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tttrrreee
02-09-2022, 12:08 AM
When it comes to getting a massage, is being too handsy alright or is it better to wait for their initiative?

b1gboymcevoy69
02-09-2022, 10:03 AM
when in doubt, ask! it ain't that hard, MLs are people too with boundaries and preferences so asking and being respectful should be a given. imho it'll get you better service too

xolent
02-09-2022, 03:31 PM
I'd say it's better to be tease with language rather than physically

tttrrreee
02-09-2022, 05:57 PM
when in doubt, ask! it ain't that hard, MLs are people too with boundaries and preferences so asking and being respectful should be a given. imho it'll get you better service too

Yeah, i don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. Clear communication is definitely the way to go

tttrrreee
02-09-2022, 06:01 PM
I'd say it's better to be tease with language rather than physically

I'll have to work on my verbal teasing game!

Warrabong
02-09-2022, 08:38 PM
As much as you paid for

1inchguy
03-09-2022, 01:33 PM
When it comes to getting a massage, is being too handsy alright or is it better to wait for their initiative?

When in doubt just ask. They either say yes or no.
For me I don't do anything unless they get touchy with me and they position my hands between their legs or on their breast which I take it as a Go sign.

The other day I was just laying on the table face down, hands by my side and this amazing Thai girl just position her pussy on my hand and sat on it. Rub and FIP.
Eventually we fucked and let's say there's no need to go to gym when you can see a ml that would make you work out your abs. It has been few days my abs still sore

MamaMilkTruck
03-09-2022, 03:39 PM
When it comes to getting a massage, is being too handsy alright or is it better to wait for their initiative?

Hi Tre!

ML/WL here x

Generally, gentle touching anywhere except "pink areas" is okay. Some also allow touching of those areas, and some who do (depending on the person or establishment) also require extra $.

It's always best to ask if unsure and she will be happy to clarify.

If you think she seems uncomfortable or she is physically moving away from you or moving her p**** away from you when you touch her, take is as a cue and verbally check in.

MMT xx

Sly22
03-09-2022, 04:05 PM
Thanks MMT, sounds like good advice on etiquette

tttrrreee
04-09-2022, 01:27 PM
Wow thats hot 1inchguy, was she already naked or was it under a dress?

tttrrreee
04-09-2022, 01:32 PM
Thank you for your insight MMT!

Monkeyman98
04-09-2022, 02:18 PM
I usually let my hands roam a lot of they are keen on rubbing against my arms. Can't leave any opportunity to waste ;)

tttrrreee
04-09-2022, 02:49 PM
Thanks Monkeyman, do you find most are receptive to this?

woods23
04-09-2022, 03:15 PM
Interesting. Back then I'd be a good boy will not touch them during past 1..but if she girl seem inviting I like to feel her ass nd brushing her leg (no pink bit) nd offers some compliments.

These days I have no patience at all..if im horny I'd flick over early be" very upfront" nd be polite of cuz use my magic words or also can try Mr Buster's words..".open wide cum Inside " :slobber:most the time it work out pretty good. They are here for our money after all :)

tttrrreee
04-09-2022, 07:45 PM
also can try Mr Buster's words..".open wide cum Inside "

Haha that would be quite forward

Sly22
04-09-2022, 07:51 PM
I like your style, as long as it doesn't offend then worth a try

tttrrreee
04-09-2022, 08:27 PM
I like your style, as long as it doesn't offend then worth a try

Yeah i don't want to offend but non-verbal communication works with the fantasy for me

bung72
04-09-2022, 09:05 PM
Even at FS the rules are weird at times.... I've had some girls where to touch their boobs you need to pay extra, the base rate just covers the BJ/fucking.... sheesh!

xolent
04-09-2022, 09:26 PM
I've had some girls where to touch their boobs you need to pay extra, the base rate just covers the BJ/fucking.... sheesh!

hahaha that would be so confusing while she's got you in her mouth and asks for extra for touching her boobs

tttrrreee
04-09-2022, 09:26 PM
Yeah i guess its different from person to person

1inchguy
05-09-2022, 12:50 AM
Wow thats hot 1inchguy, was she already naked or was it under a dress?

She was still dressed but in a short dress. No panties. No bra.

footboy2012
05-09-2022, 09:21 AM
I normally just ask do you do extras? Can you give me a body slide? Then it’s fair game. Some even ask you not after massage? Just want to be naughty and I’m like yep, maybe massage after. Normally if they ask what Type of extra, I ask full service and if they say no, then blowjob and flash a pineapple. Works 99% of the time.

Sly22
05-09-2022, 03:33 PM
I'm interested in this. Does that mean that generally the massage is seen as a hassle by the ML, and only there as cover just in case? Would they rather just go straight to the extras? Its a bit of a minefield

footboy2012
05-09-2022, 06:07 PM
I'm interested in this. Does that mean that generally the massage is seen as a hassle by the ML, and only there as cover just in case? Would they rather just go straight to the extras? Its a bit of a minefield

I think so...

Not a lot of work sitting there naked and getting their feet played with, on their knees giving cbj, or just straddling/sliding and getting groped/tits sucked :shout:

Monkeyman98
06-09-2022, 11:00 AM
I found them very receptive but I never go full hard on touching. Light touches to get in the mood.
Sometimes they themselves ask me if I wanna switch over. Lol

lam
06-09-2022, 11:45 PM
Even at FS the rules are weird at times.... I've had some girls where to touch their boobs you need to pay extra, the base rate just covers the BJ/fucking.... sheesh!

I just imagine your hands in the air not allowed to touch her while fs

tyron123
08-09-2022, 10:00 AM
I generally just ask and just be respectful. Hasn't failed me so far.

harmsup_jai
08-09-2022, 04:00 PM
I am always touching but I ask first before doing so but I always ask first before doing so and I never had anyone reject me

im at a point it comes natural for me to do it without hesitation and the really fun begins when I manage to get them to agree to FS .

i would say I have a 70-80% success rate

lam
08-09-2022, 07:15 PM
I am always touching but I ask first before doing so but I always ask first before doing so and I never had anyone reject me

im at a point it comes natural for me to do it without hesitation and the really fun begins when I manage to get them to agree to FS .

i would say I have a 70-80% success rate

Do you suggest FS or do you wait for them to suggest it?