What would you do if WL refuses to serve you after showing

[Sexybee]

I have been punting over 20 years and some WLs did do services impatiently or quickly or complainingly, but this is very first time WL told me she didn’t want to do after we got into the room, I stood naked by the bed and felt very embarrassed. I asked girl what was happened and I didn’t say anything and did anything. I had to leave room sadly. What would you do if you were me?

[HowTo28891298]

Oof, I guess this is why some shops have the girls check the CCTV, double mirror or whatever. Unlucky man, hopefully doesn't happen again.

[ditchtheboss]

Ouch, I would simply ask for my money back without complaining as it is their choice and I would leave as quickly as possible

[Footballpunter]

maybe the girl was having a bad day...

[Ghost2hauntU]

maybe the girl was having a bad day...

Why then did she take his money and accept the job in the first place? If she had a “bad day”?

This is no different to going to any shop and paying for a product only to have the shop staff refuse to hand it over, because she’s having a bad day.

The legality of this is that an agreement was made for service to be rendered and money exchanged for said service and the shop is now liable to provide the that service. If they don’t, or it’s not of the standard you paid for, they have to refund your money or find an alternative. Or you have rights to sue them and it would be trivial actually to do this without a lawyer.

I’ve never had this happen to me yet. And as to what I’d do, I’d seek my money back by getting out of that room ASAP. Make a lot of noise if they are not willing and threaten to tarnish their reputation all over the forums. That you’ll report them to the police etc.

[JJBlows]

I have been punting over 20 years and some WLs did do services impatiently or quickly or complainingly, but this is very first time WL told me she didn’t want to do after we got into the room, I stood naked by the bed and felt very embarrassed. I asked girl what was happened and I didn’t say anything and did anything. I had to leave room sadly. What would you do if you were me?

You got a big dick??

Some girls do refuse when they see the good hanging out

[Sibon]

What would you do if WL refuses to serve you after showing?

I'll bow and thank her profusively for saving me $300.

I would then commend her for her parents who have brought her up to be such a fine lady. They would be proud of her.

[Footballpunter]

Why then did she take his money and accept the job in the first place? If she had a “bad day”?

This is no different to going to any shop and paying for a product only to have the shop staff refuse to hand it over, because she’s having a bad day.

The legality of this is that an agreement was made for service to be rendered and money exchanged for said service and the shop is now liable to provide the that service. If they don’t, or it’s not of the standard you paid for, they have to refund your money or find an alternative. Or you have rights to sue them and it would be trivial actually to do this without a lawyer.

I’ve never had this happen to me yet. And as to what I’d do, I’d seek my money back by getting out of that room ASAP. Make a lot of noise if they are not willing and threaten to tarnish their reputation all over the forums. That you’ll report them to the police etc.

What I assumed is that the shop took the money first without knowing that the girl will refuse to work. Of course he has all the right to get his money back.

[Sibon]

I have been punting over 20 years and some WLs did do services impatiently or quickly or complainingly, but this is very first time WL told me she didn’t want to do after we got into the room, I stood naked by the bed and felt very embarrassed. I asked girl what was happened and I didn’t say anything and did anything. I had to leave room sadly. What would you do if you were me?

Name of the WL and the establishment?

[Sexybee]

You got a big dick??

Some girls do refuse when they see the good hanging out

Lol size length like iPhone 14

[Climax598]

She should be paying you for showing you penis to her.

[Sexybee]

Name of the WL and the establishment?
As a professional punter, it is hard for me to mention her name and shops because receptionist always look after me. Also I don’t want to affect that girl and shop because of me. I would not go that shop any more. I would not complain to their boss because he can’t change anything

[Sexybee]

She should be paying you for showing you penis to her.

Yes, she stared at my cock for a while. Lol

[wilisno]

Yes, she stared at my cock for a while. Lol

Not much you can do about that, you can’t blame the shop for accepting your money in the first place because you didn’t show your dick at that time. ;) ;) ;)

As for the other guy’s suggestions of suing the shop, unless you want to be famous in the news and you might not even win ! And that idiot who suggests to attack the shop on the forum, he’ll get banned for sure. The forum is not a place for settling the scores between shops and punters.

The shop won’t take your money in that situation, they will even apologise to you, but that’s as far as it will go.

[Hidden Python]

This is why it’s call punting, sometimes you win sometimes you loose,
My suggestion before you hand over any money always see the girls that are available and ask them straight up if they are happy to service you, You can see it in their faces if they are interest,

[Ghost2hauntU]

Yes, she stared at my cock for a while. Lol

So did you get your money back or not?

[17012430]

Sorry to hear... hope you got your money back or went with a different one

[wolfman88]

This sort of happened to me in Wollongong. What I mean by sort of; I walked into the room, went full Monty and she said she didn’t want to give me a BJ or go on top because she was hung over. Sort of worked for me because I wanted to pound her doggy anyway. But it took me by surprise. At the end of it I asked why she didn’t want to go on top or even give little fella a kiss and she said she was still a bit hung over from the night before. Fair play I guess

[JSteel96]

I have been punting over 20 years and some WLs did do services impatiently or quickly or complainingly, but this is very first time WL told me she didn’t want to do after we got into the room, I stood naked by the bed and felt very embarrassed. I asked girl what was happened and I didn’t say anything and did anything. I had to leave room sadly. What would you do if you were me?

Hopefully you demanded your money back. About the only other thing you can do is leave the shop and the girl some bad reviews online to warn other punters. This never happened to me in decades of punting. Find a girl you click with and become a regular with her.

[rooter]

Maybe because she thinks your dick is too big bro. But the reason is irrelevant anyway.
A WL can withdraw consent at any time and doesn't have to give you a reason and once she says no that's it it's over.
You fact that you have already paid money means nothing.
All you can do is walk out and ask for your money back from reception.
There is no point arguing with the girl. And of course if you try to force her it's sexual assault.
So you did the right thing to just stay calm and walk out.

[F0x]

So first of all, I agree with Sibon, even if I sense it was sarcastic, at least she was upfront rather than trying to go through it whinging and giving as little service as possible. That's actually commendable.

2ndly, let's be honest. There's not really such a thing as a dick that's too big.

Women are pushing something with a 10cm end to end girth through that hole. It can handle girth if your gentle and slow. It may be the length she was worried about, but that's discussable. Hey punter, not too deep, otherwise my cervix will get injured ok? Translate if needed, and potentially have the shop keep an ear out for any signs of duress from the room if the punter didn't respect this.

In which case a friendly reminder behind the shop may be in order.

3rdly, don't know why you just left the room and didn't request someone else or ask the shop to accommodate you. That's their job. And why they have multiple girls on roster.

I've never had this situation but that to me is the logical steps to take.

Thank the girl and say I'm glad you were honest. Then go to the shop and say this girl didn't want me, not sure why. Please confirm why, then ask the other girls if there is someone willing and I will choose someone else. If the reason is something where no other girl will accept (i.e WL saw you clearly had herpes on your dick when you didn't notice) ok I'll take my business elsewhere. (And get a bloody checkup).

[JJBlows]

2ndly, let's be honest. There's not really such a thing as a dick that's too big.

Women are pushing something with a 10cm end to end girth through that hole. It can handle girth if your gentle and slow. It may be the length she was worried about, but that's discussable. Hey punter, not too deep, otherwise my cervix will get injured ok? Translate if needed, and potentially have the shop keep an ear out for any signs of duress from the room if the punter didn't respect this.

Yes true there never is a thing as dick to big but the question is it even enjoyable for them?

For Some girls the girth is too wide and for other it's the length when it hits the cervix causes bad pain.

[BigPedro666]

Never had this, I feel inadequate now ... Hope you got a substitute

[asiafever]

You shrug your shoulders, thank them for their honesty, walk back to reception and either get your money back or see who else is available. It's not a massive deal. Could be any number of reasons and if it's nothing to do with personal hygiene you don't take it personally.

Not the same thing, but I've also never understood why guys get so shitty if a girl turns them away in a bar for example, just shrug your shoulders and get on with your life, getting all agro and confrontational about it only further proves the girl was 100% correct in her original decision.

[Sibon]

I have been punting over 20 years and some WLs did do services impatiently or quickly or complainingly, but this is very first time WL told me she didn’t want to do after we got into the room, I stood naked by the bed and felt very embarrassed. I asked girl what was happened and I didn’t say anything and did anything. I had to leave room sadly. What would you do if you were me?

Don't let this one incidence spoils your fun. There are many more WLs and shops around.

I was surprised to find out there are so many shops along Burwood Road and more surprises at the side streets.

It looks like a business to print money and everyone is at it sucking every dollar out of punters and into black economy.

[Footballpunter]

Not the same thing, but I've also never understood why guys get so shitty if a girl turns them away in a bar for example, just shrug your shoulders and get on with your life, getting all agro and confrontational about it only further proves the girl was 100% correct in her original decision.

This is a very good example of how some guys can't take rejections. Maybe it's all about expectations. You ask a girl out, there always going to be a yes or a no. But some people tend to forget about the "no" part. I'm not talking about this exactly situation with OP. Just in general. Cheers

[F0x]

Yes true there never is a thing as dick to big but the question is it even enjoyable for them?

For Some girls the girth is too wide and for other it's the length when it hits the cervix causes bad pain.

I get what you are thinking, but let's go one level back.

Is it enjoyable for them as a whole to have random men having sex with them? It's probably that layer rather than dick size. They've seen any and all dicks from micro penis to Ron Jeremy's I'm sure. It's probably the LEAST thing they are "judging" you by if that makes sense.

I am not going to make any assumptions about Sexybees appearance, but hey, maybe he's more Bee than sexy. And WL had 10 guys like it before and unfortunately SB was the straw that broke the camels back and she was like, yeah no. Can't do no more, I'm a big fat pass on this.

*Shrug*

[Sexybee]

Let me elaborate story

I contacted with receptionist I know him a couple of years and confirmed time.

I met girl then go upstairs and undressed, ok anything looked like ok, but suddenly girl dressed up and asked if I wanted to do another girl

[PKING2]

Let me elaborate story

I contacted with receptionist I know him a couple of years and confirmed time.

I met girl then go upstairs and undressed, ok anything looked like ok, but suddenly girl dressed up and asked if I wanted to do another girl

Might be your dong dong to big or too wide for her.
Or might be she is your friend' friend and you didnt realised her yet. Or might be neighbour.

If you know the receptionist for couple of years just ask him. Better than we blind guess here lol

[Fredsal]

I get what you are thinking, but let's go one level back.

Is it enjoyable for them as a whole to have random men having sex with them? It's probably that layer rather than dick size. They've seen any and all dicks from micro penis to Ron Jeremy's I'm sure. It's probably the LEAST thing they are "judging" you by if that makes sense.

I am not going to make any assumptions about Sexybees appearance, but hey, maybe he's more Bee than sexy. And WL had 10 guys like it before and unfortunately SB was the straw that broke the camels back and she was like, yeah no. Can't do no more, I'm a big fat pass on this.

*Shrug*

I had a WL and I asked her was my cock too big. She said it wasn’t, saying it was good size for her.
But she did add that she preferred smaller dicks as it was less work for her. I can understand that when they are going through so many clients in a day.

[Ghost2hauntU]

Hopefully you demanded your money back. About the only other thing you can do is leave the shop and the girl some bad reviews online to warn other punters. This never happened to me in decades of punting. Find a girl you click with and become a regular with her.

Exactly. In fact by not leaving a negative AR you are doing all of us a disservice OP.

A 6.5 inch cock is not that big mate, and honestly if there’s a WL that had a problem with it, she shouldn’t be in the industry. Or she should make it clear she can handle cock only up to a certain size.

So don’t be the nice guy, call that whore out for the rest of us.

Bros b4 hoes.

[asiafever]

This is a very good example of how some guys can't take rejections. Maybe it's all about expectations. You ask a girl out, there always going to be a yes or a no. But some people tend to forget about the "no" part. I'm not talking about this exactly situation with OP. Just in general. Cheers

Yeah correct. It baffles me, they take it as an affront to their masculinity or something. Dudes need to chill the fuck out.

[SmithChips]

Maybe there was a hotter guy who rocked up between the money exchange and the girl entering the door. Or could you possibly had BO?

[LBW1959]

Years ago I had a WL comment that I smelt bad after a long day at work and a few hours out with the boys on a Friday night.
I apologised, bent her over and fucked her in doggy, which worked ok for us both!
Sadly this establishment didn't have showers.

[jacob252]

I had a blind booking at a popular shop, I wax in the room and the girl walked in. We both froze for seconds. We knew each other outside and both of us were hesitant we agreed to keep it between ourselves and it was a very enjoyable session :)

In your case, was this a blind booking or you see other at the intro? Also keep in mind, most these girls go through a lot emotionally, their mood fluctuates very fast between being happy and chatty to gloomy and depressed. She might just has a kick in her head. The end of the story. to your holy balls, move on.

[11Bravo]

As others have said, what's the problem? No disrespect, but is your ego that fragile? It's just BUSINESS. Because what's the alternative: do you REALLY want to be trying to have a good time with someone who doesn't want to be there? I don't see any difference between she walking and when a punter walks after seeing the provider. Or do you think the right of refusal only works one way?

I'd simply say "no problem", a mental "thanks", return to reception to see who else was available, and if nobody, simply ask for a refund. I wouldn't need an explanation just like I wouldn't feel the need to explain myself if the situation was reversed.

I do agree with not naming the provider nor the shop: she refused an INDIVIDUAL. I've been around long enough to know that just because a girl provides a certain service to one punter doesn't mean she'll provide to everyone. As the expression goes: YMMV.

[Ghost2hauntU]

I have been punting over 20 years and some WLs did do services impatiently or quickly or complainingly, but this is very first time WL told me she didn’t want to do after we got into the room, I stood naked by the bed and felt very embarrassed. I asked girl what was happened and I didn’t say anything and did anything. I had to leave room sadly. What would you do if you were me?

I’ve just had another read of the above. Looking at in in another light, it’s hilarious.
If OP’s cock was really the length of an iPhone 14 plus and the girl rejected him for it, he would have just laughed it off. I’m beginning to think that the WL rejected him cos of something else. But regardless of what it was, I’m beginning to get a slight impression that OP may have been rejected for his BO.

WLs love big cocks. I’m 7x6 inches and never had a problem.

[frisson]

She may have a hangover, just started or ended a period, feels unwell or just does want to have sex with you

As wise punters have already said, I would be very grateful to be told at the start rather than paying for an hour with a starfish WL
Get your refund and either ask for another WL or leave

Don't make a scene. The woman has to consent to the transaction, or it's assault

That's business
This isn't a boys pasttime
Keep your ego in check and respect the lady

[Sibon]

This is a very good example of how some guys can't take rejections. Maybe it's all about expectations. You ask a girl out, there always going to be a yes or a no. But some people tend to forget about the "no" part. I'm not talking about this exactly situation with OP. Just in general. Cheers

This is different from asking a girl out.

This is a business transaction. The WL and the shop haven't advertised that "Service will be refused to customers who don't meet our standards." I dare them to do it.

Just think about the time you've wasted travelling to a shop and being turned away at the last minute.

[Sibon]

I have been punting over 20 years and some WLs did do services impatiently or quickly or complainingly, but this is very first time WL told me she didn’t want to do after we got into the room, I stood naked by the bed and felt very embarrassed. I asked girl what was happened and I didn’t say anything and did anything. I had to leave room sadly. What would you do if you were me?

Maybe you reminded her of her Ex-husband or Ex-boyfriend who walked away from her? :)

[Ghost2hauntU]

This is different from asking a girl out.

This is a business transaction. The WL and the shop haven't advertised that "Service will be refused to customers who don't meet our standards." I dare them to do it.

Just think about the time you've wasted travelling to a shop and being turned away at the last minute.

Exactly. Plus most days or nights you just wanna have a good lay without any of the bullshit. Which is increasingly more common out there these days. Still tho, if OP got rejected and embarrassed because of his iPhone 14 sized cock, it’s funny.
But yeah, after a rough day one just wants to relax and get sucked off and the last thing they need is more shit to eat.

[andrewv]

I have been punting over 20 years and some WLs did do services impatiently or quickly or complainingly, but this is very first time WL told me she didn’t want to do after we got into the room, I stood naked by the bed and felt very embarrassed. I asked girl what was happened and I didn’t say anything and did anything. I had to leave room sadly. What would you do if you were me?

Would be nice if you provide the context to your story:

1. Did you choose that WL when you arrived and did she see you before you went into the room and got undressed?
2. Did she say anything more (give a reason) or simply walk out of the room?
3. Did the receptionist come and offer you another girl -- usually a WL would say she will be right back then tell the receptionist/manager first?
4. Did the receptionist/manager immediately refund your payment, or offer you someone else?

You don't have to answer my questions. It is just that some context would be helpful when you post like this.

[1inchguy]

You smile maybe laugh then say okay, thankyou next?
Don't take it too personally. There could be many reasons but since we are punting we go on the next girl. At least you know you'll never see that girl again unless you'll try and see her again on another day?

The other day I saw a wl who was coughing non stop and clearing her throat. I had no choice but to say I want to see another girl cause obviously the wl is sick and shouldn't be working.
After that I haven't seen her on roster for a few weeks until she's back again.

[Sexybee]

Would be nice if you provide the context to your story:


1. Did you choose that WL when you arrived and did she see you before you went into the room and got undressed?
2. Did she say anything more (give a reason) or simply walk out of the room?
3. Did the receptionist come and offer you another girl -- usually a WL would say she will be right back then tell the receptionist/manager first?
4. Did the receptionist/manager immediately refund your payment, or offer you someone else?

You don't have to answer my questions. It is just that some context would be helpful when you post like this.

I selected this girl and shook hands, I called receptionist after she left the visiting room and gave $250 to him.

She said she needed to change bath mat because of dirty. I was undressing when she came and she started to undress when I was standing by the bed. I was happy her body and give her hug and light kiss. She push me away slightly and asked if I wanted to do another girl. I was surprised and shocked by her, I said I didn’t say anything and did anything, why? She answered me that she didn’t want to do.

I had to go downstairs and receptionist told girl ask him to refund me, I asked why and manager said he didn’t know why.

I even called manager why one hour later after leaving. He told me the girl didn’t say anything.

I don’t think I did irresponsible thing to her. Instead she was the girl I like, why would I be rude to her?

Do you think WL can do good service to you if you are very rude or irrespect them!

[Ghost2hauntU]

I selected this girl and shook hands, I called receptionist after she left the visiting room and gave $250 to him.

She said she needed to change bath mat because of dirty. I was undressing when she came and she started to undress when I was standing by the bed. I was happy her body and give her hug and light kiss. She push me away slightly and asked if I wanted to do another girl. I was surprised and shocked by her, I said I didn’t say anything and did anything, why? She answered me that she didn’t want to do.

I had to go downstairs and receptionist told girl ask him to refund me, I asked why and manager said he didn’t know why.

I even called manager why one hour later after leaving. He told me the girl didn’t say anything.

I don’t think I did irresponsible thing to her. Instead she was the girl I like, why would I be rude to her?

Do you think WL can do good service to you if you are very rude or irrespect them!

Yeah bud, I’d be weirded out by this sort of behaviour also. But hey, who the fuck completely understands women anyway?
If you did, you could be a daring coach lol.
I’ve heard from a punter on another forum that he had some WL that didn’t let him touch her. That the FS still went on but he couldn’t touch her with his hands. That’s fucked up also.

Anyway mate, maybe she just didn’t like you. Fuck it. Better than having a shit punt. You got your coin back with a smile I hope?

[frisson]

If your penis size is the reason, take it as a compliment and get over it
It doesn't sound like it's a common problem with your punting

If it was an ongoing problem with frequent rejections and a punter had a 30 cm dick for example, just show WL an accurate dick pic from phone to the lady before getting undressed. After all there's nothing to hide and she will see the real thing during the session if it goes ahead.
That would let you know straight away if the business transaction was going to proceed

No punt is worse than one where the WL hates being in the room

[PKING2]

Just let it go, might be the girl has restriction like asian only or no this no that. Might be the receptionist forget etc etc lol.

Or might be your dong2 too big for her. That can be another reason if the girl had work incident, I know one girl had this incident before, and if you aggressive from the start she will cancel the session lol

[Daffy]

Did you actually meet the WL in a line up or did you book her without ever meeting her? Too many bits missing from the story to give you a real opinion.

Having been friends with a few girls from the industry you get to hear their side of the story. The “No Indians” and “No Irish” generally come down to how rude they are and they seem to think they own the girl because they paid and can do whatever they want. Also been told of guys coming in with open herpes sores and getting upset when they get told it isn’t going to happen.

[priapus1966]

I was happy her body and give her hug and light kiss. She push me away slightly and asked if I wanted to do another girl. I was surprised and shocked by her, I said I didn’t say anything and did anything, why? She answered me that she didn’t want to do.

I had to go downstairs and receptionist told girl ask him to refund me, I asked why and manager said he didn’t know why.

I even called manager why one hour later after leaving. He told me the girl didn’t say anything.


She was willing enough until the hug and light kiss - so something in that moment triggered her to reject you. Secondly, the receptionist declined to tell you why - more than possible he knew, but did not want to tell you, particularly by the time you telephoned. Isn't it more likely that for some reason she suddenly found you objectionable and the receptionist said nothing because he did not want to upset you. Have you wondered why the receptionist did not try to provide a replacement?

[11Bravo]

She was willing enough until the hug and light kiss - so something in that moment triggered her to reject you. Secondly, the receptionist declined to tell you why - more than possible he knew, but did not want to tell you, particularly by the time you telephoned. Isn't it more likely that for some reason she suddenly found you objectionable and the receptionist said nothing because he did not want to upset you. Have you wondered why the receptionist did not try to provide a replacement?Excellent points. Why alienate a customer because of one girl's actions (punter's actions that were not abusive so no reason to ban)?

I always ask myself how I'd feel if the situation was reversed. I'd met the girl, shaken hands, in the room, we'd both gotten naked, she kissed me, and I decided that her price was not worth it to me. Bottom line, her payday wasn't worth it to her. Consenting adults.

Consider it an anomaly. Move on, she's not the only game in town, there are others, both women and shops. Now, if it keeps happening, then...

[11Bravo]

Please don’t judge me buddy but I’m damn sure you are from one of the Asian developing countries and the girl was a Caucasian/ Western/ European/ Aussie born etc

You can’t just throw yourself onto the girl. You made a contact with her body( hug) and also kissed her (light or strong doesn’t matter). Such girls will not like this behaviour, they know their rights very well, a NO Vs a YES/ defining and respecting boundaries/ good touch and bad touch. Be smooth and don’t give them shocks and surprises, talk nicely, smile and laugh, create a good rapport. Forgive me for my words, but they are not the human trafficked girls of developing nations who will sadly tolerate every nonsense, but residents of a “developed nation”. Understand the difference. Understand what is standard service Vs GFE add on. If you opted for standard service then you can’t do many things, ask a receptionist/ WL next time to educate you more on this.Agreed, just ask the Spanish football official from the world cup ceremony...

[Footballpunter]

The fact that receptionist didn't offer you another girl might be a tell that others would reject too. As a business person, the first priority is to close the deal, so finding a replacement would've been the first thing to do. Since you picked from a line up, that means there are other girls available too.

[bung72]

Shit.... now I'm going to have to measure my cock against my iPhone 14! :D

Was she new? Maybe she walked out the back door after this incident and has never returned? Not for her...???

[Nelly69]

Lol size length like iPhone 14

need to know if he is packing a Pro or pro max?

[tezzaman18]

Agree with the reasoning.

Reception should then allow you the choice of another WL and if not to your liking should get a refund.


Maybe because she thinks your dick is too big bro. But the reason is irrelevant anyway.
A WL can withdraw consent at any time and doesn't have to give you a reason and once she says no that's it it's over.
You fact that you have already paid money means nothing.
All you can do is walk out and ask for your money back from reception.
There is no point arguing with the girl. And of course if you try to force her it's sexual assault.
So you did the right thing to just stay calm and walk out.

[SmithChips]

Sounds like the receptionist knew the reason and wanted to protect their girls and purposely didn't let you know why.

Why would you hug and kiss the girl at the start? It's probably your actions, bad breathe and body odour that was off putting, and this won't change regardless which girl services you.

Move on mate.

[Renegade86]

Had a similar experience where the WL came up with a bs excuse that the fire alarm went off and we needed exit the premise and handed me cash back.
It was the first time at the shop so I was confused and left and came back to the shop. Reception offered some other girls and then I realised the girl I came to see was not interested in seeing me.