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17012430
20-08-2023, 03:29 PM
There are so many shops now, with so many ML to choose from, I just can't decide where to go and who to choose from. I'm spending way too much time looking at rosters nowadays. Anybody else having the same issue?

l337dude
20-08-2023, 03:40 PM
Oh yea, all the time...:D
Too many choices, too little time or money.

Jamit
20-08-2023, 03:48 PM
It's called the paradox of choice.

Jamit
20-08-2023, 03:50 PM
Too many choices means that there is the risk of feeling less satisfied with the choice you made. Therefore it is hard to make a choice at all. Back in the day most of us did walk ins, now there is so much information.

11Bravo
20-08-2023, 04:31 PM
Was having the same problem in BKK decades ago. A friend gave me some great advice: don't be the kid in the candy store who can't make a choice because he wants the most tasty one. Pick one, go for the experience. If you enjoy, great. If not, well, at least NOW you KNOW HER experience with YOU. Then go back and try another. Don't deny yourself the experience. If nothing else, it'll make a good war story.

A fairy tale starts "Once upon a time...". A war story starts "Sh*t, I was there..."

JSteel96
20-08-2023, 04:36 PM
There are so many shops now, with so many ML to choose from, I just can't decide where to go and who to choose from. I'm spending way too much time looking at rosters nowadays. Anybody else having the same issue?

There is definitely a lot of pussy out there to be had but just looking at at shop rosters with images online won't do. And you can't just go on how the girl looks either. Now you need to look at AR reports and check what other have said about certain shops and girls. I think if you see a good review on a particular WL then that is worth a punt. Also start with the shops in your area stay local so its less travel. Recommend if you do try a local shop and find a girl you like go as a regular to her so you know what you get. I'll often see the same Asian girl if shes good 10 times as I find it better when you have a regular thing going. The main thing is the service the girl should make you feel like a king. She should be good at giving a BJ to some are not. So pick two shops closest to you look for a review then go in and try. Don't look at shop rosters all over town you'll go stir crazy ha ha ha.

17012430
20-08-2023, 05:15 PM
I’d rather not punt too close to home… I keep it to the west but it’s got to be at least 15 minutes away

JSteel96
20-08-2023, 05:20 PM
I’d rather not punt too close to home… I keep it to the west but it’s got to be at least 15 minutes away

Well I did suggest same area not necessarily in the same street but yeh 15 to 25 minutes away and forget about all the ones further away than that should save you some time.

17012430
20-08-2023, 05:21 PM
Was having the same problem in BKK decades ago"

My game plan in Thailand is just go with the one who likes you the most. Sometimes it doesn’t pan out. The best sex I had there was from a thiiiiiiiick GOGO girl who wanted three drinks to even come and sit with me. Paid her 5,000 baht just for two hours but it ended up being totally worth it. Dumped two huge loads inside her and after I fucked her into submission she became a house pet. Ended up having dinner together and her staying at the hotel to watch Netflix with me.

One of the worst I had was a girl who had her hand down my pants and was giving me hj right in the bar and sucking on my nipples. Bit me everywhere and I thought ok, this is the one for the night. In bed, complete Star fish and wanted to sleep immediately.

Punting is all a big gamble at the end of the day, never know what you’re going to get but as long as you have a shower, remain cool and respectful you’ll usually get good service.

Sibon
20-08-2023, 05:24 PM
There are so many shops now, with so many ML to choose from, I just can't decide where to go and who to choose from. I'm spending way too much time looking at rosters nowadays. Anybody else having the same issue?

Stick to a few shops convenient for you to travel to and see different girls in different days until you hit Gold. :)

Footballpunter
20-08-2023, 05:45 PM
maybe pick 10 names and assign them each a number and use a random generator to see which number pops out. lol

17012430
20-08-2023, 05:55 PM
Stick to a few shops convenient for you to travel to and see different girls in different days until you hit Gold. :)

The best MLs seem to only work inconveniently far away lol I had to drive 40 minutes to try Soda

GoldfishMan
20-08-2023, 05:56 PM
Yes, had that problem, too many choices, too much time needed to make the right choice. Sometimes I even "give up" and make a stupid choice because I got lazy to spend more time researching. Usually happens when I get an unplanned chance to punt. I go all scatterbrained all of a sudden, lol!

Nowadays I regularly read the ARs and feedback given on girls even though I'm not really prepared to punt soon. I just make a note of a girl that I might fancy, add it to a list in my head. Then when I'm ready to punt, I go for those targets, whichever ones are free.

JSteel96
20-08-2023, 06:52 PM
The best MLs seem to only work inconveniently far away lol I had to drive 40 minutes to try Soda

dam I hope she was worth the drive

JSteel96
20-08-2023, 06:54 PM
[QUOTE One of the worst I had was a girl who had her hand down my pants and was giving me hj right in the bar and sucking on my nipples. Bit me everywhere and I thought ok, this is the one for the night. In bed, complete Star fish and wanted to sleep immediately.
[/QUOTE]

So you basically paid the girl for a night just to sleep man that'a a rip off and one reason I would never book a gal for the whole night just to pay her to sleep.

Daffy
20-08-2023, 07:21 PM
If you can’t decide just pick a shop and do an old fashioned walk-in and line up. If you don’t feel it then leave and hit up the next shop.

And don’t put too much on the AR’s you see here or anywhere else as YMMV. Just because I had a great session with a WL doesn’t mean you’re going to hit it off with her. Or maybe you have a very specific type you like (I used to have a massive Snow White complex) or you’re looking for a girl that gives a great BBBJ or maybe you want to be teased (that’s why I’ve got the handcuffs).

But you never know if you never go

11Bravo
20-08-2023, 07:28 PM
So you basically paid the girl for a night just to sleep man that'a a rip off and one reason I would never book a gal for the whole night just to pay her to sleep.On the other hand, you get a good one for old school long time, it's bbbj/cim to take the edge off, then a massage, then some foreplay for her, then FS. Both sleep. In the morning, some prefer to wake up with a cup of coffee. Myself, I like a different type of morning wakeup. Money well spent.

Sibon
20-08-2023, 07:44 PM
The best MLs seem to only work inconveniently far away lol I had to drive 40 minutes to try Soda

40 minutes I could have my punt and get back my desk working without my boss noticing that I've been out. :)

Remember that you still need another 40 minutes to ride home.

11Bravo
20-08-2023, 07:48 PM
If you can’t decide just pick a shop and do an old fashioned walk-in and line up. If you don’t feel it then leave and hit up the next shop.

And don’t put too much on the AR’s you see here or anywhere else as YMMV. Just because I had a great session with a WL doesn’t mean you’re going to hit it off with her. Or maybe you have a very specific type you like (I used to have a massive Snow White complex) or you’re looking for a girl that gives a great BBBJ or maybe you want to be teased (that’s why I’ve got the handcuffs).

But you never know if you never go
Well said. All comes down to individuals. I'll take note of the AR's, check out the photos, all go into my decision to visit. I never assume that she'll provide the same services to me, just a higher probability. I do note how close MY experience comes to the AR and subsequently weigh that member's AR's a bit more. But as said, only YOU can decide if it was a good time and you won't know that unless you go.

17012430
20-08-2023, 08:38 PM
[QUOTE One of the worst I had was a girl who had her hand down my pants and was giving me hj right in the bar and sucking on my nipples. Bit me everywhere and I thought ok, this is the one for the night. In bed, complete Star fish and wanted to sleep immediately.


So you basically paid the girl for a night just to sleep man that'a a rip off and one reason I would never book a gal for the whole night just to pay her to sleep.[/QUOTE]

In Thailand lol basically equates to $150 AUD

CursedCoomer
20-08-2023, 08:57 PM
Have you smashed all the girls at Sakura Smithfield yet?

Hidden Python
20-08-2023, 11:18 PM
I use too waste a lot of time going place to place just to try different girls, than I found a regular shop with a variety of girls with a rotational roster, that updates their website daily
So if I want something different I just go on a different day of the week, but to the same shop

17012430
21-08-2023, 12:30 AM
Have you smashed all the girls at Sakura Smithfield yet?

Good suggestion actually

CursedCoomer
21-08-2023, 01:28 AM
End goal is to conquer Sakura Smithfield. Once finished, bonus mission will be to do the girl that's trained all of them... Mia.

GoldfishMan
21-08-2023, 08:03 AM
End goal is to conquer Sakura Smithfield. Once finished, bonus mission will be to do the girl that's trained all of them... Mia.

Is that the final boss fight? Lol...

Dantaclaus
21-08-2023, 10:31 AM
On the other hand, you get a good one for old school long time, it's bbbj/cim to take the edge off, then a massage, then some foreplay for her, then FS. Both sleep. In the morning, some prefer to wake up with a cup of coffee. Myself, I like a different type of morning wakeup. Money well spent.

I mostly went for long time in Thailand. Fuck when you get back to the room, sleep cuddled up to a hot naked girl then fuck again in the morning.

Although a couple of them made up excuses about why they had to take off early in the morning. One hilariously claimed she had to go start her training at the police academy.

CursedCoomer
21-08-2023, 11:11 AM
Is that the final boss fight? Lol...
Final boss is Amy, the other mamasan who is not so young anymore but young at heart. God bless her great customer service skills, but anyone who dares tries her is a true hero and will 100% complete this shop

asiafever
21-08-2023, 10:24 PM
I struggle to decide at times, then end up running out of time and having to either just compromise or save it for another day.

Then there's the days you set out your plan, with a range of girls in order ryou want to book them, and one by one each is unavailable, man that one sucks..

l337dude
21-08-2023, 11:23 PM
Yea that happens all the time bro, none of the girls you wanna see are available, or their roster doesn't line up with your schedule etc, or you couldn't decide in time, blah blah...such's the life story of a punter lol.

Ghost2hauntU
22-08-2023, 01:59 AM
There are so many shops now, with so many ML to choose from, I just can't decide where to go and who to choose from. I'm spending way too much time looking at rosters nowadays. Anybody else having the same issue?

Seems your problem may be that you have no punting rules? How the fuck do you expect to score in this game if you’re like a shop without a rudder? You’re just going to be suckered out of your money by circumstances.

Here’s my tips. And they cost me thousands of dollars over the years:

1. Set yourself a max $ amount you’re prepared to pay. Per time interval. Like $170/hr.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a millionaire and can afford Paris Hilton. (I did proposition her in Kings Cross in 2008 in front of that leather clad faggot John Ibrahim. And neither of us got laid). The point is you need rules to keep things in check so they don’t get out of hand (I’ve known blokes here and in Asia who’ve spent fortunes on drug fueled orgies only to end up broke or worse. Few tied their own ropes cos there was nothing else to do. Think about it).

2 have a target market. This will be determined by the women you prefer, money or both. For example, my mate won’t fuck anyone over 23 yo. That’s his rule, and he doesn’t give a fuck. If there’s no pussy here, he flies to SE Asia.

And I only fuck Asian women over 30, preferably Chinese MILFs, the cheaper and filthier, the better. I have spending mi way in women hehehe!

3. Stay local. Most of my best punts have been in my local area plus 15km radius.

4. Find and treasure your regulars. Nobody has satisfied me more that my top regulars, whenever I have them. They come and go so if you find one, treat her well and enjoy her while it lasts.

5. Always have fun. During a string of bad punts slow down and become the more selective. It’s a tricky market out there now in this economy, so take your time in your selection.

6. Don’t put up with any shit. Always remember you’re the King, with the cash. So fucken start acting like one! And dress the part. Get nice clothes and perfume and you’ll see the difference it can make when you enter a whorehouse.

11Bravo
22-08-2023, 09:36 AM
Saw this article just today. If nothing else, flip a coin for the final go/no go decision.

https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20230817-how-randomness-can-help-you-to-make-better-decisions

And I agree with Ghost2hauntU, have YOUR OWN rules that guide you. Ghost gives excellent ones, especially #4. When you find someone YOU enjoy, get her WeChat/Line/WhatsApp contact info. Visit her regularly; the smart ones understand that a regular customer is literally money in the bank. I'll send a regular a message that I want to book her, some will handle the booking themselves, others I still have to contact the shop. Regardless, she knows my plans. Very handy to keep in contact; how many plaintive posts do you see of anyone know where so-and-so is?

Myself, I have a ceiling of what I'm willing to pay. My first price (for any set of services) is what I pay on subsequent visits (for the same services); no need for any discussions. What I pay is for services, so I don't consider them tips; I don't tip. My tip is repeat business.

Like Ghost, I prefer (I say experienced, you say mature) Asians, thirtyish looking (some of my favs are in their fortys). Attitude, service, looks in that order, with a bit of sliding on the last two (e.g. a cbj from a large rack might be acceptable vs bbbj from B cups expected). But I MUST find something attractive about her, physically. If offered, I might DATY, but I'd never pay extra for it.

Find a shop you're comfortable with (I like Summerville - nice facilities, good selection). If you're a repeat customer, the manager should be looking out for you. Photos might provide an idea, but even if actual, understand they are taken at the best angle to highlight the best attributes. Read AR's, good and bad, but understand that is ONE individual's opinion/experience (my longest regular was found in an area where another had said there was nothing of interest in that suburb. I had seen the shop's photos and decided to take a look).

Finally, like Ghost said, have FUN. Consider it exploring the unknown. Around any bend, there might be a beautiful experience. Even a bad punt makes a good story, so don't take things so seriously. Your attitude has a lot to do with it. At every at-bat, while you might strike out, often you'll get a single, and sometimes a home run.

personaa
22-08-2023, 08:37 PM
Great you find many choices these days. I don't find much around, walked out from 5 shops and I did see 4-8 girls in each shop, none were even close to what I would consider a good root. Unfortunately, I have become way too picky.

Renegade86
22-08-2023, 10:55 PM
Some solid tips

Apha1401
22-08-2023, 11:10 PM
Mia and amy... which one was known as Ally from sevenhills - that's the one I smeshed

Spicks
23-08-2023, 02:05 AM
Very normal, be blessed by the choices rather than walking through barren pastures.

CursedCoomer
23-08-2023, 02:17 AM
Mia and amy... which one was known as Ally from sevenhills - that's the one I smeshed
You're probs referring to the younger, more fuckable one - Mia. Unless you're reminiscing about smashing the borderline gilf, Amy from the good ol' days lol

Ghost2hauntU
23-08-2023, 02:50 AM
Great you find many choices these days. I don't find much around, walked out from 5 shops and I did see 4-8 girls in each shop, none were even close to what I would consider a good root. Unfortunately, I have become way too picky.

I’ve been also walking out most of the time this year whenever I venture outside my local turf. And even in my local area it’s been hard to score. The quality of just not there.

Similar women that went for a flat rate of $160/hr just 2-3 years ago now demand over $200/hr and wont do standard service, even when the shop advertises it.

Young inexperienced women most whom don’t even fall into the PYT category are advertised as Diamond only @$230/hr or more.

I’m tempted to try MLs in places that open midnight and after. But again, I won’t be paying more than $170/hr including FS.

personaa
23-08-2023, 04:56 AM
I don't Mind paying their new rates but these girls simply don't belong to that range in terms of looks and style, most of them belong to mid range shops ( shops like Roseville Rose or Hunter lane or Club350 or 533 Willoughby) but this drought lifted them up into higher range shops. I ventured into the West 2 weeks ago and you won't believe this, but now 45George at Clyde is charging same rates like no5 and 42G! Haha. I tried MLs a couple of times, and it made me feel kinda weird to get someone to jerk me off while I look at their body or play with their boobs. I guess massage shops are not for me.

Timeis629
27-08-2023, 01:58 PM
There are so many shops now, with so many ML to choose from, I just can't decide where to go and who to choose from. I'm spending way too much time looking at rosters nowadays. Anybody else having the same issue?

I have a regular- and it works. Recently her tenure lapsed at a shop but we eventually regained contact. Phew. But in that period I surveyed the options - it is absolutely mind boggling at what is available. Truly daunting - overwhelming - despairing - not enough spare cash - and/or time. I guess if your current ride is good enough and has a great attraction to it - just enjoy that ride until breaks down or simply drifts away. So challenging to keep the emotions in perspective.

11Bravo
27-08-2023, 05:03 PM
I have a regular- and it works. Recently her tenure lapsed at a shop but we eventually regained contact. Phew. Why I always ask for her WeChat/Line contact, sooner rather than later. Easy to maintain contact regardless of disruption.

gedinsyd
27-08-2023, 06:14 PM
I understand the dilemma for sure...in my case, my schedule really only allows me to punt in an unplanned manner, so I mostly do walk-ins and hope for the best...been lucky enough to get mostly good punts so far, but I realise this is not always ideal.

Ghost2hauntU
27-08-2023, 11:57 PM
I understand the dilemma for sure...in my case, my schedule really only allows me to punt in an unplanned manner, so I mostly do walk-ins and hope for the best...been lucky enough to get mostly good punts so far, but I realise this is not always ideal.

I’ve been walking in since the late 90’s and it’s been working out well, until the past year for me. Now it’s almost always a miss. But booking blind is against my rules so I have to meet all WLs before I consider her.

I broke this rule for the first time in 25 years last Saturday but it was only cos I’ve made an exception at my favourite haunt where I’ve been fucking for some 15 years and trust their girls and management.

gedinsyd
28-08-2023, 02:21 AM
I’ve been walking in since the late 90’s and it’s been working out well, until the past year for me. Now it’s almost always a miss. But booking blind is against my rules so I have to meet all WLs before I consider her.

I broke this rule for the first time in 25 years last Saturday but it was only cos I’ve made an exception at my favourite haunt where I’ve been fucking for some 15 years and trust their girls and management.

That was quite an impressive record but sad to know there have been so many misses in recent times - it is good though that you have a place that you can trust and therefore keep the odds in your favour