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Ed110
11-09-2023, 02:03 PM
Hey fellows, how long you last for your first time? I was a bit concerned since I finished immediately when she gave me a blowjob… a bit embracing….

bung72
11-09-2023, 06:40 PM
Oh no! I went alright, maybe 30min, had to stop a bit though! Recently with a smelly woman who did nothing for me, lasted a few minutes? Go figure!
Viagra mate…. Helps…. You might need to clean the pipes a few hours before one time?

11Bravo
11-09-2023, 06:47 PM
Hey fellows, how long you last for your first time? I was a bit concerned since I finished immediately when she gave me a blowjob… a bit embracing….
Don't worry, you'll be her favorite...

JSteel96
11-09-2023, 06:55 PM
Hey fellows, how long you last for your first time? I was a bit concerned since I finished immediately when she gave me a blowjob… a bit embracing….

It can be hard to hold back a load when getting a good BJ it takes some practice not to explode straight away.

Ghost2hauntU
11-09-2023, 07:07 PM
I lasted until the end of the hour but only because I blew 5 loads jerking off just hours prior.
Wouldn’t recommend this. Just blow with the girl and go for seconds if you can.

sleepyz
11-09-2023, 07:36 PM
Hey fellows, how long you last for your first time? I was a bit concerned since I finished immediately when she gave me a blowjob… a bit embracing….

yea me too lol not sure how to last longer

MrPB
11-09-2023, 07:41 PM
Mate I remember way back when I first started this hobby, I came almost immediately after a couple of pumps in her.

Totally embarrassed but she was very lovely about it. Happens to the best of us.

bung72
11-09-2023, 08:50 PM
I lasted until the end of the hour but only because I blew 5 loads jerking off just hours prior.
Wouldn’t recommend this. Just blow with the girl and go for seconds if you can.

Jesus! How do you manage that! I generally try to not touch myself the day of a punt.... today though.... woke up on my own, after a restless sleep thinking of the punt (logistics - my wife was coming home earlier than I thought from being away!)... decided to clean the pipes at 0530 before taking the pooch for a walk. I was worried all morning that I wouldn't get wood as good as usual, but took the vitamin V and wood was OK - didn't end up coming though, not that that really bothered me - we went for a near full 45 minute session, but I wanted to chat a bit before time was up! I think I'll revert to my 'no touching' policy in future.... :)

11Bravo
11-09-2023, 08:57 PM
Just blow with the girl and go for seconds if you can. Seriously, great advice when you're young and able. It might be worthwhile to pay for a longer session and tell her you'd like two shots, even if there's a surcharge. And don't worry, we've all been there. Just tell her she is too sexy... and makes you crazy...

And believe me, she's seen it all...

bung72
11-09-2023, 09:13 PM
Just tell her she is too sexy... and makes you crazy...

And have some extra cash... just. in. case.

Rajaz
11-09-2023, 09:35 PM
Hey fellows, how long you last for your first time? I was a bit concerned since I finished immediately when she gave me a blowjob… a bit embracing….


You are not alone bro. I blew it within minutes with my first girl, but it was a girlfriend so I was able to make up with another 2 shots which lasted longer. I miss being young.

If that was a WL, she probably appreciated that you came early. Less work for her.

Rookiestones
12-09-2023, 04:00 PM
Doesn't matter if it's first or the last time. I can go long with wifey. However, very inconsistent performance with anyone else/new (obviously ML/ML). Even in recent times, I blew my load within seconds... More annoyed at myself. $50, $80, $100 giving away for seconds of effort/service. Easy money for the lady but you'd wanna get around 10mins of pleasure at least. Makes me think twice about my decisions.

ditchtheboss
12-09-2023, 04:28 PM
Doesn't matter if it's first or the last time. I can go long with wifey. However, very inconsistent performance with anyone else/new (obviously ML/ML). Even in recent times, I blew my load within seconds... More annoyed at myself. $50, $80, $100 giving away for seconds of effort/service. Easy money for the lady but you'd wanna get around 10mins of pleasure at least. Makes me think twice about my decisions.

That’s cheap. What if you were with the girls who charge $300. I suppose you can go for round 2. I can bust my nut twice in one hour. Quickest one was in the shower. Was with a frequent and she said it was her challenge and she won. Blew in the shower with a standing pussy slide

GoldfishMan
12-09-2023, 04:48 PM
Everyone is different. I personally find it incredibly difficult to cum from a BJ. Always been like this my whole adult life. Some of the girls work so hard thinking they could get me over the line, I feel for them. Most of them would realise that I'm a "tough customer" within 5 mins of trying, and I could see them almost like rolling up their sleeves, mentally thinking "ok, this is a tough one, gotta get to work!". I try to help them by concentrating extra hard to make myself cum, just to get out of the awkward situation.

But when it comes to actually fucking a pussy or arsehole, I can cum easily. Sometimes too quick, especially if I'm getting some hot reactions from her.

I've thought about this and come to realise that my mind is just hardwired to need my partner to be "feeling it" before I could cum. That's why I don't get any satisfaction from a BBBJ, because what's she gonna feel with a dick in her mouth? Absolutely nothing.

Ghost2hauntU
12-09-2023, 05:53 PM
Seriously, great advice when you're young and able. It might be worthwhile to pay for a longer session and tell her you'd like two shots, even if there's a surcharge. And don't worry, we've all been there. Just tell her she is too sexy... and makes you crazy...

And believe me, she's seen it all...

Yeah I assumed OP is young and it’s his first time.

MrPB
12-09-2023, 07:03 PM
Everyone is different. I personally find it incredibly difficult to cum from a BJ. Always been like this my whole adult life. Some of the girls work so hard thinking they could get me over the line, I feel for them. Most of them would realise that I'm a "tough customer" within 5 mins of trying, and I could see them almost like rolling up their sleeves, mentally thinking "ok, this is a tough one, gotta get to work!". I try to help them by concentrating extra hard to make myself cum, just to get out of the awkward situation.

But when it comes to actually fucking a pussy or arsehole, I can cum easily. Sometimes too quick, especially if I'm getting some hot reactions from her.

I've thought about this and come to realise that my mind is just hardwired to need my partner to be "feeling it" before I could cum. That's why I don't get any satisfaction from a BBBJ, because what's she gonna feel with a dick in her mouth? Absolutely nothing.

This is actually very true.

bung72
12-09-2023, 07:44 PM
Extending the time to cum is one good thing about condoms! Unless the girl puts in a good effort with a CBJ, I don't seem to feel a great deal.... I'll always ask for 69....

bryanthemachinegun
13-09-2023, 11:11 AM
Hey fellows, how long you last for your first time? I was a bit concerned since I finished immediately when she gave me a blowjob… a bit embracing….

If that was embracing wait till you here my story! haha I can't get my tool HARD! haha I was very shy back then!