Best Sex-Who gives it, your WL, ML or partner?

[Vincent888]

A lot of you guys are in relationships. Some are not. I would like to know can a girlfriend or wife have sex with you as well as or better than an adult service provider?

Every day I read reviews about who gives the best BBBJ or the best DFK etc

Considering WL’s and ML’s are great in bed and have to perform several times daily it’s safe to assume that a girlfriend or wife could not equal or better a WL or ML when it comes to sex.

That a girlfriend or wife could not match a WL or ML in stamina. That a girlfriend or wife simply cannot do or refuses to do everything a WL or ML does.

Would this be correct?

[JohnJones]

The one thing about having a wife that beats seeing a WL is the availability of sex in an instance. If you wake up horny in the middle of the night, 8/10 times you can ask the wife and she'll let you have a quickie. Also early morning before heading off to work.

Seeing a WL for married men is mostly for re-enacting the porn movie they've watched. This is why many providers these days are advertising diamond services and PSE services. I remember when I started punting, many were advertising GFE services as majority of the providers out there were starfish and don't allow DFK.

I don't think there's such things as best DFK but there certainly is best BBBJ. However BJs isn't a must for me in relationships, it's just that if I was offered BBBJ by my wife once in a while it would spice things up in our married life.

A good marriage is about spicing things up once in a while in my opinion. With a WL, sure they can be the best performing if they tick all the PSE boxes but if I were to pay a WL to stay with me overnight for a whole week I would've gotten bored of her by the 3rd night as it is overstimulating. A good old fashion quickie with the wifey is my kind of thing.

[Hidden Python]

When you are with your partner you have a emotional bond that makes love making more passionate and you can take your time,
But when you are with a Hot W/L the sex is wild and crazy, like you are fucking to get every last drop out of your ball sack ASAP

[frisson]

The one thing about having a wife that beats seeing a WL is the availability of sex in an instance. If you wake up horny in the middle of the night, 8/10 times you can ask the wife and she'll let you have a quickie. Also early morning before heading off to work
This availability of sex definitely doesn't not occur in a lot of marriages. You are discussing the ideal marriage

[Vincent888]

The thread is about who gives the best sex.

A WL, ML or your partner?

I’m pretty sure a lot of GF’s or partners do not do everything that your regular does.

Correct?

[JohnJones]

The thread is about who gives the best sex.

A WL, ML or your partner?

I’m pretty sure a lot of GF’s or partners do not do everything that your regular does.

Correct?

Sometimes a WL or ML can give the worst sex compared to a partner.

It's subjective really. But all I can say is that the best sex is when it's done regularly as a quickie and sometimes spiced up with moves you don't get to perform often.

Ideal marriages work by adapting to what works for the couple. People who have no experience living a married life often spread misinformation and generalisation on what a typical occurrence of sex looks like in a marriage.

Most authentic friends had no problem getting consent for a midnight quickie from their partners even after having kids, it is only those who tried giving me bad advices to deter me from living a married life that tells me they don't get sex from their partners as often as they want. As soon as I got married the first time I knew they were big liars and I stopped talking to them.

[JSteel96]

Having done my regular in a morning and the misses that same afternoon on occasions I can tell you the sex is completely different. My regular is a Chinese Nymphomaniac and does many things differently how ever its very hard to compare the two. However my regular does a better BJ and makes better moaning noises. Saying that I often get an extra Chinese lady with my regular for threesome which I can't get with the wife. I like the variety which is why I have a regular and sometimes punt different Asian WLs. Every lady is different in bed in their own ways. One of mine lays on top of me and masturbates till she cums. One has super big hooters etc.

[JSteel96]

This availability of sex definitely doesn't not occur in a lot of marriages. You are discussing the ideal marriage

Yeh this can vary some guys may get it from their misses several times a week others are to busy and lucky to get it once a week

[JSteel96]

The thread is about who gives the best sex.

A WL, ML or your partner?

I’m pretty sure a lot of GF’s or partners do not do everything that your regular does.

Correct?

This would be true some wives would likely have a basic sex routine for their hubbies and may not cover all a regular can offer. I can imagine a couple with three kids would be dead tired to have to much boom boom.

[JohnJones]

Yeh this can vary some guys may get it from their misses several times a week others are to busy and lucky to get it once a week

The only time I stopped thinking or asking for sex during marriage is when work is so busy I had to do overtime or night shifts. Don't even have time to masturbate.

I was also used to not receiving BJ from my ex at all. She wasn't a virgin but had very minimal experience. She only had one partner before and had only done missionary position. Didn't really bother teaching her other positions or skills as her sex drive was plummeting but she would always offer me to do her starfish.

[Vincent888]

The guys that have partners.

Have you tried talking them around to providing what a paid sex worker does?

[JohnJones]

The guys that have partners.

Have you tried talking them around to providing what a paid sex worker does?

When I used to have a partner after divorce, none of them were open to new ideas.

But I do remember my ex from 18 years ago, she was willing to research porn videos and find new ways to spice things up.

[JSteel96]

The only time I stopped thinking or asking for sex during marriage is when work is so busy I had to do overtime or night shifts. Don't even have time to masturbate.

I was also used to not receiving BJ from my ex at all. She wasn't a virgin but had very minimal experience. She only had one partner before and had only done missionary position. Didn't really bother teaching her other positions or skills as her sex drive was plummeting but she would always offer me to do her starfish.

Well if a partner does not suck you off at all I can see the big advantage of having a regular who will do that. For me I get the best of both worlds two Asian women in my life tho one is secret.

[JSteel96]

The guys that have partners.

Have you tried talking them around to providing what a paid sex worker does?

I think many spouses have a set sex routine on the top or missionary and some may just not be able to provide what a regular lady can. To the guy who works all the time to late hours in the night hes probably to worn out for any sex at all. Their wives maybe used to no sex ever.

[Vincent888]

I think going to WL’s and ML’s spoil you. It’s everything you need without the concern whether a new GF will put up or not do everything you’re used too.

Why would you have a partner who doesn’t do BBBJ or DFK etc.

Why settle for second best?

[frisson]

I think going to WL’s and ML’s spoil you. It’s everything you need without the concern whether a new GF will put up or not do everything you’re used too.

Why would you have a partner who doesn’t do BBBJ or DFK etc.

Why settle for second best?

I wasted a few years on dating sites with less than desirable women, most of whom had an excess number of offers for meeting up and dates with men. Just my experience but they get selfish and start looking for first date free meals
The women I met also got sick of meeting guys who just wanted sex, so women also got cynical about dating

So grateful punting let me escape that mess

I spend more time getting my career on track, and far more selective who I take out on a date

[JohnJones]

I think going to WL’s and ML’s spoil you. It’s everything you need without the concern whether a new GF will put up or not do everything you’re used too.

Why would you have a partner who doesn’t do BBBJ or DFK etc.

Why settle for second best?

It's something someone shown me that no other girls were able to. She was able to nurture my inner child when others had abandoned me. That to me, was the first best. It makes all my exes pale in comparison.

[JSteel96]

I think going to WL’s and ML’s spoil you. It’s everything you need without the concern whether a new GF will put up or not do everything you’re used too.

Why would you have a partner who doesn’t do BBBJ or DFK etc.

Why settle for second best?

Many guys love their wives and accept the sex they get even if no BJ you can't compare a WL or regular to a wife that won't suck their hubbies off. The WL and regular are there for the extra service to please.

[Vincent888]

Many guys love their wives and accept the sex they get even if no BJ you can't compare a WL or regular to a wife that won't suck their hubbies off. The WL and regular are there for the extra service to please.

So it’s ok to be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t give a guy what he needs because of love?

If you love someone you have to accept the sex you get.

I’m a guy who if in a relationship needs sex three times daily. Therefore if a girl loves me she will put up?

Why accept second best with a wife or partner?

[JohnJones]

Why so many deal breakers? It's like young women in their early 20s - the guy they're about to go on a date with gets a little anxious and she calls off the date. The guy earns $1k less than her, she doesn't want to talk to him. The guy is fit but doesn't have visible abs - ignores him to chase down guys with visible abs.

I used to have dealbreakers as well thanks to my ex-wife. She traumatised me a lot. Also every other girl who doesn't stop talking about money as if it grows on trees. Then my final one purposely pretended to forget about my birthday. And that's why I never told anyone else my birthday, it reminded me of a time when I was disappointed as a young adult on my birthday - every birthdays ever since that first disappointment had been so bad I didn't want to celebrate my own birthday anymore.

I forgave those people who treated me wrong, but at the same time I found that I probably don't even deserve good things from others, and that's the reason why birthdays are such a scary thing I decided not to think about it anymore. I accepted that I don't have a birthday anymore, but that doesn't stop me from trying to celebrate other people's birthdays.

I don't know what BS are you talking about when you're referring to "second best" but no one is second best once someone decides that he or she is the one for them regardless of their shortcomings. Life isn't all about "me, me, ME!".

[JohnJones]

This is why I'm fine with not being able to be with my crush in this lifetime. No one else could make me forget about my traumas like her. Not that I need someone else to make me forget about it, but if I can't be with her I might as well disconnect from the world and move up into a cave. That way I can die peacefully without anyone worrying about me when my time eventually comes. I don't plan on dying early, I plan on living as long as I can away from BS if I can't help even a single person in this world.

[Vincent888]

What’s love got to do about sex?

Why should sex be a second tier item because of love?

Initial attraction is looks. Followed by sex, the glue that keeps people together.

[BornHoNam]

I think it depends on situation.

Free sex is always "sometime" good and bad for that best sex.

Paying for the sex for the spirit of the moment whether it is either good or best or at worst a dud.

At end of the day which one do u prefer ?? paid sex or sex u dont need to pay, everything has good and bad.

Of course we want variety at the moment of time what we decide what we want and make judgement.

[frisson]

What’s love got to do about sex?

Why should sex be a second tier item because of love?

Initial attraction is looks. Followed by sex, the glue that keeps people together.

Biology also has sex as the thing that keeps the population ticking along. That was until the invention of the pill and the increased cost of living. Many country now have more death than births

Sex has culturally set below love because men are designed to sow their seeds everywhere, compared to women who have a lot to lose if they are pregnant and left to rear the child alone. Women ideally should assess a man's reliability before going the whole 9 month pregnancy process. But this is humans so often things don't go smoothly

[frisson]

Question
Can you have great sex with a one night stand. In some ways it's similar to sleeping with a WL for the first time

[Vincent888]

Question
Can you have great sex with a one night stand. In some ways it's similar to sleeping with a WL for the first time

Yes that’s how I often meet a GF. It’s the test. If sex isn’t good it doesn’t progress. Why should it?

It’s often discussed amongst guys I know that “she’s hopeless at giving a BJ” or something along the same as you read here. The only thing is here we are more descriptive.

Quite often they’re real life models but they just don’t cut it in bed. Hence they’re turfed out.

[JSteel96]

So it’s ok to be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t give a guy what he needs because of love?

If you love someone you have to accept the sex you get.

I’m a guy who if in a relationship needs sex three times daily. Therefore if a girl loves me she will put up?

Why accept second best with a wife or partner?

If you need sex three times a day you need a nympho wife who wants sex all the time. Many women don't they get busy with work and family and three times a day can be a big ask on many women. You still single? If so don't get married stay single keep punting. Second best with a wife when it comes for sex because the couple just has an awesome friendship. I'm sure many wives won't BJ their hubbies, that's why we have WLs. Also in marriage as it gets longer like past 30 years the sex must be slowing down, maybe they don't do it often but still care for each other. Some couples after three kids the sex stops. They are to busy and tired. Not everyone can handle three times a day. So you find a women she is great for you and good in bed but only does it once a day you dump her?

[JohnJones]

What’s love got to do about sex?

Why should sex be a second tier item because of love?

Initial attraction is looks. Followed by sex, the glue that keeps people together.

I'm done. You made your point. I'm just not joining this kind of banter.

[JohnJones]

What's the point of making me join in conversations that doesn't even validate other people's opinions in the tiniest bit? On top of that you're making me wait a whole year. On your last day you purposely stopped me from seeing you, and suddenly disappear without leaving your contact. I was about to give you a birthday present, until today it's at home collecting dust.

If I'm to wait for you to reappear who knows when, please don't treat me like this. I don't mind if we communicate long distance until you're ready but I'm not going to play this game - it hurts the both of us. Your words doesn't hurt me but it's your self-sabotaging actions that hurts me the more you play it like this.

No one with a good heart wants people to hurt themselves, but right now I'm like a person trying to help a drug addict but forced to keep feeding them the drugs that destroys them.

[JohnJones]

I'm still waiting for you, but I don't want to keep things up like this. If you reappear sooner than one year or take the initiative to send me a text on the number I gave you I will be happy to reply asap.

I don't have anyone else that can replace your demeanor. Like I said, I was traumatized by many others that I almost gave up on looking.

[GoldfishMan]

It takes 2 to tango, have sex / make love.

How could you draw any conclusion on what it would be like for yourself based on others experience, and vice versa? Even if you hooked up with the same girl that another guy said he had a great time with, doesn't mean you would have a great time too. You might like all the bells and whistles that a WL does, the other guy might like GFE sex. She might be more attracted to him, less to you. It's just impossible to generalise.

That said, I've always had better sex with my partners. Now, I'm not the kind of guy who needs to tick off every sex act from a checklist. Sometimes there's no BBBJ, usually there's DFK or just passionate kissing, etc. But regardless of those things being "given", it could be a great lovemaking session because of the passion in it. I'm the kind of guy who needs my partner to lust for me and for me to lust for her. That's what makes sex great for me. That's just me.

I'll have to admit, there are things I get to do with my wife that I'd never get from a shop or WG. Proper BB anal creampie with an anal newbie is the most incredible thing. It takes ages to prep and do but the experience is second to none! We then moved on to anal with a vibrator in her pussy once she got more adventurous. That was intense.

[JohnJones]

When you sense anger from a Lama, it is not out of hatred or grudge. A Lama acts like a mother scolding her child for being naughty.

What I brought up was to remind someone that they're behaving as if they're following a bad advice to the letter, throwing all the spanners they can find into the works hoping that one of them will start working. I remember my past life being a woman, therefore I know what a woman feels in her heart.

I don't mind people's hot + cold personalities. We all have them. But you can't go extreme with either, it has to be balanced. My personality is simple - show me kindness and I will shower you with kindness hundredfold, show me a good time and I'll come back making you feel like you're at the top of the world.

I have my own people trying to approach me, getting me to chase them. Unfortunately all they see in me is my heritage, they want to show their parents that they're dating a descendant of past relics. For 3 years my crush didn't even know my actual heritage, and she was actually hoping that I would be interested in her based on her heritage. No, I am not at all interested in her heritage, I am interested in her innocence.

Show me validation, dial down the cold personality a little bit and I'll play your game. I don't tolerate rudeness. I don't call myself a Lama but my own Lama told me I have the qualities of a Lama - all I need to do is take ordination and shave my head but I don't want to. I am content with teaching only one person my whole life.

[frisson]

It takes 2 to tango, have sex / make love.
That said, I've always had better sex with my partners. Now, I'm not the kind of guy who needs to tick off every sex act from a checklist. Sometimes there's no BBBJ, usually there's DFK or just passionate kissing, etc. But regardless of those things being "given", it could be a great lovemaking session because of the passion in it. I'm the kind of guy who needs my partner to lust for me and for me to lust for her. That's what makes sex great for me. That's just me.

I'll have to admit, there are things I get to do with my wife that I'd never get from a shop or WG. Proper BB anal creampie with an anal newbie is the most incredible thing. It takes ages to prep and do but the experience is second to none! We then moved on to anal with a vibrator in her pussy once she got more adventurous. That was intense.
Bro you have the perfect sex life and you still punt. Not judging just making the observation

Everyone on this forum has high libido, obviously
I have accepted that maybe 20% of long term partners / wives will continue interest in sex until older age. Women as a generalisation have a different experience with sex than men. Man just penetrate and it's easy to do that. Women often have to contort into different postures which may be harder on the back, particularly as menopause puts weight on women

But there also appears to be a forgetting of what their man actually enjoyed when they were younger. I imagine 80% of men at least enjoy BJ. Just because they get older doesn't mean interest in these things fades in men

[GoldfishMan]

Bro you have the perfect sex life and you still punt. Not judging just making the observation

Everyone on this forum has high libido, obviously
I have accepted that maybe 20% of long term partners / wives will continue interest in sex until older age. Women as a generalisation have a different experience with sex than men. Man just penetrate and it's easy to do that. Women often have to contort into different postures which may be harder on the back, particularly as menopause puts weight on women

But there also appears to be a forgetting of what their man actually enjoyed when they were younger. I imagine 80% of men at least enjoy BJ. Just because they get older doesn't mean interest in these things fades in men

That's why it is very very important to have a much younger wife, bro. That was the advice given to me by my mum a long time ago but I didn't heed it. Married my 1st wife who was same age as me. The speed in which we matured was like heaven and earth. By the time she was ready to make a family and tone everything down, I was still young blooded and ready to fuck the world.

My current wife is 12 years younger than I am. That may sound like a big age gap to some but it isn't. In fact a more ideal gap is closer to 20. You will not regret striving for this target.

[frisson]

Pure wisdom Goldfishman. Pure wisdom

Exactly what I was try to express as well

I will never marry someone my age after your comment

Did your mother's reasons, did she mention sex to you or just energy levels?

[Vincent888]

Not everyone can handle three times a day. So you find a women she is great for you and good in bed but only does it once a day you dump her?

You stipulate sex three times a day before any commitment.

[Vincent888]

My current wife is 12 years younger than I am. That may sound like a big age gap to some but it isn't. In fact a more ideal gap is closer to 20. You will not regret striving for this target.

I need a way bigger age gap. Either that or just keep going with multiple partners.

When the sex around begins to suffer
And you can't find sex in one, find another.

[Vincent888]

That was the advice given to me by my mum a long time ago but I didn't heed it.

My mother told me to keep separate bank accounts.

I give girls a supplemental credit card to go shopping but that’s all they’ll ever get access to.

[GoldfishMan]

Pure wisdom Goldfishman. Pure wisdom

Exactly what I was try to express as well

I will never marry someone my age after your comment

Did your mother's reasons, did she mention sex to you or just energy levels?
Well, she certainly didn't elaborate about the sex part that's for sure, haha!

She didn't even reason about it from a maturity point of view. I think what she said was something along the lines of "men are not considered old until much older than women". I guess she was hoping I would clue up to it and put 2 and 2 together, but I didn't and the rest is history.

Now, I've learnt the hard way that that small advice was actually supported by a laundry list of unspoken facts. A relationship works not because one side loves/lusts/respects the other, both sides have to be doing that. Most of the things in a relationship are not within our control, but the 1 major thing we can control is how much we lust for our women. This is a huge factor in a relationship, it possibly determines success or failure.

If you end up in a situation where, down the road a few years, you find that you're repulsed by your wife or don't feel the urge to fuck her and instead go punt, then you've made a mistake and chosen the wrong partner. Slowly, your actions will cause the rest of the relationship to disintegrate.

Choosing a younger wife is just the first criteria to meet. There are others but this is criteria #1 for sure.

[JohnJones]

I have accepted that maybe 20% of long term partners / wives will continue interest in sex until older age. Women as a generalisation have a different experience with sex than men. Man just penetrate and it's easy to do that. Women often have to contort into different postures which may be harder on the back, particularly as menopause puts weight on women

But there also appears to be a forgetting of what their man actually enjoyed when they were younger. I imagine 80% of men at least enjoy BJ. Just because they get older doesn't mean interest in these things fades in men

Someone told me exactly the same words about their backs hurt during sex. Somehow reverse CG was their favourite position as well.

Getting a BJ from your wife even after many years of marriage is exciting if I were to imagine it. If for some reason she couldn't have sex for that moment I don't mind settling for BBBJ. Even better if she is adventurous enough for CIM.

[JohnJones]

Pure wisdom Goldfishman. Pure wisdom

Exactly what I was try to express as well

I will never marry someone my age after your comment

Did your mother's reasons, did she mention sex to you or just energy levels?

It's a fear that plays in the mind of many girls like a tape recorder.

I have seen a girl 15 years older than me before. That wasn't a deal breaker at all since she looked like she was the same age as me.

When considering a partner, I guess my new criteria is how she takes care of herself. If she stays slim and a little athletic I would still have a hard on seeing her even when she starts developing some wrinkles. I would like to grow old with her and show people how we developed wrinkles together.

If my partner was a decade younger than me it looks off. People would think I'm attracting young girls with money because 90% of them are like that. If I can show people that I have a partner similar age with me then it would make people think that such relationships can work out.

I think in Kdramas there's many stories of young guys falling in love with older women. I saw a TikTok video several times of a South Korean couple - the guy was in his 30s and the lady was already 50yo. Nothing wrong with that though.

[GoldfishMan]

I have seen a girl 15 years older than me before. That wasn't a deal breaker at all since she looked like she was the same age as me.

Who said anything about looks? Oh yes, you might care what type of girl you're seen to be out with....


If my partner was a decade younger than me it looks off. People would think I'm attracting young girls with money because 90% of them are like that. If I can show people that I have a partner similar age with me then it would make people think that such relationships can work out.

All that talk about deep spirituality, some shit about past live and what, you're just a superficial shallow guy who cares too much about what others think of you.
Learn a bit of YOLO. When you die and realize there isn't an afterlife, then what?

[JohnJones]

Sorry, you're being ignored because you're not constructive at all.

Your idea of YOLO doesn't apply to me at all.

[Vincent888]

If my partner was a decade younger than me it looks off. People would think I'm attracting young girls with money because 90% of them are like that. If I can show people that I have a partner similar age with me then it would make people think that such relationships can work out



Who cares what other people think? You do.

Why?

[JohnJones]

Who cares what other people think? You do.

Why?

It is better to show love and compassion rather than to show things that are impermanent. A girl decades younger than me will only hide her true intention and make a jump for it once I'm vulnerable whereas if someone the similar age as me marries me because she loves me with all her heart, we would be doing our best to make each other happy and safe.

Also I have seen it happen to my old man. His 3rd wife was 15 years younger than him. I hated her. As soon as my father passed away she thinks I'm the next ATM machine.

[JohnJones]

Who cares what other people think? You do.

Why?

Also good effort at trying to be constructive rather than your usual tone. The second paragraph is the only constructive part of your sentences btw.

[Vincent888]

Also good effort at trying to be constructive rather than your usual tone. The second paragraph is the only constructive part of your sentences btw.

I’m working and don’t have the leisure at present to keep you entertained.

[JohnJones]

I’m working and don’t have the leisure at present to keep you entertained.

Yet you reply.
Perhaps you're looking at me to entertain you?
If you have questions just shoot away. I can still forgive you if your questions comes out a little accusative.

[Vincent888]

Yet you reply.
Perhaps you're looking at me to entertain you?
If you have questions just shoot away. I can still forgive you if your questions comes out a little accusative.

Accusatory? If being asked a question is that then don’t bother responding.

[GoldfishMan]

Accusatory? If being asked a question is that then don’t bother responding.

Ignore him, bro. He's an idealistic nutcase + attention seeking whore. He sees people are getting along in a forum, he has to jump in and say "oh no, you are all wrong, I've got all the answers, look at meeeee....".

F-ing embarassing to read, but impossible to completely shut out cos he just keeps posting, lol...

[Vincent888]

Ignore him, bro. He's an idealistic nutcase + attention seeking whore. He sees people are getting along in a forum, he has to jump in and say "oh no, you are all wrong, I've got all the answers, look at meeeee....".

F-ing embarassing to read, but impossible to completely shut out cos he just keeps posting, lol...

It’s all good. I keep on posting too while I’m killing time lol.

[GoldfishMan]

It’s all good. I keep on posting too while I’m killing time lol.

At least you don't spout that spiritual crap and trying to impress your bigoted views of life on forum bros. That's what he does and it's what annoys me the most. He's like one of those crazy street preachers on the forum, lol...

[JohnJones]

At least you don't spout that spiritual crap and trying to impress your bigoted views of life on forum bros. That's what he does and it's what annoys me the most. He's like one of those crazy street preachers on the forum, lol...

I wish you well. And your next line of seven generations, if they are to exist.

[BornHoNam]

i have a punter friend who married his high school sweet heart after abt 10 yrs of marriage they divorced which they had 3 kids. Now he met the another person overseas & is planning to get marrried. The new bride is almost 25 years younger than his current age. The Bride is not a from the two countries that is considered females who want a comfort of an older man.

[JSteel96]

i have a punter friend who married his high school sweet heart after abt 10 yrs of marriage they divorced which they had 3 kids. Now he met the another person overseas & is planning to get marrried. The new bride is almost 25 years younger than his current age. The Bride is not a from the two countries that is considered females who want a comfort of an older man.

He must have to spend a fortune on child support to each of the kids till they turned 18? What country is the new bride from nothing wrong with having a younger bride. Is she Asian? If he divorced his first wife that marriage must have gone stale.

[frisson]

He must have to spend a fortune on child support to each of the kids till they turned 18? What country is the new bride from nothing wrong with having a younger bride. Is she Asian? If he divorced his first wife that marriage must have gone stale.

Did the ex-wife assume the man didn't want sex and let the marriage go cold? Men want regular intimacy, that's a fact

[JSteel96]

Yeh his ex wife must have stopped giving him any boom boom. I think many marriages end up like this where no spark is left. After ten years his marriage went stale.

[frisson]

Yeh his ex wife must have stopped giving him any boom boom. I think many marriages end up like this where no spark is left. After ten years his marriage went stale.

Don't women understand man need the boom boom like they need oxygen? Don't use excuse that I'm too tired with the housework children etc. Doesn't the man also get tired earning the main wage in many cases?

[JSteel96]

Don't women understand man need the boom boom like they need oxygen? Don't use excuse that I'm too tired with the housework children etc. Doesn't the man also get tired earning the main wage in many cases?

many women just stop doing with their hubbies it must drive the man insane. Why should a man give up his sex life if his wife is no longer putting out? When I was younger I had a GF where the sex stopped so I dumped her lol. Men can get trapped in sexless marriages. Not me, I boom boom the mrs, my regular and any other Asian lady coming my way.

[frisson]

many women just stop doing with their hubbies it must drive the man insane. Why should a man give up his sex life if his wife is no longer putting out? When I was younger I had a GF where the sex stopped so I dumped her lol. Men can get trapped in sexless marriages. Not me, I boom boom the mrs, my regular and any other Asian lady coming my way.
I can understand sex getting rare in a marriage, but with a gf? What was the reason - did she lose interest in sex?

[JohnJones]

Don't women understand man need the boom boom like they need oxygen? Don't use excuse that I'm too tired with the housework children etc. Doesn't the man also get tired earning the main wage in many cases?

A massage and taking turns to do the housework and kids might get her back into the mood. Some men don't understand the importance of sharing workload and responsibilities - they think their dicks are made of gold.

I was cleaning the house and making dinner in my previous marriage. That was because I got stressed out at many of my previous workplaces I decided to work part-time at a supermarket while I went job hunting. It was nice being sort-of a house husband but the income just wasn't enough. Nevertheless, when I went back to working full-time I'm still the one doing the housework as she was home late from work.

[JSteel96]

I can understand sex getting rare in a marriage, but with a gf? What was the reason - did she lose interest in sex?

That GF well I got put in the friend zone after a while of fucking, so she got dumped and I moved on this was back years ago. A gf partner or wife need to understand the man wants sex and wanting sex is close to wanting to eat food daily on the guys needs list. The lady needs to take care of his man or he soon lose interest and go elsewhere.

[frisson]

That GF well I got put in the friend zone after a while of fucking, so she got dumped and I moved on this was back years ago. A gf partner or wife need to understand the man wants sex and wanting sex is close to wanting to eat food daily on the guys needs list. The lady needs to take care of his man or he soon lose interest and go elsewhere.
Women have friend zone. We have punting at our disposal, and can drop friend-zoners as soon as possible

[JohnJones]

Women have friend zone. We have punting at our disposal, and can drop friend-zoners as soon as possible

I have no problems being friends only with women. So far most of my female friends are married, we don't see face to face but we sometimes talk on social media.

Some girls who are interested in me, they don't even interact with me although they add me as friends online. All because I announced that I have a girl in mind.

If my crush friendzones me, I'd let her. Then again, how long she wants to keep the game up will depend on how long she can stand not holding hands, kissing or having sex with me. Every day I can feel her anxiety, and even though my meditation calms me it may not calm her remotely. That's why I would like her to make a surefire decision ASAP so that she doesn't suffer from continuous anxiety.

As I have promised her, once we get married no more punting on my end. She gets to monitor my earnings and spendings. She gets treated like a Queen, as long as she pays respect to my spirituality - that very form of spirituality is the reason why I managed to survive such a hard life for the past 15 years, and without it I would've been living in a housing commission.

[JSteel96]

I have no problems being friends only with women. So far most of my female friends are married, we don't see face to face but we sometimes talk on social media.

Some girls who are interested in me, they don't even interact with me although they add me as friends online. All because I announced that I have a girl in mind.

If my crush friendzones me, I'd let her. Then again, how long she wants to keep the game up will depend on how long she can stand not holding hands, kissing or having sex with me. Every day I can feel her anxiety, and even though my meditation calms me it may not calm her remotely. That's why I would like her to make a surefire decision ASAP so that she doesn't suffer from continuous anxiety.

As I have promised her, once we get married no more punting on my end. She gets to monitor my earnings and spendings. She gets treated like a Queen, as long as she pays respect to my spirituality - that very form of spirituality is the reason why I managed to survive such a hard life for the past 15 years, and without it I would've been living in a housing commission.

What if you have found the perfect candidate for marriage but she don't want to ever have sex with you? She's almost perfect in every other way but the bedroom. You''ll never punt again and no more sex ever??

And you let her take control of your earnings and she spends all your money at the casino & loses it all?

[JohnJones]

What if you have found the perfect candidate for marriage but she don't want to ever have sex with you? She's almost perfect in every other way but the bedroom. You''ll never punt again and no more sex ever??

And you let her take control of your earnings and she spends all your money at the casino & loses it all?

Wow, I like these questions sometimes.
If it's my karma, so be it. The problem is, it hasn't manifested so far. Even with my ex-wife who had very little experience and was clearly not enjoying the sex as much as I did, she was giving it to me because she knew it would break the relationship if she didn't.

I guess if the time comes and she does exactly what you say, maybe a divorce would be warranted. But I won't come to conclusions immediately - I'm the kind of person who examines my faults and see if it was me ticking her off in the first place. Also, most women wouldn't simply do things such as gamble it all in a casino unlike a person I knew roughly 3 years ago - she documented in her blog that she bought a BMW and crashed it several times it had to be written off. That there is already the biggest red flag when it comes to choosing a partner.

Again, my answer is - if it's my karma, so be it.

[JSteel96]

Wow, I like these questions sometimes.
If it's my karma, so be it. The problem is, it hasn't manifested so far. Even with my ex-wife who had very little experience and was clearly not enjoying the sex as much as I did, she was giving it to me because she knew it would break the relationship if she didn't.

I guess if the time comes and she does exactly what you say, maybe a divorce would be warranted. But I won't come to conclusions immediately - I'm the kind of person who examines my faults and see if it was me ticking her off in the first place. Also, most women wouldn't simply do things such as gamble it all in a casino unlike a person I knew roughly 3 years ago - she documented in her blog that she bought a BMW and crashed it several times it had to be written off. That there is already the biggest red flag when it comes to choosing a partner.

Again, my answer is - if it's my karma, so be it.

So if your ex had little experience in the bedroom and did not enjoy sex what will you do if the next girl ends up doing the same? Maybe don't get married just living with a women till the excitement vanishes. Then replace the lady with a younger one.

Or you could marry an Asian nympho WL and get good bjs and all the sex you can handle. I can tell you if I wasn't already married and had married my regular my balls would have been drained out every day, cock sucked dry. Lucky I am taken so can't marry my regular.

I think if your next women is not enjoying it in bed you really need to stop into brothels a couple of times a week. For this reason you should manage your own bank accounts. Don't let the girl take over finances. You need to be able to buy what you want when you want even when your married.

A guy I knew with kids his wife dumped him for another man. She had control of the finances then his wife contacted child support agency and the guy was in a world of pain.

[Vincent888]

Don't women understand man need the boom boom like they need oxygen? Don't use excuse that I'm too tired with the housework children etc. Doesn't the man also get tired earning the main wage in many cases?

Sexless becomes loveless pretty quickly.

[JohnJones]

So if your ex had little experience in the bedroom and did not enjoy sex what will you do if the next girl ends up doing the same? Maybe don't get married just living with a women till the excitement vanishes. Then replace the lady with a younger one.

Or you could marry an Asian nympho WL and get good bjs and all the sex you can handle. I can tell you if I wasn't already married and had married my regular my balls would have been drained out every day, cock sucked dry. Lucky I am taken so can't marry my regular.

I think if your next women is not enjoying it in bed you really need to stop into brothels a couple of times a week. For this reason you should manage your own bank accounts. Don't let the girl take over finances. You need to be able to buy what you want when you want even when your married.

A guy I knew with kids his wife dumped him for another man. She had control of the finances then his wife contacted child support agency and the guy was in a world of pain.

I have mentioned before that I can see people's karmas. When people are constantly defensive and always trying to protect themselves it's because their karmas are very heavy. Instincts can be formed due to past life karmas.

Also, you're talking as if you're trying to entice me into spending my hard earn money punting. It's my business. I don't need more bad influences from people who try to sabotage my life then leave me for dead. My "mate" once tried convincing me not to chase a girl and told me to enjoy life punting as if the money will never stop flowing in. He was a hypocrite. And as I recalled you've mentioned what if your money dries up retiring in SEA?

I know what your intentions are, I'm just playing along. You could soon be in my ignore list.

[andrewv]

One of the most important things is there is no emotional blackmail when you pay for sex. When men have wives/partners, there is always blackmail. Many men do not notice it because their women are subtle about their manipulations. Also, if you have encountered a few men (friends/work colleagues/clients) who have been divorced, you'd know the common theme of financial ruin.

Paying for sex is cheap on most fronts. Perhaps the main downside is the health aspect and the need to wear condoms.

[JohnJones]

Everyone to their own opinions. Or the same person using multiple accounts to draw the illusion of a mob spewing out the same opinion.

Either people are ignorant, jealous or nothing but a brick wall.

Anyone else queries me about this again and I'll ignore. I don't need to be riled up just because someone can't deal with their anxiety the proper way - you know what you need to do.

[Vincent888]

One of the most important things is there is no emotional blackmail when you pay for sex. When men have wives/partners, there is always blackmail. Many men do not notice it because their women are subtle about their manipulations. Also, if you have encountered a few men (friends/work colleagues/clients) who have been divorced, you'd know the common theme of financial ruin.

Paying for sex is cheap on most fronts. Perhaps the main downside is the health aspect and the need to wear condoms.

Condoms and money are a small price to pay for emotional freedom.

[Domynoako]

Your point about sharing responsibilities really hits home for me. In a previous relationship, I took on a lot of the household chores because I was working part-time while job hunting. It was a tough balancing act, and I found that when I started working full-time again, the split in responsibilities didn't change much. It's clear that understanding and sharing the workload is important for maintaining a healthy relationship. I also found this site on adult dating and relationships that should have more tips for you - https://tosituhma.com (https://tosituhma.com/). It's definitely worth checking out if you're interested in relationship dynamics and communication.

[Sendmetheacti]

Honestly chores rarely help solve a dead bedroom.

Usually when she stops having sex with you it's because she can no longer trade her sex to get anything in return..she already got the ring the kids, etc.

Pretty commonly these women just lose all interest in sex until the divorce at which point they get the drive back for the next guy

[GoldfishMan]

Defo better with the missus for me. I can do so much more with her like getting her to wear specific sexy footwear and lingerie. Plus she's a clean freak, great for me because I love to go down on my women.

But, variety is very important so I still do punt.

[Axeman123]

Defo better with the missus for me. I can do so much more with her like getting her to wear specific sexy footwear and lingerie. Plus she's a clean freak, great for me because I love to go down on my women.

But, variety is very important so I still do punt. Now you sound like a man who knows which side of his bread is buttered . With all due respect to your wife,her willingness was that something you had to sit down together for an adult conversation for her to understand n be receptive to you n your needs. Anyways good luck to ya !!!

[Kiryu0]

Honestly chores rarely help solve a dead bedroom.

Usually when she stops having sex with you it's because she can no longer trade her sex to get anything in return..she already got the ring the kids, etc.

Pretty commonly these women just lose all interest in sex until the divorce at which point they get the drive back for the next guy

What is up with this take? Why can't it also be the guy's fault for no longer being interested in their partner coz they got too comfortable.

Is this targeted at Gold diggers, VISA seeking women?

[mn69]

What is up with this take? Why can't it also be the guy's fault for no longer being interested in their partner coz they got too comfortable.

Is this targeted at Gold diggers, VISA seeking women?

It goes both ways. Most husbands also end up gaining weight & getting fat. They dont work on themselves anymore & stop hustling. So naturally their wives lose attractiom and interest in sex with them.

Vice versa, alot of wives also gain weight & get fat.

I meant were only human. Were all physically attracted to fit good looking people

[GoldfishMan]

Now you sound like a man who knows which side of his bread is buttered . With all due respect to your wife,her willingness was that something you had to sit down together for an adult conversation for her to understand n be receptive to you n your needs. Anyways good luck to ya !!!

Never had to do any sit down convos, bro.

In fact, a few years ago when I was punting too much and started neglecting her, she started complaining that I wasn't having enough sex with her. Same thing happened with my ex-wife too. Too much punting, neglect, starts complaining about not enough sex.

It's why I cannot relate to those who complain about not getting enough sex from their partners because I've generally been getting the opposite. Up to now, at least.

[Sendmetheacti]

When a guy has this problems 9 times out of 10 it's hormonal and an easy fix with supplements.

When a girl has this problems which is way more common it usually means the relationship is over as she's NEVER getting her drive back for you. Its not a hormonal problem most of the time as when she gets with a new guy she'll be back banging raw in the back seat of the car 10 minutes before having to go to a job interview. While when she's married to you, she won't bang in a comfy bed because she has to wake up early tommorow to go to work.

[Kiryu0]

When a guy has this problems 9 times out of 10 it's hormonal and an easy fix with supplements.

When a girl has this problems which is way more common it usually means the relationship is over as she's NEVER getting her drive back for you. Its not a hormonal problem most of the time as when she gets with a new guy she'll be back banging raw in the back seat of the car 10 minutes before having to go to a job interview. While when she's married to you, she won't bang in a comfy bed because she has to wake up early tommorow to go to work.

Why does this just sound like you don't trust women or think women are the only sex that does that?

[jedibear]

My ex from almost 10 years ago is happily married and still giving green hats to her husband with me. It's about maintaining yourself and looking after yourself.

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[Sendmetheacti]

I think I've seen too much life and noticed the patterns.
I'm not really bitter or I don't hate women. I just am realistic about what's going on.

That's why I punt. I genuinely believe punting is one of them most honest and transparent interactions between men and women.


I have a partner but she just isn't into sex. She's lovely don't get me wrong but we haven't done it in 4 years.

She's got a bunch of different excuses. But I think the wise thing to do is boil it down to she doesn't want to. She just doesn't have the testosterone or mental makeup to want it as much as I do as a guy.
She would need to get something for it.

Now we're married so there's nothing more I can give her really. House, kids, ring.. she has it all, and when she got all of this is when her sex drive disappeared.

But there's plenty I can give a WL, which is why they are eager to fuck.

So that's just how women work. Men have a sex drive. They want sex for sex sake. If there was a floating vagina, a guy would probably fuck it. Women have a sex trading drive. They want to have sex to get something... Once they get that thing they physically lose interest in sex.

If I had to do it again, I'd set up a relationship where she never really gets what she wants and thus give her the gift of an eternal sex drive.

[Sendmetheacti]

Naw I've snooped everything and tracked everything lol.

Don't get me wrong If we broke up and she was dating again I know she'd suddenly get her drive back


But that kind of aligns with my theory.

Women don't have a sex drive. They have a sex trading drive. They only want it to get something else.

[GoldfishMan]

Naw I've snooped everything and tracked everything lol.

Don't get me wrong If we broke up and she was dating again I know she'd suddenly get her drive back


But that kind of aligns with my theory.

Women don't have a sex drive. They have a sex trading drive. They only want it to get something else.

Can't blame you for feeling that way, mate. 4 years without sex is a hell of a long time!

Sounds like you've got a lot on the line. I guess punting it is then. Go forth and enjoy guilt free release!

[Bman619]

It'd have to be a ML that you developed strong rapport with. The exclusive nature just drives me wild

[1inchguy]

WL porn star experience
ML/partner are similar . They could be just as dead fish and let you have your way with them and then go on about their day like nothing happened

[shtoopid_head]

I love my wife, but at the moment the thrill of punting just adds to the heat. At the moment, my regular ML have really hit off and it's driving me mad wanting to go back.

[ditchtheboss]

WL, particularly a regular who looks forward to seeing me. Best sex ever

[looser]

WL, particularly a regular who looks forward to seeing me. Best sex ever

Yes, definitely a WL who looks forward to seeing me, although they are getting a bit thin on the ground now :-)

[dgf]

Your point about sharing responsibilities really hits home for me. In a previous relationship, I took on a lot of the household chores because I was working part-time while job hunting. It was a tough balancing act, and I found that when I started working full-time again, the split in responsibilities didn't change much. It's clear that understanding and sharing the workload is important for maintaining a healthy relationship. I also found this site on adult dating and relationships that should have more tips for you - https://tosituhma.com (https://tosituhma.com/). It's definitely worth checking out if you're interested in relationship dynamics and communication.

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[Double_Adapter]

A lot of you guys are in relationships. Some are not. I would like to know can a girlfriend or wife have sex with you as well as or better than an adult service provider?

Every day I read reviews about who gives the best BBBJ or the best DFK etc

Considering WL’s and ML’s are great in bed and have to perform several times daily it’s safe to assume that a girlfriend or wife could not equal or better a WL or ML when it comes to sex.

That a girlfriend or wife could not match a WL or ML in stamina. That a girlfriend or wife simply cannot do or refuses to do everything a WL or ML does.

Would this be correct?

You've just.described the Madonna Whore Complex bro - simply put

Where such men (eg punter, average bloke etc) love (ie wife, girlfriend etc) but have no desire, and what they desire they cannot love (WL, ML, SB etc)

....though some blokes here tend to break that rule (quite regularly) by falling in love with the WL/ML

[Themassageking]

I've never had a good root in a brothel. Best fucks have been with a ML.

[ChadThunderrcock]

Hands down a ML/WL have been the best roots.

No GF or Wife can even come close.

[Vader]

Partners hands down.

[HorneyGollum]

ML/WL gets my vote

[justincase]

The paid regular performer gives it till you lose interest

[fixatedperson]

The best sex I've had was with a FWB who let me cum in her ass and face fuck her with her toes in my mouth.

Then again I had some memorable sessions with a regular WL for years. She was in her 30s. I would see her on Valentine's Day. We would BBBJ 69 before I pounded her then cuddling and napping the rest of the session. Everything was so warm and loving. I wonder where she is now.