Sajiao

[sei]

The term Sajiao has been mentioned a few times in this forum, most recently by renown punter extraordinaire Iexperiement!

It was always funny and a bit frustrating seeing it happen in the movies but after reading the below article I realise I too have been a victim of the sajiao practice from a man and completely fell for it!

Any way, it's just a practice I find interesting and thought I'd share some tips courtesy of Eve Sun for the little sajiao in all of you...so cute!

http://www.theworldofchinese.com/2012/04/turning-the-tables-on-sajiao-when-men-pout-back/

[Eureka]

Mmm - not sure it is Sajiao or treating a lovely woman in a way she knows she is special & is heard !

If deliberately done as a tactic then it is different :)

And your Avatar looks like she doesn't take crap from anyone !! Lol

[sei]

You sound like a true gentleman Eureka!

There is nothing better than a true gentleman who loves to spoil a woman :)

Your avatar looks to be an even match to mine. I like your style :D

[Eureka]

Haha - my avatar looks mysterious & intriguing !!
Your avatar is giving me the "eye" ... Looks very feisty .. but equally engaging / intriguing

[Max Impact]

Im crying that you attribute the Sajiao discussion mainly to iExperiment, sei.

I really dont think a guy should sajiao a girl though, thats weird! Unless he was gay, I would understand.

[IExperiment]

Im crying that you attribute the Sajiao discussion mainly to iExperiment, sei.

I really dont think a guy should sajiao a girl though, thats weird! Unless he was gay, I would understand.

I agree you started from the Creepy white guy thread. I also cannot be Saijiao as well not my style :) but I know and meet a few Saijiao and dont scorn them watch out :)

[Wayne]

I don't get saijiao at all. Once I sat up all night on a train from Qingdao to Beijing. In the two seats opposite were a xiaojie and her laowai lover. She insisted he stand so she could use both seats to lie down. He argued but she made such a scene he relented. The poor sucker was absolutely exhausted. How are tantrums sexy?

[uber]

It's a terrible cultural practice that benefits precisely zero people, and everyone will be better off when it is finally stamped out by the boot of modernity.

[rooter]

This is new to me; but really its not.
Never heard of the word before, but it just looks like one of the many ways that women try to assert some sort of power, and get their own way within the oppressive confines of patriarchal society.
It's degrading to both women and men.
It is not just something Asian women do either; Western women do it too, though to a lesser extent, and they haven't developed it to the ritualised artform Asian women seem to have.
Basically whenever you have a relationship that's not based on equality, then the person with less power (usually the woman) will devise all sorts of tricks and techniques to get concessions from her more powerful partner. And the more unequal the relationship the more they have to rely on these tactics.

That was Lecture No. 1 in Gender Studies 101 as taught by Professor Rooter Ph.(ucke)D ;).
Next week we discuss glass ceilings, or perhaps more appropriately in this forum, mirrored ceilings ;)
Stay tuned ...

[Littlewonder]

I think that there is a time and a place for everything and you can call it what you like but if you always treat a lady with respect and dignity the other falls in place in private or when your making love.

Somethings don't need to be done in public and if they are they can be degrading to both parties, and what works or is acceptable to one couple might not be to another.

[Sergaent Brody]

Wrong 5*, chilli and hebe did and I loved it!!!!

[Max Impact]

Hebe sajiao'd me by running out of the room when she saw me!!:confused2:

[sei]

If i offended I am sorry, my curiosity peaked at iexperimemt's mention of the term.

Awww you mentioning you might cry is to me the mild version of sajiao. Its not "gay" (I dont see how it could possibly be btw) it's just cute when a guy acts sweet and a little vulnerable i guess.

I suppose there are varying levels of it and throwing very childish tantrums and acting like a spoilt brat is on the extreme end but for me a little pouting can be quite adorable from a grown man or woman, that's just me, feel free to make as many disgusted faces as you like :D

[AHLUNGOR]

I don't think there is anything wrong when a cute little sexy girl does a bit of sajiao on to her men!!

And don't forget there are various degree and methods and intention of sajiao too:

The target could be the daddy and his little girl, it doesn't matter if the daughter is 5, 15, or 25 when she sajiao to you, you usually will give in.

It could be between boyfriend and girlfriend and the subject matter could be as little as which movie to watch, which restaurant and could be as serious as her first time, with or without condom, she wants you to stay the night, will or will you marry her, where to go on your honeymoon, buying your first house in the same suburb with her parents....etc etc, I think you get the pictures.

And in the punting world, say in a massage shop, you have you favourite ML, you saw her more than 10 times and you try to get a BJ from her for the first time (you know that she only does nude HJ - like a Maggie and Linda !!), and without saying yes or no, she sajiao to you!! How you handle her or the way she reacted could determine whether:
You get nothing but a slap on your face or a slap on your rock hard cock,

a little licking and kissing on your dick only - a sign for more to come, perhaps better luck next time,

A BBBJ with CIM the way you had dreamed ever since the first time you met her !!,

just a CBJ and lucky you carry a Dom - but it was a nothing BJ, she probably never did one before, so disappointing!!

When you ask you were expecting a freebie BJ, she sajiao and wants a $50 tip, you only want to pay $20, may be $30, she stands on $50. End up No Deal!!

The examples can go on and on, and don't tell me you haven't experienced some degree of sajiao from your co-workers, what about those little things your sexy secretary did to you like ......., but hay, that's a different story

And it's time to get off my train!

Cheers

[Sextus]

Great post.

[cmk76]

Yuki @ 64 TP After A Long Hot Friday...

"The young girl attitude coupled with fake tantrums of not being content when not getting things her way was quite entertaining." = sajiao

[Eureka]

Normally girls from China and Taiwan are expert at

Sajioa:grimace:

Not sure I have experienced it.
But I have found them to be very adept at a number of things !! Hehe

[AHLUNGOR]

Normally girls from China and Taiwan are expert at

Sajioa:grimace:


Two girls came to mind very quickly:

Tiffany from ex SL is very good at it, she is from HongKong.

Mena from ex Stanmore is a natural and she is from Taiwan.

[IExperiment]

I think Hongkong girls does it a lot and there is nothing wrong with it, just watch all the hongkong movie even some action Jackie Chan have some Sajiao in it.

[rooter]

I have never copped a sajiao !
I feel like I am missing out on something.
Is there a guaranteed way to provike a sajiao ?

[wilisno]

I have never copped a sajiao !
I feel like I am missing out on something.
Is there a guaranteed way to provike a sajiao ?

The girl has to like you first !

[rooter]

The girl has to like you first !

it will never happen then ;)

[Gucci2012]

What a great thread. I hardly read threads begining to end. Happy tears are streaming out of my eyes as I have numerous flash backs of all the times I got the Sajiao treatment and all the times I laughed in the girls face at her tantrum behaviour.

I think it was the origins of my fetish for rough treatment by my sex partners...face slapping, getting choked...ahhhh good times...good times.