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someguy88
07-03-2024, 03:18 PM
Can't remember what lead to me googling this, I think come out of some stuff related to "massage" cough... parlours but a controversial opinion.

Should cheating be illegal?

At least some people believe that the heart ache, emotional trauma, future distrust, wasted time and stolen future should indeed justify it being illegal with jail time as a penalty.


Any thoughts?

blitz
07-03-2024, 03:38 PM
We don't have enough jail cells

someguy88
07-03-2024, 03:45 PM
We don't have enough jail cells

Haha good point.

Also wouldn't be surprised if a fair few pollies have something on the side, wouldn't want to self incriminate.

Timeis629
07-03-2024, 04:20 PM
All depends how you define cheating - malicious intent - getting even - or maintaining a healthy psychological disposition because you have been abandoned in a relationship - plus I guess there are a few more scenarios - if you live your life in a private manner but are hurting no-one until accidentally discovered or caught out is what acrimoniously is called cheating - but if not discovered or caught out aren’t you just getting on with your life???

dotcumdotinyou
07-03-2024, 04:45 PM
You're only cheating if you get caught

someguy88
07-03-2024, 05:57 PM
All depends how you define cheating - malicious intent - getting even - or maintaining a healthy psychological disposition because you have been abandoned in a relationship - plus I guess there are a few more scenarios - if you live your life in a private manner but are hurting no-one until accidentally discovered or caught out is what acrimoniously is called cheating - but if not discovered or caught out aren’t you just getting on with your life???

Well I am presuming the perspective from the people that wanting cheating to be illegal it would include everything, happy endings at a massage shop, strip clubs, FWB, ONS.

And a few articles (probably quoting the same source) seems to suggest 60% of men and 45% have had an affair during a relationship.

I wonder how many people actually get caught.

andrewv
07-03-2024, 06:10 PM
Can't remember what lead to me googling this, I think come out of some stuff related to "massage" cough... parlours but a controversial opinion.

Should cheating be illegal?

At least some people believe that the heart ache, emotional trauma, future distrust, wasted time and stolen future should indeed justify it being illegal with jail time as a penalty.


Any thoughts?

It is a moral, not legal question. Morality changes over time and varies across religions, social norms, societal standards, etc.

In the dark ages in Australia, before Gough Whitlam was elected, people had to hire private detectives to follow their partners and take pictures of them having sex in order to get a legal divorce. This was changed when a "no-fault" divorce laws were introduced. Now all a partner or two partners need to say is they have reached a point of irreconcilable differences.

andrewv
07-03-2024, 06:14 PM
Don't follow Jesus because he said [Matthew 5:28], "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

Based on this standard, I commit adultery in my heart several times every day.

Timeis629
07-03-2024, 06:54 PM
Well I am presuming the perspective from the people that wanting cheating to be illegal it would include everything, happy endings at a massage shop, strip clubs, FWB, ONS.

And a few articles (probably quoting the same source) seems to suggest 60% of men and 45% have had an affair during a relationship.

I wonder how many people actually get caught.

I’m one caught ….. but turned out all good

ColesBag
07-03-2024, 07:39 PM
Can't remember what lead to me googling this, I think come out of some stuff related to "massage" cough... parlours but a controversial opinion.

Should cheating be illegal?

At least some people believe that the heart ache, emotional trauma, future distrust, wasted time and stolen future should indeed justify it being illegal with jail time as a penalty.


Any thoughts?


Are you retarded ?

Jackk
07-03-2024, 07:52 PM
Some forms of it should when someone makes financial commitments in different relationships which they don't keep

tcrawford
07-03-2024, 07:53 PM
https://youtube.com/shorts/L6iCbyKg2O8?si=IA6lwWXsY7uvl6Gk

Sendmetheacti
07-03-2024, 10:40 PM
Can't remember what lead to me googling this, I think come out of some stuff related to "massage" cough... parlours but a controversial opinion.

Should cheating be illegal?

At least some people believe that the heart ache, emotional trauma, future distrust, wasted time and stolen future should indeed justify it being illegal with jail time as a penalty.


Any thoughts?

Hell no dude,
The problem is modern women's sex drives simply stop working after marriage. They simply don't want it anymore.
And what's a guy to do. You already married her. She wont have sex with you anymore. As if you just become celibate at that stage.

priapus1966
08-03-2024, 12:03 AM
Don't follow Jesus because he said [Matthew 5:28], "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

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Mebbe, but don't forget, Matthew was a tax collector, so what the hell did he know about morality!

someguy88
08-03-2024, 12:33 AM
Some forms of it should when someone makes financial commitments in different relationships which they don't keep

Being a punting forum obviously bias will be one way here on what's consider cheating.
But this is a pretty good point. If you are doing what you can to build a future, getting something on the side (that has no other commitments than an hourly fee) shouldn't matter.

Double_Adapter
08-03-2024, 09:27 AM
https://youtube.com/shorts/L6iCbyKg2O8?si=IA6lwWXsY7uvl6Gk

Fuck! she' s got an annoying voice....a 7 iinch deep throater will take care of that.

Double_Adapter
08-03-2024, 09:29 AM
Hell no dude,
The problem is modern women's sex drives simply stop working after marriage. They simply don't want it anymore.
And what's a guy to do. You already married her. She wont have sex with you anymore. As if you just become celibate at that stage.

Careful there bro, you're describing a large population of married incels

GoldfishMan
08-03-2024, 01:34 PM
Take a look at Sharia Law. Cheating is illegal and you can be stoned to death as punishment, after taking 100 lashes of the whip.

Jackk
08-03-2024, 07:46 PM
Take a look at Sharia Law. Cheating is illegal and you can be stoned to death as punishment, after taking 100 lashes of the whip.
Yeah but only female

ColesBag
08-03-2024, 08:41 PM
People dribbling on about cheating, the bible & Sharia Law on a punting forum.

Being on that spectrum must be tough for some of you.

someguy88
08-03-2024, 09:10 PM
Just need something to get my 50 posts up, after all these years.

Jackk
08-03-2024, 10:33 PM
[QUOTE=someguy88;2978164]Just need something to get my 50 posts up, after all these years.[/QUOTE

Im right behind you]

Twister
09-03-2024, 02:47 AM
Careful there bro, you're describing a large population of married incels

Not sure on the word incel and cannot be bothered googling. From what I see, men younger than myself don’t fuck their partners properly or enough. They’re not hot and passionate. I don’t understand it. Why modern guys are like that.

Maybe today’s men are soft cocks, figuratively and literally? Who made them that way? Are they a product of today’s society?

Double_Adapter
09-03-2024, 10:27 AM
Not sure on the word incel and cannot be bothered googling. From what I see, men younger than myself don’t fuck their partners properly or enough. They’re not hot and passionate. I don’t understand it. Why modern guys are like that.

Maybe today’s men are soft cocks, figuratively and literally? Who made them that way? Are they a product of today’s society?

A monk, a priest, a nun are celibate by choice ie voluntarily calibate.

An incel is person who is involuntarily celibate ie celibate but not by choice.

So a married bloke who gets no sex from his wife is technically an incel.

scotindeeppuss
20-04-2024, 01:15 AM
Can't remember what lead to me googling this, I think come out of some stuff related to "massage" cough... parlours but a controversial opinion.

Should cheating be illegal?

At least some people believe that the heart ache, emotional trauma, future distrust, wasted time and stolen future should indeed justify it being illegal with jail time as a penalty.


Any thoughts?

If we look back in history, what we call 'cheating in modern world was an emblem of being 'alpha' . Only 'alpha' can win (or have or marry) more than one lady (or enjoy more than one pussy). It was the most precious reward for a victor and only reward he wants. Kings and even Gods (refer to Hindu/Greek scriptures) have multiple partners/wife or concubines.

In modern society, this reality still remains same ...just game rules are different and winners price is not blatant. See Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos and countless people who are fucking rich still fuck around. Human innate nature eventually comes out.

Rules, Morals, ethics all are to curb Beta's not become alpha's. So Live like a King & God ,just...so dont get caught!

scotindeeppuss
20-04-2024, 01:22 AM
Not sure on the word incel and cannot be bothered googling. From what I see, men younger than myself don’t fuck their partners properly or enough. They’re not hot and passionate. I don’t understand it. Why modern guys are like that.

Maybe today’s men are soft cocks, figuratively and literally? Who made them that way? Are they a product of today’s society?

Today's men are changing traits and becoming more feminine and vice-versa same goes for women becoming more masculine.
Starting from food to physical to mental and environmental, there is a shift which makes men not real men...but soft heart bunnies with flaccid dick. not wonder whats happening is not surprising...

scotindeeppuss
20-04-2024, 01:22 AM
[QUOTE=someguy88;2978164]Just need something to get my 50 posts up, after all these years.[/QUOTE

Im right behind you]

me to...some more to go...;)

scotindeeppuss
20-04-2024, 01:23 AM
Just need something to get my 50 posts up, after all these years.

hahahahaha.......here come one more from me :)

Spanky69
20-04-2024, 10:34 PM
I’ve cheated on every woman in my whole life and I’ve got no regrets. Most men if they’re honest would say the same thing. It’s like some fools openly tell me they’d never go to a brothel or pay for sex. What imbeciles, they obviously do not know the pleasure money brings. They think it’s for paying bills and buying things.

Boomer77
27-04-2024, 01:06 AM
hahahahaha.......here come one more from me :)

Me too! But just to add…it’s even worse when the misus is going through menopause.