Do you give your real name to MLs?

[Sibon]

The first time I went to a massage parlour at the end of the session the ML suddenly sprang a question at me: "What is your name"?

I was speechless for a few minutes then I thought of Karate Kid. I told her it was Daniel.

I don't think she would believe because it took me too long to come up with it.

"When in doubt think of Daniel San." - Miyagi Sensei.

[kamo]

Being Australian, the only options surely are either Davo or Mick

[Aussieguyinsf]

I do. Who gives a fuck? One less lie to keep track of.

[Sibon]

I do. Who gives a fuck? One less lie to keep track of.

"Karate teaches you honesty." - Miyagi Sensei.

[1inchguy]

I do. Who gives a fuck? One less lie to keep track of.

i always use my real name and the girls remember me. But sometimes i worry the girls talk about me or that if i see other girls their services changes cause i saw someone else?

[ReginaldBubbles]

But sometimes i worry the girls talk about me

They do. I made the mistake of sending a selfie to girl at one shop after she asked me to. Then other girls at the same shop recognised me because she'd been asking the other girls if I saw them too.

[Azzkikr]

The first time I went to a massage parlour at the end of the session the ML suddenly sprang a question at me: "What is your name"?

I was speechless for a few minutes then I thought of Karate Kid. I told her it was Daniel.

I don't think she would believe because it took me too long to come up with it.

"When in doubt think of Daniel San." - Miyagi Sensei.

……. and then you woke up? :smile:

[Double_Adapter]

Sounds like the famous Cobra Kai massage parlour. Once the cobras are released from their enclosure, the girls stroke the cobras, and the cobras spit their venom into their hands. In the background you can hear the mamasan barking orders oil on....oil off.

[GoldfishMan]

I do. Who gives a fuck? One less lie to keep track of.

Exactly. Last thing you want is you're out with the missus and some random girl shouts right at you using your fake name. You're busted on the spot, no chance of a recovery "story".

[CFH]

no i've never done this. always use some fake name then try not to crack up laughing if they moan it out loud.

[cumquat]

The first time I went to a massage parlour at the end of the session the ML suddenly sprang a question at me: "What is your name"?

I was speechless for a few minutes then I thought of Karate Kid. I told her it was Daniel.

I don't think she would believe because it took me too long to come up with it.

"When in doubt think of Daniel San." - Miyagi Sensei.

I just say I’m the creepy got with the camera and fish tank obsession who usually like to photograph my mummy … SIBON .. works well and then show her the posts , in case she’s uncertain . Never see them again.. weird

[aussiegaigin]

Exactly. Last thing you want is you're out with the missus and some random girl shouts right at you using your fake name. You're busted on the spot, no chance of a recovery "story".
I'd prefer that to the girl blurting out my real name. At least you can easily claim she mistook you for someone else. Of course, hopefully, any ML/WL would be discreet and ignore you regardless.

[Sibon]

Sounds like the famous Cobra Kai massage parlour. Once the cobras are released from their enclosure, the girls stroke the cobras, and the cobras spit their venom into their hands. In the background you can hear the mamasan barking orders oil on....oil off.

I kind of like "Kai". It's a nice masculine name and sounds oriental.

Maybe I'll start using it next time.

I like it when a ML says, "Kai come and f me hard." :)

[Sibon]

They do. I made the mistake of sending a selfie to girl at one shop after she asked me to. Then other girls at the same shop recognised me because she'd been asking the other girls if I saw them too.

"Impress girls many by standing with one leg like a crane.
But impress few girls with handsome photos.
Karate is magic.
Karate is not look." - Miyagi Sensei.

[Hemingford Gray]

They do. I made the mistake of sending a selfie to girl at one shop after she asked me to. Then other girls at the same shop recognised me because she'd been asking the other girls if I saw them too.

Ouch. That was an unwise move for sure.

[ucokrajameong]

Only to the ones that give me their real name, mobile number, social media. And obviously only with the ones I regularly see (otherwise i wont know their number, etc)

[warwick1]

I kind of like "Kai". It's a nice masculine name and sounds oriental.

Maybe I'll start using it next time.

I like it when a ML says, "Kai come and f me hard." :)

Maybe "Dipshit", "Numbnut" or maybe "Nutjob" for you??

[waynekerr]

When I tell them I'm a Wayne Kerr they give me that "Yeah, I thought so" look.

waynek

[woods23]

I just point at my shoe..that way they can remember me easier( few times the girls don't remember but remember my shoe :p haha) But I rarely get ask for my name anyway

[Sibon]

I just point at my shoe..that way they can remember me easier( few times the girls don't remember but remember my shoe :p haha) But I rarely get ask for my name anyway.

Shoe could be a Chinese surname. Mr. Shoe. :)

[woods23]

Shoe could be a Chinese surname. Mr. Shoe. :)

That's a bad name for a Chinese " wear old shoe" :shout:

[Jabberwocky]

In my opinion, it is a bad idea to give out any identifiable information. I doubt the MLs/WLs give you their real names etc. Why not just enjoy the session and leave it to that?

[ColesBag]

Real name to a hooker? yeah, nah.

[ditchtheboss]

I do. Also exchanged photos with some of them on their request and had a few in my car so they could have gotten the number plate, but so could anyone else on the street.

Nothing to loose, single and punt way too much despite past intentions to quit. So why bother to hide anything.

[11Bravo]

Exactly. Last thing you want is you're out with the missus and some random girl shouts right at you using your fake name. You're busted on the spot, no chance of a recovery "story".Disagree. An incorrect name provides plausible deniability, just a shrug of the shoulders to your other.


I'd prefer that to the girl blurting out my real name. At least you can easily claim she mistook you for someone else. Of course, hopefully, any ML/WL would be discreet and ignore you regardless.Where I was a resident, I did use a nom de guerre, one that the PRC's gave me. Easy to remember for all of us.

However, here in Aus, I have been using my real name. I'm too lazy to set up a different WeChat account, and it's a bit hard to waffle when my name is right there (use it both for friends and friends).

My experience, most all do ignore you, at most a nod that could be to anyone (I do the same). But my first Thai gf in Bangkok, 5, 6 years later, did shout out my real name (before I switched to my nom de guerre). I just ignored, gave my friends a "I have no idea", and walked on.

[Sibon]

I always tell the MLs my name is Sibon.

It means "So good" in French. :)

[madness123]

That was about to be my joke! Well played sir.

[warwick1]

I always tell the MLs my name is Sibon.

It means "So good" in French. :)

But it's also a Sth American species of snake which is more appropriate

[Azzkikr]

I always tell the MLs my name is Sibon.

It means "So good" in French. :)

Of course I give them my real name, i give them my address too so they know where they can get their fish tanks cleaned :miao:

[17012430]

I just point at my shoe..that way they can remember me easier( few times the girls don't remember but remember my shoe :p haha) But I rarely get ask for my name anyway

"Hello R.M. Williams so good to see you again!"

I have a generic three letter name I give (not mine). I've punted so many times at this point he feels like a whole other identity.

[Warrabong]

Why give your real name. You don’t get theirs

[andrewv]

For a long time I used the first name of a former boss who I disliked a lot.

In reality why give your real name to a working girl who is, understandably, using a fake name herself....!!!

[gco0307]

Yes - to a degree.
I give the shortened version of my name and never had any issues with it - given I only give the first name

[GoldfishMan]

Why give your real name. You don’t get theirs
Big assumption there, not getting their real names. I'm not encouraging anyone to be more open than they currently are, but maybe we can appreciate how a person can really open up once the opposite party has opened up.

It's a bit like "show me yours and I'll show you mine". Sometimes the wall remains because both parties cannot let go of it. Doesn't happen all the time, but I've had a fair few who have opened up once they knew I wasn't hiding anything.

[Seafood]

If you use pay Id, you see their name, they see yours

[11Bravo]

Big assumption there, not getting their real names. I'm not encouraging anyone to be more open than they currently are, but maybe we can appreciate how a person can really open up once the opposite party has opened up.

It's a bit like "show me yours and I'll show you mine". Sometimes the wall remains because both parties cannot let go of it. Doesn't happen all the time, but I've had a fair few who have opened up once they knew I wasn't hiding anything.
If you get her PERSONAL WeChat, chances that will have her real name, or at least the name that her civilian friends know her by. Everyone I know has only one WeChat account, including me. You can create your own name, but that will be the name EVERYONE knows you by. Also, talk about being open, anyone can view one's moments...(and a personal one won't have today's roster...)

[Climax598]

If you get her PERSONAL WeChat, chances that will have her real name, or at least the name that her civilian friends know her by. Everyone I know has only one WeChat account, including me. You can create your own name, but that will be the name EVERYONE knows you by. Also, talk about being open, anyone can view one's moments...(and a personal one won't have today's roster...)
Only if you have 2/3 phones like many WL have, so you have 2/3 wechat. One for business in OZ, one private in OZ, one from home country. All the phones are latest iphone with different colours cover.

[rubit moore]

Why give your real name. You don’t get theirs

Exactly. I’ve said ‘Castrol’ or even ‘Sid Chrome’ before hahaha. Oooh nice tool Meester Sid Chrome haha.

[HarrysReasons]

Use my Nickname only

[andrewv]

Given we accept that these ladies selling their bodies for our cash are, understandably, using false names... it only makes sense that we (men) too should use false names.
It is a form of keeping everyone's privacy.

[LBW1959]

Most MLs couldn't care less what your name is, and don't ask. Even if they have only 5 customers a day, that's around 30 per week. After a month she's not going to remember you.....unless you've given her a spectacular orgasm or visit the same girl every week.

[woodland]

"Hello R.M. Williams so good to see you again!"

I have a generic three letter name I give (not mine). I've punted so many times at this point he feels like a whole other identity.

This with me too. I use a generic Anglo name to WLs, have always used the same one.
There have been a few occasions where I have used my real name, but only to girls I feel a strong attraction to. They are usually part time WLs / uni student types.

[rubit moore]

....unless you've given her a spectacular orgasm.

Fuck that’s most of the bro’s on here then going by their reports :miao:

[Chitsu_koibito]

My first time was with a mate and had a chitchat with the receptionist before we left. The girl was really good so I booked her for next week. When receptionist asked my name I told her its Alex which was my mate's name. Since then Alex is my punting name

[Double_Adapter]

Exactly. I’ve said ‘Castrol’ or even ‘Sid Chrome’ before hahaha. Oooh nice tool Meester Sid Chrome haha.


One of these should get you some brownie points - Panjeet, Well Hung, Hung Lo, Sum-Ting Long, Long-Fat Cok, Pookie, Ray Ray, Chad, Tyrone.

If she asks what you do for a living, say you're a happiness consultant.

[jbrowz]

Fake name and a burner phone too

[ColesBag]

If you use pay Id, you see their name, they see yours

Cash only. Always.

[andrewv]

Most MLs couldn't care less what your name is, and don't ask. Even if they have only 5 customers a day, that's around 30 per week. After a month she's not going to remember you.....unless you've given her a spectacular orgasm or visit the same girl every week.

I don’t mean to rain on your parade, but I suggest that 99.99% of the “spectacular orgasms” are fake and acted out to boost the customers’ ego trips.

God hasn’t yet created working girls that have endless orgasms with many clients— daily!

However, I’m pretty sure if you’re a big tipper then the girls will remember you for sure. The same goes with waiters and waitresses at restaurants. They certainly remember big tipping clients.

[LBW1959]

I don’t mean to rain on your parade, but I suggest that 99.99% of the “spectacular orgasms” are fake and acted out to boost the customers’ ego trips.

Hey Andrew, yes, completely agree with you here. Certainly a lot of the ooohs and aahhhs are designed purely to get the punter coming back for another session. Positive reinforcement psychology.
And the obvious fakers who are otherwise just going through the motions are a real turn-off. However when I have a girl grinding her pussy into my face and I have to wipe the juices off my chin afterwards, I'm pretty sure she was enjoying herself. :slobber:

[Jacxz7]

Nah, never.. I use John, James, Jack, Jim, Joe, or sometimes just J. you got the point

[1inchguy]

I don’t mean to rain on your parade, but I suggest that 99.99% of the “spectacular orgasms” are fake and acted out to boost the customers’ ego trips.

God hasn’t yet created working girls that have endless orgasms with many clients— daily!

However, I’m pretty sure if you’re a big tipper then the girls will remember you for sure. The same goes with waiters and waitresses at restaurants. They certainly remember big tipping clients.

All this time I thought I was a sex god. Illusion shattered.

[tcrawford]

I give my real first name because I am single and have nothing to hide. Even if someone tried to blackmail me, my brother is an adult entertainer so I can't possibly disappoint my parents more than he already has.

[1inchguy]

I give my real first name because I am single and have nothing to hide. Even if someone tried to blackmail me, my brother is an adult entertainer so I can't possibly disappoint my parents more than he already has.

I want to hear blackmail stories cause people here make it seem like it's a common thing?
I know there's concerns like random encounter on the streets but it's a rare occasion and the ladies well the ones I know won't go up to the person unless they're close friends.

[11Bravo]

I want to hear blackmail stories cause people here make it seem like it's a common thing?
I know there's concerns like random encounter on the streets but it's a rare occasion and the ladies well the ones I know won't go up to the person unless they're close friends.I'd say, yes, it is POSSIBLE in theory, IF for some reason, the girl has reason to be vindictive. But MY personal experience? Haven't seen any in SYD, but in other places, yes I have seen friends in civilian settings, especially PRC's. From BOTH sides, it's just a VERY discreet nod, a slight dip of the head. She doesn't approach or call out to you as you might be with someone; likewise, you don't call out or approach her because she might be with someone. The OK sign is one party stops, pauses, after the eye contact, nod. If it's not a problem, it's an invitation to walk over and have a conversation. Otherwise, the 2nd party just walks on, as does the first party.

I find the ladies very astute, and why not? Makes BUSINESS sense - who wants to alienate a customer?

[xeniba]

I had a lady ask me where i work once. I gave her the company name on a knee jerk reaction but immediately regretted it. Hope she was just trying to make conversation and never tried to look me up :cry:

[avgdicksize]

I understand why fellow punters prefer to uphold privacy. In reality most shops and ladies probably could care less about what your actual name / details are.

If you have a genuine connection with someone though, wouldnt hurt?

[sukeong]

dun worry bro. Most of the time the clients are thinking too much. MLs are very discrete, and would like their job and private life to remain separate . They are probably more worried about getting exposed than you are.

[xeniba]

Yeah you're probably right. I'm overthinking.

[Axeman123]

Tell 'em your name is"next" ' cause that's who you are.

[ReginaldBubbles]

I always tell them my real full name because I can't lie but they always laugh at it.

[11Bravo]

Tell 'em your name is"next" ' cause that's who you are.Well said, LOL.


I understand why fellow punters prefer to uphold privacy. In reality most shops and ladies probably could care less about what your actual name / details are.MY experience HERE, after several months of some pretty strenuous exercise, a large number of repeats, while I do call them by name, I've NEVER been called by name, either at reception or in the room. Well, unless my name is Baby, Darling,... or You, especially the last (as in Hi, how are You?) She definitely recognizes me, but "name"? I mean, it's not like she's going to have to introduce me to anyone...


MLs are very discrete, and would like their job and private life to remain separate . They are probably more worried about getting exposed than you are.Agreed. IF you happened to pass on the street, in a shop, her heart would be beating faster than yours, and not in a good way. There's civilian life and business life, 2 SEPARATE entities... A business acquaintance is NOT a friend. Seniors know this, some young punters not.

[cafepombo]

Tell 'em your name is"next" ' cause that's who you are.

So true! I love it!

[wanwan88]

Not that they generally ask unless your a regular, but as a brother said, one less lie to cover up.


Tell 'em your name is"next" ' cause that's who you are.

Genius

[laden2005]

my name is alex..... start from this first lie...