What made you have a regular ML/WL?

[lam]

I’ve been wondering what makes you guys stick to a particular ML/WL? As opposed to trying a variety? Is it something about the lady ?

I felt like I haven’t wanted a regular before but wondered if it was a me thing or I just haven’t had the right lady.

[birch]

I prefer predictability quite often, but not always. Certainly I've come across a small handful of ML's who's stories I somehow connect with and this turns into some kind of friendship that is worth pursuing (naturally, with some benefits which to me, are at least good value!)

[Hemingford Gray]

I think is more related to chemistry and compatibility. In my case, what I look in a girl is high sex drive, not submissive. If the WL fucks you back and I can see a genuine connection then she becomes my regular. Is not easy to find but fortunately I have a couple to meet the criteria.

[1inchguy]

I think is more related to chemistry and compatibility. In my case, what I look in a girl is high sex drive, not submissive. If the WL fucks you back and I can see a genuine connection then she becomes my regular. Is not easy to find but fortunately I have a couple to meet the criteria.

This is the way.
Does anyone have regulars for different things?

[Sibon]

Reliability of service. You know what you'll be getting.

I started to see one regularly since about 2 years ago when I first started punting

In every session it started with me sitting on the massage table she would stand close with one of her knees on the table. She would talk to me , rustle my hair and kiss me. Kissing a ML and being kissed are different experiences.

No other MLs would start the session like this with me.

We don't move from a commercial transaction to boyfriend/girlfriend situation although I have been to her place a few nights.

The downside is that she knows I see her exclusively and starts to be possessive.

[cuteguy]

Reliability of service. You know what you'll be getting.

I started to see one regularly since about 2 years ago when I first started punting

In every session it started with me sitting on the massage table she would stand close with one of her knees on the table. She would talk to me , rustle my hair and kiss me. Kissing a ML and being kissed are different experiences.

No other MLs would start the session like this with me.

We don't move from a commercial transaction to boyfriend/girlfriend situation although I have been to her place a few nights.

The downside is that she knows I see her exclusively and starts to be possessive. She gets upset if I take a break and not seeing her for a few weeks.

What's the difference between kissing a ML and being kissed by a ML?

Some MLs will kiss regulars because they get comfortable and want to keep them as a regular customer. These days having a steady cash flow from a reliable and frequently visiting customer is gold!

[asiafever]

What's the difference between kissing a ML and being kissed by a ML?

Some MLs will kiss regulars because they get comfortable and want to keep them as a regular customer. These days having a steady cash flow from a reliable and frequently visiting customer is gold!

The difference I would suggest is that one is reciprocal and the other is not, as in when you are kissing and the girl is obviously not in to it vs when you are both kissing. Similar to an active partner and a starfish, sure both are "sex" but they are not the same.
Agree, good operators know that regulars are like a base salary, if you have 'chosen' your regulars well they will be low maintenance, no tight arses, know your boundaries and respect them etc. In a tight market like Sydney where there's a shop around every corner, providing a stock standard service and expecting to have a slew of regulars is the height of optimism.

[lam]

I prefer predictability quite often, but not always. Certainly I've come across a small handful of ML's who's stories I somehow connect with and this turns into some kind of friendship that is worth pursuing (naturally, with some benefits which to me, are at least good value!)

I wonder if it is because of language barriers or cause I usually donÂ’t initiate too much causal conversations. I havenÂ’t really connected with anyone except one Western girl at 42G

[lam]

Reliability of service. You know what you'll be getting.

I started to see one regularly since about 2 years ago when I first started punting

In every session it started with me sitting on the massage table she would stand close with one of her knees on the table. She would talk to me , rustle my hair and kiss me. Kissing a ML and being kissed are different experiences.

No other MLs would start the session like this with me.

We don't move from a commercial transaction to boyfriend/girlfriend situation although I have been to her place a few nights.

The downside is that she knows I see her exclusively and starts to be possessive.

How did she become possessive? Like wanted to see you more?

[Sibon]

Being a regular may give you some perks.

Once I was near the reception table I heard a ML telling the receptionist to cancel a booking to give it to her regular.

And discounts. Sometimes I'm getting $30 less than the standard rates.

[Themassageking]

I've had the same regular for over 3 years.

[rubztugzme]

Consistency. You know exactly what you will be getting.

[dotcumdotinyou]

I don't have regulars, I have a number of fall backs. If I have a bad punt I go see a fall back, someone I know will give me excellent service. This way you can experiment with the new girls and know you have some reliable girls to go back to if it goes tits up

[17012430]

I’ll see an ML once a week if she can crack my back

[Rhonus]

I've had a regular for 3 years started in a brothel then she moved to massage she calls me her boyfriend but at times I feel more like a customer she does kiss me but sometimes I wonder if it's genuine I've only been to her place once nono sex I think the better option is to see a few W/ls no expectations and probably cheaper as a regular may cost you a lot money.

[asam46]

I like the chemistry of a regular ML. If you get along and have some mutual respect you can usually get a much better GFE. One of my regular ML’s doesn’t even massage me anymore, we just make out and play.

[cuteguy]

I've had a regular for 3 years started in a brothel then she moved to massage she calls me her boyfriend but at times I feel more like a customer she does kiss me but sometimes I wonder if it's genuine I've only been to her place once nono sex I think the better option is to see a few W/ls no expectations and probably cheaper as a regular may cost you a lot money.

Does she kiss you on the lips or on the cheeks?

[asiafever]

I used to have regulars, but that was mainly because the service and experience I had with them every time was out-fucking-standing. There can be drawbacks though. Rule #1 - Remember Icarus, don't fly too close to the sun. Rule #2 - Don't let complacency creep in, from either of you.
Remember too, familiarity can breed contempt, so like dotcum said it's good to have fallbacks rather than regulars per se.
Don't become a cash cow for a girl, and always keep the nature of your relationship strictly business (that doesn't mean you can't have fun, just remember when the clock runs out and it's time to go, it was all just fantasy.)
Now days I have regular shops rather than girls, shops I know I'm going to get looked after and the girls are usually great. Having a good rapport with management can mean they'll tell you who they think is suited to you and who isn't.

[priapus1966]

I used to have regulars, but that was mainly because the service and experience I had with them every time was out-fucking-standing. There can be drawbacks though. Rule #1 - Remember Icarus, don't fly too close to the sun. Rule #2 - Don't let complacency creep in, from either of you.
Remember too, familiarity can breed contempt, so like dotcum said it's good to have fallbacks rather than regulars per se.
Don't become a cash cow for a girl, and always keep the nature of your relationship strictly business (that doesn't mean you can't have fun, just remember when the clock runs out and it's time to go, it was all just fantasy.)
Now days I have regular shops rather than girls, shops I know I'm going to get looked after and the girls are usually great. Having a good rapport with management can mean they'll tell you who they think is suited to you and who isn't.

This summary makes a lot of sense. Apart from service and a 'connection' I prefer as a regular, an intelligent ML that I can communicate with easily. Currently I have a regular who I see every 10 days or so and in between I like to see someone new, but from a small selection of shops.

More than 20 years ago I had a regular for several years, apart from the fact that her service was very good, she was also a full time teacher and married; those facts I suspect, made it easier to keep the relationship friendly but business. Long 'retired' from ML work, she is now a deputy Principal and in charge of the Maths Dept at a High School.

[beta101]

Get a wife if you want the same dish lol

Punting is about increasing your woman fucked count!

[asiafever]

This summary makes a lot of sense. Apart from service and a 'connection' I prefer as a regular, an intelligent ML that I can communicate with easily. Currently I have a regular who I see every 10 days or so and in between I like to see someone new, but from a small selection of shops.

More than 20 years ago I had a regular for several years, apart from the fact that her service was very good, she was also a full time teacher and married; those facts I suspect, made it easier to keep the relationship friendly but business. Long 'retired' from ML work, she is now a deputy Principal and in charge of the Maths Dept at a High School.

Colour me intrigued, DP and head of maths former ML? She sounds exactly like the kind of woman who would pique my interest. I have a thing for cute brainiacs. Former Selective School girls in particular.

I do agree what I miss about those regulars was the ease of communication, the laughs, the fact that at a certain point there was no need to ask anything, it was just natural...

[JJBlows]

Good banter, conversations and some form of attraction but the key factor for me is sexual compatibility, nothing better than having that good reciprocal sex all for pleasure, you know you leave a happy man.

[Rooster18]

Connection, attraction and sexual connection.. (All for an agreed value)..

Otherwise, go and find a girlfriend.. (Naa.. punting is just so much simpler.). wish I punted when I was in my twenties instead trying so hard at bars and clubs on the weekends.

Truth be told, I actually think it is quite hard to find MLs or WLs that ticks all the boxes to become a regular esp as we become more picky.. I know I have.

[lam]

Connection, attraction and sexual connection.. (All for an agreed value)..

Otherwise, go and find a girlfriend.. (Naa.. punting is just so much simpler.). wish I punted when I was in my twenties instead trying so hard at bars and clubs on the weekends.

Truth be told, I actually think it is quite hard to find MLs or WLs that ticks all the boxes to become a regular esp as we become more picky.. I know I have.

I think I agree, I have not found one that’s ticked all the boxes yet

[Sibon]

Truth be told, I actually think it is quite hard to find MLs or WLs that ticks all the boxes to become a regular esp as we become more picky.. I know I have.

I've been trying to find the second regular for months without luck.

I'm not looking for a gorgeous one or one with killer figure. I'm just looking for someone who likes me and offers her body to me generously like my first regular ML.

It would look like a waste of time, money and energy. But without venturing we never know.

[Rhonus]

She kisses me on the lips

[HardCore]

I used to have regulars, but that was mainly because the service and experience I had with them every time was out-fucking-standing. There can be drawbacks though. Rule #1 - Remember Icarus, don't fly too close to the sun. Rule #2 - Don't let complacency creep in, from either of you.
Remember too, familiarity can breed contempt, so like dotcum said it's good to have fallbacks rather than regulars per se.
Don't become a cash cow for a girl, and always keep the nature of your relationship strictly business (that doesn't mean you can't have fun, just remember when the clock runs out and it's time to go, it was all just fantasy.)
Now days I have regular shops rather than girls, shops I know I'm going to get looked after and the girls are usually great. Having a good rapport with management can mean they'll tell you who they think is suited to you and who isn't.

This is spot on asiafever. Build rapport with the shop Management and you'll get well looked after by all the girls you see there cause the Management will tell the girls to look after you. The fall back girl is a good option when you want to go with a girl and you know what your going to get.

[1inchguy]

I've had a regular for 3 years started in a brothel then she moved to massage she calls me her boyfriend but at times I feel more like a customer she does kiss me but sometimes I wonder if it's genuine I've only been to her place once nono sex I think the better option is to see a few W/ls no expectations and probably cheaper as a regular may cost you a lot money.

I would think this is an act unfortunately. Few ml call me their boyfriend and best bf ever etc which made me uncomfortable cause i know its full of crap. I wonder do they like to hear "OMG you best fuck better then wife and girlfriend"




Truth be told, I actually think it is quite hard to find MLs or WLs that ticks all the boxes to become a regular esp as we become more picky.. I know I have.

Hence why we have few regulars for different occasions. If we happen to find one ML/WL that ticks all the boxes then it would be trouble cause if they happen to disappear,leave or get attach its gonna be hard to fill that void.


Build rapport with the shop Management and you'll get well looked after by all the girls you see there cause the Management will tell the girls to look after you. The fall back girl is a good option when you want to go with a girl and you know what your going to get.

This is true, i had few girls telling me this however not all girls share the same view as management. There was this girl i was seeing regularly and i came in out of the blue and she told me how glad i came to see her cause it saves her from seeing some other punter management told her to see and she doesn't like that punter. Unfortunately girls can say no to management?

[Warrabong]

I enjoy the look of her ass when I’m pounding her doggy. Just the right amount to hang on to

[Rhonus]

Interesting post if you went to a boyfriend/girlfriend situation what would be your expectations.as I am in that situation but still pay for the service

[JJBlows]

Interesting post if you went to a boyfriend/girlfriend situation what would be your expectations.as I am in that situation but still pay for the service

Leave bro, if she going to charge you for sex then fuck Her off, all I can say is that if you get extra perks by being with her in her bed and still have to pay then enjoy it but you should be playing your own game and not hers - do things like if she wants to see you then you see her at time of your convience, don't always be too available for her, if your hanging out and want to leave because you got somewhere to be but she wants to have sex with you and you still gotta pay then walk out, see other ML etc. There is no point in classing this a GF/BF because she is in a win win situation, she still gets money from you but also gets the boyfriend experience/validation because she is lonely and you get Jack shit apart from a extra perk. If she has a whinge about it then shut her down and remind her that is not how BG/GF works. She leaves and doesn't contact you well then move on because you dodged a bullet compared to the ones who will fight for you as they actually like you and you may get somewhere better with her

Just play her along for your own advantages and see what else she can do for you whilst she's with you, as soon as you leave her place then you do you

[Rhonus]

Thanks for the good advice unfortunately I’m in my 60s and I’ve foolishly given her a lot of money on loan, hoping to get it back,so I can’t really walk way at the moment,probably won’t get it back but have to tryAs far I can tell the only extra I get is going straight to no 3 and kissing always calls me her boyfriend had booking with her the other day made me wait an xtra 30 min while she finished some other guy off when she knew I had limited time I give her $200 most of the time plus the shop fee pretty dumb hey she expects this every time not sure what other guys are paying her for the same service

[Rhonus]

Just to add to my previous post she never invites me to her place I’m pretty sure my age is an issue except when comes to handing over money she’s not that young probably 30s to 40s but has got me by the short and curlies and no’s it

[JJBlows]

Thanks for the good advice unfortunately I’m in my 60s and I’ve foolishly given her a lot of money on loan, hoping to get it back,so I can’t really walk way at the moment,probably won’t get it back but have to tryAs far I can tell the only extra I get is going straight to no 3 and kissing always calls me her boyfriend had booking with her the other day made me wait an xtra 30 min while she finished some other guy off when she knew I had limited time I give her $200 most of the time plus the shop fee pretty dumb hey she expects this every time not sure what other guys are paying her for the same service

Move on from her, she's sounds like many of the girls who are head fucks and she's not worth it. At the end of the day who looks after who? - yourself. She knows exactly what she is doing and is making the most of it. So what if she kisses you and calls you boyfriend we both know it's bullshit, I even give it back to them.

When I was in my early twenties a milf escort gave me advice which I use to this day if I was to get involved with any girl working or not, "never be too available for a girl and never be too much of a nice guy to her as they learn to take advantage of that, sometimes you have to be a dick to them".

Whether you gave her money or spend money on her, it's money still lost. Should make it easier to walk away from her

[cuteguy]

It can never be a bf/gf relationship if you're paying for sex and you've never stepped foot in her place. If she only wants to see you at the shop and nowhere else then it's all business for her. If you've given money to help her out in the hope she'll return it then it's more likely the 'loan' will never be returned.

[asam46]

Thanks for the good advice unfortunately I’m in my 60s and I’ve foolishly given her a lot of money on loan, hoping to get it back,so I can’t really walk way at the moment,probably won’t get it back but have to tryAs far I can tell the only extra I get is going straight to no 3 and kissing always calls me her boyfriend had booking with her the other day made me wait an xtra 30 min while she finished some other guy off when she knew I had limited time I give her $200 most of the time plus the shop fee pretty dumb hey she expects this every time not sure what other guys are paying her for the same service

Mate - the money is gone and this seems deeply unhealthy for you. Please, there are amazing sweet girls out there who would never do this. It may seem harsh but hunt around and find another couple of MLs and build some mutual respect. As soon as you realise another ML can make you feel this good or better, you’ll feel better about yourself and get a better perspective.

[Rhonus]

Thanks guys for all the advice pity I hadn't gotten on to this forum a long time ago I wouldn't be in this situation now unfortunately I did tell this girl I had fallen for her not the best move.

[DayMan69]

Rhonus, the boys above are giving you good advice here.

My own two cents as an unengaged bystander is that your lady is hard. Too hard for a BF/GF situation. She has stone for a heart if she can take big money from you and then still charge in the shop, make you wait while she services some other bloke and generally be a bit of a cow. Do you really want that bullshit in your life?

People like this will just suck you dry. The sad truth is that your loan is gone. She's a great actress, not a great GF. Try this; on your next visit, tell her an investment of yours has taken a hit and can she work off your loan by taking care of you in the shop for free. Words to that effect. If that pisses her off in some form then you know what she is: a gold digger who has zero feelings for you. We on the forum already know what she is, but you need to prove it for yourself so you can take the decisive next step.

Take a deep breath, and walk away. You've just done a very expensive Harvard degree in women.

The good news is that are literally dozens of milfs in suburban shops who will enjoy your company and give you a good rogering. Explore the shops in your surrounding area. That will rebuild your spirits a little. You could also bang a couple of the young Thai hotties in some of the great shops mentioned here in. That will definitely raise your spirits too. But a lively suburban milf at your age is probably the real long term answer.

[Rhonus]

Thanks for the advice I’ll find walking away hard to do but in the long run I no it’s the only answer she’s Chinese and knows the right things to say to me we do have great sex but then that’s what you pay for I don’t think me leaving her would have much impact on her life as she works 7 days a week no time for boyfriends money money money,,,,,,,

[JohnJones]

Thanks for the advice I’ll find walking away hard to do but in the long run I no it’s the only answer she’s Chinese and knows the right things to say to me we do have great sex but then that’s what you pay for I don’t think me leaving her would have much impact on her life as she works 7 days a week no time for boyfriends money money money,,,,,,,

Chinese... They always come up with the same excuses - no time for boyfriend, I need to be greedy and suck all the money I can in the world.

For Chinese people, face is more important than relationship. Some Chinese WLs showed me the items they're shopping around - $10k Cartier bangles. And I just told them what if someone comes up to you and says that Cartier is fake? Of course she gets the shits right after.

Why do you want to make an ML/WL your girlfriend? Are you aiming for a relationship where you'll have kids together or are you just wanting to get a girlfriend to cope with loneliness?

Any girl you date, sex worker or not, will always make you feel lonely 5 days a week at least. She is not there as your sex toy. You need to learn how to live a lonely life unattached to people. To be honest in my previous marriage there were times I didn't even want to be with my ex-wife or sleep with her. When she went back to her home country for 2 weeks it was almost like heaven to me as I can see other girls without creating any suspicions.

In my current relationship I made sure that my partner accepted my proposals. When I asked her to be my GF she said yes, when I proposed to her to be my fiancee she also said yes. Because before I met her I had an ML ex who made our relationship vague, wanted me to buy a $2mil apartment in Darling Harbour for us to live together yet rejected my marriage proposal. I left and never saw her again. You can't have vague relationships, it must be clear between both parties what is the goal of the relationship and if any open relationship arrangements (seeing other people while in the relationship) can happen without it being kept a secret.

I'm currently in an open relationship but I had made a promise to the partner that I proposed that once we get married I will stop seeing other girls. We agreed on having kids, and that I will focus on them both. And she didn't protest against me going to brothels since she knows it's purely just for the sex.

Not saying you should also be in an open relationship but you need to make your relationship goals clear and be okay with only getting intimate one or twice a week at most. And don't fall for bitches who make your relationship with her sound vague.

[jamesbond007]

Being an older punter now, over 50, I normally make them a regular if their younger in age, 22 or less, into dfk, BBBJ, Cim, Daty. 5 visits is about where I would call it done, but a gem is hard to find like that. The only other regulars I've had over the years, and it has happened twice, have come from legit massage places, where overtime things progressed beyond massage, no extra money was charged or offered, and both times with ladies in their 40s, and developed out of common interest, communication, and mutual attraction.

[Double_Adapter]

Chinese... They always come up with the same excuses - no time for boyfriend, I need to be greedy and suck all the money I can in the world.

For Chinese people, face is more important than relationship. Some Chinese WLs showed me the items they're shopping around - $10k Cartier bangles. And I just told them what if someone comes up to you and says that Cartier is fake? Of course she gets the shits right after.

Why do you want to make an ML/WL your girlfriend? Are you aiming for a relationship where you'll have kids together or are you just wanting to get a girlfriend to cope with loneliness?

Any girl you date, sex worker or not, will always make you feel lonely 5 days a week at least. She is not there as your sex toy. You need to learn how to live a lonely life unattached to people. To be honest in my previous marriage there were times I didn't even want to be with my ex-wife or sleep with her. When she went back to her home country for 2 weeks it was almost like heaven to me as I can see other girls without creating any suspicions.

In my current relationship I made sure that my partner accepted my proposals. When I asked her to be my GF she said yes, when I proposed to her to be my fiancee she also said yes. Because before I met her I had an ML ex who made our relationship vague, wanted me to buy a $2mil apartment in Darling Harbour for us to live together yet rejected my marriage proposal. I left and never saw her again. You can't have vague relationships, it must be clear between both parties what is the goal of the relationship and if any open relationship arrangements (seeing other people while in the relationship) can happen without it being kept a secret.

I'm currently in an open relationship but I had made a promise to the partner that I proposed that once we get married I will stop seeing other girls. We agreed on having kids, and that I will focus on them both. And she didn't protest against me going to brothels since she knows it's purely just for the sex.

Not saying you should also be in an open relationship but you need to make your relationship goals clear and be okay with only getting intimate one or twice a week at most. And don't fall for bitches who make your relationship with her sound vague.

Fax!

I've met a few in my day that absolutely worship money, and I say to them is "money without free time is worthless and free time without money is pointless" - make money but also enjoy it and don't slave yourself saving it for that rainy day as you might not get to see out that rainy day.

100% right in that there are a lot of dudes that are lonely and will pay $150-$500 for an hour of intimacy with a stranger - fuck that mindset! There's a big difference between being ALONE and being LONELY. Know the difference, one is physical and the other is psychological. If you work on the psychological one, the physical one becomes irrelevant!. Far too many beta simps that lack testicular fortitude.

All men are lions and have the potential to run, roam and hunt in the wild like a lion, the problem is most have been locked up in a cage and have become domesticated, lazy and complacent.

Keep spittin' them truths Mr Jones - eventually some of these pussy cats might be set free from their cages.

[Rooster18]

Lions with cash is the king of the Jungle in this punting world!

Time is finite too so enjoy while it last or while u have the cash to. Everything else is irreverent.