How do you hold yourself backing falling for your Asian SB or FWB?

[JSteel96]

Its dam hard not falling in love with your Asian SB/FWB how do you hold yourself back guys? I really have to try to stay calm when shes near me. What are your rules with your special secret lady friends? And did any of you over step the rules and start a relationship with your long term SB/FWB/ WL?

[Ghost2hauntU]

Here we go again. There’s only one rule that can think of that may save you:
And that is do not kiss them on the lips.

If you can follow it, then you may have a chance.

Otherwise if it happens it happens. There’s nothing you can do about it.

[GoldfishMan]

If you are single and available, I give you a less than 10% chance of survival. If you have a partner, wife, family etc, maybe 80% chance.

[ditchtheboss]

If you are single and available, I give you a less than 10% chance of survival. If you have a partner, wife, family etc, maybe 80% chance.

Single and available. It happened twice for me, I was weak and wreckless, won’t happen again

[JSteel96]

Here we go again. There’s only one rule that can think of that may save you:
And that is do not kiss them on the lips.

If you can follow it, then you may have a chance.

Otherwise if it happens it happens. There’s nothing you can do about it.

Dam I been kissing with tongue mine

[bung72]

My favourite girl doesn't even allow lip kissing.... and I'm smitten anyway! (Not Asian though)

[JSteel96]

My favourite girl doesn't even allow lip kissing.... and I'm smitten anyway! (Not Asian though)

Probably just as well she doesn't or you would be falling for her in 10 seconds.

[bung72]

Probably just as well she doesn't or you would be falling for her in 10 seconds.

As it is, it took at least 60 seconds! :D

[Ghost2hauntU]

Dam I been kissing with tongue mine

Look, 99% of the time you prob won’t catch the feelings. Maybe the occasional mild STD but that’s about it.

It’s just that on the rare occasion when there’s chemistry between you and the WL that kiss may seal the deal…and your fate lol. At least temporarily. It ain’t so bad, you’ll become her good regular or perhaps a sugar daddy. And when times up, you just gotta deal with it.

But again, it’s super rare. How rare? Well in my case, punting since 1998 I’ve only ever once caught those feelings with a recent regular. You’ll get over it if it happens.

[Sibon]

Here we go again. There’s only one rule that can think of that may save you:
And that is do not kiss them on the lips.

If you can follow it, then you may have a chance.

Otherwise if it happens it happens. There’s nothing you can do about it.

You can kiss the WL but don't let her touch your dick.

Because it is through it she sends electrical impulses to make you fall for her. :)

[JSteel96]

You can kiss the WL but don't let her touch your dick.

Because it is through it she sends electrical impulses to make you fall for her. :)

so when you get a natural blow job with CIM your screwed and there is no hope no way out

[frisson]

Falling in love with a kiss?

Surely after you've had a few girlfriends, a kiss on the lips just means first base

If you are that easily seduced, bad luck if you meet a seasoned gold digger

For me to fall in love the woman would need a good legitimate job and a solid upbringing

[Sibon]

.....For me to fall in love the woman would need a good legitimate job and a solid upbringing

That would rule out 101% of the WLs, MLs, Escorts, Sugarbabies etc. :)

[Sibon]

Here we go again. There’s only one rule that can think of that may save you:
And that is do not kiss them on the lips.


Don't we kiss every WL on weekly basis?

I saw a WL the first time in Epping last Monday.
Our lips met and touched for a long time while I explored her body.
Then I opened my mouth to envelope her small mouth.
I was surprised that she reciprocated by sticking her tongue into my mouth and let me suck it.

[ditchtheboss]

Don't we kiss every WL on weekly basis?

I saw a WL the first time in Epping last Monday.
Our lips met and touched for a long time while I explored her body.
Then I opened my mouth to envelope her small mouth.
I was surprised that she reciprocated by sticking her tongue into my mouth and let me suck it.

Considering your exchange of oral fluids and based on the hilarious comment about kissing and falling in love, you are now basically married to her.

[Hidden Python]

To the girls you are nothing more than an ATM, no money no honey, and once they get their grubby meat hooks into you they will bleed your wallet, bank account dry,
So remember this and you will never fall in love with them

[andrewv]

Its dam hard not falling in love with your Asian SB/FWB how do you hold yourself back guys? I really have to try to stay calm when shes near me. What are your rules with your special secret lady friends? And did any of you over step the rules and start a relationship with your long term SB/FWB/ WL?

That’s easy to do. I remind myself that it’s a business transaction and she would not be interested in doing anything like this if no payment is involved. Also, I remind myself that she is doing this 10 or more times a day with 10+ other guys.

[Footballpunter]

Oh boy, first thread I see after I got off the plane is about falling for someone we see.

As some of you may know, I’ve recently engaged in such reckless activity, for the first time.

While I had fun, I also paid for it with my mental health. The ones here with experience in this department is totally correct. This is not for everyone and must think twice before losing yourself in the situation.

I don’t regret my decision, not one bit. But it’s tough after all the fun.

[JSteel96]

Oh boy, first thread I see after I got off the plane is about falling for someone we see.

As some of you may know, I’ve recently engaged in such reckless activity, for the first time.

While I had fun, I also paid for it with my mental health. The ones here with experience in this department is totally correct. This is not for everyone and must think twice before losing yourself in the situation.

I don’t regret my decision, not one bit. But it’s tough after all the fun.

Welcome home dude you missing that special WL already?

[Footballpunter]

Welcome home dude you missing that special WL already?

I’ll be lying if I say I didn’t lol

[JSteel96]

I’ll be lying if I say I didn’t lol

Come on bro you know you love that gal you know whom I'm talking about lol

[Footballpunter]

Come on bro you know you love that gal you know whom I'm talking about lol

Hahahaha I try very hard to NOT associate her with that word. But, maybe lol

[ditchtheboss]

Come on bro you know you love that gal you know whom I'm talking about lol

My new saying is that love is a mind emotion and my rational mind loved no WL. My dick however is in deep love with a few ladies out there.

That keeps me out of trouble and the mind and dick in their respective and rightful places

[JSteel96]

My new saying is that love is a mind emotion and my rational mind loved no WL. My dick however is in deep love with a few ladies out there.

That keeps me out of trouble and the mind and dick in their respective and rightful places

One day you'll meet a WL who will blow your socks off and you won't be able to stop thinking about her. Happened to footballpunter recently with his WL lol.

[ditchtheboss]

One day you'll meet a WL who will blow your socks off and you won't be able to stop thinking about her. Happened to footballpunter recently with his WL lol.
It happened to me twice and I dated 2 of them. Whilst it was possibly the 2 greatest experiences I have had it was probably also the two most stupid things I have done. Those ARs hurt while yu date them

[Footballpunter]

It happened to me twice and I dated 2 of them. Whilst it was possibly the 2 greatest experiences I have had it was probably also the two most stupid things I have done. Those ARs hurt while yu date them

Or pick one with no AR lol, jk. Ditchtheboss is totally right tho. While it’s fun, it’s also stupide

[ditchtheboss]

Or pick one with no AR lol, jk. Ditchtheboss is totally right tho. While it’s fun, it’s also stupide

Welcome home mate.

I will never forget when I first met my second one. Great sex and after we finished we just clicked chatting and we were chatting and she just all of a sudden got on top of me without notice and went for round 2. Amazing experience. The buzzer went off and she just told them that it was fine and I was her last one for the day and it was fine. Overstayed the booking by 30 minutes 3 shots. Offered her the cash for the extra time and she said, you won’t pay me with cash but with your phone number. That was it for me punters. A few months of the most exhilarating dating experience I have had with the most amount of heartache l. She wasn’t after money or expensive gifts but my psychologist gets the money now.

That’s why I say, my head doesn’t love them no more only my dick loves them.

[JSteel96]

Dam our dicks cost us a lot of dollars, once WL has your phone number your fucked.

[ditchtheboss]

Dam our dicks cost us a lot of dollars, once WL has your phone number your fucked.

Yep, not doing that again

[JSteel96]

Seriously if she asks for your number say no, next thing she will know where you live and that's where an outcall is riskier.

[ColesBag]

Its dam hard not falling in love with your Asian SB/FWB how do you hold yourself back guys? I really have to try to stay calm when shes near me. What are your rules with your special secret lady friends? And did any of you over step the rules and start a relationship with your long term SB/FWB/ WL?

Offer not to bring money next time you meet. I gurantee you'll be cured of your feelings very quickly & she never had any for you in the first place.

[asiafever]

Offer not to bring money next time you meet. I gurantee you'll be cured of your feelings very quickly & she never had any for you in the first place.

Correct. It is transactional. Nothing more. Don't delude yourself otherwise.
SB is just another name for a wl, it is sexual favours for money essentially. Women who wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire prepared to spend time with you in exchange for money, gifts or both. Keep reminding yourself of that.

Look, I've said this before but I'll repeat, as we age we do so like one of two Pitts, Brad Pitt or Cess Pit. If you are like Brad Pitt you probably don't need SBs. Once you reach a certain age your dating options are severely limited if you aren't rich and/or blessed with hollywood good looks, you're basically left with divorcees (who themselves dont exactly have a line of guys waiting for them), people you dated previously, or the women that are left single after all their friends got married, in other words, the sexual equivalent of eating out of the bin. So you go to wls, mls, Sb etc because you still have champagne tastes despite being a can of warm lite beer yourself.
Yes this is a gross generalisation, yes there are exceptions, but the fact remains it is transactional. Remember at all times.

[Footballpunter]

Welcome home mate.

I will never forget when I first met my second one. Great sex and after we finished we just clicked chatting and we were chatting and she just all of a sudden got on top of me without notice and went for round 2. Amazing experience. The buzzer went off and she just told them that it was fine and I was her last one for the day and it was fine. Overstayed the booking by 30 minutes 3 shots. Offered her the cash for the extra time and she said, you won’t pay me with cash but with your phone number. That was it for me punters. A few months of the most exhilarating dating experience I have had with the most amount of heartache l. She wasn’t after money or expensive gifts but my psychologist gets the money now.

That’s why I say, my head doesn’t love them no more only my dick loves them.

Thank you, mate!

Wow, asked you to pay with your phone number. She’s got some game. I wouldn’t blame you for giving it away

[Bunty4]

If you don’t want to be involved with these wonderful girls simply make it a habit to share your experience in after report … once you do that you’ll realise that you don’t feel like she has been made only for you… it works.

[ditchtheboss]

If you don’t want to be involved with these wonderful girls simply make it a habit to share your experience in after report … once you do that you’ll realise that you don’t feel like she has been made only for you… it works.

Dang it mate, that’s a great idea

[Ghost2hauntU]

Offer not to bring money next time you meet. I gurantee you'll be cured of your feelings very quickly & she never had any for you in the first place.

That’s is some gold advice.

[90512]

She can do all 3 holes bb and cim, but when she french kisses you, youre fuckd

[Timeis629]

It’s inversely proportional to the state of your mind…. If you’re falling fundamentally your mind or life is fucked …. as they warn you in places like Thailand apply the 3 day rule and you might avoid “falling”

[hornedbeast]

If you think you are falling for her, let me know and I'll come and bang her in your presence

[rooter]

Pay. Fuck. Leave.
Switch on. Switch off.
Be a man. Go on the adventures your cock and your heart take you on, but ultimately be guided by your brain.

[mn69]

Just Man-up & stop getting your feelings/emotions involved

This generally happens to guys who dont have much contact & experience with women

[Sydozzie]

Welcome home mate.

I will never forget when I first met my second one. Great sex and after we finished we just clicked chatting and we were chatting and she just all of a sudden got on top of me without notice and went for round 2. Amazing experience. The buzzer went off and she just told them that it was fine and I was her last one for the day and it was fine. Overstayed the booking by 30 minutes 3 shots. Offered her the cash for the extra time and she said, you won’t pay me with cash but with your phone number. That was it for me punters. A few months of the most exhilarating dating experience I have had with the most amount of heartache l. She wasn’t after money or expensive gifts but my psychologist gets the money now.

That’s why I say, my head doesn’t love them no more only my dick loves them.

Damn bro... that's some srs "emotionally damaggeeee!!" Fucking psychologists must be completely raking in the cash.

I remember a PYT Thai ML wanted to see me for lunch on her day off a decade ago. She wanted to leave her BF for me, I was like nahhn nahh you should stay with him... Then I disappeared like Casper the ghost..
But damn she was cute as hell (she had braces at the time which I thought was cute).

Anyways, you gotta know your limits and see as far as you can down the line, where your.ass is gonna and up.

[Bman619]

If you have a number of regulars on rotation, that usually does the trick!

[JJBlows]

If you have a number of regulars on rotation, that usually does the trick!

I was about to say that, if you have a few WL that make you feel special then it's makes it easier to not get feelings. Those extra perks provided to you from multiple girls instead of one just makes it feel like you are doing normal punting.

Ngl I've been almost caught in my own trap and it was the others that reminded me I can get out

[Bman619]

I was about to say that, if you have a few WL that make you feel special then it's makes it easier to not get feelings. Those extra perks provided to you from multiple girls instead of one just makes it feel like you are doing normal punting.

Ngl I've been almost caught in my own trap and it was the others that reminded me I can get out

Good to broaden your horizons, if you're paying for the service she isn't exclusive to you and what she is doing for you, she is likely doing for someone else.

Take a step back and realise that she is providing a service for money. Now if she offers to meet you outside the shop, that is a different story but proceed with caution, because you never know what she wants, like PR, or some expensive gifts