Are they trying to reel me in?

[HowDoIKnow34732]

Hello everyone.

Honestly been conflicted with writing this but here goes.

I went to my first "massage " shop 2 months ago and have returned to see the same girl multiple times, also I haven't been to any private ladies or anything like that. I think it was beginners luck or something but the girl I saw is pretty much perfect, I have even been tempted to ask why she is doing this for work as from her appearance and how she handles conversation and such she seems a capable person. I'll be honest, not to sound cocky I am above average looks so maybe that's a factor. I think it's best if I keep the shop and girl's name anonymous.

NOTE: I had a previous copy of this thread typed out with nearly full details of each visit and realised they would then figure out who I am, by cutting the length I have had to leave out details however.

Since the second visit I have been tipping the girl. We exchanged contacts after the fourth visit and the only time I messaged her was to ask whether she would be fine seeing me some day. Also during the fourth visit it came up in conversation that she is leaving Australia soon is most likely not going to return. After the latest visit I spoke with one of the shops staff shortly and they asked if I had seen her before and I said; "Yes, I have seen her [NUMBER] times." And so, recently the girl messaged me out of the blue which I was not expecting.

I understand that there are some people on this site who have many years of experience in this sector of life, so I wanted to ask if anyone thinks that the shop staff got the impression I like the girl and told her to message me so I get enticed to visit the girl as much possible before she leaves.

Also if anyone gets the impression I am too worried about this, tell me straight.

EDIT: Thanks for the responses guys, especially the genuine ones, and even the keyboard warriors.

[OLD SNAKE]

A happy customer is a repeat customer, so even after the girl leaves the shop they still want you to come back and spend your money,
also its only human to form an attachment to others thats why we form some sort of relationships with others,
before the girl goes back home, ask her out for a coffee date or ask if she would like to go on a day trip to somewhere they haven't been like the blue mountains, central coast, Wollongong, that way when she does return she can have some sort of happy memories of places she visited while here, and just not being naked infront of strange men jerking them off for money,

[GoldfishMan]

The perfect girl, huh? First shop, first girl you met in an MP, and you're ready to call it. Maybe you ought to go buy a lotteryv ticket, maybe you'll win it on the first try.

[HowDoIKnow34732]

The perfect girl, huh? First shop, first girl you met in an MP, and you're ready to call it. Maybe you ought to go buy a lotteryv ticket, maybe you'll win it on the first try.

Haha fair enough, I know it sounds ridiculous.

[HowDoIKnow34732]

A happy customer is a repeat customer, so even after the girl leaves the shop they still want you to come back and spend your money,
also its only human to form an attachment to others thats why we form some sort of relationships with others,
before the girl goes back home, ask her out for a coffee date or ask if she would like to go on a day trip to somewhere they haven't been like the blue mountains, central coast, Wollongong, that way when she does return she can have some sort of happy memories of places she visited while here, and just not being naked infront of strange men jerking them off for money,

Yeah I'll be honest I was thinking of going back to see her just for around an hour for just a chat or something, no massage or anything. Your idea sounds a lot better I'll be honest. However I have a surgery in a few weeks so most likely nothing will happen.

[personaa]

This may sound a bit harsh or inhumane but my suggestion is to leave for feeling at home when you visit a shop and never show signs of pity for any provider in this industry. Girls are very smart to take advantage from your feelings and slowly slowly extract money from your wallet. I never question why they are doing this job. It's simply for money and they want sort of easy money so it's their decision. Who Am I to judge someone's personal decision? I don't look down on people woing in any kind of job and sex work is legal in NSW.

[Sibon]

It is nothing strange for a WL to message you to come to see her.

May be it's a slow day. Maybe she is missing you. Maybe two stars collide in the sky.

Maybe .......

Just enjoy the sex and pay up and don't over think about it. :)

[tcrawford]

The shop won't encourage girls to make private contact with the customers in order to get repeat visits, because then the girls have an opportunity to meet the customer in private bypassing the shop altogether. If the girl contacts the customer its her own personal agenda.

[ditchtheboss]

Do not ever see the girl outside the shop. I have done that myself and it is an absolute disaster.

The shop wants you back. The girl is leaving the country. Move to the next girl, next pussy. Move on

[GoldfishMan]

It is nothing strange for a WL to message you to come to see her.

May be it's a slow day. Maybe she is missing you. Maybe two stars collides in the sky.

Maybe .......

Just enjoy the sex and pay up and don't over think about it. :)

Wait a sec, have you forgotten something? Where's the Miyagi sensei quote?
This one is literally sitting there for a top notch Miyagi quote, but you're not going to do one? Come on mate...

[HowDoIKnow34732]

Wait a sec, have you forgotten something? Where's the Miyagi sensei quote?
This one is literally sitting there for a top notch Miyagi quote, but you're not going to do one? Come on mate...

I have a feeling this Miyagi sensei quote will resolve this thread.

[Meng]

I think we're all missing the point here of this post. We should all congratulate him on being handsome.

[ditchtheboss]

Haha. I am sure she has never seen anyone like him before.

[andrewv]

Hello everyone.

Honestly been conflicted with writing this but here goes.

I went to my first "massage " shop 2 months ago and have returned to see the same girl multiple times, also I haven't been to any private ladies or anything like that. I think it was beginners luck or something but the girl I saw is pretty much perfect, I have even been tempted to ask why she is doing this for work as from her appearance and how she handles conversation and such she seems a capable person. I'll be honest, not to sound cocky I am above average looks so maybe that's a factor. I think it's best if I keep the shop and girl's name anonymous.

NOTE: I had a previous copy of this thread typed out with nearly full details of each visit and realised they would then figure out who I am, by cutting the length I have had to leave out details however.

Since the second visit I have been tipping the girl. We exchanged contacts after the fourth visit and the only time I messaged her was to ask whether she would be fine seeing me some day. Also during the fourth visit it came up in conversation that she is leaving Australia soon is most likely not going to return. After the latest visit I spoke with one of the shops staff shortly and they asked if I had seen her before and I said; "Yes, I have seen her [NUMBER] times." And so, recently the girl messaged me out of the blue which I was not expecting.

I understand that there are some people on this site who have many years of experience in this sector of life, so I wanted to ask if anyone thinks that the shop staff got the impression I like the girl and told her to message me so I get enticed to visit the girl as much possible before she leaves.

Also if anyone gets the impression I am too worried about this, tell me straight.

Hi @HowDoIKnow34732
If you want the opinion of someone who has spent 25+ years and close to $250,000+ on getting serviced by many, many massage/working girls, I can say this:

Keep it to a professional business arrangement.
If you feel emotionally connected in the slightest, you will definitely get screwed by it (screwed not in a pleasurable way)!

It doesn’t matter if a girl is leaving or staying at any shop, she is a woman who is ONLY looking to make money fast. She chooses not to work for $30 an hour cleaning houses or being a shop assistant or waitress. She is choosing to make the maximum possible and it just happens that this requires her to play with dicks In various ways. But if it were up to her, she’d rather not do it.

In summary, focus your mind on what you are getting for your $$$. Period.

[Sibon]

Wait a sec, have you forgotten something? Where's the Miyagi sensei quote?
This one is literally sitting there for a top notch Miyagi quote, but you're not going to do one? Come on mate...

Miyagi Sensei is on yasumi. :)

[Sibon]

I'll be honest, not to sound cocky I am above average looks so maybe that's a factor.


To a WL your above average bank balances are more important than your looks.

Because she always close her eyes dreaming of George Clooney etc. when you're riding her.

She is not in the trade to find handsome men. :)

[Sibon]

I think we're all missing the point here of this post. We should all congratulate him on being handsome.

"Give a girl $50
You are always a handsome man
Everytime."

- Miyagi Sensei.

[Double_Adapter]

It is very very rare for a beautiful woman to chase a man ie unless he is old, fat, ugly and is a billionaire. So, if this ML has worked up the courage to text you she is genuine and into you, and thinks you're a handsome guy and a great catch. I think she's keen on exploring a potential relationship with you but she won't ask for fear of being rejected and losing face (a chick thing). In this situation you should make your feelings known to her and put it all on the line.

[Meng]

It is very very rare for a beautiful woman to chase a man ie unless he is old, fat, ugly and is a billionaire. So, if this ML has worked up the courage to text you she is genuine and into you, and thinks you're a handsome guy and a great catch. I think she's keen on exploring a potential relationship with you but she won't ask for fear of being rejected and losing face (a chick thing). In this situation you should make your feelings known to her and put it all on the line.
I 100% agree. He should start by buying a diamond ring and some flowers and wait outside the massage shop. When she arrives, get on one knee and tell her not to go back and that she should marry you.

Trust me works every time. I mean the ML, contacted you once. She must be madly in love with you.

[wowsofast]

I can clearly see that this was typed pre-nut.

Have a wank. Or more than one if needed. And you will know what to do.

Likely be prostrating yourself here and thanking the forefathers on this forum.

[dotcumdotinyou]

She's perfect, he's above average looks...its destiny, the gods have brought them together to sire a race of perfect children who will go on to take over the world and eradicate all us uglies.

[dotcumdotinyou]

AND

He doesn't sound cocky AT ALL

[Footballpunter]

How much did you tip her? like, not to be critical, but if you tip her $100 then that gives her more incentives to contact you right? You have the good looks plus you tip, I think that's normal to a person that they wanna reach out.

My suggestion is don't over think it. You went out looking for a service. You ended up getting it, and then some. So you go to sleep as a winner. Now don't go back and put your feelings into it, that's not what winners do. cheers mate

[Fredsal]

How much did you tip her? like, not to be critical, but if you tip her $100 then that gives her more incentives to contact you right? You have the good looks plus you tip, I think that's normal to a person that they wanna reach out.

My suggestion is don't over think it. You went out looking for a service. You ended up getting it, and then some. So you go to sleep as a winner. Now don't go back and put your feelings into it, that's not what winners do. cheers mate

Cheers Footballpunter. Yes good advice I was in a similar situation about 12-18 months ago. Funny ML herself told me not to overthink when I kept asking who else she was servicing apart from me. Service is what we pay for not feelings.

[1inchguy]

Cheers Footballpunter. Yes good advice I was in a similar situation about 12-18 months ago. Funny ML herself told me not to overthink when I kept asking who else she was servicing apart from me. Service is what we pay for not feelings.

I havent asked wl/ml what she does to other punters however this regular would tell me about it how some guys take ages to get hard and forever to cum plus she need to fake it. Like no shit she probably fakes it to me like as if my 1 incher is gonna satisfy but I digress.
However like porn I'm into NTR netore type stuff like what girls do with other punters without their regulars knowing?

[Footballpunter]

Cheers Footballpunter. Yes good advice I was in a similar situation about 12-18 months ago. Funny ML herself told me not to overthink when I kept asking who else she was servicing apart from me. Service is what we pay for not feelings.

Yea, I can see how a ML/WL doesn't want you to think too much. Could mean extra hassle to them if anyone gets too attached. We just do our part and leave all the feelings at home.

[F0x]

Hello everyone.

Honestly been conflicted with writing this but here goes.

I went to my first "massage " shop 2 months ago and have returned to see the same girl multiple times, also I haven't been to any private ladies or anything like that. I think it was beginners luck or something but the girl I saw is pretty much perfect, I have even been tempted to ask why she is doing this for work as from her appearance and how she handles conversation and such she seems a capable person. I'll be honest, not to sound cocky I am above average looks so maybe that's a factor. I think it's best if I keep the shop and girl's name anonymous.

NOTE: I had a previous copy of this thread typed out with nearly full details of each visit and realised they would then figure out who I am, by cutting the length I have had to leave out details however.

Since the second visit I have been tipping the girl. We exchanged contacts after the fourth visit and the only time I messaged her was to ask whether she would be fine seeing me some day. Also during the fourth visit it came up in conversation that she is leaving Australia soon is most likely not going to return. After the latest visit I spoke with one of the shops staff shortly and they asked if I had seen her before and I said; "Yes, I have seen her [NUMBER] times." And so, recently the girl messaged me out of the blue which I was not expecting.

I understand that there are some people on this site who have many years of experience in this sector of life, so I wanted to ask if anyone thinks that the shop staff got the impression I like the girl and told her to message me so I get enticed to visit the girl as much possible before she leaves.

Also if anyone gets the impression I am too worried about this, tell me straight.

EDIT: Thanks for the responses guys, especially the genuine ones, and even the keyboard warriors.

Short answer to your OP question "Are they trying to reel me in" is YES, though I'd say change the term "they" to "her" unless your ML is one of those pronoun loving Gen LTHDGSIMGEM.

The long answer is that scientifically it's proven, that the more a girl sleep around (and I assume this doesn't have to mean actual sex but even intimacy) her actual brain chemistry changes.

For Women, they bond over sex. In a sense so do Men but Women do this almost on a chemical level.

So when they do this constantly but no actual partnerships form, they get "broken". It's now difficult for them to form an actual honest bond.

Not to mention the underlying knowledge that every ML and WL has that probably MOST Men they see have a partner and just want different pussy. How do you think this affects their perception of a relationship with a guy? Also, how do YOU feel, knowing a girl you're intending to be with, might have done things with other guys that would make you gag at the thought? You never know.

As most people are saying, drop it now. See her one last time in the shop if you need, but just enjoy the session don't worry about her leaving and let it go.

I have MLs I really enjoy my time with, but that's all there is to it. A small part of me sometimes wonders, but then I only have time to come to this forum to straighten myself out LOL.

- Fox

[Harika]

That’s why as a rule I don’t see the same one more than 2 times no matter how good

Save the headfuckery and cast a line in the ocean mate
Plenty of fish