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[asiafever]

Gentlemen, urgent help required.
In an hour I am headed off for a 3rd date. Now this woman is amazing. Gorgeous, intelligent, independent, great dress sense, single mum to multiple kids. She is perfect.
Now, what fragrance do I wear? Do I wear what I've worn the past 2 time (Kenzo) so she associates that fragrance with me, or do I switch it up to Sauvage, Issey Miyake, or Chanel Bleu? I feel Bleu is too young for her, she's not a 20-something girl, she'll have a more sophisticated sense of smell I think.

No time to lose here boys!

[ditchtheboss]

Keep it consistent, I’d say. Good luck and enjoy yourself

[Meng]

Gentlemen, urgent help required.
In an hour I am headed off for a 3rd date. Now this woman is amazing. Gorgeous, intelligent, independent, great dress sense, single mum to multiple kids. She is perfect.
Now, what fragrance do I wear? Do I wear what I've worn the past 2 time (Kenzo) so she associates that fragrance with me, or do I switch it up to Sauvage, Issey Miyake, or Chanel Bleu? I feel Bleu is too young for her, she's not a 20-something girl, she'll have a more sophisticated sense of smell I think.

No time to lose here boys!
Planning to make her a single mum to multiple kids +1?

[M0rfl1ng]

Are you trying to present a different vibe to the past dates? If not, go the same. I don't know what kenzo smells like - but if its top quality, just keep at it. She's obviously happy with the past dates

[ditchtheboss]

Planning to make her a single mum to multiple kids +1?

That’s already done mate, he is the extra kid. This applies to all of us, not just him

[asiafever]

Planning to make her a single mum to multiple kids +1?

Haha no mate, I have one, she has a lot more than that! We'd be some Brady Bunch shit already if this progresses further.

[asiafever]

Are you trying to present a different vibe to the past dates? If not, go the same. I don't know what kenzo smells like - but if its top quality, just keep at it. She's obviously happy with the past dates

It's an older fragrance, summery vibe, a waitress once enquired about it and my response after she also said she didn't know it was "It's an elegant fragrance, for a more civilised age."

[asiafever]

That’s already done mate, he is the extra kid. This applies to all of us, not just him

True, but I'm being very very careful here, because that's why the ex was jettisoned, she decided she was better off without him weighing her down.

[asiafever]

Ok, Kenzo it is. Thanks boys.

[Bigleaf]

Do have a wife already? If not just go with whatever you normally wear. Doesn't matter as long as it's not some cheap stinky trash

[Nelly69]

I personally would keep it consistent. Does this mean your punting days are over?

[Footballpunter]

good luck on your date!

[JSteel96]

Gentlemen, urgent help required.
In an hour I am headed off for a 3rd date. Now this woman is amazing. Gorgeous, intelligent, independent, great dress sense, single mum to multiple kids. She is perfect.
Now, what fragrance do I wear? Do I wear what I've worn the past 2 time (Kenzo) so she associates that fragrance with me, or do I switch it up to Sauvage, Issey Miyake, or Chanel Bleu? I feel Bleu is too young for her, she's not a 20-something girl, she'll have a more sophisticated sense of smell I think.

No time to lose here boys!

whist I wish you good luck make sure you wear a condom on every hook up with her. Especially if she says you don't need to. Cold truth if you get this lady pregnant and later she leaves you child support payments for the next 18 years will drain your funds. Like her fool around but do not get her pregno. Her ex is probably not the only man in her past and he'd be paying child support for which ever kids are his. Whilst she is lovely to you she maybe trying to land another kid or two with you. I say this with warning because I know guys who got caught out dating a lady with instant family and got the girl pregnant. Then their relationship soured he got dumped and hit with support payments.

[max_power]

She is perfect and only 2 dates prior…..wow

[GoldfishMan]

whist I wish you good luck make sure you wear a condom on every hook up with her. Especially if she says you don't need to. Cold truth if you get this lady pregnant and later she leaves you child support payments for the next 18 years will drain your funds. Like her fool around but do not get her pregno. Her ex is probably not the only man in her past and he'd be paying child support for which ever kids are his. Whilst she is lovely to you she maybe trying to land another kid or two with you. I say this with warning because I know guys who got caught out dating a lady with instant family and got the girl pregnant. Then their relationship soured he got dumped and hit with support payments.

You mean like a serial child support bludger, similar to serial centrelink child and family benefit bludgers?

[JSteel96]

You mean like a serial child support bludger, similar to serial centrelink child and family benefit bludgers?

yeh I actually know guys that got stung by women like this who sweet talk the guys marry divorce more than once then new guy comes in at half a dozen kids later and thinks hes on a sweet thing. I think the OP needs to tred carefully she may do a number on him. Can easily pump out more kids then OP has to pay child support for 18 years and mean while the lady in question goes cold on him. Its heartbreaking to the men and these women can be sweet as pie to their next candidate and do a number on them. I'm just putting this out there since OP said she has multiple kids already. Seriously date 3 how many men are different fathers to each of her kids? I'd run for the hills no matter how nice she seems to be she is good at acting.

[asiafever]

yeh I actually know guys that got stung by women like this who sweet talk the guys marry divorce more than once then new guy comes in at half a dozen kids later and thinks hes on a sweet thing. I think the OP needs to tred carefully she may do a number on him. Can easily pump out more kids then OP has to pay child support for 18 years and mean while the lady in question goes cold on him. Its heartbreaking to the men and these women can be sweet as pie to their next candidate and do a number on them. I'm just putting this out there since OP said she has multiple kids already. Seriously date 3 how many men are different fathers to each of her kids? I'd run for the hills no matter how nice she seems to be she is good at acting.

I get what you're saying, the answer is 1 dad for all kids, she is totally financially independent, as in her salary would be on par with mine, she got tired of him being an immature jackass who pissed money up against the wall and wasn't really involved with the kids. I know the type you mean and ai have dodged those bullets previously.

[asiafever]

She is perfect and only 2 dates prior…..wow

We worked together on a project, then kinda progressed from there. I should probably edit it to she seems perfect, we all know nobody is.

[ditchtheboss]

You mean like a serial child support bludger, similar to serial centrelink child and family benefit bludgers?

I am not qualified or experienced in this area but dare I say that it sounds counterproductive to have a child just to get a few hundred bucks every fortnight. A child is for life, another human being, surely there is a better way to make money without involving child birth

[allstarbro]

Guys you may only smell fragrance but I'm smelling asiafever leaving...

Good luck to you sir if you had found your SO and stop punting.

[asiafever]

Guys you may only smell fragrance but I'm smelling asiafever leaving...

Good luck to you sir if you had found your SO and stop punting.

Much, much water to pass under many bridges before we talk about that, but yeah, I am captivated at present it is fair to say.
If my track record is anything to go by, I will sabotage it somehow and fuck it all up, so let's not go writing my punting Obituary just yet!

[frisson]

Good luck mate

If it was me I would enjoy the fun but live under separate roof, never get married, and keep all finances separate

[ColesBag]

Not more than one spray of any fragrance & you'll be fine.

[GoldfishMan]

I am not qualified or experienced in this area but dare I say that it sounds counterproductive to have a child just to get a few hundred bucks every fortnight. A child is for life, another human being, surely there is a better way to make money without involving child birth

Yeah that's exactly what I was thinking. You just couldn't feel my expression of ridicule in that post.

[steelfreddy2]

Best of luck on your date mate!

[earl9122]

Gentlemen, urgent help required.
In an hour I am headed off for a 3rd date. Now this woman is amazing. Gorgeous, intelligent, independent, great dress sense, single mum to multiple kids. She is perfect.
Now, what fragrance do I wear? Do I wear what I've worn the past 2 time (Kenzo) so she associates that fragrance with me, or do I switch it up to Sauvage, Issey Miyake, or Chanel Bleu? I feel Bleu is too young for her, she's not a 20-something girl, she'll have a more sophisticated sense of smell I think.

No time to lose here boys!

The best advice would be: Just be your self and don't overthink. let it flow naturally

[GoldfishMan]

The best advice would be: Just be your self and don't overthink. let it flow naturally

Can't really apply this carefree attitude when there are kids involved, unfortunately.

In this case, with kids on both sides, you would absolutely need harmony all around.

[Sibon]

Gentlemen, urgent help required.
In an hour I am headed off for a 3rd date. Now this woman is amazing. Gorgeous, intelligent, independent, great dress sense, single mum to multiple kids. She is perfect.
Now, what fragrance do I wear? Do I wear what I've worn the past 2 time (Kenzo) so she associates that fragrance with me, or do I switch it up to Sauvage, Issey Miyake, or Chanel Bleu? I feel Bleu is too young for her, she's not a 20-something girl, she'll have a more sophisticated sense of smell I think.

No time to lose here boys!

Don't bathe for 3 days so that she could smell the real you.

[Johnisfun1969]

I was doing some research on what perfume to buy. I am also mindful and more aware of having a decent one when meeting girls. Couple of SB have commented that I smell nice. I make sure shower before the meet and use something.
The comments have been mostly on regular perfumes like Coach, Dior (Savauge), and Eros. But these are more common and the most used. Which also means the girl may have already smelled that many times.

Looked at few YouTube videos and one on my target list are:

Spicebomb (Born in Roma)
YSL (La Nuit De L’Homme)
Dolche and Gabbana (The One)
Jaun Paul Gautier (Le Male Elixir)
Aramaf Club de Nuit Intense

The last one is like $60 and the reviewer said it was in like with more expensive ($300) perfume.
One observation was all the recommendations for date night perfumes are EDP these are concentrated and last long. Also one needs to understand how strong each one is and use it accordingly specially using them during the day. One comment made by one reviewer was “I want to be discovered and not announced”. Finally there are recommendations for how to apply perfume, what part of the body, how long you should wait after shower etc. it’s worth viewing some of them.

[GoldfishMan]

My vote goes to Creed Aventus.

Expensive, but it absolutely cannot be beat. I've had more compliments from girls in all settings wearing it (at the office, punting, even from hot Thai girls working the gaming rooms), than any other scent I've worn. Some of the girls that really appreciate scents even keep sniffing my neck saying how much they love the smell.

Next one down the list is Creed Green Irish Tweed. I personally love it, loaded with ambergris, a lot more musky than Aventus, but somehow hasn't had the same effect on women as Aventus.

Then it's Bleu de Chanel EDP. Not bad, had quite a few compliments with it. Gotta go for the EDP though, the EDT actually smells different and is piss weak.

On a budget, you can't go past Paco Rabanne scents. Love all of them. XS, Million, Invictus, all good scents, but they don't last very long. Even the bottles don't last very long, piss poor quality seals. I reckon you'd lose half a bottle from evaporation alone.

[Double_Adapter]

Skin type eg dry, oily, sensitive. scaly etc plays a major role in how a fragrance sits with you.
There's an Indian guy at work and no matter what fragrance you throw at him, he still has that strong aroma of cummin and curry.

[asiafever]

My vote goes to Creed Aventus.

Expensive, but it absolutely cannot be beat. I've had more compliments from girls in all settings wearing it (at the office, punting, even from hot Thai girls working the gaming rooms), than any other scent I've worn. Some of the girls that really appreciate scents even keep sniffing my neck saying how much they love the smell.

Next one down the list is Creed Green Irish Tweed. I personally love it, loaded with ambergris, a lot more musky than Aventus, but somehow hasn't had the same effect on women as Aventus.

Then it's Bleu de Chanel EDP. Not bad, had quite a few compliments with it. Gotta go for the EDP though, the EDT actually smells different and is piss weak.

On a budget, you can't go past Paco Rabanne scents. Love all of them. XS, Million, Invictus, all good scents, but they don't last very long. Even the bottles don't last very long, piss poor quality seals. I reckon you'd lose half a bottle from evaporation alone.

One of the reasons I love the Kenzo is it is rare, and has a really unique blend of marine, mahogany and floral notes. It's an awesome fragrance for warmer weather (imagine a day on the beach, head back to the hotel for a shower, change in to some light linen pants and a shirt and heading to the bar by the beach, this fragrance is absolutely perfect for that) and because of those different layers it elicits more comments from women with their delicate sense of smell. An old fave was Lagerfeld Photo, on a warm summer night the amount of women who would stop to comment on it was extraordinary. One friend used to sniff me like I was a line of coke. Such a shame they discontinued it.

Of the creeds the only one that caught my nose was Aventus, the others didn't appeal a great deal, especially not at the prices they're charging.

I went with the Kenzo, the advice to keep it consistent was wise, when so many wear the others sure it might mean that when she smells it somewhere else she thinks of me, but it also makes me seem like someone who follows the pack going with the popular choices, which is very much not my go. I haven't smelled anyone else wearing Kenzo in many a year, so it's "my" fragrance.

[asiafever]

Skin type eg dry, oily, sensitive. scaly etc plays a major role in how a fragrance sits with you.
There's an Indian guy at work and no matter what fragrance you throw at him, he still has that strong aroma of cummin and curry.

The one that kills me is the guys who think 27 sprays is the magic number. There's a guy who lives near me, I'll be walking the wolves and he will drive by and you can actually smell his fragrance pouring out of the car long after the tail lights have disappeared into the distance, must be utterly toxic if you're stuck inside the car with him. Sometimes less is more.

[GoldfishMan]

Skin type eg dry, oily, sensitive. scaly etc plays a major role in how a fragrance sits with you.
There's an Indian guy at work and no matter what fragrance you throw at him, he still has that strong aroma of cummin and curry.

Oh yeah, I know those types. Even worse if they're fat and naturally sweaty. They also have a tendency to do a lot of cooking in the mornings before coming to work, seemingly in very poorly ventilated conditions, so they smell of spices AND ghee.
There was an Indian guy like this at work. The worst thing was he "paired" his smell with Sauvage. I swear, any sweaty guy must stay the fuck away from Sauvage. That scent does not go well with sweat. This indian fella had sweat, spice, ghee, and Sauvage all together to create the most Unholy scent ever. I literally couldn't breath sitting next to him!

[Daffy]

I’ve tried a few like Hugo Boss and such but the most compliments I’ve ever gotten about how I smell is just using the black Rexona original spray after a hot shower.

Also worth watching what you eat as that has a massive effect on your natural scent

[Double_Adapter]

Oh yeah, I know those types. Even worse if they're fat and naturally sweaty. They also have a tendency to do a lot of cooking in the mornings before coming to work, seemingly in very poorly ventilated conditions, so they smell of spices AND ghee.
There was an Indian guy like this at work. The worst thing was he "paired" his smell with Sauvage. I swear, any sweaty guy must stay the fuck away from Sauvage. That scent does not go well with sweat. This indian fella had sweat, spice, ghee, and Sauvage all together to create the most Unholy scent ever. I literally couldn't breath sitting next to him!

That bloke should bottle that scent and call it 'Indian Savaage'
Some chicks are turned on by that raw animalistic sweaty (cab driver) scent.

[GoldfishMan]

That bloke should bottle that scent and call it 'Indian Savaage'
Some chicks are turned on by that raw animalistic sweaty (cab driver) scent.

Haha it would be the most expensive scent ever. Imagine the process needed to create such a thing!

[ColesBag]

That bloke should bottle that scent and call it 'Indian Savaage'
Some chicks are turned on by that raw animalistic sweaty (cab driver) scent.

2 billion Indians would be all over that. Sounds like a money maker.

[Radoush]

Hands down Sex Panther