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Spanky69
18-04-2024, 09:10 PM
I’ve just started dating a very attractive ML that has been mentioned on this forum. We met at a gym, not via her work. In fact I’ve never visited where she works and not interested in going there. We haven’t had sex yet and considering I’m a male slut I’d generally be in her pants in two seconds. In fact she has offered me to go back to her place but out of respect for the relationship I declined. I don’t want to seem too forward or rush the start of something beautiful.
Besides I still have other girlfriends I want to taper off (dump), she knows and I’ve told her that I don’t love them, which is correct.
My thoughts are, should I tell her I know what she does for a job? That I’ve read reviews on her or should I wait till she, if ever, tells me? I don’t care who she’s been with yesterday, today or tomorrow as that is totally not what this about. It’s about her and I. Maybe bringing her work into our relationship would spoil it. Perhaps I just leave it quiet and not say anything?
Sometimes you can experience déjà vu and to be truthful I knew this relationship was a longtime coming and now it’s arrived. When you first meet someone you can game things out. This one took six months but I knew the jackpot was well and truly worth it.
In the meantime she’s still working and putting smiles on your faces 😊
Rdlr84
18-04-2024, 09:16 PM
Like you said. No reason to bring it up unless it bothers you. She can tell you or it can come up in coversation naturally later. The fact that you ask this question seems to me that deep down it does bother you.
critical brain mass
18-04-2024, 09:16 PM
So how do you know who she is, that she’s a ml, and where she works if you’ve never visited her at work and she hasn’t told you?
Skidmark
18-04-2024, 09:30 PM
So how do you know who she is, that she’s a ml, and where she works if you’ve never visited her at work and she hasn’t told you?
Yeah something is missing here and from personal experience I’d run for the hills if she’s from overseas she’s not going to give up her job unless you’re rich she has mouths to feed back home and a life to live here if she’s an Aussie and grew up here with all the luxuries and opportunities and chose that profession she’s either drug fucked or head fucked or both so mate do yourself a favour give yourself 5 good uppercuts and move on
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Spanky69
18-04-2024, 09:41 PM
Like you said. No reason to bring it up unless it bothers you. She can tell you or it can come up in coversation naturally later. The fact that you ask this question seems to me that deep down it does bother you.
It doesn’t bother me but would it bother her?
So how do you know who she is, that she’s a ml, and where she works if you’ve never visited her at work and she hasn’t told you?
Some things are unique, throw two unique things together and it now defies the odds. To a certain extent I suppose a shop’s roster page also helps and of course the reviews written here.
During the last few months I had planned on visiting the shop but then I’d be a customer and I would have stepped over that line. There was the temptation though. Once a customer always a customer. She’s fair game out in the open away from her work and that’s where she was bagged. Tagged and released actually.
So now I’ve got the cake, haven’t eaten it yet though. She’s everything I expected and worth the six months wait.
Spanky69
18-04-2024, 09:56 PM
Yeah something is missing here and from personal experience I’d run for the hills if she’s from overseas she’s not going to give up her job unless you’re rich she has mouths to feed back home and a life to live here if she’s an Aussie and grew up here with all the luxuries and opportunities and chose that profession she’s either drug fucked or head fucked or both so mate do yourself a favour give yourself 5 good uppercuts and move on
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Why the negatives? This was six months in the planning and I know all about her. It wouldn’t have gone this far if I sensed a reason for failure. I’m not here to save her from anything and nothing along those lines has been discussed, except spending time together on her days off. The rest of the week the punters have her so be happy.
GoldfishMan
19-04-2024, 08:38 AM
It doesn’t bother me but would it bother her?
Some things are unique, throw two unique things together and it now defies the odds. To a certain extent I suppose a shop’s roster page also helps and of course the reviews written here.
During the last few months I had planned on visiting the shop but then I’d be a customer and I would have stepped over that line. There was the temptation though. Once a customer always a customer. She’s fair game out in the open away from her work and that’s where she was bagged. Tagged and released actually.
So now I’ve got the cake, haven’t eaten it yet though. She’s everything I expected and worth the six months wait.
I reckon the "not knowing 100% if your theory was correct", that seed of doubt, must be doing your head in. Why else would you even think of asking her about it?
That's like re-creating the nightmare of every WL/ML hookup story out there. The one defining reason all those relationships eventually fail is the fact that she knows that he knows.
Niceguy11
19-04-2024, 09:11 AM
At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what she does for work. I know a lot of girls that work at No 5, 42 Glades, Ginza and a few other shops that have BF's and they do not mind their GF's working in the industry. Honestly, their BF's do not mind their girlfriends are WL's and do normal stuff couples do outside of their workplace. Their BF's accept the fact that their GF's are sucking and fucking cocks each week. For me, I don't give two shits if my GF was a WL because that's her job.
If I was in your situation, just go for it. Does it really matter what she does for work anyway ? What difference would it make if she was a lawyer ? You wouldn't bat a eye lid. I got grilled a few years ago about my views on dating a WL and of course, we all learn from previous experiences. My views are that if you want to do it, just do it. Any relationship you get into is going to have baggage of some sort weather that is kids, drugs or mental health issues as examples.
One point to make is that if she is a international visitor or student and does not have PR or citizenship, CUT ALL TIES AND GET RID OF HER ASAP. DO NOT PROCEED. Reason why ? Because I have been there before and it was a fucking nightmare. I have learnt from previous experiences and despite everything that she can offer in terms of sex, money or anything, it is not worth it.
If she is a citizen/PR: Go for it no problems.
International student/visitor: RUN FOR THE HILLS, CUT ALL TIES, DELETE NUMBER AND RUN JUST LIKE FOREST GUMP.
JJBlows
19-04-2024, 09:41 AM
At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what she does for work. I know a lot of girls that work at No 5, 42 Glades, Ginza and a few other shops that have BF's and they do not mind their GF's working in the industry. Honestly, their BF's do not mind their girlfriends are WL's and do normal stuff couples do outside of their workplace. Their BF's accept the fact that their GF's are sucking and fucking cocks each week. For me, I don't give two shits
Lol there is a hot as fuck girl at ginza who barebacks and last i saw on her social media she has pics of her and her boyfriend together. I think she doesn't respect her BF at all and/or is whorey that she really does enjoy the raw feeling as well.
Niceguy11
19-04-2024, 10:00 AM
Lol there is a hot as fuck girl at ginza who barebacks and last i saw on her social media she has pics of her and her boyfriend together. I think she doesn't respect her BF at all and/or is whorey that she really does enjoy the raw feeling as well.
There are few girls like that at Ginza that I know of that do that and are in that exact situation bro. Its one of the realities of dating a WL because there is always the chance that she does BB despite having a BF. Most of the girls that have BF's will not disclose the fact that they do BB with certain customers. From what the girls tell me is that they will not do BB to every single customer out there, that is fact. If you build up trust and have been seeing them for a while, it can be on the menu.
In regards to the respect thing, yes I agree. WL's will often lie to their boyfriends about BB. My ex girlfriend WL from Chongqing from 2018 was like that and did BB with her regulars which was fine. Its her choice to do it and if it doesn't affect me, no issues.
I see it this way.
If there is ONE thing, which Women are prized for above all else, it's their sexual value.
Most men in the world could not give a flying strap-on how much money a girl makes or what she does. That's obviously why even a high status man can be totally satisfied with a hot McDonald's worker. We just don't care, and probably it's preferable that way anyway, as it allows the man to be in the natural role of dominance.
If you are with a woman who earns a lot more than you and or is in a much higher status position than you, I think those relationships fail much more often than not.
So if we don't care what they make or do, what's left is the woman's beauty and sexual commodity.
This might be one rare occasion we DO care what they do, as it's actually affecting their sexual commodity.
I'm all for being a gentleman to the woman whilst I am with her (as an ML) and I'd even go so far as to say I'd love one to day to take an ML out just for fun, shits and giggles, grab a movie, bowl, timezone that kinda thing. But as a romantic partner no.
Because unfortunately her sexual commodity is ruined. Her beauty remains obviously, but knowing what we as men would value most on the woman, is being given away to anyone with coin (especially knowing how she might be treated or the kind of calibre of man she might end up under) Its just a no.
If you can and are willing to overlook this somehow, by all means tread that path, but know that the odds are against you, and chances are it won't work.
As far the question of whether you should let her know you know, the answer is no.
It's convoluted and 'female logic-y' but I think what would run through her head is "he knows, and won't protect me or take me away from getting fucked by any guy that wants me for money, how could I see him as a protector or provider for me and or any kids we have?" I know it's a huge leap in logic, but it's about the same kind of logic that had some feminist believe that women are as strong as men, and her Mum, in a fit of rage and 'mama bear power' could fuck up Brock Lesnar. (From whatever.com).
Simply amazing logic there.
Hope this all helps.
Spanky69
19-04-2024, 10:30 AM
I reckon the "not knowing 100% if your theory was correct", that seed of doubt, must be doing your head in. Why else would you even think of asking her about it?
That's like re-creating the nightmare of every WL/ML hookup story out there. The one defining reason all those relationships eventually fail is the fact that she knows that he knows.
The seed of doubt. I’m fully confident I know who she works for, what she does and it’s irrelevant to how I feel. It’s just about the only thing she hasn’t told me. I can understand why so I’ll take your advice and say nothing. It’ll be a subject that just isn’t mentioned. Why ruin a good thing.
Coxswain
19-04-2024, 10:47 AM
On news.com.au this morning, why bother selling his watch collection. Corinna Schumacher? More coin or more time. If she is worth what the article says... be thankful for what they have
dotcumdotinyou
19-04-2024, 12:37 PM
If its irrelevant to how you feel why are you here asking advise and commenting on the advise???
Puntonthego
19-04-2024, 01:15 PM
DO NOT GO FIR IT! I have had past experiences with not one but 3 and I promise you they all end the same, it will destroy you and eventually damage your trust and mental wellbeing. Run for the hills and I promise there are many decent more respectable women out there.
I'd say just go with the flow. Enjoy it while it lasts
Just dont take it serious & dont marry/co-habitate. Treat it like any other Friends with Benefits type thing.
The guys that get into trouble are the ones who couldnt control their emotions then "fall in love" and get attached emotionally.
I think he's already in love it's a 6 month project and he will dump all other GFs for this one
Spanky69
19-04-2024, 03:54 PM
If its irrelevant to how you feel why are you here asking advise and commenting on the advise???
Who else am I going to tell of my happiness? Three or four close friends but that’s about it. I’ve put this out there on the forum because I want the world to know how happy you can be if you do things correctly. I believe I went the right way about it and the six month strategy paid off. I knew it was a long term game. Six months was nothing. I’ve kept busy with others plus the punting.
It’s like watching a beautiful crystal grow in the darkness, just catching the occasional glint. Then one day the sun arrives and shines a brilliant light on everything. There she is in all her radiance, reflecting her beautiful nature towards me. I bathe in her sensory overload. Every txt, every touch, every kiss makes my life so damn happy.
DO NOT GO FIR IT! I have had past experiences with not one but 3 and I promise you they all end the same, it will destroy you and eventually damage your trust and mental wellbeing. Run for the hills and I promise there are many decent more respectable women out there.
You’ve had three but where did you meet them? I’m guessing the shop. Mine was at the gym and as such I don’t consider our relationship tainted by any work connection. She no doubt has a different mindset towards me as I’ve treated her with respect and have not jumped into her pants straight away.
I think he's already in love it's a 6 month project and he will dump all other GFs for this one
Exactly and by the end of the month they’re done and dusted. In fact my punting days could well be over. If you firmly believe you’ve found a special someone then there is no need for stray sex.
dotcumdotinyou
19-04-2024, 03:59 PM
So you're telling us all cause you want a pat on the back, like a dog bringing a stick back...OK then
WHOSE A GOOD BOY!!!
dotcumdotinyou
19-04-2024, 04:00 PM
Also, your punting days could soon be over...but not hers
ColesBag
19-04-2024, 06:29 PM
Wear a condom. No, really.
cometoIndia
19-04-2024, 06:31 PM
Does it really matter what she does for work anyway ? What difference would it make if she was a lawyer ?
My ex girlfriend WL from Chongqing from 2018 was like that and did BB with her regulars which was fine. Its her choice to do it and if it doesn't affect me, no issues.
I am sorry but what the fuck. I hope no one takes this post seriously.
Niceguy11
19-04-2024, 06:57 PM
I am sorry but what the fuck. I hope no one takes this post seriously.
The reality is bro that if you are dating a WL and she does BB with you and she says she only does it with you (the boyfriend) she is doing it with her regulars. I wouldn't say any joe blow off the street, the girls are smart enough to know who to offer it and who not to offer it to. I have been in the game far too long to be naive and just want to tell the truth. If a punter is dumb enough to believe she is only doing BB because he is the boyfriend, then think again. Lets face reality.
You can believe me or not. I do not really care. I am just sharing my thoughts that's all.
Spanky69
19-04-2024, 09:46 PM
Also, your punting days could soon be over...but not hers
Mine yes, she still has to make her money. Why should I support her just like that? She’s never asked and unless she moves in then I see no need to support her. Obviously she’s chosen the most lucrative way to survive that she knows. She dresses well, presents very well and that takes money. Just because we hooked up doesn’t mean she’s hooked me financially. I’m already thinking two steps ahead of any situation as I don’t want to be another read about it on the forum failure. I literally plan for any eventuality, what I’ll say if she says this or if she says that. I have to, it’s a gamble that I don’t want to lose. If everything settles into place then I’ll let my guard down progressively. There never will be a shared bank account or complementary credit card. Never any cars in her name, never any property and no business either. She can use but not own anything of mine.
Wear a condom. No, really.
I’ve never stopped wearing them. Who wants to be entrapped by a pregnancy? I’ve never had an STI and don’t want to get one either.
Spanky69
19-04-2024, 10:00 PM
I'd say just go with the flow. Enjoy it while it lasts
Just dont take it serious & dont marry/co-habitate. Treat it like any other Friends with Benefits type thing.
The guys that get into trouble are the ones who couldnt control their emotions then "fall in love" and get attached emotionally.
She makes me happy and we haven’t slept together yet so I see that as a good sign. What she does in her own time is entirely up to her and I expect the same courtesy.
scotindeeppuss
20-04-2024, 02:50 AM
I’ve just started dating a very attractive ML that has been mentioned on this forum. We met at a gym, not via her work. In fact I’ve never visited where she works and not interested in going there. We haven’t had sex yet and considering I’m a male slut I’d generally be in her pants in two seconds. In fact she has offered me to go back to her place but out of respect for the relationship I declined. I don’t want to seem too forward or rush the start of something beautiful.
Besides I still have other girlfriends I want to taper off (dump), she knows and I’ve told her that I don’t love them, which is correct.
My thoughts are, should I tell her I know what she does for a job? That I’ve read reviews on her or should I wait till she, if ever, tells me? I don’t care who she’s been with yesterday, today or tomorrow as that is totally not what this about. It’s about her and I. Maybe bringing her work into our relationship would spoil it. Perhaps I just leave it quiet and not say anything?
Sometimes you can experience déjà vu and to be truthful I knew this relationship was a longtime coming and now it’s arrived. When you first meet someone you can game things out. This one took six months but I knew the jackpot was well and truly worth it.
In the meantime she’s still working and putting smiles on your faces
this is interesting or some weirdo posting just to post something to reach 50 ;)
many missing puzzle pieces...with at center being how you know for sure she is a WL ?
assuming its all happening and true, looks no doubt you are serious and emotionally attached....now to know if she is having same feelings for you and there is a future together, you should accept her offer and rather be in her pants, but key part is while you are in her pants.....you need to identify and feel minute details of souls connection during the act...if her behavior is passionate, hot, steamy, sweaty, like both having sex between souls not body and ofcourse bareback... it cant be faked and its your real love, your jackpot of life, your soulmate, your one and only .....then you can bring moon and star for her.
And after you found out there is no need to confront about her job since as you clearly mentioned you are "not affected at all yesterday, today or tomorrow". If not just visit the shop while she is working and fuck her in fake passionate, hot, steamy, sweaty, ways./...lol
ReginaldBubbles
20-04-2024, 02:55 AM
Why do I think this is another Vincent persona?
scotindeeppuss
20-04-2024, 03:00 AM
Why do I think this is another Vincent persona?
what is Vincent persona? bare with dumbness if its very obvious...
Spanky69
20-04-2024, 08:27 AM
this is interesting or some weirdo posting just to post something to reach 50 ;)
many missing puzzle pieces...with at center being how you know for sure she is a WL ?
assuming its all happening and true, looks no doubt you are serious and emotionally attached....now to know if she is having same feelings for you and there is a future together, you should accept her offer and rather be in her pants, but key part is while you are in her pants.....you need to identify and feel minute details of souls connection during the act...if her behavior is passionate, hot, steamy, sweaty, like both having sex between souls not body and ofcourse bareback... it cant be faked and its your real love, your jackpot of life, your soulmate, your one and only .....then you can bring moon and star for her.
And after you found out there is no need to confront about her job since as you clearly mentioned you are "not affected at all yesterday, today or tomorrow". If not just visit the shop while she is working and fuck her in fake passionate, hot, steamy, sweaty, ways./...lol
Fifty what, I’m guessing you mean posts? It might be another few more posts, but not many. Don’t you think I’d be doing the bare minimum number of words to get to fifty if that was the case? All I have done is convey my situation. She txt me at five thirty am before I woke up this morning and I know she’s been out last night, just gotten home with her BF and good on her. I already am up and getting ready to do my own thing today otherwise we’d be spending today together. Just like I still have other girls to sort out she has a guy who she has to get rid of too. She told me all about him. He’s half my age and she told me he loves her. I’ve seen various pics of him in the background months ago since Christmas Day and I had already put two and two together. She came out and told me such just like I freely admitted I had other girls. We had a very frank and open discussion about where our feelings are with other people and how we will be letting them go.
I already have her mind and her heart. The rest will follow suit when I’m ready. If anything it shows how calculating we both can be when it comes to our current lovers. We both already have the upper hand in our individual relationships with other people so breaking them off isn’t an emotional roller coaster. I’m already controlling this situation as it’s been planned and she has the weak hand.
I’m not sure how any of you set up your relationships and if you are the dominant person? It’s a choice you either make or you leave it to fate.
Soccerfan
20-04-2024, 08:29 AM
This story has to be bullshit. If there’s the odd chance it’s true she probably thinks your gay.
Spanky69
20-04-2024, 08:52 AM
This story has to be bullshit. If there’s the odd chance it’s true she probably thinks you’re gay.
We’ve already made plans for later this week and I’ll be doing the deed if that’s what you’re wondering about. I think making a person hungry for sex is a good thing. She already is all over me, all over me. We held nothing back except sex on our last date. She’s very passionate, a great kisser and I walked away with aching balls, a hard on and precum dripping. So yeah I want it real bad and so does she. It’s about making sure this one sticks, by that I mean I’ve rubber stamped her good and proper. Who knows I may even get my name tattooed on her somewhere. It’s a thought.
doctorspock
20-04-2024, 09:52 AM
Has she asked you to lend money to her yet? What will you do then.
Soccerfan
20-04-2024, 10:03 AM
Fuck, even I’m starting to think you’re gay.
Dettol
20-04-2024, 12:35 PM
Some of you need to learn how to spot a troll lol
Spanky69
20-04-2024, 10:08 PM
Has she asked you to lend money to her yet? What will you do then.
No she hasn’t, she lives in an apartment which I’m guessing costs around $2k a week so she must be making some money or she has a benefactor. She’s sought after as I see the messages pop up on her phone when she’s showing me pics. They sit there for a few seconds, I never read them as I can’t be bothered and it’s her business not mine. I totally understand her being a player but if she doesn’t deliver or perform then she’s gone. It’ll be her loss not mine. Remember I hold the cards and I’m dealing her what I want her to believe.
Fuck, even I’m starting to think you’re gay.
People’s sexuality isn’t a worry of mine. Though this being a punting forum I’d presume we all punt?
Some of you need to learn how to spot a troll lol
Several of my friends know I’m dating her. Now this forum knows. There’s way more to the story than I’m letting on but as I respect her work privacy there won’t be anything post that will put her income in jeopardy. She really is a beautiful person. Whenever we are out together I just look at all the other couples and think how bland they all are. They cannot help their normality, they’re a product of societal programming. We’re different, we dress differently and behave differently. I’m beginning to see that her and I have a lot in common.
I’m not a troll.
Stubbies4Lyf
20-04-2024, 10:33 PM
Wear a condom. No, really.
Go raw dog I say. I wouldn't want to deny the next generation this kind of wild imagination.
tcrawford
20-04-2024, 11:56 PM
This posters ego is out of control, the whole point of this thread is to flex. Without knowing which girl it is, its hard to say, could be a gravel donkey that none of us care about.
With any active ml/wl you can be: A] real friends, B] just lovers / have fun, C] sugar daddy / papa-katsu [ so you know its only about money and sex ] - or D] to do business with her [ help her for the visa etc. ] ... nothing else exist.
Any man who is falling in love or believe that can be in real relationship with active ml/wl need to get out of this asap. Only a weak / desperate man [ no judgment if you get in this category of men but you need to get out of this illusion asap otherwise soon or later you will hurt yourself emotionally and maybe financially as well ] can falling in love with the active ml/wl.
so simple ...
ReginaldBubbles
21-04-2024, 12:54 AM
It’ll be her loss not mine. Remember I hold the cards and I’m dealing her what I want her to believe.
Whenever we are out together I just look at all the other couples and think how bland they all are. They cannot help their normality, they’re a product of societal programming.
Is your character inspired by Travis Bickle, Vinnie or are you just actually like this?
Spanky69
21-04-2024, 08:44 AM
This posters ego is out of control, the whole point of this thread is to flex. Without knowing which girl it is, its hard to say, could be a gravel donkey that none of us care about.
Yes of course it’s a flex and if you could see her and be next to her then you’d be flexing too. One of the best things is to have my way with her in public. Slapping her arse, holding hands, kissing, cuddling. Go out and observe how many couples are actually intimate in the street, in the shopping centres or a restaurant. Not many nowadays. Yes we get a lot of looks. Especially from older people, why? Because I’m way older than her and I flaunt my ability to do as I choose. It’s a big flex and a big fuck you. Guys stare but will never get, their women stare and wonder how. Like I said, it took six months and she is worth every day I waited.
Now regarding her looks, she’s beautiful. I don’t date women that are not attractive. It’s all about choices. Surely you’ve seen a guy with a hot girl and you think he’s punching way way above his weight. Im not ugly though.
With any active ml/wl you can be: A] real friends, B] just lovers / have fun, C] sugar daddy / papa-katsu [ so you know its only about money and sex ] - or D] to do business with her [ help her for the visa etc. ] ... nothing else exist.
Any man who is falling in love or believe that can be in real relationship with active ml/wl need to get out of this asap. Only a weak / desperate man [ no judgment if you get in this category of men but you need to get out of this illusion asap otherwise soon or later you will hurt yourself emotionally and maybe financially as well ] can falling in love with the active ml/wl.
so simple ...
At present it’s A leading to B. I’ve deliberately held off on pushing B as she has to believe she’s the one initiating it. We kiss, caress, cuddle, hold hands continuously, walk with arms around each others waist and I’ve felt every part of her body except her most intimate part. Some may say the mind is the most intimate. I still believe it’s between her legs.
The other two girls I’ve been seeing were told a story and put on the back burner till I forget about them completely. If anything it’ll keep them keen, let them wait. Besides they just don’t compare in a lot of ways. Intellect is one.
Is your character inspired by Travis Bickle, Vinnie or are you just actually like this?
Actually like what?
I googled the name you mentioned and I’ve never seen the movie. Not sure how to take the comment. Don’t have the time to do any more research or watch the movie. This thread is a true story. It’s unfolding on a daily basis. It’s real life and the ML is real. We are seeing each other every second day. We both are busy, we don’t want to interfere with our income. We both have other lovers we are dealing with. Hers is half my age remember. I’m sure he will crash and burn as he’s no doubt immature but that is her problem, not mine. I’m not even sure how they connected, I asked her then ignored her reply. It was idle banter. I have what I want and as long as I keep her that’s all that matters.
Spanky69
21-04-2024, 09:14 AM
Go raw dog I say. I wouldn't want to deny the next generation this kind of wild imagination.
I deliberately do not post any details regarding her location or where we go out or what we do. It’d be easy for some of you who see her to work out who she is whilst talking on the job. I’ve also come to the conclusion there is an old guard on this forum and the fact that a newb has bagged a young hottie doesn’t go down well with some of you older punters. Perhaps if you upped your game and devoted time and thought to the chase you’d get somewhere. It depends on what you’re after I suppose. The quick 45 min fix or a life choice.
GoldfishMan
21-04-2024, 12:34 PM
Some of you need to learn how to spot a troll lol
From a mile away, bro. I'm personally trying to minimise my contact with the lunatic on this forum because who knows what terrible thing a mentally ill person might ultimately do?
He's on my ignore on sight / detection list. The smallest clue I get it's him, I ignore him. All his posts become walls of text that I just scroll right through.
tezzaman18
21-04-2024, 01:33 PM
Thanks for putting your story on the forum. As you are aware some of it is sound advice , some of it is about creating awareness for you and as for the others you can disregard.
More importantly , is how you feel about it all . U have all the information to make the decision. U know her character. She is a beautiful person as u said. As u said earlier on it does not bother you which way u go . It bothers her and rightfully so as she is obviously concerned that what she does for a living (which u already know) may bother you once you know about it. Obviously, she does not want to lose u . Any women (be it a women in a tourist or student visa or a local ) in this line has a story. Best to find out more if it is of concern to you.
Whilst the consensus is obvious I believe u have made up your mind on this. I know where I would go on this too.I have been in this situation . Incidentally, it was also a 6 month timeline. LOL . IMO - it's not something i would put out in the forum .
No she hasn’t, she lives in an apartment which I’m guessing costs around $2k a week so she must be making some money or she has a benefactor. She’s sought after as I see the messages pop up on her phone when she’s showing me pics. They sit there for a few seconds, I never read them as I can’t be bothered and it’s her business not mine. I totally understand her being a player but if she doesn’t deliver or perform then she’s gone. It’ll be her loss not mine. Remember I hold the cards and I’m dealing her what I want her to believe.
People’s sexuality isn’t a worry of mine. Though this being a punting forum I’d presume we all punt?
Several of my friends know I’m dating her. Now this forum knows. There’s way more to the story than I’m letting on but as I respect her work privacy there won’t be anything post that will put her income in jeopardy. She really is a beautiful person. Whenever we are out together I just look at all the other couples and think how bland they all are. They cannot help their normality, they’re a product of societal programming. We’re different, we dress differently and behave differently. I’m beginning to see that her and I have a lot in common.
I’m not a troll.
Johny77
21-04-2024, 03:48 PM
The seed of doubt. I’m fully confident I know who she works for, what she does and it’s irrelevant to how I feel. It’s just about the only thing she hasn’t told me. I can understand why so I’ll take your advice and say nothing. It’ll be a subject that just isn’t mentioned. Why ruin a good thing.
No judgement from me as it is your life and you do as you please. I do have a few questions, though. When people start relationships, isn’t what a person does for work, one of the first questions asked? Have you not asked her that question? Kind of odd that you are kind of in a relationship ship with her and that topic has not been discussed.
Spanky69
21-04-2024, 05:27 PM
He's on my ignore on sight / detection list. The smallest clue I get it's him, I ignore him. All his posts become walls of text that I just scroll right through.
That’s precisely why you replied isn’t it? I’m on your ignore list. I love how you can diagnose by reading a few lines of text. So go on, talk about me all you like. I’ve got my hot piece of arse and you’d better hustle if you want your own. Not too late to dump your partner and go for it. It’s a challenge you’ll never take up though, so sit back in your slippers, enjoy your reclining commode chair, snuggle up to your fluffy pillow and watch, read about it and live through my posts. There’s no shame in self subjugation as you are a product of your upbringing and too blind to see past your keyboard.
it's not something i would put out in the forum.
She’s coming in hot and strong now, so no need to back off with her or posting my exploits on this forum.
No judgement from as it is your life and you do as you please. I do have a few questions, though. When people start relationships, isn’t what a person does for work, one of the first questions asked? Have you not asked her that question? Kind of odd that you are kind of in a relationship ship with her and that topic has not been discussed.
Why discuss anything monetary? She presents very well so can obviously look after herself. She’s into labels and I suppose that’s one sign of stature. Expensive accessories and such. Where she lives I would classify as CBD so the rent is up there. Concierge and the like, marble foyer, you get the idea.
From my perspective it’s about enjoying each others presence and I find being in her presence intoxicating. My focus is only on her, the rest of the world can be burning, literally. Asking questions about minutiae is so far off the radar it’s non existent. You have to understand when we go out people are always looking at her. She draws their attention and she knows it too.I observe and think nothing of it. I’m the lucky one, not them, so let them look. In fact she seems to get special attention from anyone we cross paths with while we are out. Like a celebrity vibe I suppose.
Mr Bricks
21-04-2024, 05:49 PM
Yeah I don’t know brother. Echoing what some others have said here, I’d be wary of her true intentions.
We all have our favourites ML’s, I think I’m close enough to my regular now that she’d be will to go to dinner and stay for a a night/do a private afterwards, but at the end of the day I know she’s not really doing it for me. She wants the cash or benefits of having a local.
I guess if she’s Japanese, Korean, or Chinese she probably doesn’t need much from you since they usually have money or a support system. But if she’s Thai/Viet etc then there’s a greater chances she maybe she feels better having you around as a safety net.
That or your trolling and living out a fantasy on a forum full of dudes.
Spanky69
21-04-2024, 06:31 PM
Mr Bricks, sooner or later some people’s dreams come true. Like I said it took six months for mine to come to fruition. There was no expectation of a result at any time. Like fishing, you can catch one now, tomorrow, the next day or not at all. There’s an expression for wanting something and thinking about it enough so that it eventuates. Manifesting. That’s what I did. She already calls me her boyfriend so things are moving along well.
As regards living out a fantasy, I already have enough on my plate of reality to not even dwell on any fantasy. I still have the two GF’s to firmly get rid of. They were fine to take my mind off sexual boredom but there never was any love for them. On other occasions I punted.
This is a forum of dudes and maybe 0.1% women. They’re just guys who mostly punt and I’m putting out there my experience with a ML. That’s all it is.
Spanky69
21-04-2024, 06:35 PM
This sums it all up.
https://youtube.com/shorts/x5ZtQDK4G-w?si=-OaqZqKIwioPBJgC
Johny77
21-04-2024, 08:30 PM
That’s precisely why you replied isn’t it? I’m on your ignore list. I love how you can diagnose by reading a few lines of text. So go on, talk about me all you like. I’ve got my hot piece of arse and you’d better hustle if you want your own. Not too late to dump your partner and go for it. It’s a challenge you’ll never take up though, so sit back in your slippers, enjoy your reclining commode chair, snuggle up to your fluffy pillow and watch, read about it and live through my posts. There’s no shame in self subjugation as you are a product of your upbringing and too blind to see past your keyboard.
She’s coming in hot and strong now, so no need to back off with her or posting my exploits on this forum.
Why discuss anything monetary? She presents very well so can obviously look after herself. She’s into labels and I suppose that’s one sign of stature. Expensive accessories and such. Where she lives I would classify as CBD so the rent is up there. Concierge and the like, marble foyer, you get the idea.
From my perspective it’s about enjoying each others presence and I find being in her presence intoxicating. My focus is only on her, the rest of the world can be burning, literally. Asking questions about minutiae is so far off the radar it’s non existent. You have to understand when we go out people are always looking at her. She draws their attention and she knows it too.I observe and think nothing of it. I’m the lucky one, not them, so let them look. In fact she seems to get special attention from anyone we cross paths with while we are out. Like a celebrity vibe I suppose.
Absolutely nothing to do with money. When you chat with someone, the topic of work normally comes up. It is what you do on a daily basis and in certain instances part of who you are. Nothing to do with knowing how much a person earns or anything monetary. How else do you get to know a person.
ColesBag
21-04-2024, 08:54 PM
Gee I wonder who this is.
trampslikeus55
21-04-2024, 11:36 PM
Gee I wonder who this is.
Was thinking the same thing 👍
cassius
22-04-2024, 12:04 AM
Ultimately a lie or secret will kill a relationship.
ReginaldBubbles
22-04-2024, 12:16 AM
Actually like what?
I googled the name you mentioned and I’ve never seen the movie. Not sure how to take the comment. Don’t have the time to do any more research or watch the movie. This thread is a true story. It’s unfolding on a daily basis. It’s real life and the ML is real. We are seeing each other every second day. We both are busy, we don’t want to interfere with our income. We both have other lovers we are dealing with. Hers is half my age remember. I’m sure he will crash and burn as he’s no doubt immature but that is her problem, not mine. I’m not even sure how they connected, I asked her then ignored her reply. It was idle banter. I have what I want and as long as I keep her that’s all that matters.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9Sy0bO2qvo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7KOOpXWFSP8
This is how things will roll. I’ll continue punting and you guys won’t know anything about it. The shops will get my money, the girls will get their bonus. The forum will lose a member and I’ll devote the time I wasted here to now making more money.
I’m barely even motivated to reply. It’s a bit like losing interest with a regular. Sooner or later you just cannot be bothered and don’t go back. It’s not like you’ve even beaten me in a fight. Now that would have been motivation to stay but it’s soft cock city and that isn’t me.
Maybe if I can’t get it up when I’m ninety I’ll come back and post but till then there is nothing that interests me here. Besides I’ve learnt all
I need to know and that’s all yee need to know.
Axeman123
22-04-2024, 12:16 PM
Just ducking out for a while lads, gonna check out Rebecca reviews.
softdrink.pp
22-04-2024, 01:17 PM
Some guys have the "cuckold" (knowing that many guys is using their wife/gf body for sex) and/or the "savior" (I am the one who took her off this life) fantasies. Whatever is your motive, I would advise to enjoy time with her, but don't het emotionally attached.
Women that opt for this kind of work has some emotional/physcological problems and they are not suitable for relationship.
GoldfishMan
22-04-2024, 02:34 PM
Hahaha thats true. If the guy is "dating" a WL/ML, but other guys are banging her when she goes work, it means he is being "Cucked" and he is a "Cuckold"
I bet most these guys "dating" a WL/ML were customers who met her in the shops then got attached. Same thing when foreigner guys go to SE Asia & end up marrying a Thai hooker.
I dont know....
Why guys date or marry WL's/ML's is beyond me...
To each his own I guess
Most guys fall into the situation by chance. They meet a WL as a customer and get hooked on them, "fall in love", and the rest is history.
This fella who started this thread is on a different level. He's deliberately looked for a girl who's a WL, done all the research to make sure that she was one, then started a relationship with her. Like he wants to be the ultimate cuck.
softdrink.pp
22-04-2024, 02:48 PM
Hahaha thats true. If the guy is "dating" a WL/ML, but other guys are banging her when she goes work, it means he is being "Cucked" and he is a "Cuckold"
I bet most these guys "dating" a WL/ML were customers who met her in the shops then got attached. Same thing when foreigner guys go to SE Asia & end up marrying a Thai hooker.
I dont know....
Why guys date or marry WL's/ML's is beyond me...
To each his own I guess
I strongly believe this is one of reasons he is so interested on her. Deep inside his subconcious, he feels horny knowing the girl is fucking and taking loads of cum from different guys everyday and meeting him after.
I was in a "liberal" party group and met many swingers. One particular couple still makes me wondering human sexual fantasies/fetishes.
The husband let the spouse met guys on a 1:1 or 1:2-3 and he asked her to video call him to let him watch. Also, the guys should creampie her and she should go back home without taking a shower so he can do oral on her when she arrives.
massage addict
22-04-2024, 03:07 PM
haha this post is hilarious! it is 1 of 2 scenarios:
1. a well known forum member that has been banned multiple times and keeps coming back. In this case the entire post is absolute bullshit and exists only in his head.
2. He is being played and has no idea.
either way i get a chuckle!
Johny77
22-04-2024, 03:16 PM
It’s supposedly a ‘relationship’, yet they haven’t even discussed run of the mill things such as employment and day to day stuff. Apparently it’s inferred because of her apartment, handbags etc.
JuneC
22-04-2024, 03:25 PM
is having a regular punt with same ML same as dating?
GoldfishMan
22-04-2024, 03:33 PM
is having a regular punt with same ML same as dating?
What do you think?
dotcumdotinyou
22-04-2024, 04:02 PM
Hayabi is back and he's finally over J and moved on to a new imaginary relationship and wants a pat on the back from all the forum members
Spanky69
22-04-2024, 07:13 PM
Gee I wonder who this is.
Does it really matter? What you are reading here is exactly what I’m telling my mates. The only difference being the pics and videos I have to back it all up. They get to see them and soon her up close and personal, you guys don’t.
Was thinking the same thing 👍
No need to think just observe. I’m posting reality.
Ultimately a lie or secret will kill a relationship.
That’s a glass half empty comment. I never think that way.
Spanky69
22-04-2024, 07:30 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9Sy0bO2qvo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7KOOpXWFSP8
Reggie stop watching YouTube, this is reality. I deliberately chose to not watch your links as I cannot afford high speed internet ok!
Some guys have the "cuckold" (knowing that many guys is using their wife/gf body for sex) and/or the "savior" (I am the one who took her off this life) fantasies. Whatever is your motive, I would advise to enjoy time with her, but don't het emotionally attached.
Women that opt for this kind of work has some emotional/physcological problems and they are not suitable for relationship.
I have no fantasies regarding her. We date as any normal couple except I do not ask what she does for a living or even if she had a good or a bad day. Regarding motive. I prize her as a catch, like a marlin, I’ve caught, tagged and released her back into the punting wild from whence she came. I feel she respects I’m not clingy and that I don’t ask too many questions. When we are together that is all that counts. Nothing else. No day to day doldrums.
Hahaha thats true. If the guy is "dating" a WL/ML, but other guys are banging her when she goes work, it means he is being "Cucked" and he is a "Cuckold"
I bet most these guys "dating" a WL/ML were customers who met her in the shops then got attached. Same thing when foreigner guys go to SE Asia & end up marrying a Thai hooker.
I dont know....
Why guys date or marry WL's/ML's is beyond me...
To each his own I guess
It’s a job and nothing else. I’ve dated three that have come out of the shops. Their intellect doesn’t compare, really, it doesn’t. Good looks and smarts . A rare combination.
Niceguy11
22-04-2024, 07:40 PM
Some guys have the "cuckold" (knowing that many guys is using their wife/gf body for sex) and/or the "savior" (I am the one who took her off this life) fantasies. Whatever is your motive, I would advise to enjoy time with her, but don't het emotionally attached.
Women that opt for this kind of work has some emotional/physcological problems and they are not suitable for relationship.
Exactly. Again, exactly ! I have even heard it from a WL who is currently in a relationship with her customer, that they constantly fight and that he wants her out of the industry. I was like ohhh ok, right, I understand. 150% of the time, they have issues. It is complicated, so very complicated with a WL and speaking from experience, its nothing but a mind fuck of a situation.
One of my regulars from a few years finally got out of the industry. She is happily married, has a kid and is working full time in Sydney. It is possible for the happy ever after life but in all honesty, once a WL quits, she will cut all ties from you and other customers. They will literally drop off the face of the planet. Don't be a fuck up like me and keep punting, punting.
Spanky69
22-04-2024, 07:51 PM
This fella who started this thread is on a different level. He's deliberately looked for a girl who's a WL, done all the research to make sure that she was one, then started a relationship with her. Like he wants to be the ultimate cuck.
An interesting spin, the main criteria were looks, youth, an outward projective personality and a willingness to take risks. She has all four. In fact she’s already pushing to do things any normal woman wouldn’t do. So she surpasses my expectations on risk management. Yes it was a selection process and why not. Most people fall into relationships, don’t they.
I strongly believe this is one of reasons he is so interested on her. Deep inside his subconcious, he feels horny knowing the girl is fucking and taking loads of cum from different guys everyday and meeting him after.
I was in a "liberal" party group and met many swingers. One particular couple still makes me wondering human sexual fantasies/fetishes.
The husband let the spouse met guys on a 1:1 or 1:2-3 and he asked her to video call him to let him watch. Also, the guys should creampie her and she should go back home without taking a shower so he can do oral on her when she arrives.
Very very similar to a request I made once to a GF but she didn’t go through with it. She did everything else though.
haha this post is hilarious! it is 1 of 2 scenarios:
1. a well known forum member that has been banned multiple times and keeps coming back. In this case the entire post is absolute bullshit and exists only in his head.
2. He is being played and has no idea.
either way i get a chuckle!
Can a player be outplayed? Considering this whole relationship was my doing what do you think? I am the maestro of my own self orchestrated destiny. The rest of the common folk stray into and out of relationships with no self control, hence most are doomed to failure and even your religious beliefs cannot save you.
Spanky69
22-04-2024, 08:08 PM
Exactly. Again, exactly ! I have even heard it from a WL who is currently in a relationship with her customer, that they constantly fight and that he wants her out of the industry. I was like ohhh ok, right, I understand. 150% of the time, they have issues. It is complicated, so very complicated with a WL and speaking from experience, its nothing but a mind fuck of a situation.
One of my regulars from a few years finally got out of the industry. She is happily married, has a kid and is working full time in Sydney. It is possible for the happy ever after life but in all honesty, once a WL quits, she will cut all ties from you and other customers. They will literally drop off the face of the planet. Don't be a fuck up like me and keep punting, punting.
I’m not a customer. I’ve tried that three times already. Didn’t even want to save them. Basically their decision making process is obfuscated by trust issue hang ups, husbands they are trying to dump, their need for residency, and their offspring that some guy has given them and then left them with. So yeah I’ve been around. All that in the last six months.
I don’t need to be instructed on any sex worker eventualities. Been there done that. It was better to pick one from the gym floor, suss her out and work on it. The fact she’s a WL with looks and money validates her as a worthwhile commodity. No doubt she’s good in bed too. Otherwise she’d be living in tent city somewhere.
Spanky69
22-04-2024, 08:24 PM
is having a regular punt with same ML same as dating?
The proof is in the punting and I haven’t paid for any sex nor will I with this trophy.
What do you think?
I love how you’re ignoring this thread. Do your slippers feel warm on this cold wintery night?
Hayabi is back and he's finally over J and moved on to a new imaginary relationship and wants a pat on the back from all the forum members
Hayabi is a third worlder. Different person.
I’m not interested in being compared to or associated with a guy who doesn’t kick goals.
He’s a loser.
In the last six months:
While he wrote fantasy I was out there punting scores of women. While he wrote fantasy I had already dated three WL’s. While he wrote fantasy I was writing my history.
While he wrote fantasy I’ve scored most probably the hottest ML in Sydney.
Copy that dotcom……..
ReginaldBubbles
22-04-2024, 09:28 PM
Reggie stop watching YouTube, this is reality. I deliberately chose to not watch your links as I cannot afford high speed internet ok!
After I went to all that trouble so you didn't have to watch the whole movie. So unappreciative!
I guess I should know better than to mess with a guy who deliberately chooses. Life is a game of chess to you and everyone else are just pawns in your game. And working 17 hours a day to boot!
Spanky69
22-04-2024, 09:57 PM
After I went to all that trouble so you didn't have to watch the whole movie. So unappreciative!
I guess I should know better than to mess with a guy who deliberately chooses. Life is a game of chess to you and everyone else are just pawns in your game. And working 17 hours a day to boot!
Reggie I’m only responding quickly because I know you love me and I don’t like to keep you waiting… but in all seriousness the clip did just come up in my YouTube feed from an inadvertent click. I still didn’t watch it, though it made me think of this forum once again in between messaging my new GF so here I am.
Sometimes they want everything all at once and it’s better to make them wait. I’ve made some wait one month, others three months and one even a year. Games people play, why not. What else is there if you don’t have any other real goals to chase at the present time. I seriously doubt you’ve ever made anyone wait. Perhaps you should.
So now she can wait for my reply and I should be charging you Reggie darling for these lessons on life.
ColesBag
22-04-2024, 10:44 PM
What a window licker.
ReginaldBubbles
22-04-2024, 11:11 PM
Reggie I’m only responding quickly because I know you love me and I don’t like to keep you waiting… but in all seriousness the clip did just come up in my YouTube feed from an inadvertent click. I still didn’t watch it, though it made me think of this forum once again in between messaging my new GF so here I am.
Sometimes they want everything all at once and it’s better to make them wait. I’ve made some wait one month, others three months and one even a year. Games people play, why not. What else is there if you don’t have any other real goals to chase at the present time. I seriously doubt you’ve ever made anyone wait. Perhaps you should.
So now she can wait for my reply and I should be charging you Reggie darling for these lessons on life.
So many reasons to post here in between balling. Thanks for not making me wait though. Darling :smile:
Johny77
23-04-2024, 10:59 AM
Time to stop feeding the troll.
Spanky69
23-04-2024, 02:36 PM
Time to stop feeding the troll.
How can fact be troll like? Yes I’m flexing and why not. I’m sure if any of you even had half the woman she is you’d already be on your honeymoon and you’d have given her your car keys and your credit cards.
I’m wondering if you’re a Johny-come-lately? You’ve obviously missed the boat on this one as she’s now in my hip pocket and not yours. Would you like some instruction on achieving what you dream about?
Spanky69
23-04-2024, 02:47 PM
What a window licker.
I only lick pussy. You should try it some time. Oh, by the way I stumbled across your post about your unsuccessful sex worker relationship somewhere in the forum’s bowels. I’m curious what happened?
So many reasons to post here in between balling. Thanks for not making me wait though. Darling :smile:
Reggie I know you’re happy I’m posting but I cannot satisfy the new GF and this forum at the same time, so something has to give. She’s txting me continuously now and I’d rather devote my time to her, so I’m sorry, I’ll be pulling the pin soon…
dotcumdotinyou
23-04-2024, 04:05 PM
Sorry hayabi but I can't copy unless you imagine I copy.
See I live in the real world, I have a company, I began punting, I got married, I had 3 beautiful girls (that I see every weekend), I got divorced, I began punting again.
Copt that hayabi...
Spanky69
24-04-2024, 12:04 AM
Sorry hayabi but I can't copy unless you imagine I copy.
See I live in the real world, I have a company, I began punting, I got married, I had 3 beautiful girls (that I see every weekend), I got divorced, I began punting again.
Copt that hayabi...
For starters why put your family history out there for the world to see? I’m not saying that’s not an achievement but this is a punting forum. It’s where guys post about their exploits and that’s all I’m doing.
Once again you guys cannot accept that my reality is different to your reality. That where you may punt once a month I punt every other day. There is no difference except quantity and if I’m paying more for a punt then quality also.
Hayabi must mean a lot to you as you keep mentioning his name. He’s an amateur with no money, no drive and no success as far as I can recollect. I don’t dwell on losers and don’t really remember him.
So this ML today wanted me to pick her up as by coincidence I was five minutes away. I’m not at her disposal and told her so. Anyway I made her wait four hours for that reply. Now she’s playing the same game back. Not responding to txts so I deleted the chat. Quite frankly I don’t care.
You see dotcomwhatever the difference between Hayabi and myself is that he’s a desperate. I on the other hand can and will dump any woman as I see fit on a whim, even this one.
They’re a conquest, a folly and time wasters.
If she responds back I’ll decide on her penance.
ReginaldBubbles
24-04-2024, 02:09 AM
Once again you guys cannot accept that my reality is different to your reality.
So this ML today wanted me to pick her up as by coincidence I was five minutes away. I’m not at her disposal and told her so. Anyway I made her wait four hours for that reply. Now she’s playing the same game back. Not responding to txts so I deleted the chat. Quite frankly I don’t care.
Sounds like a happy life. Enjoy!
Spanky69
24-04-2024, 08:44 AM
Sounds like a happy life. Enjoy!
Reggie when you are busy as I am there is only one thing that matters. Anyway she was txting me extra early this morning. I’m deciding about today’s activities with her and if I do anything. Decisions, decisions. Once you get what you wanted it’s easy to lose interest. Perhaps the chase was the main thing. Getting the prize. The trophy. Now she could go on the shelf with the others and collect dust.
Is there any meaning to all this?
JuneC
24-04-2024, 08:48 AM
my ML is pay normal rate for overnight stay. i book her for an hour but i offer she hangs or sleeps over. I get free cuddle and a naked girl to sleep with
ReginaldBubbles
24-04-2024, 09:13 AM
Is there any meaning to all this?
No Vinnie, none at all....
Spanky69
24-04-2024, 07:32 PM
No Spanky69, none at all....
She really is a beautiful person in so many ways. I won’t list them as some things are best left in private. From my side I need to learn to be not so abrupt on terminating anything. Maybe it’s because I’m too battle hardened and never give an inch. It’s been either my way or the highway. Time will tell on that one but I’m not going to be jumping through too many hoops to keep her happy. Yes there is a decent age difference. I’ve read that Asian women should be wary of older guys as they’re manipulative. It’ll be interesting to see how this unfolds or unravels.
kayofa
25-04-2024, 02:06 AM
She really is a beautiful person in so many ways. I won’t list them as some things are best left in private. From my side I need to learn to be not so abrupt on terminating anything. Maybe it’s because I’m too battle hardened and never give an inch. It’s been either my way or the highway. Time will tell on that one but I’m not going to be jumping through too many hoops to keep her happy. Yes there is a decent age difference. I’ve read that Asian women should be wary of older guys as they’re manipulative. It’ll be interesting to see how this unfolds or unravels.
My two cents... Fantasies are fantasies, they never come true unless you go out there and really make it happen. There's no such things as battle hardened, PTSD is for pussies. And no, Asian women don't get manipulated by older men, it's the other way around. Maybe you should be a bishop and hopefully not get stabbed during livestream.
Skidmark
25-04-2024, 06:53 PM
She really is a beautiful person in so many ways. I won’t list them as some things are best left in private. From my side I need to learn to be not so abrupt on terminating anything. Maybe it’s because I’m too battle hardened and never give an inch. It’s been either my way or the highway. Time will tell on that one but I’m not going to be jumping through too many hoops to keep her happy. Yes there is a decent age difference. I’ve read that Asian women should be wary of older guys as they’re manipulative. It’ll be interesting to see how this unfolds or unravels.
You obviously like this girl enough to ditch the other girls in your life and you like her enough to dismiss the fact she does whatever she does I think you’re in denial you’re trying to tell us that you’re laying down the law whilst letting her fuck or suck other guys I think you’re in love and at this point she has the upper hand wether you think so or not good luck mate you never know it might turn out well but yeah I think it’s time to be honest with yourself
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Spanky69
25-04-2024, 11:36 PM
My two cents... Fantasies are fantasies, they never come true unless you go out there and really make it happen. There's no such things as battle hardened, PTSD is for pussies. And no, Asian women don't get manipulated by older men, it's the other way around. Maybe you should be a bishop and hopefully not get stabbed during livestream.
We’ve only just finished our day off together and she has several hundred photos to sort through and spread around on social media. Normally I’m a private person and don’t do such things but the younger generations are all about getting that photographic moment. So be it.
Getting back to women. I control everything and it doesn’t matter who they are. You either do or you don’t.
You obviously like this girl enough to ditch the other girls in your life and you like her enough to dismiss the fact she does whatever she does I think you’re in denial you’re trying to tell us that you’re laying down the law whilst letting her fuck or suck other guys I think you’re in love and at this point she has the upper hand wether you think so or not good luck mate you never know it might turn out well but yeah I think it’s time to be honest with yourself
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What is love? I have lust and infatuation for her but that’s about it. I’m still thinking two steps ahead of any eventuality as I’m not going to be shafted. The other girls I haven’t ditched completely as I believe in holding insurance. All she has is a guy who doesn’t jump when she says jump even though I want to. It’s still a battle of the wills and I’m happy to go along only if it suits me.
ReginaldBubbles
26-04-2024, 01:09 AM
We’ve only just finished our day off together and she has several hundred photos to sort through and spread around on social media. Normally I’m a private person and don’t do such things but the younger generations are all about getting that photographic moment. So be it.
Getting back to women. I control everything and it doesn’t matter who they are. You either do or you don’t.
What is love? I have lust and infatuation for her but that’s about it. I’m still thinking two steps ahead of any eventuality as I’m not going to be shafted. The other girls I haven’t ditched completely as I believe in holding insurance. All she has is a guy who doesn’t jump when she says jump even though I want to. It’s still a battle of the wills and I’m happy to go along only if it suits me.
Bloody hell, who hurt you? Guard that heart Vinnie, guard that heart.
Anyone else dating an ML/WL? I’d be content with someone dating anyone.
rubit moore
26-04-2024, 05:11 PM
Reggie stop watching YouTube, this is reality. I deliberately chose to not watch your links as I cannot afford high speed internet ok!
You posted a youtube link in this thread earlier, so how did you manage that? Maybe you were at a McDonalds and used their Wifi while you ate your McSucker meal.
Massage addict has it right:
haha this post is hilarious! it is 1 of 2 scenarios:
1. a well known forum member that has been banned multiple times and keeps coming back. In this case the entire post is absolute bullshit and exists only in his head.
2. He is being played and has no idea.
Massagecreep
26-04-2024, 08:04 PM
You can find him at the intersection of infatuation and delusion
Spanky69
26-04-2024, 08:49 PM
You posted a youtube link in this thread earlier, so how did you manage that? Maybe you were at a McDonalds and used their Wifi while you ate your McSucker meal.
Massage addict has it right:
haha this post is hilarious! it is 1 of 2 scenarios:
1. a well known forum member that has been banned multiple times and keeps coming back. In this case the entire post is absolute bullshit and exists only in his head.
2. He is being played and has no idea.
As Foghorn Leghorn said “it’s a joke son, a joke” in relation to the internet speed. Tell me, did you date anything hot today or yesterday or the week before or the week before that?
You can find him at the intersection of infatuation and delusion
Infatuation yes, delusion no. Every time we’re out people look, it’s either guys or women. Today another five women, plus a couple of guys loitering, most probably because they could see me feeling her up in public. I have no shame you see and from what I gather neither does she. My hands are never removed and she’s more than happy to back onto me or kiss as we entwine around each others bodies. I’m fully expecting to be removed from premises one day. You’ve gotta take it while it lasts I say.
ColesBag
26-04-2024, 08:55 PM
What a window licker.
JJBlows
26-04-2024, 09:01 PM
Give us this girls name, someone on here has probably creampied her.
We can save you a world of hurt right now vinnie
Well anyway, although it’s not dating an ML, I’ve seen an ML regularly for a few months (4-5 visits) and early on she was quite clear “no boom boom”. Each visits more and more was happening until she said “do you want me to eat you?. I declined and the next visit I explained my apprehension to the extra on offer previously and this visit we’ll go with that “eat you” extra. I got the “eating” and it was great, good pressure and lots of eye contact and seduction. I was thinking things good and I’m going to blow then jumped on top for cow girl. I wasn’t expecting that! Job done $100 requested, I sent $150. Anyway last visit more of then same, skipped the massage and went straight into sex, standing from behind, it was hot and sweaty and I thought hell I might ask for her number and we can catch up outside of work. She gave me her number and we should be catching up next week.
Spanky69
27-04-2024, 06:10 AM
Give us this girls name, someone on here has probably creampied her.
We can save you a world of hurt right now vinnie
Look I’m not denying she may try and shaft me but at the present time she is extremely honest. Honesty is a big thing with her. Now regarding hurt, she bit me three times yesterday in her excitement and I’m not sure if she was marking her territory but that is what happened. I’ve yet to return the favor but I always like to push the limits on anyone new that’s a GF. I don’t do that with ML’s or WL’s as I consider sex with them vanilla, they’re doing it for money and not kink and as such would never go past the norm.
Well anyway, although it’s not dating an ML, I’ve seen an ML regularly for a few months (4-5 visits) and early on she was quite clear “no boom boom”. Each visits more and more was happening until she said “do you want me to eat you?. I declined and the next visit I explained my apprehension to the extra on offer previously and this visit we’ll go with that “eat you” extra. I got the “eating” and it was great, good pressure and lots of eye contact and seduction. I was thinking things good and I’m going to blow then jumped on top for cow girl. I wasn’t expecting that! Job done $100 requested, I sent $150. Anyway last visit more of then same, skipped the massage and went straight into sex, standing from behind, it was hot and sweaty and I thought hell I might ask for her number and we can catch up outside of work. She gave me her number and we should be catching up next week.
Will you progress from having to pay her and is she good enough to be a GF? Can you see yourselves together in a relationship?
I’m thinking a lot of guys are happy to stick it in but wouldn’t be seen down the street with their pay per play lady.
sync3d3d
27-04-2024, 12:13 PM
I’m curious for the ones that have met girls outside but you have a partner / wife etc. did you end up telling the girl before / on first meet ? Also did you discuss any $ involved for the encounter ?
I’m about to do my first outside encounter next week , which it’s being treated more
like a date but I’m at a cross road to tell her exactly what I want and the situation or do I just let it play out lol
GoldfishMan
27-04-2024, 01:13 PM
I’m curious for the ones that have met girls outside but you have a partner / wife etc. did you end up telling the girl before / on first meet ? Also did you discuss any $ involved for the encounter ?
I’m about to do my first outside encounter next week , which it’s being treated more
like a date but I’m at a cross road to tell her exactly what I want and the situation or do I just let it play out lol
I've always told them straight up that I was partnered. It's really up to you what you want. I personally felt that I could not handle running 2 parallel streams of lies and still be able to enjoy myself. Imagine how disruptive anything could be!
Can't comment about the $$$ part. Never done SBs.
I’m just letting it play out. No expectations. I’m not after anything. I’m certainty not sugar daddy material. As for not wanting to be seen in public as a punter put it, I’m sure she isn’t going to wear lingerie for the catch up.
Spanky69
28-04-2024, 12:23 AM
I’m thinking the cat’s out of the bag as far as some things are concerned. I’m almost 100% certain what you guys had warned me about has in effect happened… but I’ve just put a stop to it.
I was already on my guard before I even started this thread and had hoped things would follow a romantic course and initially they did till this afternoon. So two weeks in and it’s happened. I won’t say what but I was talking to a non punting friend and he straight out said what she’s offering to you is prostitution. It hadn’t happened and it wouldn’t have. He just stated the obvious.
You guys were right.
I was wary anyhow but I’m throwing it out there to validate your posts.
I’m not even upset.
Luckily I didn’t burn the other bridges.
Life goes on.
Johny77
28-04-2024, 02:12 AM
I’m thinking the cat’s out of the bag as far as some things are concerned. I’m almost 100% certain what you guys had warned me about has in effect happened… but I’ve just put a stop to it.
I was already on my guard before I even started this thread and had hoped things would follow a romantic course and initially they did till this afternoon. So two weeks in and it’s happened. I won’t say what but I was talking to a non punting friend and he straight out said what she’s offering to you is prostitution. It hadn’t happened and it wouldn’t have. He just stated the obvious.
You guys were right.
I was wary anyhow but I’m throwing it out there to validate your posts.
I’m not even upset.
Luckily I didn’t burn the other bridges.
Life goes on.
You have talked yourself up throughout the thread. Now, it’s a case of you guys ‘were right’. Perhaps you shouldn’t be so quick to dismiss and denigrate the advice of others in relation to this topic. You went on and on about the fact you didn’t need to discuss what she does for work, even though that is what couples discuss. Oh well.
ReginaldBubbles
28-04-2024, 03:34 AM
Getting back to women. I control everything and it doesn’t matter who they are. You either do or you don’t.
What is love? I have lust and infatuation for her but that’s about it. I’m still thinking two steps ahead of any eventuality as I’m not going to be shafted. The other girls I haven’t ditched completely as I believe in holding insurance. All she has is a guy who doesn’t jump when she says jump even though I want to. It’s still a battle of the wills and I’m happy to go along only if it suits me.
Cool character creation though.
Spanky69
28-04-2024, 07:56 AM
You have talked yourself up throughout the thread. Now, it’s a case of you guys ‘were right’. Perhaps you shouldn’t be so quick to dismiss and denigrate the advice of others in relation to this topic. You went on and on about the fact you didn’t need to discuss what she does for work, even though that is what couples discuss. Oh well.
I’m up early. Yes I checked her chat just now and she implied that I said something stupid. It’s getting back to me trying to read her conversation when she resorts to sending an emoji. This is a personal peeve of mine, women and emoji’s. What happened to English, oh I forgot, I don’t speak her language and she’s only learnt some of mine. Not enough but enough to get her or me into trouble. So it’s emoji time…
I talked myself up you say? Yes I did but at least I’m confident enough in my ability to pull the pin and last night I did. I’m not a sucker.
Cool character creation though.
Reggie my life is an adventure novel. I deliberately leave out parts so I’m not recognised. What I write about is factual. The woman in this thread is real. I’m waiting on her reply this morning to see what happens when she wakes up and reads what I sent. It was a burn. I just hope she doesn’t send another emoji as a reply as that will only exacerbate my will to stop all contact. Where are the good looking rocket scientists?
ReginaldBubbles
28-04-2024, 10:54 AM
I’m up early. Yes I checked her chat just now and she implied that I said something stupid. It’s getting back to me trying to read her conversation when she resorts to sending an emoji. This is a personal peeve of mine, women and emoji’s. What happened to English, oh I forgot, I don’t speak her language and she’s only learnt some of mine. Not enough but enough to get her or me into trouble. So it’s emoji time…
I talked myself up you say? Yes I did but at least I’m confident enough in my ability to pull the pin and last night I did. I’m not a sucker.
Reggie my life is an adventure novel. I deliberately leave out parts so I’m not recognised. What I write about is factual. The woman in this thread is real. I’m waiting on her reply this morning to see what happens when she wakes up and reads what I sent. It was a burn. I just hope she doesn’t send another emoji as a reply as that will only exacerbate my will to stop all contact. Where are the good looking rocket scientists?
Adventure novels are not factual Vinnie
Massagecreep
28-04-2024, 04:27 PM
Good call Reggie, novels are fiction. Whether he meant to admit it or not, the (self?) spanker seems to know it
ditchtheboss
28-04-2024, 08:06 PM
In my experience, dating a WL is nothing like the fantasy created in this thread. It happened to me somewhat early in my punting career I was confused and surprised by the interest demonstrated by the girl. Not to say that my experience would be the same as everyone else but this thread seems way off I believe. My experience started with my then frequent WL asking for my photo and sharing hers with me. I wasn’t sure why. Now I know why, she wanted to show my photo to the other girls to see if I was seeing them or having the same sort of conversations with them. In my experience WLs are suspicious and struggle to trust men, I can understand. Once she realised I was sincere the situation changed immediately. We started seeing each other outside the shop and there were no public displays of affection apart from walking holding hands. WLs are not horny constantly. This thread is a good read on a slow day but ultimately most likely total fantasy.
JJBlows
28-04-2024, 08:21 PM
In my experience, dating a WL is nothing like the fantasy created in this thread. It happened to me somewhat early in my punting career I was confused and surprised by the interest demonstrated by the girl. Not to say that my experience would be the same as everyone else but this thread seems way off I believe. My experience started with my then frequent WL asking for my photo and sharing hers with me. I wasn’t sure why. Now I know why, she wanted to show my photo to the other girls to see if I was seeing them or having the same sort of conversations with them. In my experience WLs are suspicious and struggle to trust men, I can understand. Once she realised I was sincere the situation changed immediately. We started seeing each other outside the shop and there were no public displays of affection apart from walking holding hands. WLs are not horny constantly. This thread is a good read on a slow day but ultimately most likely total fantasy.
I guess your only advantage to dating a WL and it's "sort of" having a legitimate chance is if you guys are around the same age instead of some old punter and a young girl and can interact like a normal couple do, like actually be able to talk to each other like how you would to a partner.
I know what you mean about the WL not being trusting. One Viet WL who I get along with very well with accuses me of seeing other WL at the shop which we all know is not true *cough cough* (i make phone calls to cover my tracks), but I told her how the manager messages me some days to let her know that she was working those nights and she asked me to show her because we having a laugh about it, i joke that she tells him to message me so she doesnt seem like she desperate when she does it from her phone.
anyways so I get my phone out to show her the messages of him messaging me and me messaging him for booking her and all of a sudden she starts scrolling up in my messages looking for evidence of me booking other girls with a suspicious look on her face, it's funny and I still jokingly call her a crazy bitch to her face when she acts up.
Another one, this one a thai girl, in the kitchen aggressively cutting up a cucumber whilst psychotically smiling at me saying that would be my dick if she catches me talking to other ladies. Tell ya what though, her room mate, another well known Thai wl was one jealous nasty bitch though about her dating someone when she wasn't.
Spanky69
28-04-2024, 08:38 PM
Good call Reggie, novels are fiction. Whether he meant to admit it or not, the (self?) spanker seems to know it
Yep you guys have outsmarted me once again.
Why do I even bother?
In my experience, dating a WL is nothing like the fantasy created in this thread. It happened to me somewhat early in my punting career I was confused and surprised by the interest demonstrated by the girl. Not to say that my experience would be the same as everyone else but this thread seems way off I believe. My experience started with my then frequent WL asking for my photo and sharing hers with me. I wasn’t sure why. Now I know why, she wanted to show my photo to the other girls to see if I was seeing them or having the same sort of conversations with them. In my experience WLs are suspicious and struggle to trust men, I can understand. Once she realised I was sincere the situation changed immediately. We started seeing each other outside the shop and there were no public displays of affection apart from walking holding hands. WLs are not horny constantly. This thread is a good read on a slow day but ultimately most likely total fantasy.
So the photos of her and I have been shown around to her friends also. They’ve commented and positively too. I had planned on taking a bunch of them out for a night out.
It’s a pity I failed, eh?
Spanky69
28-04-2024, 08:44 PM
I guess your only advantage to dating a WL and it's "sort of" having a legitimate chance is if you guys are around the same age instead of some old punter and a young girl and can interact like a normal couple do, like actually be able to talk to each other like how you would to a partner.
I know what you mean about the WL not being trusting. One Viet WL who I get along with very well with accuses me of seeing other WL at the shop which we all know is not true *cough cough* (i make phone calls to cover my tracks), but I told her how the manager messages me some days to let her know that she was working those nights and she asked me to show her because we having a laugh about it, i joke that she tells him to message me so she doesnt seem like she desperate when she does it from her phone.
anyways so I get my phone out to show her the messages of him messaging me and me messaging him for booking her and all of a sudden she starts scrolling up in my messages looking for evidence of me booking other girls with a suspicious look on her face, it's funny and I still jokingly call her a crazy bitch to her face when she acts up.
Another one, this one a thai girl, in the kitchen aggressively cutting up a cucumber whilst psychotically smiling at me saying that would be my dick if she catches me talking to other ladies. Tell ya what though, her room mate, another well known Thai wl was one jealous nasty bitch though about her dating someone when she wasn't.
I’m curious why they’re so jealous? Can you list a few reasons. Perhaps I can emulate and improve my game now that I’ve lost this one…
ditchtheboss
28-04-2024, 08:58 PM
I’m curious why they’re so jealous? Can you list a few reasons. Perhaps I can emulate and improve my game now that I’ve lost this one…
I don’t think it is jealousy but if they are catching feelings which is very rare they want to know if you are authentic and not trying to get free sex.
May I say it’s not about improving your game. I didn’t go to brothels to find a girlfriend, I happened to find one at a brothel. The girls are just normal girls, threat them nicely and if there is chemistry it will develop naturally, no game needed. A brothel is not a place to find relationships I don’t think
ditchtheboss
28-04-2024, 09:18 PM
I guess your only advantage to dating a WL and it's "sort of" having a legitimate chance is if you guys are around the same age instead of some old punter and a young girl and can interact like a normal couple do, like actually be able to talk to each other like how you would to a partner.
I know what you mean about the WL not being trusting. One Viet WL who I get along with very well with accuses me of seeing other WL at the shop which we all know is not true *cough cough* (i make phone calls to cover my tracks), but I told her how the manager messages me some days to let her know that she was working those nights and she asked me to show her because we having a laugh about it, i joke that she tells him to message me so she doesnt seem like she desperate when she does it from her phone.
anyways so I get my phone out to show her the messages of him messaging me and me messaging him for booking her and all of a sudden she starts scrolling up in my messages looking for evidence of me booking other girls with a suspicious look on her face, it's funny and I still jokingly call her a crazy bitch to her face when she acts up.
Another one, this one a thai girl, in the kitchen aggressively cutting up a cucumber whilst psychotically smiling at me saying that would be my dick if she catches me talking to other ladies. Tell ya what though, her room mate, another well known Thai wl was one jealous nasty bitch though about her dating someone when she wasn't.
There is only 6 years between us so the relationship was quite plausible and we enjoyed each others company immensely, we were very compatible but as it has been said before, most relationships with WLs end up in tears and it is the case for me.
The best post/advice here is pay, fuck and leave.
Spanky69
29-04-2024, 07:38 AM
I don’t think it is jealousy but if they are catching feelings which is very rare they want to know if you are authentic and not trying to get free sex.
May I say it’s not about improving your game. I didn’t go to brothels to find a girlfriend, I happened to find one at a brothel. The girls are just normal girls, threat them nicely and if there is chemistry it will develop naturally, no game needed. A brothel is not a place to find relationships I don’t think
Free sex? I always pay one way or another. I met the ML at a gym. I’m totally still
up in the air regarding the relationship even though I burnt it a few days ago. Maybe it’s me but I expected her to respond back quickly to my txts. This issue I had with a previous WL also. They live on their phones and so do I. Yet they deliberately make me wait for a response from them. Oh I know they cannot respond for 60 or 90 mins as they’re on the job but the rest of the time? Why make me wait 12 hours and then it’s short shift on the txt? Perhaps it’s the age differences.
A bimbo I deal with leaves it for days to reply even when I see her texting continuously and we are in the same room. Yes a bimbo in the true sense of the word. I think wtf, this is business and you’re getting paid, answer…
So I think fuck them I’ll go and punt or chase another and that’s exactly what I do. So now I have have another already in my sights.
The one the thread is about… well we did meet up yesterday again and it’s every two days even though I burnt her and yes she was still all over me. Physically squeezed me so damn hard I was surprised, there’s only one other that’s done that, a WL who has given me her number but I’ve never contacted her outside of her work. I’m suss as I think she’s a single mum and I’m not interested in raising some other punters child.
Getting back to the current mind fuck. I want to know why she doesnt respond straight away? I feel she and I could live together intstantly. That’s the vibe even though Its either full ON or full OFF as far as I’m concerned. There is no in between. That’s how I’ve always been with GF’s. If they muck me around I’ll dump them. I’m not into their game playing only mine.
A mate says not to be so eager. I’m not sure I should be taking his advice. I’ve contacted a casual GF and I’m going to work on this other one who is a real attractive woman, thirty years younger. She’s already said a few things but I’ve totally ignored her as I’ve been too busy with the others.
I even tell them I have others. Is that a mistake?
Spanky69
29-04-2024, 07:52 AM
There is only 6 years between us so the relationship was quite plausible and we enjoyed each others company immensely, we were very compatible but as it has been said before, most relationships with WLs end up in tears and it is the case for me.
The best post/advice here is pay, fuck and leave.
Women I’ve dated.
Lately the age gaps have been anywhere from twenty to thirty five years. In all the cases I end up getting rid of them for one reason or another. So many I don’t even remember the reasons or their names. They’re all nice people and genuine. Perhaps it’s me. Never satisfied with what I have.
I’m trying with this current one to behave even though I’ve already burnt her once. It’s so easy to do that. Can anyone ever be satisfied?
ditchtheboss
29-04-2024, 08:14 AM
Free sex? I always pay one way or another. I met the ML at a gym. I’m totally still
up in the air regarding the relationship even though I burnt it a few days ago. Maybe it’s me but I expected her to respond back quickly to my txts. This issue I had with a previous WL also. They live on their phones and so do I. Yet they deliberately make me wait for a response from them. Oh I know they cannot respond for 60 or 90 mins as they’re on the job but the rest of the time? Why make me wait 12 hours and then it’s short shift on the txt? Perhaps it’s the age differences.
A bimbo I deal with leaves it for days to reply even when I see her texting continuously and we are in the same room. Yes a bimbo in the true sense of the word. I think wtf, this is business and you’re getting paid, answer…
So I think fuck them I’ll go and punt or chase another and that’s exactly what I do. So now I have have another already in my sights.
The one the thread is about… well we did meet up yesterday again and it’s every two days even though I burnt her and yes she was still all over me. Physically squeezed me so damn hard I was surprised, there’s only one other that’s done that, a WL who has given me her number but I’ve never contacted her outside of her work. I’m suss as I think she’s a single mum and I’m not interested in raising some other punters child.
Getting back to the current mind fuck. I want to know why she doesnt respond straight away? I feel she and I could live together intstantly. That’s the vibe even though Its either full ON or full OFF as far as I’m concerned. There is no in between. That’s how I’ve always been with GF’s. If they muck me around I’ll dump them. I’m not into their game playing only mine.
A mate says not to be so eager. I’m not sure I should be taking his advice. I’ve contacted a casual GF and I’m going to work on this other one who is a real attractive woman, thirty years younger. She’s already said a few things but I’ve totally ignored her as I’ve been too busy with the others.
I even tell them I have others. Is that a mistake?
Any girl who is keen on you will reply quickly. Many many years ago I was very busy at work and I would read messages from my girlfriend and reply when I had a moment later, she would instantly write to saying that I left her on read. That’s the normal behaviour of a girl who is keen I think.
Not sure what you are after but I really doubt you will get what you want from a WL/ML. Unless you find someone with whom you have a genuine relationship with, if the WLs are seeing you outside the shop you are either a good person to talk to and she trusts you or she is seeing you just to keep you engaged as a customer. Good luck
ReginaldBubbles
29-04-2024, 08:23 AM
Maybe it’s me but I expected her to respond back quickly to my txts. This issue I had with a previous WL also. They live on their phones and so do I. Yet they deliberately make me wait for a response from them. Oh I know they cannot respond for 60 or 90 mins as they’re on the job but the rest of the time? Why make me wait 12 hours and then it’s short shift on the txt?
Getting back to the current mind fuck. I want to know why she doesnt respond straight away?
Sometimes they want everything all at once and it’s better to make them wait. I’ve made some wait one month, others three months and one even a year. Games people play, why not. What else is there if you don’t have any other real goals to chase at the present time. I seriously doubt you’ve ever made anyone wait. Perhaps you should.
So now she can wait for my reply and I should be charging you Reggie darling for these lessons on life.
Thanks for the lessons dude.
Puntonthego
29-04-2024, 01:38 PM
Give us this girls name, someone on here has probably creampied her.
We can save you a world of hurt right now vinnie
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dotcumdotinyou
29-04-2024, 04:10 PM
I thought you were done with us vinnie, leaving to NEVER return.
And yet here you are back again entertaining us with your imaginary exploits...we must be totally addictive to you.
I also read above you managed to buy yourself a friend.
C'mon guys, own up who took vinnies offer of a free booking...I can confirm it wasn't me
Spanky69
29-04-2024, 05:04 PM
Any girl who is keen on you will reply quickly. Many many years ago I was very busy at work and I would read messages from my girlfriend and reply when I had a moment later, she would instantly write to saying that I left her on read. That’s the normal behaviour of a girl who is keen I think.
Not sure what you are after but I really doubt you will get what you want from a WL/ML. Unless you find someone with whom you have a genuine relationship with, if the WLs are seeing you outside the shop you are either a good person to talk to and she trusts you or she is seeing you just to keep you engaged as a customer. Good luck
I’ve never been to the shops she works at. It’s two possibly more owned by the same person. Only because I’ve done the research on this forum do I know this. Some of you guys have experienced her and have mentioned who owns what shops and where.
We’ve never had sex but discussed it a lot. Yes that’s weird considering her work. I’m even of the opinion she thinks I really don’t know, so I don’t mention my punting only GF’s.
I’ve never been her customer as I met her at a gym.
Spanky69
29-04-2024, 05:07 PM
Creampied her…
Hahaha this comment [emoji122][emoji122][emoji122][emoji122][emoji122][emoji108]
Yep it’s most probably certain. Most guys are attracted to her like moths to a flame. I know of two that are besides myself.
Spanky69
29-04-2024, 05:18 PM
I thought you were done with us vinnie, leaving to NEVER return.
And yet here you are back again entertaining us with your imaginary exploits...we must be totally addictive to you.
I also read above you managed to buy yourself a friend.
C'mon guys, own up who took vinnies offer of a free booking...I can confirm it wasn't me
Friend, oh the non punting guy. He’s one of those loyal people, loyal to his woman. I’ve never even tempted him, others I do though.
Yep you’re 100% correct there, I pay for him and other people that are around. I won’t deny that. It seems I’m always paying. Doesn’t bother me but now that you mention it yes I’m the guy that pays. So when I offered you a free booking it meant nothing to me. Don’t consider it anything more than pissing money up into the wind. It’s of no concern where it lands. You are nothing special just like the rest of the freeloading hangers on.
ryanpumper
29-04-2024, 06:01 PM
Friend, oh the non punting guy. He’s one of those loyal people, loyal to his woman. I’ve never even tempted him, others I do though.
Yep you’re 100% correct there, I pay for him and other people that are around. I won’t deny that. It seems I’m always paying. Doesn’t bother me but now that you mention it yes I’m the guy that pays. So when I offered you a free booking it meant nothing to me. Don’t consider it anything more than pissing money up into the wind. It’s of no concern where it lands. You are nothing special just like the rest of the freeloading hangers on.
I’ll accept a free punt mate you can even watch.
Spanky69
30-04-2024, 11:48 AM
I’ll accept a free punt mate you can even watch.
If you ask then you don’t get, besides I’m not really into watching.
Spanky69
03-05-2024, 02:02 PM
Adventure novels are not factual Vinnie
Did you ever read Biggles many decades ago? That’s fiction. What I write here is factual.
Skidmark
03-05-2024, 02:36 PM
Did you ever read Biggles many decades ago? That’s fiction. What I write here is factual.
What’s her name so we can make sure to be extra respectful when seeing her
andrewv
03-05-2024, 02:43 PM
In my experience, dating a WL is nothing like the fantasy created in this thread. It happened to me somewhat early in my punting career I was confused and surprised by the interest demonstrated by the girl. Not to say that my experience would be the same as everyone else but this thread seems way off I believe. My experience started with my then frequent WL asking for my photo and sharing hers with me. I wasn’t sure why. Now I know why, she wanted to show my photo to the other girls to see if I was seeing them or having the same sort of conversations with them. In my experience WLs are suspicious and struggle to trust men, I can understand. Once she realised I was sincere the situation changed immediately. We started seeing each other outside the shop and there were no public displays of affection apart from walking holding hands. WLs are not horny constantly. This thread is a good read on a slow day but ultimately most likely total fantasy.
This 👆is an honest post. Very refreshing.
Spanky69
03-05-2024, 09:57 PM
What’s her name so we can make sure to be extra respectful when seeing her
Nice gesture but it’s a stale joke. Think of something more original.
Spanky69
03-05-2024, 10:00 PM
This 👆is an honest post. Very refreshing.
Andrew you read like a soft cock. Gathering intel on all the shops for what? Perhaps you’re selling it to an agency? Now, which one…
trampslikeus55
04-05-2024, 12:06 AM
Spanky, your like a dog on a bone with this champ. We know you have a GF and we know that you have it all planned and we know your the smartest one here. 👍
Spanky69
04-05-2024, 05:46 AM
I’m the dumbest because I don’t respect her. I’ve already given her a hard time yesterday, maybe too hard and there’s no going back. I treated this like a game.
The expression being I’ve burnt the bridge.
Even though she’s a working woman she’s still a young girl at heart. I realise that now.
Time will tell.
Johny77
04-05-2024, 10:22 AM
And the made up story continues…..yawn.
Much like one of your other stories under a different username. http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?127434-Normal-life/page2
JJBlows
04-05-2024, 01:37 PM
I’m the dumbest because I don’t respect her. I’ve already given her a hard time yesterday, maybe too hard and there’s no going back. I treated this like a game.
The expression being I’ve burnt the bridge.
Even though she’s a working woman she’s still a young girl at heart. I realise that now.
Time will tell.
https://youtu.be/OGfPQgwibCw?si=2_NWHAKzp279ggf7
Zoobender
04-05-2024, 01:44 PM
I’m the dumbest because I don’t respect her. I’ve already given her a hard time yesterday, maybe too hard and there’s no going back. I treated this like a game.
The expression being I’ve burnt the bridge.
Even though she’s a working woman she’s still a young girl at heart. I realise that now.
Time will tell.
The first 3 words here are the truest you have written mate. I don't want to give you a hard time because everyone else seems to be already doing that so I'll give you a compliment instead.
You are one of the best fantasy fiction writers I've ever read. I think JR Toilken and Frank Herbert could learn from you. Well done. Very entertaining
Spanky69
04-05-2024, 05:42 PM
And the made up story continues…..yawn.
Much like one of your other stories under a different username. http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?127434-Normal-life/page2
I’m not that person so try another and if it’s me I’ll agree to it. Can’t be fairer than that.
https://youtu.be/OGfPQgwibCw?si=2_NWHAKzp279ggf7
That’s a bit old. Bring up something relevant. Thx
The first 3 words here are the truest you have written mate. I don't want to give you a hard time because everyone else seems to be already doing that so I'll give you a compliment instead.
You are one of the best fantasy fiction writers I've ever read. I think JR Toilken and Frank Herbert could learn from you. Well done. Very entertaining
What’s to say, except we were out once again today. Yum cha, a bottle of nice red, though for some strange reason the restaurant served it in an ice bucket. Half a doz beers then onto another place for more drinks.
Yes we got a hell of a lot of looks again. I suppose drinking a nice red at 11am was strange. We needed to celebrate getting back together after my stupidity. I’ve been forgiven and I’ve learnt my lesson plus I’ve got more of an insight into what she’s like under duress and forgiveness.
She looked simply stunning as usual. Everyone seems to check her out, guys and women. I’m serious. Like a Ferrari or a Lamborghini if you know what I mean. She’s got the same sexual status appeal. People just have to look. I don’t care because she’s mine, I’m the guy all over her, I’m the guy who is receiving all the attention from her and I’m the guy she wants… for now. I’ve told her if she finds a guy better than me then fuck me off. I’m fully confident she won’t. Otherwise I wouldn’t tell her such.
I’ve come to think we are both as crazy as one another and well suited. Perhaps I’m worse as I’m a womaniser and cannot be trusted. I came oh so close to losing her last night but as fate would have it I was given a second chance. She's got a strong character and did test me this morning but I didn’t wilt under pressure. Maybe that’s why she’s still interested in me. I stand my ground where most guys would succumb to her beauty and fall at her feet.
Who knows where this will all end?
I think if I burn her one more time it’s over as she’s a genuine person with a kind heart.
Spanky69
05-05-2024, 11:36 AM
Well guys I punted her this morning.
She’s gone.
She works in three shops listed on this forum. She was an A grade hottie but a B grade gold digger with all the attributes you folk had mentioned on this thread and other warning threads elsewhere.
I never fucked her.
BBFS was offered yesterday as I tested her but I didn’t follow through. She already has three mugs on the go and quite possibly one or two are on this forum. So guys if you live in the CBD or northern suburbs are Aussie she’s spilled the beans on who you are, what you do, your married situation, your divorce, your reconciliation and your pics and chat logs together.
I’ve deleted everything she’s ever sent me but she’s a hoarder of pics. If you are one of those mugs then request her to delete them, otherwise who knows where they’ll end up.
That’s all I have to say really.
Next one I pick up and run with I’ll keep you updated.
Till then it’s Big Daddy Spanky over and out !
keebab
05-05-2024, 11:56 AM
Till then it’s Big Daddy Spanky over and out !
Later Vinnie, enjoy the water.
JJBlows
05-05-2024, 01:23 PM
Well guys I punted her this morning.
She’s gone.
She works in three shops listed on this forum. She was an A grade hottie but a B grade gold digger with all the attributes you folk had mentioned on this thread and other warning threads elsewhere.
I never fucked her.
BBFS was offered yesterday as I tested her but I didn’t follow through. She already has three mugs on the go and quite possibly one or two are on this forum. So guys if you live in the CBD or northern suburbs are Aussie she’s spilled the beans on who you are, what you do, your married situation, your divorce, your reconciliation and your pics and chat logs together.
I’ve deleted everything she’s ever sent me but she’s a hoarder of pics. If you are one of those mugs then request her to delete them, otherwise who knows where they’ll end up.
That’s all I have to say really.
Next one I pick up and run with I’ll keep you updated.
Till then it’s Big Daddy Spanky over and out !
All this effort on her and telling us here and you still didn't even get your dick wet? What a waste and you should be ashamed of yourself vinnie.
BBFS offered?, told ya there were punters creampieing her here.
Spanky69
05-05-2024, 05:51 PM
All this effort on her and telling us here and you still didn't even get your dick wet? What a waste and you should be ashamed of yourself vinnie.
BBFS offered?, told ya there were punters creampieing here.
Not ashamed at all. No other man on here has punted five in one day. So sex isn’t an issue. I made it an issue with her but it would have been the deal that sealed my fate. We had a connection and already I feel lost without her. I know her future is doomed let’s leave it at that. I wasn’t here to be her saviour but that may have happened. This whole clusterfuck is my doing.
Dumping her was the easy part. Pulling through the next few days without being lost will be my next test. I seem to want all or nothing. I chose nothing and now I’ve got my just desserts, nothing.
I should have gone to a brothel this morning and changed my outlook. Now I’m lamenting and I don’t want to go pounding a pussy that’s already been used today. I have a date already lined up with someone else but to tell the truth I already miss this latest failure.
Sex isn’t everything she said and she was right.
Anyway these are my problems, no one else’s.
You just get to read about them.
Spanky69
05-05-2024, 05:54 PM
Later Vinnie, enjoy the water.
The only water was yesterday when her and I both cried.
Enough truth?
Niceguy11
05-05-2024, 06:51 PM
Just last week, a WL had told me she was onto her 3rd customer/boyfriend. She is constantly arguing with the current one because he wants her to quit. Anything new ? lol. I look back and think what a waste of time the whole dating shit is with a WL. Punt, fuck, leave. I learnt the hard way like a lot of other punters that have been in my shoes
kayofa
05-05-2024, 07:06 PM
Even when dating normal girls there's easy tell-tale signs whether she's wife material or divorcee material. Wife material don't play games, BBFS is always on the cards and she's constantly trying to make you happy. Divorcee material plays the shit test game, makes you wait months for sex, doesn't even allow BBFS during safe days and plays super hard to get.
The dangerous side of the divorcee material girl is when she pushes you away and suddenly does a 180° by giving you so much attention just to make you come back, then proceeds to stonewall you again.
OP's girl should've been shown the door ages ago. She's giving BBFS to her paying customers but won't even have safe sex with the person she's in a relationship with. Signs that she's trouble and nothing good will come out of her. She'll get worse if she's in her 30s.
JJBlows
05-05-2024, 08:00 PM
Anyway these are my problems, no one else’s.
You just get to read about them.
Yes, they are your problems, not ours and nobody here really wants to know or hear about it
Johny77
05-05-2024, 08:13 PM
Just last week, a WL had told me she was onto her 3rd customer/boyfriend. She is constantly arguing with the current one because he wants her to quit. Anything new ? lol. I look back and think what a waste of time the whole dating shit is with a WL. Punt, fuck, leave. I learnt the hard way like a lot of other punters that have been in my shoes
You make valid points. However, let’s stop feeding the troll. Your post is genuine and the OP’s is not. Another made up story under a different username.
Spanky69
05-05-2024, 09:54 PM
Just last week, a WL had told me she was onto her 3rd customer/boyfriend. She is constantly arguing with the current one because he wants her to quit. Anything new ? lol. I look back and think what a waste of time the whole dating shit is with a WL. Punt, fuck, leave. I learnt the hard way like a lot of other punters that have been in my shoes
I don’t want her to quit her job.
If anything just to stop seeing her current BFs. I thought I could handle that but I cannot. Yes I’m possessive, I don’t know what love is but I have intense feelings in her goodness irrespective of whose cock she sucks at work.
Work is work and then there is us.
Even when dating normal girls there's easy tell-tale signs whether she's wife material or divorcee material. Wife material don't play games, BBFS is always on the cards and she's constantly trying to make you happy. Divorcee material plays the shit test game, makes you wait months for sex, doesn't even allow BBFS during safe days and plays super hard to get.
The dangerous side of the divorcee material girl is when she pushes you away and suddenly does a 180° by giving you so much attention just to make you come back, then proceeds to stonewall you again.
OP's girl should've been shown the door ages ago. She's giving BBFS to her paying customers but won't even have safe sex with the person she's in a relationship with. Signs that she's trouble and nothing good will come out of her. She'll get worse if she's in her 30s.
In this relationship I’m definitely the troublemaker. I’m a womaniser, a cheater and a punter. Plus I’m a liar. Perhaps working women are exactly the same? Perhaps some are not. I tarred her with the same brush when I feel I shouldn’t have. Some people are kind and nice.
Yes, they are your problems, not ours and nobody here really wants to know or hear about it
It didn’t start out this way. I wanted to flex on what I had scored. Instead I’m writing a Shakespearean tragedy. My life is laid bare on this forum for all to see. I’ve fallen on my own petard twice now in this ML relationship when I should have bowed down and thanked the gods for granting me my wish.
Why do I do these things?
Why am I causing a beautiful flower to wilt with my poisonous words and devil like behaviour?
Tell me why?
JuneC
05-05-2024, 10:09 PM
offer them PR for a free punt
Spanky69
05-05-2024, 10:10 PM
You make valid points. However, let’s stop feeding the troll. Your post is genuine and the OP’s is not. Another made up story under a different username.
Johny77 this thread is genuine. I need help to win her back and curb my rudeness towards her.
Does any man take women seriously? I never have. Perhaps that’s my first problem.
She’s hurt, angry, upset and I’ve even affected her days at work. God knows if she’s given some poor punter a mechanical hand job! If it’s you then you can blame that on me.
I may make a joke but in all seriousness I’m treating the relationship with no respect. That’s my shortfall, not being respectful.
She’s got a gentle nature and if anything is timid in certain instances and would rather keep her upset bottled up inside than call me out for what I am. A cunt. In our day to day discourse when we are out in public she is shy. I’m the control freak. I let her decide on meals as she is very good at doing that but everything else I make the choices. Including choosing to break up twice in two days.
I’m the maestro in the symphony of my own self destruction.
Great isn’t it.
Johny77
05-05-2024, 10:46 PM
It’s time admin bans this clown……again.
Spanky69
05-05-2024, 11:19 PM
It’s time admin bans this clown……again.
Johny77 Have you ever dated a sex worker? This makes my fourth. Next week I’ll have a fifth. It’s already in the pipeline, another long term project.
I presume you’re single. Would you date a ML if given the opportunity? A simple yes or no.
I’m not interested in your time to do this or time to do that. You either achieve and live your life or read about me and my life in real time.
A yes or a no.
GoldfishMan
05-05-2024, 11:23 PM
You make valid points. However, let’s stop feeding the troll. Your post is genuine and the OP’s is not. Another made up story under a different username.
Spot on. Think about it like you're walking on a street and a stranger comes up and starts talking to you. When you start to realise that the guy is a nutcase, would you continue engaging in any meaningful convo with him? How far do you think what you say to him would go? Maybe in the next 30 mins he's gonna schizo into another persona and there goes all your wasted breathe! That "soul" is gone into the ether, never to return.
This is exactly the same as that scenario. Forum, walking on a street, it's the same thing. Stop wasting your time, there are plenty of more meaningful things to do in life than to engage a completely unreal persona as this.
Spanky69
05-05-2024, 11:52 PM
Spot on. Think about it like you're walking on a street and a stranger comes up and starts talking to you. When you start to realise that the guy is a nutcase, would you continue engaging in any meaningful convo with him? How far do you think what you say to him would go? Maybe in the next 30 mins he's gonna schizo into another persona and there goes all your wasted breathe! That "soul" is gone into the ether, never to return.
This is exactly the same as that scenario. Forum, walking on a street, it's the same thing. Stop wasting your time, there are plenty of more meaningful things to do in life than to engage a completely unreal persona as this.
Goldfinger didn’t you say you had me on block?
I’m only here because the ML is either asleep or at dinner with another guy. What’s your guess? I’ll know in the morning how she feels about continuing this debacle. Besides recounting a tale from the Jurassic era when you punted and exchanged shells for currency where are your latest conquests Goldfinger? Got none, right.
Anyway to each their own.
It’ll be a big week if she comes around and if not then I’ll push forward my long term project. Plus there’s always punting.
kayofa
06-05-2024, 01:33 AM
In this relationship I’m definitely the troublemaker. I’m a womaniser, a cheater and a punter. Plus I’m a liar. Perhaps working women are exactly the same? Perhaps some are not. I tarred her with the same brush when I feel I shouldn’t have. Some people are kind and nice.
Take my advice and look in the mirror every morning. Don't try to fix how you look in it, tell yourself that the person in the mirror isn't you. Tell him he's ugly and stupid, and the ugliest person in the world is only second to the person you see in the mirror. Once you accept that and you can love even the dirty cripple lady who begs for a living, you will realise how stupid you were for chasing someone for validation.
Like I said, wife material don't play games. There's women who want to have a husband, and women who wants to be a wife. If you can't tell the difference, you need a LOT of growing up to do. That girl in your rant is definitely not wife material, and you're definitely not husband material as you don't want to stick to one girl your whole life.
What's stopping "de facto" couples from marrying? Isn't "de facto" the same as marriage nowadays, just in a different can of sardines? For a government to come up with such labels it shows how degraded we are as human societies.
If you want to keep your ego and "womanise", don't bother having a relationship and complaining about your boo-boo on a forum. You clearly need to unlearn many habits to find the right person.
Spanky69
06-05-2024, 07:12 AM
I’ve already picked her and blown the relationship twice for no other reason than I don’t respect my good fortune. Now I’m back trying for a third time. This morning I’ll know if she wants to proceed. Things started on the wrong foot with her as I had preconceived ideas that sex workers cannot be trusted. Hell knows I’ve read enough sordid tales on here and elsewhere not to even contemplate such forum heresy. Yet I want to try once more. She’s already blocked me on one messaging app. I’d say that’s what it is. A block.
I’ve gone 12 hours without contact. Generally she says good morning early.
This is my life, my future, my destiny I’m writing about. I may joke about things but I’m serious about her.
She’ll have to unblock me. We will chat if and when it happens. Then go from there.
I’m not like her other boyfriends. I consider them soft cock losers. They probably give flowers and chocolates and say nice things and wouldn’t dare ever cause conflict or put their relationship with her at risk. Some of them even talk about me with her. I’ve read the txts. She shows me. They give her advice. I never tell her what to do about them. I just say they’ll never be as good as I am or do the things I do. She says I have a high opinion of myself and yes I do. I agreed. Maybe she likes underachieving guys as they don’t rock the boat and she controls them. She is controlling but not over me. The only thing she wins on is dating. Going out. I agree on doing that. Her other wants. No.
I’m not desperate.. I don’t cling. I chase then get, then burn. It’s a cycle of self destruction. It’s like I cannot trust, I cannot love and I cannot stop. I had this exact problem several times previously with women way younger than myself.
I don’t understand why.
Rubbersock
06-05-2024, 07:44 AM
Is this another episode of Baby Reindeer? This reads along the same f&$k up line, the guy in that show is all f$&k up from his previous traumas.
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Spanky69
06-05-2024, 02:26 PM
Is this another episode of Baby Reindeer? This reads along the same f&$k up line, the guy in that show is all f$&k up from his previous traumas.
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Strange coincidental comment, someone I know was watching that show only recently and mentioned a bit about it. Very strange. I skimmed through the wiki on it. Life is full of deju vu and coincidences, perhaps even past lives if you believe in such.
Traumas. We are the sum total of all our past and present experiences plus our ancestors DNA. Whether trauma is carried forward through the gene pool is open to discussion.
I could stop writing soon and perhaps I will, tempting fate could be a problem.
JuneC
06-05-2024, 03:16 PM
Some date to get citizenship
Spanky69
06-05-2024, 05:18 PM
Some date to get citizenship
Yes of course. This is the lucky country.
Puntonthego
06-05-2024, 06:09 PM
https://youtu.be/mf5Bnky4z-0?si=BOx3o10GJyis_fSm
Puntonthego
06-05-2024, 06:11 PM
https://youtu.be/mf5Bnky4z-0?si=BOx3o10GJyis_fSm
This is spot on, cheers to the champion behind this video, it’s accurate and true from start to finish (applicable to girls working here)
Spanky69
06-05-2024, 06:59 PM
I’ve watched almost every video on YouTube relating to Thai women. You could call it a Sun Tzu learning curve.
Thai Talk with Dan is a favourite channel.
Just throw it into YouTube and watch.
A farang and his money are soon parted.
Well, not all are…
💰
kayofa
06-05-2024, 10:49 PM
I’m not desperate.. I don’t cling. I chase then get, then burn. It’s a cycle of self destruction. It’s like I cannot trust, I cannot love and I cannot stop. I had this exact problem several times previously with women way younger than myself.
I don’t understand why.
Your 7 pages of replies have been contradicting your own statements. If you're not desperate, "in control" of your own life and living the "dream" then why are you still unhappy?
You're a prisoner of your own fantasies. Like it or not, you're stuck in a loop that you can't get out of because you've been chasing your own tail. It's not the women's age, it's the validation you're chasing from someone you perceive as "popular" just because you perceive yourself as somewhat "popular" amongst other girls.
And the problem is that you're fucking with the relationship like a dick entering and exiting a vagina multiple times. You think that retaliating and then charming her back is going to "teach" her a lesson to not piss you off when the fact is that you didn't realise you're the reason why she pissed you off in the first place. She didn't run for the hills becoz she had hoped you would show her your softer side. You behave as if you're the Godfather because all these while you've had people feeding you so many compliments your ego got too inflated.
Do her a favour and leave her be. If she's moved on with another guy, trust me that guy is doing you a favour. Imagine the headaches she's raining onto that guy, you never want to be him.
That's all from my honest opinion.
Johny77
06-05-2024, 11:59 PM
Your 7 pages of replies have been contradicting your own statements. If you're not desperate, "in control" of your own life and living the "dream" then why are you still unhappy?
You're a prisoner of your own fantasies. Like it or not, you're stuck in a loop that you can't get out of because you've been chasing your own tail. It's not the women's age, it's the validation you're chasing from someone you perceive as "popular" just because you perceive yourself as somewhat "popular" amongst other girls.
And the problem is that you're fucking with the relationship like a dick entering and exiting a vagina multiple times. You think that retaliating and then charming her back is going to "teach" her a lesson to not piss you off when the fact is that you didn't realise you're the reason why she pissed you off in the first place. She didn't run for the hills becoz she had hoped you would show her your softer side. You behave as if you're the Godfather because all these while you've had people feeding you so many compliments your ego got too inflated.
Do her a favour and leave her be. If she's moved on with another guy, trust me that guy is doing you a favour. Imagine the headaches she's raining onto that guy, you never want to be him.
That's all from my honest opinion.
Good summation and advice. However, the issue here is that this story is made up.
Spanky69
07-05-2024, 07:39 AM
Your 7 pages of replies have been contradicting your own statements. If you're not desperate, "in control" of your own life and living the "dream" then why are you still unhappy?
You're a prisoner of your own fantasies. Like it or not, you're stuck in a loop that you can't get out of because you've been chasing your own tail. It's not the women's age, it's the validation you're chasing from someone you perceive as "popular" just because you perceive yourself as somewhat "popular" amongst other girls.
And the problem is that you're fucking with the relationship like a dick entering and exiting a vagina multiple times. You think that retaliating and then charming her back is going to "teach" her a lesson to not piss you off when the fact is that you didn't realise you're the reason why she pissed you off in the first place. She didn't run for the hills becoz she had hoped you would show her your softer side. You behave as if you're the Godfather because all these while you've had people feeding you so many compliments your ego got too inflated.
Do her a favour and leave her be. If she's moved on with another guy, trust me that guy is doing you a favour. Imagine the headaches she's raining onto that guy, you never want to be him.
That's all from my honest opinion.
First of all yes it’s a loop. Why I don’t know. My relationship life is one continuous loop. I don’t see any happy women along the way. By that I mean at the end they are never happy.
I move on and destroy once again.
Getting back to this relationship.
We are back on!
It took 407 messages between us last night. I only realised the number this morning when I reread everything. Obviously her input is half of those. I don’t know how many of you guys have a real bond with your sex worker friends? I’m so fickle I was ready to just delete her number and end everything on a whim. I know I’d regret it but it’s either on or off, there’s no middle ground.
I’d say there’s a strong bond of insanity.
Who is the craziest, her or I ?
That’s a topic that only the future knows.
Good summation and advice. However, the issue here is that this story is made up.
No it’s not Johny.
If it was made up I wouldn’t have wasted so much time extrapolating. I’d just be randomly posting comments on the forum instead of sticking to this one thread. Yes I’ve posted on two other threads but you got upset didn’t you?
You have to remember this relationship will either crash and burn very shortly or it’ll stand the test of time. We’ve been through a lot already. More than most couples.
Mentally I’m the stronger of the two and have other girls to fall back on. She isn’t as tainted by life as I am. Yes she sucks cocks for a living and thus should be more worldly, possibly hardened… or is that just her customers?
I often wonder if she has been through tragedy previously and that’s why she’s chosen this profession or she’s just an opportunistic person looking for the next big catch. She knows what I’m like and I her. It takes two to tango and even at the end of our message exchange last night I had to reign her in. She submitted and I knew things were back on track. My track.
Yes Johny it’s all real, very real.
Zoobender
07-05-2024, 08:22 AM
First of all yes it’s a loop. Why I don’t know. My relationship life is one continuous loop. I don’t see any happy women along the way. By that I mean at the end they are never happy.
I move on and destroy once again.
Getting back to this relationship.
We are back on!
It took 407 messages between us last night. I only realised the number this morning when I reread everything. Obviously her input is half of those. I don’t know how many of you guys have a real bond with your sex worker friends? I’m so fickle I was ready to just delete her number and end everything on a whim. I know I’d regret it but it’s either on or off, there’s no middle ground.
I’d say there’s a strong bond of insanity.
Who is the craziest, her or I ?
That’s a topic that only the future knows.
No it’s not Johny.
If it was made up I wouldn’t have wasted so much time extrapolating. I’d just be randomly posting comments on the forum instead of sticking to this one thread. Yes I’ve posted on two other threads but you got upset didn’t you?
You have to remember this relationship will either crash and burn very shortly or it’ll stand the test of time. We’ve been through a lot already. More than most couples.
Mentally I’m the stronger of the two and have other girls to fall back on. She isn’t as tainted by life as I am. Yes she sucks cocks for a living and thus should be more worldly, possibly hardened… or is that just her customers?
I often wonder if she has been through tragedy previously and that’s why she’s chosen this profession or she’s just an opportunistic person looking for the next big catch. She knows what I’m like and I her. It takes two to tango and even at the end of our message exchange last night I had to reign her in. She submitted and I knew things were back on track. My track.
Yes Johny it’s all real, very real.
I think you are craziest because she doesn't exist.
Coxswain
07-05-2024, 09:29 AM
Well done Vincent, see a little olanzapine helps. Dropped from 15 posts perday to perhaps to half a dozen. Go get a repeat script and keep up the good effort
Coxswain
07-05-2024, 09:39 AM
Anyway spanky , enjoy your keyboard. I am off to St peters dream massage today. A couple of good pointers on the forum. Always love trying a new spot.
Spanky69
07-05-2024, 11:54 AM
I think you are craziest because she doesn't exist.
She’s a “stigmata in my imagination”
Stigmata (Ancient Greek: στίγματα, plural of στίγμα stigma, 'mark, spot, brand'), in Catholicism, are bodily wounds, scars and pain which appear in locations corresponding to the crucifixion wounds of Jesus Christ: the hands, wrists, feet, near the heart, the head (from the crown of thorns), and back (from carrying the cross and scourging).
The above wiki extraction was for the “morally unanointed” as she’s all of the above you see.
Trouble is, she is real… so your assumption is wrong.
Well done Vincent, see a little olanzapine helps. Dropped from 15 posts perday to perhaps to half a dozen. Go get a repeat script and keep up the good effort
I’m the man they couldn’t “root shoot or electrocute” hence the need for nothing in this healthy body except pussy juice. Pity about that DATY account but dems da breaks.
Anyway spanky , enjoy your keyboard. I am off to St peters dream massage today. A couple of good pointers on the forum. Always love trying a new spot.
Been there done that. It was a happy experience. All parts completed. Good value. I think I wrote a review or commented somewhere. Oh and I use a phone not a keyboard. If I did the forum would be well and truly spammed.
Coxswain
07-05-2024, 12:36 PM
All parts completed. Congratulations enjoy your technology
Coxswain
07-05-2024, 12:37 PM
Lithium batteries on sale , be quick
dotcumdotinyou
07-05-2024, 04:38 PM
Are you sure you're not a girl in this reincarnation vinnie?
Remember when you asked to get banned cause hayabi was adamant you were his L and wanted to fuck you?
Spanky69
07-05-2024, 06:04 PM
The thread is about a super hot looking ML and myself. We were out on the weekend and as usual it was all eyes on her. I deliberately chose to go and visit some places that knew me just to show her off. This is what you do when you have her, you flaunt her. Well I do. She didn’t object and I tried not to walk her too much as she had shoes that were for show not practicality.
I had almost sent you a pm disclosing more about the ML but decided against it. Whatever I say to you seems to go ignored. It’s touted as imagination, fantasy and fabrication. Anyway why tell you the juicy bits?
She’s real, I’m real, what we do is also real.
Every second day i see her. That’s enough for now. If it crashes that’ll be the end of it but for now she’s worth every iota of effort I put into keeping her.
Just so you know my second long term project is ready to come off the stove. You should try my methods. Punt a lot, have a few GFs and work on a couple of projects at the same time. You’ll never be left without some distraction even if it’s just for entertainment only.
JuneC
07-05-2024, 08:43 PM
who is Dating Mona here???
Spanky69
07-05-2024, 10:15 PM
So we just had a one hour chat. Talked about a lot of things. Lining up our next meet or two. I happened to mention “happy ending” during the conversation and she says “oh, so you know about that”. Massage was never the topic.
What surprises me is that she still thinks I do not know. God forbid, I’ve dropped a hint or two previously.
So many times during the temptation to burn her I wanted to spill the beans but I kept my mouth shut. Luckily I have. I feel that would be the straw that broke this punter’s romance.
“How Long” is a name, no I mean how long should I zip it and keep it closed?
Zoobender
08-05-2024, 10:20 AM
So we just had a one hour chat. Talked about a lot of things. Lining up our next meet or two. I happened to mention “happy ending” during the conversation and she says “oh, so you know about that”. Massage was never the topic.
What surprises me is that she still thinks I do not know. God forbid, I’ve dropped a hint or two previously.
So many times during the temptation to burn her I wanted to spill the beans but I kept my mouth shut. Luckily I have. I feel that would be the straw that broke this punter’s romance.
“How Long” is a name, no I mean how long should I zip it and keep it closed?
Mate you are spending all your time writing on here. No one actually believes you lol but this is a great read. I'm laughing all the time and you are giving us all alot of entertainment.
I can't see any girl actually being attracted to you once they get to know you. You seem like a compulsive liar and attention seeker. I reckon you give most girls the ick. But I could be wrong. I don't know you in real life, you could be a catch.
Johny77
08-05-2024, 11:03 AM
lol is this made up story still going…..I’m on edge. How will the writer end this fictitious story? It’s gripping.
JuneC
08-05-2024, 12:26 PM
My ML sleeps with me and goes for lunch and fuck
dotcumdotinyou
08-05-2024, 04:28 PM
What makes it so entertaining is that vinnie actually believes his own bullshit story, if he wasn't in it so wholeheartedly it would be boring.
He's probably having the vegemite sandwiches (with the crusts cut off) and milo that his mum made him for afternoon tea right now, then he'll have his little nap and dream up another instalment for us.
Spanky69
08-05-2024, 04:36 PM
Mate you are spending all your time writing on here. No one actually believes you lol but this is a great read. I'm laughing all the time and you are giving us all alot of entertainment.
I can't see any girl actually being attracted to you once they get to know you. You seem like a compulsive liar and attention seeker. I reckon you give most girls the ick. But I could be wrong. I don't know you in real life, you could be a catch.
You’re right they’re not attracted to me, just my money. That’s what happens when you get older. Though her friends do say I’m good looking, then again who are they to judge? Talk is cheap, right. I’m way fitter than any girl I’m pumping, so yeah I keep fit. No gut etc. I’d say I’m in the top 1% of punters as far as fitness and looks go if that means anything… Plus I dress well, splash money, etc etc FYI I don’t have issues pulling women or fucking several at once. This one is a project that’ll either be scrapped on a whim or kept depending on which way the wind is blowing.
This one is an exercise in futility and possibly if I’m patient enough, mind control. I just have to remember not to delete her so easily. It’s very easy to do when the next one is just a txt away.
I haven’t met an Asian superwoman yet but if you find one let me know and I’ll test out the bed springs with her. Last Thai at 42G said I broke her pussy… maybe that was an ick moment, I don’t know.,
Lunch was again nice today. Fourth time to that place now. That makes about ten times we’ve shared a meal together but not a bed. I’m going to give her the non responsive txt treatment now and see what happens. Let her do the chasing.
Games people play.
lol is this made up story still going…..I’m on edge. How will the writer end this fictitious story? It’s gripping.
Well we are back for round three and honestly after today’s adventure if she doesn’t produce the goods soon shes bye bye. Like I said previously at the end of this week I have another one ready to go. I need sex like everyone else. I don’t need a gold digger.
My ML sleeps with me and goes for lunch and fuck
Nice for you.
Coxswain
08-05-2024, 05:47 PM
Wow , that was a site too see. Dirdy birdy , doing her own thing to a pole
Coxswain
08-05-2024, 05:48 PM
A dream .......
Zzz888666
08-05-2024, 05:56 PM
Wow , that was a site too see. Dirdy birdy , doing her own thing to a pole
Where to see this dirdy birdy?
GoldfishMan
08-05-2024, 06:51 PM
Like a fucking lunatic asylum in here, lollll....
JJBlows
08-05-2024, 07:58 PM
Like a fucking lunatic asylum in here, lollll....
There is only way to stop this and that's For all normal punters who read this post is Don't contribute anymore. let him mumble to himself and let this thread die with only him commenting here
Spanky69
08-05-2024, 08:21 PM
What makes it so entertaining is that vinnie actually believes his own bullshit story, if he wasn't in it so wholeheartedly it would be boring.
He's probably having the vegemite sandwiches (with the crusts cut off) and milo that his mum made him for afternoon tea right now, then he'll have his little nap and dream up another instalment for us.
What will come as a shock to all and sundry will be who she is. Then everyone of you guys will be eating your words! I think I mentioned lunch today didn’t I? Nothing out of the ordinary for us, except the other punters in the restaurant gawked at what we ordered. That’s the best thing about using an ordering app. You can reorder next time without any delay. Book a table and order even before you get there. It’s great for time poor people.
Anyway she’s not a dream and I’ve deliberately put her on standby tonight as part of her indoctrination process. Then I threw out some burley.
Wow , that was a site too see. Dirdy birdy , doing her own thing to a pole
I don’t know what to make of that. Are you referring to a mast?
Like a fucking lunatic asylum in here, lollll....
As previously stated she’s crazy but I’m crazier.
It’s the only way we can coexist. I’m serious. I still don’t know if she’s serious about anything including marriage. Anyone that throws that offering around so easily has gotta be taken as…crazy.
What will surprise you is that we hang in your part of town. You may well be one of her clients.
Just think, you and I sharing the same set of lips 👄
Spanky69
08-05-2024, 08:30 PM
There is only way to stop this and that's For all normal punters who read this post is Don't contribute anymore. let him mumble to himself and let this thread die with only him commenting here
What is a normal punter and can you describe one? It shouldn’t be hard for you to do. Don’t Blow it ok.
Go forth and ejaculate your premature wisdom to all and sundry. I am waiting with open mouth… er I mean baited breath.
GoldfishMan
09-05-2024, 12:26 AM
There is only way to stop this and that's For all normal punters who read this post is Don't contribute anymore. let him mumble to himself and let this thread die with only him commenting here
I think most of us are already doing that. I noticed that everytime he doesn't get the "engagement" that he craves, he starts rolling out the ol "beergut" persona and uses it to spout utter gibberish in every thread.
Spanky69
09-05-2024, 08:14 AM
I think most of us are already doing that. I noticed that everytime he doesn't get the "engagement" that he craves, he starts rolling out the ol "beergut" persona and uses it to spout utter gibberish in every thread.
Goldfinger it’s all about choices. As someone once said your body is a temple. You are what you put into it. Eat junk food and your body will be…. Junk.
Beer gut persona. Let’s see, yesterday it was Japanese fine dining for lunch, Thai restaurant for dinner. Two different dates. Two different women. No rice though, so yeah I eat healthy. What’s to be ashamed by being healthy?
Do you want to put me down for not being a “normal punter”? Am I to stay within the lanes is that it? Not happening matey.
Should a guy have a beer gut? Does it hinder good sex? You tell me. Considering I can pound, yes pound multiple women, so far up to five in a session I’d say NOT having a beer guy get in the way is a good thing wouldn’t you? Besides the attractiveness of it… Do you chase women with beer guts? What’s your opinion on one, a woman with a beer gut, go on tell me.
All I ever read on here is discourse on a woman’s body, yet there’s not even one tenth of a thread discussion on men’s bodies.
Engagement. I have several interests, do you? I don’t need any engagement on anything with anyone. I write because I have idle time. While you’re sleeping in your reclining chair because you’re too lazy to get out of bed and with your AM radio ensorsed sleep ezy pillow I’m up doing things including posting and keeping the economy going.
Like I’ve said numerous times previously this ML is real and as a matter of fact I’ve just made her wait 12 hours for a reply to her txts and perhaps I’ll make her wait till the end of the day, so she can wait 24 hours. Just so you know, I’ve made women wait a day, a week, three months and a year. Admittedly I lost the one after a year but alls fair in love and war, correct? I can see she’s sent me messages but this relationship is for my entertainment and maybe sexual pleasure. You see, the difference between myself and others is that I’m not desperate to stick it in. I can get sex anytime I feel like it. This is a game and yes it’s game on. Good luck to some of you punters trying to bang her today. I hope she’s in a joyous mood!
Let’s see if I fold on the wait with her.
Perhaps if I’m bored I will txt her.
Decisions, decisions.
No, I’m not.
She can wait.
JuneC
09-05-2024, 09:19 AM
My ML dates me for a chance at a PR
open_minded
09-05-2024, 02:06 PM
some of the stories are unbelievable
ScotPassingThrough
09-05-2024, 02:57 PM
Hey guys. I am also not imaginary texting my imaginary WL that I met at imaginary gym, due to imaginary fights I have with her. Am I a badass now too?
dotcumdotinyou
09-05-2024, 04:33 PM
Don't you just love the plot twists in this,
First vinnie is the alpha male "she'll have to learn to follow my rules"
Then she dumps him and cries like the little bitch he really is till she "forgives" him.
Then he's the alpha again "I'll reply to her when I want not when she wants"
Then she dumps him AGAIN and its back to little bitch mode till she forgives him again.
Then while still in little bitch mode its "I better be careful this time, I don't think she'll forgive me a third time"
And now its alpha boy again "I'm not going to respond, she can wait"
I can't wait for the next instalment of this fictional novel. I'm betting she dumps him again and its teary eyed little bitch time again.
Can you wait for a couple of hours vinnie, I have to finish working and stop to get some more popcorn on the way home.
dotcumdotinyou
09-05-2024, 04:41 PM
EXACTLY vinnie in your own words you write because you have "idle time"
You have nothing else to do, you're ALWAYS on this forum in one of your many personas 24/7, the only way you're keeping the economy going is your door dash and uber eats accounts. You live in a dark little room at your mum's place living out your fantasies on this and other forums...I pity you.
GoldfishMan
09-05-2024, 06:21 PM
Don't you just love the plot twists in this,
First vinnie is the alpha male "she'll have to learn to follow my rules"
Then she dumps him and cries like the little bitch he really is till she "forgives" him.
Then he's the alpha again "I'll reply to her when I want not when she wants"
Then she dumps him AGAIN and its back to little bitch mode till she forgives him again.
Then while still in little bitch mode its "I better be careful this time, I don't think she'll forgive me a third time"
And now its alpha boy again "I'm not going to respond, she can wait"
I can't wait for the next instalment of this fictional novel. I'm betting she dumps him again and its teary eyed little bitch time again.
Can you wait for a couple of hours vinnie, I have to finish working and stop to get some more popcorn on the way home.
ROFLMAO, sorry mate, it's so funny when you put it together like that!!
ScotPassingThrough
09-05-2024, 08:53 PM
ROFLMAO, sorry mate, it's so funny when you put it together like that!!
The funniest part to me is that he’s making all this up and THAT is the best version of events he can imagine. Pathetic even in fantasy
Coxswain
09-05-2024, 09:59 PM
Dirdy birdy is on tik tok. Or you can hang around the pole at North Bondi , hoping she will show up. Her body is a little to lean for my liking. Prefer a bit of curves on a lady
Spanky69
09-05-2024, 10:38 PM
some of the stories are unbelievable
It’s all fact.
Hey guys. I am also not imaginary texting my imaginary WL that I met at imaginary gym, due to imaginary fights I have with her. Am I a badass now too?
There were no fights I just didn’t tolerate certain things
Don't you just love the plot twists in this,
First vinnie is the alpha male "she'll have to learn to follow my rules"
Then she dumps him and cries like the little bitch he really is till she "forgives" him.
Then he's the alpha again "I'll reply to her when I want not when she wants"
Then she dumps him AGAIN and its back to little bitch mode till she forgives him again.
Then while still in little bitch mode its "I better be careful this time, I don't think she'll forgive me a third time"
And now its alpha boy again "I'm not going to respond, she can wait"
I can't wait for the next instalment of this fictional novel. I'm betting she dumps him again and its teary eyed little bitch time again.
Can you wait for a couple of hours vinnie, I have to finish working and stop to get some more popcorn on the way home.
I broke it off with her for the third and final time today.
Spanky69
09-05-2024, 10:40 PM
EXACTLY vinnie in your own words you write because you have "idle time"
You have nothing else to do, you're ALWAYS on this forum in one of your many personas 24/7, the only way you're keeping the economy going is your door dash and uber eats accounts. You live in a dark little room at your mum's place living out your fantasies on this and other forums...I pity you.
I’m still at work, and you’re doing what?
ROFLMAO, sorry mate, it's so funny when you put it together like that!!
You’d laugh at anything, just make sure your falsies don’t fall out while you’re doing that.
The funniest part to me is that he’s making all this up and THAT is the best version of events he can imagine. Pathetic even in fantasy
Whatever. Yep whatever.
Spanky69
09-05-2024, 10:45 PM
Just so all and sundry knows.
It’s over.
Yesterday I dropped $1200 on lunch. She never even gave me a kiss. The stupid tart doesn’t know how to maintain or keep the best catch in her goddam life.
So I dumped her for the third and last time.
Frankly I don’t give a damn.
Her last three parting messages were:
I very hate
You are crazy again
Sad
Coxswain
09-05-2024, 10:55 PM
Yesterday I dropped half of that. But left with a nice bowl of food . She looked better and I was happy. A win for both of us
Coxswain
09-05-2024, 11:00 PM
I had dumplings, guess you had crabs at rockpool
Coxswain
09-05-2024, 11:01 PM
I had dumplings, guess you had crabs at rockpool and a glass of ribena
Spanky69
09-05-2024, 11:01 PM
I cannot even be sarcastic with my final messages to her as she just doesn’t comprehend. Besides I think she’s blocked me again.
I’m sick and tired of her telling me “I am beautiful” and “all the men want to fuck me”. Yep including me. She may have fucked with my mind as I’m still writing about her but she’ll soon be forgotten. Even the good punts are forgotten.
Dems da breaks.
Live and learn.
Have your laugh guys but remember at least I’m trying even if on the rare occasion I fail I still try, write about it and try again.
Spanky69
09-05-2024, 11:06 PM
Yesterday I dropped half of that. But left with a nice bowl of food . She looked better and I was happy. A win for both of us
She respects the shoes I wear, the shirts I wear, the car I drive, my wallet, yep she likes my wallet she said and she even told me “not to die till after we are married”.
Trouble was she never respected me.
Enough time spent talking about this silly tart.
Onto the next one!
Massagecreep
09-05-2024, 11:12 PM
Maybe she is real, I think the alleged messages from her are spot on. We all thought his relationship/romance (his words) was a crock of sh*T and I have not seen anything to change that view. He is still delusional
Spanky69
09-05-2024, 11:31 PM
Maybe she is real, I think the alleged messages from her are spot on. We all thought his relationship/romance (his words) was a crock of sh*T and I have not seen anything to change that view. He is still delusional
I’m heading home but I’ve stopped to reply. The relationship was real. I fucked her off because she turned her cheek when I went to kiss her. For starters my teeth are perfect, but that’s what you get if you spend money. Hers are not.
Her not letting me kiss her was the deal that sealed her fate. She’s a gold digger who wasn’t smart enough to maintain and keep her whale. Even her friends told her there was too much class difference. That I was on a different level to her. She had her opportunity and she blew it…
If I’m spending money on a tart they have to put up. I had enough of her lies. Other punters on this site know far more via pm than what I speak about publicly. I’ve no reason to bullshit about anything.
Why would I say I dated her 10 times and got nowhere? Why doesn’t she put up for me when she put up every day for her punting customers?
I finally told her I knew all about her, her hourly rates etc and even copy paste a part of a forum review to her. She was under an illusion that I didn’t know or was stupid. There’s even a pic of her with her real name if you google the shop and look at the girls they list. Her real name.
Anyway it’s over, I don’t care, it was interesting but fruitless.
Johny77
09-05-2024, 11:33 PM
She respects the shoes I wear, the shirts I wear, the car I drive, my wallet, yep she likes my wallet she said and she even told me “not to die till after we are married”.
Trouble was she never respected me.
Enough time spent talking about this silly tart.
Onto the next one!
On to the next one lol. This is so damn hilarious. This little fantasy in which you supposedly paid for all the wonderful lunches and dinners, while others were spending a lot less and being well serviced by her.
Strange little made up story making yourself look the fool.
Anyway, thanks for the laughs. With any luck, you will get banned again.
Coxswain
09-05-2024, 11:54 PM
Drive safely, it's raining outside. You might have to wash your car , your pride and joy. Remember to brush your teeth, hang up your shirt and have a cup of chamomile. Goes down easy with olanzapine
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 12:15 AM
On to the next one lol. This is so damn hilarious. This little fantasy in which you supposedly paid for all the wonderful lunches and dinners, while others were spending a lot less and being well serviced by her.
Strange little made up story making yourself look the fool.
Anyway, thanks for the laughs. With any luck, you will get banned again.
It’s true. You’d be surprised who she is. That’s the kicker.
Drive safely, it's raining outside. You might have to wash your car , your pride and joy. Remember to brush your teeth, hang up your shirt and have a cup of chamomile. Goes down easy with olanzapine
I have more than ten motor vehicles and I pay to get them washed. There is no pride and joy, they’re pieces of metal. Maybe when I was younger they meant something.
I’m thinking you take pills, I do not. Vitamins only.
Johny77
10-05-2024, 12:28 AM
It’s true. You’d be surprised who she is. That’s the kicker.
I have more than ten motor vehicles and I pay to get them washed. There is no pride and joy, they’re pieces of metal. Maybe when I was younger they meant something.
I’m thinking you take pills, I do not. Vitamins only.
I don’t really care who this fantasy is about. I don’t know why you actually think anyone else cares for that matter. You really are delusional. Most of the comments are of members poking fun at you. It’s actually quite sad that you would take the time to orchestrate this little fantasy of yours.
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 12:43 AM
I don’t really care who this fantasy is about. I don’t know why you actually think anyone else cares for that matter. You really are delusional. Most of the comments are of members poking fun at you. It’s actually quite sad that you would take the time to orchestrate this little fantasy of yours.
Don’t think I honestly care what another punter thinks? If the members enjoy my misadventure that’s fine with me. Let them laugh. I’m the guy doing it or should I say not doing it?
Tomorrow on her way to work she’ll be walking down the street wearing the clothes I bought her, the make up I gave her and the other accessories that I won’t mention for privacy reasons. So be it.
In 18 months time she’ll have to leave the country unless she gets a mug punter to marry her. She’ll go with just the clothes on her back as she lives way too large for her income.
Anyway she had her chance. She was given an opportunity and didn’t see it. No doubt another smarter tart will recognise what I have to offer and deliver the goods in a transactional relationship.
ReginaldBubbles
10-05-2024, 03:52 AM
just made her wait 12 hours for a reply to her txts and perhaps I’ll make her wait till the end of the day, so she can wait 24 hours. Just so you know, I’ve made women wait a day, a week, three months and a year. Admittedly I lost the one after a year but alls fair in love and war, correct? I can see she’s sent me messages but this relationship is for my entertainment and maybe sexual pleasure. You see, the difference between myself and others is that I’m not desperate to stick it in. I can get sex anytime I feel like it. This is a game and yes it’s game on. Good luck to some of you punters trying to bang her today. I hope she’s in a joyous mood!
Let’s see if I fold on the wait with her.
Perhaps if I’m bored I will txt her.
Decisions, decisions.
No, I’m not.
She can wait.!
She respects the shoes I wear, the shirts I wear, the car I drive, my wallet, yep she likes my wallet she said and she even told me “not to die till after we are married”.
Trouble was she never respected me.
Enough time spent talking about this silly tart.
Onto the next one!
And so the pattern continues. Can see how you respected her though right?
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 07:41 AM
And so the pattern continues. Can see how you respected her though right?
Reggie only half the story is public.
Perhaps I gave her too much credence and waved every social behavioural norm off in the pursuit of looks.
Maybe that was my downfall. She bit the hand that fed her and continued eating right through my hand up my arm and down into my wallet. That was her main goal, money.
If I told the full story it would be so blatantly obvious who she is. Yes I tried gaming her but she defied logic. Money and image. I provided that but she should have given me something, the sex. It was supposed to be a transactional deal.
A simple ask.
It is what she does five days a week for way less monetary return.
Hence she is gone.
I told her she wants a guy with money but no cock and good luck finding that.
She’s still got me on block.
Big deal.
Zoobender
10-05-2024, 07:58 AM
Reggie only half the story is public.
Perhaps I gave her too much credence and waved every social behavioural norm off in the pursuit of looks.
Maybe that was my downfall. She bit the hand that fed her and continued eating right through my hand up my arm and down into my wallet. That was her main goal, money.
If I told the full story it would be so blatantly obvious who she is. Yes I tried gaming her but she defied logic. Money and image. I provided that but she should have given me something, the sex. It was supposed to be a transactional deal.
A simple ask.
It is what she does five days a week for way less monetary return.
Hence she is gone.
I told her she wants a guy with money but no cock and good luck finding that.
She’s still got me on block.
Big deal.
It doesn't have to end this way mate. This is your made up story. Why are you making it so hard on yourself.
I demand a rewrite. She realises her mistake and she comes back to your place for the first time unannounced. She rings the door bell. You answer, surprised but also a bit aroused. She is standing there in a short dress, holding white cardboard. With some words written on it... You start reading
I... Rub.... You... Miso sorry.... I'm bad... Girl.... Let's sex now......
I'll let you continue the rest mate... You're welcome.
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 08:03 AM
My whole life I’ve tipped people.
When I buy I tip.
She said “why you give money away”?
So she’d take every note and cent from the tips and pocket them. Every time.
It became embarrassing.
She’d grab the receipt, read it and then take the tips which were intended for others.
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 08:51 AM
It doesn't have to end this way mate. This is your made up story. Why are you making it so hard on yourself.
I demand a rewrite. She realises her mistake and she comes back to your place for the first time unannounced. She rings the door bell. You answer, surprised but also a bit aroused. She is standing there in a short dress, holding white cardboard. With some words written on it... You start reading
I... Rub.... You... Miso sorry.... I'm bad... Girl.... Let's sex now......
I'll let you continue the rest mate... You're welcome.
Let’s see if her greed gets the better of her. She may well try and contact me. Perhaps the story will change. I’ll keep you updated.
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 10:55 AM
On second thought I’m throwing in the towel.
By that I mean I cannot be bothered punting, attempting to score any tart or even starting another relationship.
It’s a futile exercise, sexual gratification.
My ML doesn't love me any more
A Gold digger $$$ till the end
Pissing my money into the wind
My ML won't be near me anymore
A big spender I thought I was the guy
Now I realise it was all a lie
My ML doesn't want me any more
It's over, it’s over, it’s over
Though it breaks my heart in two
To know she's been untrue
But what will I do?
When she said to me it’s not you
There will always be someone new
We're through, we're through, we’re through
It's over, it's over, it's over
Yep
It’s over.
Massagecreep
10-05-2024, 11:31 AM
Ok, I see where this is going.
He has written a country and western song, now just imagine the ukulele and whining tones….
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 12:11 PM
All I’ll need is a beard, a pot belly, some cowboy boots, a ten gallon hat and I’ll be whistling Dixie.
So she’s unblocked me and her friend is txting me, I can tell because the grammar has stepped up two notches.
It’s the same friend who twice previously has responded textually on her behalf. Maybe it’s the mamasan? Who knows and who cares.
Double_Adapter
10-05-2024, 12:34 PM
Ok, I see where this is going.
He has written a country and western song, now just imagine the ukulele and whining tones….
Here you go bro, now put a melody and some chords on it (and don't forget to throw in a few G strings)
Verse 1:
I thought I had it all, with my ML by my side
But now she's left me in the dust, and my heart is fried
I gave her everything, thought we'd never part
But turns out she was just after money, broke my heart
Chorus:
My ML doesn't love me anymore
A gold digger $$$ till the end for sure
Pissing my money into the wind
My ML won't be near me again
Verse 2:
I showered her with gifts, bought her diamond rings
But now I see that it meant nothing, just material things
She played me like a fool, took me for a ride
Now I'm left here broken-hearted on the other side
Chorus:
My ML doesn't love me anymore
A big spender I thought I was the guy for sure
Now I realise it was all a lie
My ML doesn't want to be mine!
Bridge:
I'll pick up the pieces of my shattered dream
And move on from this toxic scheme
No longer will I be played for a fool
By someone who only cares about what's cool
Chorus:
It's over, it’s over ,it’s over
Though it breaks my heart in two
To know she's been untrue
We're through ,we’re through ,we're through
It’s over, it's over, it's over now.
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 01:00 PM
Great effort! Thank you.
I like how you mentioned the word “toxic” as that’s the exact word her friend used when she just post on her behalf about our relationship.
So she just opened the block back up, rapid fired four txts then her friend sent another four.
Is she trying to rub salt into the wound?
JuneC
10-05-2024, 04:12 PM
my ML wants to introduce me to her family for PR and free punts
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 07:45 PM
Crazy as this seems it’s back on again!
Round 4
You thought I was dreaming, well it’s looking to become a nightmare instead. Hopefully not mine, though the space she occupies in my mind is becoming expensive real estate.
my ML wants to introduce me to her family for PR and free punts
I’ve met her family, that was last week, so what’s next for me to you think? Ohhh the PR. I’m a step ahead it seems.
Back and forth, I sway with the wind
Resolution slips away again
Right through my fingers back into my heart
Where it's out of reach and it's in the dark
Sometimes I think I'm blind
Or I may be just paralyzed
Because the plot thickens every day
And the pieces of my puzzle crumbling away
But I know there's a picture beneath
Indecision clouds my vision
My life is falling to pieces
I’ll need sage advice to put me together.
Massagecreep
10-05-2024, 08:17 PM
Every story has a beginning, a middle and an ending. Move on and find someone else to fantasise and obsess over.
Move the circus to a new town
Johny77
10-05-2024, 08:22 PM
Spanky,
You can stop wasting your time. As you can probably tell by now, we are no longer responding to your posts. Instead we are just chatting amongst ourselves.
Zoobender
10-05-2024, 08:39 PM
Spanky,
You can stop wasting your time. As you can probably tell by now, we are no longer responding your posts. Instead we are just chatting amongst ourselves.
I'm writing a screen play. Thanks for the song double adapter. It will be the title track of the movie.
This version will star Dustin Hoffman from rainman and the lady will be played by Leonardo Dicaprio in his What's eating Gilbert grape character.
Oscars here we come
Johny77
10-05-2024, 08:58 PM
I'm writing a screen play. Thanks for the song double adapter. It will be the title track of the movie.
This version will star Dustin Hoffman from rainman and the lady will be played by Leonardo Dicaprio in his What's eating Gilbert grape character.
Oscars here we come
Good luck boys. I am sure you will do well.
Spanky69
10-05-2024, 09:10 PM
Every story has a beginning, a middle and an ending. Move on and find someone else to fantasise and obsess over.
Move the circus to a new town
She still is throwing out proposals like they’re free candy, hoping they’ll be sweet enough for me to gobble up and choke on. Round 4. I’m
Just not sure how many other guys she’s playing.
Spanky,
You can stop wasting your time. As you can probably tell by now, we are no longer responding your posts. Instead we are just chatting amongst ourselves.
That’s fine, enjoy your chat. I’m just filling you in on what’s going on. You don’t have to reply nor do I. She’s still messaging me and I her.
I'm writing a screen play. Thanks for the song double adapter. It will be the title track of the movie.
This version will star Dustin Hoffman from rainman and the lady will be played by Leonardo Dicaprio in his What's eating Gilbert grape character.
Oscars here we come
That’s a close approximation to almost nothing, job well done… not. I like your wit though, even if it’s a bit dim.
Getting back to her as she’s always on my mind. No doubt if I said let’s date tomorrow it’d be yes 100 percent. No kissing, touching and cavorting is allowed but in the end no sex.
Can anyone please explain given the fact I tick all the boxes why she won’t have sex?
cplurt2
10-05-2024, 11:37 PM
Winning an Internet argument is like getting a gold medal at the special Olympics.....
Spanky69
11-05-2024, 12:51 AM
Winning an Internet argument is like getting a gold medal at the special Olympics.....
Exactly why punters keep responding here. They’re trying to put forth a hypothesis that there is no ML. That this thread is fictional. If it was why would I continue to push this barrow?
ReginaldBubbles
11-05-2024, 01:32 AM
Exactly why punters keep responding here. They’re trying to put forth a hypothesis that there is no ML. That this thread is fictional. If it was why would I continue to push this barrow?
For the same reason you've had multiple user names, multiple personalities, multiple ridiculous stories.
If it actually was real, if you actually were a baller and as busy as you say you are then why would you be spending so much time posting about it here?
That's the real question Vincent.
Spanky69
11-05-2024, 06:56 AM
For the same reason you've had multiple user names, multiple personalities, multiple ridiculous stories.
If it actually was real, if you actually were a baller and as busy as you say you are then why would you be spending so much time posting about it here?
That's the real question Vincent.
Reggie,
I honestly don’t know why I keep breaking it off with her but she keeps taking me back. Obviously she has an ulterior motive and we all know that.
Enjoy your day off.
Spanky69
11-05-2024, 04:19 PM
Another lunch another lady.
That’s what happens when the current ML didn’t reply to my messages and left me hanging for 18 hours. She missed the boat, well the waterfront restaurant…Busy place even in the rain. Took a few pics to send to the ML to rub it in. Yes I’m a cunt and if she’d have provided hers she wouldn’t be on the receiving end of another lesson.
I haven’t even responded to her txt. She knows I’ve read it but now I have another woman who will put up she can wait and wait and wait. Then she’ll get the pics…
Like I’ve said previously I had a WL on the go. Today it eventuated. Bit of a surprise as I wasn’t expecting anything till next weekend but she responded and I invited.
I won’t bother with a thread on the WL as I respect her too much and there isn’t any game playing. It’s straight down the line, like I had hoped this ML would be.
She’s almost cooked her goose. Now let’s see how crazy she gets when I leave her hanging out to dry.
Perhaps I’ll reply tomorrow morning just before she starts work. Give her something to think about while she’s looking after a punter.
Spanky69
12-05-2024, 09:46 AM
Well she still wants me. The 24 hour burn worked. Now I have a ML and the new WL. Anything is possible if you try.
11Bravo
13-05-2024, 01:59 PM
For the same reason you've had multiple user names, multiple personalities, multiple ridiculous stories.
If it actually was real, if you actually were a baller and as busy as you say you are then why would you be spending so much time posting about it here?
That's the real question Vincent.
The tells are: Join date, self-aggrandizing posts. But I look on the bright side: his posts keep him off the streets... I really do feel sorry for any provider, gf, even the fictional ones, who have to deal with his ilk. Some play the game, others just ride the pine.
11Bravo
13-05-2024, 04:46 PM
Sad news, boys, sad news. :cry: So pull up a chair, sit down, take a couple of deep breaths, and have that box of tissues at hand.
I have been personally (dm) told (why me, Lord, why me? :grimace:), that SpankMe and the ML are history. :startle: His spin is he broke up with her but it's kind of hard to tell, you know how rambling he is :confused2:. MY experience, when she gives you an OTT price, it's a sure sign she doesn't want to do business with you, but that's just my take. Guess it could go either way depending on your view (and your ego) :question:. But silver lining, he will let this thread die, :smile:and let's look on the bright side, one lucky ML, at least I'm thinking. But SpankMe has informed me that he's now FOCUSED on making a go with the WL, so let's spare a thought for her (and perhaps WE'll be spared that "Dating a WL" thread :vomit:). One can only hope.
And, true to form, he did take one last jab at me, "You’ve got too much humanity." Guess that's a jab to his ilk, but I take it as a complement, that khun jai dee that's so nice to hear... I NEVER get tired of hearing that... :smile:
Johny77
13-05-2024, 06:34 PM
Bravo, allow this thread to just die plsssssss.
Coxswain
14-05-2024, 09:27 AM
Always look on the bright side of life. That is from jiddu krishnamurti
Coxswain
14-05-2024, 11:38 AM
Imagine all the people living life in peace. You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one dum pommel. Should have come to aussie. Lose your mind in india , fuck Japanese , get shot in the great big city of lights. Not me just a walkabout fella. Aboriginal
Coxswain
14-05-2024, 11:38 AM
My sweet lord..
Coxswain
14-05-2024, 11:40 AM
Two dots , for 15 characters..
Coxswain
14-05-2024, 11:41 AM
Hare Krishna. Om shanti shanti shanti
dotcumdotinyou
14-05-2024, 03:34 PM
Yet another username to get the post counts up vinnie?
ScotPassingThrough
14-05-2024, 03:54 PM
I reported it for spamming this obnoxious garbage. Please send another
GoldfishMan
14-05-2024, 04:21 PM
Yet another username to get the post counts up vinnie?
All products of the same troubled mind. Spanky has been pretty much the only person responding to the garbage coming out of that out and out troll.
I noticed he always seems to go into this "beergut-mode" when people start ignoring his latest "successfully unbanned" creation.
jamesjj
14-05-2024, 06:03 PM
Makes you wonder if it's the same bloke posting on that other forum about purposely sharing HIV at a northshore brothel. That one must he loving the attention.
Spanky69
14-05-2024, 06:05 PM
All products of the same troubled mind. Spanky has been pretty much the only person responding to the garbage coming out of that out and out troll.
I noticed he always seems to go into this "beergut-mode" when people start ignoring his latest "successfully unbanned" creation.
Goldfinger. Your PM inbox is full. Why even keep sent or received messages? Why do you always criticise what I post? Aren’t I allowed to put forth a view, an experience? The facts are correct.
I met a ML, we dated, it’s over.
It’s like these women are deemed as sacred ink and I’m not allowed to dip my pen into their well of sexual pleasure without paying. I did pay her one way or another, it’s just that the shop never got a cut. Maybe the most antagonistic posters on this thread are shop owners and they don’t like free sex or they think they own the worker? Who knows.
So I’ll post here my response one last time.
It Over.
I’ve liquidated everything, her number, her messages, all her pics and videos. It’s like she never existed.
How else can i start with the new one and avoid all temptation? Like Adam, Eve and the apple. This ML was forbidden fruit. Most of you guys wouldn’t have taken her on. It was only I, the great, the Big Daddy Spanky that had the balls to take her on, never get anywhere and publicly state that here for all yee to read!
I tried and failed myself and you my fellow punters!
Oh I tried, only my close friends offsite know how much I tried. One even said I rang him seven times in one day about her… enough? I wanted it so much to continue. Just the relationship. But a part of me refused to be fucked over and taken for a ride day after goddam day. There was no stopping her lust for material possessions. I had to drawn the line or I’d be very soon thrown away and discarded onto the harsh reality heap of shafted simp losers. So I broke it off. By doing that it made me a winner in my own small mind. By doing that it gave me the courage to continue on life’s journey once again seeking refuge on the bosom of another sex worker.
Now laugh at me or even with me while I wipe the ML from the backside of my life like a sheep’s dag!
I’m surprised I haven't been accused of faking the moon landing too?
Oh and I’m Not Coxswain.
Thx
critical brain mass
14-05-2024, 06:10 PM
Goldfinger. Your PM inbox is full. Why even keep sent or received messages?
So I’ll post here my response one last time.
It Over.
I’ve liquidated everything, her number, her messages, all her pics and videos. It’s like she never existed.
How else can i start with the new one and avoid all temptation? Like Adam, Eve and the apple. This ML was forbidden fruit. Most of you guys wouldn’t have taken her on. It was only I, the great, the Big Daddy Spanky that had the balls to take her on, never get anywhere and publicly state that here for all yee to read!
I tried and failed.
Oh I tried, only my close friends offsite know how much I tried. One even said I rang him seven times in one day about her… enough? I wanted it so much to continue. Just the relationship. But a part of me refused to be fucked over and taken for a ride day after goddam day. There was no stopping her lust for material possessions. I had to drawn the line or I’d be very soon thrown away and discarded onto the harsh reality heap of shafted losers. So I broke it off. By doing that it made me a winner in my own small mind. By doing that it gave me the courage to continue on life’s journey once again seeking refuge on the bosom of another sex worker.
Now laugh at me or even with me while I wipe the ML from the backside of my life like a sheep’s dag!
I’m surprised I haven't been accused of faking the moon landing too?
Oh and I’m Not Coxswain.
Thx
All this over a sex worker that you couldn’t fuck?
Unfortunately and with all due respect, you sound like the worlds biggest cuck
Spanky69
14-05-2024, 06:31 PM
All this over a sex worker that you couldn’t fuck?
Unfortunately and with all due respect, you sound like the worlds biggest cuck
Perhaps I was in this instance.
I had already read her six months ago and yet continued thinking my future with her was my destiny. Why I don’t know but it was a Deja vu like experience. It was as if I had to go through this with her because I had felt it was meant to be. Like a moth to the flame I succumbed. I got a singe but not a full burn. Lucky.
Effectively four times I broke it off in the last week.
Enough was enough but my weakness for her kept bringing me back. You try and break off with a beautiful woman who reinforces herself in your mind by sending pics of her body daily.
I think I did well. I haven’t mentioned her name to my friends today which is a good thing.
Now I just have to stop posting about her here.
11Bravo
15-05-2024, 11:09 AM
Perhaps I was in this instance.
I had already read her six months ago and yet continued thinking my future with her was my destiny. Why I don’t know but it was a Deja vu like experience. It was as if I had to go through this with her because I had felt it was meant to be. Like a moth to the flame I succumbed. I got a singe but not a full burn. Lucky.
Effectively four times I broke it off in the last week.
Enough was enough but my weakness for her kept bringing me back. You try and break off with a beautiful woman who reinforces herself in your mind by sending pics of her body daily.
I think I did well. I haven’t mentioned her name to my friends today which is a good thing.
Now I just have to stop posting about her here.
SpankMe, I'm so disappointed. Have you already forgotten your exact quote, "Anyway she’s gone as of today and the thread is over as far as I’m concerned." Seems it's not, you just can't get over the fact that she said "no" to you. WHAT?, Bravo, what heresy is this?
/SIDEBAR
Lesson for Newbees: If she gives you an OTT price, it's her polite way of saying "No" (without saying "no"), she's NOT interested in your company, but... she would make an exception if you met her OTT price. I'm always grateful as she's saving us BOTH from wasting time; just say "No Thank you" and walk away. It's NOT a breakup, it's just merely a polite "no", giving those with fragile egos a way out rather than the more direct "NO".
/END SIDEBAR
So, SpankMe, when she asked for, to quote you again, "She wanted a Cartier bracelet she picked out for $8000, a $3000 matching ring, a wedding for 50 people, a European holiday, a condo and to make sure I married her before I died.", she's not greedy, not, quote again, "Part Ferengi, part Gold digging Goblin and part Siren", (and I will readily admit I did have to Google "Ferengi"), that's just HER price* for HER company for YOU. And given your actions (see below), I think she's a very SMART ML, and that was a generous offer. And if this lasted 6 months, she must have the patience of a Saint.
You really should learn how to read the room. It was a FINANCIAL relationship, NOT emotional, at least for one party (the one who was never named...)
Another lunch another lady.
That’s what happens when the current ML didn’t reply to my messages and left me hanging for 18 hours. She missed the boat, well the waterfront restaurant…Busy place even in the rain. Took a few pics to send to the ML to rub it in. Yes I’m a cunt and if she’d have provided hers she wouldn’t be on the receiving end of another lesson.
Well she still wants me. The 24 hour burn worked. Now I have a ML and the new WL. Anything is possible if you try.
But I will say, this does make me laugh, and when I see it again, it does make me smile. Yes, you really taught her, that "burn" really worked... Just shows that sometime a "free" lunch really isn't worth it...
Wow, her sin of not responding "quickly"... (why I like messaging, it's just a "pending" until the person takes the time to respond, not disturbing them when they're busy with something (or somebody) else). And sending her photos of her "mistake"? By definition, LITERALLY, sophomoric.
*And I figure THAT action probably upped her quote by several thousand dollars
kayofa
15-05-2024, 07:06 PM
Looks like he striked on another forum thinking he's Andy Lau. Another user caught him out using ChatGPT Chinese version writing an article claiming he's dating a Ginza girl and has all her personal info. Even trying to sell his "skills" of how to ask a WL for her private details as if it's as hard as GETTING A PROPER JOB INSTEAD OF BEING STUCK AT HOME WRITING BS.
News flash: COVID-19 is no longer a threat, stop fantasizing about splurging a gazillion dollars and get a job at Macca's or something.
Spanky69
15-05-2024, 08:59 PM
Looks like he striked on another forum thinking he's Andy Lau. Another user caught him out using ChatGPT Chinese version writing an article claiming he's dating a Ginza girl and has all her personal info. Even trying to sell his "skills" of how to ask a WL for her private details as if it's as hard as GETTING A PROPER JOB INSTEAD OF BEING STUCK AT HOME WRITING BS.
News flash: COVID-19 is no longer a threat, stop fantasizing about splurging a gazillion dollars and get a job at Macca's or something.
What’s this got to do with my thread? Let’s see, nothing. Cut back on something you’re taking or go get your eyes tested.
Andy Lau. Never heard of him but then again I don’t watch media of any sort. So I googled him up. He’s good looking though. We have a few similarities coincidentally.
I’ll do some research on him when I can be bothered. Thx.
Spanky69
15-05-2024, 10:01 PM
SpankMe, I'm so disappointed. Have you already forgotten your exact quote, "Anyway she’s gone as of today and the thread is over as far as I’m concerned." Seems it's not, you just can't get over the fact that she said "no" to you. WHAT?, Bravo, what heresy is this?
/SIDEBAR
Lesson for Newbees: If she gives you an OTT price, it's her polite way of saying "No" (without saying "no"), she's NOT interested in your company, but... she would make an exception if you met her OTT price. I'm always grateful as she's saving us BOTH from wasting time; just say "No Thank you" and walk away. It's NOT a breakup, it's just merely a polite "no", giving those with fragile egos a way out rather than the more direct "NO".
/END SIDEBAR
You really should learn how to read the room. It was a FINANCIAL relationship, NOT emotional, at least for one party (the one who was never named...)
But I will say, this does make me laugh, and when I see it again, it does make me smile. Yes, you really taught her, that "burn" really worked... Just shows that sometime a "free" lunch really isn't worth it...
Wow, her sin of not responding "quickly"... (why I like messaging, it's just a "pending" until the person takes the time to respond, not disturbing them when they're busy with something (or somebody) else). And sending her photos of her "mistake"? By definition, LITERALLY, sophomoric.
*And I figure THAT action probably upped her quote by several thousand dollars
Look 11Bravo, the relationship never got to home base and I had other options like I have always done my entire life. The sex was neither here nor there as far as I was concerned and there was always a concern that she wouldn’t be enough sexually anyway. I had mentioned that to her also as I was just stating a fact.
I was prepared to spend whatever financially if I thought she was genuine. She’s a nice girl with a nice nature and I wish her all the best. Maybe the age gap and maybe her maturity were contributing factors. Maybe my OTT attitude was also a problem.
They’re no need to dissect the breakup as the full story will never get out.
I hope she finds her dreams.
Spanky69
16-05-2024, 06:50 AM
Who is the more foolish, the punter or the ML who still wants him?
Spanky69
17-05-2024, 04:27 AM
I’m thinking her want to stay here will never be fulfilled as she doesn’t comprehend what is required. It’s all about the marriage she thinks. If things were that easy she’d have done that already with someone else before I met her.
You can’t just marry a guy and get instant citizenship, correct? Her push for marriage is absurd. I’ve never met anyone ask so hard.
I’ve already seen that as a red flag and there won’t be a chequered flag. I think she’s dreaming. Everyone is entitled to dream though.
Coxswain
17-05-2024, 01:45 PM
Burping........
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