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NightShift
11-08-2023, 11:47 AM
Seeing the same girl again? Is it always better service / same or worse?

For me this year and my experiences, I see the same girl again and it’s always the same level great service. Sometimes, rarely it’s even better service. Hasn’t been worse service for me returning… not yet..

Have you guys returned to the same girl and the service has been worse?

ditchtheboss
11-08-2023, 12:00 PM
Seeing the same girl again? Is it always better service / same or worse?

For me this year and my experiences, I see the same girl again and it’s always the same level great service. Sometimes, rarely it’s even better service. Hasn’t been worse service for me returning… not yet..

Have you guys returned to the same girl and the service has been worse?

No, never worse, often better depending on how we both are, our interaction and connection. I find that creating that “emotional” connection and leaving them with positive memories of our encounters, particularly the previous encounter, it makes every meeting better.

NightShift
11-08-2023, 12:06 PM
No, never worse, often better depending on how we both are, our interaction and connection. I find that creating that “emotional” connection and leaving them with positive memories of our encounters, particularly the previous encounter, it makes every meeting better.

Yes. Very Well said.

Footballpunter
11-08-2023, 12:07 PM
No, never worse, often better depending on how we both are, our interaction and connection. I find that creating that “emotional” connection and leaving them with positive memories of our encounters, particularly the previous encounter, it makes every meeting better.

agree with the emotional connection part. Also, I think it usually doesn't get worse because you enjoyed the interaction enough to go back a second time.

ditchtheboss
11-08-2023, 12:29 PM
It doesn't get worse but the lazy factor does creep in at times. What I mean is they may lie on the bed or massage table longer than what is expected and aren't rushing to pleasure you or remove their clothes because they want to chat more with you. On the other hand, there is more fun such as great sex or extras being offered once we engage in action.

I think you are right, it doesn’t get worse but lazy perhaps. The interesting thing is that I only see that with frequent WLs and not SBs. But it’s fair enough, we are comfortable with each other and she already fucked a few dicks during the day so seeing me is probably a bit of a breath of fresh air. I still get my moneys worth but I see your point. One of my previous frequents once told me that she feels safe with me, certainly the same with other frequents, and I could tell when she had had a rough day. Notwithstanding that she still gave me pretty good service. I don’t see a problem with being a breath of fresh air in their day so long as she still drains me which she always did

l337dude
11-08-2023, 03:07 PM
Repeat service usually gets better, for one the girl usually feels more relaxed...familiar environment n all, she also probably knows what makes you tick etc..

The only problem I can see is that some girls may treat a regular as an "easy" job, thinking you will see her again anyway, don't have to try as hard blah blah..lazy attitude, I would say this is rare (haven't happened to me before) but definitely possible.

Ghost2hauntU
11-08-2023, 04:32 PM
Seeing the same girl again? Is it always better service / same or worse?

For me this year and my experiences, I see the same girl again and it’s always the same level great service. Sometimes, rarely it’s even better service. Hasn’t been worse service for me returning… not yet..

Have you guys returned to the same girl and the service has been worse?

I’ve had both. One regular I was seeing the sex was the best the first time and then got all mechanical and I lost interest after about 10 visits by which time it was no good.

Another regular I’ve been seeing for 2 years until recently when she left the industry the sex was better and better and I was seeing her on average every 2-3 weeks. Best chemistry I ever had with any girl and I crave for her like mad hoping she makes a comeback.

NightShift
11-08-2023, 05:57 PM
Good point about “lazy attitude” I’d hate to see a girl again and she now has the Blackpink Jennie “lazy attitude”

OneandDone
11-08-2023, 06:11 PM
agree with the emotional connection part. Also, I think it usually doesn't get worse because you enjoyed the interaction enough to go back a second time.
What is the emotional connection that you guys are talking about ? The sex, that was paid for right ??

Axeman123
11-08-2023, 07:20 PM
The trouble speaking of emotional connection being that your really only putting your spin on it. To speak for someone else , put words in their mouth if U like is not necessarily how it is with them. A grey area.

Roshtosh
11-08-2023, 08:25 PM
Emotional connection is what will get you into trouble. Keep it purely sexual and simple with raw primal fucking.

Footballpunter
11-08-2023, 08:39 PM
Emotional connection is a double edge sword that can elevate a great punt into an amazing punt, but soon becomes emotional damage instead

l337dude
11-08-2023, 09:24 PM
but soon becomes emotional damage instead

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9jX5sonpKoo

Footballpunter
11-08-2023, 09:37 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9jX5sonpKoo

haha What the hail, I will send you to jesus. *with the accent*

JSteel96
11-08-2023, 11:25 PM
as long as the girl blows your socks off the first time then the next time you see her is usually better as you become familiar with each other. The girl also becomes more comfortable with you each time you see her again. In many cases I found the second visit for the same girl even better than the first one. By the third visit your certainly know your in for a wild time. The important thing here is the first time you see that girl you had an amazing adventure with her.

Ghost2hauntU
11-08-2023, 11:59 PM
Some WLs I’ve been with have told me things like “it’s all about the feelings.” Those were always the best experiences.
And perhaps the best complement I recently got was “I really felt that!! repeated 2x” after an hour of intense sex.

So emotional connection is awesome if it’s there. What happens afterwards that’s life. I just focus on the present moment.

Sibon
12-08-2023, 12:16 AM
Emotional connection is a double edge sword that can elevate a great punt into an amazing punt, but soon becomes emotional damage instead

Emotional connection will soon lead to disconnection then to emotional wreck when the punter falls for the WL.

We've heard that many times.

Enjoy the sex and leave emotion to the safe keeping of your wife.

personaa
12-08-2023, 12:19 AM
The experienced ones do value repeat booking, but the young ones get lazy and take it as granted. That's my observation.

Footballpunter
12-08-2023, 01:02 AM
I thought of another thing for emotional connection. Say the punter felt the connection, really enjoyed the time together with the WL. But what if the WL is just really good at her job, and has the ability to make the punter(s) feel connected? Anyone heard of stories or experienced it before?

booyah38
12-08-2023, 02:47 AM
Good question never seen any more than twice might find a regular see if it adds benefit

HowTo28891298
12-08-2023, 10:14 AM
I thought of another thing for emotional connection. Say the punter felt the connection, really enjoyed the time together with the WL. But what if the WL is just really good at her job, and has the ability to make the punter(s) feel connected? Anyone heard of stories or experienced it before?

I imagine that all the girls do this. Someone's probably got an entertaining story to share, like they caught the girl break character or something.

Themysterypi
12-08-2023, 10:22 AM
I find by the 5th time you see the same girl it is not as exciting and you lose the energy from the early sessions.

Double_Adapter
12-08-2023, 11:35 AM
I find by the 5th time you see the same girl it is not as exciting and you lose the energy from the early sessions.

I'd agree with that. Once familiarity sets in all the bullshit about feelings, connection, bonding, sex gets better, sensation, experience etc goes out the window - you only gotta look at 99% of married people to realise that.

Repetition is the mother of habit, and habits produce complacency. Sexual complacency is the reason why relationships go stale and why cheating, partner swapping, swinging clubs, cuckolding, threesomes, dogging, punting exists.

AHLUNGOR
12-08-2023, 12:20 PM
I think I might have commented on this topic before as the same question had popped up on many occasions. Looking back, I think there are stages in our punting journey and our options and preferences could be changing as our personal circumstances are evolving as well:

When I first joined the old forum, punting and RnT was like a new horizon to me and with the overflow of intels it’s like Willy Wonker in the chocolate factory, try new girls and fucking big new natural tits was almost like a challenge.

As I was mainly a RnT guy so FS fuck was only few and far in between, 5 Star was my go to place and Milo was my only lady I have seen multiple times.

I have then declared Lisa ex Silver Fox, QVB and 7 Lotus was my number 1 girl, she was the lady I saw most frequently at the time and partly because all the places she worked were very convenient city locations , and those were the time when I could only afford a 30 min quickie, not money wise but time wise. So why would I risk going to other shops and try a newbie and risk the opportunity?

After Lisa’s retirement, Cherry 🍒 became my no 1 girl and where did I meet Cherry 🍒? At my most convenient shop the QVB of course.

And now that QVB is closed permanently and Cherry 🍒 can only be tasted at 227 NSM, it’s just almost impossible to see her again, not because I don’t want to, there are still so many things I want to do to her but NSM is simply too faaaaar.

So that’s just me and I would probably continue to visit the shops that are convenient and see my regulars such as Susan at 518 Kent St, when I have a bit more time, seeing Anna or Candy were great options to. Plus Coco at the Oasis in Stanmore if I have more lust to be satisfied…….. haha

There are still plenty of options.

Happy and safe punting,


Cheers

Ps. PYT or NTI, I still like of course, especially if she has Double D Cup or better……… lol

Footballpunter
12-08-2023, 12:25 PM
I imagine that all the girls do this. Someone's probably got an entertaining story to share, like they caught the girl break character or something.

I feel like some don't even want to pretend to connect with you though. Had a few that's really just very transactional and you can tell. Some other you can tell they are pretend/trying to connect with you. But I'm talking about when the punter actually does feel connected in some ways, but the WL is actually just really good at faking the emotion part too. I can imagine it's a blessing and a curse at the same time for the punter. He gets to have this amazing session with her, but might start to develop into something more than that in his mind while the girl feels nothing.

HowTo28891298
12-08-2023, 03:12 PM
I feel like some don't even want to pretend to connect with you though. Had a few that's really just very transactional and you can tell. Some other you can tell they are pretend/trying to connect with you.

Yea true, guess it depends on the mood of the girl, whether she likes how you treat her, how much you tip, how many regulars she has etc


But I'm talking about when the punter actually does feel connected in some ways, but the WL is actually just really good at faking the emotion part too. I can imagine it's a blessing and a curse at the same time for the punter. He gets to have this amazing session with her, but might start to develop into something more than that in his mind while the girl feels nothing.

This would be a very deep sinkhole or whatever the phrase is lol. I can see how some guys would fold when a ML or WL treats them well. Guys have to switch off part of their brain when getting in the room.

Daffy
12-08-2023, 05:14 PM
I find by the 5th time you see the same girl it is not as exciting and you lose the energy from the early sessions.

While I kind of agree this is also about the time you start learning about each others kinks. I’ve got a couple of regular girls who have opened up on what they like and that’s made it more fun. Whether it’s the hand cuffs and blindfolds with one or the one who loves getting fucked while wearing a plug or the girl who loves to be choked.

It takes a while to build up that level of trust where you can try out some of this stuff

BigPedro666
12-08-2023, 05:56 PM
I would say if you get a good one, you keep going back

ReginaldBubbles
12-08-2023, 06:58 PM
Good point about “lazy attitude” I’d hate to see a girl again and she now has the Blackpink Jennie “lazy attitude”

Yo leave Jennie alone dude

Footballpunter
12-08-2023, 07:10 PM
Yea true, guess it depends on the mood of the girl, whether she likes how you treat her, how much you tip, how many regulars she has etc



This would be a very deep sinkhole or whatever the phrase is lol. I can see how some guys would fold when a ML or WL treats them well. Guys have to switch off part of their brain when getting in the room.

Deep sinkhole indeed

CursedCoomer
12-08-2023, 11:55 PM
I've seen one ML about 10 times now and the service is always great or even better than expected. If I wanna dfk the moment I walk in she's down. If I wanna start off with part 3 she's down. If I wanna grope her titties for 10 minutes straight she'll let me. If I want a massage with lots of tickle tackle she'll ramp up the teasing. Just treat your ML right and she'll treat you right.

CursedCoomer
12-08-2023, 11:57 PM
Yo leave Jennie alone dude

I reckon Jennie would defs be the best root out of BP tho. She got the whole cute but slutty type vibe going on.