Addicted to WL

[Sexybee]

I am always looking for WLs every week, I would try twice or three times every week if I was enough younger. I tried to give up looking WL every week instead of one month, but I can’t stop looking. I was told I should spend more time on exercise, the problem is that the more exercise I do the more energy I have. Do you have any advice on reducing time of looking?

[punter-pie]

I am always looking for WLs every week, I would try twice or three times every week if I was enough younger. I tried to give up looking WL every week instead of one month, but I can’t stop looking. I was told I should spend more time on exercise, the problem is that the more exercise I do the more energy I have. Do you have any advice on reducing time of looking?What's the problem exactly? Assuming you have sufficient funds.

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[Sexybee]

What's the problem exactly? Assuming you have sufficient funds.

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I have to spend two hours on travelling to reliable shops near the city or in the city or shops having the girls I like because I am working and living on the western Sydney

[Sibon]

I have to spend two hours on travelling to reliable shops near the city or in the city or shops having the girls I like because I am working and living on the western Sydney

Have you thought of getting your own helicopter to cut down travelling time?

[personaa]

Do you find most of these girls worth your effort? If yes then I can't suggest anything but once you travel to city and check the line up and don't find anyone worth your time and money then you will slowdown. Setting clear standards on what you are after in terms of girls physique, beauty and x-factor can be helpful. At least it has worked for me.

[11Bravo]

As soon as you get home from work, put on a sleeping mask. Or move to another city in South Australia or Western Australia where prostitution is illegal. Or grow up and learn some self control. Geesh.

[Timeis629]

Where are you travelling from what area? I think there are plenty of reliable shops over a wide area?

[Footballpunter]

what about actually getting into a real relationship? maybe you are just looking for someone to connect with, both physically and mentally.

[Sexybee]

Have you thought of getting your own helicopter to cut down travelling time?
Please don’t say anything if you’re not nice

[thomassalvado2]

Couldn’t believe visiting 2-3 times every week.
Big 🩲 spender
Good on op

[asiafever]

Plenty of decent girls and shops west of Homebush, so that could save you some time.
Otherwise you need to decide what you're seeking from these sessions. Just a release? Intimacy?
Exercise is good, yeah you'll have more energy but less time to waste. Maybe you need a distraction.

[rooter]

I don't understand what the problem is bro.
You are punting, you are exercising, that sounds pretty good to me.
Keep doing what you are doing.
If you are depressed or having other mental health issues then get some help and make some changes in your life.
But if you are feeling OK, then don't worry, and keep doing what you are doing.
Enjoy!

[dvu420]

I've cut down from 2-3 times a week to 2-3 times a month over the past year. Punting is really addictive. Just make sure you do what's right for you.

[Sibon]

Couldn’t believe visiting 2-3 times every week.
Big �� spender
Good on op

That's why he had to sell his helicopter. :)

[Vincent888]

No doubt most of us have had their fair share of relationships? Is it insecurity on a man’s behalf to need a relationship?

I’ve come to the conclusion you only need a mistress and a house keeper.

(By mistress I mean a casual sex partner).

Anyone care to disagree?

[JSteel96]

I am always looking for WLs every week, I would try twice or three times every week if I was enough younger. I tried to give up looking WL every week instead of one month, but I can’t stop looking. I was told I should spend more time on exercise, the problem is that the more exercise I do the more energy I have. Do you have any advice on reducing time of looking?

Start seeing a regular girl in private so you can save time looking for someone new each time. Go private with one your happy with make her your sugar babe and see her three times a week. That should save your time you can obviously afford a regular. Your addicted you need to satisfy that craving like the rest of us. Trying to slow down is useless. You just end up wanting more pussy. Get a regular SB.

[JSteel96]

what about actually getting into a real relationship? maybe you are just looking for someone to connect with, both physically and mentally.

Op just needs a regular sugar baby to satisfy his urges.

[Sexybee]

Start seeing a regular girl in private so you can save time looking for someone new each time. Go private with one you’re happy with make her your sugar babe and see her three times a week. That should save your time you can obviously afford a regular. You’re addicted you need to satisfy that craving like the rest of us. Trying to slow down is useless. You just end up wanting more pussy. Get a regular SB.
Thanks for your sharing

[Sexybee]

No doubt most of us have had their fair share of relationships? Is it insecurity on a man’s behalf to need a relationship?

I’ve come to the conclusion you only need a mistress and a house keeper.

(By mistress I mean a casual sex partner).

Anyone care to disagree?
Haha good ideas

[CanadaPooner]

Sounds like a sugar baby with a monthly deal is the way to go~

[Footballpunter]

Op just needs a regular sugar baby to satisfy his urges.

haha, just like you, bro! lol

[Footballpunter]

No doubt most of us have had their fair share of relationships? Is it insecurity on a man’s behalf to need a relationship?

I’ve come to the conclusion you only need a mistress and a house keeper.

(By mistress I mean a casual sex partner).

Anyone care to disagree?

lol, I don't think someone wanting a relationship is a sign of insecurity. We are all wired differently, and some people just want the stability of being in a well rounded relationship. That might not be something for us, but it's all good.

Some might argue that paying for sex every week is also "insecurity." Well, I also disagree, because some people just need more causal sex and going to the shop is easy. So you really have to look at everything from different angles.

cheers

[Vincent888]

lol, I don't think someone wanting a relationship is a sign of insecurity. We are all wired differently, and some people just want the stability of being in a well rounded relationship. That might not be something for us, but it's all good.

Some might argue that paying for sex every week is also "insecurity." Well, I also disagree, because some people just need more causal sex and going to the shop is easy. So you really have to look at everything from different angles.

cheers

I always thought women wanted relationships and men wanted sex partners? After all, isn’t the initial attraction followed by sex “the glue” that men chase? Sex is what binds. No sex No relationship.

Would anyone start up a relationship for stability and well roundedness if you knew sex wasn’t on the table?

Regarding paid sex. It’s often said “it’s the oldest profession”. That being the case, are the millions of men that have paid for sex over the centuries insecure?

[asiafever]

I have a long running theory, marriage shoukd be a 10 year contract with 5 year renewals, each renewal requires a review with a relationship counsellor to check how it's going, and if either party has gripes they should be aired and written into the new contract.
Look wanting a relationship is not necessarily insecurity at all, neither is wanting sex, it's the how's and whys of it. For example, the guys who are constantly banging on about it "yeah fuck bitches bro, pussy for life brooooo, relationships are for simps brooooooo" are 99% of the time far more insecure than a guy wanting a partner to share interests with someone and grow old together imo.

Take my father for example. He has a life partner of 30 years, he was married for 25 years prior. His life partner and he have zero intimacy, that's not what it's about (though there probably was at the beginning), it's just that they have so many common interests, enjoy each other's company, live together for a large portion of the year, travel together, but also travel separately and have independent interests as well. I don't ask my dad what he's done for sexual gratification, none of my business, but I have some assumptions based on the fact when we used to go out for dinner he seemed to know a rather disproportionately large number of attractive blondes a couple of decades his junior, good on him too, his partner goes and stays with her ex-husband and my Dad could not give a fuck about it. So to summarise, relationship, no sex, zero fucks given between them about who sees people on the side, happy together but happy apart as well, sounds like an absolute win to me and I see no insecurity on either side in this.

The only problem with this as a model for how we should all be living going forward is that the birthrate will plummet leading to socio-economic disaster. But still I'll be dead by then so not my problem...

[JSteel96]

Better theory marry an Asian nympho maniac you won't be able to keep up with all the sex, and if that's not enough have a regular sugar babe on the side. I think its bad when sex goes stale in a marriage but if the women doesn't want to do it and the guy does. The guy has to take matters into his own hands and fuck other women without it affecting the marriage.

[personaa]

I don't think 'insecurity' is the correct term to tag people seeking relationships. It's a natural human desire to be connected to others and of course being included in a community. There used to peer pressure as well, in earlier days. People were expected to get married to someone from the 'opposite sex' that's the reason -with relative acceptance of homosexuality- now you see people who are in their 50s or 60s suddenly leave their partners and begin with their journey in their preferred and oppressed sexual identity. So, it's not insecurity, it's more like a need to have a companion and I believe most marriages (after a point) become closer to real friendships. Having said that, living a solo life is not easy. It's not for the light-hearted and it needs so much courage and independence. He/She/they need a completely different perspective on how to live happily on their own.

[ColesBag]

what about actually getting into a real relationship? maybe you are just looking for someone to connect with, both physically and mentally.

This is a punting forum, why should he ?

[Vincent888]

I don't think 'insecurity' is the correct term to tag people seeking relationships. It's a natural human desire to be connected to others and of course being included in a community. There used to peer pressure as well, in earlier days. People were expected to get married to someone from the 'opposite sex' that's the reason -with relative acceptance of homosexuality- now you see people who are in their 50s or 60s suddenly leave their partners and begin with their journey in their preferred and oppressed sexual identity. So, it's not insecurity, it's more like a need to have a companion and I believe most marriages (after a point) become closer to real friendships. Having said that, living a solo life is not easy. It's not for the light-hearted and it needs so much courage and independence. He/She/they need a completely different perspective on how to live happily on their own.

Connection, community and companion.

One can still have all of the above without being in a relationship.