W/L in public with her family

[Hidden Python]

A few few years back in North Parramatta there was an old sandstone house that was being used as a brothel by a few Asian milfs,
One of the ladies sort of became my regular, as she provided a very good service at a very decent rate, and she was very decent looking, only looked 35 which means she was 45 in reality,
Than one day after an hours punt with her, i went to do a little bit of shopping and have something to eat at Westfields Parramatta,
While i was enjoying my meal i looked up and there she was with her Aussie husband and her 2 teenage euro Asian kids,
We made eye contact and i just smiled and went back to eating my meal, no words where said, i think she was relieved I didn’t say anything especially in front of her kids,
But a million things where racing through my head, from everything does he know what she does for money while the kids are at school, do the kids know, what kind of scum bag is he for letting her do that type of work, what kind of person is she really like, etc, etc
but after reflecting all of the above and more, i realise not everyone was fortunate enough in life and sometimes they have no choice to do what they have to do to survive,
Has anyone else come across any similar situations and what are you thought about it.

[bung72]

A few few years back in North Parramatta there was an old sandstone house that was being used as a brothel by a few Asian milfs,
One of the ladies sort of became my regular, as she provided a very good service at a very decent rate, and she was very decent looking, only looked 35 which means she was 45 in reality,
Than one day after an hours punt with her, i went to do a little bit of shopping and have something to eat at Westfields Parramatta,
While i was enjoying my meal i looked up and there she was with her Aussie husband and her 2 teenage euro Asian kids,
We made eye contact and i just smiled and went back to eating my meal, no words where said, i think she was relieved I didn’t say anything especially in front of her kids,
But a million things where racing through my head, from everything does he know what she does for money while the kids are at school, do the kids know, what kind of scum bag is he for letting her do that type of work, what kind of person is she really like, etc, etc
but after reflecting all of the above and more, i realise not everyone was fortunate enough in life and sometimes they have no choice to do what they have to do to survive,
Has anyone else come across any similar situations and what are you thought about it.

This has never happened to me... in the same situation I would have done the same thing as you though. If they were on their own I might have said hello I suppose, depends on the 'feel' I got from the eye-contact....

[Rookiestones]

It's fascinating isn't it? After reading this, I'm not gonna look at the same type of family in an innocent light and will wonder about both Asian mother and white father. Anyways, I assume you didn't have another session with this WL after that brief encounter? Or did you?

[l337dude]

No one's truly innocent, we all have our dark secrets or past, even the ones who may appear to be "perfect" on the surface...

[Hidden Python]

It's fascinating isn't it? After reading this, I'm not gonna look at the same type of family in an innocent light and will wonder about both Asian mother and white father. Anyways, I assume you didn't have another session with this WL after that brief encounter? Or did you?

i pretty much decided to call it quits i think it would of be very uncomfortable for both of us,

[abovetherim]

They did whatever they had to provide for their family. They’re probably better off than many of us because of what they sacrificed. In the end how they did it doesn’t matter. Their family are safe, have a roof over their heads and provided for.

[Rookiestones]

i pretty much decided to call it quits i think it would of be very uncomfortable for both of us,
Fair enough... sometimes, ignorance is bliss. If I can circle back, how did you hook up with his WL in the first place? Did she put an ad online?

[Markin]

Agree with abovetherim.

At the end of the day it's a job. No need to judge her or judge her husband, we don't know their story.

[Sibon]

A few few years back in North Parramatta there was an old sandstone house that was being used as a brothel by a few Asian milfs,
One of the ladies sort of became my regular, as she provided a very good service at a very decent rate, and she was very decent looking, only looked 35 which means she was 45 in reality,
Than one day after an hours punt with her, i went to do a little bit of shopping and have something to eat at Westfields Parramatta,
While i was enjoying my meal i looked up and there she was with her Aussie husband and her 2 teenage euro Asian kids,
We made eye contact and i just smiled and went back to eating my meal, no words where said, i think she was relieved I didn’t say anything especially in front of her kids,
But a million things where racing through my head, from everything does he know what she does for money while the kids are at school, do the kids know, what kind of scum bag is he for letting her do that type of work, what kind of person is she really like, etc, etc
but after reflecting all of the above and more, i realise not everyone was fortunate enough in life and sometimes they have no choice to do what they have to do to survive,
Has anyone else come across any similar situations and what are you thought about it.

What do you expect? The WLs have a family just like any normal human beings.

We tend to meet them in public all the times with their friends, family, boyfriends etc.

[Hidden Python]

Fair enough... sometimes, ignorance is bliss. If I can circle back, how did you hook up with his WL in the first place? Did she put an ad online?

she actually advertised online in the advertising section of the local paper, like i said it was a few few years ago

[Hidden Python]

What do you expect? The WLs have a family just like any normal human beings.

We tend to meet them in public all the times with their friends, family, boyfriends etc.

for me it was a bit of a shock, as it was the first time i have ever encountered this kind of situation, if some other guy was fucking my misses i would of been totally upset, as loyalty and trust is more important than money

[GoldfishMan]

This has never happened to me... in the same situation I would have done the same thing as you though. If they were on their own I might have said hello I suppose, depends on the 'feel' I got from the eye-contact....

I wouldn't approach even if I got eye contact. Unless you're an expert reader of female body language, better err on the side of caution. I once bumped into an ex-MOC girl in Westfield CBD. Eye-contact was made and I thought she gave all the cues to approach. When I went up to talk to her, her expression totally changed to ice-queen mode, made it clear that my presence was not welcome.

On another occasion, Chinese girl Kitty ex-SS and DOS. I didn't even see her, she came right up and chatted with me. That was a bad situation... my wife also happened to walk past and saw her talking to me from about 10 metres away. Lucky for me I talk to girls all the time, so I was able to make up a story on the spot, told her she was a realtor I met before.

[ColesBag]

A good rule of thumb is that neither party should recognise each other outside of a punt. Keep it professional.

[Axeman123]

If it's ok to mention name's a few years back Saki (42g) was the lady whose services I was using. Because of my job there was always a chance of bumping into each other. We joked about it. She always said that if that happened she would completely ignore me. Yeah right, bullshit I thought. Well that day did come n too right she ignored me. Straight thru me she looked. Ok then I can take a hint. Only saw her one more time cause it just wasn't the same. It taught me that the fantasy is just that , keep it where it belongs.

[Daffy]

Had something similar to this happen when my daughter started playing with another little girl at a shopping centre playground. They both marched over to me to ask if they could have a play date at the other girls house. Then her Aunty came over and we both kind of froze a bit as we recognised each other.

We both kind of played off not having the time to the kids and I took my little one off to do the grocery shopping. Bumped into them 3 more times in Woolies.

[Radoush]

Awesome I once ran into two working girls I had a threesome with at a work function

[pornonporn]

I would have said fancy a quickie in the bathrooom

[frisson]

Nice story
Just a reminder to be respectful to WL and their privacy

What happens in a brothel stays in a brothel

[earl9122]

Very nice read. Basically, a lot of people have things they don't tell others about, which we often call "secrets." These secrets can be anything from small stuff to more serious stuff. Sometimes people keep secrets because they want to keep some things private, and that's okay. It's important to respect their privacy and not push them to share things they're not ready to talk about. Just remember, everyone's got their own reasons for keeping secrets, and it's important to be understanding and respectful about it.

[11Bravo]

Never seen one with family, but a number in civilian situations. Eye contact, then a very discreet head nod. They're smart, they do the same.

[Meng]

Yes. Believe it or not a WL or ML has a life outside of being a WL or a ML.

Do people think at the end of their shift, the girls dock into a charging station till the shop opens the next day?

[bung72]

The more WGs I see the more I realise they are just normal girls/women from out there.

[asiafever]

Yes. Believe it or not a WL or ML has a life outside of being a WL or a ML.

Do people think at the end of their shift, the girls dock into a charging station till the shop opens the next day?

Came here to say the same thing. They are human beings doing the best they can in their own situation, it's like people who see actors as the characters they portray, you often hear about people who play characters that people hate getting abuse yelled at them on the street etc, people are unable to dissociate the act from reality. Her job is an act, her family is her reality, to do anything in this situation other than put your head back down and let her go about her business would be an act of high cuntness.

Would it change how I viewed her as a customer? Maybe, but not in a bad way, probably more likely to empathise with her, but I've been with enough women over the years in this game to know that I've had many regulars who were mums even though they never openly told me. One gorgeous ml recently though was telling me about her kid, the school they go to and we chatted about schools in Sydney etc, and honestly I felt after we had spoken about kids her service opened up more.

[11Bravo]

Came here to say the same thing. They are human beings doing the best they can in their own situation, it's like people who see actors as the characters they portray, you often hear about people who play characters that people hate getting abuse yelled at them on the street etc, people are unable to dissociate the act from reality. Her job is an act, her family is her reality, to do anything in this situation other than put your head back down and let her go about her business would be an act of high cuntness.

Would it change how I viewed her as a customer? Maybe, but not in a bad way, probably more likely to empathise with her, but I've been with enough women over the years in this game to know that I've had many regulars who were mums even though they never openly told me. One gorgeous ml recently though was telling me about her kid, the school they go to and we chatted about schools in Sydney etc, and honestly I felt after we had spoken about kids her service opened up more.Without a doubt. There is another on-going thread about "talking while punting" with some seeming to abhor the fact. Myself, I do chat. One of my favs, a very popular lady in BKK, she shares phone photos of she and her son as I'm dressing. In DXB, where the norm was LT, literally all night at your place, found out any number of personal details. I was humbled by the lengths the PRC's would go to to support their family, parents, children, siblings. Never to elicit more money, just "this is my life". They're just humans doing the best they can. And why, unless specifically invited, would never intrude on their life outside of business.

[Meng]

We made eye contact and i just smiled and went back to eating my meal, no words where said, i think she was relieved I didn’t say anything especially in front of her kids.

Also this bit. Like I don't get why she'd be nervous of you saying something to her. It's literally a given.

I'm sure hidden python you would never do that ever.

Not speaking to a WL when she's with her family is like not speeding up and running over kids while they are crossing the road. Literally doesn't even need to be said.

[yaminkim]

Stay the fk away for all involved hey

[local]

WL's & ML's generally do have a life outside of their work and just as your life outside of punting is private they would expect theirs to be as well.

With my work over the year I have met many ML's & WL's as a side issue, and only once have I ever been approached outside by one, and that was related to my work, not theirs.

I have a friend who is an ML's who I have been seen in public with, so what ? I don't hide her, she's a friend who I can say I met via work (which is semi-true).

Respect folks, just remember respect.

[bung72]

Stay the fk away for all involved hey

Why? If you enjoyed seeing her, why would it matter about her family situation?
In any case - why the assumption it was her Hb and kids anyway - maybe she does some part-time nannying???

[asiafever]

Why? If you enjoyed seeing her, why would it matter about her family situation?
In any case - why the assumption it was her Hb and kids anyway - maybe she does some part-time nannying???

I could be totally wrong, but I assumed his comment meant to stay away at that exact moment, as in do not approach while she is with the presumed family. I agree staying away from her as a customer makes no sense, unless you are under some illusion that you have a shot with her, then yeah.

Sometimes it is very easy to tell couples, if the kids were wasian, the lady in question and man all walking together and she was looking at him the same way an old cat looks at a new puppy you brought home, with total and utter disdain, then guaranteed they are 15+ years married...

[bung72]

I could be totally wrong, but I assumed his comment meant to stay away at that exact moment, as in do not approach while she is with the presumed family.

OK - I didn't see it that way, of course you would stay away then.... who would possibly do otherwise??

[asiafever]

OK - I didn't see it that way, of course you would stay away then.... who would possibly do otherwise??

As ai said, I could be wrong and you could be dead on the money, in which case I too don't understand why it should make a difference.

Reasonable people would stay away, but by god there are some idiots out there. You would be amazed how many guys can't help themselves but make some remark, or smart arsed comment etc.

[bistro]

Im turning 50 soon, and i forget things these days, possibly alzheimer?

But i still go to brothel every now and then, when opportunities present itself.

Often, my eyes made contact with pretty girls, then she smiled and i smiled back. But my brain cant figured out who she is....?
Could it be the WL i fucked before? Could it be my wife's friends? Could it be my son's teachers? Could it be one of our family's regular massueses (legit one)? Could it be this or that?

A million questions came up, and i finally decide to say nothing.... probably this is the reason why old man become grumpy, because they rather avoid than get into troubles hahahahaha

[Shoryureppa]

You drop a pineapple & ask for CIM, c'mon bro!