DATY techniques

[PussyAddict]

For me reading the woman's cold points is important when doing this. Most stop gyrating hips or heavy breathing if you remain in the same technique. You know you've hit the spot when they squeeze your face with thighs or pull away.

Here's what I do.
Alternate my style to find the favourite.
Then build them up saving their favourite thing for climaxes.
Most I find sucking on clit is the favourite.
I'll start by burrying my tounge between hood and clit.
Then I draw circles around clit.
Try sucking it by covering top teeth with top lip and suck the clit in my mouth. I find a speed which works and apply variety by holding the suck and working clit with tip of tounge.
I usually work up my pace when just licking with tounge tip and blowing air on their clit.
I take breaks by licking the whole length of pussy and reading them to see if they lift there butt. I'll also kiss and suck all of the pussy parts.
Irradicly licking clit in all directions is another thing I apply.
I also take breaks and quickly rub their clit side to side and when I read another moment I'll draw a line to there ass and dive back on with my mouth.
If can get away with fingering I'll wet the clit then rub it with thumb while inserting my tounge.
Periodically I'll push their knees back and try lick their ass.

In 69 I struggle to get them sensitive.
Variety I find limited.
I'll dig for clit or put top lip on ass and pull them back while tounge fucking them.
I'll often rest my middle finger on the entrance of pussy or ass while trying variety on clit to see if they'll push back.

Highlight for me is getting the girl to straddle your face. I read them by watching how they squeeze their tits or pinch nipples.

And I'm out!
Am I missing anything here?
What's the best way to get their stomach twitching and pussy wet?

[rooter]

I bring Toshiro my pet Blue Tongue Lizard along.
He loves licking pussy, and the girls love him, and I just relax while he does all the hard work.
Then I just fuck them once they are nice and wet.
I used to have a pet Chameleon Carlos who had a great tongue, but I kept losing him because he would always camouflage in the furnishings, wallpaper, or carpet.

[warwick1]

I bring Toshiro my pet Blue Tongue Lizard along.
He loves licking pussy, and the girls love him, and I just relax while he does all the hard work.
Then I just fuck them once they are nice and wet.
I used to have a pet Chameleon Charlie who had a great tongue, but I kept losing him because he would always camouflage in the furnishings, wallpaper, or carpet.

Fascinating, I had a pet BlueTongue called "Boris" who lived in the rockery around my pool, till my dog ripped him to pieces, it's strange I thought I was reading a Sibon post while I was reading your post, it had that "WTF" ring about it............

[Axeman123]

I gotta female border collie that gives a good lickn'. If the pussy don't run she'll be right.

[Climax598]

I would add after the girls climax you hold your tongue on theirs clit for 15 seconds without moving then suddenly suck and tongue hand on their clit this will drive them wild.

[HitNMiss]

For me reading the woman's cold points is important when doing this. Most stop gyrating hips or heavy breathing if you remain in the same technique. You know you've hit the spot when they squeeze your face with thighs or pull away.

Here's what I do.
Alternate my style to find the favourite.
Then build them up saving their favourite thing for climaxes.
Most I find sucking on clit is the favourite.
I'll start by burrying my tounge between hood and clit.
Then I draw circles around clit.
Try sucking it by covering top teeth with top lip and suck the clit in my mouth. I find a speed which works and apply variety by holding the suck and working clit with tip of tounge.
I usually work up my pace when just licking with tounge tip and blowing air on their clit.
I take breaks by licking the whole length of pussy and reading them to see if they lift there butt. I'll also kiss and suck all of the pussy parts.
Irradicly licking clit in all directions is another thing I apply.
I also take breaks and quickly rub their clit side to side and when I read another moment I'll draw a line to there ass and dive back on with my mouth.
If can get away with fingering I'll wet the clit then rub it with thumb while inserting my tounge.
Periodically I'll push their knees back and try lick their ass.

In 69 I struggle to get them sensitive.
Variety I find limited.
I'll dig for clit or put top lip on ass and pull them back while tounge fucking them.
I'll often rest my middle finger on the entrance of pussy or ass while trying variety on clit to see if they'll push back.

Highlight for me is getting the girl to straddle your face. I read them by watching how they squeeze their tits or pinch nipples.

And I'm out!
Am I missing anything here?
What's the best way to get their stomach twitching and pussy wet?

I never have a routine with daty just try different areas and different techniques and go of there body language and the way they react . 69 is a good way of finding out also , if she is getting off she might be going more crazy on the cock or can’t suck the cock because she is going into orgasm lol…. Might ad it also helps if she is actually into you .

[j_highrolla]

Is there a video guide for reference bros? Lol im very keen to learn

Many thanks

[Double_Adapter]

Whilst technique is crucial, the most important rule is to take it s-l-o-w and take your time. If you think you've spent a ton of time on her pussy you gotta double it or triple it. The problem is that as soon as a chick opens her legs dudes immediately go for the clit like blowie to a fucking turd.

Take your time lads, tease her to no fucking end, and hold off from licking her clit, get her to the point where she's literally begging for you to fuck her. Have a bottle of cold water handy, sip in it in between daty (a bit like fine dining whilst sipping a nice wine), the feeling of a cold tongue on a hot vulva makes chicks go fucking crazy.

In terms of instructional videos, suggest you look for ex-porn star Nina Hartley' s guide to cunnilingus.

Btw: A great post from the OP.

[aussiegaigin]

Problem with "instructional" and porn videos can be that you don't know how much is real reaction and how much is FOAM.

They are more intent on titillating the viewer, than giving you meaningful advice.

Every girl has different sensitivities; what turns one girl wild might have little effect on another.

You just have to learn as many options as possible, and try a few out and see which works best for each girl.

Happy dining

[Tommyboid]

I found watching amateur lesbian videos that aren't pro/semi pro production helpful especially when they are a couple helps a lot

[Fred Flintstone]

While I’m munching away on the pussy, I always ask the girl if I can stick me finger in and rub her G spot. Most say yes. The few that have said no FIV have been Thai or Chinese. Never had a white girl say no

[dotcumdotinyou]

If you can still find it here Jerry aka Xmas gave instructions from the females point of view. If memory serves me right she even drew diagrams as well as what turns her off.

[Raybo]

Each girl and each pussy is different. Soft, slow, gentle licking on and around the clit and up and down the inside Labia seems to be the general rule.of thumb. Had some girls absolutely love having their vagina entrance rimmed.
Always ready for pointers too from WL/ML, it's the last thing you want to think you are a master at.

[Sly22]

If you can still find it here Jerry aka Xmas gave instructions from the females point of view. If memory serves me right she even drew diagrams as well as what turns her off.

Would like to read that one. Tried a search in Xmas which didn't get me anywhere. Any more info on what to search? Ta

[Meng]

Would like to read that one. Tried a search in Xmas which didn't get me anywhere. Any more info on what to search? Ta
It's gone. It was written on her blog which she no longer hosts.

[Raybo]

Would like to read that one. Tried a search in Xmas which didn't get me anywhere. Any more info on what to search? Ta

Found it.

http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?47229-How-to-be-a-great-Pussy-eater

[Sly22]

It's gone. It was written on her blog which she no longer hosts.
Thanks, shame, sounded interesting

[GoldfishMan]

Lately I've been favouring "doggy style" DATY. I'd have her on all fours with her back arched and her arse sticking out. I'd then position myself behind her and go to town on that luscious pussy and arsehole.

I've found this to be the optimal position for eating out because it kind of puts her on edge. She can't see exactly what and when I'm doing something. I'd slobber all over her nice tight arse, then I'd dive right in and eat that pussy and arse, all while she's facing the other way!

A bonus is, that pose is simply a feast for the senses. A woman's body is meant to be in that pose to be fully appreciated in all its beauty!

Another tip: don't focus completely on her clit but about half an inch up from the clit, in the space between the clit head and the hood. That spot seems to get them going!

Also, don't dawdle around with light touches. Go in and devour that pussy with as much tongue action as you can muster from the get go. If you fail to get her off within the first few seconds of oral, sorry bro, you're going to have to slog it for up to 30 mins before she'll come close to reaching that climax again.

Remember, with women orgasms, a missed climax is almost a guaranteed deal breaker!

[Soton]

Sounds like a scene from Porkys.

Just do whatever the lady likes and have enough variety and a total lack of any hang ups so you can try anything.

Every chick responds differently. For example one of the very popular Thai mix ML's likes her pubic bone treated like her clit any lower and she does not get off.

[JohnJones]

You can't get a genuine response from most MLs or WLs, they're just doing their jobs giving you an ego boost.

I've only had 2 WLs so far that gave me a genuine guidance and response. First one didn't really want to cum that day but I must've accidentally pushed the right buttons that she insisted I continue DATY while she stroked her clit until she twitched. Second one is my regular, she also likes to stroke her own clit and she'd give me all kinds of instructions - different days different kinks and continue until she twitches and squeezes.

I reckon unless us men were born with vaginas it is almost impossible to give women an actual orgasm by ourselves. Even one of my ex would get me to stroke her clit while DFK or sucking on her tits and suddenly complains that I stroked her too hard despite being very gentle. Then she ends up either stroking herself or give up on getting an orgasm, and gets me to fuck her and quickly finish up so that she can sleep off her frustration.

[Axeman123]

You can't get a genuine response from most MLs or WLs, they're just doing their jobs giving you an ego boost.

I've only had 2 WLs so far that gave me a genuine guidance and response. First one didn't really want to cum that day but I must've accidentally pushed the right buttons that she insisted I continue DATY while she stroked her clit until she twitched. Second one is my regular, she also likes to stroke her own clit and she'd give me all kinds of instructions - different days different kinks and continue until she twitches and squeezes.

I reckon unless us men were born with vaginas it is almost impossible to give women an actual orgasm by ourselves. Even one of my ex would get me to stroke her clit while DFK or sucking on her tits and suddenly complains that I stroked her too hard despite being very gentle. Then she ends up either stroking herself or give up on getting an orgasm, and gets me to fuck her and quickly finish up so that she can sleep off her frustration.Mate,I could go with you head to head,toe to toe,blow for blow with domestic sexual blunders. So much so that punting had a purpose at last. It just became not worth it anymore (home sex). So yeah with U on that one.

[Sly22]

Found it.

http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?47229-How-to-be-a-great-Pussy-eater

Awesome, thanks

[Johnisfun1969]

From all the videos I have watched the main theme was don’t attack the clit straight away. You need some warmup be cute the main event. So do as much teasing starting from kissing the lips to breast to the other erogenous zones. Then slowly tease around the thighs and come close to the sides of the vagina, then the lips and move to clit when she is fully aroused. They said the clit has millions of nerve ending and any contact before she is fully aroused is uncomfortable.

[ReginaldBubbles]

There's no 1 technique that works for everyone. Best to try different things and be aware of reactions and what works and listen to guidance.

Also
https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2017/03/3d-clitoris/518991/

[ReginaldBubbles]

You can't get a genuine response from most MLs or WLs, they're just doing their jobs giving you an ego boost.


But yes going down on wls is a different thing from civilians, you often don't know for sure

[schloong]

One of my regulars has given me some excellent instructions on how she likes to be touched, licked etc so it's easier for me get her to cum, but we don't do that every time. Feels kinda special when we do though...

[xboyx]

you miss 1 thing: 2 fingers

often girls want to feel the fullness inside their pussy. one finger is like a small dick.

often I started with DATY, then when the girl gets wet enough, then I'll insert one finger in to stimualte g spot. after some time and she's into it, I'd insert 2 fingers in (need to be wet). As soon as 2 fingers are coming in, usually the girl would grasp and show a good reaction, like it was on another level.

I think I've tried 3 fingers too, or using my thumb instead of middle finger.

[rooter]

The secret is to rub the girls kneecap while you are licking her clit.
Chicks go nuts when you rub their kneecap. And if you want to go next level and are flexible enough to do it go tongue on her clit, hand on her kneecap, big toe on her ankle. She will squirt all over your face!

[spacekid2022]

This is a rather good educational post lol....learning a lot here, looking forward to try it on my favourite ML lol