Clicking with a WL, exchanged numbers and she asked for my photo. What the hell is going on?

[ditchtheboss]

I have been seen a WL many times now, lost count. We exchanged phone numbers a few weeks ago on her request and talk on a app she invited me to. We have not met outside the shop. A few weeks ago she texted me asking for my photo. I obliged

I have no doubt I am a good client and she is making lots of money from me, but why ask for the photo. I know I am weak and don’t want to develop feelings for her. I am single and I know I get lonely. I think I should start to see other girls but I am addicted.

I have been punting for about 3 years with COVID in the middle so I think I am inexperienced.

What do you guys think?

[JohnJones]

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So you started an account here just to write fantasy novels? Why don't you do something useful such as post after reports?

[ditchtheboss]

ZzzZZzzzzzZzZz...

So you started an account here just to write fantasy novels? Why don't you do something useful such as post after reports?

Dude I honestly wish it was fantasy

[Sibon]

ZzzZZzzzzzZzZz...

So you started an account here just to write fantasy novels? Why don't you do something useful such as post after reports?

Has she got a sister? :) :)

Waiting for Part II and Part III of the story. :)

[Nelly69]

you should go out with her and fall in love, in a few weeks, come back here and ask punters for love advice....

[ditchtheboss]

I expect and can take the sarcasm. It appears to me that something like this has never happened to anyone here.

I hope there is someone who can give me actual input on what happens when you are clicking with a WL. I have read several times today to pay, fuck and leave. I think I need to do that and stop the text messages perhaps, this is to protect myself from what appears to be an unavoidable unhappy ending

[BlackToad]

Either she needs your photo to masturbate with or it’s some kind of identity theft…. Could be both.

[ditchtheboss]

Either she needs your photo to masturbate with or it’s some kind of identity theft…. Could be both.

Certainly I don’t think I am masturbate material. I might check my bank account about the identity theft 🤣🤣🤣

[ditchtheboss]

Either she needs your photo to masturbate with or it’s some kind of identity theft…. Could be both.

I don't think I am masturbation material. I might check my bank account for the identity theft though

[Bullzdog]

Be careful when sharing details. Sounds dodgy to me

[1inchguy]

Is she Chinese and she asked for your photo?
You're in trouble now. Not sure if you heard but they would share your photo around monks and priest back at home. They do voodoo spell etc to make you fall in love with her, make you addicted. You said it yourself, you're getting weak. Weaker by the moment. You spent money on her. Obviously it's working.
Only way to get yourself out of this is pay another monk about $369.69 to break the spell..
goodluck

[zakthekat]

Probably something stupidly simple like giving your contact card in her phone your photo so she can tell the 24 Doug's from each other.

[Richard25]

Is she Chinese and she asked for your photo?
You're in trouble now. Not sure if you heard but they would share your photo around monks and priest back at home. They do voodoo spell etc to make you fall in love with her, make you addicted. You said it yourself, you're getting weak. Weaker by the moment. You spent money on her. Obviously it's working.
Only way to get yourself out of this is pay another monk about $369.69 to break the spell..
goodluck
Hopefully op pay quickly to avoid from happening

[dotcumdotinyou]

Invest your life savings in the crypto she's going to suggest you buy

[Climax598]

Is she Chinese and she asked for your photo?
You're in trouble now. Not sure if you heard but they would share your photo around monks and priest back at home. They do voodoo spell etc to make you fall in love with her, make you addicted. You said it yourself, you're getting weak. Weaker by the moment. You spent money on her. Obviously it's working.
Only way to get yourself out of this is pay another monk about $369.69 to break the spell..
goodluck
Since OP have her photo he can do the same
OP should pay the monk to get her to pay him to fuck her in apartment and give him weekly allowance to punt other girls.

[JJBlows]

Who knows, she could show your photo with other WL friends to see if your punt at other shops and girls, almost like a jealousy thing

[ditchtheboss]

Who knows, she could show your photo with other WL friends to see if your punt at other shops and girls, almost like a jealousy thing

Jealousy? I didn't think they care. We are just the ATM machine, or so I thought

[Sibon]

I have been seen a WL many times now, lost count, including frequent 4 hour sessions....

What do you do on a massage table for 4 hours? Playing Chinese chess?

1 hour is more than enough for everything you want to do in a FS.

Please donate the spending on the other 3 hours on a worthwhile charity and gather good karma to book a good seat in heavens for the next life.

[ditchtheboss]

What do you do on a massage table for 4 hours? Playing Chinese chess?

1 hour is more than enough for everything you want to do in a FS.

Please donate the spending on the other 3 hours on a worthwhile charity and gather good karma to book a good seat in heavens for the next life.

She is WL not ML. We have sex a few times, cuddle each other, more sex, talk and the off I go, happy as Larry.

[hornedbeast]

From The Land of China

[Sibon]

OK here is part II of the story just in case you're bored in the big wet with nowhere to go. Please excuse my English as I wasn't a major in English literature.

"After we exchanged our photos she Whatsapp me that she found me cute and wanted me to meet her in her place in an afternoon. I turned up in her place with a condom in my pocket. But she refused to let me use mine saying that hers was thinner and she wanted to feel me fully.

First we kissed and embraced on the lounge and consummated within 15 minutes. She let her VCD on was she was watching a Chinese drama. I wanted to turned it off but she wouldn't let me as she wanted to listen to the conversation while I was inside her. She was warm and moist inside and I enjoyed every minute of it.

I suggested we continued the Part II in her bedroom as the lounge was hard and narrow. As we entered the room I saw her wedding photo on the bedside table. She confessed that she was married and her husband was in China. She told me if I loved her deep enough I should marry her in a fake wedding so that she could bring her husband to Australia and reunion with her. Meanwhile I could see her once a week behind her husband's back and she would be on pills and I could bareback her everytime I see her.

That day I walked home a sunken man. I felt like a fool being made used of. Never again I want to see a ML twice and I swear I won't do return."

[TheMaestro]

Cool story brother!

[Azzkikr]

OK here is part II of the story just in case you're bored in the big wet with nowhere to go. Please excuse my English as I wasn't a major in English literature.

"After we exchanged our photos she Whatsapp me that she found me cute and wanted me to meet her in her place in an afternoon. I turned up in her place with a condom in my pocket. But she refused to let me use mine saying that hers was thinner and she wanted to feel me fully.

First we kissed and embraced on the lounge and consummated within 15 minutes. She let her VCD on was she was watching a Chinese drama. I wanted to turned it off but she wouldn't let me as she wanted to listen to the conversation while I was inside her. She was warm and moist inside and I enjoyed every minute of it.

I suggested we continued the Part II in her bedroom as the lounge was hard and narrow. As we entered the room I saw her wedding photo on the bedside table. She confessed that she was married and her husband was in China. She told me if I loved her deep enough I should marry her in a fake wedding so that she could bring her husband to Australia and reunion with her. Meanwhile I could see her once a week behind her husband's back and she would be on pills and I could bareback her everytime I see her.

That day I walked home a sunken man. I felt like a fool being made used of. Never again I want to see a ML twice and I swear I won't do return."

Cool story bro. Cant wait for part 3

[Momoe]

Search the forum and you will get lots of stories like yours, some have roller coaster drama, but most is a lesson to learn.

[ditchtheboss]

Thanks mate, got to get my head in the right place. This won't be good for me or for her I reckon

[RLC]

Is she Chinese and she asked for your photo?
You're in trouble now. Not sure if you heard but they would share your photo around monks and priest back at home. They do voodoo spell etc to make you fall in love with her, make you addicted. You said it yourself, you're getting weak. Weaker by the moment. You spent money on her. Obviously it's working.
Only way to get yourself out of this is pay another monk about $369.69 to break the spell..
goodluck

I am a level 93 Warlock in WoW, would I suffice with my mad wizardry skills to do remove the spell? 😂

[unixrules]

I have been seen a WL many times now, lost count, including frequent 4 hour sessions. We exchanged phone numbers a few weeks ago on her request and talk on a app she invited me to. We have not met outside the shop. A few weeks ago she texted me asking for my photo. I obliged and asked for one back which she gave me.

I have no doubt I am a good client and she is making lots of money from me, but why ask for the photo. I know I am weak and don’t want to develop feelings for her. I am single and I know I get lonely. I think I should start to see other girls but I am addicted.

I have been punting for about 3 years with COVID in the middle so I think I am inexperienced.

What do you guys think?

Detox bro. Plenty of other WLs around. Detox on them !

[ditchtheboss]

Detox bro. Plenty of other WLs around. Detox on them !

Thanks mate. I think I might do that. I think I will try a ML this week for the first time. Just for a change. I think I seriously need the detox.

[DawnX]

Thanks mate. I think I might do that. I think I will try a ML this week for the first time. Just for a change. I think I seriously need the detox.

Good man. I’m sure it’s normal to feel attached. But in this case you should keep a clear head and not get yourself into too much drama👍💪

[woodland]

Simples.

She just wants to share it with her WL friends.
Lots of Asian WLs keep each other updated and go out chatting and gossiping.
No doubt she is talking about you to her friends.

the conversation could have gone like this:

"ditchtheboss is great.... blah blah blah"

"sounds like a client i know too. are you sure we're not talking about the same guy?"

"no no, he says he only does me"

"no i think he was my client too."

"no no"

"show me a pic of him"

[Aardvark2021]

that is him. same man. oh no.

[ditchtheboss]

Good man. I’m sure it’s normal to feel attached. But in this case you should keep a clear head and not get yourself into too much drama👍💪

I know, thanks mate. Got to think straight

[ditchtheboss]

Simples.

She just wants to share it with her WL friends.
Lots of Asian WLs keep each other updated and go out chatting and gossiping.
No doubt she is talking about you to her friends.

the conversation could have gone like this:

"ditchtheboss is great.... blah blah blah"

"sounds like a client i know too. are you sure we're not talking about the same guy?"

"no no, he says he only does me"

"no i think he was my client too."

"no no"

"show me a pic of him"

You live you learn, I didn't think they did that. Someone else said that it could be a jealousy thing. I thought we were just the ATM to them.

Anyway, it pays to be nice to everyone we come across

[unixrules]

Thanks mate. I think I might do that. I think I will try a ML this week for the first time. Just for a change. I think I seriously need the detox.

There was this one WL at Ginza Club. I will not name her for privacy reasons. Very passionate sex and top notch service. I used to tip her nicely and each time I went back the service levels went up. It was incredible. Then, she let me on to the fact she gambles and is a regular at the Casino. She was in debt with some loan sharks. I could see how the relationship progressing so I beat a hasty retreat.

[ditchtheboss]

There was this one WL at Ginza Club. I will not name her for privacy reasons. Very passionate sex and top notch service. I used to tip her nicely and each time I went back the service levels went up. It was incredible. Then, she let me on to the fact she gambles and is a regular at the Casino. She was in debt with some loan sharks. I could see how the relationship progressing so I beat a hasty retreat.

Damn! I suppose that's the beauty of punting, we pay, fuck and leave. They can deal with their own troubles.

[JJBlows]

Jealousy? I didn't think they care. We are just the ATM machine, or so I thought

Well I got busted going to the same shop when she was off and saw another girl, she wasn't impressed when I saw her again.

[cuteguy]

If your girl was Thai and she asked a photo then she's probably going to check a Thai website that has posts from Thai girls about Westerners (farangs). This was exposed by a blogger who went under the name of David Bond. He was travelling around Asia picking up girls and revealing his tips in how to meet Asian girls. In return, many girls turned against him for doing this. That's why Thai girls check before going out with a foreigner whether he is a playboy or as Thais say 'butterfly'. By the way, David Bond continues to travel the world and have his harems while making good money out of his YouTube clips.

[ditchtheboss]

Well I got busted going to the same shop when she was off and saw another girl, she wasn't impressed when I saw her again.

Oh no! How did it end? I really didn't think they cared. But I suppose it is about their revenue, keep the repeat clients is good for the money.

[ditchtheboss]

If your girl was Thai and she asked a photo then she's probably going to check a Thai website that has posts from Thai girls about Westerners (farangs). This was exposed by a blogger who went under the name of David Bond. He was travelling around Asia picking up girls and revealing his tips in how to meet Asian girls. In return, many girls turned against him for doing this. That's why Thai girls check before going out with a foreigner whether he is a playboy or as Thais say 'butterfly'. By the way, David Bond continues to travel the world and have his harems while making good money out of his YouTube clips.

No, not Thai. Damn, you live you learn. I am such a noob, got to be careful.

[cuteguy]

No, not Thai. Damn, you live you learn. I am such a noob, got to be careful.

This is why Thai girls especially on dating sites will ask for a photo to check whether the guy is a player or genuine guy. If you ask them about it, they will deny the existence of such site with a smile. However, Thais play around with many guys and this is all ok according to many Thai girls.

[JJBlows]

Oh no! How did it end? I really didn't think they cared. But I suppose it is about their revenue, keep the repeat clients is good for the money.

Its didnt end, she just got jealous or felt insecure i saw another girl there. She don't need me for her revenue, she is a ginza girl and is always booked out even with out me coming to see her. Even though she is a WL they are still the same as other females

[ditchtheboss]

Its didnt end, she just got jealous or felt insecure i saw another girl there. She don't need me for her revenue, she is a ginza girl and is always booked out even with out me coming to see her. Even though she is a WL they are still the same as other females

Oh I see, thanks mate. I will do a detox from her to get my head right. The play is nice and it feels good but I don't want any drama for me or her.

Having said that, my detox will be from other places so this doesn't happen. With my bad luck I will probably see someone in another brothel or massage parlour that she knows.

[The Sampler]

I'm going to play devils advocate here.

Why not just go along with and and enjoy the ride?
Us men don't just have sexual urges that need satisfying, there are other needs to like companionship.
If its something that this WL can service (fake or real), i mean why not right?

I would put some safe guards in place, like a safe word, or just going in with an open mind but with already accepting the fact it could be all bs.
Like the experience could expand to going on a date perhaps? You might enjoy that kind of companionship, maybe even the free sex after.
But the moment something fishy comes up, like fake weddings, or sending money to her Banana Republic prince, its time to use that safety net and press the eject button!

just my 2 cents.

[ditchtheboss]

I'm going to play devils advocate here.

Why not just go along with and and enjoy the ride?
Us men don't just have sexual urges that need satisfying, there are other needs to like companionship.
If its something that this WL can service (fake or real), i mean why not right?

I would put some safe guards in place, like a safe word, or just going in with an open mind but with already accepting the fact it could be all bs.
Like the experience could expand to going on a date perhaps? You might enjoy that kind of companionship, maybe even the free sex after.
But the moment something fishy comes up, like fake weddings, or sending money to her Banana Republic prince, its time to use that safety net and press the eject button!

just my 2 cents.

That's a great idea, what I am mindful of is that I know I am one of those weak guys. At least I know and can be aware of it. I am really tempted to do just that, watch it and see how it goes. I like your idea of the safety net, thank you.

I think to help me to stay detached I will just see other girls to keep me in perspective. I will try a massage parlour this week, I have only seen WLs so will try a ML.

I am not in the ride for free sex, although if it comes I will not resist. Being the kind of guy I am, I won't be able to have a long time relationship with a WL, I might just see how this one goes.

Thank you so much

[ditchtheboss]

If your girl was Thai and she asked a photo then she's probably going to check a Thai website that has posts from Thai girls about Westerners (farangs). This was exposed by a blogger who went under the name of David Bond. He was travelling around Asia picking up girls and revealing his tips in how to meet Asian girls. In return, many girls turned against him for doing this. That's why Thai girls check before going out with a foreigner whether he is a playboy or as Thais say 'butterfly'. By the way, David Bond continues to travel the world and have his harems while making good money out of his YouTube clips.
No, she is not Thai and not from Ginza, but a stunner nevertheless, at least to me

[1inchguy]

I am a level 93 Warlock in WoW, would I suffice with my mad wizardry skills to do remove the spell? ��

What do you got to worry, you got succubus to cleanse you :love:


Detox bro. Plenty of other WLs around. Detox on them !
This.
We are humans, we got a heart and a dick and somewhere there's the brain.
The heart just wants to be loved, the dick wants to fuck. The brain knows what to do but can be ruled by other two.


See other wl/ml and then you find out how you truly feel.

[ditchtheboss]

What do you got to worry, you got succubus to cleanse you :love:


This.
We are humans, we got a heart and a dick and somewhere there's the brain.
The heart just wants to be loved, the dick wants to fuck. The brain knows what to do but can be ruled by other two.


See other wl/ml and then you find out how you truly feel.

I need the detox. Jap girls do that to you sometimes

[woodland]

i know just the guy for detox. Ask Carissawhore for WS leads!

[Double_Adapter]

We are humans, we got a heart and a dick and somewhere there's the brain.
The heart just wants to be loved, the dick wants to fuck. The brain knows what to do but can be ruled by other two.
.

Inside every man there's a tug-of-war between his dick, his brain, and his heart.
The brain says to the heart I need your blood to perform and function, and the dick says to the heart I need your blood to sustain an erection.....who wins? The heart decides.

[ditchtheboss]

i know just the guy for detox. Ask Carissawhore for WS leads!

What do you mean by WS leads?

[DayMan69]

Ditch, if 'WL Relationship' was a horse, she has about a 1% chance of a win in the big race called life with you. Are those odds you'd bet on?

If you're in need of a little heart boost, enjoy the emotional ride, enjoy the attention. But no more.

To her you're something she craves; a stable, older fella with a wallet. It ain't love. Her WL world is likely quite messy. Frankly this is why i stick to MLs; they're mainly young students doing this for money while they have their looks. The ones I've met are stable with plans to set themselves up back home with property or businesses.

My advice, if you want it, is to get yourself a suite of regulars that you click with, treat them with respect and enjoy great sex that you walk away from with nothing but a happy smile and a lighter wallet.

Hope it ends well for you mate.

[GoldfishMan]

I have been seen a WL many times now, lost count. We exchanged phone numbers a few weeks ago on her request and talk on a app she invited me to. We have not met outside the shop. A few weeks ago she texted me asking for my photo. I obliged

I have no doubt I am a good client and she is making lots of money from me, but why ask for the photo.

What do you guys think?
Surely you would've asked her why she wanted your photo?

[OneandDone]

Let's be clear this is a "transaction" not a connection. If this ends up being a relationship it will be a commercial one and if u have the wallet and get lucky with the right girl they sometimes work. (Usually 25+ age gap)

Personally I don't take numbers, socials anymore. Eventually you'll stop replying and then feel like shit for stringing them along even if just a few months. yes and they do share info ... For most punters you either want to be anonymous or if known just be the guy who comes to fuck. I'd rather get a dog

[ditchtheboss]

Let's be clear this is a "transaction" not a connection. If this ends up being a relationship it will be a commercial one and if u have the wallet and get lucky with the right girl they sometimes work. (Usually 25+ age gap)

Personally I don't take numbers, socials anymore. Eventually you'll stop replying and then feel like shit for stringing them along even if just a few months. yes and they do share info ... For most punters you either want to be anonymous or if known just be the guy who comes to fuck. I'd rather get a dog

I also thought it was a transaction until she asked for the photo. It then completely fucked me up with the illusion that’s why I started this thread. The bros are helping me, thank you.

My penis has strong feelings for her. Having said that I can see the feelings starting to come up and I started getting those visceral feelings. Bad sign for me. I will back right off.

It appears that apart from the Thai girls, nobody experienced this before.

For the bros!

[ditchtheboss]

Ditch, if 'WL Relationship' was a horse, she has about a 1% chance of a win in the big race called life with you. Are those odds you'd bet on?

If you're in need of a little heart boost, enjoy the emotional ride, enjoy the attention. But no more.

To her you're something she craves; a stable, older fella with a wallet. It ain't love. Her WL world is likely quite messy. Frankly this is why i stick to MLs; they're mainly young students doing this for money while they have their looks. The ones I've met are stable with plans to set themselves up back home with property or businesses.

My advice, if you want it, is to get yourself a suite of regulars that you click with, treat them with respect and enjoy great sex that you walk away from with nothing but a happy smile and a lighter wallet.

Hope it ends well for you mate.

Thanks mate. Your advice is valuable. Like I wrote in the other reply, her messages to me are giving me visceral feelings which is very dangerous. She is saying all the right things. I can more than support her but that would probably mess up my brain too much. Not worth the psychological issues. The bills from my shrink will be higher than what I have already spent with her.

Thanks again bro!

[ditchtheboss]

Surely you would've asked her why she wanted your photo?

I did mate, her answer made my heart skip a beat. It shows how good they are or how weak I am.

[ditchtheboss]

Damn it bros, this is a world I didn’t know existed. I take my hat off to the bros who can keep it a transaction.

[Bunty4]

That's a great idea, what I am mindful of is that I know I am one of those weak guys. At least I know and can be aware of it. I am really tempted to do just that, watch it and see how it goes. I like your idea of the safety net, thank you.

I think to help me to stay detached I will just see other girls to keep me in perspective. I will try a massage parlour this week, I have only seen WLs so will try a ML.

I am not in the ride for free sex, although if it comes I will not resist. Being the kind of guy I am, I won't be able to have a long time relationship with a WL, I might just see how this one goes.

Thank you so much

Two word answer - RUN 🏃*♀️ Away.

[ditchtheboss]

Two word answer - RUN 🏃*♀️ Away.
That is the consensus. What I don’t understand is how bad can it be. From another reply, as soon as there are indications of requests for money to send overseas or visa sponsorship one should run away. I suppose the answer to my own question is the psychological and emotional wreck behind it when it is all over.

[cuteguy]

Well I got busted going to the same shop when she was off and saw another girl, she wasn't impressed when I saw her again.

Why would she be upset? She's seeing many guys and that's OK. Just because you see another girl suddenly it's unacceptable to her. You guys are not in any relationship or seeing each other outside the shop on a regular basis. These girls try to mess with punters' heads by making them feel they are special to them so they can keep them as their regulars. It's all fake guys. Women play this well with men who fall for the power of the pussy.

[DayMan69]

Why would she be upset? She's seeing many guys and that's OK. Just because you see another girl suddenly it's unacceptable to her. You guys are not in any relationship or seeing each other outside the shop on a regular basis. These girls try to mess with punters' heads by making them feel they are special to them so they can keep them as their regulars. It's all fake guys. Women play this well with men who fall for the power of the pussy.

Women are women. Logic doesn't come into it. Just play the game, jump around like a butterfly and tell each girl she's special, the most beautiful etc. They may not believe you, but they're prone to just as much self delusion as we are. It's like life; we all say what we need to say to grease the wheels of work, wife and family.

It costs nothing and it'll get you an extra-long, nice and slobbery BJ.

[ditchtheboss]

Women are women. Logic doesn't come into it. Just play the game, jump around like a butterfly and tell each girl she's special, the most beautiful etc. They may not believe you, but they're prone to just as much self delusion as we are. It's like life; we all say what we need to say to grease the wheels of work, wife and family.

It costs nothing and it'll get you an extra-long, nice and slobbery BJ.

I like your approach man.

[ditchtheboss]

Why would she be upset? She's seeing many guys and that's OK. Just because you see another girl suddenly it's unacceptable to her. You guys are not in any relationship or seeing each other outside the shop on a regular basis. These girls try to mess with punters' heads by making them feel they are special to them so they can keep them as their regulars. It's all fake guys. Women play this well with men who fall for the power of the pussy.

Pussy is the most expensive product on earth. And according to my shrink, most of her patients have issues relating to that... ha ha ha
We are making the psychologists rich

[woodland]

What do you mean by WS leads?

western sydney.

[ditchtheboss]

western sydney.

Thanks but I am in the north with easy access to the city so I go to places like ginza, roseville rose, chatswood 60, etc...

[GoldfishMan]

Damn it bros, this is a world I didn’t know existed. I take my hat off to the bros who can keep it a transaction.

You will WANT to keep it a transaction once you realise how big this "world" is. Literally all you can fuck, suck, eat, lick as long as your wallet can handle it. Any shape or size, young or old, in Australia or just about any other country you can think of. There's always a "transaction" there waiting to happen.

Based on that, why would you even want to tie yourself down to the one WL?

[ditchtheboss]

You will WANT to keep it a transaction once you realise how big this "world" is. Literally all you can fuck, suck, eat, lick as long as your wallet can handle it. Any shape or size, young or old, in Australia or just about any other country you can think of. There's always a "transaction" there waiting to happen.

Based on that, why would you even want to tie yourself down to the one WL?

Oh yes, I am learning that pretty quickly! Thanks

[Eastadmiralty]

Women are women. Logic doesn't come into it. Just play the game, jump around like a butterfly and tell each girl she's special, the most beautiful etc. They may not believe you, but they're prone to just as much self delusion as we are. It's like life; we all say what we need to say to grease the wheels of work, wife and family.

It costs nothing and it'll get you an extra-long, nice and slobbery BJ.

This works fine in Sydney brothels with the anonymity and blind booking... Seen it go badly in Asia at go go bars and fishbowls ... girls go loco is quite a spectacle though!

[ditchtheboss]

This works fine in Sydney brothels with the anonymity and blind booking... Seen it go badly in Asia at go go bars and fishbowls ... girls go loco is quite a spectacle though!

Wow, I wish I could see that, although not involving me!

I wonder how private it really is between the girls. It has been said in here that they talk about us and possible share the photos. The truth will never really be known in this underworld of prostitution.

[dotcumdotinyou]

The truth is always known, the girls talk between themselves all the time, they warn each other about the fuckwits out there as well as their favorite's. They show off the expensive gifts their "boyfriend" bought them to make the other girls jealous. They help each other as well as loath each other. And if they think they've got their hooks in you they "warn" you about the bad practices of the other girls.
If you're a GP ditch why would you need a shrink?

[ditchtheboss]

The truth is always known, the girls talk between themselves all the time, they warn each other about the fuckwits out there as well as their favorite's. They show off the expensive gifts their "boyfriend" bought them to make the other girls jealous. They help each other as well as loath each other. And if they think they've got their hooks in you they "warn" you about the bad practices of the other girls.
If you're a GP ditch why would you need a shrink?

Thanks mate for the insight. I believe most people need psychological help. Counselling, psychologists or psychiatrist. I have been on depression and anxiety meds for a long time. I am off them now but still see her. It is not all roses mate.

[cuteguy]

The truth is always known, the girls talk between themselves all the time, they warn each other about the fuckwits out there as well as their favorite's. They show off the expensive gifts their "boyfriend" bought them to make the other girls jealous. They help each other as well as loath each other. And if they think they've got their hooks in you they "warn" you about the bad practices of the other girls.
If you're a GP ditch why would you need a shrink?

When a guy sticks to one shop and becomes a regular it will be obvious to the girls. The girls will exchange notes and talk about guys such as how generous guys are when it comes to tipping, guy's shlong sizes, who do guys like to see and even guy's personalities. Of course they mention guys who are jerks or behave badly.

[DayMan69]

When a guy sticks to one shop and becomes a regular it will be obvious to the girls. The girls will exchange notes and talk about guys such as how generous guys are when it comes to tipping, guy's shlong sizes, who do guys like to see and even guy's personalities. Of course they mention guys who are jerks or behave badly.

In my humble experience, based on conversations with a few girls and me joining the dots, the girls warn each other about the jerks. They talk about nationalities they don't like. They talk about their tricks to getting someone off quickly. They 'agree' their rates for various services in that shop. They keep a good tipper to themselves and they don't care about the size of your dick.

This is ML specific.

[cuteguy]

In my humble experience, based on conversations with a few girls and me joining the dots, the girls warn each other about the jerks. They talk about nationalities they don't like. They talk about their tricks to getting someone off quickly. They 'agree' their rates for various services in that shop. They keep a good tipper to themselves and they don't care about the size of your dick.

This is ML specific.

If you have a good size shlong their eyes roll as if they want to get their hands on it. Some do care about your size. If it's big or long most MLs will make some comment.

[DayMan69]

If you have a good size shlong their eyes roll as if they want to get their hands on it. Some do care about your size. If it's big or long most MLs will make some comment.

Lol, yep, they'll make a comment to you, knowing we all love hearing about how big our dicks are. 'OMG, you will halve me in two, handsome man, big cock' are my favourite words in the English language. But they don't really care and will rarely mention it to the other girls. They see 30-40 cocks a week, telling you want you want to hear is their job.

[1inchguy]

telling you want you want to hear is their job.

This.
I know what i am and what size, theres no need to hype me up.
However im not sure what you guys are doing or im a big softie but the girls are mentioning punters are too rough and pushy on FS if girls 're not offering. Even trying to pressure them into FS because they are already in the massage industry. They're not a fan
So i get comments like im so friendly and nice. Then again they could be just saying that.

[cuteguy]

This.
I know what i am and what size, theres no need to hype me up.
However im not sure what you guys are doing or im a big softie but the girls are mentioning punters are too rough and pushy on FS if girls 're not offering. Even trying to pressure them into FS because they are already in the massage industry. They're not a fan
So i get comments like im so friendly and nice. Then again they could be just saying that.

There are girls that appreciate guys who are not rough or aggressive. One ML told me how a customer came in and kept demanding FS from her. She told him many times that she didn't do it and he started to get aggressive in the way he spoke to her. In the end, she was glad to see him go.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Sorry to hear that ditch. I hope things get better for you.

You know you're better off not punting while depressed, you should take up a hobby of some sort that occupies a lot of your free time...something you can immerse yourself in and then punt when your in a good head space.

[Raybo]

a girl I see semi regularly moved to a new shop a while back. It was a new shop and owned and run by an ex Chinese WL from a shop I had been to plenty of times. I never saw her at the old shop but saw plenty of other girls over the years. I added her WeChat prior to visiting my semi regular. I have photos of me on there and of course my profile picture.

After my session I had a chat with the mamasan and said that she had seen my photo before, a couple of times actually. Other WLs had shown her my photo. i never thought anything of it and still don't. Just reinforces the fact that WLs will talk to the other WLs about customers.

[gpeck80]

Damn! I suppose that's the beauty of punting, we pay, fuck and leave. They can deal with their own troubles.

A Woman that spends more than her income? No. I refuse to believe such women exist :slobber:

[ditchtheboss]

Sorry to hear that ditch. I hope things get better for you.

You know you're better off not punting while depressed, you should take up a hobby of some sort that occupies a lot of your free time...something you can immerse yourself in and then punt when your in a good head space.

Thanks mate! I have been off the meds for a couple of years now. I see a psychologist now to just manage things so I don’t relapse.

Boys, there is a lot of stigma about mental health, if you are struggling SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP!

For the boys!

[ditchtheboss]

a girl I see semi regularly moved to a new shop a while back. It was a new shop and owned and run by an ex Chinese WL from a shop I had been to plenty of times. I never saw her at the old shop but saw plenty of other girls over the years. I added her WeChat prior to visiting my semi regular. I have photos of me on there and of course my profile picture.

After my session I had a chat with the mamasan and said that she had seen my photo before, a couple of times actually. Other WLs had shown her my photo. i never thought anything of it and still don't. Just reinforces the fact that WLs will talk to the other WLs about customers.

It pays to be nice to everyone we come across, particularly the ladies who bring us so much happiness!

[Raybo]

It pays to be nice to everyone we come across, particularly the ladies who bring us so much happiness!

It's nice to be important, but it's important to be nice. Point of my post is there is nothing to be worried about, and it has happened countless times before. Don't ever think you are special in this caper and laugh at girls who tell you so.

Oh, I reckon punting will make you feel more lonely.

[ditchtheboss]

It's nice to be important, but it's important to be nice. Point of my post is there is nothing to be worried about, and it has happened countless times before. Don't ever think you are special in this caper and laugh at girls who tell you so.

Oh, I reckon punting will make you feel more lonely.

You are spot on mate! My shrink has been very quick to point out the psychological dangers of punting. One of them is where I am at the moment which is taking the experience from the room into your real life. It can lead into depression after punting as you realise that what happened in the room was an illusion and not real life. It can also lead into anxiety.

She actually says that punting can be very psychologically healthy. She is helping me with that.

Nobody talks about the psychological dangers to MLs and WLs.

I suppose I am the noob who pays for the punting and the shrink after so I don’t fall into psychological despair. What an idiot!

[DayMan69]

It may help to look at punting as simply a need at this point in life. Like requiring physio after doing your hamstring.

Because of whatever life curcumstances you currently find yourself in, you need some 'physio' from a ML or WL. And, as in life, you don't fall in love with your physio just because she looks like Natalie Portman and soothes your every ache and strain with caring empathy. You pays your money and walk out the door, happier and healthier. Bless her; she's done her job well.

We all have daily needs; coffee, food, health, whatever. We all pay to fulfill those needs. Respect your provider as you would a physio and she'll give it back. And leave it at the door as you would a physio.

[ditchtheboss]

It may help to look at punting as simply a need at this point in life. Like requiring physio after doing your hamstring.

Because of whatever life curcumstances you currently find yourself in, you need some 'physio' from a ML or WL. And, as in life, you don't fall in love with your physio just because she looks like Natalie Portman and soothes your every ache and strain with caring empathy. You pays your money and walk out the door, happier and healthier. Bless her; she's done her job well.

We all have daily needs; coffee, food, health, whatever. We all pay to fulfill those needs. Respect your provider as you would a physio and she'll give it back. And leave it at the door as you would a physio.

Precisely mate! I should give you my money and not the shrink. Very well put!

[Double_Adapter]

You are spot on mate! My shrink has been very quick to point out the psychological dangers of punting. One of them is where I am at the moment which is taking the experience from the room into your real life. It can lead into depression after punting as you realise that what happened in the room was an illusion and not real life. It can also lead into anxiety.

She actually says that punting can be very psychologically healthy. She is helping me with that.

Nobody talks about the psychological dangers to MLs and WLs.

I suppose I am the noob who pays for the punting and the shrink after so I don’t fall into psychological despair. What an idiot!

+1

PTSD is quite common for people in the armed forces, police, emergency services, paramedics etc people in these professions see and experience stuff that your average person would never see in a lifetime. Over time this will fuck them up psychologically.

WL/ML/SB are no different, they gotta deal with shit (physical, sexual, emotional, psychological) that your average and common woman will never see in her lifetime - they get to see and experience the worst in human/male behaviour. Over time that has to fuck them up emotionally and psychologically.

So the moral of the story - Just because they live in a nice house (ie beautiful bodies) it doesn't mean there's nice things going on inside (fucked up emotionally and psychologically)

[ditchtheboss]

+1

PTSD is quite common for people in the armed forces, police, emergency services, paramedics etc people in these professions see and experience stuff that your average person would never see in a lifetime. Over time this will fuck them up psychologically.

WL/ML/SB are no different, they gotta deal with shit (physical, sexual, emotional, psychological) that your average and common woman will never see in her lifetime - they get to see and experience the worst in human/male behaviour. Over time that has to fuck them up emotionally and psychologically.

So the moral of the story - Just because they live in a nice house (ie beautiful bodies) it doesn't mean there's nice things going on inside (fucked up emotionally and psychologically)

Well said mate!

[Mamot]

Get a grip of yourself, real fast, do not proceed with this stupidity. You will regret it, you will shame in your family ( they will be told or they will work it out), you will be paranoid as hell every time she goes out.

And

She will cheat once the excitement is over and you start to feel stale to her. Had a good successful mate, lost him over this. She will come back to you when she’s been used by another bloke then leave again and again.

Unlike my passed bro, he was a staunch, handsome girl magnate who was just addicted to that different unexpected occasion, you sound pretty meak and woeful, turn your brain around and realise this. If you proceed with this, “YOUR LIFE WILL BE RUINED”. Keep paying, go see another different WL every week. You will thank the comments here that advised you as such. My childhood lifelong mate just suddenly lost the plot with a $800 p/h high end. Imagine the pain mate.

Goodluck against yourself because you are your only enemy and willing sacrifice for no reason.

[ditchtheboss]

Get a grip of yourself, real fast, do not proceed with this stupidity. You will regret it, you will shame in your family ( they will be told or they will work it out), you will be paranoid as hell every time she goes out.

And

She will cheat once the excitement is over and you start to feel stale to her. Had a good successful mate, lost him over this. She will come back to you when she’s been used by another bloke then leave again and again.

Unlike my passed bro, he was a staunch, handsome girl magnate who was just addicted to that different unexpected occasion, you sound pretty meak and woeful, turn your brain around and realise this. If you proceed with this, “YOUR LIFE WILL BE RUINED”. Keep paying, go see another different WL every week. You will thank the comments here that advised you as such. My childhood lifelong mate just suddenly lost the plot with a $800 p/h high end. Imagine the pain mate.

Goodluck against yourself because you are your only enemy and willing sacrifice for no reason.

Manot, I appreciate the strong words and sentiment behind them. I know I am meek but not woeful, I have a weak heart I know. She does her job pretty well, makes me feel special and I get the human touch and sex that we see them for. After a few, not many, repeat sessions she saw me driving into the driveway, knows I am single and have a very well remunerated profession and I think from there she started the game. Good morning messages, sleep well messages, what are you doing today, send me your photo, let’s have dinner together, etc.., caught myself falling for it and thanks to the bros here I already started a detox. There are many more girls to see and have fun with. What I feel for her is infatuation, which is simply another word for lustful passion.

Will continue on my detox. I haven’t seen MLs, only WLs so last week I started my adventure with MLs and it has been fantastic. My plan is to see all girls in this particular shop and move on to another shop nearby after that.

Once again I appreciate the strong words of warning.

[cuteguy]

+1

PTSD is quite common for people in the armed forces, police, emergency services, paramedics etc people in these professions see and experience stuff that your average person would never see in a lifetime. Over time this will fuck them up psychologically.

WL/ML/SB are no different, they gotta deal with shit (physical, sexual, emotional, psychological) that your average and common woman will never see in her lifetime - they get to see and experience the worst in human/male behaviour. Over time that has to fuck them up emotionally and psychologically.

So the moral of the story - Just because they live in a nice house (ie beautiful bodies) it doesn't mean there's nice things going on inside (fucked up emotionally and psychologically)

The latest census taken in 2021 revealed over 2.2 million Aussies had some kind of mental health condition. How many more are too embarrassed to admit to suffering from mental illness? Surely, there are many more out there.

There's no doubt you will find many WLs and MLs ending up with psychological issues the longer they work in this industry. There's no way they will come out unscathed and unhurt. Many will be 'damaged goods' for life.

[cuteguy]

It's nice to be important, but it's important to be nice. Point of my post is there is nothing to be worried about, and it has happened countless times before. Don't ever think you are special in this caper and laugh at girls who tell you so.

Oh, I reckon punting will make you feel more lonely.

Punting is a temporary fix for many punters believing it will make them happy but in fact, once they drop your load and leave the shop they're back to square one again. Lonely and a few hundred dollars less in their wallets.

[ditchtheboss]

Punting is a temporary fix for many punters believing it will make them happy but in fact, once they drop your load and leave the shop they're back to square one again. Lonely and a few hundred dollars less in their wallets.

Is it like a drug then?

[asiafever]

Ok, let's start with the basics.
A lot of guys are saying to just go for it and at the first sign of trouble turn tail. Don't do that. You've already stated some facts about yourself and your psyche and to me this sounds like a recipe for disaster. Only certain people can live that lifestyle, and good luck to them. If you found yourself falling down that rabbit hole quite easily then this is to be avoided.

You've figured it's an infatuation and that's a positive step. It sounds to me like you need to work on a set of punting rules for yourself, like my 3 visit rule or better yet, Rooters 1 visit rule. There are 2 benefits to such rules, 1. You can't form any attachments in that time, and 2. You really get to see and experience so much more. Rooters philosophy is really good, for that 1 session, love the girl, treat her like she is the only thing that matters in the world, and when it is done walk away.

You're wrong in saying this type of thing hasn't happened to anyone here, in my 10 years on here it seems like every 6 months there's another, and hell even I would have been guilty of it in the past. As one punter put it a few years ago "Fuck GFE." Our brains get a rush of hormones and it just can't distinguish between whether it is from a real source or fake, and if it's a hormone we've been craving, or lacking, all it knows is that it wants more.

Think of punting like any other service provider, your hairdresser, physio, etc. Yes you can form a good working relationship but it is just that. You wouldn't ask your barber to join you at the pub, nor your dentist if they want to go with you to dinner. If what you want is a relationship, this industry is not the place to be looking. The girls are beautiful, and yes some of them are amazingly sweet people, genuinely, but there is no good to come from it in 99.999999% of cases. Save yourself the trouble.

[asiafever]

Is it like a drug then?

Yes. Very much so. Cuteguy is on point with the summation. I feel that would apply to a large percentage of punters.

[cuteguy]

Is it like a drug then?

I guess so. Just like medication is not a cure for illnesses because they need to be taken regularly to control the symptoms same as punting. For some guys, punting can become an addiction. Guys trying to live out their fantasies, some hoping to meet their future girlfriends or partners, others trying to get their numbers while others seeing these girls as a way to bring up personal issues and talk to someone to hear what they have to say. It sounds like many guys are lonely and unhappy with their lives that they see punting as a way out.

[ditchtheboss]

Ok, let's start with the basics.
A lot of guys are saying to just go for it and at the first sign of trouble turn tail. Don't do that. You've already stated some facts about yourself and your psyche and to me this sounds like a recipe for disaster. Only certain people can live that lifestyle, and good luck to them. If you found yourself falling down that rabbit hole quite easily then this is to be avoided.

You've figured it's an infatuation and that's a positive step. It sounds to me like you need to work on a set of punting rules for yourself, like my 3 visit rule or better yet, Rooters 1 visit rule. There are 2 benefits to such rules, 1. You can't form any attachments in that time, and 2. You really get to see and experience so much more. Rooters philosophy is really good, for that 1 session, love the girl, treat her like she is the only thing that matters in the world, and when it is done walk away.

You're wrong in saying this type of thing hasn't happened to anyone here, in my 10 years on here it seems like every 6 months there's another, and hell even I would have been guilty of it in the past. As one punter put it a few years ago "Fuck GFE." Our brains get a rush of hormones and it just can't distinguish between whether it is from a real source or fake, and if it's a hormone we've been craving, or lacking, all it knows is that it wants more.

Think of punting like any other service provider, your hairdresser, physio, etc. Yes you can form a good working relationship but it is just that. You wouldn't ask your barber to join you at the pub, nor your dentist if they want to go with you to dinner. If what you want is a relationship, this industry is not the place to be looking. The girls are beautiful, and yes some of them are amazingly sweet people, genuinely, but there is no good to come from it in 99.999999% of cases. Save yourself the trouble.

Thanks mate, really appreciate all the advice from the bros. I am finding that my detox with MLs is actually very helpful and despite part 2 it feels more transactional to me. You are not cuddling in bed, you get a massage, part 2, more massage if there is time and off you go. Certainly feels like a service rather than a relationship/GFE feeling.

I will really create some rules fit me, it may need to be the one session rule for me until I build the resilience or switch to MLs for a while.

Despite the fact that I could support the lady, I know I am not the knight In Shining armour nor do I think they want that. As it has been said before, the money is too addictive to them. I don’t want that kind of trouble for my life.

Thank you so much for the time to reply!

For the bros!

Cheers

[ditchtheboss]

I guess so. Just like medication is not a cure for illnesses because they need to be taken regularly to control the symptoms same as punting. For some guys, punting can become an addiction. Guys trying to live out their fantasies, some hoping to meet their future girlfriends or partners, others trying to get their numbers while others seeing these girls as a way to bring up personal issues and talk to someone to hear what they have to say. It sounds like many guys are lonely and unhappy with their lives that they see punting as a way out.

I have a psychologist for that, and I certainly wouldn’t fuck her!

[Double_Adapter]

Is it like a drug then?

Yep!!!

The chemicals released during flirting, courting, relationships, sex, orgasms, love etc are addictive and that is a scientific and physiological fact. The rush of serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin, endorphins is likened to a drug - it's addictive and the high your brain and your body receives from it (albeit temporary) means you become addicted and gotta go out and look for your next fix.
Most dudes in this forum are sex junkies always on the lookout for their next good fix. The regular punters that visit the regular $80-$150 shops are like your typical street junkies. The sugar daddies are no different except they go for the more 'refined' expensive stuff - ultimately its the same fucking drug with the same effect - the only difference is the assumed exclusivity and the packaging.

[radz]

Certainly I don’t think I am masturbate material.

Give us a look mate....let us be the judge of that...😂😂😂

[Mamot]

Manot, I appreciate the strong words and sentiment behind them. I know I am meek but not woeful, I have a weak heart I know. She does her job pretty well, makes me feel special and I get the human touch and sex that we see them for. After a few, not many, repeat sessions she saw me driving into the driveway, knows I am single and have a very well remunerated profession and I think from there she started the game. Good morning messages, sleep well messages, what are you doing today, send me your photo, let’s have dinner together, etc.., caught myself falling for it and thanks to the bros here I already started a detox. There are many more girls to see and have fun with. What I feel for her is infatuation, which is simply another word for lustful passion.

Will continue on my detox. I haven’t seen MLs, only WLs so last week I started my adventure with MLs and it has been fantastic. My plan is to see all girls in this particular shop and move on to another shop nearby after that.

Once again I appreciate the strong words of warning.



Good to hear that. Stay strong 💪🏼 and hump the whole herd 🤙🏼

[ditchtheboss]

Firstly, thank you for all the posts and strong advice. They have been heeded.

So, since I first wrote this post, I saw her a couple of times, the messages continued, I watched myself and decided to cut her out cold turkey. The messages continue and I am responding, she hasn't asked when I will see her again as it has just been about one week or so and my frequency with her was weekly or sometimes less frequently if I travel for work. I WILL NOT SEE HER AGAIN AND WILL NOT RETURN TO THE SHOP! It is a shame as it is one of the good shops but I have not found the world of MLs.

For about one week and a half I have been going to the one shop and have seen 3 girls, including one last night. I am not going to get into the merits/not of MLs vs WLs, I am just enjoying the ride. The 3 girsl I saw were great and 2 gave me CBJ and 1 BBBJ. All girl were gorgeous and last night was the best. The desensitizing is working.

I am planning on going to a FS shop but my plan is to go with the mindset to fuck the girl really hard and then walk away limping. Not to mistreat or abuse them, but get the service that I am paying for which in this case will be PSE as hard as I can get.

Her messages do something to me and I have to cut that out as well. Just trying to do the right thing by her, having said that I read other posts of girls having 2 or 3 boyfriends and all the shit that goes on so I am starting to think that I should cut off the messages cold turkey as well as it will speed up my recovery.

I will fuck the girls in every way I can until my dick can't take it anymore, then I will go back for more.

Thank you all!

[dotcumdotinyou]

If you're not going back to see her block the number.

[asiafever]

If you're not going back to see her block the number.

Actually really good advice, speaking from experience.

[ditchtheboss]

Thank you folks. It is a shame though as I like the shop.

Once I read these messages I blocked the number as well.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Wait a month or two till you've lost the "feels" for this girl then go back to the shop and see someone else. If she bumps into you tell her you've been too busy to get back to her and continue the booking with the other girl.
Does two things lets her know you've extracted her hooks from you and shows her who's really in charge.

[ditchtheboss]

I was thinking something like that. I really like the shop. I read somewhere that a guy bumped into his previous frequent WL in the lineup and she walked out, got him by his hands and took him to a room. I don't think she is that kind of girl, but really who knows. I can always refuse and go with another girl anyway.

I might take your advice!

Between now and then I will continue with the debauchery involved in my detoxing.

Cheers

[OneandDone]

I was thinking something like that. I really like the shop. I read somewhere that a guy bumped into his previous frequent WL in the lineup and she walked out, got him by his hands and took him to a room. I don't think she is that kind of girl, but really who knows. I can always refuse and go with another girl anyway.

I might take your advice!

Between now and then I will continue with the debauchery involved in my detoxing.

Cheers

Good luck dude. Punting shouldn't be causing you any grief. I remember a conversation I had with mates where one said I don't see them as hookers, I see them as real people. Our response they are real people who are hookers

[ditchtheboss]

Good luck dude. Punting shouldn't be causing you any grief. I remember a conversation I had with mates where one said I don't see them as hookers, I see them as real people. Our response they are real people who are hookers

Thanks mate. I switched now from WLs to MLs and I am enjoying the change. I have blocked the WL, she kept on sending me lovely messages that could really get one in trouble and give mixed messages. Good morning messages, sleep well, photos, what are you doing, etc... looked and felt really genuine. I thought of responding in the same way by asking what she was doing but the answer was going to be probably that she was taking a big fat dick in her pussy and then CIM. Who wants to hear that?

I still question if she was for real but the Bros here have really opened by eyes.

[GoldfishMan]

Thanks mate. I switched now from WLs to MLs and I am enjoying the change. I have blocked the WL, she kept on sending me lovely messages that could really get one in trouble and give mixed messages. Good morning messages, sleep well, photos, what are you doing, etc... looked and felt really genuine. I thought of responding in the same way by asking what she was doing but the answer was going to be probably that she was taking a big fat dick in her pussy and then CIM. Who wants to hear that?

I still question if she was for real but the Bros here have really opened by eyes.

Careful of MLs bro. There’s a lot more leeway for heart to heart talks in an RNT.
If you’re a moth and WLs were the flame, then MLs could potentially be a fricking bonfire.

Maybe start with shorter sessions (no more than 45 mins at a time) until you’ve seen enough different girls to be numb to the whole GFE feeling.

[ditchtheboss]

Careful of MLs bro. There’s a lot more leeway for heart to heart talks in an RNT.
If you’re a moth and WLs were the flame, then MLs could potentially be a fricking bonfire.

Maybe start with shorter sessions (no more than 45 mins at a time) until you’ve seen enough different girls to be numb to the whole GFE feeling.

Thanks for the advice bro!

[bummer]

Gee, less than 2 weeks from thread start and he's ditch'd the girl and moved on...

Great, so when do we learn who and where ?
Its been a while, but I wouldn't mind a WL chasing me a bit at the moment.

[Meng]

Gee, less than 2 weeks from thread start and he's ditch'd the girl and moved on...

Great, so when do we learn who and where ?
Its been a while, but I wouldn't mind a WL chasing me a bit at the moment.

Isn't the OP a doctor and the WL knew?

It was basically chaching in her eyes and she started chasing him.

[zacsuck]

Isn't the OP a doctor and the WL knew?

It was basically chaching in eyes and starting chasing him.

bet we will never know...

[ditchtheboss]

Isn't the OP a doctor and the WL knew?

It was basically chaching in her eyes and she started chasing him.

Bros, there was a pretty unfortunate incident that resulted in everyone in the shop finding out what I do.

I was walking downstairs and in front of me there was one of the girls trying to manage the stairs wearing some ridiculous high heel shoes. It was a good view for me, always enjoy that but I digress. She tripped, lost her balanced and had a massive fall. She was concussed and broke an arm. You can imagine the commotion. All the girls who were not getting fucked came out to see what was happening, mamasang, etc... I helped to stabilize the girl and gave her some medication I had in my bag just to help her with the pain until the ambos arrived.

The good side of the story is that the shop always welcomes me, I got my session for free, but the downside is that they all found out what I do and unfortunately that changes things. I continued with my frequent WL until things got a little more complicated as you can see in this thread.

I know of many doctors and dentists who punt very frequently.

[ditchtheboss]

Gee, less than 2 weeks from thread start and he's ditch'd the girl and moved on...

Great, so when do we learn who and where ?
Its been a while, but I wouldn't mind a WL chasing me a bit at the moment.

I would obviously never disclose who and where. The chasing is always fun, what is not fun is the emotional game that can really get to anyone, including the girls if they get involved.

One thing is fucking them hard and getting the service we pay for, it is another thing all together to engage in emotional manipulation that can really hurt people very deeply. These girls choose to cope with a very hard profession that we know leaves psychological scars behind, we don't need to add to it. This would get both of us hurt and I won't do it to her or myself.

Cheers

[cuteguy]

Bros, there was a pretty unfortunate incident that resulted in everyone in the shop finding out what I do.

I was walking downstairs and in front of me there was one of the girls trying to manage the stairs wearing some ridiculous high heel shoes. It was a good view for me, always enjoy that but I digress. She tripped, lost her balanced and had a massive fall. She was concussed and broke an arm. You can imagine the commotion. All the girls who were not getting fucked came out to see what was happening, mamasang, etc... I helped to stabilize the girl and gave her some medication I had in my bag just to help her with the pain until the ambos arrived.

The good side of the story is that the shop always welcomes me, I got my session for free, but the downside is that they all found out what I do and unfortunately that changes things. I continued with my frequent WL until things got a little more complicated as you can see in this thread.

I know of many doctors and dentists who punt very frequently.

Girls find out quickly and may bring up medical issues during the session that eats into your time of fun.

[ditchtheboss]

Girls find out quickly and may bring up medical issues during the session that eats into your time of fun.

That hasn't happened yet. I would point them to their own doctor anyway.

[cuteguy]

That hasn't happened yet. I would point them to their own doctor anyway.

Some girls certainly do require some advice about the risks of oral sex. Surprised so many don't know about them or have never done their own research. You would have thought when the girls get checked (that's if they do) that the doctors or nurses in those sexual health clinics give them a rundown of possible risks and what to look out for in their line of work. However, some girls will not reveal they are working as prostitutes because they arrived here on visas.

[ditchtheboss]

Some girls certainly do require some advice about the risks of oral sex. Surprised so many don't know about them or have never done their own research. You would have thought when the girls get checked (that's if they do) that the doctors or nurses in those sexual health clinics give them a rundown of possible risks and what to look out for in their line of work. However, some girls will not reveal they are working as prostitutes because they arrived here on visas.

Yes, my previous frequent asked me and we had a conversation about various things. I think there is also a language barrier. I believe they can access social workers speaking their language and are trained to advise them but if they are not even getting tested as frequently as they should, I doubt any of them would ever speak to a social worker.

One challenge we have is the pressure in FS shops to provide BBBJ as part of the standard service. If you add to that clients adking for CIM then the risk for them increases exponentially.

So that I am not a hypocrite, I have once allowed a girl to take my CIM at Roseville Rose in a double a few years ago. I wouldn’t do it again as I feel bad for them.

There are many other risks as we all know.

[cuteguy]

Firstly, thank you for all the posts and strong advice. They have been heeded.

So, since I first wrote this post, I saw her a couple of times, the messages continued, I watched myself and decided to cut her out cold turkey. The messages continue and I am responding, she hasn't asked when I will see her again as it has just been about one week or so and my frequency with her was weekly or sometimes less frequently if I travel for work. I WILL NOT SEE HER AGAIN AND WILL NOT RETURN TO THE SHOP! It is a shame as it is one of the good shops but I have not found the world of MLs.

For about one week and a half I have been going to the one shop and have seen 3 girls, including one last night. I am not going to get into the merits/not of MLs vs WLs, I am just enjoying the ride. The 3 girsl I saw were great and 2 gave me CBJ and 1 BBBJ. All girl were gorgeous and last night was the best. The desensitizing is working.

I am planning on going to a FS shop but my plan is to go with the mindset to fuck the girl really hard and then walk away limping. Not to mistreat or abuse them, but get the service that I am paying for which in this case will be PSE as hard as I can get.

Her messages do something to me and I have to cut that out as well. Just trying to do the right thing by her, having said that I read other posts of girls having 2 or 3 boyfriends and all the shit that goes on so I am starting to think that I should cut off the messages cold turkey as well as it will speed up my recovery.

I will fuck the girls in every way I can until my dick can't take it anymore, then I will go back for more.

Thank you all!

Never let a WL or ML dictate how you should go about with your punting. If she's upset that you're seeing other girls then she has no right to tell you when she's seeing many guys and getting her clothes off and/or having sex with other guys. Best to stay clear of such girls and enjoy your punting without any baggage.

[ditchtheboss]

Update on my detoxing.

Going really well and really enjoying the MLs. I have only been to Ryde Massage but I enjoyed each and every massage. At Ryde I have seen Michelle twice, Yumi Emily and Lyia. I have a booking at 42G tomorrow with Anna. My first time at 42G. I haven't fucked a J for a while, this should be good.

On the detoxing itself, guys, it is good to have a few regulars so you know what you are getting but the variety is huge and it is great to shop around and see what's available.

Happy punting folks

[legs11]

Never let a WL or ML dictate how you should go about with your punting. If she's upset that you're seeing other girls then she has no right to tell you when she's seeing many guys and getting her clothes off and/or having sex with other guys. Best to stay clear of such girls and enjoy your punting without any baggage.

Agree - if the WL is attempting to manipulate and control the behaviour of the OP, the solution is simple block the number and stay away. 99% of the other fish in the sea of WL's/ML's will provide what you have paid for, that is no strings attached service for your (hopefully) mutual pleasure.