one third of the massage fee paid by the customer to the shop. No wonder the MLs are willing to do extras for extra cash.

Yes, must admit that my brain was focused on Brothels and not RnT.

[Bredandwine]

My regular recently told me when I asked that she only gets $25 for a $60/ hr massage, so I reckon that explains the situation pretty well...

Jesus, that is the sad reality. I thought their fee would be closer to 50%.

[cuteguy]

Jesus, that is the sad reality. I thought their fee would be closer to 50%.

At first that's what I thought given that the MLs are doing all the physical work i.e massage. However, the shops deal with other matters i.e. advertising, leases, toiletries, organising bookings and other aspects of running a business that they take a greater cut of the massage fee. It explains why the MLs do extras to make more money (tax free).

[Bredandwine]

At first that's what I thought given that the MLs are doing all the physical work i.e massage. However, the shops deal with other matters i.e. advertising, leases, toiletries, organising bookings and other aspects of running a business that they take a greater cut of the massage fee. It explains why the MLs do extras to make more money (tax free).

Yeah agreed, fair few overheads with running a successful shop. I would be offering extras as well if I was in the industry - just a way to make money without the shop taking the cut

[1inchguy]

You guys ever experience ml forgetfulness?
Like you paid for massage + extras at the start. But at the end the ml says you haven't tip them yet..

Happened to me once when I reminded I already tipped her which she then remembered. Was abit worried she may escalate

[tawer5ag]

Had a similar thing happen a couple of times with girls who,luckily, i have seen a few times before.

But it was a bit different.

I thought i already paid for the extras and were both already dressed.
The girl was weirdly standing near the door with her things or the girl was weirdly just standing looking at me doing nothing.
Thankfully i noticed it and asked if i paid her already, girl says i havent. [emoji28] Promptly apologize and pay.

Luckily the times these happened were all with girls ive seen before and know me already.

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