Well it happened… got caught

[scottie2222]

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[wilisno]

She should definitely divorce you if you’re into dick pics. ;) ;) ;)

[tpol]

Time to give up punting lads… (probably)

Wife of a few months caught me sexting some random online (looked at my phone and saw an app she didn’t know…dick pics everything…)

Doesn’t know about the punting habits thankfully. But definitely in the doghouse and she’s currently deciding whether she wants to continue or not (I still want it to work).

Will probably just have to stick to porn… anyone else been through this? Any tips?

Yeah, its expensive hiring a separate cook and cleaner

[scottie2222]

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[CharlieM]

lol me sending d pics

That your still laughing is a good sign. And Yes it happened to me a few years ago. I insisted that it was only online and there was no actual physical contact or meet ups. Deny, Deny and Deny.

[Meng]

Did you just marry her recently? If so that's not a good start.

Now that she's caught you. Chances are she'll never trust you again sorry to say or it'll take ages.

I had a mate who was married and use to go to Thailand and Philippines for "work" after his wife found out, no way she's ever gonna let him go to those places by himself again.

She caught him cause the girl he was seeing behind her back started posting on his social media pages. He managed to win her back but basically he's never gonna have that same level of trust from him wife ever again.

Every outing she's gonna be questioning is it legit?

[warwick1]

lol me sending d pics

It kinda amazes me how a dope like you can actually find someone that will marry you, and you start to fuck it up immediately, and the best you got is "LOL",give the poor girl her freedom........

[Daffy]

Time to give up punting lads… (probably)

Wife of a few months caught me sexting some random online (looked at my phone and saw an app she didn’t know…dick pics everything…)

Doesn’t know about the punting habits thankfully. But definitely in the doghouse and she’s currently deciding whether she wants to continue or not (I still want it to work).

Will probably just have to stick to porn… anyone else been through this? Any tips?
So I feel like I have to ask, but why get married in the first place if you are already looking for other girls a few months in?

If you want an open relationship then have that talk with her. Or are you doing the bullshit that you can fuck around but she can’t?

[Sydboy65]

Feels like your wife hit the bottom end of the gene pool when she got married. No wonder she’s thinking of trading you in.

Send her to this page - we’ll give her great advice

[OLD SNAKE]

i can tell you now, you married the wrong girl, if she was the right one, you wouldn't be thinking of other women,
only solution is either make her act sluttier and suck your dick daily so your balls are drained so you have no will power to cheat or get a divorce
no use staying in a marriage if your not getting enough sex to keep you loyal

[JohnJones]

Hmmmm... I wonder if the dick pic recipient was actually a catfish - guy pretending to be a girl?

I've tried sending dick pics before. 9/10 chicks would block me immediately. Only one responded positively because she was desperate for a husband and was living overseas. These days I'd rather fuck the girl in person than sexting or webcam/videocall rubdown.

[wowsofast]

Lol, the guys who sent dick pics that I know of, minus the ones who actually knew the female recipient, got threatened with the usual, send me money or your dick pics get sent to all your friends and family. And it was probably a guy as well.

[rubit moore]

So I feel like I have to ask, but why get married in the first place if you are already looking for other girls a few months in?

If you want an open relationship then have that talk with her. Or are you doing the bullshit that you can fuck around but she can’t?

Yea agree with your comments. What was the point in getting married, for show? Still punting and sexting throughout the duration probably even while he was making the wedding arrangements with her.

Let her get on with her life I say, do the right thing. Chump still wants it to work but for what reason.

He’d be better off marrying a WL for all the integrity that’s going into the current situation.

[vitrium]

Don't give these girls your socials. It will end badly. Don't even give them a real name, or at least a fake last name.

It's tempting. But will cause too much stress if the misso gets suspicious.

[Jazebo]

Sorry to hear that Scottie...

I had to jump in (this is like my 3rd post ever) as reading the responses above just infuriate me. Don't listen to them, their replies makes me feel they've never been married or can't get girls. The replies are just ridiculously childish/jealous/petty/spiteful, can't tell which. Just crazy hearing them talk like that in a bloody ESCORT forum.

I am married too and I will always be chasing pussy, depending on which survives longer, me or my cock.

Chariot is on the money. Deny deny deny the parts that there is no proof of, downplay it, say it is the "chase", the thrill of sexting that gets you off, deny anything physical. You can still recover if you convince her it is just online flirting/the thrill of the chase and nothing physical happened. If she has proof of some form of physical activity took place, see if you can convince her that it was a separate girl i.e massage with happy ending with different girl that you used for release.

Again, your goal is to convince her that it is the thrill of flirtation, the "chase" that you were hooked on, and that you would never dream of acting on any of it. (unless she has proof)

This is the only way that she may not see it as full blown affair, which then may be much harder for her to see past.

Eat humble pie and show sincerity in apologising and show that you are truly sorry (or sorry that you got caught, she doesnt need to know the difference). It may take months/years and it may lead your life into a dark place. Just hang in there and endure. Endure endure endure.

Went through this about 8 years ago. Took several years (4-5 years) for things to get back to a more normal place.

Hang in there, do all you can to save the relationship, even if its with counselling etc. You need to show her that you are remorseful and that you value your relationship with her above all else. Don't talk back, just eat all the shit she sends your way and endure.

[GoldfishMan]

^ Well said. Way too much judgement, not nearly enough support given by the “community” here if you can even call it that.

[warwick1]

^ Well said. Way too much judgement, not nearly enough support given by the “community” here if you can even call it that.

Why support some douche who is in the wrong, fuck the community........

[GoldfishMan]

Why support some douche who is in the wrong, fuck the community........

Douche? Wrong? My dear sir, you are person who pays a girl to do naughty things to you. You then participate in a forum dedicated to that act.

How far do you think you are from being a douche and being wrong?

I say everything goes here, as long as it doesn’t involve the nasty stuff. If a punter cannot get moral support from his own punter community, there might as well not be one.

[warwick1]

Douche? Wrong? My dear sir, you are person who pays a girl to do naughty things to you. You then participate in a forum dedicated to that act.

How far do you think you are from being a douche and being wrong?

I say everything goes here, as long as it doesn’t involve the nasty stuff. If a punter cannot get moral support from his own punter community, there might as well not be one.

I am not just married, I am entitled to an opinion so pull your head in oh great one,just because you have an open marriage, do you mind your wife fucking other guys??? It's just a sex forum not some secret brother hood...good night

[Meng]

Went through this about 8 years ago. Took several years (4-5 years) for things to get back to a more normal place.


Yea so getting caught even if you deny and say you never got physical it'll still take that long minimum (but I would go so far as to say it'll probably stay with the girl for the rest of her life with you).

If the OP is willing to do this then he must love the girl so kudos to him for it.

[Daffy]

^ Well said. Way too much judgement, not nearly enough support given by the “community” here if you can even call it that.

Not really judgement. Just a bit of schadenfreude and a lack of sympathy for someone who got caught out.


Why support some douche who is in the wrong, fuck the community........

I feel this though. You fuck up and you take your licks


Douche? Wrong? My dear sir, you are person who pays a girl to do naughty things to you. You then participate in a forum dedicated to that act.

How far do you think you are from being a douche and being wrong?

I say everything goes here, as long as it doesn’t involve the nasty stuff. If a punter cannot get moral support from his own punter community, there might as well not be one.

I’m more than happy to pay girls for their time, but I also take relationships seriously. I’ve had plenty of girlfriends that weren’t exclusive and 2 long term (8+ years) that were exclusive and both ended with me catching them out cheating. I can honestly say I probably would have stayed in both if there was more honesty about what was happening.

Even my relationships with W/L’s worked because we were open enough with each other to make it work and we stayed friends after I decided to go exclusive with someone else.

So I guess the judgement is all about the double standard of you going out on the punt while she is supposed to stay at home waiting for you.