Open minded but not open minded?

[Zimmerman]

Hi everyone.

Took a break from punting for a while and came back recently. Thought to get back into the groove I would book a girl that I saw before at one of the popular massage joints in the city.
Without shaming the shop nor the girl as it is not my intention - i booked a Thai girl that is advertised as open minded in two different shops.
While I understand that YMMV my friend and I have now had the same experience with the same girl.

Having seen her and got that open minded service before, I was surprised that after I arrived for my booking I was told that she no longer does those open minded services as she has a boyfriend now. Credit to the girl as she helped me change to another girl.

Why keep advertising her as open minded if she no longer provides those said services? The replacement girl was alright but still wasn't the girl I wanted to see - leaving me with a bit of a bitter sweet feeling.

Wonder if anyone had similar experiences?

[GoldfishMan]

I will just put that down to laziness on the part of the shop operator but who knows what the real intention was.
Bad luck bro.... Time to move on to the next.

[Wayne]

Maybe she just isn’t into you. Sounds like she’s made an excuse not to be open-minded with you. Take the hint and move on. There are plenty of gorgeous massage girls more than willing to accept your dollars for their open-mindedness

[Zimmerman]

Maybe she just isn’t into you. Sounds like she’s made an excuse not to be open-minded with you. Take the hint and move on. There are plenty of gorgeous massage girls more than willing to accept your dollars for their open-mindedness

Perhaps yes, but then those open minded services were provided before and not only once. I don't mind at all that an ML finds a boyfriend honestly good for them, but the shop advertising as such is the same as bait for me. Between that and a lot of shop using heavily photoshopped photos it's becoming hard to see what is true or not

[Icegodofhungary]

Hard to say whether it’s deliberate bait and switch on behalf of the shop, or they’re just lax in updating / checking their descriptions. A lot of the time I think they pretty much just copy and paste those descriptions from one girl to another without any real editing or proof reading (no QA at an adult services venue, how unusual!)

Either way, bummer that you had that experience, at least she helped hook you up with a replacement even if that’s not really what you wanted.

[c1teh9]

I think the only way to truely know is if you post the girl and shop and others can tell you if they have received any extra services recently. Obviously understand if you'd prefer to avoid this.

[faruk]

Wtf is open minded
Asking on behalf of 80% of the forum

[OnOnOnOn]

Wtf is open minded
Asking on behalf of 80% of the forum

They offer Part 3

[Zimmerman]

I think the only way to truely know is if you post the girl and shop and others can tell you if they have received any extra services recently. Obviously understand if you'd prefer to avoid this.

Won't name the girl since she handled that well and in case I also don't want to affect her business. The shop is SBM.

[Niceguy11]

I can't speak for ML's as I don't go to these places. 100% of the time is WL's.

But I can speak from experience and been through the same thing you have been through. A WL I use to frequent who no longer works, would provide CIM and COF at no extra charge. This carried on a for a while then took a break from seeing her. I then visited her about a year later and to my shock, she no longer provided these services. I was like wtf despite the shop still advertising her doing this.

I guess WL's and ML's stop offering it for whatever reason despite punters willing to pay extra $$. Maybe time to move on to another girl bro. That's what I did and have not regretted it.

[Zimmerman]

I can't speak for ML's as I don't go to these places. 100% of the time is WL's.

But I can speak from experience and been through the same thing you have been through. A WL I use to frequent who no longer works, would provide CIM and COF at no extra charge. This carried on a for a while then took a break from seeing her. I then visited her about a year later and to my shock, she no longer provided these services. I was like wtf despite the shop still advertising her doing this.

I guess WL's and ML's stop offering it for whatever reason despite punters willing to pay extra $$. Maybe time to move on to another girl bro. That's what I did and have not regretted it.

Yes I guess just a sloppy job from the shop that could have been avoided very easily. I do know there are plenty of fishes in the sea but just the fact that I had to go there to find out those services were no longer offered and having to chose a girl I haven't heard of nor seen before could have ended badly since I had to go in blind with no way of knowing if I would like what I see.

[Mr_KB666]

Won't name the girl since she handled that well and in case I also don't want to affect her business. The shop is SBM.

SBM Newtown or City?

[Markin]

sometimes an ML gets a boyfriend and changes services, sometimes you get more than you bargained for, sometimes less. there's so much secrecy and bullshit and shame in this industry you never really know exactly what you will get. that's why we call it punting.

it's much worse for the ladies. they have no idea what kind of dudes will turn up and when.

[Double_Adapter]

sometimes an ML gets a boyfriend and changes services, sometimes you get more than you bargained for, sometimes less. there's so much secrecy and bullshit and shame in this industry you never really know exactly what you will get. that's why we call it punting.

it's much worse for the ladies. they have no idea what kind of dudes will turn up and when.

Spot on bro, you hit the clit on the head! Also when chicks get STIs they become suspicious of every cunt that walks into a shop including all the regulars they were previously open minded with.

In general chicks will be open minded for their:
- Boyfriends (they provide emotional intimacy)
- Lovers (they provide good dick)
- SDs (they provide good $$$)
- Trusted regulars (they provide steady income)
- Blokes they fancy and find charming and attractive (they provide adventure, intrigue, mystery, and romance to an otherwise boring life)

[Double_Adapter]

So basically chicks will be open minded for blokes who are the top 1% of society (in terms of income, looks, money, power)

I know bro, it's fucked!. Blokes get the raw end of the deal

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[GoldfishMan]

I know bro, it's fucked!. Blokes get the raw end of the deal

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Have you ever wondered if the same set of criteria to make a woman happy would apply to a lesbian lover if she had one?

[bistro]

That is nothing...
Ive been eyeing a very hot girl from a shop ads, but she is never available....
I started wondering if she is one of those fake girls ads to attract customers in....
Hongkong brothel always use this trick when i worked there for a year.

[GoldfishMan]

That is nothing...
Ive been eyeing a very hot girl from a shop ads, but she is never available....
I started wondering if she is one of those fake girls ads to attract customers in....
Hongkong brothel always use this trick when i worked there for a year.

Wow, you worked in a Hong Kong brothel for a year?

[Kiki kong]

That is nothing...
Ive been eyeing a very hot girl from a shop ads, but she is never available....
I started wondering if she is one of those fake girls ads to attract customers in....
Hongkong brothel always use this trick when i worked there for a year.

The whole year the imaginary girl was un bookeable. That's very HK strategy for yah. At HK I'd position my self close to the Fuji building and punt everyday for the entire business trip. Then get the best foot massage life afterwards.

[andrewv]

I wonder if it really matters to the boyfriend of a working girl to know it’s OK that she is naked at work and letting punters do everything to her, except wear a condom and put it in. Such a fine line —- splitting hair!!!

[bistro]

The whole year the imaginary girl was un bookeable. That's very HK strategy for yah. At HK I'd position my self close to the Fuji building and punt everyday for the entire business trip. Then get the best foot massage life afterwards.

Imaginary Girl... yes thats the word i was searching for.... im so upset, but i keep calling them whenever she is on roster only to find she is fully booked for the day... the receptionist did a good job booking me with other girl, but the imaginary girl is the one i want...

Will note Fuji building next time i visit HK again, hopefully my company fund for the trip again, so i just need to prepare WL money... hahaha

[Axeman123]

Have you ever wondered if the same set of criteria to make a woman happy would apply to a lesbian lover if she had one? I'm always wondering about lesbian lovers.... well the fisting part anyway.

[Double_Adapter]

Imaginary Girl... yes thats the word i was searching for.... im so upset, but i keep calling them whenever she is on roster only to find she is fully booked for the day... the receptionist did a good job booking me with other girl, but the imaginary girl is the one i want...

Will note Fuji building next time i visit HK again, hopefully my company fund for the trip again, so i just need to prepare WL money... hahaha

Imaginary chicks? that sounds interesting, there's a lot of imaginary shit going on in this forum so it's right up some peoples alley.

[Double_Adapter]

I'm always wondering about lesbian lovers.... well the fisting part anyway.

Smaller hands, so technically less of an issue

[blk53]

I wonder if it really matters to the boyfriend of a working girl to know it’s OK that she is naked at work and letting punters do everything to her, except wear a condom and put it in. Such a fine line —- splitting hair!!!

Quite a few of ginza girls have bf lol. I asked the girl before, they said some of their bfs don’t know their job cuz they work like normal hours. Some girls said their bfs don’t care.

[tezzaman18]

Quite a few of ginza girls have bf lol. I asked the girl before, they said some of their bfs don’t know their job cuz they work like normal hours. Some girls said their bfs don’t care.

That is quite plausible. The fortunate/attractive ones to be in a relationship , if you are here on a student via for a few years.

Those that possibly fit into this scenario ....... starting around 10.30am shift and finishing around 6.30-8.00 pm, like doing normal working hours and 4-5 days weekly.

For BFs that don't mind or don't care well chances are they were previously a customer . Afterall , these WLs have to fund their ongoing visa and send money home, and cannot depend on the BFs to financial provide for her .

For those that don't know ........ that has to be quite unbelievable .... must be living under a rock ....... to practically keep such a secret. Lol.

[Axeman123]

Smaller hands, so technically less of an issue You can only imagine what inaminate n foreign objects some of those bull dykes consume.

[trampslikeus55]

The term "open minded" is no guarantee of open slather. I seem to remember that Alice at 227 Broadway first used it on her roster list maybe pre covid. She told me that it meant the ML may be open to more than HE. Time has passed and many now interpret it as open to all services. I think punters should remember that the open minded ML is ok for an upgrade, but connection and $$$ is the key driver for all services 😎

[11Bravo]

The term "open minded" is no guarantee of open slather. I seem to remember that Alice at 227 Broadway first used it on her roster list maybe pre covid. She told me that it meant the ML may be open to more than HE. Time has passed and many now interpret it as open to all services. I think punters should remember that the open minded ML is ok for an upgrade, but connection and $$$ is the key driver for all services 😎The ole "possible, probable, but no guarantee", aka YMMV.