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[doughnut5858]

Hi gentlemen.

I wonder if the client didn't pay me aftersex. What should I do

I had overnight We've met three times. This is the fourth time

Also the samething happen second time next morning when I

wake up he didn't left pay I try to call but he not answer Because

I had other things to do at the time. So I just choose forget about。

anyway first time third time he payed me 。

The fourth time he didn't pay me again I message him said

Why you not left my pay ？ he message me “yes ，I don't have

money this month wait get pay。 ” Excuse me WT* This time

I feel like I was too weak。

There were a lot of customers who didn't pay. I'm choose forget

Because it's really annoying, and it's making my bipolar worse。

I don't want patience any more . I want what I deserve. May I go to

the police? and I have a sexworker number and this happen in sydney not in Adelaide。

apologize Sorry to take up your time and your panel.

Thanks


Jacinda

[Gh0st]

Hi gentlemen.

I wonder if the client didn't pay me aftersex. What should I do

I had overnight We've met three times. This is the fourth time

Also the samething happen second time next morning when I

wake up he didn't left pay I try to call but he not answer Because

I had other things to do at the time. So I just choose forget about。

anyway first time third time he payed me 。

The fourth time he didn't pay me again I message him said

Why you not left my pay ？ he message me “yes ，I don't have

money this month wait get pay。 ” Excuse me WT* This time

I feel like I was too weak。

There were a lot of customers who didn't pay. I'm choose forget

Because it's really annoying, and it's making my bipolar worse。

I don't want patience any more . I want what I deserve. May I go to

the police? and I have a sexworker number and this happen in sydney not in Adelaide。

apologize Sorry to take up your time and your panel.

Thanks


Jacinda

Make sure get upfront payment exsplecially when its already happen more than once, unless you alredy agree upon before.

[vt4444]

先收錢 再交易 不就沒問題了嗎？

[Nelly69]

yeah, I would ask up front payment, I think its perfectly normal!

[Climax598]

Just ask upfront payment like in shop. You are earning a living especially in sex work.

[aussiegaigin]

There are plenty of past reports here from punters who have paid upfront, only to find that the girl has given poor services, or even done a runner after pocketing the cash.

The best the girl can do is ask to see the money first, to ensure the client has the ability to pay (getting it at the end could still be problematical, that's the nature of punting!!)

[cuteguy]

Sounds like the WL found a good regular customer who thinks he can get away with not paying every second meeting knowing well that the girl won't go to the police and he can get away with it again.

If it happened once then why not get the money upfront? If a guy always pays then it shouldnt be a problem but in this case, he did the bolt and didn't answer the WL's call when he didn't pay on the second occasion. This was a red flag not to see him again until he paid the WL for the second meeting. I guess people have to learn from their experiences not to trust everyone.

[dotcumdotinyou]

I'm sorry Jacinda, but if you are bi polar or have any type of mental issue this isn't the best profession for your at this time. You should take a holiday and get some help, then later when you're in a better head space you could try again.

[quackm2002]

You need to adopt a very simple rule from now on - money up front, no exceptions. Don’t bother about the police. They can do nothing

[Sibon]

You need to adopt a very simple rule from now on - money up front, no exceptions. Don’t bother about the police. They can do nothing

Such stories are common.

A ML was told that she would be paid by bank transfer. But the transfer was cancelled the minutes the customer left the place. This happened to her twice.

One customer wanted a HJ and was $5 short.

A customer told a ML he would pay $70 for an hour of the shop price and nothing more as all he wanted was to have a chat.

[blk53]

What about in a scenario like the guy said I have cash but he turns up to the door and go in without money. Most of the privates will send you the unit number to go in the building or unit?

[V2539]

Unfortunately there’s a lot of punters out there with little or no integrity, SP's and shops too.
We are engaging in to an agreement that should be honoured, whether it’s good or bad.
If it’s bad there’s no repeat, that’s punting

[doughnut5858]

The clients I meet know THAT I never ask for money. We're all adults. We should know what we're doing here. Didn't get an education as a child? I lot of times I know some client may not going to pay, I can feel ，Im street smart but I just want to see if people are really that disgusting. Ha ha this world I also thank this industry, let me see how disgusting this society.

[asiafever]

The clients I meet know THAT I never ask for money. We're all adults. We should know what we're doing here. Didn't get an education as a child? I lot of times I know some client may not going to pay, I can feel ，Im street smart but I just want to see if people are really that disgusting. Ha ha this world I also thank this industry, let me see how disgusting this society.

Money often brings out the worst in people unfortunately. And yes I agree, this industry can shine a light on just how bad some elements of society can be..

[PKING2]

doughnut5858 is a genuine person, which is a rarity in this industry. I think asking for money up front is too formal for her, she prefers to let the booking flow naturally. I understand that she expects the person to pay before they leave, we all know how it works.

I met her once, we sat on the couch and talked a little, I didn't go ahead with the booking but she was cool about it. I gave her some money for her time and she didn't want it, I insisted. She gave me a pink Disney face mask as a gift, its still sitting on my bookshelf.

We need more high class punter like you bro.

But yeah some punter is good, some is bad, same like people in every section off every industry.
Like I always said treat the girl like human, talk to her, ask permission, help her to make up the bed, bringing her coffee or snack, all this small gesture, might worthless, but it might make the girl feels better


@doughnut
Police cannot do anything, even if you proof them with the evidence. If he declared he doesn't have money, you need to wait as well.

So next time just ask for the money first, cash. To avoid something like this happened again

[GoldfishMan]

Don't worry babe, I've already paid for him last year. $5k should be enough to cover it?
I love to do charity work, especially to look after my fellow punting bros.

Can you PM me his name? I like to write down the names of all the people I donate money for. Red Cross, cancer council, world vision, now I can add punter bros. Maybe I can get tax deduction for this one.

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[nosytt]

Did she get you pregnant?

[faruk]

A customer told a ML he would pay $70 for an hour of the shop price and nothing more as all he wanted was to have a chat.

There's nothing illegal or even immoral in that scenario. It's not like the girl is getting short changed.

[GoldfishMan]

Did she get you pregnant?

Maybe he's the guy who did the runner? Lol...

[GoldfishMan]

And thanks to that guy for bringing up this thread again. If a punter doesn't pay after a sesh and that's rape, what about when you pay a WL and she doesn't give you service?
She raped your wallet?

[ricki]

Wait wasn't there a thread where a guy ended up on jail cause he didn't pay up the WL after the service and it was consider as rape and the pregnant wife had to bail him out or something.

"Sydney man who paid escorts with bounced checks charged with rape"

[DireStraits]

And thanks to that guy for bringing up this thread again. If a punter doesn't pay after a sesh and that's rape, what about when you pay a WL and she doesn't give you service?
She raped your wallet?

If a punter pays using an empty envelope or a cheque that bounces, surely that’s fraud. To call it rape is just silly. What if he makes good on the payment a day or two later? Does she then say “oh thank you, in that case it’s not rape anymore”? So rape can be turned to not rape simply by transfer of funds?

The law truly is an ass.

[asnabc]

If a punter pays using an empty envelope or a cheque that bounces, surely that’s fraud. To call it rape is just silly.

Think of it another way. A client performs sexual acts on the WL knowing full well that the WL would never have consented to provide those sexual services in the first place, if she knew the cash/cheque was fake.

[cplurt2]

This is why I pay up front. The woman is taken care of and if I have to bolt due to being paged at work or w/e she's covered

[ReginaldBubbles]

Does she then say “oh thank you, in that case it’s not rape anymore”? So rape can be turned to not rape simply by transfer of funds?


You can’t propose a theoretical scenario and then use that as some kind of evidence that the law doesn’t work.
You need to broaden your definition of rape and have a bit more respect.

[Ziggurat]

I wonder where he would stand if he did pay her now, with 10% added for late payment as his full penalty.

[Timeis629]

This where it gets messy and I guess a technical problem.

An ML I had seen several times and trusted me but on the 4th occasion asked for money upfront - the reason was that a customer had done a runner after obtaining service.

That massage shop explicitly states NO SEXUAL SERVICES on these premises. A loophole so to speak. I guess the absconding customer traded on that loophole.

Definitely ask for money upfront.

-,in a previous life a cafe business owner told me he had been told by his father “get the cash son, get the cash”.

Nothing has changed and plenty of businesses get dudded by people not wanting to pay or want a discount of some description and unfortunately some ethnic groups are habitual at this practice.?

[bummer]

Gee, digging up old threads....

I would love to meet this woman.
I don't think I have ever had a paid sexual encounter without payment first. maybe additions later, but upfront first.
There have only been a few exceptions, but those involved sugar baby type sessions and several pickup and thought pay this woman so no problems down the track.

Again, I would love to meet this woman.
and current contact details would be appreciated... just pm please.

[GoldfishMan]

If a punter pays using an empty envelope or a cheque that bounces, surely that’s fraud. To call it rape is just silly. What if he makes good on the payment a day or two later? Does she then say “oh thank you, in that case it’s not rape anymore”? So rape can be turned to not rape simply by transfer of funds?

The law truly is an ass.

I guess it's all up to the victim if they want to press charges or not, just like any other rape case. I reckon it probably wouldn't help the defendants case if he went to pay up after he's been charged.