Line up etiquette

[wolfman88]

Let’s say you’ve eye-balled a shop for a while. You’ve seen the ‘Open’ neon light flashing well past 6. Has all the hallmarks of a RnT place. You call ahead and ask who’s working and the mamasan starts telling you that they are all busty/sexy/good massage, who is available at what time, and they start telling you prices and you feel like you’ve just called up a Used Car Yard. You tell the mamasan that you want to see the ladies first and she sort of acknowledges and you agree on a time to come in for your one hour of power.

You walk in and remind the mamasan of the phone conversation. In my case, it’s normally minutes, if not seconds, before I walk in the door. She leads you to a room and you see a work bench and a box of tissues, lights slightly dimmed and you know the sign on the wall about services is an absolute lie. Only to have someone walk into the room and lock the door behind you and now all of a sudden you are stuck with whoever has walked in and you either feel rude to ask who else is working or you grow a set and ask anyway and they use a language barrier to pretend they don’t understand and you end up going down the path of accepting fate and the whole session is awkward. You try to make small talk and you start to realise her English isn’t bad at all but you just sweep that under the rug.

10/10 this will happen if I see a random place and just call up and walk in with no research. Does this happen to anyone else? What do you do?

[asam46]

People keep asking a variation of this question recently.

Walk. Walk away! It’s your time and money! There are other shops nearby! They won’t bar you from the shop, you’re welcome to go another day and try again.

Be suspicious if you’re asked to hand over money before seeing the girl. Straight up ask “can I see the girl” 5 words that empower you and ensure your satisfaction! If she’s OK, ask for less time. If she’s gorgeous, ask for more time. If she’s not your type ask if there’s another girl, or, you guessed it, walk!

If it’s a massage place and you feel a bit frisky ask the ML what’s on offer too - before you start. Don’t like her answer? Ask for another girl, or walk!

Please, don’t go through your life paying for massages you know you won’t fully enjoy. Please try out new places and girls, but remember you’re the customer.

Signed,

A once cowardly man who had a massage and hand job from a lady in her 60’s* that he really wasn’t into.



*Nothing wrong with older women, you do you, let me do 25 year old Chinese girls, no, no AR from me or PMs of details because the shop is closed and maybe she is retired now?

[Hogrider]

People keep asking a variation of this question recently.

Walk. Walk away! ItÂ’s your time and money! There are other shops nearby! They wonÂ’t bar you from the shop, youÂ’re welcome to go another day and try again.

Be suspicious if you’re asked to hand over money before seeing the girl. Straight up ask “can I see the girl” 5 words that empower you and ensure your satisfaction! If she’s OK, ask for less time. If she’s gorgeous, ask for more time. If she’s not your type ask if there’s another girl, or, you guessed it, walk!

If itÂ’s a massage place and you feel a bit frisky ask the ML whatÂ’s on offer too - before you start. DonÂ’t like her answer? Ask for another girl, or walk!

Please, donÂ’t go through your life paying for massages you know you wonÂ’t fully enjoy. Please try out new places and girls, but remember youÂ’re the customer.

Signed,

A once cowardly man who had a massage and hand job from a lady in her 60Â’s* that he really wasnÂ’t into.



*Nothing wrong with older women, you do you, let me do 25 year old Chinese girls, no, no AR from me or PMs of details because the shop is closed and maybe she is retired now?

PREACH !!

After having realised that soon after starting my journey , I now go by almost all of these Â…

Well said brother

[cuteguy]

Had that experience a few times in the past where you call upfront if there are many girls and the mamasan says yes. Then you arrive and get taken to a room with just one girl walking in and wanting you to take off your clothes. At that point, I politely tell the girl that I would like to see a lineup. The mamasan comes in to determine if there is anything wrong and I ask for a lineup. If no more girls then I walk away if I don't like the girl offered. When you say you're about to walk away, guess what happens? Another girl or two suddenly becomes available. Then you can choose.

Guys, don't be suckers and accept the first girl that is offered. It's your money so you should have a right to choose a girl if there are a few available.

[wolfman88]

Cracker responses

Good to hear I’m not the only one

I gotta get a bit more cut throat when it comes to getting what I want at these joints

[cuteguy]

Cracker responses

Good to hear I’m not the only one

I gotta get a bit more cut throat when it comes to getting what I want at these joints

Of course! Don't be a jerk or rude towards the mamasan but be firm and show you won't be treated like a desperate fool. Next time she will know she won't take advantage of you or best go somewhere else where you can see a lineup or the mamasan is friendly and accommodating.

[asam46]

Of course! Don't be a jerk or rude towards the mamasan but be firm and show you won't be treated like a desperate fool. Next time she will know she won't take advantage of you or best go somewhere else where you can see a lineup or the mamasan is friendly and accommodating.

Absolutely. Always be respectful.

[Nelly69]

sounds like Dragon lady at 130 DreamGirls. lol

[asam46]

sounds like Dragon lady at 130 DreamGirls. lol

I don’t know this place, but if the manager treats customers like crap, how do they treat the girls?