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Ajinomoto
07-01-2024, 01:32 PM
Suggestions on how to quit punting.

First step is realising you are addicted.

Next step is to cut down.

But how can you cut it out completely?

drdummy
07-01-2024, 01:35 PM
I guess you need to find a commitment, and willing to go into it, make yourself busy, then u can quit.

Kiki kong
07-01-2024, 01:40 PM
Suggestions on how to quit punting.

First step is realising you are addicted.

Next step is to cut down.

But how can you cut it out completely?

Empty your wallet and your bank account and give it to your gf or wife.

If you don't have either, I'd happily hold your money for you 🤪

Kiki kong
07-01-2024, 01:42 PM
Honest reply would be to try to find a hobby that minimizes the thought of punting. Keeping your mind as busy as possible, reach out to friends to hang out or take up a new sport.

Practically anything that takes up your time away from punting time.

ditchtheboss
07-01-2024, 01:47 PM
I can say I have quit completely but I am sure I will come back, if nothing else just checking this forum and contributing is a sign that I will be back eventually.

Punting and the brothels used to be very convenient to my daily routines. Near or on the way to/from work or other normal routines of life. I used to be working very close to 42G and used to pop into the city frequently and I would always end up at one of the Ginzas. All changed when my routines particularly related to work took me to northwest of Sydney. No more 42G or trips to the city. I can go into town any time and punt any time but with the reduction in frequency came the reduction in the desire. I lost interest in the transactional nature of the exchange no matter how well I got along with my frequent girls. I don’t like the transactional which led me into relationships with girls and that was not a good idea at all so when my routine changed I changed the lifestyle and with that I lost the desire for transactional sex.

That was just me. I am sure I will do it again sometime but I have been away for quite a while now.

Just me

ColesBag
07-01-2024, 01:51 PM
Suggestions on how to quit punting.

First step is realising you are addicted.

Next step is to cut down.

But how can you cut it out completely?

Starting a thread about quitting punting in one thread & then in another passing on punter suggestions to the owner of a shop.

Are you conflicted or something?

Ajinomoto
07-01-2024, 02:09 PM
I may want to open a massage shop in the future. I need to start by abstaining from punani. I’m happy to pass on suggestions to the boss man and try to shadow him. Will be good learning for me.

JSteel96
07-01-2024, 02:25 PM
To quit punting cut off your sausage :) But seriously most of us are addicted. Permanently.

rooter
07-01-2024, 02:53 PM
I don't think most of us are addicted to punting or want to quit punting.
I think most of us just enjoy doing it and choose to do it.
Addicted is if you don't want to do it, and its wrecking your life, and you try to stop doing it, but you can't stop, and you feel bad for doing it.
That may be the case with a minority of punters, but I think the majority of us just punt, and enjoy punting, and do it within our budget, and do it without wrecking our lives or the lives of our loved ones.
If punting is totally fucking you up psychologically and financially, and fucking up your relationships then yeah you have a problem and you should seek help, but if it's not then just enjoy it. Enjoy it guilt free.
I guess that's the question we all need to ask ourselves. Am I doing this because I enjoy it and I want to do it and I feel good after doing it? If so then then keep on punting and enjoy! Or am I doing it because I need to do it, and I feel like shit after doing it? In this case ask yourself some serious questions and maybe get some help.

begov94
07-01-2024, 03:25 PM
First, affirm yourself - No money, no honey.

Then affirm yourself - No money. Even if you've won the Lotto, believe that you have no money.

Finally, when the belief of "No money" sets in, "No honey" will set in automatically.

That's it.

It's about coming to terms with reality. If you think you have money even when you don't, you will start spending the money you don't have just to experience some temporary honey.

Now I'm not sure if there's anyone crazy enough to draw down personal loans just to experience mind blowing punts but that's stupid. You'll only get addicted and it'll become worse.

begov94
07-01-2024, 03:35 PM
I may want to open a massage shop in the future. I need to start by abstaining from punani. I’m happy to pass on suggestions to the boss man and try to shadow him. Will be good learning for me.

Will you be the ML?

Which one are you? Alissa, ppwyang or Jazmine?

legitl
07-01-2024, 03:51 PM
What worked for me was finding a new hobby that was just as expensive. Get into cars/watches/audio etc, i'd find that I'd rather have a tangible item forever than a 30min experience.

GoldfishMan
07-01-2024, 04:02 PM
I don't think most of us are addicted to punting or want to quit punting.
I think most of us just enjoy doing it and choose to do it.
Addicted is if you don't want to do it, and its wrecking your life, and you try to stop doing it, but you can't stop, and you feel bad for doing it.
That may be the case with a minority of punters, but I think the majority of us just punt, and enjoy punting, and do it within our budget, and do it without wrecking our lives or the lives of our loved ones.
If punting is totally fucking you up psychologically and financially, and fucking up your relationships then yeah you have a problem and you should seek help, but if it's not then just enjoy it. Enjoy it guilt free.
I guess that's the question we all need to ask ourselves. Am I doing this because I enjoy it and I want to do it and I feel good after doing it? If so then then keep on punting and enjoy! Or am I doing it because I need to do it, and I feel like shit after doing it? In this case ask yourself some serious questions and maybe get some help.

Exactly my thoughts about being addicted. I know what an addiction feels like and punting definitely does not have the same qualities as a real addiction. As long as I can get my rocks off any which way, it satiates the urge. I no longer feel like going to see a WG. That means that whatever I can get from punting is substitutable.

It is NOT an addiction, and you defo can stop punting if you choose to. That is what you need to be telling yourself.

Ajinomoto
07-01-2024, 04:07 PM
First, affirm yourself - No money, no honey.

Then affirm yourself - No money. Even if you've won the Lotto, believe that you have no money.

Finally, when the belief of "No money" sets in, "No honey" will set in automatically.

That's it.

It's about coming to terms with reality. If you think you have money even when you don't, you will start spending the money you don't have just to experience some temporary honey.

Now I'm not sure if there's anyone crazy enough to draw down personal loans just to experience mind blowing punts but that's stupid. You'll only get addicted and it'll become worse.

Agree with this mate. You’re spot on.

Ajinomoto
07-01-2024, 04:08 PM
What worked for me was finding a new hobby that was just as expensive. Get into cars/watches/audio etc, i'd find that I'd rather have a tangible item forever than a 30min experience.

True but when you die you can’t take your Rolex, car or anythibg with you. But you can die knowing you had 1,000 good roots.

Sibon
07-01-2024, 04:23 PM
Suggestions on how to quit punting.

First step is realising you are addicted.

Next step is to cut down.

But how can you cut it out completely?

Best way is to have a few dud punts.

Sibon
07-01-2024, 04:25 PM
True but when you die you can’t take your Rolex, car or anythibg with you. But you can die knowing you had 1,000 good roots.

Why not? You can be buried with your Rolex, car or anything you like.

GoldfishMan
07-01-2024, 04:32 PM
True but when you die you can’t take your Rolex, car or anythibg with you. But you can die knowing you had 1,000 good roots.

You can't take them with you, but you'll have had the experience of owning, using or wearing those items. Fucking is not the only joyful experience that you can cherish.

Seis
07-01-2024, 04:44 PM
Suggestions on how to quit punting.

First step is realising you are addicted.

Next step is to cut down.

But how can you cut it out completely?

Best steps to quit an addiction is replacing it with another one(choose a healthier one). Since you need to fill the empty spaces/time cause by quitting your hobbies.

Or just be broke, can't punt if you are broke

begov94
07-01-2024, 07:07 PM
But you can die knowing you had 1,000 good roots.

That's the lie people tell themselves whenever they're in a ditch to make themselves feel better. If you keep on indulging in anything it's never going to be enough. You never find an alcoholic who says "I've drank 1,000 good whiskies".

begov94
07-01-2024, 07:09 PM
Why not? You can be buried with your Rolex, car or anything you like.

The Chinese will often burn paper Rolex watches, paper cars, paper mansions and even paper maids/security guards for their dearly departed during Hungry ghost festival. Maybe the OP can request anyone still alive after their deaths to burn paper MLs and WLs in the hundreds.

sugardady
07-01-2024, 07:29 PM
the problem of myself to go to punting, it is because of the stress from work, of course I started because I want to enjoy more, but after few years, I am a bit sick and tired of most of the business transacton, you go in ejected and then u still empty. I know sometime i dont want to go, but at the same time, this seems the only way to make me feels better, and not bring the shit to home.

Mr.Robot
07-01-2024, 07:53 PM
By not reading this forum

Gillbros
07-01-2024, 08:25 PM
This is probably not the best forum to ask for advice on giving up punting. Seeing we are all punters. Like asking a bookmaker how to give up gambling. I am sure there are Church Forums you could reach out to .5 Hail Marys and a prayer to save your mortal soul from burning in Hades for all.eternity.

woodland
07-01-2024, 08:58 PM
The Chinese will often burn paper Rolex watches, paper cars, paper mansions and even paper maids/security guards for their dearly departed during Hungry ghost festival. Maybe the OP can request anyone still alive after their deaths to burn paper MLs and WLs in the hundreds.

I've never seen any Chinese do that.

woodland
07-01-2024, 08:59 PM
By not reading this forum

Maybe by reading this forum, because you're possibly sharing body fluids with this bunch. might put you off.

Percy1
07-01-2024, 09:13 PM
I've never seen any Chinese do that.

Maybe you should watch more Chinese then

JSteel96
07-01-2024, 09:20 PM
I got Asian MILF ladies on my mind strong tonight there is only one fix. Pay the money and see a Asian honey and get the itch taken care of.

poida
07-01-2024, 09:33 PM
Pretty hard to quit unless something external happens to ‘force’ it.

For me it was a combo of things, several bad punts, getting STDs, reduction in spare cash, and then getting busted by my gf. Main thing was the major drain on money, it was getting out of hand. Been out of the scene for almost a year now. Do i miss it? Some times but now all my money gets automatically pushed into other more sensible vices.

Still enjoy coming to aus99 to read all the stories and reviews.

begov94
07-01-2024, 10:35 PM
I've never seen any Chinese do that.

https://edition.cnn.com/travel/article/hong-kong-hungry-ghost-festival/index.html

The photo not only has a paper offering of a house with cars and security guards but also a guard dog.

This is very common with Chinese cultures in SE Asia.

woodland
07-01-2024, 10:41 PM
this is interesting - thanks for the link

The Sampler
08-01-2024, 06:52 AM
One of the best ways to quit is to go out of your way to purposely go to a shit shop for a dud punt!

Waste of time, money and soul will GeT your off punting for a while! Lol

xapoya
08-01-2024, 11:39 AM
How to quit punting? Don't. Just keep punting within budget. If your budget too low then live in a farm and punt with every farm animals you see

suka03
08-01-2024, 11:49 AM
i’m not married yet but I will but what’s your opinion. do you guys still punt after marriage?

begov94
08-01-2024, 12:09 PM
i’m not married yet but I will but what’s your opinion. do you guys still punt after marriage?

Not for me. Sex during marriage may not be PSE style but I'm content with GFE sex with the wifey.

Somebeardyfella
08-01-2024, 02:02 PM
I'm cutting back and the easiest way to stop myself giving in is leaving my wallet at home. I pay with everything through my phone these days, driving licence and medicare card on there too, so I don't really need my wallet with me - except to take out cash for a punt. No cash, no punt because I'm not dumb enough to pay by card

andrewv
08-01-2024, 02:20 PM
I did quit for a couple of years a while back. I did it by setting a monthly budget of $200, and once spent you wait to the start of the following month. It was dropping visiting shops to once a month. Once you get used to punting once a month, you try to make it once every 2 months.... after a while you don't miss it.

Sibon
08-01-2024, 05:27 PM
"To give up punting your mind and body must be ready for it" - Sibon

I hope this is my most famous saying.

Sibon
08-01-2024, 05:30 PM
I've never seen any Chinese do that.

And you haven't see Moses, Gandhi, Mother Theresa, Tasmanian Tiger etc. too.

But they exist.

ditchtheboss
08-01-2024, 05:34 PM
"To give up punting your mind and body must be ready for it" - Sibon

I hope this is my most famous saying.

The depth of wisdom is beyond what I can understand

1inchguy
08-01-2024, 05:45 PM
You can try hypnosis.
Not sure if that's a thing ��


But I'm thinking of cutting back too. Its to the point I couldn't be bothered travelling far to punt then travel back home.


Local punts are a dud, unattractive or old milfs FS shop or expensive massage shops that lake the massage or fs..


Local punts

ditchtheboss
08-01-2024, 05:48 PM
You can try hypnosis.
Not sure if that's a thing ��


But I'm thinking of cutting back too. Its to the point I couldn't be bothered travelling far to punt then travel back home.


Local punts are a dud, unattractive or old milfs FS shop or expensive massage shops that lake the massage or fs..


Local punts

That’s how I pretty much have quit myself but given I am back co tributing here I think it is just a matter of time for me to return. Having said that I am pretty sure my frequency of punts will reduce dramatically from the crazy stuff I used to do

begov94
08-01-2024, 06:10 PM
And you haven't see Moses, Gandhi, Mother Theresa, Tasmanian Tiger etc. too.

But they exist.

What about the Happy Science religion? I saw one nearby Lane Cove on the Pacific Motorway heading to Chatswood. Not sure what god they pray to, very confusing.

begov94
08-01-2024, 06:13 PM
You can try hypnosis.
Not sure if that's a thing ��


But I'm thinking of cutting back too. Its to the point I couldn't be bothered travelling far to punt then travel back home.


Local punts are a dud, unattractive or old milfs FS shop or expensive massage shops that lake the massage or fs..


Local punts

You can hypnotise yourself into believing that you're 12 inches rather than just 1.

RodgHerMoore
08-01-2024, 07:17 PM
Find a cute pyt at a legit shop who gives an awesome pro legit massage. I just had an awesome session for $80 amd got subtle reverse motorboat and very slight touches. Why would i want to waste on RnT.

1inchguy
08-01-2024, 07:31 PM
You can hypnotise yourself into believing that you're 12 inches rather than just 1.

Works with a magnifying glass

Sibon
08-01-2024, 07:35 PM
You can hypnotise yourself into believing that you're 12 inches rather than just 1.

1" is more welcomed by MLs than 12".

May even get a discount.

:)

begov94
08-01-2024, 07:44 PM
1" is more welcomed by MLs than 12".

May even get a discount.

:)

Also if you practice No fap for a whole month - the ML will definitely be delighted to serve a customer that cums within 1 second of touching.

I remember a time when I didn't fap for months when I was younger, I actually came before I got hard. But it didn't take long to commence second round.

hornedbeast
08-01-2024, 09:41 PM
Maybe book some dud punts e.g. 60yo Indian lady out Parramatta way with questionable hygiene practices. Will turn you off punts for a while.

Double_Adapter
09-01-2024, 07:09 AM
Maybe book some dud punts e.g. 60yo Indian lady out Parramatta way with questionable hygiene practices. Will turn you off punts for a while.


Fuck bro that's gut churning. If you wanna quit permanently a 3hr $1000 session c/w a STD should do the trick.

https://www.escortsandbabes.com.au/Profile/NSW/Sydney/Independent/INDIANSHEENA/

Sibon
09-01-2024, 07:55 AM
Fuck bro that's gut churning. If you wanna quit permanently a 3hr $1000 session c/w a STD should do the trick.

https://www.escortsandbabes.com.au/Profile/NSW/Sydney/Independent/INDIANSHEENA/

After reading some posts in this thread if it doesn't make you quit punting nothing will.

Sibon
09-01-2024, 07:57 AM
How to quit punting?

Destitution will make you quit punting

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suka03
09-01-2024, 08:07 AM
Asking to those married person. how do you guys still punt or get away from mrs? have anyone ever get caught by the mrs?

JSteel96
09-01-2024, 11:54 AM
Asking to those married person. how do you guys still punt or get away from mrs? have anyone ever get caught by the mrs?

I never been caught basically you have to cover all your tracks and keep a straight poker face. Married guys who punt have their own systems like squeeze in a punt in the lunch break or mid morning. I read one story where a married guy punted then went fishing so if he came back a little smelly who would be the wiser? Shower after each time is a must and make sure you get no lipstick stains on your shirt or scratches on your back. I've also read stories of guys who got caught and lost everything. The biggest problem for me is local brothels are all close by. To much temptations. The risk is more so getting a sexual infection.

xapoya
09-01-2024, 01:23 PM
I never been caught basically you have to cover all your tracks and keep a straight poker face. Married guys who punt have their own systems like squeeze in a punt in the lunch break or mid morning. I read one story where a married guy punted then went fishing so if he came back a little smelly who would be the wiser? Shower after each time is a must and make sure you get no lipstick stains on your shirt or scratches on your back. I've also read stories of guys who got caught and lost everything. The biggest problem for me is local brothels are all close by. To much temptations. The risk is more so getting a sexual infection.

Massage shops the best place to punt when married or in relationship as they're usually situated near shopping mall strips and not industrial suburbs near car wreckers like many brothels. Put on airplane mode while punting and if she asks say that you're in basement parking, phone reception very bad.

JSteel96
09-01-2024, 02:01 PM
Massage shops the best place to punt when married or in relationship as they're usually situated near shopping mall strips and not industrial suburbs near car wreckers like many brothels. Put on airplane mode while punting and if she asks say that you're in basement parking, phone reception very bad.

My mrs knows by now that my phone is off when I am busy working on my business there are several brothels around here which I rather than massage shops. Go for the full service every time.

rooter
09-01-2024, 02:57 PM
Simple solution Don't quit.
If you quit punting and butter and bacon and pizza and alcohol and everything else that gives you pleasure in life then yeah you will probably live to 100 and you will live 100 boring miserable years. Congratulations!
My motto was always, live fast die young leave a good looking corpse.
But I am over 50yo now so now it's more like ... live sort of fast, die middle aged, leave a slightly saggy but still semi hot corpse :)

Sibon
09-01-2024, 03:00 PM
.... The risk is more so getting a sexual infection.

Tell the Mrs you've caught it sitting on a bus. :)

Double_Adapter
09-01-2024, 03:12 PM
There's light at the end of tunnel for the lads with s-gono

https://www.zmescience.com/science/news-science/after-decades-we-finally-have-a-new-drug-to-fight-super-gonorrhea/

JSteel96
09-01-2024, 03:24 PM
Tell the Mrs you've caught it sitting on a bus. :)

Just hope never get itchy cock with crabs so far never got any issue and no lipstick stains either but sleeping around you never know what could happen.

ditchtheboss
09-01-2024, 03:43 PM
Just hope never get itchy cock with crabs so far never got any issue and no lipstick stains either but sleeping around you never know what could happen.

I once got home with a huge makeup stain from a SB on the collar on my shirt, I only noticed quite a while after getting home.

Lucky I live alone, if not I would have gotten caught by the Mrs right there

JSteel96
09-01-2024, 04:22 PM
I once got home with a huge makeup stain from a SB on the collar on my shirt, I only noticed quite a while after getting home.

Lucky I live alone, if not I would have gotten caught by the Mrs right there

Your fine if your single you would have been fried toast if you had a wife and came home with the makeup stain.

Double_Adapter
09-01-2024, 04:47 PM
I once got home with a huge makeup stain from a SB on the collar on my shirt, I only noticed quite a while after getting home.

Lucky I live alone, if not I would have gotten caught by the Mrs right there

I once got a hickey from a WL.
Does anyone know of a quick way of removing them?

begov94
09-01-2024, 04:51 PM
I once got a hickey from a WL.
Does anyone know of a quick way of removing them?

Cut it off with a knife like a cancer.
Or you can burn it with a hot curling iron.

Kiki kong
09-01-2024, 05:00 PM
I once got a hickey from a WL.
Does anyone know of a quick way of removing them?

Maybe rather than getting rid of it, instead try to blend it in. Use a Dyson and cover it up and add some around the neck. And say you got cupping done at a TCM clinic.

JSteel96
09-01-2024, 05:19 PM
I once got a hickey from a WL.
Does anyone know of a quick way of removing them?

Only possible put a band-aid over the hickey and tell the missus you cut yourself shaving.

begov94
09-01-2024, 05:21 PM
Tell the Mrs you've caught it sitting on a bus. :)

The rooftop of a bus is a plausible place to get STDs. Bird poop carries lots of diseases.

asnabc
11-01-2024, 10:21 PM
Family overseas for 3 weeks. I only get a few punts in a year due to family and work commitments. Now it is the perfect time!

After abstaining for a week, I went to have a punt early this week but I couldn't get it up. Tried 3 more times, burned through a bit of cash but it seems my libido is down and I couldn't finish. I don't think its physiological, I'm just not as sensitive anymore and the urge is not there. First time I'm contemplating of quitting punting. I'm over 45.

Anyone else had similar experiences, did Viagra help?

JSteel96
11-01-2024, 10:35 PM
Family overseas for 3 weeks. I only get a few punts in a year due to family and work commitments. Now it is the perfect time!

After abstaining for a week, I went to have a punt early this week but I couldn't get it up. Tried 3 more times, burned through a bit of cash but it seems my libido is down and I couldn't finish. I don't think its physiological, I'm just not as sensitive anymore and the urge is not there. First time I'm contemplating of quitting punting. I'm over 45.

Anyone else had similar experiences, did Viagra help?

You may want to go for a general health check, prostrate etc. Have you been neglecting sex with your wife? You maybe just to busy with work and family and put your sex life in the back seat? Unfortunately if you don't use it you lose it. Its important to at least wank from time to time if your not having much of a sex life. Get a blood test see if anythings off. Its worth doing at your age to spot any deficiencies. Failing that was the WL you seen not your type? Because that could also be the case if you punt and the girl does not excite you enough.

asnabc
11-01-2024, 10:48 PM
You maybe just to busy with work and family and put your sex life in the back seat? Unfortunately if you don't use it you lose it.

Maybe it is just that, haven't been thinking about sex. I did have a few sessions with my wife last few weeks and it was quite good, nothing beats CIP! I'm generally healthy.

I had a chance to visit some shops in the city and north shore. The WLs I had were attractive. I'm gonna abstain and try again in a few days.

GoldfishMan
11-01-2024, 10:59 PM
Family overseas for 3 weeks. I only get a few punts in a year due to family and work commitments. Now it is the perfect time!

After abstaining for a week, I went to have a punt early this week but I couldn't get it up. Tried 3 more times, burned through a bit of cash but it seems my libido is down and I couldn't finish. I don't think its physiological, I'm just not as sensitive anymore and the urge is not there. First time I'm contemplating of quitting punting. I'm over 45.

Anyone else had similar experiences, did Viagra help?

Yeah you can give Viagra a try. Not being able to have a good quality erection can lead to not being able to cum because that hole will feel loose if you’re not hard enough.

Easiest way is to go see a GP to get a script, then popover to the pharmacy to get it. For your first foray, I’d recommend going with proper branded Pfizer. Don’t skimp on it, they’re not very expensive these days.

andrewv
11-01-2024, 11:03 PM
One of the most useful tools to quit punting is to keep your balls empty. Self-pleasuring is a free technique. If done quickly with the aid of porn sites, the amounts of money you save will surprise you.

personaa
11-01-2024, 11:08 PM
According to a study published in 2016, ejaculating more than 20 times per month reduced prostate cancer risk by about 20% compared to ejaculating only four to seven times per month, for both men in their 20s and 40s.

So here you go, having an active sex life has its own benefits. If sex is drying at home then quitting doesn't solve anything, maybe use pills or start exercising regularly to see if they help.

If you are still keen to quite, I think it's the easiest time to do so. High cost of punting and very average line up everywhere (Just my opinion) . The next question is your own decision; Do you see value in this market?

asnabc
11-01-2024, 11:16 PM
Easiest way is to go see a GP to get a script, then popover to the pharmacy to get it.

It might be worth trying the blue pill for the first time! I've never been a one minute man. Even in my 20's, I could last 5 minutes and the girls LOVED it!

asnabc
11-01-2024, 11:22 PM
published in 2016, ejaculating more than 20 times per month reduced prostate cancer risk by about 20% compared to ejaculating only four to seven times per month, for both men in their 20s and 40s.

Yep! Felt good about myself after ready that journal. Jerking off at least every 2 days in my 40's but recently slowed down so that might be one of my problems...

JSteel96
12-01-2024, 08:04 AM
Wanking is important if you don't have a very active sex life like sex once a week with your wife is not enough. The other days your cock is limb so you need to watch some porn or something every couple of days. Maybe you should punt for a threesome and see if that excites you?

asnabc
12-01-2024, 10:48 AM
There are pros/cons to excessive wanking. I do believe there is a huge lose of sensitivity with CFS especially if you wank too much or used to going raw with a gf/wife.

Admittedly, what would excite me is BB, but there is no way I'll take those risks.

Veets
12-01-2024, 10:51 AM
Fantastic Advice in this thread
Me personally I’ve set my standards higher will not surrender to so called higher prices and will not go out of my way just to punt. It’s working
Been a couple of months and enjoying the savings to spend elsewhere and or save

JSteel96
12-01-2024, 10:56 AM
There are pros/cons to excessive wanking. I do believe there is a huge lose of sensitivity with CFS especially if you wank too much or used to going raw with a gf/wife.

Admittedly, what would excite me is BB, but there is no way I'll take those risks.

No don't do BB with a random WL that's far to much risk. I would only do BB with a private situation where you know the girl is not doing every guy on this forum and other guys.

JSteel96
12-01-2024, 10:59 AM
Fantastic Advice in this thread
Me personally I’ve set my standards higher will not surrender to so called higher prices and will not go out of my way just to punt. It’s working
Been a couple of months and enjoying the savings to spend elsewhere and or save

but if your not punting eventually your minds going to be telling you its time to punt again. Its a hard itch to get rid of when your mind is telling you to go punt. You can still find the right prices just don't pay over $350 for an hour fs.

Veets
12-01-2024, 11:10 AM
I’ve yet to be in a position where I’ve got a fistful of cash at the right place at the right time and the right girl is available. 99.9% of my punts I set my sights and organised my time and $ and effort to be there purely for the punt

asnabc
12-01-2024, 11:23 AM
Fantastic Advice in this thread
Me personally I’ve set my standards higher will not surrender to so called higher prices and will not go out of my way just to punt.

Agreed. Having very high standards is a good method of reducing the frequency of your punts. I've seen the Ginza/kyoto line up over the years and majority of the time, I've found most of the girls just average in my books. Booking girls is a hit/miss for me.

asnabc
12-01-2024, 11:28 AM
but if your not punting eventually your minds going to be telling you its time to punt again.

Once a punter always a punter? Probably holds true. The longest I've been without a punt is 4 years, that is because I had this HOT model like euroasian during my business trip in Canada. She was so good that I've found some of the pricier privates just average looking and not worth the $800+ hr asking fee, so I simply didn't bother to punt for awhile. Alas, look where I am now.

peripel
12-01-2024, 12:10 PM
There are pros/cons to excessive wanking. I do believe there is a huge lose of sensitivity with CFS especially if you wank too much or used to going raw with a gf/wife.

Depends on your wanking technique. If you use your hands most of the time that's a surefire way to lose sensitivity, especially if you don't use proper lubrication.

The best way to relieve yourself without losing too much sensitivity is by using silicone masturbators such as Tenga or Fleshlight. And use a proper lubricant as well, something with the consistency of a Nuru gel would be the best.

When you're used to having raw sex, condoms will definitely make you lose a little sensitivity but it depends on the brand and material. Personally Skyn is the best brand for me as I can still feel everything and almost cum prematurely. I'd say it's a 2-3 minute delay from BB than the typical Four Seasons condom that would make me last 5-10 minutes longer than BB.

JSteel96
12-01-2024, 12:12 PM
Once a punter always a punter? Probably holds true. The longest I've been without a punt is 4 years, that is because I had this HOT model like euroasian during my business trip in Canada. She was so good that I've found some of the pricier privates just average looking and not worth the $800+ hr asking fee, so I simply didn't bother to punt for awhile. Alas, look where I am now.

No average WL is worth $800 for an hour in private no matter how good they think they are you can find just as good for $250-$300. Don't over pay for average service. We have to start boycotting these expensive WLs.

anonymouspunter
12-01-2024, 01:03 PM
Get really sick of how it makes you feel in the long term and have a desire for self-improvement. Also try the thing where you imagine yourself in a tornado staying still. And not just giving in to your cravings. I feel like it took me a long time to get to this.

sbblahblahblah3x
15-01-2024, 08:03 PM
Make your disposable income less accessible or locked up, this will either stress you out to the point that you question should you spend your hard earned dosh or take out a personal loan to continue with your naughty endeavours

Themysterypi
16-01-2024, 01:31 PM
Get a wife haha or only watch porn to tire yourself out

ColesBag
16-01-2024, 01:33 PM
The trick is quality & not quantity in order not to become blase or dissatisfied with it all.

Play the long ( decades ) game & you'll have both a happy & satisfying personal & punting life.

annintofu
25-01-2024, 02:12 PM
as you grow older, and less horny, you will find yourself less and less inclined to waste money on punting.

DayMan69
25-01-2024, 02:48 PM
Why quit? Unless you have a stalker/desperate side to your personality, punting is just an enjoyable hobby.

It keeps me fit because i need to workout to keep up with the girls. It keeps me sane in a busy world. I can look at sweet office girls without drooling cos i've fucked someone just like her recently. Win, win, win.

But like any hobby, it can't be the primary thing in your life. If it is, then take steps. Slap yourself, take a break, whatever whatever. Do not break the punters rules.

The rules:
1. Punt within your means
2. Don't fixate or fall in love
3. Treat it as a hobby
4. Be respectful
5. Big head always in charge

rooter
25-01-2024, 02:53 PM
Quitting is for quitters :)

shtoopid_head
25-01-2024, 08:28 PM
I like looking at all the escort sites, brothel and massage rosters, but keep telling myself to refrain from doing it. Is this kinda just like looking at soft porn?

Johny77
26-01-2024, 12:35 AM
I’ve only just begun my journey and am feeling as though I am heading down a slippery slope in reading all the awesome reviews. It takes a lot of restraint not to do it on a daily basis.

Sibon
26-01-2024, 11:06 AM
I’ve only just begun my journey and am feeling as though I am heading down a slippery slope in reading all the awesome reviews. It takes a lot of restraint not to do it on a daily basis.

Oh no don't punt on a daily basis.

Your dick will shrink a milimeter everyday banging the wall of a girl's pussy.

Johny77
26-01-2024, 11:50 AM
Oh no don't punt on a daily basis.

Your dick will shrink a milimeter everyday banging the wall of a girl's pussy.

Sibon, as much as I would love to, I am not in the financial position to do so lol.

Timeis629
29-01-2024, 11:11 AM
Sibon, as much as I would love to, I am not in the financial position to do so lol.

Get caught by the wife - but forgiven

Niceguy11
18-01-2025, 06:00 PM
Why quit? Unless you have a stalker/desperate side to your personality, punting is just an enjoyable hobby.

It keeps me fit because i need to workout to keep up with the girls. It keeps me sane in a busy world. I can look at sweet office girls without drooling cos i've fucked someone just like her recently. Win, win, win.

But like any hobby, it can't be the primary thing in your life. If it is, then take steps. Slap yourself, take a break, whatever whatever. Do not break the punters rules.

The rules:
1. Punt within your means
2. Don't fixate or fall in love
3. Treat it as a hobby
4. Be respectful
5. Big head always in charge

Valid points bro for sure. As much as I would love to quit, I honestly don't think I will. This week alone, I have been to Ginza 4 times. The financial cost is not a issue but when I feel my punting is getting out of control, there's no real to stop it. J Girls are like drug addiction and I can speak from experience. The more you have, the more you want.

I dunno. Quitting is like the light at the end of the tunnel. You can see it but its getting further away.

madness123
18-01-2025, 06:21 PM
What worked for me was finding a new hobby that was just as expensive. Get into cars/watches/audio etc, i'd find that I'd rather have a tangible item forever than a 30min experience.

Thats definitely true.I have those types of hobbies and punting is also one of them. I treat it like a thrill sport. Jump out of a plane one day, root the next.

11Bravo
18-01-2025, 08:06 PM
Create a spreadsheet. Enter in the cost, not just the direct cost, but also the incidentals, e.g., transportation costs. EVERY punt. At the end of the month, sum. Then consider what you remember of the past month, and then, what you could have done with the money you spent on those fleeting moments. Could that money have been spent on something more permanent? Or even better memories, like travel. Even if it's travel to say, BKK, Indonesia, Philippines... Where you definitely want to get out of the bar scene and enjoy the country... perhaps those memories every year would curb the desire for more temporary ones.

Or buy that 98" OLED state of the art TV plus the latest sound system and totally immerse yourself...

Djuchina
18-01-2025, 09:35 PM
Just start wanking every day and you should be fine.

Riff888
18-01-2025, 10:26 PM
Get a joint account with your partner, try putting some in another account just in case.
Don't show your partner your payslip.

rubit moore
18-01-2025, 10:34 PM
Create a spreadsheet. Enter in the cost, not just the direct cost, but also the incidentals, e.g., transportation costs. EVERY punt. At the end of the month, sum. Then consider what you remember of the past month, and then, what you could have done with the money you spent on those fleeting moments. Could that money have been spent on something more permanent? Or even better memories, like travel. Even if it's travel to say, BKK, Indonesia, Philippines... Where you definitely want to get out of the bar scene and enjoy the country... perhaps those memories every year would curb the desire for more temporary ones.

Or buy that 98" OLED state of the art TV plus the latest sound system and totally immerse yourself...

Indeed. I don't or have rarely punted in Sydney the past 12 months... my last punt if you can call it that was Vitality way back last year with Cici and that fulfilled my needs. Just not interested in the Great Punting Machine of Sydney and the money it chews up anymore. That money gets saved and I travel. I then punt in some tropical far-away land where the neon and the sights and smells arouse the senses and there's fuckin 10-1 chicks outnumbering me. But even that gets boring after doing it for so many years so it's nicer to be selective and pace yourself.

I'll read AR's on here for a laugh and get an itch but that's a far as it goes. Once you start dropping out from regular punting and begin noticing the differences in your life, it just snowballs. This forum does a good job of keeping me away from it all actually.

suka03
19-01-2025, 08:42 AM
from my experience when i started decade ago it was too addictive and it’s hard to stop. Right now i tend to spend less having to realise how much i spent deeply through out the years, i feel little regret and at same time i feel happy about it. Although it doesn’t fix what a Man hobby. I do get disappointed whenever i get a bad punt so i stop punting for 2 weeks then continue 1 session a week.

Punting is expensive in Australia, I saved abit in the year and head to SE asian countries where punting cost avg 50 bucks full on pse/gfe coz I know where to find the local price.

Only way to stop me punting is when I get married lol

Double_Adapter
19-01-2025, 08:49 AM
Only way to stop me punting is when I get married lol

Bro, once you get married your punting will increase, just ask the married blokes here.

asnabc
19-01-2025, 10:11 AM
Bro, once you get married your punting will increase, just ask the married blokes here.

haha True. Once you had kids, sex dries up and you look for alternatives. Good thing is, I've never been asked if I'm married by a WL or ML.

Bman619
19-01-2025, 10:24 AM
Look for the worst reviewed girls and go see them one by one. That should decrease your punting morale and make you want to quit!

stallionmachine123
19-01-2025, 12:54 PM
Find other responsibilities such as investing or topping up super.

Budget and don’t leave room for punting.

But at the end of the day it’s just you snd your determination to give up.

Roydemeo
19-01-2025, 01:13 PM
Topping up super doesn’t give the same satisfaction as busting a nut deep in an 18yo jap tho

Peter69
19-01-2025, 01:15 PM
I always say I’m stopping then next week I’m deep inside a gorgeous ML & so I don’t bother saying it to myself, when I’m in the mood & the opportunity presents itself, I just go with it

Double_Adapter
19-01-2025, 02:27 PM
Rain Morgan might just be the chick you blokes need to help blow your bad habits away
https://www.realbabes.com.au/escorts/vic/kensington/rain-morgan

Massagecreep
19-01-2025, 03:57 PM
I think my dick is now bigger since I have been seeing MLs weekly

Massagecreep
19-01-2025, 03:58 PM
If you want to stop punting, stop reading this forum!

Niceguy11
19-01-2025, 04:08 PM
Indeed. I don't or have rarely punted in Sydney the past 12 months... my last punt if you can call it that was Vitality way back last year with Cici and that fulfilled my needs. Just not interested in the Great Punting Machine of Sydney and the money it chews up anymore. That money gets saved and I travel. I then punt in some tropical far-away land where the neon and the sights and smells arouse the senses and there's fuckin 10-1 chicks outnumbering me. But even that gets boring after doing it for so many years so it's nicer to be selective and pace yourself.

I'll read AR's on here for a laugh and get an itch but that's a far as it goes. Once you start dropping out from regular punting and begin noticing the differences in your life, it just snowballs. This forum does a good job of keeping me away from it all actually.

Thanks for that rubit moore. Today was my last punt in Sydney at Ginza before leaving for Melbourne. I enjoyed myself but was unable to cum. Didn't helping having a midnight wank to some FC2PPV Japanese interracial porn which mind you, I was playing during my punt but still unable to come !

It will be good for me to have a break for at least a couple of weeks. There are a few ex WL's in the private scene working down there but I might just hold off punting for the moment. Masterbating + punting a few times a week can make it hard to cum.

Axeman123
19-01-2025, 04:17 PM
haha True. Once you had kids, sex dries up and you look for alternatives. Good thing is, I've never been asked if I'm married by a WL or ML.
A long time ago I accepted a sexless marriage . It was only the other day we were going thru many old photos... from a time when all was well (sex a plenty), the memories came flooding back.I felt sad about it all really n could've done without seeing them. I don't know what happens only that nearly a lifetime goes by.

Gillbros
19-01-2025, 08:32 PM
I have no idea why you would look for advice on this forum how to give up.punting? Talk to a priest or an addiction counsellor. Not up bunch of rusted on punters.

Niceguy11
19-01-2025, 09:09 PM
A long time ago I accepted a sexless marriage . It was only the other day we were going thru many old photos... from a time when all was well (sex a plenty), the memories came flooding back.I felt sad about it all really n could've done without seeing them. I don't know what happens only that nearly a lifetime goes by.

Yeah that kind sucks bro.

About 5 years ago, I started going out with a WL. I was only thinking about it on the flight to Melbourne this afternoon. I can still remember when she invited me to her work Christmas party and got to meet the boss and other WL's she worked with. It was a weird yet interesting time because I got to know the girls on a personal level and not as sex objects. One of her work colleagues told me it was the first time she had invited a customer (BF) to a work Christmas party. Not sure if it was true or not but I responded to the WL and said "come on that is bullshit". I then sat with another WL and spoke to her to which she said the same thing as well "She has never invited a customer to a Christmas party before". I knew at that point that it wasn't bullshit and that it was all true. There was numerous times that I had dinner with her and one of her close friends. It just felt like any other relationship. It was the best of times and the worst of times. I basically went through hell, came back, had a great time, back to hell then yeah, nervous break down for both of us.

But with all things, they eventually come to a end. It wasn't the fact she was a WL but other things came into play which ultimately ended it. Last I heard from a another WL regular is that she met someone and got married. She quit working and is now married with a normal job.

As I sit her in the terminal at Melbourne airport alone, all I can think of is the great times I've had punting. God its been a great time....

11Bravo
19-01-2025, 10:19 PM
Yes, I've met some very nice providers. If I was dealt that hand, I know I'd be bitter, but I find they're really nice - much easier to get to know the person in the climes where it's all night, not an hourly assembly line. Even with hourly workers, you can find some nice ones. Sure, bottom line, it's transactional. Still... Most names I've forgotten, but some, decades on, still remembered for some very nice shared memories. Those make it difficult to quit, even with the degrade of methodology. YMMV

stallionmachine123
19-01-2025, 11:18 PM
If you want to stop punting, stop reading this forum!

This forum has been a driving force for my punting I’ve discovered many gems cause of it.

personaa
20-01-2025, 12:18 AM
Very easy to quit punting these days.

Respect your hard-earned $ and set some standards ( age, looks, body type). The poor talent these days guarantees a walk out.

rubit moore
20-01-2025, 08:33 AM
Very easy to quit punting these days.

Respect your hard-earned $ and set some standards ( age, looks, body type). The poor talent these days guarantees a walk out.

Exactly. Walking in knowing you're 50/50 gonna walk out within 2 minutes helps the cash stay firmly in the pocket. Bman619 wrote, "Look for the worst reviewed girls and go see them one by one." employing the love it or leave it mentality of course!. Double Adapter's Rain Morgan idea floats my boat although i'd go in hoping for a Bait & Switch. Then see what nerves of steel I don't have.

crum
20-01-2025, 08:37 AM
Yeah that kind sucks bro.

About 5 years ago, I started going out with a WL. I was only thinking about it on the flight to Melbourne this afternoon. I can still remember when she invited me to her work Christmas party and got to meet the boss and other WL's she worked with. It was a weird yet interesting time because I got to know the girls on a personal level and not as sex objects. One of her work colleagues told me it was the first time she had invited a customer (BF) to a work Christmas party. Not sure if it was true or not but I responded to the WL and said "come on that is bullshit". I then sat with another WL and spoke to her to which she said the same thing as well "She has never invited a customer to a Christmas party before". I knew at that point that it wasn't bullshit and that it was all true. There was numerous times that I had dinner with her and one of her close friends. It just felt like any other relationship. It was the best of times and the worst of times. I basically went through hell, came back, had a great time, back to hell then yeah, nervous break down for both of us.

But with all things, they eventually come to a end. It wasn't the fact she was a WL but other things came into play which ultimately ended it. Last I heard from a another WL regular is that she met someone and got married. She quit working and is now married with a normal job.

As I sit her in the terminal at Melbourne airport alone, all I can think of is the great times I've had punting. God its been a great time....

I've got similar experiences now dating ML's/WL's and it ending for cultural differences or falling out of love with each other after a while. Looking back on it now it's definitely interesting to think about how many women both exceptional and not that I've met over the years through the industry (one of my day jobs is in the SW industry but western side). My punting has definitely slowed down from when I was younger but now when I go I'm much more particular on where and who I see.

I still see WL's/ML's outside of their respective shops at times with those I have good relations with. I think when you start getting to know WL's/ML's outside of just punting, it changes your persepctive on it a lot, I know it has for me after dating a few girls in the industry, some still working and some have since found wealthy partners and retired.


Very easy to quit punting these days.

Respect your hard-earned $ and set some standards ( age, looks, body type). The poor talent these days guarantees a walk out.

Agree here, respecting your hard earned money to only punt for those that are worthwhile is a good way to reduce the # of punts you're taking. To stop altogether, I think I'd only be able to go completely cold turkey if I had a wife that ticked all the boxes.

Niceguy11
20-01-2025, 01:37 PM
I've got similar experiences now dating ML's/WL's and it ending for cultural differences or falling out of love with each other after a while. Looking back on it now it's definitely interesting to think about how many women both exceptional and not that I've met over the years through the industry (one of my day jobs is in the SW industry but western side). My punting has definitely slowed down from when I was younger but now when I go I'm much more particular on where and who I see.

I still see WL's/ML's outside of their respective shops at times with those I have good relations with. I think when you start getting to know WL's/ML's outside of just punting, it changes your persepctive on it a lot, I know it has for me after dating a few girls in the industry, some still working and some have since found wealthy partners and retired.



Agree here, respecting your hard earned money to only punt for those that are worthwhile is a good way to reduce the # of punts you're taking. To stop altogether, I think I'd only be able to go completely cold turkey if I had a wife that ticked all the boxes.

Yeah it does change your perspective on things. Looking back, probably not the best thing to do but boy oh boy, I really had a great time. One thing i forgot to mention is that one time we were having dinner and wanted to have sex. She knew a shop in the city and the boss. We both rocked up and had sex inside one of the rooms and didn't pay for it. It was such a weird experience rooting in a brothel switch a WL you are dating and not paying for it. The shop is under a different owner but it was in king's cross. Crazy and fun times.

Axeman123
20-01-2025, 02:54 PM
Yeah it does change your perspective on things. Looking back, probably not the best thing to do but boy oh boy, I really had a great time. One thing i forgot to mention is that one time we were having dinner and wanted to have sex. She knew a shop in the city and the boss. We both rocked up and had sex inside one of the rooms and didn't pay for it. It was such a weird experience rooting in a brothel switch a WL you are dating and not paying for it. The shop is under a different owner but it was in king's cross. Crazy and fun times. But that's what's made things so exciting when you look back on it all. Just the spontaneity n innocence of it all. It couldn't be scripted to be any better.

Niceguy11
15-06-2025, 02:25 PM
But that's what's made things so exciting when you look back on it all. Just the spontaneity n innocence of it all. It couldn't be scripted to be any better.

Yeah exactly.

It’s been a while since I’ve been to Ginza. Last visit was with Otona and haven’t been back since. J girls are absolutely gorgeous but at the same time, I just don’t have that excitement anymore.

When you have done everything there is to offer in punting, it does get boring.

ironmonk
15-06-2025, 02:56 PM
Yeah exactly.

It’s been a while since I’ve been to Ginza. Last visit was with Otona and haven’t been back since. J girls are absolutely gorgeous but at the same time, I just don’t have that excitement anymore.

When you have done everything there is to offer in punting, it does get boring.

Just need to quit this forum. Then you'll be free forever

RodgHerMoore
15-06-2025, 04:28 PM
Just need to quit this forum. Then you'll be free forever

x2.

Also think about all the shit punts you've had and the regret afterwards, how many other cocks your favourite WL/ML is sucking, who else's cum you might be lying on the table, the mamasan who trapped you into staying along with small head regretting life choices afterwards, how much value a proper legit massage is giving you and cheaper it is, what you might be catching in the shower (how much other bro juice is on that tap and soap pump), does she have an STI u can catch.

That'll do it

pmmeyourknee_
15-06-2025, 05:00 PM
This will 100% do it for me. (Un)Luckily it never happened to me.


Fucking hell

I just walked out from one of the popular shop on this forum, saw a J girl, did shower, DFK, bbbj (but no DATY). Then she asks 'condom'? I say yes. She starts CG and after a while I want to change position, she pulls out of CG and I see a long string of what's unmistakably white cum from a previous punter that CIP'd falling (litterally, not dripping) out of her pussy.

Called it early on that one, shes cute and everything but fucking hell. I was pretty happy with my more boring choice of not DATY girl.

stallionmachine123
15-06-2025, 06:12 PM
Those saying to have a few shit punts will turn you off punting is bullshit whenever I have a shit punt I’m trying to have a great one asap.

Only you can stop this habit go see a counsellor or turn to your faith.

Set some financial goals such as topping up super or paying extra into mortgage, paying off debts etc.

GoldfishMan
16-06-2025, 09:26 AM
Why call it quiting anyway? You can exert self-control and cut it right down to as little as needed. This is a great hobby for some release once in a while as a treat to yourself. Just control yourself and don't go overboard.

I've managed to cut down my punting rate right down to 2 Ginza punts and 2 RNTs in the last 9 months. I did it by keeping the money spent front and centre whenever I even think about punting, and I spend the money I would've spent on punting as soon as I can.

For example, I typically spend around $500 for a single J girl punt at Ginza based on current pricing. Instead of going, I use the money to buy my kid a new iPad instead. I instantly see the effect of saving the money from not punting, it's something real, not just some money in the account that I could easily spend on something else equally as useless as 1 hour of pleasure for myself.

There are other examples. Buy yourself a nice phone, watch, car. Make it real, every single time. And the great thing is, you don't have to keep doing this. After a while, it becomes a habit, you'll be holding yourself back from punting as soon as the thought comes into your head.

Good luck bros!

1inchguy
16-06-2025, 12:26 PM
I used to punt twice a week to once a week. Now twice a month.

You'll just have to set priorities and stick with it. You don't have to be hard strict by it. Dont have to go cold Turkey. We are humans after all. Small steps count.

Niceguy11
16-06-2025, 12:39 PM
Why call it quiting anyway? You can exert self-control and cut it right down to as little as needed. This is a great hobby for some release once in a while as a treat to yourself. Just control yourself and don't go overboard.

I've managed to cut down my punting rate right down to 2 Ginza punts and 2 RNTs in the last 9 months. I did it by keeping the money spent front and centre whenever I even think about punting, and I spend the money I would've spent on punting as soon as I can.

For example, I typically spend around $500 for a single J girl punt at Ginza based on current pricing. Instead of going, I use the money to buy my kid a new iPad instead. I instantly see the effect of saving the money from not punting, it's something real, not just some money in the account that I could easily spend on something else equally as useless as 1 hour of pleasure for myself.

There are other examples. Buy yourself a nice phone, watch, car. Make it real, every single time. And the great thing is, you don't have to keep doing this. After a while, it becomes a habit, you'll be holding yourself back from punting as soon as the thought comes into your head.

Good luck bros!

Yeah good point. Its just hard bro because the sight of a hot Asian (Chinese, Korean or Japanese chick) just makes me want to visit Ginza and drop $$$.

I guess moving forward I'll shift my focus to socialising with friends more and punt less. Anything to get the mind off punting. In all honesty, Japanese woman are gods gift on this earth.

Cairns
16-06-2025, 07:01 PM
I went cold turkey and only go on very special occasions but it helps to keep yourself occupied with a hobby/sport.

ironmonk
16-06-2025, 08:29 PM
Yeah good point. Its just hard bro because the sight of a hot Asian (Chinese, Korean or Japanese chick) just makes me want to visit Ginza and drop $$$.

I guess moving forward I'll shift my focus to socialising with friends more and punt less. Anything to get the mind off punting. In all honesty, Japanese woman are gods gift on this earth.

probably lay off the interracial BBC porn too bro. Stick to POV or something

ironmonk
16-06-2025, 08:36 PM
For example, I typically spend around $500 for a single J girl punt at Ginza based on current pricing. Instead of going, I use the money to buy my kid a new iPad instead. I instantly see the effect of saving the money from not punting, it's something real, not just some money in the account that I could easily spend on something else equally as useless as 1 hour of pleasure for myself.

There are other examples. Buy yourself a nice phone, watch, car. Make it real, every single time. And the great thing is, you don't have to keep doing this. After a while, it becomes a habit, you'll be holding yourself back from punting as soon as the thought comes into your head.

Good luck bros!

Well said. Money could also be invested in the intangible stuff too, like education, 1:1 mentorship, etc. Even a 1hr punt per week at Ginza/No5 is 15k, not exactly a small expenditure but it's all relative I guess. For myself once a fortnight is the sweet spot.

1 hour of pleasure for $500 at Ginza- you must be going for all the extras too? Haha

Abracadabra
16-06-2025, 09:05 PM
One good way to start quitting punting , at least as an initial step, is to isolate yourself from forums such as this!

justincase
16-06-2025, 09:58 PM
Suggestions on how to quit punting.

First step is realising you are addicted.

Next step is to cut down.

But how can you cut it out completely?

Do what most men do.

Find an attractive woman, marry her.

Then wait till she stops having sex, doubles her weight, develops a self opinionated bitch attitude, doesn’t work, oh hang on she never worked, support her, support her lazy obtuse extended family, learn to tolerate her online circle of fat ugly lazy pig woman dog loving friends and then have nothing to do with her till she attempts to take you to the cleaners. At that time you destroy everything you’ve ever built in life by burning it all through the lawyers then leave her and yourself with nothing then start all over again by YOURSELF.

Make sure along the way you delete any method she can ever contact you or sponge off you.

By this time you’ll have no money to punt.

Punting problem solved!

Then:

Work hard and get ahead and hopefully you’ve learnt your lesson to never trust anyone except yourself and restart punting.

GoldfishMan
16-06-2025, 10:01 PM
Well said. Money could also be invested in the intangible stuff too, like education, 1:1 mentorship, etc. Even a 1hr punt per week at Ginza/No5 is 15k, not exactly a small expenditure but it's all relative I guess. For myself once a fortnight is the sweet spot.

1 hour of pleasure for $500 at Ginza- you must be going for all the extras too? Haha

Yes, all the extra toppings on top, lol... No point in going if I wanted to save money!

It's great if you can do something more productive with the money but I reckon that may require too much self discipline. You're going from spending $500 bucks for instant selfish gratification, to forking out the same for completely nothing and having to wait possibly years for something to show for it. On the other hand if you spent the money on something more immediately effective, it might help you get the ball rolling easier.

Don't set the hurdle too high for yourself that's all I'm saying...

GuitarJost
16-06-2025, 10:20 PM
Like what others have said, best thing is to put the $$ in perspective. What can you buy instead of a punt? Fancy dinner etc… Finding a hobby or passion is also a good way of helping with putting the $$ in perspective, I.e what can you spend your money on instead? Great tennis racquet, nice new outfit, bitcoin! Etc.

B0nkers
16-06-2025, 11:36 PM
Do what most men do.

Find an attractive woman, marry her.

Then wait till she stops having sex, doubles her weight, develops a self opinionated bitch attitude, doesn’t work, oh hang on she never worked, support her, support her lazy obtuse extended family, learn to tolerate her online circle of fat ugly lazy pig woman dog loving friends and then have nothing to do with her till she attempts to take you to the cleaners. At that time you destroy everything you’ve ever built in life by burning it all through the lawyers then leave her and yourself with nothing then start all over again by YOURSELF.

Make sure along the way you delete any method she can ever contact you or sponge off you.

By this time you’ll have no money to punt.

Punting problem solved!

Then:

Work hard and get ahead and hopefully you’ve learnt your lesson to never trust anyone except yourself and restart punting.

I hear you there. Never a truer word spoken. That just makes you hit the reset button. Haven't been happier since I got rid of that ball & chain. The trick is to learn that lesson

pmmeyourknee_
17-06-2025, 12:23 AM
Like what others have said, best thing is to put the $$ in perspective. What can you buy instead of a punt? Fancy dinner etc… Finding a hobby or passion is also a good way of helping with putting the $$ in perspective, I.e what can you spend your money on instead? Great tennis racquet, nice new outfit, bitcoin! Etc.

not going to lie lie, $300-500 is a lot of money to spend, even fancy dinner doesn't cost that much. You can buy a new ipad for every session.

also be careful with extras. Extras add up quickly, do the math and you'll see yourself, it's +50-80% of the normal rate, which means if you normally spend $15k with extras it becomes $24k, crazy right? almost doubled. also health aspect you're playing with russian roulette. I'd rather keep it minimal and safe.

1inchguy
17-06-2025, 01:10 AM
not going to lie lie, $300-500 is a lot of money to spend, even fancy dinner doesn't cost that much. You can buy a new ipad for every session.

also be careful with extras. Extras add up quickly, do the math and you'll see yourself, it's +50-80% of the normal rate, which means if you normally spend $15k with extras it becomes $24k, crazy right? almost doubled. also health aspect you're playing with russian roulette. I'd rather keep it minimal and safe.

When i reduced punting, i noticed these extra funds...
i end up getting a fish tank...

shtoopid_head
17-06-2025, 11:44 PM
Yeah I've also done the buy something for someone else with that amount of I get the urge. I have sometimes bought the gift and then punted. Sometimes you just have to get it out of your system, or a bad run in like getting STI

Pysterio1
21-06-2025, 09:24 PM
i think its purposely not being near said venues. not taking vices that might weaken your resolve like alcohol. and giving your location at all times to your partner ... and keeping yourself busy af and accountable to others so you barely have time. i agree with above coming back here and looking again is weak and i should get busy again doing something else....

yunglean
21-06-2025, 09:55 PM
I bought a Meta Quest 3 and a Handy autostroker and I think it might get me to quit punting lol

DjVass
22-06-2025, 10:24 AM
By discontinuing my testosterone injections, that will kill off my sexual drive. Sorted!

Hedonisticfun
22-06-2025, 02:23 PM
Suggestions on how to quit punting.

First step is realising you are addicted.

Next step is to cut down.

But how can you cut it out completely?


Most important question ... WHY ??? Jokes aside , yes , thought I was addicted but then not so much addicted but more as a pastime like a hobby . Just back from Shanghai after spending a week there despite only having 2 sessions with Chinese friend , wasn*t too concerned whether sex occurred or not . Planning for Europe after next week for a month , already searched for possible bonks but not really worried if it happens or not . Cut it out completely ??? No way , plus hopefully once back with a tan and summer here will be going full throttle MLs and WLs

putsputs
28-06-2025, 07:23 AM
Delete all forms of temptation, and distract yourself with other activities/hobbies.

I don't plan to quit soon, but this theme seems to be consistent with all the approaches/solutions listed here.

justincase
28-06-2025, 09:22 AM
If as a man you’ve done everything else in life then why not punt?

Weapon
28-06-2025, 09:41 AM
There are meds that slow down your testosterone levels. You won't feel keen anymore to put in the effort to drive out there especially in winter.

"Should i go punting??"

Before: Fuck yeah
After: I can't be fucked

putsputs
28-06-2025, 10:32 AM
There are meds that slow down your testosterone levels. You won't feel keen anymore to put in the effort to drive out there especially in winter.

"Should i go punting??"

Before: Fuck yeah
After: I can't be fucked

These testosterone reducing meds, will the demotivation also affect other aspects of life? Like exercise

Babewatch
28-06-2025, 10:45 AM
Trying my hardest to stop cold turkey!
But it’s bloody hard. Especially when I keep interacting with this site, it doesn’t help lol.

Weapon
28-06-2025, 05:36 PM
These testosterone reducing meds, will the demotivation also affect other aspects of life? Like exercise

Yeah i would say so to a degree. If you have been exercising all your life then it wont stop you, especially if you have a routine.

Weapon
28-06-2025, 05:37 PM
Trying my hardest to stop cold turkey!
But it’s bloody hard. Especially when I keep interacting with this site, it doesn’t help lol.

First step is to get banned from this site lol, Its not hard to do.

Babewatch
28-06-2025, 06:45 PM
First step is to get banned from this site lol, Its not hard to do.

lol, yeah I’ve noticed that over the years.

justincase
28-06-2025, 07:25 PM
I’ve been banned possibly 50 times by moderators who are power hungry. Their sphere of influence in their paltry lives is only here and I refuse to let them control me so I’ll keep coming back irrespective of how many times I’m banned.

Plus I date a lot of of the tarts I punt on purpose then dump them hopefully tainting or reinforcing their poor opinion of men lol.

Let’s see some other guy try and succeed after I’ve finished. Ever wonder why some don’t show up when rostered for work? I deliberately keep them in bed, double lol.

Call it a power trip or a battle of the wills but its all fun and games as far as I’m concerned.

Icegodofhungary
28-06-2025, 09:30 PM
I’ve been banned possibly 50 times by moderators who are power hungry. Their sphere of influence in their paltry lives is only here and I refuse to let them control me so I’ll keep coming back irrespective of how many times I’m banned.

Plus I date a lot of of the tarts I punt on purpose then dump them hopefully tainting or reinforcing their poor opinion of men lol.

Let’s see some other guy try and succeed after I’ve finished. Ever wonder why some don’t show up when rostered for work? I deliberately keep them in bed, double lol.

Call it a power trip or a battle of the wills but it’s all fun and games as far as I’m concerned.

Cool story, bro.

Migala
29-06-2025, 02:54 AM
I stopped punting for almost two months. It felt like recovering from an addiction. I still have urges to go out, DFK, and have rough sex, but now I'm always broke. To quit punting, I started sending all my money to my partner, leaving myself with just 250 a week, just enough for food, transport, and essentials. This has worked for me, though I'm not sure how long I can keep it up knowing that some Viet WL has returned to work. Wish me luck.

justincase
29-06-2025, 08:05 AM
Cool story, bro.

Bro is a euphemism that relates to Asian guys on here, I’m not Asian. I don’t see or hear of any guys doing what I do. They struggle to pull a woman and then it’s all about holding onto her and pleasing her. Why? You’re better off collecting multiple women and then doing with them as you please. You can afford to let one go, as you have back up. Why be happy with one only? These tarts that you punt do exactly the same thing. They string multiple men along and what’s in it for the men? Empty pockets and a broken heart.

Niceguy11
29-06-2025, 09:32 AM
Bro is a euphemism that relates to Asian guys on here, I’m not Asian. I don’t see or hear of any guys doing what I do. They struggle to pull a woman and then it’s all about holding onto her and pleasing her. Why? You’re better off collecting multiple women and then doing with them as you please. You can afford to let one go, as you have back up. Why be happy with one only? These tarts that you punt do exactly the same thing. They string multiple men along and what’s in it for the men? Empty pockets and a broken heart.

Exactly. What you do to them is the exact same thing they do with yourself and multiple other punters. Next time you punt, look at the WL's phone and see how many messages they get. On once occasion, a WL had her phone in the room and the amount of WeChat messages she received was insane. I can read Chinese and a bit of Japanese and can say all of them were punters.

One thing I can confirm is that the majority are in debt from those hostess bars of whatever its called. A regular J girl confirmed it with me. At first she was embarrassed but confirmed that's why she is doing the job. That was a few months ago. She has since returned to Japan after working in Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne and Perth.

justincase
29-06-2025, 09:55 PM
Exactly. What you do to them is the exact same thing they do with yourself and multiple other punters. Next time you punt, look at the WL's phone and see how many messages they get. On once occasion, a WL had her phone in the room and the amount of WeChat messages she received was insane. I can read Chinese and a bit of Japanese and can say all of them were punters.

One thing I can confirm is that the majority are in debt from those hostess bars of whatever its called. A regular J girl confirmed it with me. At first she was embarrassed but confirmed that's why she is doing the job. That was a few months ago. She has since returned to Japan after working in Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne and Perth.

I already know how they operate, during lunch or dinner I’ll see them swipe up their phone screen numerous times. It means nothing as I’m doing the same thing playing around. What I don’t like is being kept waiting and if they make me wait on a reply I’ll go out of my way to make them wait even longer. I even tell them I’m making them wait a month, three months or even longer.

Yesterday out of the blue another HK WL messaged me, she started her second txt with “I told you” followed by “I’m coming back to Australia in August”. I instantly deleted the txt, she came back with “what’s the matter, you deleted the txt”? I said “I don’t like being told, bye” and deleted the txt a third time. Hopefully she’s learnt her lesson to talk to me with manners or not at all. Either way I don’t really care, she’s just a number and the world is full of numbers.


For some mind game fun an easy way is to let them select the places to go out for a meal then observe how familiar they are with the menu and waitstaff then open up a chat with the staff or offer to go to anyplace in the city close to where their crowd would hang and see if they’re receptive to that and if not then push to go there. Obviously they go with certain punters to certain places and don’t cross over.

I know dating them is outside of punting but it’s a logical next step for some.

gradius
30-06-2025, 04:43 PM
The shock of almost getting an STD will do it (thought I got herpes on my butt/thigh but turned out to be shingles after swab test).

I also put the money that I'd have spent punting into a dedicated investment account. It really helps to see the amount going up every month. I have around $4k in the account now.