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Abracadabra
20-10-2023, 04:37 PM
After punting for 30 odd yrs I was concerned lately I've become a bit blase covering my tracks.
I have some usual excuses for punting which my partner could break down if she tried and then I have some Plan Bs to cover if she did make some calls, enquiries etc.
I (foolishly according to fredflinstone) keep some basic records but they are on a protected flash drive ....ohhh, the things we do.
However, my phone is a dead give away...its password protected, but if my partner asked me to hand over my unlocked phone for 15 mins in a "trust session ..I'd be dead in the water fuckdd!!
Are my fellow punters with partners similarly blase or are you water tight??
punter-pie
20-10-2023, 04:40 PM
After punting for 30 odd yrs I was concerned lately I've become a bit blase covering my tracks.
I have some usual excuses for punting which my partner could break down if she tried and then I have some Plan Bs to cover if she did make some calls, enquiries etc.
I (foolishly according to fredflinstone) keep some basic records but they are on a protected flash drive ....ohhh, the things we do.
However, my phone is a dead give away...its password protected, but if my partner asked me to hand over my unlocked phone for 15 mins in a "trust session ..I'd be dead in the water fuckdd!!
Are my fellow punters with partners similarly blase or are you water tight??Water tight. The day will come when she gets your phone.
I keep no records and a hidden app.
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Abracadabra
20-10-2023, 05:24 PM
Water tight. The day will come when she gets your phone.
I keep no records and a hidden app.
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Yeah, think I might have got lax!
punter-pie
20-10-2023, 05:25 PM
Yeah, think I might have got lax!Reset my friend, clean your room up. Too much at stake. Many apps to make our hobby invisible on your phone.
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Somebeardyfella
20-10-2023, 05:40 PM
Everything is done (including this forum) incognito in my browser, any phone call logs or text messages deleted as soon as sent. I'm lucky I work mobile so I can punt when I have some spare time in the workday otherwise it'd be a lot harder. Probably the hardest thing for me to explain would be if she checked my bank account and asked why I've withdrawn $100 on such a day, I need to start withdrawing a bit of cash every time I hit woolies
Vincent888
20-10-2023, 05:57 PM
Yeah, think I might have got lax!
Perhaps you like living on the edge?
Abracadabra
20-10-2023, 06:31 PM
Perhaps you like living on the edge?
Maybe but doubt it.
I think I have gotten away with it for so long I discount the nous of my partner.
Arrogant....
JSteel96
20-10-2023, 09:15 PM
I've managed to get away with it for 20 odd years with my current partner. Perhaps she knows I am up to something but does not care about it. I have my doubts though that she knows anything at all. I'm as careful as can be no strange phone calls, delete any text traces. Payments covered through my business activity.
Footballpunter
21-10-2023, 04:46 AM
don't commit the crime unless it's perfect. i suggest the next time you retire a phone, make it your punting burner phone. you dont need it all the time and just use it when you go punting. I also agree that keeping records is foolish, especially when its been 30 yrs for you. You probably have experience everything and anything in these 30 yrs, so I don't see a point to keep "trophies."
Vincent888
21-10-2023, 07:22 AM
Keep nothing except the next pineapple 🍍
Abracadabra
21-10-2023, 09:09 AM
don't commit the crime unless it's perfect. i suggest the next time you retire a phone, make it your punting burner phone. you dont need it all the time and just use it when you go punting. I also agree that keeping records is foolish, especially when its been 30 yrs for you. You probably have experience everything and anything in these 30 yrs, so I don't see a point to keep "trophies."
That's a good idea, but wouldn't you need a separate SIM / # or do you move the one SIM between the 2 phones as needed?
Yep, agree the records are plain foolish and comes from a numeric analytical brain rather than trophies...
Vincent888
21-10-2023, 10:16 AM
Yep, agree the records are plain foolish and comes from a numeric analytical brain rather than trophies...
Predictability can also be a downfall.
Footballpunter
21-10-2023, 10:19 AM
That's a good idea, but wouldn't you need a separate SIM / # or do you move the one SIM between the 2 phones as needed?
Yep, agree the records are plain foolish and comes from a numeric analytical brain rather than trophies...
you can turn on hotspot from your main phone so your burner would have internet when you are out.
local
21-10-2023, 10:57 AM
After punting for 30 odd yrs I was concerned lately I've become a bit blase covering my tracks.
I have some usual excuses for punting which my partner could break down if she tried and then I have some Plan Bs to cover if she did make some calls, enquiries etc.
I (foolishly according to fredflinstone) keep some basic records but they are on a protected flash drive ....ohhh, the things we do.
However, my phone is a dead give away...its password protected, but if my partner asked me to hand over my unlocked phone for 15 mins in a "trust session ..I'd be dead in the water fuckdd!!
Are my fellow punters with partners similarly blase or are you water tight??
Recently had to deal with the death of a relatively close friend.
He had also nominated me yo be the executor of his estate.
First thing I did was grab his phones, all of them, plus his usual work computers etc...
I also was in possession of his passwords and a cheat sheet.
following his instructions I wipe all but his daily normal phone, but removed/wiped wechat from it.
the others were factory reset and one was booted. In this case is went under my boot and was smashed to pieces then fed thru a shreeder.
I then proceeded to remove 2 computers which had been setup for remote access and shed those as well.
2 extra google accounts were separated from his and then redone, killing as much history as possible.
2 extra sims accounts were destroyed and wiped.
It was all preplanned, just in case.
Abracadabra
21-10-2023, 02:17 PM
Recently had to deal with the death of a relatively close friend.
He had also nominated me yo be the executor of his estate.
First thing I did was grab his phones, all of them, plus his usual work computers etc...
I also was in possession of his passwords and a cheat sheet.
following his instructions I wipe all but his daily normal phone, but removed/wiped wechat from it.
the others were factory reset and one was booted. In this case is went under my boot and was smashed to pieces then fed thru a shreeder.
I then proceeded to remove 2 computers which had been setup for remote access and shed those as well.
2 extra google accounts were separated from his and then redone, killing as much history as possible.
2 extra sims accounts were destroyed and wiped.
It was all preplanned, just in case.
Wow, that is taking executor duties to the next level! Lucky you were able to gather in all the devices and avoid the suspicion of family etc.
Vincent888
21-10-2023, 03:27 PM
Serious men’s business, ha.
We’ll it’s better than the executor reading out all his past indiscretions as per last will and testament.
madness123
21-10-2023, 04:02 PM
Maybe but doubt it.
I think I have gotten away with it for so long I discount the nous of my partner.
Arrogant....
Thats how it happens, along with being forgetful and leaving something to be discovered. Early on we are like James Bond, then later we skate. A good scare usually sorts us out .
Hidden Python
21-10-2023, 04:04 PM
I use to work shift work and my late wife worked M-F 9-5, so I would have plenty of time to punt while she was not home, so it never interfered with the time we got to spent together, so she wasn’t aware of what was going on,
After a punt I would come home shower and wash the clothes I wore so nothing smelt like sex at all, than I would clear my phone history,
If the wife asked what I did on the day I just tell her I stayed home and play PlayStation or went and did the groceries
Vincent888
21-10-2023, 04:12 PM
I use to work shift work and my late wife worked M-F 9-5, so I would have plenty of time to punt while she was not home, so it never interfered with the time we got to spent together, so she wasn’t aware of what was going on,
After a punt I would come home shower and wash the clothes I wore so nothing smelt like sex at all, than I would clear my phone history,
If the wife asked what I did on the day I just tell her I stayed home and play PlayStation or went and did the groceries
Due the fact I had numerous girlfriends running at the same time a common ploy to get rid of one and get fresh stock was to deliberately leave an earring next to the bedside table on the floor.
An obvious bust they thought.
End of relationship, easy.
It works both ways.
Carby
21-10-2023, 08:18 PM
Recently had to deal with the death of a relatively close friend.
He had also nominated me yo be the executor of his estate.
First thing I did was grab his phones, all of them, plus his usual work computers etc...
I also was in possession of his passwords and a cheat sheet.
following his instructions I wipe all but his daily normal phone, but removed/wiped wechat from it.
the others were factory reset and one was booted. In this case is went under my boot and was smashed to pieces then fed thru a shreeder.
I then proceeded to remove 2 computers which had been setup for remote access and shed those as well.
2 extra google accounts were separated from his and then redone, killing as much history as possible.
2 extra sims accounts were destroyed and wiped.
It was all preplanned, just in case.
We salute you for your services. We all need friends like this o7
faruk
21-10-2023, 08:26 PM
Water tight. The day will come when she gets your phone.
I keep no records and a hidden app.
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What hidden app?
The main thing is to keep your main phone clean, because one day she will spring it on you to have access to your phone for whatever reason. However, having two phones would also raise questions (she will see the second phone eventually).
I don't believe there is a 100% water tight method. Some traces will always be left, it's just a matter of whether your partner will be curious or motivated enough to look.
cplurt2
22-10-2023, 06:02 PM
I say things a bit half hearted but I think she knows. I got her used to me carrying 300 on me most times. One time my son asked me why I always had money on me and in front of everyone I said ale and hookers. Every lie has an element of the truth. Since I don't drink they probably presumed I didn't do hookers, although back then that was the amp scene in the US
Double_Adapter
22-10-2023, 07:09 PM
What hidden app?
The main thing is to keep your main phone clean, because one day she will spring it on you to have access to your phone for whatever reason. However, having two phones would also raise questions (she will see the second phone eventually).
I don't believe there is a 100% water tight method. Some traces will always be left, it's just a matter of whether your partner will be curious or motivated enough to look.
Buy a cheap multimeter, small set of screw drivers, small pliers, electrical tape, some 1mm gauge wire, a bunch of old non-working phones and leave all the shit lying around - it will throw her off the scent
Vincent888
22-10-2023, 08:13 PM
Buy a cheap multimeter, small set of screw drivers, small pliers, electrical tape, some 1mm gauge wire, a bunch of old non-working phones and leave all the shit lying around - it will throw her off the scent
Bakelite phones eh?
Sibon
22-10-2023, 08:30 PM
After punting for 30 odd yrs I was concerned lately I've become a bit blase covering my tracks.
I have some usual excuses for punting which my partner could break down if she tried and then I have some Plan Bs to cover if she did make some calls, enquiries etc.
I (foolishly according to fredflinstone) keep some basic records but they are on a protected flash drive ....ohhh, the things we do.
However, my phone is a dead give away...its password protected, but if my partner asked me to hand over my unlocked phone for 15 mins in a "trust session ..I'd be dead in the water fuckdd!!
Are my fellow punters with partners similarly blase or are you water tight??
I refuse to have a smart phone. Always use public phone booth to book. But Always visit the same ML same day and same time. She knows it. Mamasan knows it.
I always catch train, bus and a walk to reach a massage parlour just in case a private detective is following me.
Sometimes wear a moustache or fake hair and sunglasses and a hat.
ColesBag
22-10-2023, 09:06 PM
but if my partner asked me to hand over my unlocked phone for 15 mins in a "trust session ..I'd be dead in the water fuckdd!!
If that ever happens then she already knows.
Your sloppiness tells me that you want to get caught, your 'confession' here seems to be guilt ridden.
Abracadabra
22-10-2023, 09:19 PM
If that ever happens then she already knows.
Your sloppiness tells me that you want to get caught, your 'confession' here seems to be guilt ridden.
Nah, on the contrary in fact, in relation to getting caught, as the consequences wouldn't be nice.
Read into it what you may, but in fact, its just an observation on human behaviour that I witnessed a lot in corporate life .....the classic condition of "absolute power, complete corruption" prompting often unbelievable blase attitudes and actions.
I don't have absolute power, but I have developed a blase attitude when it comes to punting security!
jedibear
23-10-2023, 05:43 AM
I always keep a burner phone for punting. You just never know...
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faruk
23-10-2023, 06:53 AM
Buy a cheap multimeter, small set of screw drivers, small pliers, electrical tape, some 1mm gauge wire, a bunch of old non-working phones and leave all the shit lying around - it will throw her off the scent
Yes, until one day she throws it all out because she thinks it's rubbish.
Vincent888
23-10-2023, 07:38 AM
Is there a secret punters handshake?
It could come in handy…
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