Should a woman dress to impress her partner?

[Vincent888]

When you visit a place for paid sex the ladies are dressed to entice you. On the other hand a lot of guys with partners come home to well…

Is it the responsibility of a female to remain attractive to her partner?

I say this because I’ve read on here that most guys that visit paid sex places are already in a relationship.

If the flower was pretty the bee wouldn’t fly away.

Would it ?

[JSteel96]

I hope when I turn up to her place shes totally naked.

[GoldfishMan]

"If the flower was pretty the bee wouldn’t fly away."

Not really. The bee flies away after he has had his fill of nectar. When the bee needs nectar again, he makes his way back to the beautiful flower, but alas, along the way he also encounters many other beautiful flowers, so....

[Meng]

The same could be said about the bloke also right? Gotta keep fit. Don't get a beer gut, dress well, smell good etc.

[Vincent888]

"If the flower was pretty the bee wouldn’t fly away."

Not really. The bee flies away after he has had his fill of nectar. When the bee needs nectar again, he makes his way back to the beautiful flower, but alas, along the way he also encounters many other beautiful flowers, so....

So it is beauty that entices. Perhaps some female partners should pick up their game?

Otherwise stray flowers are bound to be encountered.

[Vincent888]

The same could be said about the bloke also right? Gotta keep fit. Don't get a beer gut, dress well, smell good etc.


In some of the porn I watch there’s a guy who is the epitome of what I’m trying to achieve.

Hairy chest, mullet hairstyle, pornstar mo and rotund. Sharp dresser too, Hawaiian shirts, loafers with tassels, assorted unmatched gold chains and when he’s going out and dresses to impress he wears a safari suit.

Plus the girls all seem to cream over him.

He goes against the norm.

Bit like me.

[Vincent888]

I hope when I turn up to her place shes totally naked.

I had one GF on the side I told to always wear tights when I met her. No underwear. She was my camel toe babe. She put it on show every time I met her. She cheated on her BF too. He was older but didn’t give it enough.

I’d pump her on one side of sydney harbour while my other GF was working across the water on the other side. I’d often look out the window and wonder if she saw me doing this other girl?

Silly thought I know but we were only a couple of hundred metres apart.

[charmingninjaman]

When you visit a place for paid sex the ladies are dressed to entice you. On the other hand a lot of guys with partners come home to well…

Is it the responsibility of a female to remain attractive to her partner?

I say this because I’ve read on here that most guys that visit paid sex places are already in a relationship.

If the flower was pretty the bee wouldn’t fly away.

Would it ?

Women should do their best and look after themselves to keep their partners interested. Men should also do the same.

[Vincent888]

Women should do their best and look after themselves to keep their partners interested. Men should also do the same.

It’s the social media warriors that tell people the wrong thing. It’s ok to be this, it’s ok to be that. No it’s not ok if it turns your partner off you.

It’s a false narrative.

Everyone is in charge of their own appearance.

[GoldfishMan]

It’s the social media warriors that tell people the wrong thing. It’s ok to be this, it’s ok to be that. No it’s not ok if it turns your partner off you.

It’s a false narrative.

Everyone is in charge of their own appearance.

I genuinely LOL when I see any "body positive" lady in the news. Invariably they would show the picture of a fat obese woman.

So much for being woke... They need to wake up and realise they're just plain lazy not to restrain themselves from eating too much of the bad stuff.

EDIT: Take a look at this article below. On one hand we've got Emrata looking as hot as ever. On the other, Tess Holiday who's just a fat lady hiding behind a "body positive" facade. Only another fat, lazy and self-entitled person would agree with what she's advocating.

https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/celebrity-life/celebrity-photos/model-emily-ratajkowski-is-being-slammed-over-a-photo-that-people-are-calling-fatphobic/news-story/9958027c09e19b0619689974fad369a0

[Vincent888]

I genuinely LOL when I see any "body positive" lady in the news. Invariably they would show the picture of a fat obese woman.

So much for being woke... They need to wake up and realise they're just plain lazy not to restrain themselves from eating too much of the bad stuff.



Society tends towards immobility.

Let’s start with the Big Bang theory. No I’m not talking about an overseas jaunt in Bangkok.

The explosion that created everything.

From that first event everything is now slowing down. That’s a given. That being the case humans are therefore preordained to slow down.

Those that slow down prematurely suffer the consequences.

[Kiki kong]

I think just like a business relationship, for it to do well. Each side needs to put it equal effort. Whether it be looks, smell, hygiene and body image it needs to try meet the standard.

Some may disagree but these are my principles in general. Yes I still punt because I want to, and enjoy the thrill of it. Nothing more or less.

[Vincent888]

I think just like a business relationship, for it to do well. Each side needs to put it equal effort. Whether it be looks, smell, hygiene and body image it needs to try meet the standard.

Some may disagree but these are my principles in general. Yes I still punt because I want to, and enjoy the thrill of it. Nothing more or less.

How many businesses fail?

I’ve had relationships that failed because “I was there, but wasn’t”. Someone has to make the dollars.

I’ve never met a woman who could support me, it’s always me buying them cars, me paying for everything. I don’t even care about that. It’s just a statement I’m putting out there.. That’s the price I pay for GF pussy.

For example I bought one a new three series BMW and I even put petrol in it every week. Got it serviced etc, paid insurance and rego got it cleaned etc etc

Then after two years of driving she txts me, “how do I put fuel in this car”? I thought “fuck I’ve been doing that for two friggin’ years”!!!

How lazy has she become?

My appearance hasn’t changed. My partners have though. Things become too easy. Easy lifestyle, don’t have to work, use the BF’s money.

Eventually they let themselves go, don’t maintain they’re attractiveness and they’re dropped. They didn’t keep their side of the relationship up to spec.

All I need is a GF who maintains herself with my support. Till then I punt.

Surely can’t be hard to find?

[GoldfishMan]

Eventually they let themselves go, don’t maintain they’re attractiveness and they’re dropped. They didn’t keep their side of the relationship up to spec.

All I need is a GF who maintains herself with my support. Till then I punt.

Surely can’t be hard to find?

What you need to be looking for is a mistress, not a GF or wife. Or at least if you're getting a GF, don't move in with her and keep the line firmly drawn that you're still dating and not going defacto or becoming "steady".

The mistress is the best arrangement. It would be implied that you're with her because of her physical attractiveness. You're supporting her and giving her stuff because of that. Once this is firmly set in her mind, and she's happy with the arrangement, she will keep herself in shape for sure.

Also when you're living with a woman, you tend to see her when she's not at her best. It's not her "letting herself go" in that case, she's just not always dolled up like a mistress would be. That plain Jane look can build up and before you know it, you've lost interest.

[dvu420]

They say a man loves with his eyes while a woman loves with her ears.

[Vincent888]

What you need to be looking for is a mistress, not a GF or wife. Or at least if you're getting a GF, don't move in with her and keep the line firmly drawn that you're still dating and not going defacto or becoming "steady".

The mistress is the best arrangement. It would be implied that you're with her because of her physical attractiveness. You're supporting her and giving her stuff because of that. Once this is firmly set in her mind, and she's happy with the arrangement, she will keep herself in shape for sure.

Also when you're living with a woman, you tend to see her when she's not at her best. It's not her "letting herself go" in that case, she's just not always dolled up like a mistress would be. That plain Jane look can build up and before you know it, you've lost interest.

I’ve always said a man only needs a mistress and a housekeeper. Quite a lot of guys I know do just that.

There is no need for a live in anything.

A lot of other established guys I know date a girl then she turns up with a suitcase. Followed by another suitcase. They tell me “I’m his girlfriend”, yeah that’s nice. You and the twenty others I’ve met this year said the same…

[frisson]

"If the flower was pretty the bee wouldn’t fly away."

Not really. The bee flies away after he has had his fill of nectar. When the bee needs nectar again, he makes his way back to the beautiful flower, but alas, along the way he also encounters many other beautiful flowers, so....
Great post. Nice

[frisson]

They say a man loves with his eyes while a woman loves with her ears.

This thread is full of punting wisdom

[Double_Adapter]

When you visit a place for paid sex the ladies are dressed to entice you. On the other hand a lot of guys with partners come home to well…

Is it the responsibility of a female to remain attractive to her partner?

I say this because I’ve read on here that most guys that visit paid sex places are already in a relationship.

If the flower was pretty the bee wouldn’t fly away.

Would it ?

Come on Vinnie you can do better than that! ....this is fucken fundamental 101 shit!

Anyway for what its worth - If any chicks frequent this forum please make note. This also applies to any betas, incels, deltas, simps, dudes with manginas et al

The only way to seduce a man is through his 5 senses ie sight, hearv, touch, scent, and taste.
So if a woman looks amazing, if she smells great, if she feels smooth, delicate and soft, if she tastes good, and knows what to say and how to stroke a man's ego - then she can literally conquer any man.
If you ever find such a woman she's a unicorn, a hidden gem, and a keeper. Keep her close to you and don't you fucken dare let her go.

The problem is that women can rarely seduce men using all 5 senses for prolonged periods of time. If she's in her rags then she ain't gonna be tasting or smelling great. If she's given birth, eats like a pig, or has aged like milk then she ain't gonna be looking amazing. If it's that time of the month or she's hormonal/menopausal then she ain't gonna be saying the right things or stroking any egos.

And this is the main reason why one single woman cannot fully satisfy a man. Ergo a man will seek and find other women that can satisfy his other senses. And that is the reason why men punt, why they have rotations, mistresses, sugar babies, sugar mammas, why they have several regulars, and why they cheat and lie.

[ColesBag]

They say a man loves with his eyes while a woman loves with her ears.

When my cock is inside her it's saying alot of things.

[ReginaldBubbles]

Come on Vinnie you can do better than that! ....this is fucken fundamental 101 shit!

Anyway for what its worth - If any chicks frequent this forum please make note. This also applies to any betas, incels, deltas, simps, dudes with manginas et al

The only way to seduce a man is through his 5 senses ie sight, hearv, touch, scent, and taste.
So if a woman looks amazing, if she smells great, if she feels smooth, delicate and soft, if she tastes good, and knows what to say and how to stroke a man's ego - then she can literally conquer any man.
If you ever find such a woman she's a unicorn, a hidden gem, and a keeper. Keep her close to you and don't you fucken dare let her go.

The problem is that women can rarely seduce men using all 5 senses for prolonged periods of time. If she's in her rags then she ain't gonna be tasting or smelling great. If she's given birth, eats like a pig, or has aged like milk then she ain't gonna be looking amazing. If it's that time of the month or she's hormonal/menopausal then she ain't gonna be saying the right things or stroking any egos.

And this is the main reason why one single woman cannot fully satisfy a man. Ergo a man will seek and find other women that can satisfy his other senses. And that is the reason why men punt, why they have rotations, mistresses, sugar babies, sugar mammas, why they have several regulars, and why they cheat and lie.

Serious question. Do you have any female friends? Like just friends whose company you enjoy just for conversation and personality etc?

[frisson]

We promise each other to keep sex active no matter how long we are married because more sex is better marriage

If this is true, this is a great agreement. If only all marriage contracts included this legal clause

[frisson]

The only way to seduce a man is through his 5 senses ie sight, hearv, touch, scent, and taste.
So if a woman looks amazing, if she smells great, if she feels smooth, delicate and soft, if she tastes good, and knows what to say and how to stroke a man's ego - then she can literally conquer any man.
If you ever find such a woman she's a unicorn, a hidden gem, and a keeper. Keep her close to you and don't you fucken dare let her go
I said this elsewhere but sex for many women just isn't as high a priority as 'life security'. Engrave this in marble tablets as it's true

Be very aware about this principle, before you choose your life partner

Once many women are married, then the objective of 'life security' has been achieved, and many, not all women, feel they have no further obligation apart from taking care of the home

With the many physical and hormonal changes that also occur in women, sagging body and boobs, and sagging self image, as they get older, they no longer prioritise what their man may want (as sex is a want more than a need they think)
Even womens' facial skin gets really dry in many cases, and women do need facial makeup almost without exception. Compared to men whose testosterone always keeps their facial skin hydrated

Obviously there are many women who do value the sexual relationship with their partner, don't get me wrong. If you can marry one of those women, you have no need to punt imho

[frisson]

Mister frisson, are you married? My wife used to worry about security when we first married. She always complain my job not high enough pay, how can have kids? One day she think, think, think, finally she make her decision to have kids even when my salary not high enough. Because she scared her body getting too old to get pregnant. When we have first baby i still have same pay but we learn to budget our income together. I only start to change job for higher pay when my son turn 2 years. That year she so happy she decide to have second kid. I really enjoy my life, every day she wants me to cum inside her.

We have so many worry even before we get married. Later she learn she no need to worry because I am there to support her no matter up or down. When I have low salary I didn't punt at all. Nowadays I punt only if I have spare cash save from buying lunch. My wife control bank account but she is not strict with cash in my wallet. 5 years of marriage, not easy life but worth it. Even if she catch me punting I will beg her not to divorce me, because I care about her & our two kids.

Get a burner phone. Now. Keep it safe and very secret. You have a great wife, you want to keep that important relationship

[TheBigChungus]

Yes, nothing off putting than walking inside that door to see a WL in sweats and all messy.

If it’s my partner I wouldn’t care but if I’m paying oh yes I will.

[justincase]

Serious question. Do you have any female friends? Like just friends whose company you enjoy just for conversation and personality etc?

Yes, most are in their twenties early thirties as I’m selective.

[11Bravo]

Yes, most are in their twenties early thirties as I’m selective. They’re all very kissy cuddly and confide in me. In fact they open up to me with all their problems. We discuss everything except my sex life of course, only one female knows about it and she’s a player not a sex worker and we share advice, very frank and very open but I’d never sleep with her as she’s not my type.

I don’t hang with older women as I just don’t want to be seen socialising with them and only last week one of my friends told me he’s dropping this well known blonde model because she’s getting too old. I was surprised but then again he’s been doing the same thing for years, dropping them and selecting younger.

To impress my friends with a piece of eye candy on my arm... that wouldn't impress MY friends. To impress the crowd? Nah, really couldn't care less. I don't need the crowd to part for my passing (HINT: when you do need the crowd to part, muss your hair, pull out one shirttail, pants lopsided, shuffle, and loudly mumble nonsense; crowd parts like Moses at the Red Sea, no God required). For my own ego? Nah, I'm not that needy.

She has to be attractive to me, and it's attitude that counts. I have one business associate that, yes, a bit of sag in her jowls now, but when she breaks into THAT smile, that's ALL I see, and she's the girl I first met 7 years ago. With her attention and ATTITUDE... time machine.

Another, when we walked through a restaurant, ALL heads would turn; men drooling, women glaring. Macht nichts to me. She was fun, with a great attitude. Looked good, decked out on the town, pool party bikini, even when in one of my old t-shirts, helping to mop the floor when we were getting ready for a dinner party. Attitude.

You hear it from the whining newbs: but she LOOKED fantastic, that's why I picked her. Smiling? No. Eye contact? No. But she looked so good, I wanted HER. Like the old knight said, "choose wisely".

You walked into the party like you were walking onto a yacht
Your hat strategically dipped below one eye
Your scarf it was apricot
You had one eye in the mirror, as you watched yourself gavotte
And all the girls dreamed that they'd be your partner
They'd be your partner and
You're so vain
You probably think this song is about you
You're so vain (you're so vain)
I bet you think this song is about you
Don't you, don't you?

Carly Simon

[MindTheGap]

Is this a serious question? Relationships 101. Quid pro quo.

[AusBargainPussy]

lmfaooooo look who revived a thread from 2023 where the OP was Vincent....

[westsydneypunter]

One word: Yes

[HiredGoon]

One word: yes she should

Three words even!
Define"should". Give a woman a reason and she will make an effort.

[Double_Adapter]

Should a woman dress to impress her partner? What type of horseshit question is that?

Every bloke knows it’s not the dressing, but the undressing that impresses him the most.

[Vikdeeznuts]

You want her to dress like honeymoon every day, but you walking around like retired wicketkeeper with no runs since 2003.

In yoga we say. When the root chakra is blocked, the mouth starts talking rubbish. Instead of fixing your aura, you’re blaming her aura for not wearing eyeliner?

Bro, she’s not your IPL cheerleader. Maybe try being her peace instead of her pressure.

And remember even in cricket, if pitch is dry, don’t blame the grass. Maybe you forgot how to bat.

[hornedbeast]

Might as well go abroad. 'Love you long time'. Unlike cranky and grumpy Aussie girls seemingly on the rag all the time.