Married or in a relationship what is the reason you punt?

[JSteel96]

For me its cause you experience different things with different WLs. But how many punt because their partners do not satisfy them in the bedroom? Why do you do it?

[Timeis629]

Partner is fine - good in bed to a large extent - great 69, after her orgasm, some slow anal. Not regular sex. Great lady though. My wife is an Asian (pocket rocket) who socialises with her own kind so I am sort of left alone to my own devices on different occasions. I generally opt out as conversations gravitate to their own language in social settings.?But I stumbled on punting by accident - used to get reasonably good genuine Thai massages until one day the shop was busy walked back and saw Saigon Princess - got a massage from a young Cherry offered extras and the rest is history- probably had 30 different MLs since, one 6 times another onto my 9th (guess I’m a regular). I am purely Asian follower - they are so erotic and sensual. The charm is getting B2B, DATY, 69, pussy slide, FS and the warm human contact. I’m trapped by the smorgasbord out there - it just isn’t fair. Punting is only restricted by $$$. I like long sessions and hopefully full service.?

[Somebeardyfella]

Great marriage in all aspects besides the bedroom but her libido is down for medication reasons so can't really blame her. It's good when it happens but it's a while between goes. Fell into 30 min RnT sessions as it's the perfect amount of time to pit stop while out at work (I work mobile all over Syd) and $80-100 every few weeks isn't noticeable at all. Prefer the relaxing aspect of MLs to FS joints. No interest in a proper affair so for me this is the perfect compromise.

[JSteel96]

Partner is fine - good in bed to a large extent - great 69, after her orgasm, some slow anal. Not regular sex. Great lady though. My wife is an Asian (pocket rocket) who socialises with her own kind so I am sort of left alone to my own devices on different occasions. I generally opt out as conversations gravitate to their own language in social settings.?But I stumbled on punting by accident - used to get reasonably good genuine Thai massages until one day the shop was busy walked back and saw Saigon Princess - got a massage from a young Cherry offered extras and the rest is history- probably had 30 different MLs since, one 6 times another onto my 9th (guess I’m a regular). I am purely Asian follower - they are so erotic and sensual. The charm is getting B2B, DATY, 69, pussy slide, FS and the warm human contact. I’m trapped by the smorgasbord out there - it just isn’t fair. Punting is only restricted by $$$. I like long sessions and hopefully full service.?

You need to become financially independent run your own business and invest. Then you can punt all you want. I hear you Asian WLs are super nymphos & soft touch I have a regular if you can afford it you should get one to and just see her. I always go full service. Start with sucky sucky then everything else no dom, love the moaning. Daty is always nice on an Asian gal especially MILF.

[JSteel96]

Great marriage in all aspects besides the bedroom but her libido is down for medication reasons so can't really blame her. It's good when it happens but it's a while between goes. Fell into 30 min RnT sessions as it's the perfect amount of time to pit stop while out at work (I work mobile all over Syd) and $80-100 every few weeks isn't noticeable at all. Prefer the relaxing aspect of MLs to FS joints. No interest in a proper affair so for me this is the perfect compromise.

You got the perfect setup in your situation and what the wife don't know won't hurt her so never tell her anything. Keep doing what your doing.

[Sher1888]

Busy lifestyle and long distance

[GoldfishMan]

For me, sex with the wife has been great. She's much younger than I am, physically fits all my criteria, and is very attuned to the needs of men. I'd call her a mellowed out ex-gangster/ex-party girl, lol. We have been quite adventurous in the bedroom too. Toys, anal, doing it with porn playing in the background, etc. Only thing she doesn't do is CIM but I've never been a fan of that.

But, I still punt. A practical reason is it is very difficult to find an opportunity to fuck when she's all dolled up, especially when there's a kid in tow.

A more abstract reason is I'm addicted to fucking as many girls that turn me on as possible, lol. Any girl that I see on the street that's hot, I'd want to fuck them.

[B2Brules]

Started when stopped getting sex at home. Simple. If I didn’t punt I think I would go mad.

[MrSmashOrPass]

I find it very exciting punting with girls I've never tried before and playing with my regulars it's quite orgasmic haha. All depends on what $$$ I've got available after paying nesessities then I'll plan my days around which ML/WL to go play in either private setting or shop.

[Footballpunter]

Like many of you, I’m also in a committed relationship. I only punt when I travel as a way to relax and have fun. It’s really more of a treat for myself than anything.

[Sibon]

What is the reason you punt?

I'm doing my bit to help China's economy as the Chinese WLs I see send part of their earnings back to their kids and aging parents.

[JSteel96]

I'm doing my bit to help China's economy as the Chinese WLs I see send part of their earning back to their kids and aging parents.

Lol don't tell me your addicted to Chinese MILF WLs to?

[andrewv]

For me its cause you experience different things with different WLs. But how many punt because their partners do not satisfy them in the bedroom? Why do you do it?

Main reasons are:
1. Many women have a lower libido especially when they have kids (I said many, not most).
2. Men seek variety due to boredom at home. Imagine if you eat your most favourite meal every day without any variety. It would stop being your favourite.
3. Sometimes, some women (but not most or all) use sex as a weapon to manipulate or punish their men, and men build up resentment and lose interest.

[shtoopid_head]

I mainly do it for the excitement of trying with a different girl. Love my partner to death, but the excitement of doing it with a WL/ML gets me every time. We don't do anything crazy in the bedroom with my partner which is partly it, but my addiction wins me over. I'll stop punting one day, I'm just enjoying my time right now.

[Axeman123]

It got to the stage for me that for all the effort I had to go to and I do mean effort there was no enjoyment to be had so what was the point. No use in wanting something from someone who can't or won't reciprocate. Brilliant, loving mother though.

[ColesBag]

Monogamy isn't realistic. Men should fuck as many women as possible.

[bung72]

It got to the stage for me that for all the effort I had to go to and I do mean effort there was no enjoyment to be had so what was the point. No use in wanting something from someone who can't or won't reciprocate. Brilliant, loving mother though.

Sums it up here....
To be honest she's never been into sex, to a point I wonder if she'd even care or say anything if she found out?
It isn't easy fighting those chimp-like urges in our DNA either!

To be honest - I find the whole process a bloody fun thrill too (only FS shops - no massage).... phoning shops, the mission to get there, the entrance, dealing with the receptionists - the whole thing is exciting. At 50 with school age kids, excitement should be grabbed.... It has always been a fascination of mine in any case - my first punt was age 18 in the navy - so maybe even if my wife put out I'd still do it?? Who would know??

[bung72]

Monogamy isn't realistic. Men should fuck as many women as possible.

True. It isn't in our DNA, it has been hastily reprogrammed over the top of other code..... We aren't any different to past generations - it isn't called the oldest profession for no reason....

[Rajaz]

I read somewhere that male animals, including us, have some certain hormone that causes the tendency to dominate the opposite sex. When you are in a committed relationship in modern days, there's close to no domination so we seek for that in other forms.

[JJBlows]

For me it's the variety of what girls can offer me, many a times I've got a normal woman into bed with me and I'm thinking "i payed for this date and you couldn't even suck a dick to save your life" or shes a dud root where as with WL some have different techniques and options (sloppy,slow, fast, no gag reflex) available to me for bbbj - cim etc depending on my mood and what I'm feeling like. some days I'm craving a particular ass shape bouncing on my dick, a lusty fuck me face looking back at me in the dark, or the particular banging body shape of a WL grinding ontop of me or the raw enthusiasm from a girl fucking the shit porn style out of you as these types of experiences are garenteed compared to the gamble of a normal woman.

I did have a relationship with a normal hottie where Almost nothing was off limits but the mental manipulation and sex as a bargaining tool just did me in for a while and put me off having a relationship.

[RO1312]

What is the point in being married or in a relationship if your still going to punt? Punting is expensive, with a wife or girlfriend ontop of that, I don’t know how you do it!

Seriously though, I’m interested to know as I’m not in that position myself

How I see it is, I’m single, I can do what I want, when I want, WHO I want and not have repercussions or hiding it behind somebody’s back

[JJBlows]

What is the point in being married or in a relationship if your still going to punt? Punting is expensive, with a wife or girlfriend ontop of that, I don’t know how you do it!

Seriously though, I’m interested to know as I’m not in that position myself

How I see it is, I’m single, I can do what I want, when I want, WHO I want and not have repercussions or hiding it behind somebody’s back

The Older guys are right, whether your pay for sex or get jt from you wife/GF, your still paying for it one way or another.

[LBW1959]

Great marriage in all aspects besides the bedroom but her libido is down for medication reasons so can't really blame her. It's good when it happens but it's a while between goes. Fell into 30 min RnT sessions as it's the perfect amount of time to pit stop while out at work (I work mobile all over Syd) and $80-100 every few weeks isn't noticeable at all. Prefer the relaxing aspect of MLs to FS joints. No interest in a proper affair so for me this is the perfect compromise.

This pretty much exactly sums up my situation too!

[bung72]

What is the point in being married or in a relationship if your still going to punt? Punting is expensive, with a wife or girlfriend ontop of that, I don’t know how you do it!

Seriously though, I’m interested to know as I’m not in that position myself

How I see it is, I’m single, I can do what I want, when I want, WHO I want and not have repercussions or hiding it behind somebody’s back

I suspect we all punt for the same reasons deep down. Being married/attached doesn't change your deeper desires.
We could say to you - why do you punt? If I were single I could be trawling bars and tinder for free!

[JSteel96]

What is the point in being married or in a relationship if your still going to punt? Punting is expensive, with a wife or girlfriend ontop of that, I don’t know how you do it!

Seriously though, I’m interested to know as I’m not in that position myself

How I see it is, I’m single, I can do what I want, when I want, WHO I want and not have repercussions or hiding it behind somebody’s back

Point is when your married you love your wife but for many guys the sex becomes limited, in some cases there is not any. So what if the guy has a good sexual appetite but his wife does not? Should he just give up his sex life? He loves his partner don't forget this but shes not putting out. So for any of these guys as long as their wife don't know then punting is about the only option. Then there are guys like me who are just horny all the time and need more variety of Asian gals. The sex is good with my partner but at this stage mainly on weekends, so for me I have the chance to see a regular and I do. Its expensive yes but I am financially well off, I have investments, a business and properties. So I can afford. Its harder for the guys who have to save up from pocket money for weeks to get one punt. Keeping all this from your wife is easier for some I have a straight poker face. But I think many wives know somethings going on but don't confront their partner for one reason for another.

Its a small world many guys crave the touch and sensations of other girls. Single or married. If your single and get married you will end up going back to punting if your already punting when your single.

[RO1312]

I suspect we all punt for the same reasons deep down. Being married/attached doesn't change your deeper desires.
We could say to you - why do you punt? If I were single I could be trawling bars and tinder for free!

Because its less headache and hassle for me, once I leave a shop that’s the end of it untill next visit.
Not having to tell someone where I am at all times. What I’m doing, who I’m with ect.

I’m very anti social and lack confidence, but I’m
working on that

The massage is also nice to wind down after a stressful week, the extras are just the cherry on top

[bung72]

Because its less headache and hassle for me, once I leave a shop that’s the end of it untill next visit.
Not having to tell someone where I am at all times. What I’m doing, who I’m with ect.

I’m very anti social and lack confidence, but I’m
working on that

The massage is also nice to wind down after a stressful week, the extras are just the cherry on top

I'm hearing you - I'd do the same if I were single now.... Sorry - I hope you don't think I was having a go, just turning your question around... :)

Maybe I should look at massages too! At the FS places most of the massaging is done by me...

[RO1312]

I'm hearing you - I'd do the same if I were single now.... Sorry - I hope you don't think I was having a go, just turning your question around... :)

Maybe I should look at massages too! At the FS places most of the massaging is done by me...

You may have taken my reply in the wrong way also, we’re cool mate. Everybody’s situation is different

I’m more a massage guy, havnt been to a FS shop in a long time. Maybe I should change things up

[pupha69]

looking for sexual variety... as is the case for 99% of males (we're hardwired like that!)

[bung72]

Probably for the same reason all guys like watching porn.... this is just live....

[Vincent888]

Variety, nothing beats it.

[JSteel96]

yes I need Variety of Asian ladies in my life it keeps me happy.

[Vincent888]

yes I need Variety of Asian ladies in my life it keeps me happy.

Exactly! Plus sex is a great emotional release. I thrive on stress and I don’t carry it per se. So it’s not a stress release as such. Just emotional content, being happiest for those few hours.

[scorpio85]

I'm always horny. Wife is too tired and kids just make it worse. Rarely any opportunities for the two of us, and when there is, I get turned away.

[priapus1966]

Because I can. I don't try to rationalize it one way or the other, I just enjoy the moment and if the last moment was sub - par there's always the next one.

[Vincent888]

How could you improve a sub par experience

Easy, don’t submerge or go down too deep.

[Vincent888]

Thats a submarine experience

For some it’s a one way ticket.

[CharlieM]

In 2017, when I was separated for about a year, punting never crossed my mind. Was rooting women i met on dating sites and Tinder. Its only when i got back with my wife did I start punting.

Today with an abundance of pussy available i have never understood why a single guy would be punting

[CharlieM]

2 more cents to add. What I find amusing is that guys who have never been married are marriage experts. Just like people who have never had children of their own give advice to parents on how to raise children

[Vincent888]

In 2017, when I was separated for about a year, punting never crossed my mind. Was rooting women i met on dating sites and Tinder. Its only when i got back with my wife did I start punting.

Today with an abundance of pussy available i have never understood why a single guy would be punting

Did it work out, getting back with the missus?

[Vincent888]

2 more cents to add. What I find amusing is that guys who have never been married are marriage experts. Just like people who have never had children of their own give advice to parents on how to raise children

It’s marvellous what you can find on the internet. How to repair old tractors and even live happily ever after.