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optimusprime
23-06-2024, 08:30 PM
theres this WL i used to see regularly. she found out i saw another WL in the same shop, so she got upset and texted me saying "she will get back at me" for what i did to her and said she's blocking me on wechat. i havent seen her since she blocked me. so i wanted to ask for advice before making the next move. here are my questions:

1. should i book her and what can i expect from her when i see her during that session?
2. what did she mean by "she will get back at me"? what can i expect?

thanks!

Johny77
23-06-2024, 08:34 PM
Considering she has blocked you, I wouldn’t book her. Booking her may make matters worse.

As for what you can expect, I wouldn’t be concerned unless she has any of your personal details.

Might be best to let it go and move on.

rfection
23-06-2024, 08:39 PM
see her and asked for double with the other girl

11Bravo
23-06-2024, 09:04 PM
I'd move on. Think about it from HER point of view: money that should have been hers went to a competitor.

I've always found it best to keep it a single girl per shop if she's a regular, especially if it's a smaller shop and definitely if they work the same days. You're basically breaking her rice bowl, and it can cause friction in the shop.

sync3d3d
23-06-2024, 09:51 PM
Did you see her outside the shop or only in ?
If only in the shop I’d definitely change.

Does my head in that girls in this industry act like this . I got a regular and she’d ask often if I’m seeing any of the other girls . I actually did recently first time also and she started to ignore me lol.

Themysterypi
23-06-2024, 10:55 PM
see her and asked for double with the other girl

Do this, it could be the best experience you have.

Tell them the best one will be your next regular and they turn compete.

personaa
23-06-2024, 11:09 PM
Her loss. You have the money and you can take your business anywhere you want.

She can't do shit. And don't be a simp by reaching out to her. This is punting not relationships.

Spicks
23-06-2024, 11:10 PM
see her and asked for double with the other girl
No better way than to kiss and make up. Do it Prime!

newbieballpunter
24-06-2024, 12:16 AM
Better forget about her, and don't even visit this shop anymore as she will spread gossips to every WL, so they will give you bad service or even refuse. It's her manipulations to make you attached. She afraid you will find another regular.
Just be happy, you just dodged not a bullet, but an airstrike.
It could be pregnancy or sexual assault claims with or even several "mafia" goones that sort this problem and help the poor and innocent girl get the PR

gamer2
24-06-2024, 12:42 AM
Maybe ask the mamasan/papasan if somethings up

cometoIndia
24-06-2024, 03:36 AM
it's always the same bullshit.

- asking for your wechat, giving you signals that they're interested in you.
- asking if you have other regulars, guilt-tripping you for seeing other girls
- complimenting you, "you're so handsome, you're so good at sex, etc"
- giving you "bonus" every time you see her, making you feel special. Use your brain here, why don't they give the same service from the beginning?

Stupid men will fall into the honey trap. Little do you know you are just one of 100 lonely men they are texting. You don't believe me? Ask the girl to show her Wechat.
This is their way to keep you on a leash. They are making you a stable source of income. It's like Onlyfans, you are basically subscribing to her account by visiting her regularly. Remember these bitches exist to extract as much money as possible from you. If they are being honest, they are disgusted by guys who visit brothels.

This is why I don't do regulars. Why tf would you stick with one pussy? Learn from Rooter. He is the most experienced guy here and doesn't have a regular coz he knows what's up.

Kiki kong
24-06-2024, 07:31 AM
Don't be a simp and an ATM for her.
Go back to the same shop and continue to book other girls infront of her.
Be chill and don't fall for her guilt trip BS, man up and DGAF about it. More girls will land in Oz.

Umitabi
24-06-2024, 07:54 AM
Yes you should see her again and stalk her then come back to forum and post in thread how you have fell in love with a wl

ditchtheboss
24-06-2024, 08:06 AM
Like it has been said below, the girls do and say those things to keep us hooked and coming back. Plain and simple. Don’t get too hang up on it. The thing is sometimes one will find a girl that we just click, the sex, the conversation, even the hobbies and how it happened to me and many others outside the shop. The reality is, it is all a marketing ploy to get our money, and nothing wrong with it, we love it. Just try not to fall for her. Best to move on from her.

An alternative I have seen someone post before is to book her, barely speak to her and fuck her to an inch of her life. All you do is tell her when to turn and in what position to be, when to suck your dick and take your cum in her mouth. Them leave without saying bye.

I personally can’t do that.

Pay, fuck and leave.

Mr Fugly
24-06-2024, 08:28 AM
Cut the tie completely.
She's blocked you and has threatened you... at what point do you think this will become "normal" again?
These girls have a fucked up view of the world, made worse by whatever substance they can injest to get through the day!!
Somewhere along your journey, her twisted mind thought she had you under her finger and her own personal ATM!!
Forget her, delete her, move on!

BPunter76
24-06-2024, 08:39 AM
Find out when she's available, go to the shop, ask for a line up, say hi to her enthusiastically, pick different WL for the session. Job's done.

Peter69
24-06-2024, 09:15 AM
Sounds like you dodged a big bullet buddy, go punt in celebration of your loss

Folcis
24-06-2024, 09:35 AM
1. should i book her and what can i expect from her when i see her during that session?
2. what did she mean by "she will get back at me"? what can i expect?


1. Why the hell would you try and see her again? Move on.
2. She'll probably just say bad things about you to other girls she knows in the industry. Certainly within that shop at a minimum.

ditchtheboss
24-06-2024, 09:43 AM
Oh the allure of the regular is so strong. Walk away buddy

1inchguy
24-06-2024, 09:59 AM
Her lost is another ml/wl gain.
Move on mate

GoldfishMan
24-06-2024, 11:33 AM
To the first question. Bro, this is a scorned woman. People have been sacrificing fortunes to get rid of them, now you want to pay an hourly rate to go and see one. What's the rationale in that?

Besides, surely you had good times with other girls that put you in this spot. Why don't you focus on that instead of trying to go back to the mothership?

To the second question. Well, it depends on how close you flew to the sun, no? Whatever happens, take it as a lesson learnt.

Icegodofhungary
24-06-2024, 12:18 PM
Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, nor hell a fury like a woman scorned.

asnabc
24-06-2024, 02:56 PM
This is punting, you pay for the WL to leave. Move on OP, don't get yourself into more trouble.

JJBlows
24-06-2024, 03:03 PM
I'd say OP got off the hook pretty easy. Some WL's will demand that you get into a relationship & marry them.

You will lose more trying to get out of it then. Just count your blessings & move on.

Crazy Thai ladies tend to be like that

cometoIndia
24-06-2024, 03:06 PM
Cut the tie completely.
These girls have a fucked up view of the world, made worse by whatever substance they can injest to get through the day!!
Somewhere along your journey, her twisted mind thought she had you under her finger and her own personal ATM!!


This needs an emphasis. These bitches are not normal girls you meet in real life. These bitches are the bottom of the barrel of the society. Their minds are messed up and unpredictable. Like how fucked up your life must be for one day to decide I want to be pounded by strangers to make a living. Complete disgrace.

Always remember that you are in a better position than them if you can afford this hobby. Never put them on a pedestal.

All in all, Respect them, treat them nicely, but never get involved IRL.

Double_Adapter
24-06-2024, 03:47 PM
I'm gonna disagree with the rest and play devils advocate

1. should i book her and what can i expect from her when i see her during that session?

Fuck yeah! There's nothing quite like the intense primal raw animalistic feeling you get from make up sex.

2. what did she mean by "she will get back at me"? what can i expect?

She has developed strong feelings for you bro and feels betrayed by your proclivities and promiscuous behaviours. She will get back at you by raw dogging the next bloke and/or giving them extras that you haven't been able to get from her - so when the next bloke posts an AR detailing all the extras he received from this chick, it will make your blood boil and fuck you up mentally.

roooter
24-06-2024, 06:00 PM
Just move on , not worthwhile. ML makes decision , is the juice worth the squeeze.

woods23
24-06-2024, 09:38 PM
No way with a text like that , she's crazy, that sounds pretty scary. . First thing she will do is bbfs you..then later text you She got HIV/ pregnant :surprise:

11Bravo
24-06-2024, 09:53 PM
What I learned. A LOOOOONG time ago, a bg asked me to not pull another bg from her bar, especially when I'd pulled her several times. A SIMPLE case of not wanting to lose face. Pull from another bar, out of sight, out of mind. But the same bar? No. Because like any work place, there are cliques; allies, but others you just don't get along with. So losing a regular to a co-worker can be considered a loss of face; you couldn't keep the guy. Sure it's business, but you're just not good enough at it. If you know ANYTHING about Asians, that loss of face is something to be avoided. It's a lesson I've kept in mind since. Like I said, I'd just move on, learning from the consequences.

trampslikeus55
24-06-2024, 10:18 PM
What I learned. A LOOOOONG time ago, a bg asked me to not pull another bg from her bar, especially when I'd pulled her several times. A SIMPLE case of not wanting to lose face. Pull from another bar, out of sight, out of mind. But the same bar? No. Because like any work place, there are cliques; allies, but others you just don't get along with. So losing a regular to a co-worker can be considered a loss of face; you couldn't keep the guy. Sure it's business, but you're just not good enough at it. If you know ANYTHING about Asians, that loss of face is something to be avoided. It's a lesson I've kept in mind since. Like I said, I'd just move on, learning from the consequences.
Agree. There is absolutely nothing to gain from you going back to see/talk to her. If you cared about her you wouldn't be in this situation. Move on 👍

newbieballpunter
25-06-2024, 12:07 AM
I'm gonna disagree with the rest and play devils advocate
She will get back at you by raw dogging the next bloke and/or giving them extras that you haven't been able to get from her - so when the next bloke posts an AR detailing all the extras he received from this chick, it will make your blood boil and fuck you up mentally.

Nah, I think its more like a threat. No point to tell "I'm gonna do bad to make you feel bad"

Like spread rumors among her fellow co workers or accuse him of non-consensual raw dogging to mamasan, so he will get banned or at least other girls will look down on him.

newbieballpunter
25-06-2024, 12:23 AM
Imagine if "Get back on you" sentence means she's gonna BBFSCIP next punter. Get pregnant and in 9 months tell our unloyal husband that he's the father.

Based on the OP post, I wouldn't be surprised if he will accept the children :shout:

PussyAddict
25-06-2024, 06:43 AM
Could it be Jay fr n.o5??

She always asks me if I've ever seen other girls. And I only visit her every +6months. She's extremely jealous type.

I'd personally keep visiting same shop just to spite her if you really feel hurt as she might feel - if that's still possible.

You could also tip her friends fr shop for insight. Nothing good comes out of whores anyways. Damaged; like body like mind like soul

Maybe she will send her pimp your way?
Does she know where you live?
Could also give your number to random guys?

Jokes aside

Threats fr underground people are always silent approach. I wouldn't consider anything she said as truth fr her name, weight and age.

Assandlegs
29-06-2024, 12:51 AM
Mate, this juice ain't worth the squeeze!!

Sent from my SM-G950F using Tapatalk

putsputs
30-06-2024, 10:00 AM
see her and asked for double with the other girl

Hahaha that made me laugh, so chaotic

JJBlows
30-06-2024, 01:34 PM
Nah, there is no feelings or emotions in this. WL's/ML's are purely about the money & business.

Any man who thinks the girls have "developed feelings" for them is just delusional. Unfortunately...

The same way the old bald fat Farang guys in Thailand are deluded to think a young hot Thai WL/ML girl has "fallen in love" with them

my thai reg was telling last night me her friend had to dump a customer recently because she really liked him but he was just taking advantage of her paying for everything, including their overseas holidays as well.

ditchtheboss
30-06-2024, 02:40 PM
my thai reg was telling last night me her friend had to dump a customer recently because she really liked him but he was just taking advantage of her paying for everything, including their overseas holidays as well.

Really? Sounds highly unlikely.

About one year ago I stopped seeing a long term regular because our lives were intertwining. She stayed in my house several days per week, we met each other’s friends but never explicitly admitted that we were in a relationship. This went on for a couple of years. I paid for everything apart from the occasional gifts such as birthday or Christmas gifts. When I told her we should stop I found out that her rational for being with me was 1 I can more than afford to pay for everything and 2 I am a good man. Her main reason was, and she told me clearly, that she is getting old and had no prospects apart from being a SW so I was her future financial guarantee.

Why am I posting this in this thread? It is highly unlikely that SW will pay for stuff, they want money from us and nothing else.

JJBlows
30-06-2024, 02:51 PM
Really. It cant be. Maybe that Thai girl is very young and that customer was a super handsome dude who looked like Chris/Liam Hemsworth.

Aint no way a WL will ever do that for any man, as a WL's main job is to extract as much money out of guys as humanly possible. It will be counter-productive for her to pay for anything.

And Thai girls are all about money.

that reg is 29 so im assuming her friend is around the same age as her. we got into a little bit of a argument over it as she mentioned some girls have fallen for their customers and didnt care about thier money and i laughed in her face and said "bullshit, you woman just want kids, visa and him to pay for everything" ...she wasn't impressed with me after i said that hahaha. i think the overseas thai girls 100% want your money as they have family priorities, some are paying off dept etc. some are smoking hot and love that they can get that male desire and be paid for it at the same time.

JJBlows
30-06-2024, 03:34 PM
Yeh you're right about what you said. She just got mad as she realized you're not a fool and know what theyre up to.

At 29, girls, esp Thai girls want financial security. Visa. Everything paid for. As they realise their looks are fading & they becoming old.
But it doesnt mean she will be faithful. She will still f*ck around with young Thai guys behind her mans back
Just ask any of the old bald fat Farang guys in Thailand who married a Thai bargirl (or even a normal girl)

that's why you drop subtle hints and comments about how poor you are to them, weeds them out quickly. i did stir her up by saying that im getting better with age but when she hits 35-40 she will be going downhill in terms of looks.

fyi the guy she was talking about was korean and not aussie so he may not be a resident or citizen here.

like you said, thats why you dont marry those thai bar girls in thailand because you are asking for trouble due to the poverty line of living in those countries. the ones i have spoken to have at least investment properties or looking at opening business over here or home so seem to be financially responsible as they are looking at the future.

Double_Adapter
30-06-2024, 04:52 PM
Really. It cant be. Maybe that Thai girl is very young and that customer was a super handsome dude who looked like Chris/Liam Hemsworth.

Aint no way a WL will ever do that for any man, as a WL's main job is to extract as much money out of guys as humanly possible. It will be counter-productive for her to pay for anything.

And Thai girls are all about money.

I vehemently disagree bro! Here's the natural order of things

Chinese WLs - money then visa/pr
Thai WLs - money then family
Korean WLs - money then cosmetics
Japanese WLs - money then brands
Western WLs - money then having a good time
Middle Eastern - money then food
Indian WLs - money then status
Filo WLs - family then money (Or is it the other way around)?

JuneC
30-06-2024, 06:12 PM
My ML blocked me so bye bye to $$ and of to the next one

ColesBag
01-07-2024, 05:32 PM
A hooker being jealous of a man fucking someone else. Too funny.

All an act for the $$$$$$$$$$.

These W/L's aren't as smart as they think they are.

Themysterypi
02-07-2024, 01:36 PM
Any updates OP? what have you done?

optimusprime
02-07-2024, 05:52 PM
I wanna thank everyone for their insight. I have decided to follow the general consensus and i decided not to see her and I have cut her off completely. after reading all the replies, it dawned upon me i am just a customer and i dont need to be hung up on one pussy. To be fair, her service was mediocre and she was a time waster too. she was a pathological liar and tried to manipulate me too, so it made more sense for me to never see this WL ever again.

i have not tried getting in touch with this WL either and she has not done anything yet to get back at me.

ReginaldBubbles
02-07-2024, 06:24 PM
To be fair, her service was mediocre and she was a time waster too. she was a pathological liar and tried to manipulate me too.


Bloody hell dude, how did she even become a regular??

optimusprime
02-07-2024, 06:45 PM
Bloody hell dude, how did she even become a regular??

compared to other WL, the service was mediocre haha. for the first couple visits, the service was good enough but it started deteriorating since the last few visits, so i had refrained from seeing her. to answer your question, i think she became a regular because we are about the same age and she is my ideal type of girl in terms of looks, but mostly because i was naive. in hindsight, i think i would have been better off seeing other WL who provided better service.

cometoIndia
02-07-2024, 09:00 PM
compared to other WL, the service was mediocre haha. for the first couple visits, the service was good enough but it started deteriorating since the last few visits, so i had refrained from seeing her. to answer your question, i think she became a regular because we are about the same age and she is my ideal type of girl in terms of looks, but mostly because i was naive. in hindsight, i think i would have been better off seeing other WL who provided better service.

Well done so far mate. But admit it, you fell for her. That's okay, the next few days you'll be tempted again, don't even dare. We learn and move on to the next pussy. That's life as a man.

Remember you're the prize not her. She will age terribly, probably get pregnant by some broke dude, and become a fat single mother with STDs. Whereas if you move on, hit the gym, and earn more money, you'll age like a wine. A few years go by you'll look 10x better & richer, and date a young attractive woman, leaving her in the dust. She will look back in deep regret and wonder how you're probably the best man she had ever met in the past and how she fumbled you.

Women lose their value the older they get. For us, it only gets better.

JJBlows
02-07-2024, 09:48 PM
Women lose their value the older they get. For us, it only gets better.

There is now a word for that, they call it Silverbacking as like how young gorilla males are young and immature but as they age they end up being the older,stronger and wiser ones.

Double_Adapter
03-07-2024, 08:36 AM
There is now a word for that, they call it Silverbacking as like how young gorilla males are young and immature but as they age they end up being the older,stronger and wiser ones.

True, but it can also mean to pound a black chick in doggy-style, you pull out and squirt all over her back.

Hedonisticfun
03-07-2024, 02:14 PM
theres this WL i used to see regularly. she found out i saw another WL in the same shop, so she got upset and texted me saying "she will get back at me" for what i did to her and said she's blocking me on wechat. i havent seen her since she blocked me. so i wanted to ask for advice before making the next move. here are my questions:

1. should i book her and what can i expect from her when i see her during that session?
2. what did she mean by "she will get back at me"? what can i expect?

thanks!

Unless you want a potential AVO / rape charge / public notoriety or have become a stalker I*d let it go and move on .. she*s wiped you , let it go

lymp
04-07-2024, 12:13 PM
Interesting thread. I can’t personally imaging marrying or dating a SW as I’m just not wired that way, purely transactional. I can see though how for certain punters the allure would be there.

Glad you’ve decided to let this one go OP.

Seafood
11-07-2024, 12:37 AM
Are you seriously asking?

faruk
11-07-2024, 06:27 AM
Well done so far mate. But admit it, you fell for her. That's okay, the next few days you'll be tempted again, don't even dare. We learn and move on to the next pussy. That's life as a man.

Remember you're the prize not her. She will age terribly, probably get pregnant by some broke dude, and become a fat single mother with STDs. Whereas if you move on, hit the gym, and earn more money, you'll age like a wine. A few years go by you'll look 10x better & richer, and date a young attractive woman, leaving her in the dust. She will look back in deep regret and wonder how you're probably the best man she had ever met in the past and how she fumbled you.

Women lose their value the older they get. For us, it only gets better.

This post needs to be pinned for all of us.

Joun23
12-07-2024, 09:28 AM
Why bother mate. She's not your girlfriend but just a prostitute, nothing more than that. Be careful not to fall into the honey trap as already mentioned above. It can be quite painful and really damaging. Just cut the tie and move on.

mn69
12-07-2024, 12:47 PM
Well done so far mate. But admit it, you fell for her. That's okay, the next few days you'll be tempted again, don't even dare. We learn and move on to the next pussy. That's life as a man.

Remember you're the prize not her. She will age terribly, probably get pregnant by some broke dude, and become a fat single mother with STDs. Whereas if you move on, hit the gym, and earn more money, you'll age like a wine. A few years go by you'll look 10x better & richer, and date a young attractive woman, leaving her in the dust. She will look back in deep regret and wonder how you're probably the best man she had ever met in the past and how she fumbled you.

Women lose their value the older they get. For us, it only gets better.

This is true. Men can age like wine and are the prize BUT but only if the man actually keeps in shape and builds up his wealth.

Men can lose value too as they get older. Theres also plenty of average men out there who aged terribly, are fat, doesnt maintain himself, no gym and has no accumulated wealth. So they have to go to some 3rd world country coz no girl in the developed Western world would even look at him. You will see these men in Thailand/Philippines trying to marry some Bargirl.

Money is universally attractive, regardless or country or culture. But also have to maintain physical looks to go with it.

faruk
12-07-2024, 02:16 PM
This is true. Men can age like wine and are the prize BUT but only if the man actually keeps in shape and builds up his wealth.

Men can lose value too as they get older. Theres also plenty of average men out there who aged terribly, are fat, doesnt maintain himself, no gym and has no accumulated wealth. So they have to go to some 3rd world country coz no girl in the developed Western world would even look at him. You will see these men in Thailand/Philippines trying to marry some Bargirl.

Money is universally attractive, regardless or country or culture. But also have to maintain physical looks to go with it.

I would say yes and no. It's a balance. The worse you are physically, the more money you need to compensate for it, and vice versa.