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Timeis629
18-09-2023, 08:45 PM
If you reward a regular is it by $$$ or gifts or being extra nice etc etc

Mr.Robot
18-09-2023, 08:48 PM
How does a regular WL, reward you?

bung72
18-09-2023, 09:08 PM
I give my favourites extra $50-100 on top of what they ask..... I think its worth it....

crazykyle1984
18-09-2023, 09:10 PM
I give my favourites extra $50-100 on top of what they ask..... I think its worth it....

Good on you mate!

crazykyle1984
18-09-2023, 09:11 PM
Probably give $20-$40

JJBlows
18-09-2023, 09:16 PM
Fuck no, never reward with cash/gifts, just be a gentleman to her

I just dont get this idea of some of you guys gifting regulars extra cash or gifts when already paying out the arse to see them in the first place?? That's pretty much simping for a girl who has already taken your money for a good experience and now you have to give her a "good experience maintenance fee" on top.

If her service is good enough for me to return, treat her good and if I can, put the effort in making her climax/orgasm, have good sex and make money off that experience as well then she should be happy with that otherwise if she gets on her high horse then she can fuck off and I won't come back again.

Treat em mean, keep em keen works (certain scenarios/girls atleast), only when you disappear for a while because of her and come back randomly she will have realised that you were one of her good ones and won't make the same mistake again.

pornonporn
18-09-2023, 09:18 PM
I give her an extra shot of protein

bung72
18-09-2023, 09:18 PM
just be a gentleman to her



Be a gentleman to all of them.....

JJBlows
18-09-2023, 09:45 PM
Be a gentleman to all of them.....

Obviously, just meant the girl who is infront of me at the time.

danaussieguy
18-09-2023, 10:22 PM
I think you should if you have an extra money!

Hidden Python
18-09-2023, 10:26 PM
if you reward them with a cash bonus, than it becomes an expectation, than when they don't receive it , than they start demanding it, than they raise their prices again, because some muppet thought they where receiving special treatment.
these girls are not your girlfriends or wives they are a piece of meat that you do a business transaction with for sex.

Kopiu09
18-09-2023, 10:31 PM
personally I dont pay any special tip for my regular unless she gave me something for me first. if there is nothing, it doesnt worth

GoldfishMan
18-09-2023, 10:37 PM
Back when I had "special" regulars (don't have any now so please don't ask), I did reward them with an extra tip. The size of the tip depended on my mood, sometimes more sometimes less. It just keeps them being "special".

On regulars that didn't give me anything special, I never tipped extra. What's the point?

GoldfishMan
18-09-2023, 10:41 PM
Wait, actually I lied. I did give one regular C WL that didn't do anything special for me a "hongpao" (red packet) when I saw her during CNY one year. It was nice, her eyes lit up and she was very thankful to me because I was the only person who gave her such a thing in that profession. Haha...

Ghost2hauntU
19-09-2023, 12:39 AM
Yes I have but only for her extras, that being photoshoots with her posing for me. 50 bucks.

personaa
19-09-2023, 12:51 AM
Used to do this every now and then, but it was a mistake, gradually they keep demanding it and service becomes mediocre.

PussyAddict
19-09-2023, 05:54 AM
I give them the service. They just the arena or gymnasium. Like above I believe they would become demanding and expecting. My procedure is to appear as regular and disappear for months to see if they miss my technique. Some pretend to be jealous of other girls. Others make out they remember my name not my dick first. Since absence makes the heart grow fonder I'll even service them with less enthusiasm by 3rd or 4th visit which can spur them on to slap my butt or get vocal with fuck me now, fuck me hard etc. I never tip for nothing. Only for extras like filming or cof

Johnisfun1969
19-09-2023, 07:29 AM
I have given $20-$50 to regulars for good service. I can understand as in Australia there is no tipping culture so it’s not normal to tip. But in punting we should all encourage someone putting a decent effort and making us feel great. It’s a hard job day in and out stripping for strangers and doing things. After a while it would get boring for the girls also. Most punters would talk the same things, a good number may not even have a good hygiene. A few odd ones may be rude or rough also. Quite a few of us would give money away to charities or spend on booze. Giving a small tip would not only show appreciation of the effort but also show kindness.

I do t agree with guys tipping $100 of dollars. If you really like your regular rather give them a gift than cash as it dies create unrealistic expectations. But each to their own. I think just treat the girls with respect and talk to them about their lives. Most would appreciate that.

RO1312
19-09-2023, 10:03 AM
I have given $20-$50 to regulars for good service. I can understand as in Australia there is no tipping culture so it’s not normal to tip. But in punting we should all encourage someone putting a decent effort and making us feel great. It’s a hard job day in and out stripping for strangers and doing things. After a while it would get boring for the girls also. Most punters would talk the same things, a good number may not even have a good hygiene. A few odd ones may be rude or rough also. Quite a few of us would give money away to charities or spend on booze. Giving a small tip would not only show appreciation of the effort but also show kindness.

I do t agree with guys tipping $100 of dollars. If you really like your regular rather give them a gift than cash as it dies create unrealistic expectations. But each to their own. I think just treat the girls with respect and talk to them about their lives. Most would appreciate that.


I agree with this to an extent, but this is the line of work they’ve chosen to do. I think being their customer and giving them the work is enough. As many of us know, it’s not cheap as is.

If they put the hard yards in, it would weed out the below average ML/WL and the better ones would have a solid list of regulars that keep coming back

11Bravo
19-09-2023, 11:33 AM
If you reward a regular is it by $$$ or gifts or being extra nice etc etcYes, with REPEAT business, same price, no tips. Smart ML's understand that a steady cash flow is literally money in the bank.

thomassalvado2
19-09-2023, 11:51 AM
Yes, with REPEAT business, same price, no tips. Smart ML's understand that a steady cash flow is literally money in the bank.

Agreed.
Thanks for the advice

GoldfishMan
19-09-2023, 12:04 PM
Most WLs will be happy just to have a returning customer that they're glad to be with. It's a steady and relatively easy income for them. Comfort level is there, money is there. What more can they want?

JSteel96
19-09-2023, 12:09 PM
Yeh I'll give my regular SB extra shopping money keep her happy.

bananahammer
19-09-2023, 08:28 PM
I have one regular, in fact she's the only WL I've seen more than once in over 10 years of punting (never been to massage shops).

I don't give her anything "extra", although in all my interactions with WLs I am respectful and not too demanding, which I'm sure they appreciate. In fact I would say my regular rewards me for being such an easy customer :)

Refedust
19-09-2023, 09:08 PM
I guess it also depends on what you get being her regular. if she give you extra then i guess it also make sense to reward that extra

ditchtheboss
19-09-2023, 09:09 PM
I have never given extra money to WLs or the very few MLs I have seen. I have been out with them and paid for meals but they paid for my meals too at times. No, never given them extra cash

bung72
19-09-2023, 09:13 PM
I figure that I'm 50.... the girl is 20.... her currency is her body, mine is folding stuff.... fair trade? An extra pineapple doesn't mean a great deal to me, but giving it to them with a nice compliment about how I think they are worth more than $x always draws a smile, and I think a great service... money well spent.

Olddog
19-09-2023, 11:20 PM
Never and not likely to. My pleasure is their business.

bummer
22-09-2023, 05:36 PM
Never and not likely to. My pleasure is their business.

Returning again is the best reward for them.

Shoryureppa
22-09-2023, 05:41 PM
I've never had a reason to. Personally, I don't give any tips when they're doing their job.

The only time I tip is when they go they extra mile (extra services) & go beyond their offering.
Have turns paying for dinner.

priapus1966
22-09-2023, 06:40 PM
If you give a money tip you are only doing something any other client can do. You need to be different to make an impression. Just a few words can be more effective; if you say "you're gorgeous " that's a commonplace, they hear it all the time. But , if you say "you are different to the other girls," they will say "how?" and you say offhandedly "Oh, I dunno, you're just classier." That approach is more likely to work because it touches every WG's weak spot - her vanity, and it puts her ahead of her competition. BS is a basic punting skill, it shouldn't be neglected.

If you feel you must tip cash, only do it rarely and generously, Christmas, Chinese New Year, don't let it become an expectation. Tho' I once got caught out with a regular who had 3 Birthdays in the same year.

Vincent888
06-10-2023, 04:21 PM
Do any of you guys tip for great service anywhere else? For example, a barber, mechanic or a restaurant?

John_Diaz
06-10-2023, 06:14 PM
Do any of you guys tip for great service anywhere else? For example, a barber, mechanic or a restaurant?

I do not think tipping is a culture here in Australia unlike in USA. Being a regular to a barber or mechanic or other services is good enough (also apply to a WL/ML). That being said, no one will stop you or anyone if they want to give tips.

Vincent888
06-10-2023, 07:32 PM
I tip everyone including WL’s. Always have always will. Some people do that and others don’t. To each his own.

Zenxxx
06-10-2023, 09:27 PM
Do any of you guys tip for great service anywhere else? For example, a barber, mechanic or a restaurant?

Absolutely not. Everything is do darn expensive these days.Best I would do is at allow restaurant to keep the change if paying in cash next to the nearest $5 and that's only if had an exceptional time.

Onehunglo
06-10-2023, 09:32 PM
I'll tip a waitress if she's been attentive and I've had a good meal.
If a ML goes beyond what the agreement was - usually a slow NHJ with touch, then I'll also tip up to the market rate for that extra service. The ML I'm currently seeing has always tried to give me change if the amount I've given her is above the usual rate that we've agreed, however if I do this I insist she keeps the change. It seems to be paying off as every now and then she'll throw in a special treat at no extra cost.

Sibon
06-10-2023, 09:44 PM
If you reward a regular is it by $$$ or gifts or being extra nice etc etc

Of course $500 to help her with the rent.

Another $500 to another regular to help pay for her new glasses.

What do I get special in return?

Nothing. Call me a simp.

Vincent888
07-10-2023, 05:49 AM
Absolutely not. Everything is do darn expensive these days.Best I would do is at allow restaurant to keep the change if paying in cash next to the nearest $5 and that's only if had an exceptional time.

So when you are always given your regular favourite table with the best view or location in the place it doesn’t deserve some reciprocal generosity? Or when the waiter comes out with your favourite drink without asking?

Bit like a WL walking straight up with a welcoming DFK followed by a BBBJ the moment she enters the room.

In both occasions they know what you want and are happy to give it without hesitation.

Vincent888
07-10-2023, 06:02 AM
Of course $500 to help her with the rent.

Another $500 to another regular to help pay for her new glasses.

What do I get special in return?

Nothing. Call me a simp.

Do you give to charity also?

Perhaps buy the homeless meals?

I’m sure you expect nothing in return from them.

dotcumdotinyou
07-10-2023, 07:15 AM
Don't believe anything sibon says, he's a self confessed liar.

No I don't tip anywhere. In normal life here in Australia we have "the minimum wage" that's so everyone gets a fair wage for their effort, even the bludgers.

In punting life the girls are earning between 3 - 10 times per week more than I am...and its tax free!

11Bravo
07-10-2023, 11:31 AM
So when you are always given your regular favourite table with the best view or location in the place it doesn’t deserve some reciprocal generosity? Or when the waiter comes out with your favourite drink without asking?My reciprocal generosity is my repeat business. I call it the Cheers experience (American TV show). There are places where I walk in, sit down, make eye contact, and the server brings me my favorite drink. I don't have to say anything. Why wouldn't they if I'm a regular. Plenty of places to go for a drink at the same price, so I kind of expect to be acknowledged if I'm a regular. Tipping is not the norm here. Once, I even left the coins on the tray and the cashier remined me that they were there. I said to keep it, and she seemed very confused. $2+ certainly not really a "tip", just my ack, but misunderstood.

For me, at a shop, we've agreed on the price of the extras. Why would I pay extra - should I be expecting marginal service and be happy if it was exceptional? For marginal, it's a one-of. For exceptional, it's repeats, often weekly. It's why I repeat - I know what she provides, she knows what I like and delivers it. We don't have to start from zero.

The exception was when I departed. I would always have the exact amount for the extras, especially as I knew what they cost. I don't expect her to be a bank. But in this case, I paid $150, not $130. EVERY one asked if I wanted change - here, I told them to keep it as I wouldn't be seeing them for a long time. But for normal visits, no, it's not a slight, it's just business as usual.

YMMV

Vincent888
07-10-2023, 03:20 PM
Don't believe anything sibon says, he's a self confessed liar.

No I don't tip anywhere. In normal life here in Australia we have "the minimum wage" that's so everyone gets a fair wage for their effort, even the bludgers.

In punting life the girls are earning between 3 - 10 times per week more than I am...and its tax free!


Some people lie for a living. They may lie for positive reinforcement. Any number of reasons why. If it helps them get through the day so be it.

As regards a WL’s income. They deserve every penny and more considering what they sometimes have to go through.

All the punters see is a smiling face and the show goes on…

Vincent888
07-10-2023, 03:40 PM
My reciprocal generosity is my repeat business. I call it the Cheers experience (American TV show). There are places where I walk in, sit down, make eye contact, and the server brings me my favorite drink. I don't have to say anything. Why wouldn't they if I'm a regular. Plenty of places to go for a drink at the same price, so I kind of expect to be acknowledged if I'm a regular. Tipping is not the norm here. Once, I even left the coins on the tray and the cashier remined me that they were there. I said to keep it, and she seemed very confused. $2+ certainly not really a "tip", just my ack, but misunderstood.

For me, at a shop, we've agreed on the price of the extras. Why would I pay extra - should I be expecting marginal service and be happy if it was exceptional? For marginal, it's a one-of. For exceptional, it's repeats, often weekly. It's why I repeat - I know what she provides, she knows what I like and delivers it. We don't have to start from zero.

The exception was when I departed. I would always have the exact amount for the extras, especially as I knew what they cost. I don't expect her to be a bank. But in this case, I paid $150, not $130. EVERY one asked if I wanted change - here, I told them to keep it as I wouldn't be seeing them for a long time. But for normal visits, no, it's not a slight, it's just business as usual.

YMMV

YMMV is pretty apt. Why not keep the tank topped up and never run out of fuel?

11Bravo
07-10-2023, 07:50 PM
YMMV is pretty apt. Why not keep the tank topped up and never run out of fuel?

I can only be certain of how she is with ME. With YOU, I have no idea, but good luck.