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[CumShot]

I've just signed up for a new account with seeking.com and busy working my way though a set of 6 solid prospects plus bouncing around 30-40 others.

I'm interested to get a DM from other current seeking.com subscribers that we can shares notes through DM.

My target range is 25-35 SYT, Brisbane CDB within 10kms.

[newbiejones]

Keep us updated on if its worth it. Average cost etc
I ended up on secret benefits and def a lot of bots.

[gpeck80]

SYT? - Sxy young thing?

[CumShot]

SYT? - Sxy young thing?
SYT - Sweet Young Thing

So here I am three days in. I had to deactivate my profile as there were too may prospects.


Had a meet and greet with one girl today. not exactly my type so we had a polite coffee and went our separate ways.

There are a few different profiles of girls.

Full time employed girls - going to be available at night (doesn't suit me)
Full time students - say they are flexible but are juggling work, study and all these guys
Escorts posing as sugar
Lots of other variations on the above.


Of course there are some crazy valuations which I just shrug off.

I've had good experiences before. I know the right girl(s) will come.

[gpeck80]

And then there's the women that just use it as a dating site and the ones that want platonic friendship only (which are fun to convert).

[CumShot]

And then there's the women that just use it as a dating site and the ones that want platonic friendship only (which are fun to convert).

yep, it took a couple of days for the quiet ones to emerge. i ignore the platonic part and just push ahead with coffee (not paid!) and decide on the vibe.

I'm conscious of not mentioning sex in the online chats. I just leave that hanging in their mind and let them be the one to raise it. so, number of males on the site, mentioned sex/money in the first few messages 99.9% then there is me.

[rebound101]

Guys I’m trying to sign upto this but keep getting invalid email. Anyone have a solution for this at all? Email was entered correctly and even created a new free one and still same issue. Wish they had an app

[Falcon2005]

SYT - Sweet Young Thing

So here I am three days in. I had to deactivate my profile as there were too may prospects.

Prospects ?? or too many fakes ?? That was the issue I had with Secret Benefits at least.

[CumShot]

Prospects ?? or too many fakes ?? That was the issue I had with Secret Benefits at least.

Genuine prospects for what I'm looking for.

Obviously easy to get PPM at sort notice with offers between $300-$800/hour. but that's also variable depending on their availability and schedules. One 40 yo lady offered to see me on her WFH day and see me either side of her lunch break for $600. How generous. Hopefully she splits that with her employers. But for $600 might as well see an escorts.

I haven't seen evidence of bots on seeking. they have unlimited messages so there is no inventive to get paid per message as is the case on secretbenefits. What seeking will do is towards the end of each subscription period they 'feature' my profile which generates last minute messages and excitement.

What I'm looking for is a girl that is not sweating on this allowance to dig themselves out of the financial holes they continue to dig. I easily ignore the last minute request for groceries, uber eats, paid coffee dates and of course 'rent'. I'm looking for a girl that will host regularly or at east alternate weeks. Most likely the girl I snag will be on the site only a few days before she gets pissed off by all the trash.

[gpeck80]

yep, it took a couple of days for the quiet ones to emerge. i ignore the platonic part and just push ahead with coffee (not paid!) and decide on the vibe.

I'm conscious of not mentioning sex in the online chats. I just leave that hanging in their mind and let them be the one to raise it. so, number of males on the site, mentioned sex/money in the first few messages 99.9% then there is me.

Yep. Never lead with money. In your deals with women (except for escorts).

As for the women that need a man that can dig her out of a financial hole, such women are irresponsible financially and thus are irresponsible in every other facet of life. Sleeping around. Getting STIs. Lying. Drug use. Criminal behavior. The list goes.

[funinqld]

Sorry but I have been on there a few years back and I found that the best way to get rid of fakes is to get straight to the point.
I want to fuck. I want this and do you do that. Not in a rude way but be precise with your requests. Anyone that asks for money to meet up....get rid of them. There are alot that want to be treated with respect and taken out to a good place for dinner and a good nightclub or bar and they will give you what you really want (sex) in return. But there are alot of princesses that believe they are better than every other person on the face of the planet and you barely deserve to give them 100 bux for sweet FA.
Get rid of the fakes straight away. Then go for the real ones and you will do well. Ps the best ones are the girls who want money but also love fucking.....little secret......girls love fucking too

[funinqld]

Sorry I meant barely deserve to give them 1000 bux for sweet FA

[Nick007]

SYT is 18-21
MILF is 25-35

[CumShot]

Sorry but I have been on there a few years back and I found that the best way to get rid of fakes is to get straight to the point.
I want to fuck. I want this and do you do that. Not in a rude way but be precise with your requests. Anyone that asks for money to meet up....get rid of them. There are alot that want to be treated with respect and taken out to a good place for dinner and a good nightclub or bar and they will give you what you really want (sex) in return. But there are alot of princesses that believe they are better than every other person on the face of the planet and you barely deserve to give them 100 bux for sweet FA.
Get rid of the fakes straight away. Then go for the real ones and you will do well. Ps the best ones are the girls who want money but also love fucking.....little secret......girls love fucking too
So t's up to us to choose which path we are going down.

a) easy to find sex for money - but I can get that in shop or brothels a lot easier.

b) over-paying for princess eye candy - not my thing

c) finding an innocent sweetie that just wants a reliable guy and doesn't know her worth - good market for me

d) corrupting an innocent sweetie that ahs just joined he site. - god adventures for me


They all exist on there, which ever you choose, just avoid the other buckets.

[funinqld]

C and D look good. Lol. I did find a few of those. No princesses. The good thing is I built up a good rapport with at least 2 of them and was getting a few freebies in there too for a while.

[gpeck80]

C and D got me through my teens and 20s. Ha ha.

[funinqld]

Hehe its much more fun when you are older.

[CumShot]

Pretty well narrowed my field down for the current batch of prospects. Each day I have a coffee meets ( I don't pay for coffee meets BTW). Common theme is the cost of living as to why new girls have entered the SB market.

[CumShot]

I only ended up having my profile active for a little over a week. Its been deactivated for the past week while I worked through the prospects I have.

I gave up on the younger uni student types. Too much age difference and very little to talk about plus they want top dollar just for being young. Better value elsewhere.

I do have a 30 year old foreign student that is on for fortnightly meets. Mainly I just want to try her out in bed, not very exciting conversationally but I can sense she is keen to lease.

There is another 28 yo student I've met but haven't cracked her yet. no money has changed hands, no DNA has been exchanged yet. She's simply in the might come off pool.

None of my selections are born in Australia.

So in summary the one month subscription I only had to use for a week by which time I had found a new roster to keep me going for a few months. Maybe next time I can go halves with someone to take over .

Good value for me.

[HST]

38 and no kids and "career focused" - or so she says. No condoms = you'll be a sperm donor

[kamas]

The maintenance payments for the next 20 years to bring up your kid might be a bit more expensive than any other alternative course of action.

[funinqld]

Looks like you have had good success....great stuff....oh and you can pull out at the last minute and blow on her lol....no need to worry

[Bed Wrecker]

Looks like you have had good success....great stuff....oh and you can pull out at the last minute and blow on her lol....no need to worry

Tell that to the millions of babies born from pre- cum

[Falcon2005]

I've just signed up for a new account with seeking.com and busy working my way though a set of 6 solid prospects plus bouncing around 30-40 others.

I'm interested to get a DM from other current seeking.com subscribers that we can shares notes through DM.

My target range is 25-35 SYT, Brisbane CDB within 10kms.

After trying Sugardaddy dot com only to find it was a clone of secret benefits so immediately deleted my account. I thought Id give seeking ago, signed up had a look around. Came across some familiar profiles from Secret Benefits - possibly more click bait - who knows really. Anyways got three msgs in the short time I was online - one from overseas and two from ladies in different states. Just deleted my account - just more click bait

[CumShot]

After trying Sugardaddy dot com only to find it was a clone of secret benefits so immediately deleted my account. I thought Id give seeking ago, signed up had a look around. Came across some familiar profiles from Secret Benefits - possibly more click bait - who knows really. Anyways got three msgs in the short time I was online - one from overseas and two from ladies in different states. Just deleted my account - just more click bait

did you have a paid account for about USD100? unpaid accounts get bugger all messages

if you did pay, do you use a pic? what did you write on your profile?

of course you will get some rubbish profiles. just ignore them. you can set your inbox to ignore any incoming emails from x kms away. I have mine set to 50kms which removes Gold Coast messages.

I've been contacted by a few DMs here on A99 asking me to suggest profile text. My suggestion is keep to simple but have some life interests.


The maintenance payments for the next 20 years to bring up your kid might be a bit more expensive than any other alternative course of action.

you are right. I am cautious and do take a careful approach. At my age I know about 5 minutes before my body is going to cum. I takes a bit of encouragement.

[Falcon2005]

did you have a paid account for about USD100? unpaid accounts get bugger all messages

if you did pay, do you use a pic? what did you write on your profile?

of course you will get some rubbish profiles. just ignore them. you can set your inbox to ignore any incoming emails from x kms away. I have mine set to 50kms which removes Gold Coast messages.

No - hadn't got to the stage of being a paid member yet. The clickbait messages was enough for me.

[cn6666]

Where did you find the day use room?

[Bed Wrecker]

Where did you find the day use room?

I swear some of you guys.....how you get about in daily life with such cluelessness?
Google it. I mean it might tax you to think of it, but “Day Use Hotel Room Brisbane” might just yield results

[Falcon2005]

I swear some of you guys.....how you get about in daily life with such cluelessness?
Google it. I mean it might tax you to think of it, but “Day Use Hotel Room Brisbane” might just yield results

lol....and it is just not here were people can't think for themselves. I saw a post on FB on a campervan page asking is they should use a rubbish bin inside and one outside.

[CumShot]

No - hadn't got to the stage of being a paid member yet. The clickbait messages was enough for me.

but you don't know what they even said do you? just ignore those unwanted messages, ain't too hard.

I've clearly explained my strategy over the past few weeks, reported how it's working and today spend a few hours after lunch in bed having bareback sex with a sweet girl.

so my choice tomorrow is a 28yo or a 31 yo in my Dayuse room. I've done the 28 yo a few times in this period and the 31 is a new for me. I guess we should always err on the side of adventure and go the new one.

Without being specific, the above three girls range in price from free, $300/month and $500/week.

It's just a website that introduces people within a few pretences maybe not for everyone.

[CumShot]

One thing I do enjoy is the girls that think they can play with the mind. One Latina I was chatting on whatsapp we got to the point about allowances and I always leave it for them to place an opening bid.

For this girl her line was something like "Depending on how comfortable you are with your own financial security you might like to consider giving me an allowance, gifts and helping me with some bills."

Obviously it was some attempt to belittle me into paying an unemployed foreign student stupid money for sex. I think I replied with something like "Well my financial situation is pretty comfortable. How will you be paying your rent this week?" Needless to say I wont be meeting her.

The reduced student working hours is really starting to bite these girls.

[ravvg]

The reduced student working hours is really starting to bite these girls.

i don't think so. if they were going to be doing this, the money is much more that that work you are talking about. why do they even need to be doing that job in the first place even they have this ?

[CumShot]

i don't think so. if they were going to be doing this, the money is much more that that work you are talking about. why do they even need to be doing that job in the first place even they have this ?

You have it the wrong way around. Let's say a girl comes from Asia to study here. Until July this year she was able to work 35+ hours per week. With a share house and student life, they can survive with that money. Now that the student visa hours are max 24/week that's a lot less cash and no surplus. Can't take a second job but can accept cash for sex.

Two of the girls I met said that they were referred to the site by their friends whom are also doing it. For the right student it's going to be a workable thing. Realistically they only need one regular guy and catch up once per week. It is hard if they were having to find a new SD each week on PPM basis. Some play for more than one.

If you don't have time to try seeking, the student ladies at Sushi Train might be interested.

[CumShot]

The economic realities of the new academic year are looming fast. The university campuses are still quiet. There are a few summer students around.

There was also a recent news.com article about some retired dentist's SB that was clearing >$5k / week. These sort of articles usually drive new talent to the sugar scene.

I took the opportunity last week to kick off a new seeking.com subscription.

NO shortage of girls that are asking >$800. Ignoring those dreamers there are nice foreign students that will "everything except anal" for $400 staying overnight.

[Chappie]

Thanks CumShot, interesting thread, definitely seems like an option for those who want an ongoing arrangement. After getting out of a long term relationship and not knowing what I want, this might be the way to go. The escort scene in bris is pretty bad these days.

How long would you say each arrangement lasts before it falls apart? Do you need to constantly search for new leads

[CumShot]

How long would you say each arrangement lasts before it falls apart? Do you need to constantly search for new leads

Best I have had was one year.

Usually I will take a one month membership with enough leads to work through for 2-3 months. The problem with the girls they know if you don't follow them up you are fucking someone else. So to put the girls on the back burner for later reheating I tell them I travel a lot overseas and will call them when I'm back.

Not all the girls want to do overnights. These are often good for a dinner together and back to the place.

If they are too transactional then they are the same as escorts, so why bother.

There are so many sweet foreign students round that are happy to hang around, understand how it works and they don't complicate things. TBH it's been a long time since I have fucked a aussie born white girl. Maybe that should be my Australia Day pledge, bonus points if she works at Woolies.

chappie do start with signing up for a free membership so we can share a few links. I can send them a message for you if you are interested and until you get your own subscription.

there are a few members sharing intel by DM already

[CumShot]

i don't think so. if they were going to be doing this, the money is much more that that work you are talking about. why do they even need to be doing that job in the first place even they have this ?

they will need to have regular employers in their life.

[TheCF]

Cumshot, I am unable to send a PM. I am guessing I am too much of a newbie here to be allowed. Any other way I can message you? TIA

[Lovearubntug]

Pretty well narrowed my field down for the current batch of prospects. Each day I have a coffee meets ( I don't pay for coffee meets BTW). Common theme is the cost of living as to why new girls have entered the SB market.

You don't pay for coffee meets..?? Don't tell me you are so fucking cheap you make them pay for their own coffee..???

[CumShot]

Cumshot, I am unable to send a PM. I am guessing I am too much of a newbie here to be allowed. Any other way I can message you? TIA

Easy, post some of your experiences and visit reports. that will increase your post count and help me understand your punting style for when you do send a DM.

[CumShot]

You don't pay for coffee meets..?? Don't tell me you are so fucking cheap you make them pay for their own coffee..???

I was referring to not paying the girl just for turning up. Common girl BS is that their time is important, blah, blah and that there are many cheapies around therefore a guy should pay the girl $100-$200 just for the privilege to have coffee with her. Any SB requesting payment for coffee interviews should be immediately blocked as she does not have a provider mindset, instead she has a take first mindset.

[TheCF]

You don't pay for coffee meets..?? Don't tell me you are so fucking cheap you make them pay for their own coffee..???

I assume he means he does not pay the girl to come to meet him for coffee. He does pay for the actual coffee and cake :)

[Lovearubntug]

I was referring to not paying the girl just for turning up. Common girl BS is that their time is important, blah, blah and that there are many cheapies around therefore a guy should pay the girl $100-$200 just for the privilege to have coffee with her. Any SB requesting payment for coffee interviews should be immediately blocked as she does not have a provider mindset, instead she has a take first mindset.

That makes much more sense.. Thanks for reply..

[CumShot]

I've had to deactivate my profile this week. Juggling too many of these and the new leads just complicate things as I start to think the grass is even greener with each girl.

Met up with a flirty and picture wise nice asian girl, 28. In person though she had a low level of engagement. Maybe I wasn't to her liking. Not all sweet young girls have engaging personalities and she was struggling to be at ease with this old fart. That's OK, it's not our time. I let her go her own way. Only for the cost for two coffees to find out.

A couple of Filipinas operating out of a shared house in Kelvin Grove got on my radar. They are both nice and attractive but they do share notes. They have more of an escort (by the hour) mindset. That didn't suit me.

The longer I stay on the site, the more messages I get from newbies. In the first few days of joining I was hit with all of the professional operators. After a while the pro/escort types have all moved on and the shy newbie ones will choose to send me a message. These are the ones that appeal to me. Good vibes, less limits and for me, more potential.

There are heaps of aussie girls which simply have very little appeal for me.

[9ight]

really thinking about to share the prescription with you

[CumShot]

really thinking about to share the prescription with you

sure, prescription for viagra is what I'm using the most

[Trapper]

My most recent ex was found on there, started as a SB deal and developed into a full blowj relationship. She broke it off after a year and a half a few months back. Jumped back on the site for the first time the other week and she is back up there looking again, interesting she doesn't mention that she was in the process of transitioning to a male in her profile, had a laugh at the poor sucker who gets that surprise and moved on, 150 bucks for a month isn't worth it in my view.

[CumShot]

150 bucks for a month isn't worth it in my view.

I don't use an ongoing subscription. I find that a week is more than enough time and my dance card is well and truly full by the end of four weeks. This sub I've used for a business trip in Sydney plus home base in Brisbane. Also, when I create a new user they do try and encourage sign up at the full price, after 3-4 days they make a 20% discount offer, after another day the same 20% is offer, don't accept that and they make a deeper offer. I paid AU100. After that cancel the auto renew.

I'm wondering about how to identify your sex transition friend. I'm still worried about what I did with Russian barbie (https://www.escortsandbabes.com.au/Profile/QLD/Brisbane/Independent/blueeyedrussian/) last year.

[CumShot]

It's been a while since I posted any updates here on the SB activity. I've now allowed my subscription to expire. It doesn't matter as I keep a separate word doc with a pic of each girl I'm pursuing, their seeking.com link, phone and notes of interest about something they told me that makes me sound like I'm listening.

The 31 days of subscription gives more than enough time to cover off a wide selection of the available talent. For me I used it in both Sydney and Brisbane.

There is no doubt it does take some work to sort through the shite profiles. but some well placed questions and culling can leave you free for opportunities.

Some rough categories of profiles

Scammers - profiles deliberately setup to perpetrate financials scams. easy to spot as they are just "too easy". Their profile locations also often change without explanation. comments or questions don't make sense to the flow. Just block.

Escorts/Pros - SB sites are a legitimate place for professionals to find work. Pricing is similar to actual escort sites. For me, these girls will usually be the first to say they can host without first grilling me for a few days. They will also talk in 'hours for $xxx". Not what I'm looking for on a SB site.

Tyre kickers - girls whom have read some article about being a sugarbabe and have some magical fairy-tale dream that they truly have a golden pussy which will solve their financial problems. Once I've determined a deep financial problem or a belief around the sugar dream I let them go.

After this comes a wide variety of girls that will happily trade sex for services. It's an interesting conversation where girls will say they do PPM (pay per meet) for $500. My reply is well I'm the one doing the $500 and what are you doing? if they don't see the humour in that then they fall in the GPS column.

Thanks to a one Forum member whom suggested I investigate a particular profile I got to enjoy wonderful quality times with a well qualified lady whom didn't actually want cash and was just happy with my input on her particular situation. This is not unlike my SB activity last year where I ended up with a similar lady, similar nationality and similar situation, also doing me for free. I think there is a market for old polite beggars like me 60+where the girl gets confidence that she can end it at any time and there are not any ongoing stalking, threats or problems. They know I'm not falling for them nor have any long term plausible relationship with them. I also leave them be in charge of timings which suits their busy careers.

I shagged one girl who had a busy work life and often out of town visiting clients. The weather changed last week and suddenly she was WFH. So A girl I had written off as not my type messages me out of the blue and says she's' home for the afternoon and come over. She was a nice person but a lousy fuck. So I fucked her a few times that afternoon just to be sure. She dd ask $400

There are also hundreds of other girls there that will suit other guys. If you have money to burnt then I am sure there are girls there that you can throw it at BUT like all the tips on this forum it's about getting performance and VFM.

I'll spin up another profile in a few months. I have enough names and numbers to keep things ticking along for a while. Plus a few ML visits to keep me in shape. I do like the massage experience for convenience.

Have a great week.

[Puntersclub]

So my recent experience has been great, found a strait laced person thats an absolute firecracker in bed. Went away for a weekend and drank tons of Gatorade to keep up. She’s going OS so started looking for a replacement. It was quiet, a scammer or two, block block. Then found a solid 9 on a coffee date ( I’m a 7 on a good day lol) after two paid dates she said the money made her feel bad but wanted to still see me. Now this is rare, most of them want the $ to fuck an old dude. Can confirm that most SB’s swallow and not overly fused about condoms. So having found a replacement, I have offers for coffee dates galore. Can no one pay their credit cards with their only fans account?

[CumShot]

So my recent experience has been great, found a strait laced person thats an absolute firecracker in bed. Went away for a weekend and drank tons of Gatorade to keep up. She’s going OS so started looking for a replacement. It was quiet, a scammer or two, block block. Then found a solid 9 on a coffee date ( I’m a 7 on a good day lol) after two paid dates she said the money made her feel bad but wanted to still see me. Now this is rare, most of them want the $ to fuck an old dude. Can confirm that most SB’s swallow and not overly fused about condoms. So having found a replacement, I have offers for coffee dates galore. Can no one pay their credit cards with their only fans account?

That's a good experience share. Just bat the non-fits away and work your way through the potentials.

I got a big lecture from a Sydney SB who said I should expect to have to pay more because I am old, no girl wants to be seen with an old guy. Well the experience of puntersclub seems to reinforce that there are many girls on there that just want to feel comfortable. Yes, also many girls expecting to be paid, they are just not for me.

Punter I will DM you some sweet words I heard but I don't want to publish them openly here.

[CumShot]

Actually thinking about Puntersclub experience he does show that SB are not just point and shoot like massage shop. it does take some work.

[Lovearubntug]

I don't use an ongoing subscription. I find that a week is more than enough time and my dance card is well and truly full by the end of four weeks. This sub I've used for a business trip in Sydney plus home base in Brisbane. Also, when I create a new user they do try and encourage sign up at the full price, after 3-4 days they make a 20% discount offer, after another day the same 20% is offer, don't accept that and they make a deeper offer. I paid AU100. After that cancel the auto renew.

I'm wondering about how to identify your sex transition friend. I'm still worried about what I did with Russian barbie (https://www.escortsandbabes.com.au/Profile/QLD/Brisbane/Independent/blueeyedrussian/) last year.

Hey cumshot..

Site is only asking me for $19.99USD/30 days to upgrade.. WTF..??

[CumShot]

Hey cumshot..

Site is only asking me for $19.99USD/30 days to upgrade.. WTF..??

There is some weird combination of signup questions that has resulted in you with a profile of a sugarbabe" seeking a "sugar mum". You will probably notice that your search for SB is not returning very many results.

a) The time I did it and paid the subscription I contacted support and they changed my profile to the correct profile and gave me a prorate membership days. like 20% of a month.

b) If you have not paid yet, just delete that profile and start a new profile.

[Lovearubntug]

There is some weird combination of signup questions that has resulted in you with a profile of a sugarbabe" seeking a "sugar mum". You will probably notice that your search for SB is not returning very many results.

a) The time I did it and paid the subscription I contacted support and they changed my profile to the correct profile and gave me a prorate membership days. like 20% of a month.

b) If you have not paid yet, just delete that profile and start a new profile.

Thanks Cman, I'll sus it out..

[CumShot]

Here is a profile that messaged my new profile on seeking. I did engage her in conversation when I had the paid subscription. simply told her I couldn't afford her. She said something like "make an offer". So I offered $300 overnight. She blocked me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6e95817c-4a8a-487c-b8dc-eb4ad8e49359

For the newbies this is a good example of one to avoid which is why she has to message new profiles each day. I guess she only needs to get one per week.

The profile she has messaged today doesn't even have my pic. it's basically a page holder profile.

[Tisjustforfun2]

Here is a profile that messaged my new profile on seeking. I did engage her in conversation when I had the paid subscription. simply told her I couldn't afford her. She said something like "make an offer". So I offered $300 overnight. She blocked me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6e95817c-4a8a-487c-b8dc-eb4ad8e49359

For the newbies this is a good example of one to avoid which is why she has to message new profiles each day. I guess she only needs to get one per week.

The profile she has messaged today doesn't even have my pic. it's basically a page holder profile.

Came across that profile myself. Weird responses from “her” and I didn’t pursue.

[Khanji1980]

but you don't know what they even said do you? just ignore those unwanted messages, ain't too hard.

I've clearly explained my strategy over the past few weeks, reported how it's working and today spend a few hours after lunch in bed having bareback sex with a sweet girl.

so my choice tomorrow is a 28yo or a 31 yo in my Dayuse room. I've done the 28 yo a few times in this period and the 31 is a new for me. I guess we should always err on the side of adventure and go the new one.

Without being specific, the above three girls range in price from free, $300/month and $500/week.

It's just a website that introduces people within a few pretences maybe not for everyone.

Wow . 300 a month . How did you get that ? I have been paying way too much .:( sometimes 600 per meet . I feel robbed now . I have been on the site for a few years on and off now . I agree with all your observations and I have similar strategies to your to wee out scammers and escorts . But I have never found a girl that wants 300 or 500 a month or even a week . Any strategy/tips would be welcome here on finding those girls .

[CumShot]

Wow . 300 a month . How did you get that ? I have been paying way too much .:( sometimes 600 per meet . I feel robbed now . I have been on the site for a few years on and off now . I agree with all your observations and I have similar strategies to your to wee out scammers and escorts . But I have never found a girl that wants 300 or 500 a month or even a week . Any strategy/tips would be welcome here on finding those girls .



You've been on the forum for a year, on seeking for 6 months...how about explaining what you have been doing? Explain how you fucked up my simple tips (sent through numerous DMs)

I seriously doubt you even have a paid subscription (which was Top #1)

You are a time waster mate.

[Khanji1980]

You've been on the forum for a year, on seeking for 6 months...how about explaining what you have been doing? Explain how you fucked up my simple tips (sent through numerous DMs)

I seriously doubt you even have a paid subscription (which was Top #1)

You are a time waster mate.

No need to be rude . I found this discussion about seeking only in the last few days . I have been on seeking since 2022 . Paid membership of platinum (3 months bulk buy ) 3 times during that time .

[johnny blaze]

I’m currently away for work, decided to check this out to line up some birds for when I’m back home. Seems pretty good so far, have too many girls lined up already for this trip. I’m basically just getting their number then sending them a few pics and just replying to the ones that seem most keen

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[CumShot]

No need to be rude . I found this discussion about seeking only in the last few days . I have been on seeking since 2022 . Paid membership of platinum (3 months bulk buy ) 3 times during that time .

And now that you say you have three months of platinum membership please share some actual field reports. Tell us what's happening and maybe we can all learn from you.

BTW You are strange posting content of private messages into the public forum but I let that go.

[CumShot]

I’m currently away for work, decided to check this out to line up some birds for when I’m back home. Seems pretty good so far, have too many girls lined up already for this trip. I’m basically just getting their number then sending them a few pics and just replying to the ones that seem most keen

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Interesting conversations. I'm not a fan of the dick pic. They look like fun girls.

My personal MO is one of differentiation. Rarely mentioning sex (but of course everyone knows how it works).

My target range on seeking are not desperate for money and usually in some kind of life transition stage. The last girl I was seeing from seeking was a 37 year old manager. The man's suit hanging in the cupboard I naively accepted as being "her brother's". Later found out it was her "ex". A year later I see she is now married. No money changed hands, she just needed a safe option for a while. She vetted me thoroughly prior to meeting and was confidant I wouldn't be hanging around in her life.

There are many girls that really are in need of money. The more they 'need' it due to lifestyle choices the more I personally avoid them. I steer clear of duck lips, fillers, "luxury lifestyle"

You have a lot of unanswered messages in those screenshots

[johnny blaze]

Interesting conversations. I'm not a fan of the dick pic. They look like fun girls.

There are many girls that really are in need of money. The more they 'need' it due to lifestyle choices the more I personally avoid them. I steer clear of duck lips, fillers, "luxury lifestyle"

You have a lot of unanswered messages in those screenshots

I only send it if there’s been good convo and ask them beforehand if they want to see, I’m pretty sure most girls don’t want to just see random dicks with no introduction

I know the type of girl you’re talking about and I steer well clear of the bimbos, I like the girl next door type.

It’s funny 2 of them i had actually matched with on tinder first, I don’t have time for the messing around with the tinder games so this turned out to be way easier

[Shagspear]

Hey Cumshot,

Are you on Seeking or SecretBenefits or both?
Which one is better?

[Falcon2005]

Hey Cumshot,

Are you on Seeking or SecretBenefits or both?
Which one is better?

Certainly wouldnt recommend Secret Benefits...too may fake profiles all there just to entice you to spend credits

[CumShot]

Hey Cumshot,

Are you on Seeking or SecretBenefits or both?
Which one is better?

I only operate on seeking. others have more experience on secretbenefits

[Rusty Russ]

I have had more success on secret benefits than seeking the key to both sites is avoiding the bots and the pros that operate on both sites
I have had a few really great girls from secret benefits that have been weekly meetings for me over several months and in a couple of cases over a year
I avoid the ones that are eye candy and look for the girl next type
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This was my weekly for almost a year at only 350 per week sometimes we would meet 2-3 times per week dinner and awesome sex sometimes we would only meet once a week the added bonus was she loved being photographed ����
Currently I am seeing an Aussie girl from secret benefits who is 350 ppm and a lot of fun for a couple hours each week

[marcoau]

The girl in the picture you shared looks great, do you could share her details with her permission?

[Rusty Russ]

The girl in the picture you shared looks great, do you could share her details with her permission?

No i wouldn’t share because she is a sb and she has returned to her home country

[CumShot]

The girl in the picture you shared looks great, do you could share her details with her permission?

The thing about the SB world is it is personal choices both way. What one guy finds attractive in a girl the next guy might find her different. The same for the girl. She will also have her particular tastes and she may meet two guys and be an absolute wet fish to one guy and the perfect goddess for the next.

I just encourage people to get a subscription. Have a few conversations and meet a few girls. I believe there is someone for everyone. Just be open and honest about what you are seeking and what you can offer. You will be surprised what girls will accept. Don't look to all the girls you miss out, enjoy the ones you click with.

[QuietRelief]

Just found this thread.

Is there anyone else currently subscribing to seeking.com.

[QuietRelief]

Thought I would report back on the types of adventures I had on Seeking during March.

Sydney Business Trip.
Wrote to quite a few Sydney babes asking if they would meet up with a visitor. Quickly had a list of girls that would meet each night. Price requests ranged from $500-$1,200. And the higher prices were be asked by 35-50 year olds. Settled on a sweet 50kg 25yo malaysian foreign student. She would meet me after work each day, one bag before dinner, dinner together then more after dinner. She was at the lower price range. She was bareback from the start so I would cum on her stomach. Hard to resist that.

Brisbane MILF
Did a meet and greet with an Aust born 38yo Korean MILF. After the coffee meet she must have judged that I had financial potential so she was asking $500 for more coffee dates, $2K for intimacy. I laughed and she hasn't messaged since. I see she has actually deleted her Whatsapp entirely so maybe she gave up or found someone more gullible that me. She was very personable though.

Unemployed Chinese Australian born 35yo
Met this one for a meet and greet also. Coffee meet went to a lunch meet. After the meal she suggested we get a hotel, certainly a nice greeting. She asked $900 for overnight. I said no, so she suggested $400. She undressed to reveal she was pre-loaded wearing lingerie. CIP and CIM with spit. Will definitely see her again.

By now in the Brisbane contacts I was noticing anyone over 30 was asking >$800 but the younger ones with more cost of living pressures and maybe still living at home with less rent were offering far better value.

Brisbane born Malaysian 22yo
This girl was a natural introvert but also willing to do things. As always I did a meet and greet to see if she is sane. From there we decided to go ahead but first she requested STI screening, she had that also. So a few days lapsed while I arranged the free GP visit, the free STI tests and the results came through. Met her at a dayuse hotel where I learned she was a very good kisser. Her style of kissing was 'sucker fish'. She had a negative pressure in her mouth at all times which just held onto whatever was near her mouth. Sex was good but she really hasn't learned to let go yet. She offered to finished off each time with a CIM and swallow. Hard to resist that offer.

Other Brisbane prospects
I had a list of a few other 21-25 yos that are up for meets in the $500-$600 range. Just didn't have the co-ordination to get the time with them.

The SBs are great value for the hours spent, I'm getting 3-5 hours for $500-$600 for her plus hotel but it does take some arranging to get that much time into her and my schedules. It really works best for me while travelling interstate.

For April I will probably move back to shop visits. I can just turn up at a shop, choose a girl and enjoy my time for $75 + $250

[Puntersclub]

Seeking has gotten too hard now with the new rules it’s easy to get banned. After probably 10 years of sugaring, I think I’ll holster my gun and stick to a massage and a FS. Sugar Babes do provide good value on an hourly basis, but I’m starting to notice the disapproving looks from people who dont think she’s my daughter. It’s too easy spot an older dude and a honey and know whats what. My top 10 experiences are all SBs and some of them reconnect when they need a buck and a f*ck. i always paid around 500 and the price has been very stable for that time. Pity one of them wasn’t smart enough to lock in for more than a couple of years they would have been way richer with half of everything lol

[nobodynose]

Hey, lads do you pay for the subscription to this, or do the ladies just message? Thanks all new to this

[TheCF]

Hang on. new rules. Getting banned? What kind of things get you banned? I have not been banned and I am pretty open/upfront about what I am looking for an offering

[QuietRelief]

Hey, lads do you pay for the subscription to this, or do the ladies just message? Thanks all new to this

You pay a monthly subscription but I only needed one month, I think it was about USD120. But had and have some great girls!


Hang on. new rules. Getting banned? What kind of things get you banned? I have not been banned and I am pretty open/upfront about what I am looking for an offering
There is new facial registration maybe to weed out fakes for starters. Mentioning words like Allowance, PPM or Sex gets a popup when sending messages to change the words. I guess if you do enough your email address gets banned. I always make my monetary offers on Telegram or WA

[Puntersclub]

If you mention money in your profile or messages it’s a breach of the rules. They are trying to avoid prosecution under new people trafficking laws in the USA.
Make offers off the site or in person.

[TheCF]

OK. "Generous" "Mutually beneficial" and "_NOT_ platonic" must not be in their list of keywords.

[QuietRelief]

meanwhile there are lots of 21-28 yo hotties n Brisbane willing to spend a few hours this weekend for $500-$600.

one 23yo has huge EE type titties. paid for one session with her just to get my hands on them. pretty amazing. last night she was in the valley and called to get a place to stay overnight for free. I guess she didn't get lucky on the dancefloor.

[nobodynose]

meanwhile there are lots of 21-28 yo hotties n Brisbane willing to spend a few hours this weekend for $500-$600.

one 23yo has huge EE type titties. paid for one session with her just to get my hands on them. pretty amazing. last night she was in the valley and called to get a place to stay overnight for free. I guess she didn't get lucky on the dancefloor.

Where are these ladies?

[QuietRelief]

Where are these ladies?

on seeking.com create a free membership to vie them, pay the subscription USD120 to chat them.

[nobodynose]

on seeking.com create a free membership to vie them, pay the subscription USD120 to chat them.

Thanks I will try that tried secret benefits but seems to be all bots.

[QuietRelief]

Thanks I will try that tried secret benefits but seems to be all bots.

secret benefits should be reported in the way red hot pie was exposed for dodgy behaviours also. Court finds online dating website used fictitious profiles (https://www.accc.gov.au/media-release/court-finds-online-dating-website-used-fictitious-profiles)

seeking.com has changed over the past year with a significant increase in membership subscription. List price now USD150 for a month which will be offered for less to a new subscriber after a few days. They have also introduced face recognition on signup and selfie' verification on pictures. So no fake pics. This has resulted many less sugar profiles. But thinking back I think it has reduced the time wasters and I still had good success getting girls to meet for PPM.

It's not for everyone in every situation.

Best advice to scoring pussy on there - don't be a dickhead, no need to talk yourself up. girls see so much BS messages that a non-BS approach stands out.

[Rusty Russ]

Yes there are lots of bots on secret benefits but there is also plenty of real girls you just need to think before replying to the countless msgs that are received I don’t reply to any msg unless the girl has viewed my profile and even then i will look at their profile and look for indicators that they are real.
As I have said I have had plenty of success on secret benefits and have given a couple of leads to other punters here
Currently I have a regular sb that I am seeing fortnightly and a couple of others that I see on and off as they need cash injections :-)

[nobodynose]

Yes there are lots of bots on secret benefits but there is also plenty of real girls you just need to think before replying to the countless msgs that are received I don’t reply to any msg unless the girl has viewed my profile and even then i will look at their profile and look for indicators that they are real.
As I have said I have had plenty of success on secret benefits and have given a couple of leads to other punters here
Currently I have a regular sb that I am seeing fortnightly and a couple of others that I see on and off as they need cash injections :-)

Yeah I have made sure they have viewed me, liked me and have a verification video. No reply when I reply to there message.

[Rusty Russ]

Yeah I have made sure they have viewed me, liked me and have a verification video. No reply when I reply to there message.

It could be your reply!
What do you say in your reply?
I normally introduce myself and then ask some general questions
I have had a couple of girls who take weeks to reply
Hence I try to get them to msg me on WhatsApp or telegram

[nobodynose]

She said o.g would love to get to to know you. I said how are you what would you like to know. Another one hello daddy, I just haha, hi so maybe I need to be a bit more assertive

[Rusty Russ]

She said o.g would love to get to to know you. I said how are you what would you like to know. Another one hello daddy, I just haha, hi so maybe I need to be a bit more assertive

Yes definitely to it need to give them a reason to reply otherwise the conversation doesn’t get going