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Carissawhore
31-05-2023, 10:23 PM
Have you had your WL get jealous cause you picked a different WL in your lineup from your regular ?
I used to book this Thai WL lady all the time but one day I decided to try a different girl from the same shop, she got so angry and started kdrama right infront of other girls, I was shocked to see this WL sees a dozen customers per day but just because I picked another WL she got pissed.
yummypinacolada
31-05-2023, 10:31 PM
It happened, but not to this extreme in my experiences. Usually the WL will just treat me differently(less enthusiastic) after knowing I go for other girls as well. Its best to go when she is not on the roster when you plan to try other girls.
Ghost2hauntU
31-05-2023, 10:35 PM
Have you had your WL get jealous cause you picked a different WL in your lineup from your regular ?
I used to book this Thai WL lady all the time but one day I decided to try a different girl from the same shop, she got so angry and started kdrama right infront of other girls, I was shocked to see this WL sees a dozen customers per day but just because I picked another WL she got pissed.
Haha not quite. But one at Springhouse I had since 2019 kind of acted sad that I didn’t pick her. I found it actually kind of cute and sexy of her. It’s not like it’d make a difference, she gets plenty of regular business.
But at another shop I frequent after we had sex I asked her if she’d mind we do a double with her friend and a mate of mine. And she got a bit cut, acted like she wants me all for herself. Again kind of cute of her but bit more serious.
All of these girls are excellent mattress actresses. So don’t assume if you saw her pissed off she truly was. It’s all a game and if she’s a popular girl she could care less cos there’s another punt right around a corner.
At the same time tho, if she’s the ugly duckling less popular girl and your regular, and you do that in front of her, we’ll that may not go down too well.
l337dude
31-05-2023, 10:53 PM
Just last week one of my regulars saw me walk out the room with other WL and the sour look on her face lol...
I guess they need to accept the reality that there are other options out there so they better try harder :)
I had a regular I used to see weekly, due to work I missed a "scheduled" weekly session one time and I remember her asking me if I'd seen any other WLs and I told her yes, a hint of jealousy in her eyes and she muttered: "oh, she must be younger and prettier than me", great acting :shout:
ColesBag
31-05-2023, 11:34 PM
It's a bit of emotional manipulation to make you feel like you should pick her next time.
In brothels the "sisterhood" or whatever they're calling it these days goes out the window.
rooter
31-05-2023, 11:43 PM
Its not because they like you, and it's not just about the money, a lot of the time it's about losing "face".
xeniba
31-05-2023, 11:44 PM
Just skip the lineup and book a girl directly.
ditchtheboss
31-05-2023, 11:46 PM
I had a surprising experience once, not quite jealousy but interesting nevertheless.
I had a frequent WL in a popular shop for a while until late last year when I had to travel overseas without knowing if I would ever return.
We were close, no feels but close, perhaps like close friends. Texted frequently, met outside the shop as friends, went out for meals, I even took her home. No sex outside the shop.
Late last year I booked a session knowing that it could be our last session for ever. Went through with it and when we finished we still had some time to chat. I then told her that I was about to travel not knowing if I would return. Her facial expression changed immediately, she hugged me and started to cry. It wasn’t a fake cry, they were real tears.
She still had a few hours to go in her shift but she left the shop with me and we spent the rest of the day together like 2 friends. Had dinner together and when I dropped her home she hugged me very tightly and cried again.
This has been the most surprising punting experience I have ever had.
thunder545454
01-06-2023, 12:03 AM
Have you had your WL get jealous cause you picked a different WL in your lineup from your regular ?
I used to book this Thai WL lady all the time but one day I decided to try a different girl from the same shop, she got so angry and started kdrama right infront of other girls, I was shocked to see this WL sees a dozen customers per day but just because I picked another WL she got pissed.
I had a girl ask me to not see other girls in the shop please, I said ok because she was amazing, then we ended up dating for 9months before I found out she lies about absoulutely everything.
Ghost2hauntU
01-06-2023, 12:15 AM
I had a surprising experience once, not quite jealousy but interesting nevertheless.
I had a frequent WL in a popular shop for a while until late last year when I had to travel overseas without knowing if I would ever return.
We were close, no feels but close, perhaps like close friends. Texted frequently, met outside the shop as friends, went out for meals, I even took her home. No sex outside the shop.
Late last year I booked a session knowing that it could be our last session for ever. Went through with it and when we finished we still had some time to chat. I then told her that I was about to travel not knowing if I would return. Her facial expression changed immediately, she hugged me and started to cry. It wasn’t a fake cry, they were real tears.
She still had a few hours to go in her shift but she left the shop with me and we spent the rest of the day together like 2 friends. Had dinner together and when I dropped her home she hugged me very tightly and cried again.
This has been the most surprising punting experience I have ever had.
Nice story bro. This really shows how WLs are human and fragile, in need of nice company and genuine feelings. I haven’t had this yet I’m almost 25 years of punting. Maybe cos I’m a pig lol.
ditchtheboss
01-06-2023, 12:32 AM
This same girl once told me “we are humans and have feelings too”. I am not special not particularly handsome, we just really clicked from the first time we met
l337dude
01-06-2023, 02:02 PM
Humans are all different, some are more emotional/sentimental...it's built into our subconscious, it's not even about whether she likes you or not, but more to do with losing a regular customer that she felt some "connection" with, it's human nature, some WLs are indifferent to this while others may feel a sense of "lost", at least in the moment.
When I was younger I was poor and used to share accommodation with strangers, I usually kept to myself and never talked much with them, whenever a roommate moved out I would get this weird feeling of lost and sadness for a short while, probably because I'm used to their presence...it was weird and hard to explain, call me sentimental lol...
Also like another guy mentioned, a WL does not like to see you with other WL (especially if you are a regular), business/money aside, it doesn't matter whether she likes you or not, it does have some to do with "losing face", some WLs have egos too :D
cuteguy
01-06-2023, 06:59 PM
I had a girl ask me to not see other girls in the shop please, I said ok because she was amazing, then we ended up dating for 9months before I found out she lies about absoulutely everything.
At least she couldn't lie about working in a shop because you met her in a shop.
OLD SNAKE
01-06-2023, 08:39 PM
like us punters who have favourite regular M/WLs, the girls too have favourite punters, so they tend to form a bond like we do, emotionally its easier to have sex with a regular than a new customer,
so to choose another girl on the same roster is like breaking that trusted bond
james12
02-06-2023, 01:24 AM
Better not to get too attached to a WL. Never had a favourite but maybe that's because I crave variety over performance.
GoldfishMan
02-06-2023, 08:53 PM
Not jealousy but I've had 2 MLs shut the BBFS door on me after they found out that I went to brothels. All I could do was regret my own big fucken mouth.
abovetherim
02-06-2023, 09:52 PM
I’ve heard from WL/ML that there’s not a lot of friendship on the roster because they’re all competing for customers. There’s a lot of tension and rivalry. I think it’s not jealousy for the guy but jealousy for the money!
woodland
02-06-2023, 09:59 PM
Once a Korean ML brought me a gift for my birthday.
Azzkikr
02-06-2023, 10:05 PM
I’ve heard from WL/ML that there’s not a lot of friendship on the roster because they’re all competing for customers. There’s a lot of tension and rivalry. I think it’s not jealousy for the guy but jealousy for the money!
Couldnt agree more!!
ditchtheboss
02-06-2023, 10:11 PM
Couldnt agree more!!
That makes sense but I once met a girl at 42G and we were talking about ginza. She said she used to work there and asked me who I see there. I mentioned one girl and she said she knows her and they were friends and used to talk about hair products and stuff. She said she misses her.
Surely there is competition for the money. I heard some compete about having more frequent/consistent customers than others, etc I bet that for the girls it can be a very toxic environment to work in with all this bullshit that must go on amongst them
andrewv
02-06-2023, 11:11 PM
Long ago when I was a regular at Upmarket Bathhouse in Crows Nest and they had younger (early to late 20s) MLs, the one I saw often once told me how the girls look through the window overlooking the back lane to see what sort of car their favourite clients drove. In those days you could park your car just outside the joint. The girls used to brag about the fancy cars their clients drove and compete who has the client with the nicest car!
Competitiveness is a human condition.
1inchguy
03-06-2023, 12:46 AM
Most likely this however theres abit of back stabbing going on.
ML told me there were few times when punters make a booking for a certain girl but another another ML would say stuff like the booking girl is too busy so the punter ends up going with a different lady. As a result the booking girl when shes finish she has no one , she ends up getting nothing.
Afterwards huge arguments..
warwick1
03-06-2023, 08:08 AM
Not jealousy but I've had 2 MLs shut the BBFS door on me after they found out that I went to brothels. All I could do was regret my own big fucken mouth.
I don't know if this happened in your case but if you have a regular and you want to keep her don't review or tell a soul otherwise in most times it will come back to bite you.......
OneandDone
03-06-2023, 09:55 AM
In some of the punting situations I've been in practically impossible to not have them know you're choosing other girls. Naturally it is never well received it does crush the rapport but it's a good reality check all round.
But who cares you're the paying customer, they should be worrying about you not vice versa
Sibon
03-06-2023, 04:24 PM
Once a Korean ML brought me a gift for my birthday.
My ML always supplies free condom, wet wipes, Lub, tissue papers etc. for my birthday.
Double_Adapter
03-06-2023, 04:55 PM
My ML always supplies free condom, wet wipes, Lub, tissue papers etc. for my birthday.
There are a few Japanese girls giving away STIs for free.
ditchtheboss
03-06-2023, 05:59 PM
There are a few Japanese girls giving away STIs for free.
You may be slightly mistaken, the STIs are not free, you are paying for them
JohnJones
04-06-2023, 01:07 AM
There are a few Japanese girls giving away STIs for free.
Funny, I've only received urethritis from a Chinese girl, and zero STIs from Japanese or Koreans. Not sure about Thais as my favourite Thai WLs used to work in N5M long long time ago, and no STIs from them.
marble
04-06-2023, 02:54 PM
Punting is a commercial relationship
If you have a good working relationship with an ML or WL, I recommend do not see other lady on the same day your regular is working. They all talk and often your regular will see you or the manager tells her
It is strange that they would get jealous, as they ar seeing many customers. But she doesn't have a connection with all her customers, some are unappealing to the lady
You trying soneon else suggests to her that her feminine qualities arent good enough for you
One WL said to me, I know men can lose interest and the novelty wears off with a women after a while
Like with an accountant or hair dresser or dentist or other service provider, there's a funny feeling if you choose another person on the day your regular provider is there. As others have said, it's a loss of face
ColesBag
04-06-2023, 03:36 PM
This same girl once told me “we are humans and have feelings too”. I am not special not particularly handsome, we just really clicked from the first time we met
I'm human & I feel like I also like money.
max_power
04-06-2023, 06:40 PM
Majority of the time if she’s jealous she’s jealous because you’re paying someone else and not her. She’s not jealous because she missing a particular punter
marble
05-06-2023, 10:11 AM
Has anyone tried asking ML for a double without upsetting her. Do most shops allow doubles?
Never tried asking an ML for doubles as didn't want someone to lose face
WLs doubles is easier to request
Callfellow
05-06-2023, 12:37 PM
Relationship with ML is purely transactional. If one thinks otherwise, then you'll need to do more punting until you come to this realisation.
Footballpunter
11-06-2023, 12:24 AM
It is a bit awkward to pick a new girl from the line up when you've been seeing a regular or someone you saw that you had great chemistry with. But then, at the end of the day, you are the consumer and you have the right to choose. I suppose you can always pick a time that your regular is not around, or go to a different shop?
puntingparadise
13-06-2023, 01:15 PM
Yes they jealous if their regular picks up another girl and they find it, this has happened to me. and later when I booked her, provided me shit service.. lol
Footballpunter
15-06-2023, 12:11 PM
Yes they jealous if their regular picks up another girl and they find it, this has happened to me. and later when I booked her, provided me shit service.. lol
which is insane because like, why do they even care lol, human nature i guess
1inchguy
15-06-2023, 01:51 PM
Yes they jealous if their regular picks up another girl and they find it, this has happened to me. and later when I booked her, provided me shit service.. lol
This has happened to me aswell.
I was seeing a regular but because my schedule has changed Im seeing someone else. I even let her know aswell unless her days get changed aswell
Anyway once in awhile if I'm happened to be free I see her but it wasn't the same anymore .
GoldfishMan
16-06-2023, 04:38 AM
I think it's more about familiarity than jealousy.
Women are very different from men. To us, familiarity often leads to boredom, infidelity, punting, etc.
Women, on the other hand, are more sexually stimulated by familiarity. They tend to enjoy sex more with a close partner than with a stranger. That is what they found from research.
I guess it might be a subconscious trait as a result of the physical sexual differences between men and women.
Our dicks stick out from our bodies, and we expel our baby-making stuff out of our bodies. Women, on the other hand, have internal sex organs and have to take "external inputs" into their bodies to procreate.
So naturally, women would want to do it with someone they consider to be trustworthy and clean (familiar), but men just go everywhere sticking their dicks into every good looking hole they could find.
Jamez11
16-06-2023, 08:42 AM
I’d say that it’s a normal reaction, just not to that extreme. It would be no different if you were getting your haircut for years from someone then went to someone else they would feel disrespected and have their ego hurt.
You also have the fact that she is losing money, especially with the way things are atm.
I true professional would of waited until she saw you next acted all jealous and guilt trip you in a cute kind of way so you’d think twice about doing it again.
Raybo
16-06-2023, 09:09 AM
A 'healthy' WL would probably suggest seeing other girls at the shop they work at. Sure, they miss the money from a good regular, but they also want you to be happy and they know us punters can get tired of the same thing.
This has nothing to do with feelings/jealousy
Its coz she is losing a customer = losing money/income. Its as simple as that
Double_Adapter
16-06-2023, 11:16 AM
I think it's more about familiarity than jealousy.
Women are very different from men. To us, familiarity often leads to boredom, infidelity, punting, etc.
Women, on the other hand, are more sexually stimulated by familiarity. They tend to enjoy sex more with a close partner than with a stranger. That is what they found from research.
I guess it might be a subconscious trait as a result of the physical sexual differences between men and women.
Our dicks stick out from our bodies, and we expel our baby-making stuff out of our bodies. Women, on the other hand, have internal sex organs and have to take "external inputs" into their bodies to procreate.
So naturally, women would want to do it with someone they consider to be trustworthy and clean (familiar), but men just go everywhere sticking their dicks into every good looking hole they could find.
This shit right here is deep! Real deep and the most spot on comment on this this whole fucken thread.
A guy impregnates a chick with his seed and 9 months later she gives birth to it, so it's in their nature to receive, incubate and nurture shit for a long period of time and when the right time comes she'll give birth to it.
That's why a guy will say and do shit (ie plant seed), she'll receive it, incubate it and nurture it for several months, and during an argument she'll bring up shit (ie give birth) to stuff that he supposedly said, did or didn't do, which the poor cunt can't remember or recall ever saying or doing.
Personally I believe all women should be archeologists, coz they like digging up shit from the past.
Jamez11
16-06-2023, 12:05 PM
It’s hard to say women who sleep with dozens of men a week have an innate desire to receive (besides money), incubate, nurture. I’m sure there are a lot more punters who develop feelings for the WL/ML than the other way around.
Double_Adapter
16-06-2023, 01:30 PM
It’s hard to say women who sleep with dozens of men a week have an innate desire to receive (besides money), incubate, nurture. I’m sure there are a lot more punters who develop feelings for the WL/ML than the other way around.
Female nature is to receive, incubate, nurture and give birth to something, and that's their natural modus operandi.
The problem with punters is they enter into situationships with WL/ML, and everything is going great ie until for some fucked up reason they want to convert the situationship into a fucken relationship.....and that's completely insane.
Why? Perhaps social or societal conditioning, they've turned beta, they've been watching too many Disney movies, too many chick fliks, romcoms, they might want exclusivity from their main chick, they become jealous, needy, clingy, or white knight syndrome kicks in etc. it's fucked! As far as WL or MLs keep it as a situationship and you'll enjoy life.
allstarbro
17-06-2023, 11:59 AM
Have you had your WL get jealous cause you picked a different WL in your lineup from your regular ?
I used to book this Thai WL lady all the time but one day I decided to try a different girl from the same shop, she got so angry and started kdrama right infront of other girls, I was shocked to see this WL sees a dozen customers per day but just because I picked another WL she got pissed.
I would kinda enjoy this moment if it ever happened to me, I mean, who gives a fuck to what a line up WL think.
Any interaction with any WL/ML/SB, whether disguised as other intentions or not, is purely for their financial gain. Nothing more.
Happens all the time to men/Farangs going to Philippines/Thailand, then falling in love with a Filipina/Thai WL, then getting fleeced for everything they got.
@Double_Adapter. Its true, too many beta simp white knights who think they can rescue the girl LOLOLOL
gco0307
17-06-2023, 07:38 PM
Can't say I have experienced jealousy if/when I have picked another lady on a day where a regular (regular for mee is a loose term - I only punt once a month) has been working although I have seen my regular on a slow day and that did make another lady jealous, although that was because she wast he next lady up. My regular had to show her the text message and bookings before she calmed down at my regular, did put a dampener on it though.
That said, I have visited to see a regular and she has suggested another lady (often newer) and asked me to give feedback or (this has happened twice) she has asked the new lady to join us for no extra charge to me (I an a RnT person). Both times, different regular and place but good fun times was had although one cannot say it 'flowed' as it was more educational for the new lady
Coastguy
17-06-2023, 09:21 PM
IÂ’ve had this happen.
I used to be a creature of habit. Did my research and found what I liked and was happy ( last few months same joint same Thai girl) Then about 2 days ago I went to my regular Friday arvo at 4pm (like clock work) and jasmine had ducked up the shops and was running late getting back.
They insisted I see this new Thai girl Angela. IÂ’m like ah all good I will wait. Another 15 passes and IÂ’m like fuck it bring me Angela.
What an experience that session turned out to be.
Went up to the room and stripped and started to shower and about half way through in comes Angela.
They said 19, and I would agree. Size 6 nice set of bolt ons but not over the top. Reasonable English level and she started by sayingÂ…. Jasmines loss hehe.
She stripped and wasted no time into the shower, soft sensual washing back and playing with my balls and then straight to her knees. Starts running her tongue around my balls and up my cock till IÂ’m hard. To be honest it took all of about 30seconds.
Once I was hard straight into it, great mouth and hand action and 100% eye contact I was like fuck.. IÂ’m going to lose it.
Shower off onto the bed knelt between my knees and continued. About 10min later the door flew open and it was jasmine going batshit crazy in Thai at Angela. She was pissed. She paused and went to give me a serve and and this point IÂ’m like well fuck.. If I wasnÂ’t to put up with the bullshit I would get myself a mrs lol.
God knows what they were saying and at this point IÂ’m thinking IÂ’m done and just wanted out. Next thing as I went to get my cloths Jas pushed me back on the bed and started to suck my cock. IÂ’m like fuckÂ… the main reason I see has is her bjs at out of this world and for me itÂ’s all about the Bjs at this point IÂ’m like fuck it go with the flow then I felt another tongue I open my eyes and both Ang & Jas going for it.
They were trying to out do each other. I was torn, it was like they were competing. I was in heaven.
The sex was great both taking turns, change doms between, to date best experience IÂ’ve had. Paid for an hour it was close to 1.45 when I finally blew my load over the both of their waiting faces and they both went and picked each otherÂ’s faces clean. Sucked my cock dry. And they both showered me and pushed me on bed rubbing my cock talking.
Jas then demanded I decide who was the best. I was like 100% Ang but didnÂ’t wanna start drama I said of course you jas.
Needless to say IÂ’m now going on the days Jas not rostered to see Ang, Jas apparently got the shits when she found of. Spiteful when they donÂ’t get their tips
JJBlows
18-06-2023, 01:21 AM
It’s hard to say women who sleep with dozens of men a week have an innate desire to receive (besides money), incubate, nurture. I’m sure there are a lot more punters who develop feelings for the WL/ML than the other way around.
I'd agree and disagree with the woman having not having feelings and are after our money. Like one punter here said about a girl saying "we are human too and have feelings. A few times I have been with different WL's at their place chilling and next thing her WL friend all of a sudden brings over her favourite customer as well or goes on dates with him because she feels jealousy of what her friend has and wants the same thing for herself.
It just depends on the individual, yes some of the young ones are just after the money, just like some of the younger men are after hot sex. The older everybody gets, their thoughts change as well. Many of the WL/ML who are in there late 20's and early 30's do dream of having a solid partner and kids (biological clock ticking) but they just box it up in the back of their minds because of what they do for a job and know it's hard to have that whilst working, but for some they have a moment of weakness with you.
I've been the "favourite" customer of some girls because I'm the paying customer where as for other girls I've been the customer some get emotionally attached to.
It just comes down to both your personality and sexual compatibility that determines the kind of punting relationship you have and whether your both smart enough to keep your emotions in check.
Oh and if you think going to the shop when she ain't working is safe, you are wrong!!! Her friends/ other WL may recognise you and rat you out to her and the manager will to as she may ask him if you come in when shes not there. you just don't know it because she hasn't said it directly but will ask vague questions to see what you say when she knows the truth. I find this out after doing it and when I came back for her and I get along well with the manager and all he said was "I wouldn't lie to her when she asks" and I was thinking what the fuck he meant until after our session she was asking those questions and knew what he meant.
JohnJones
18-06-2023, 02:14 AM
A job is a job. A Krispy Kreme chick might be super nice to you and give you an extra piece of glazed doughnut for free only because you're easy to deal with compared to the 70yo retiree who winges about how hot she made his coffee.
Women don't fall in love with your money or expensive gifts. They fall in love with you only if you're someone who treats her like no other man in her life has treated her before.
Not just with sex workers, even with normal ugly ducklings there are those who are willing to go out on a date with you and accept your marriage proposal in the end but will never know what love is. In the end of the day you find out she's a monster wife who's appetite can't be satiated because her parents spoiled her broken or she's just a jealous prick with lack of empathy for her dying parents because they couldn't spoil her the same way her friend's parents did.
Thailand is a poor, developing country. Thai students who come to Australia often come from wealthy families. Thai girls are very envious, and those from wealthy families are well known to be monster kids spoiled by their parents. Many of them think that being spoiled rather than being nurtured is love. You can't expect these type of girls to nurture anything. If you have kids with her and suddenly lose your job, she'd rather eat and let you and the kids both starve to death.
What is to nurture? It is to put other people's needs over yours. That is what love means exactly. If they can't validate you emotionally, they're not wife material. There's many women out there, SW or non-SWs that are good for sex but not good to start families with. And being a white knight isn't going to make them change.
ditchtheboss
18-06-2023, 09:01 AM
I'd agree and disagree with the woman having not having feelings and are after our money. Like one punter here said about a girl saying "we are human too and have feelings. A few times I have been with different WL's at their place chilling and next thing her WL friend all of a sudden brings over her favourite customer as well or goes on dates with him because she feels jealousy of what her friend has and wants the same thing for herself.
It just depends on the individual, yes some of the young ones are just after the money, just like some of the younger men are after hot sex. The older everybody gets, their thoughts change as well. Many of the WL/ML who are in there late 20's and early 30's do dream of having a solid partner and kids (biological clock ticking) but they just box it up in the back of their minds because of what they do for a job and know it's hard to have that whilst working, but for some they have a moment of weakness with you.
I've been the "favourite" customer of some girls because I'm the paying customer where as for other girls I've been the customer some get emotionally attached to.
It just comes down to both your personality and sexual compatibility that determines the kind of punting relationship you have and whether your both smart enough to keep your emotions in check.
Oh and if you think going to the shop when she ain't working is safe, you are wrong!!! Her friends/ other WL may recognise you and rat you out to her and the manager will to as she may ask him if you come in when shes not there. you just don't know it because she hasn't said it directly but will ask vague questions to see what you say when she knows the truth. I find this out after doing it and when I came back for her and I get along well with the manager and all he said was "I wouldn't lie to her when she asks" and I was thinking what the fuck he meant until after our session she was asking those questions and knew what he meant.
A while ago I started seeing seeing one of the girls in a popular shop. Long story short, we got along very well and over time the session with her became like sex with a girlfriend, it wasn’t her routine anymore. I could tell, and the way she treated me wasn’t mechanical, it was natural. I know she is a pro amongst the WLs. One day she texted me asking for a photo. She sent me a photo of herself first and asked for me to send one back. I asked why she would want my photo and she said she likes drawing and would like to draw me. That was a lie, I know how that she went around showing my photo to other girls asking if I was seeing them as well.
I had the best time with her. Yes, it is all about money for them. But that’s just how it starts.
I would still say be careful, don’t get emotionally attached and don’t try to rescue them. But there is not preventing you from being friends if you can check your emotions out at the door.
They do get jealous I think, the jealousy can be of the money that she lost but also of the friend/kind and nice customer that may find another regular. IMHO
GoldfishMan
18-06-2023, 09:11 AM
A while ago I started seeing seeing one of the girls in a popular shop. Long story short, we got along very well and over time the session with her became like sex with a girlfriend, it wasn’t her routine anymore. I could tell, and the way she treated me wasn’t mechanical, it was natural. I know she is a pro amongst the WLs. One day she texted me asking for a photo. She sent me a photo of herself first and asked for me to send one back. I asked why she would want my photo and she said she likes drawing and would like to draw me. That was a lie, I know how that she went around showing my photo to other girls asking if I was seeing them as well.
I had the best time with her. Yes, it is all about money for them. But that’s just how it starts.
I would still say be careful, don’t get emotionally attached and don’t try to rescue them. But there is not preventing you from being friends if you can check your emotions out at the door.
They do get jealous I think, the jealousy can be of the money that she lost but also of the friend/kind and nice customer that may find another regular. IMHO
That's very well put. If she had to fuck someone to make her living, she would prefer to do it with someone she likes or she doesn't find repulsive. It would defo be a loss to her if that preferred customer "left" her.
ditchtheboss
18-06-2023, 09:28 AM
That's very well put. If she had to fuck someone to make her living, she would prefer to do it with someone she likes or she doesn't find repulsive. It would defo be a loss to her if that preferred customer "left" her.
Exactly Goldfishman. She told me lots of guys talk about their money, businesses, cars, try to meet her outside the shop and she is not interested in them. The only thing she wants from them is the frequency of sessions if they are kind and if she feels safe with them.
Their feeling of safety with us is critical. She told me, she and others don’t feel safe with some guys and with those is get them out as quickly as possible. With others is stay with me as long as possible because I feel safe and make the same amount of money with you.
It’s a tough job, treat them well
JJBlows
18-06-2023, 01:29 PM
A while ago I started seeing seeing one of the girls in a popular shop. Long story short, we got along very well and over time the session with her became like sex with a girlfriend, it wasn’t her routine anymore. I could tell, and the way she treated me wasn’t mechanical, it was natural. I know she is a pro amongst the WLs. One day she texted me asking for a photo. She sent me a photo of herself first and asked for me to send one back. I asked why she would want my photo and she said she likes drawing and would like to draw me. That was a lie, I know how that she went around showing my photo to other girls asking if I was seeing them as well.
I had the best time with her. Yes, it is all about money for them. But that’s just how it starts.
I would still say be careful, don’t get emotionally attached and don’t try to rescue them. But there is not preventing you from being friends if you can check your emotions out at the door.
They do get jealous I think, the jealousy can be of the money that she lost but also of the friend/kind and nice customer that may find another regular. IMHO
Treat em mean, keep em keen because it works. If it's about money for them, when she has a whinge about you seeing another girl or suspects you come to the shop when she not there then put her back in her box as a WL and casually tell her that if you have to pay for her time so she can enjoy your company then you can do what you want, when you want. Just depends on if she actually likes you because she will change her tune quick smart and cater for you. If she doesn't then now you know and you then see other girls.
1inchguy
18-06-2023, 10:52 PM
Exactly Goldfishman. She told me lots of guys talk about their money, businesses, cars, try to meet her outside the shop and she is not interested in them. The only thing she wants from them is the frequency of sessions if they are kind and if she feels safe with them.
Their feeling of safety with us is critical. She told me, she and others don’t feel safe with some guys and with those is get them out as quickly as possible. With others is stay with me as long as possible because I feel safe and make the same amount of money with you.
It’s a tough job, treat them well
I saw this ML girl in the evening and she was so happy to see me booking her, claiming i saved her life (obviously figure of speech). Cause in the evening her boss friends would come in and see any girl who sometimes see the ML i see.
She doesn't like him at all and hates it however she cant say no due to it being her boss's friend.
As her way of saying thankyou, she said shes gonna be aggressive with me. :slobber:
cuteguy
18-06-2023, 11:20 PM
You may be slightly mistaken, the STIs are not free, you are paying for them
Very true. You're paying and could end up with an STI in the end. It can be fun punting but it has potential risks.
bleekpit
20-06-2023, 09:43 PM
never happened to me. in fact they actually suggested double...
Nah boys, once you're a paying customer, thats what she will see always see u as. Not a bad thing as this is always cheaper than a relationship or marrying her.
Any WL/ML who has seen hundreds-thousands of men will be emotionally/psychologically damaged to an extent & wont be able to pair-bond/emotionally attach to one man anymore.
ML's and WL's, being female, are not wired like us males. We can shove our Dicks in their holes and walk away without a care in the world. The work they do does not come naturally to them.
Yes, it is mostly about money but some of them do develop an attraction and affection for us, especially if we are regulars and treat them kindly and respectfully.
The evidence of this is the number relationships that develop with these ladies where lust is misconstrued for something more.
This has happened to me more than once.
ditchtheboss
21-06-2023, 10:49 AM
I think there are 2 camps on this topic. Those who argue that girls are lying if they say they are falling for us and those like you and me who have been in the situation more than once.
I have stopped punting with WLs since the second occurrence as it hit her and I quite hard. Interesting that I have been seeing Sugar babes for 6 months now and this has not happened yet.
Some guys may be more vulnerable than others and get their heart strings tugged on.
Theres no emotions/attachments/attraction for these girls. The endgame for them is always money. Thats what brought them in & thats what theyre in it for at end of the day.
Bro's u gotta remember. These ML's/WL's are very good actresses & will tell u what u wanna hear LOLOLOL
broseph
21-06-2023, 02:42 PM
There are a few Japanese girls giving away STIs for free.
Is this a serious warning? If so, where shouldn't one go?
broseph
21-06-2023, 02:44 PM
Some guys may be more vulnerable than others and get their heart strings tugged on.
Theres no emotions/attachments/attraction for these girls. The endgame for them is always money. Thats what brought them in & thats what theyre in it for at end of the day.
Bro's u gotta remember. These ML's/WL's are very good actresses & will tell u what u wanna hear LOLOLOL
Exactly this. She's playing you.
Jamez11
21-06-2023, 05:21 PM
I'd agree and disagree with the woman having not having feelings and are after our money. Like one punter here said about a girl saying "we are human too and have feelings. A few times I have been with different WL's at their place chilling and next thing her WL friend all of a sudden brings over her favourite customer as well or goes on dates with him because she feels jealousy of what her friend has and wants the same thing for herself.
It just depends on the individual, yes some of the young ones are just after the money, just like some of the younger men are after hot sex. The older everybody gets, their thoughts change as well. Many of the WL/ML who are in there late 20's and early 30's do dream of having a solid partner and kids (biological clock ticking) but they just box it up in the back of their minds because of what they do for a job and know it's hard to have that whilst working, but for some they have a moment of weakness with you.
I've been the "favourite" customer of some girls because I'm the paying customer where as for other girls I've been the customer some get emotionally attached to.
It just comes down to both your personality and sexual compatibility that determines the kind of punting relationship you have and whether your both smart enough to keep your emotions in check.
Oh and if you think going to the shop when she ain't working is safe, you are wrong!!! Her friends/ other WL may recognise you and rat you out to her and the manager will to as she may ask him if you come in when shes not there. you just don't know it because she hasn't said it directly but will ask vague questions to see what you say when she knows the truth. I find this out after doing it and when I came back for her and I get along well with the manager and all he said was "I wouldn't lie to her when she asks" and I was thinking what the fuck he meant until after our session she was asking those questions and knew what he meant.
I didn’t say WL’s don’t have feelings I was just saying the idea women are born to receive, incubate, nurture and give birth while referencing WL’s was difficult to understand. The same WL that’s jealous of her friend dating one of her regular customers is probably the same girl that would be jealous of her designer handbag lol.
Most girls are jealous, most men are jealous it’s normal.
Why would a WL expect loyalty from you? You might be giving the whole I’m a nice guy/knight in shining armour and here to save you.
Do these girls that get your ‘personally and sexually compatible’ with fuck you for free?
Stubbage
21-06-2023, 05:53 PM
Had one jealous ml saw me booking another ml, next visit not that enthusiastic
HowTo28891298
21-06-2023, 10:48 PM
With one ML, we started a conversation where at one point she said she was leaving the country and isn't returning. She is honestly worth every dollar and I tipped her after every good session we had. I jokingly said that since she is leaving soon I should stop seeing her, after I said this the look on her face changed into a look of slight anger and fury which then instantly went back to smiles. I didn't acknowledge it but it was amusing that she reacted like that.
JJBlows
22-06-2023, 09:56 AM
I didn’t say WL’s don’t have feelings I was just saying the idea women are born to receive, incubate, nurture and give birth while referencing WL’s was difficult to understand. The same WL that’s jealous of her friend dating one of her regular customers is probably the same girl that would be jealous of her designer handbag lol.
Most girls are jealous, most men are jealous it’s normal.
Why would a WL expect loyalty from you? You might be giving the whole I’m a nice guy/knight in shining armour and here to save you.
Do these girls that get your ‘personally and sexually compatible’ with fuck you for free?
Lmao these girls don't need saving and me and her both know it. Yea they do expect loyalty and I'm not naive about her job so usually I make it known that if she does this job, then I'm allowed to have some "freedom" whilst with her and see other girls, just fun and that's it, nothing else more with other girls from me. When she decides to stop her job then I stop as well.
Some of them have their heads screwed on right and understand and agree to it but Most of them get real jealous because of it and can't hack it and we both move on. We know it's a job but there are moments of legitimate fun with other customers, so it's my way of keeping a "relationship" equal on all aspects of it.
And yea most of the time they usually do, as we go out and do stuff like normal people and go back to her place after and go to bed, other times I have paid, one girl I agreed with was to pay part of her room rent and i would spend the weekend there with her.
georgeWBC
22-06-2023, 12:28 PM
Had one jealous ml saw me booking another ml, next visit not that enthusiastic
Yeh I get that vibe at times.
Dont get delusional boys. These girls dont like u and have no feelings for u.
What she likes is your money & she gets upset when that money goes to another girl. Simple as that.
cuteguy
22-06-2023, 01:15 PM
Had one jealous ml saw me booking another ml, next visit not that enthusiastic
What did you expect? She's working and as long as you keep returning, she's got a steady stream of income coming in from you. Stop the visits and that's one less regular customer for her. If you dump her for another girl, she will be bitter.
I've seen how girls react when you mention the possibility of seeing other girls or her same nationality friends in the shop. She might say 'it's up to me' but you know she's really not cool about the idea.
ditchtheboss
22-06-2023, 01:23 PM
What did you expect? She's working and as long as you keep returning, she's got a steady stream of income coming in from you. Stop the visits and that's one less regular customer for her. If you dump her for another girl, she will be bitter.
I've seen how girls react when you mention the possibility of seeing other girls or her same nationality friends in the shop. She might say 'it's up to me' but you know she's really not cool about the idea.
They hate that. I had a regular who used to show them my photo and ask if I saw them 🤣
tawer5ag
22-06-2023, 08:06 PM
This made me realize how much of a game changer it is when you see the wl/ml outside the shop.
Furthermore, when you only pay for the date and not her time. I know, kinda the same thing. But its a bit different if you dont give them money, but only pay for the date activity/food.
And one better thing is when the wl/ml stays overnight and you dont pay her.
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No such thing as free sex. We all pay for it directly (money) or indirectly (time, dinners, gifts, attention etc).
Lucyfur
23-06-2023, 11:46 PM
No such thing as free sex. We all pay for it directly (money) or indirectly (time, dinners, gifts, attention etc).
Or a citizenship if you get baited that hard
@Lucyfur
Unfortunately doctors still have not found a cure for Beta White Knight syndrome yet
ColesBag
24-06-2023, 08:01 PM
These hookers must really be confused with the concept of why men see hookers.
Themysterypi
24-06-2023, 08:13 PM
Haven't had this problem. Don't think I've seen the same girl more than three times so wouldn't be considered a regular.
Soccerfan
03-07-2023, 09:02 AM
I was lucky enough to spend the weekend with my regular ML and after a few beers she told me that her and her colleagues talk about how jealous they get if their regular sees someone else. I never really believed it and I was shocked when she said it. I still can’t believe it.
I was lucky enough to spend the weekend with my regular ML and after a few beers she told me that her and her colleagues talk about how jealous they get if their regular sees someone else. I never really believed it and I was shocked when she said it. I still can’t believe it.
Its not really jealousy in the traditional sense. Theyre not fighting over u, in the same way that girls fight over a guy that they both like.
Theyre angry that the money went to their colleague, and not to them. Loss of income. Thats all it is.
Remember these girls dont like u, they like the money u bring.
Axeman123
03-07-2023, 12:09 PM
Its not really jealousy in the traditional sense. Theyre not fighting over u, in the same way that girls fight over a guy that they both like.
Theyre angry that the money went to their colleague, and not to them. Loss of income. Thats all it is.
Remember these girls dont like u, they like the money u bring. Much less respect us
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