Would you still punt if you missus is 9/10 looks wise??

[Kiki kong]

As the title suggests, would you?
Or put the effort in with your GF or wifey and get free sex?

I'm curious to know if I'm just messed up. Still punting knowing my partner then was a hottie already. I mean the guys were always checking her out everywhere we went.

[Kiki kong]

Maybe it's in our DNA to continue to hunt and dominate. So once we conquer we continue to find fresh new meat.

[frisson]

I can imagine many men are married to very attractive women who lose their sex drive, or the two just tire of each other

[JohnJones]

As the title suggests, would you?
Or put the effort in with your GF or wifey and get free sex?

I'm curious to know if I'm just messed up. Still punting knowing my partner then was a hottie already. I mean the guys were always checking her out everywhere we went.

I was trying to accept my less attractive ex-wife back when we were married and she let herself loose on the excess eating.

If I were to marry my crush who isn't just hot & sexy but also excellent in bed, I don't mind if she gets mad and doesn't let me sleep in the same bed for a few nights. I'd make up to her and hopefully the makeup sex becomes so passionate we'd have to buy a new bed the next day.

[Hidden Python]

Your misses can be a 10/10, but if she has the personality of a cold fish, of course you are going to go somewhere else where you can get some warmth,
That’s why a lot of married punters seek out a good regular, who gives the full passionate GF experience and not the wife who has a headache routine

[Ghost2hauntU]

It would depend on the chemistry. Which has little to do with looks for me.

[Vincent888]

Looks aren’t everything, they’re important but the connection is everything. No connection and people will stray.

[l337dude]

No, I'm not an idiot, if I have a hot wife at home who's very attractive at 9/10 I know I hit the jackpot, I'm not going to fork out extra money and pay for someone who's less attractive, at the risk of her finding out and losing everything. If I have a hot and attractive wife at home I wouldn't let her off the hook, instead I'll fuck her hard every night and make her cum...for free.

If you felt that you've lost the connection or whatever that's your issue to work out, if you feel that you can get better sex by fucking a stranger with a condom on then by all means go for it, everyone's wired differently. The "hunt and dominate" thing you talked about is the MAOA DNA, aka the warrior gene, there other DNA that's associated with cheating and finding new meat and that's a little different.

Now if my wife's not attractive....that would be a different story :P

[Double_Adapter]

There's lots of guys with trophies that just sit on a mantle piece gathering dust. I motivate myself by winning lots of trophies. Trophies can be held, admired, and looked at, and the effort and work it took to get that trophy is but a distant memory. Then you reach a point in life and you ask yourself, what now?

Connection and love is the trophy.

[Vincent888]

Connection and love.

Is something we all chase.

[Abracadabra]

Mine is and yet, I do!
It happens.....

[JSteel96]

As the title suggests, would you?
Or put the effort in with your GF or wifey and get free sex?

I'm curious to know if I'm just messed up. Still punting knowing my partner then was a hottie already. I mean the guys were always checking her out everywhere we went.

Yes my missus is hot Asian lady but you get a different experience punting or having another Asian regular girl like I do. Just need to be smart and never get caught with your pants down. Its just amazing to be able to still go with other Asian wls its a great experience and an addiction. Does not matter how hot your missus is your still going to do her a couple of times a week and go for the extra ladies what ever you can get. Just be sure your wife never knows anything is going on it just takes one slip up like lipstick on your cock on your part and your busted, down and out.

[Daffy]

The only time I ever punt when I have a girlfriend is if she joins in. Or if we have decided to have an open relationship. If you’ve made a commitment to someone and your fucking around then it just shows what type of person you are.

For me my word actually means something and that is more important to me than a cheap thrill.

[asiafever]

I can imagine many men are married to very attractive women who lose their sex drive, or the two just tire of each other

There's an old saying, "No matter how beautiful a girl is, somewhere there is a guy who is tired of putting up with her shit."

And that goes both ways.

To answer OP, looks aren't everything and she may be gorgeous but has zero sex drive, or the couple are just together in name only, the spark gone from the relationship, or like happens a lot (particularly with some Asian women I keep hearing) once the kid rearing days are done, sex is taken off thw table completely by the wife. I even had a Japanese friend who had a kind of unspoken agreement, he and the wife hadn't had sex for 10+ years, he didn't ask what she did with the money as long as bills were paid and house was in good order etc, and she didn't ask what he did with his spending money, which usually included trips to hostess bars and then on to Koganecho in Yokohama when that was a red light district.
Everyone's circumstances are different. But if I was with a 9/10 and we had a healthy sexual relationship then nope, I wouldn't be punting.

[Vincent888]

The only time I ever punt when I have a girlfriend is if she joins in. Or if we have decided to have an open relationship. If you’ve made a commitment to someone and your fucking around then it just shows what type of person you are.

For me my word actually means something and that is more important to me than a cheap thrill.



If for whatever reason the partner you are with ceases to have sex with you what then? Do you stay with them and go without?

When you say your word, do you mean marriage vows?

I don’t recall any de facto relationship I’ve been in where vows are stated. You just move in together. No one has ever said “agree to be loyal” in my relationships.

Perhaps if they requested it I would.

[Daffy]

If for whatever reason the partner you are with ceases to have sex with you what then? Do you stay with them and go without? You have a discussion with them about it. If your relationship has moved to just being a friendship then just be honest about it and move on.


When you say your word, do you mean marriage vows? I mean just in general here. I try to live by “say what you mean and mean what you say”. I just don’t have time for bullshit


I don’t recall any de facto relationship I’ve been in where vows are stated. You just move in together. No one has ever said “agree to be loyal” in my relationships.

Perhaps if they requested it I would.

This is just sophistry at its best. If they don’t specifically request you not to fuck anything that moves you can?! Loyalty in a relationship is implied unless you very clearly agree otherwise.

[JohnJones]

If your partner ceases to have sex with you, maybe it's because of physical or mental health issues. Normal woman don't just simply lose their sex drive unless the male partner has lost interest in her and stopped sleeping with her for a very long time.

Women are normally shy so even if they see a hot male they're unlikely to be upfront and say she wants his dick, therefore it is unlikely for women to start the affair.

Most women want sex, but they have their own prerequisites. They want to see men persuade them hard enough. That's the connection women want to make sex worthwhile, hence the reason why most women would rather have one partner her whole life.

[Vincent888]

You have a discussion with them about it. If your relationship has moved to just being a friendship then just be honest about it and move on.

I mean just in general here. I try to live by “say what you mean and mean what you say”. I just don’t have time for bullshit



This is just sophistry at its best. If they don’t specifically request you not to fuck anything that moves you can?! Loyalty in a relationship is implied unless you very clearly agree otherwise.

Remind me to never date you…

[jedibear]

Remind me to never date you…I think men by our very nature are wired to spread our seed far and wide...

I have never ever successfully stayed loyal to any relationship so I totally agree with you @Vincent888

So...yes, my ex was a hottie...and i still punt. The thrill of cheating also turns me on...

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[frisson]

There's lots of guys with trophies that just sit on a mantle piece gathering dust. I motivate myself by winning lots of trophies. Trophies can be held, admired, and looked at, and the effort and work it took to get that trophy is but a distant memory. Then you reach a point in life and you ask yourself, what now?

Connection and love is the trophy.

Ok. But the Beatles sang "All you need is love". Maybe that song needs an upgrade

[JohnJones]

I think men by our very nature are wired to spread our seed far and wide...

I have never ever successfully stayed loyal to any relationship so I totally agree with you @Vincent888

So...yes, my ex was a hottie...and i still punt. The thrill of cheating also turns me on...

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Spreading your seeds far and wide only spreads your bad karmas far and wide. One day you'll have to experience the neglect your kids had to experience from you using your penis as a brain.

Cheating doesn't turn me on unfortunately. It makes me sad if my potential partner found out that I was cheating on her. She would have many insecurities: Wasn't she hot enough? Wasn't she "tight" enough? Wasn't she young enough?

My own father had 6+1 kids: 6 biological kids including me, and 1 stepdaughter. All from 3 wives. Lucky the significant DNA was from my mother's side not his. He didn't die a good death, and I vow not to follow in his footsteps because he neglected us siblings while he was pleasing his new wife behind my mother's back.

[Pysterio1]

I would stop for sure

[Lovepuss]

It doesn't matter how gorgeous she is but if you already bang her a thousand times then anything can be possible.

[GoldfishMan]

Nope, I don't think I'd stop, ever. Maybe cut down by a fair bit, certainly not stop permanently.

I wouldn't say my wife is a 9/10, but she sure ticks all my boxes. Leggy, nice full arse, nice handful Ds, still in good shape and she's a lot younger than I am.

In her prime, she'd elicit wolf whistles when we went to the casino on a Friday night. One time she was wearing her thigh-high sexy boots that I bought her, paired with ultra short shorts and sexy tank top. That was memorable for me. The attention she got from all around was insane, and I got to take her home and fuck her brains out!!. Oh yeah, I hardly punted back then, sex was great at home.

Even now, she's a bit out of shape after having our little one, but her sex drive and allure to me is still there. She'd get frisky and plan "sex missions" for us... Sneak a session when the kid is asleep or at the CC. I guess she still enjoys sex with me.

Through it all, I still punted. It's in my nature now, this thing. Nothing gonna stop me from doing this until I die, I think.

[frisson]

Nope, I don't think I'd stop, ever. Maybe cut down by a fair bit, certainly not stop permanently.

I wouldn't say my wife is a 9/10, but she sure ticks all my boxes. Leggy, nice full arse, nice handful Ds, still in good shape and she's a lot younger than I am.

In her prime, she'd elicit wolf whistles when we went to the casino on a Friday night. One time she was wearing her thigh-high sexy boots that I bought her, paired with ultra short shorts and sexy tank top. That was memorable for me. The attention she got from all around was insane, and I got to take her home and fuck her brains out!!. Oh yeah, I hardly punted back then, sex was great at home.

Even now, she's a bit out of shape after having our little one, but her sex drive and allure to me is still there. She'd get frisky and plan "sex missions" for us... Sneak a session when the kid is asleep or at the CC. I guess she still enjoys sex with me.

Through it all, I still punted. It's in my nature now, this thing. Nothing gonna stop me from doing this until I die, I think.
You are a lucky man
Must be great to have a relationship with both an intellectual and physical match

Not clear why you need to punt

[GoldfishMan]

You are a lucky man
Must be great to have a relationship with both an intellectual and physical match

Not clear why you need to punt

Yeah, we even share interests. She's a gamer girl, and I like computer games myself.

I punt not out of need but a combination of lust for new blood, habit, and the difference between sex acts in a punt vs sex in a relationship.

The first 2 reasons are pretty self-explanatory, but the last one is a bit complicated. I go to a punt, the sex I get there is different. I can visit an RNT and get a massage and a NHJ if I wanted to, I don't have to care about not getting her off. Or I can go to an FS place and see a fully dolled up girl that's ready to fuck any time. She'd look like she can hit the dancefloor and party but there she is, ready to fuck.

With a wife or GF, especially when there's a kid around, sex is usually done when she's all cleaned up ready for bed. She ain't gonna be dolled up looking like she's ready to party.

[frisson]

Yeah, we even share interests. She's a gamer girl, and I like computer games myself.

I punt not out of need but a combination of lust for new blood, habit, and the difference between sex acts in a punt vs sex in a relationship.

The first 2 reasons are pretty self-explanatory, but the last one is a bit complicated. I go to a punt, the sex I get there is different. I can visit an RNT and get a massage and a NHJ if I wanted to, I don't have to care about not getting her off. Or I can go to an FS place and see a fully dolled up girl that's ready to fuck any time. She'd look like she can hit the dancefloor and party but there she is, ready to fuck.

With a wife or GF, especially when there's a kid around, sex is usually done when she's all cleaned up ready for bed. She ain't gonna be dolled up looking like she's ready to party.
Thanks for the discussion. As I said it's been hard to find a relationship that ticks all the boxes

For many of us, once we are punters, we will always be punters
The convenience, variety, young women and sheer recreational value is intoxicating

Would there be blowback if you were caught? I'm not judging, just asking

[jedibear]

I actually like that cleaned up natural look. My regular doesnt wear make up and I just like fucking her like that. Neither did my exes really...

Yeah if I were you, i'd probably not punt and BB the wifey as much as i could...

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[JohnJones]

You are a lucky man
Must be great to have a relationship with both an intellectual and physical match

Not clear why you need to punt

Had a friend who has a wife and two kids. He was sort of a "punting buddy" with me for a while, but the only reason why is because his wife knows me and he can use me as an excuse to go out late night. Pretty sure the wife knows from the hundreds that gets withdrawn from the joint account but with some cultures the wife will turn a blind eye as long as the husband does it in moderation and doesn't start having mistresses to replace her.

For me it's a matter of being an example to others. If I punt after marrying my crush, then she should also be allowed to work in a shop during our whole married life. Therefore, in order for me to not allow that to happen I have to make vows not to punt after marriage. Karma can be swift, therefore I won't risk such a thing. However, I am not forcing my views on others - you can punt, cheat and do whatever you want regardless of relationship status.

Because my vows as a Ngakpa is to not create more bad karma. Even right now I'm training to stop myself from punting so that I can be ready for marriage life.

[Double_Adapter]

Ok. But the Beatles sang "All you need is love". Maybe that song needs an upgrade

.....ergo and that's why they broke up, no connection!

[jedibear]

Had a friend who has a wife and two kids. He was sort of a "punting buddy" with me for a while, but the only reason why is because his wife knows me and he can use me as an excuse to go out late night. Pretty sure the wife knows from the hundreds that gets withdrawn from the joint account but with some cultures the wife will turn a blind eye as long as the husband does it in moderation and doesn't start having mistresses to replace her.

For me it's a matter of being an example to others. If I punt after marrying my crush, then she should also be allowed to work in a shop during our whole married life. Therefore, in order for me to not allow that to happen I have to make vows not to punt after marriage. Karma can be swift, therefore I won't risk such a thing. However, I am not forcing my views on others - you can punt, cheat and do whatever you want regardless of relationship status.

Because my vows as a Ngakpa is to not create more bad karma. Even right now I'm training to stop myself from punting so that I can be ready for marriage life.Why are u on a punting forum then? Shouldnt a monk be celebate?

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[JSteel96]

Its a bad spot to be in when you take cash out of a joint account for punting and you don't have your own account. Yeh some wives know and turn a blind eye as long as the husband keeps coming back to her. And as for mistress they would kill a marriage, but SB or FWB the guy should be able to get away with it if he's smart.

I'll say it again married guys who punt should have their own bank account for funds and no way use any joint account. If your married and only have joint account well your wife has got you by the balls.

[JohnJones]

Why are u on a punting forum then? Shouldnt a monk be celebate?

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A monk can celebrate if he wants :)

There's a difference between monks and Ngakpa. Ngakpas are non-monastic, serious practicing laypersons. Some of the high lamas that are married and have kids yet they teach like a monk are ngakpas.

I became a Ngakpa just in case someone needs help with navigating life and have no one to rely on. Punting forums are a good place to test my skills, but I may not be here for very long.

[JohnJones]

Its a bad spot to be in when you take cash out of a joint account for punting and you don't have your own account. Yeh some wives know and turn a blind eye as long as the husband keeps coming back to her. And as for mistress they would kill a marriage, but SB or FWB the guy should be able to get away with it if he's smart.

I'll say it again married guys who punt should have their own bank account for funds and no way use any joint account. If your married and only have joint account well your wife has got you by the balls.

How would these husbands explain to their wives the extra ATM card they have in their wallets? Banks are getting rid of chequebooks these days.

[JSteel96]

How would these husbands explain to their wives the extra ATM card they have in their wallets? Banks are getting rid of chequebooks these days.

Dangerous game if the husband punts he should have his own savings that he can use how he likes and if there is only a joint account and the marriage goes down south then he is done for. No husband should be tied into just a joint account. He'd have to be nuts taking money out to punt if there is only a joint account. I'd like to know how he explains the withdraw to his wife.

[JohnJones]

Dangerous game if the husband punts he should have his own savings that he can use how he likes and if there is only a joint account and the marriage goes down south then he is done for. No husband should be tied into just a joint account. He'd have to be nuts taking money out to punt if there is only a joint account. I'd like to know how he explains the withdraw to his wife.

My friend didn't tell me how he explained those transactions to his wife. This was the time when many shops are still charging $150/hr and only certain shops were charging $230/hr for diamond services. This guy was somehow addicted to N5M so I followed him there many times to the point I got bored of that joint. Occasionally he would go to 5 star as well but I didn't punt there, only looked at the lineup and left to sit in the car while he finishes.

From what I know he told me he's got around $20k in the joint account. Even so it doesn't make sense for the wife to ignore the constant weekly $230 withdrawal unless she's consented to it. The wife is Chinese from Guangzhou, I know these people are usually super calculative so I'm pretty sure she's turning a blind eye to it because the kids were still very young, not worth it to pursue a divorce when the kids are that young.

[JohnJones]

On the other hand, a colleague of mine loves his wife and kid. Haven't seen the wife but he talks about her a lot, implying maybe she's a hottie when they first met. He still pervs when driving around to work but he doesn't punt. His wife basically controls all the money and gives him instant coffee satchets when he goes away for work a few days. He still has the ATM card in case he needs to buy food when he's away.

Just saying, if you're no longer punting then it's better to let the missus handle all the money, as long as you trust her. When you're in the right circle of friends you don't see and hear the kind of misfortunes others had gone through with their crazy ex-wives.

[GoldfishMan]

Thanks for the discussion. As I said it's been hard to find a relationship that ticks all the boxes

For many of us, once we are punters, we will always be punters
The convenience, variety, young women and sheer recreational value is intoxicating

Would there be blowback if you were caught? I'm not judging, just asking

Think I said this before. My wife knows I punt. She knows I've fucked around when I was with my ex-wife, with my ex-GFs, and knows about my punting habit. I met her when I was having a "life-crisis", as if I'd drank the truth serum. I just let every girl I met know I fucked around and punted. Basically didn't care what they thought of me.

Even so, out of respect for our relationship I try to be discreet and not make it obvious. Thankfully I'm a super expert in that department. I know every trick in the book, lol...

[frisson]

Think I said this before. My wife knows I punt. She knows I've fucked around when I was with my ex-wife, with my ex-GFs, and knows about my punting habit. I met her when I was having a "life-crisis", as if I'd drank the truth serum. I just let every girl I met know I fucked around and punted. Basically didn't care what they thought of me.

Even so, out of respect for our relationship I try to be discreet and not make it obvious. Thankfully I'm a super expert in that department. I know every trick in the book, lol...
Sorry. You may have mentioned this before as you say. So you have the best of both worlds. Enjoy. Hope the fun lasts without consequence. I punt to fill in a void, but it's also fun as well

[JSteel96]

On the other hand, a colleague of mine loves his wife and kid. Haven't seen the wife but he talks about her a lot, implying maybe she's a hottie when they first met. He still pervs when driving around to work but he doesn't punt. His wife basically controls all the money and gives him instant coffee satchets when he goes away for work a few days. He still has the ATM card in case he needs to buy food when he's away.

Just saying, if you're no longer punting then it's better to let the missus handle all the money, as long as you trust her. When you're in the right circle of friends you don't see and hear the kind of misfortunes others had gone through with their crazy ex-wives.

Real man in a marriage will have his own savings if hes only getting instant coffees & satchets that's a very poor position to be in. If his wife ever dumps him cause she is bored of him he is in a world of trouble. Not only that being married having no money to yourself is no fun at all. I'd hate to be in that position. I know of some guys that are but really both people in a marriage should be aware of the finances. That guy must be really sure his wife is going to stick by him. Does he have to ask her for absolutely everything he needs to buy? You can trust a wife all you want but they have their own minds when it comes to money if she's going to take off the guy is screwed. God forbid he ever have a major argument with her.

[JSteel96]

My friend didn't tell me how he explained those transactions to his wife. This was the time when many shops are still charging $150/hr and only certain shops were charging $230/hr for diamond services. This guy was somehow addicted to N5M so I followed him there many times to the point I got bored of that joint. Occasionally he would go to 5 star as well but I didn't punt there, only looked at the lineup and left to sit in the car while he finishes.

From what I know he told me he's got around $20k in the joint account. Even so it doesn't make sense for the wife to ignore the constant weekly $230 withdrawal unless she's consented to it. The wife is Chinese from Guangzhou, I know these people are usually super calculative so I'm pretty sure she's turning a blind eye to it because the kids were still very young, not worth it to pursue a divorce when the kids are that young.

20k won't last long with kids & if his punting $150 to $230 on a weekly basis. He must have an agreement with her on an amount he can withdraw weekly.

[Vincent888]

Think I said this before. My wife knows I punt. She knows I've fucked around when I was with my ex-wife, with my ex-GFs, and knows about my punting habit. I met her when I was having a "life-crisis", as if I'd drank the truth serum. I just let every girl I met know I fucked around and punted. Basically didn't care what they thought of me.

Even so, out of respect for our relationship I try to be discreet and not make it obvious. Thankfully I'm a super expert in that department. I know every trick in the book, lol...



Quite frankly it’s no one’s business what a guy gets up to in their own private time.

If they want to plant flowers on the side of the road so be it. If they want to punt so be it. If they want to sleep in bed all day so be it.

I never ask a partner what they’ve been doing and as such I expect the same courtesy.

[Abracadabra]

Yeah, we even share interests. She's a gamer girl, and I like computer games myself.

I punt not out of need but a combination of lust for new blood, habit, and the difference between sex acts in a punt vs sex in a relationship.

The first 2 reasons are pretty self-explanatory, but the last one is a bit complicated. I go to a punt, the sex I get there is different. I can visit an RNT and get a massage and a NHJ if I wanted to, I don't have to care about not getting her off. Or I can go to an FS place and see a fully dolled up girl that's ready to fuck any time. She'd look like she can hit the dancefloor and party but there she is, ready to fuck.

With a wife or GF, especially when there's a kid around, sex is usually done when she's all cleaned up ready for bed. She ain't gonna be dolled up looking like she's ready to party.

My reasons are very similiar, although with different emphasis over the years, particulalry 30 years ago compared to more recently. You can let relationship sex slip into the mundane or the once in a while category, even with a head turner wife and lets face it, a good WL experience when you find them can be bloody good, plus addictive.

And yeah, I'm selfish with a yolo attitude as I get older.

[Vincent888]

Of course I would.

[frisson]

I'm with bro abracadabra. Here's to YOLO

[asiafever]

I actually like that cleaned up natural look. My regular doesnt wear make up and I just like fucking her like that. Neither did my exes really...

Yeah if I were you, i'd probably not punt and BB the wifey as much as i could...

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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtL9cS9JAjH/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

You mean like this girl? I am a big fan of her look. Big, big fan.

[GoldfishMan]

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtL9cS9JAjH/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

You mean like this girl? I am a big fan of her look. Big, big fan.
Hate to break it to you bro, that girl's got make-up on. Lipstick, and I sense some toner there as well.

[JohnJones]

20k won't last long with kids & if his punting $150 to $230 on a weekly basis. He must have an agreement with her on an amount he can withdraw weekly.

One time he was punting weekly for a month then he decided to cut down. Maybe that's when the wife confronted him about the missing money. He wasn't someone with a functional brain as he got fired for stealing stock from his workplace at an attempt to start his own business. He was given the option to return all the stock and leave or sent to jail for embezzlement.

[asiafever]

Hate to break it to you bro, that girl's got make-up on. Lipstick, and I sense some toner there as well.

Yeah I'm well aware, but that's the look, the "nude" look, or the "natural" look, as opposed to the "heavily made up" look of say this girl
https://www.instagram.com/p/CxYN_0tSVJH/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

[JSteel96]

One time he was punting weekly for a month then he decided to cut down. Maybe that's when the wife confronted him about the missing money. He wasn't someone with a functional brain as he got fired for stealing stock from his workplace at an attempt to start his own business. He was given the option to return all the stock and leave or sent to jail for embezzlement.

yep those kind of withdraws from a joint account his wife would spot. Is he still married to her? Stealing stock to start up a business is a stupid thing to do. I guess he must have returned all the stock. I would be surprised after that incident if he was still married to her. Punters if married have to be smarter than using a joint account to punt.

[GoldfishMan]

Yeah I'm well aware, but that's the look, the "nude" look, or the "natural" look, as opposed to the "heavily made up" look of say this girl
https://www.instagram.com/p/CxYN_0tSVJH/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Fair enough. I personally like both. Sometimes I'm in the mood for a genuine young hottie who looks great in that minimal make-up look, sometimes I go for that heavily made up doll. The latter usually transpires after I've been out ogling at party girls on a Friday or Saturday night, haha

[asiafever]

Fair enough. I personally like both. Sometimes I'm in the mood for a genuine young hottie who looks great in that minimal make-up look, sometimes I go for that heavily made up doll. The latter usually transpires after I've been out ogling at party girls on a Friday or Saturday night, haha

Oh absolutely, both are hot in my eyes, just different ends of the spectrum. I would drop kick a kitten for either girl to be honest.

[JohnJones]

yep those kind of withdraws from a joint account his wife would spot. Is he still married to her? Stealing stock to start up a business is a stupid thing to do. I guess he must have returned all the stock. I would be surprised after that incident if he was still married to her. Punters if married have to be smarter than using a joint account to punt.

Unfortunately they're still together. Then again the wife isn't too smart herself. She was an international student desperate to stay here and the husband at the time they've met actually had an ABV gf and was about to get engaged. He broke up with the ABV for her, probably because she was giving him more attention and sex compared to the ABV.

Some couples are attracted to each other because of their mental capacities. Those with higher mental capacities tend to live their relationships in a more constructive way, therefore it is not wise to take advice from people with lower states of mind. For example, if a wife were to allow the husband to punt when she's not sexually available she would've communicated in one way or the other what she expects - no BBFS, only certain price points allowed etc., rather than throw tantrums like lower mental state couples do. The highest state of minds would of course take a hint that they should abstain until the partner is ready for fun times again.

The benefits of having a constructive relationship is that when they have kids, the child will pick up the habit from their parents and learn how to be constructive and communicable themselves.

[GoldfishMan]

Unfortunately they're still together. Then again the wife isn't too smart herself. She was an international student desperate to stay here and the husband at the time they've met actually had an ABV gf and was about to get engaged. He broke up with the ABV for her, probably because she was giving him more attention and sex compared to the ABV.

Some couples are attracted to each other because of their mental capacities. Those with higher mental capacities tend to live their relationships in a more constructive way, therefore it is not wise to take advice from people with lower states of mind. For example, if a wife were to allow the husband to punt when she's not sexually available she would've communicated in one way or the other what she expects - no BBFS, only certain price points allowed etc., rather than throw tantrums like lower mental state couples do. The highest state of minds would of course take a hint that they should abstain until the partner is ready for fun times again.

The benefits of having a constructive relationship is that when they have kids, the child will pick up the habit from their parents and learn how to be constructive and communicable themselves.
"Then again the wife isn't too smart herself.".... Excuse me, did you actually intend to explain this statement of yours?
Cos I don't see any part of what you wrote explained that she "wasn't too smart"...

[JohnJones]

Would you like to be ignored instead? Because the explanation is already there, you just couldn't read it properly.

[Vincent888]

Would you like to be ignored instead? Because the explanation is already there, you just couldn't read it properly.


Excuse me, did you actually intend to explain this statement of yours?

I often wonder the same thing.

There’s no way JJ is an AI chatbot on some sort of punters forum learning curve, is there?

[JohnJones]

If you want an intelligent chat, be constructive rather than accusative. This is why I offered the choice to be ignored - I don't need to entertain negativity.

[JohnJones]

She wasn't smart because she was after a man who is already about to get engaged. That man is also empty-headed and aggressive. I was the only person he didn't dare get into a fistfight with only because he knew I could hurt him badly if I want to.

If I was her I would've been a little more patient and not steal someone else's bf.

[JohnJones]

One more thing to add: do a quick search on "constructive vs destructive relationship".

One is encouraging and engaging, the other is draining and lacks respect.

The way I learn constructive relationships is through many years of practicing the Four Brahmavihara. I don't expect my future partner to be perfectly constructive but I want her to know that there's an alternative to becoming destructive and draining.

If you can apply this to yourself, people around you will see you change and you'll be a magnet that attracts all kinds of good things in life.

[GoldfishMan]

What a lunatic.... I think I've said this about this guy before but here I am doing it again, lol!

[JohnJones]

What a lunatic.... I think I've said this about this guy before but here I am doing it again, lol!

Women pretending to be men.

[jedibear]

Yeah I'm well aware, but that's the look, the "nude" look, or the "natural" look, as opposed to the "heavily made up" look of say this girl
https://www.instagram.com/p/CxYN_0tSVJH/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Yeah she has the girl next door feel. I don't like the cakeface look...might actually be scary to find out what was underneath[emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787]

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[max_power]

For every 9/10 lady out there there’s a bloke that’s bored of banging her

[frisson]

For every 9/10 lady out there there’s a bloke that’s bored of banging her
You see it often. Famous male sports star leaving his sexy wife for another lady
Must be hard for a lady to keep things interesting
After a while man get bored - a bit hard to understand if you look at it from afar, but we've all done it

Some prefer variety rather than loyalty from a woman

[Vincent888]

You see it often. Famous male sports star leaving his sexy wife for another lady
Must be hard for a lady to keep things interesting
After a while man get bored - a bit hard to understand if you look at it from afar, but we've all done it

Some prefer variety rather than loyalty from a woman



Women go and hunt very rich married guys.

They probably guess right that their sex is stale.

Under certain circumstances the guys let their guard down and the women zero in for the kill.

I’ll be at a party and I see one following a guy.

I observe things like that. Stupid fools. If they had any sense she’d be a bit on the side and nothing more.

Some guys even astute are gullible.

[frisson]

Under certain circumstances the guys let their guard down and the women zero in for the kill
I observe things like that. Stupid fools. If they had any sense she’d be a bit on the side and nothing more
Absolutely. Punting completely clears your mind and you realise that you don't have to f_ck women in your life unless it has a longer term advantage for you

A friend said as a joke, that before dating a woman in your real, non punting life, a guy should masturbate first, then date the lady, to see if she has value, or suggest you are just blinded by lust

[Double_Adapter]

Yeah I'm well aware, but that's the look, the "nude" look, or the "natural" look, as opposed to the "heavily made up" look of say this girl
https://www.instagram.com/p/CxYN_0tSVJH/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

That ain't heavy makeup bro, this is...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buMWJt7K4jM

[GoldfishMan]

That ain't heavy makeup bro, this is...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buMWJt7K4jM

Lol, there are heaps of these videos and photos going around showing before and after makeup diff. Most of them are using camera tricks to amplify the diff, don't be fooled by it. This video you can clearly see she edited the video to give herself a sharper face and nose at some point.

[frisson]

Lol, there are heaps of these videos and photos going around showing before and after makeup diff. Most of them are using camera tricks to amplify the diff, don't be fooled by it. This video you can clearly see she edited the video to give herself a sharper face and nose at some point.

Lots of guys here with too much time on their hands
There is not a worse time sink, wasting if a person's time, than checking out those vacous women on Instagram. Real threat to civilization that we have adults obsessed with this photo garbage

Insta in general is a terrible time sink with other bad effects on your mental state

[asiafever]

That ain't heavy makeup bro, this is...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buMWJt7K4jM

The girl I posted also has before and after videos, trust me, it's heavily made up (and as goldy said, also some camera trickery..)
I mean, she's not ugly before (and has some base make up on even) but she goes from average to fucking knockout.

[wolfman88]

imo most of the time the hot ones are shit and they've gotten along with just being a star fish. some of them talk a bad bitch game but they do doggy like this

106361

being married to one you could probably teach them new things and try new things together, but personally im a hunter and enough is never enough

[Vincent888]

Wolfman88

Why bother teaching an old dog new tricks?

They’re old, past their prime.

Trade in.

Get the new model.

Everyone does it, so why not you!

[frisson]

imo most of the time the hot ones are shit and they've gotten along with just being a star fish. some of them talk a bad bitch game but they do doggy like this

106361

being married to one you could probably teach them new things and try new things together, but personally im a hunter and enough is never enough

Why is it up to the man to do the teaching? Because some ladies get complacent in a relationship and don't realise that sex was important in the courtship and remains important ever since

Women forget that part of the reason a man chose to settle because the sex was great

I'm guessing your better half has forgotten how to BJ as well? No need to answer. Personal question

Photo is interesting

[GoldfishMan]

imo most of the time the hot ones are shit and they've gotten along with just being a star fish. some of them talk a bad bitch game but they do doggy like this

106361

being married to one you could probably teach them new things and try new things together, but personally im a hunter and enough is never enough

Better to not even get into a situation where you have to "teach" a wife anything. It's not a pet you're getting, she's going to be your wife. Choosing carefully is the only way.

[JSteel96]

imo most of the time the hot ones are shit and they've gotten along with just being a star fish. some of them talk a bad bitch game but they do doggy like this

106361

being married to one you could probably teach them new things and try new things together, but personally im a hunter and enough is never enough

no good having to teach a young married hot wife how to suck cock. Better to have an experienced hot wife who knows how to get you off.

[frisson]

Better to not even get into a situation where you have to "teach" a wife anything. It's not a pet you're getting, she's going to be your wife. Choosing carefully is the only way.
100%. My general instinct is that if I have to tell a woman what I need, then she isn't focussed on what I need. I prefer her to share what she is willing to share, not me teaching her what I want. Assuming I am doing everything to make her life easier in every way, if she has low sex drive, I'm not in a position to change this

[Climax598]

no good having to teach a young married hot wife how to suck cock. Better to have an experienced hot wife who knows how to get you off.
The only experience and well trained cock sucking will to married a WL.

[Climax598]

The girl I posted also has before and after videos, trust me, it's heavily made up (and as goldy said, also some camera trickery..)
I mean, she's not ugly before (and has some base make up on even) but she goes from average to fucking knockout.
Well the what you get from the shops that we visit regularly. Women know how to paint their face.

[jedibear]

The only experience and well trained cock sucking will to married a WL.Ah mate, nothing beats a good blowjob. My ex did use to do a very good blowjob which is what got me addicted to it...

Good sex must alw be preceded by bbbj

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[JSteel96]

The only experience and well trained cock sucking will to married a WL.

Yep if you can handle shes a WL and she sucks your cock super good then marry her. But more so some young hottie girls do not have a clue how to suck. Don't marry one of those :)

[frisson]

Ah mate, nothing beats a good blowjob. My ex did use to do a very good blowjob which is what got me addicted to it...

Good sex must alw be preceded by bbbj

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100% agree

Men are accusing of not knowing where the clitoris is. That's a fair criticism, but let's be honest, it is a hidden part of the woman's body

I've never understood why women can't please a penis. It's in front of you, it's large enough to hold. The main problem is women forget how important sexual pleasure is to a man

Should we feel uncomfortable stating to our partner/wife (who don't like BJ or sex) that we like BJ and it's not a complicated skill? I feel, it's a shame I have to state the obvious

I also feel that if I have to explain what I need, it's not something she wants to do spontaneously, which is sad

[JohnJones]

100% agree

Men are accusing of not knowing where the clitoris is. That's a fair criticism, but let's be honest, it is a hidden part of the woman's body

I've never understood why women can't please a penis. It's in front of you, it's large enough to hold. The main problem is women forget how important sexual pleasure is to a man

Should we feel uncomfortable stating to our partner/wife (who don't like BJ or sex) that we like BJ and it's not a complicated skill? I feel, it's a shame I have to state the obvious

I also feel that if I have to explain what I need, it's not something she wants to do spontaneously, which is sad

There was someone who knew all my good spots in bed.

If I get to see her again, I think the addition of DFK, BBBJ and BBFS might take me to the moon and back. I don't expect CIM but if she's open to it that'll be another bonus.

If she starts offering all that I might only last less than 5 mins. Her DT was damn good. I also wish I can make babies with her, have our own family together. Doesn't matter if all that explosive sex happens before having the first kid, at least I can have the memory of having explosive sex with her in the first place etched in my mind.

[Vincent888]

If I were to date then marry someone I was in love with then I would give up punting.

Until that day happens it’s continue as usual.

[JohnJones]

If I were to date then marry someone I was in love with then I would give up punting.

Until that day happens it’s continue as usual.

I don't mind dating first before marrying. Then again, it depends on her time constraints - when does she want to start having kids, any visa situation i.e. visa running out soon and if she wants to start moving in to save money rather than spend on renting separately.

[wolfman88]

Why is it up to the man to do the teaching? Because some ladies get complacent in a relationship and don't realise that sex was important in the courtship and remains important ever since

Women forget that part of the reason a man chose to settle because the sex was great

I'm guessing your better half has forgotten how to BJ as well? No need to answer. Personal question

Photo is interesting

Nah bj skills are still there. I just have a lot of friends that are stuck in sexless relationships and have gone all weird because of it

[Vincent888]

Nah bj skills are still there. I just have a lot of friends that are stuck in sexless relationships and have gone all weird because of it

It’s my belief that “sex is the glue” that holds people in a relationship together.

No sex and the relationship falls apart.

Correct ✅

[JohnJones]

It’s my belief that “sex is the glue” that holds people in a relationship together.

No sex and the relationship falls apart.

Correct ✅

When you're the one putting it that way, I'm confident enough to wait.

[NightShift]

As the title suggests, would you?
Or put the effort in with your GF or wifey and get free sex?

I'm curious to know if I'm just messed up. Still punting knowing my partner then was a hottie already. I mean the guys were always checking her out everywhere we went.


Good question Kiki kong.


I would if I wanted to.

Men are Only As Faithful As Their Options.

A 9/10 chick? So what? That just means the side chicks I will fu@k will have to be just as good looking if not more so… I would be even more picky than I am now.

Been busting my ass since I was 18, now with a 6 figure job and I’m gonna be loyal to a GF? who is only 1 instagram DM away from leaving me..

women treat men like how men treat jobs: you get a higher paying job offer that is also closer to home? Of course you will take it! Just like your GF that meets a taller, richer better looking man than you, she will leave you too. Without guilt. And you being faithful to her will mean jack sh&t…

Line up 100 men and ask them: Would you cheat on your GF if you 100% won’t get caught? Maybe 10-15 would say no, but the other 85 would say yes. And the 10-15 men saying no should be put on a lie detector..

Difference between a rich man and a poor man is that a rich man can be honest about wanting multiple girls…

So yes I would, if I wanted to.. AND the side chicks will have to be 9/10 looks wise too. Anything less than a 9? No thanks, I’ll just go home..

That question did make me think. My best looking GF I’ve had that wasn’t a 304 was an 8/10. I’ve never had a GF that was a 9/10.. but that 8/10 GF I had was such a headache.

[frisson]

It’s my belief that “sex is the glue” that holds people in a relationship together.

No sex and the relationship falls apart.

Correct ✅

I disagree.
It's either sex or children that keep two people together

Classic recent case is Hugh Jackman

As soon as his children reached 18, he left his long term relationship

'The Aussie pair, who share two kids, Oscar, 23, and Ava, 18, have been married for 27 years'

https://people.com/hugh-jackman-and-deborra-lee-jackman-separate-exclusive-7970286

[NightShift]

I disagree It's either sex or children that keep two people together

Classic recent case is Hugh Jackman

As soon as his children reached 18, he left his long term relationship

What? He did? I didn’t know… that’s news to me..

(I just googled it.) Wow.

[Vincent888]

I disagree It's either sex or children that keep two people together

Classic recent case is Hugh Jackman

As soon as his children reached 18, he left his long term relationship

'The Aussie pair, who share two kids, Oscar, 23, and Ava, 18, have been married for 27 years'

His relationship was sus.

Could never understand his attraction to his partner.

There’s more to it than what’s in the press.

[frisson]

What? He did? I didn’t know…

(I just googled it.) Wow.
Yes. He proves my point. Once his youngest child reaches 18, it's sayonara baby

10 months

The time he lets pass before he will allow the press to photograph himself with his next 20+ year old new gf

I wonder how a man that famous can ever have a discreet, or a normal relationship. I'm or being sexist. He could ask every woman on the planet for their underwear and they would take them off and give it to him

[Vincent888]

The time he lets pass before he will allow the press to photograph himself with his next 20+ year old new gf

Exactly.

No doubt he likes pumping younger pussy.

[frisson]

Exactly.

No doubt he likes pumping younger pussy.
He likes? He was doing it the day in September 2023 he announced the end of his long term relationship

Pump, dump, move on
He got the blueprint from Leonardo De Caprio

We should get him on aus99 to sample Sydney's delights, now he is a perpetual single Mr Lady killer, out on the streets

Maybe he can have the profile name 'wolfman23'

[JohnJones]

Some people's minds work differently depending on their karma. Older men wanting to pump young pussies can be related to several issues, but they are all linked to the same problem - lack of gratitude.

If you're grateful to have a certain someone as your wife, you'll find all the reasons and "excuses" to be with her your whole life. It is the same principle as those who are promiscuous or those who leave their wives for younger girls - it's all the excuses and justification to satisfy their impermanent desires.

When my crush denied my advances to marry her many times, I could've left. Somehow I thought to myself that I really need to try and convince her, and never given up on it.

[Vincent888]

He likes? He was doing it the day in September 2023 he announced the end of his long term relationship

Pump, dump, move on
He got the blueprint from Leonardo De Caprio

We should get him on aus99 to sample Sydney's delights, now he is a perpetual single Mr Lady killer, out on the streets

Maybe he can have the profile name 'wolfman23'

No doubt his ex will get looked after.

What ever it costs, it is worth it.

I thought she was too old for him.

[Vincent888]

Some people's minds work differently depending on their karma. Older men wanting to pump young pussies can be related to several issues, but they are all linked to the same problem - lack of gratitude.

If you're grateful to have a certain someone as your wife, you'll find all the reasons and "excuses" to be with her your whole life. It is the same principle as those who are promiscuous or those who leave their wives for younger girls - it's all the excuses and justification to satisfy their impermanent desires.

When my crush denied my advances to marry her many times, I could've left. Somehow I thought to myself that I really need to try and convince her, and never given up on it.

Why should a man be grateful to an old boiler?

Are you trying to indoctrinate forumites?

[JohnJones]

Why should a man be grateful to an old boiler?

Are you trying to indoctrinate forumites?

Maybe. A lot of women in the world would be super happy if I can indoctrinate as many men as I can - they'll be able to have a happily ever after life.

Heck, that WL you were chasing might finally say yes to you if you get indoctrinated.

[Vincent888]

Heck, that WL you were chasing might finally say yes to you if you get indoctrinated.

She’s had months and not returned serve.

Thinking about that just now…

Next week will be the final session.

[JohnJones]

She’s had months and not returned serve.

Thinking about that just now…

Next week will be the final session.

Then you better give it your all.
She could be waiting for her final session before she says yes. You just have to put in the effort.

[JohnJones]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G6oo7kXy9u0

Mantra for removing any obstacles in life.

https://youtu.be/8qjbsy74FBM?si=Uvmbw9-w4mIsIVuX

An explanation of Tara and how she removes obstacles and negativities in life. A Lower Tantra practice suitable for everyone.

[NightShift]

https://youtu.be/H9lLFwULE1g?si=A8THMJS00ukScUBh

Here’s mine.

[JohnJones]

https://youtu.be/H9lLFwULE1g?si=A8THMJS00ukScUBh

Here’s mine.

That's a mantra to make you negative, miserable and attract more negativity into your life.

[frisson]

https://youtu.be/H9lLFwULE1g?si=A8THMJS00ukScUBh

Here’s mine.

Excellent lesson for young single men

[JohnJones]

Excellent lesson for young single men

The weather seems to change in the opposite directions these days...

With Maa Tara you can be yourself and still get hitched. Her compassion fills you up and you'll be a chick magnet that can even convert nuns back into sensual lovers if they choose to.

Better than swallowing red pills.

[acfbkup1]

Yes and I d book a ffm with an open minded WL and take my girl with me.

[Vincent888]

Yes and I d book a ffm with an open minded WL and take my girl with me.

So I once dated my GF and my bit on the side both at the same time. The bit on the side was a last minute ad on and the GF thought she was a work colleague.

When I say dated it was an invite to a wedding. All three of us went to the wedding, sat at the table, danced etc.

Yep and I was punting too.

So I had a GF, I cheated on her with my weekly girl and I’d punt also. Great eh? Maybe not…

Perhaps I cursed his marriage as he’s been with three wives now.

What a story his life is.

Perhaps I’ll tell it one day.

[JSteel96]

So I once dated my GF and my bit on the side both at the same time. The bit on the side was a last minute ad on and the GF thought she was a work colleague.

When I say dated it was an invite to a wedding. All three of us went to the wedding, sat at the table, danced etc.

Yep and I was punting too.

So I had a GF, I cheated on her with my weekly girl and I’d punt also. Great eh? Maybe not…

Perhaps I cursed his marriage as he’s been with three wives now.

What a story his life is.

Perhaps I’ll tell it one day.

Three wives and the latest one not worried about the previous two failed short marriages? Vincent you should move into a brothel so you can get sex all the time.

[Vincent888]

Three wives and the latest one not worried about the previous two failed short marriages?

Not when money is concerned.

Now regarding living in a brothel.

A guy can’t have sex all the time. There’s wear on the lil bro, friction wear. I don’t pump pussy short time it’s always long time.

Pussy vs Penis friction wear.

It’s no wonder WL’s use lube. Their pussies would be rubbed raw.

I’m finding every second day for sex is great if you’re doing two girls a day. That’s enough rest. You have to remember you’re always out to impress fresh pussy so you’re trying your hardest to bang bang long time.

The things we put ourselves through…

[jedibear]

I dont know if it is the lube but I rly cant deal with a stinky pussy. Some u pump and u can smell it wafting and i cant stay hard...

I find it happens a lot with FS girls...is it the lube or what but a rly stinky smell i get...

Never smelt it with BBFS girls

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[Vincent888]

I had this nympho GF who pumped guys daily. Miss Freelove I called her. Her pussy would occasionally get wafty but it was from so much cum inside her.

At 19 she wasn’t up there with cleanliness like WL’s are today. Perhaps it was part of her appeal, the nastiness.

[jedibear]

Yeah i cant deal with bad smells no matter how hot the girl is. I have a very sensitive nose. I like the smell of my regular so maybe thats why I try to pump her every week...

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[Vincent888]

Yeah i cant deal with bad smells no matter how hot the girl is. I have a very sensitive nose. I like the smell of my regular so maybe thats why I try to pump her every week...

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Are you a stickler for routine? Same time each week etc?

[JSteel96]

Yeah i cant deal with bad smells no matter how hot the girl is. I have a very sensitive nose. I like the smell of my regular so maybe thats why I try to pump her every week...

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I am the same when you have a good women to fuck who smells nice just keep doing her every week. But add in a few others as well.