Mental Toll

[akkw]

Some of these WL who have been in the industry for long time would suffer some sort mental toll on their well being. Especially the ones who does long shifts for many years mentally they are exhausted. What does other have observed?

[Mickeydrippen]

Some of these WL who have been in the industry for long time would suffer some sort mental toll on their well being. Especially the ones who does long shifts for many years mentally they are exhausted. What does other have observed?

It wasn’t until I started following a couple of rosters on a daily basis that I started to realise how onerous this life style must be on some of the girls. 12 hr shifts perhaps one or two days off if they are lucky. No monthly week off for period breaks as far as I can see ( don’t ask me how that works). The fact that many of the services eg rimming are expected, but doubtfully enjoyed by the girls would indicate that there may be a degree of mental pressure in the industry. Yet so many girls act so positively and professionally. Money is a great motivator I guess. Seeing the girl that you felt a special connection with on a 12 hr roster,day in day out, for months affects the punters mental health too I guess.

[cuteguy]

There's no way a WL will come out unscathed after servicing hundreds or even a thousand guys. She will be psychologically and mentally scarred for life. However they know what they are getting themselves involved in order to make more money. If guys are thinking of dating WLs think again.

[MilfMonger]

I have before and after pictures of 2 different Chinese MILF at two different budget shop where they both work 24/7. They gave me the photos (I am also in a couple0

In one set the first photo shows the lady is just arrived in Sydney and she looks like a woman’s - well groomed, serious, and dignified - like a floor manager in David Jones women’s store maybe. The second, taken around six months later show a skinny unkempt girl totally into partying but totally forgotten why she came here and did this job in the first place. She doesn’t look unhappy - but she does look like she’s got no idea where she is or how she got there - but she’s having fun.

The other set shows a crone-like lady who’s been working nearly 2 years in a couple of bucket shop who can barely string sentences together even in Chinese and will just do just about anything a customer demands and seems entirely disconnected from the various new bruises, hot glass burns, and scratches she seems to have across her tiny body every other week when I met her. Her second photo was taken after a 3 month break from work and shows a twinkly-eyed, smiling, happy and obviously physically healthy woman aged a very young 40-something exploring the city.

I remember crossing paths with these women and feeling quite outraged that people could be living and working like this in Sydney in 2020. But in both cases neither woman believed they were being treated badly, being forced to do unreasonable things, or indeed they has done any major problem here in Australia. All their problems were in China. And being here was the best way to fix them.

They both said their best friend in Australia was their boss at the shop who really cared about them. Two bosses, I might add , who would really benefit from doing 3-5 in Long Bay for any number of things. They had generally nice things to say about all their customers. And mentioned a couple of individual customers who helped them in different ways outside time booked in the shop.

My takeaway was that what your average decent Australian thinks is simply inhumane and unconscionable in a workplace barely registers with people newly arrived from mainland china. You cannot even discuss their mistreatment with them because they laugh at your weird ideas and tell you to stop thinking so much./

[footboy2012]

Some of the smart ones just service as many D as possible and then bank it into properties, not handbags and jewellery

One that I have kept in touch with did it legit with proper business structure etc.

[Jamez11]

There's no way a WL will come out unscathed after servicing hundreds or even a thousand guys. She will be psychologically and mentally scarred for life. However they know what they are getting themselves involved in order to make more money. If guys are thinking of dating WLs think again.

If gigolo fucked a 1000 fatties for money I’m not sure they’d necessarily be psychologically scarred for life but they might not see it as their proudest moment’s lol. I think if it was that horrible for them they would be probably delivering Uber eats or something else instead, but justify it for the money. And yes, dating someone who has suck n fukd a 1000 people independent for money or not probably at aren’t the best options to be dating.

[Sibon]

Some of these WL who have been in the industry for long time would suffer some sort mental toll on their well being. Especially the ones who does long shifts for many years mentally they are exhausted. What does other have observed?

The regular ML I see lives in a nice apartment and only works 3 days a week.

One ML has a married boyfriend who pays for her rent to be with her every Sunday.

Another ML has an elder partner who pays her $10,000 a month to support her son, mother and mother-in-law in China. They'll be married in a month.

They probably earn more than you do and are happier than you are.

The only person who is a few hundred dollars poorer walking out of the massage parlour is the punter.

[MilfMonger]

The regular ML I see lives in a nice apartment and only works 3 days a week.

One ML has a married boyfriend who pays for her rent to be with her every Sunday.

Another ML has an elder partner who pays her $10,000 a month to support her son, mother and mother-in-law in China. They'll be married in a month.

They probably earn more than you do and are happier than you are.

The only person who is a few hundred dollars poorer walking out of the massage parlour is the punter.

This is very true. More than a few Chinese MILFS working in the high turnover budget shops can bank an average of at least $16,000 a month working a 6-day week of 12-14 hour days with a lot of back-to-back short-time customers (although I’d agree being bent over and doggied full speed by 3 x 20 min customers an hour for 4 hours without a break probably does take a bit of a toll).

I never forget the day my then regular WL revealed she earned roughly enough to place her in the top 5 % of income earners in Australia. Which then made me wonder how much the guys who wrote some uncharitable online reviews of her after their first 20 min go earned….

[akkw]

If we measure one's achievement by how much money they make that's disappointing.

[Sibon]

This is very true. More than a few Chinese MILFS working in the high turnover budget shops can bank an average of at least $16,000 a month working a 6-day week of 12-14 hour days with a lot of back-to-back short-time customers (although I’d agree being bent over and doggied full speed by 3 x 20 min customers an hour for 4 hours without a break probably does take a bit of a toll).

I never forget the day my then regular WL revealed she earned roughly enough to place her in the top 5 % of income earners in Australia. Which then made me wonder how much the guys who wrote some uncharitable online reviews of her after their first 20 min go earned….

3 years into being ML in Sydney my regular ML is buying an apartment in Nanking.