Let's hear some happy stories

[faruk]

The divorce thread was quite eye opening and I'm sure it helped some brothers in similar situations.

But I want to flip the table and talk about the other side of the equation - are you in a happy long term relationship or marriage? If so, what do you think makes a good partner and what makes your relationship work? This would be a good thread especially for the younger brothers in their 20s looking to settle down.

And yes, before anyone points it out, I do believe you can be in a happy relationship and still punt, or at least visit this forum :cool2:

[Sendmetheacti]

The divorce thread was quite eye opening and I'm sure it helped some brothers in similar situations.

But I want to flip the table and talk about the other side of the equation - are you in a happy long term relationship or marriage? If so, what do you think makes a good partner and what makes your relationship work? This would be a good thread especially for the younger brothers in their 20s looking to settle down.

And yes, before anyone points it out, I do believe you can be in a happy relationship and still punt, or at least visit this forum :cool2:

Honestly the red/black pill idiots are right.
To be truly happy you want to find a woman that is on a lower rung than you looks-wise/socially. You then need to treat her mean to keep her keen etc.

I think the female 'sex' drive is basically just them wanting to trade sex for something in return. so as long as you have something that she doesn't have but wants, marriage, a house, etc., she will be willing to have sex with you. The moment you give her everything, 'poof' dead bedroom; "I have a headache, leg ache, back ache, this ache, that ache"... while at the start of the relationship she was fine getting pumped in the back of a car upside down after going on a hike together for 4 hours.

/ranting.
Modern world is messed up relationship wise.
Just stick with hookers. It's a far more honest and worthwhile transaction.

[jedibear]

I gotta say, very wise words there! I have a married mate, 5 years in complaining I have more sex than he does. I'm only a once or 2 times a week punter.. so can understand his frustration.

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[personaa]

Can't agree more. The relationship game is quite messed up , thanks to Social Media!

There is this trend on TikTok and girls keep talking about their dates. 99 percent keep on saying the guy was not upto their standards, one girl even said the guy was decent and quite nice but she didn't want to proceed. I think JD Vance summed it up very well; society of cat ladies on the horizon!

[faruk]

How old are these girls? I assume early 20s if they are on tik tok? Girls usually reduce their (unrealistic) standards are they get older and realise that tall, dark and handsome millionaire doesn't exist

[Golden Rod]

Is there such a thing as long term happiness? The only thing that comes close is long time happiness and that’s still a very very short time.

[Sendmetheacti]

It's not even dating and social media, which is it's own nightmare. But it IS a winnable game if your okay looking and smooth talking, or just wait until your 30s with a good job to catch the rapidly wrinkling club girls when they're trying to catch a lifeboat.

The problem gets so much worse when you actually get married to one. Because she almost universally will just stop sex. I'm 99% sure marriage as a thing only makes sense when the wife's duty is to put out regularly. Feminism is the issue.
Once saying that "the wife's duty is to provide sex to the man" became 'rapey' and sexist. That was it. That was the end for marriage.

It's not worth it.

You're simply not going to have sex with her no matter what. She will have 101 excuses, she will say you don't cook enough, you don't clean. This or that.

It's like bitch I can get my dick sucked by an 18 year old Jap girl that looks 100x better than you for $160. Why the fuck would I spend the entire weekend cooking, cleaning and giving you a back massage for a lazy handjob that I'd ask for my money back and leave a bad review if I paid for it.

Yes your fun to hang around, yes I love you. BUT good god woman. You have ONE main job. The big reason I married you and not just hung around with my friend Dave for the rest of my life. It's because I can FUCK you.

Why would you take that away? Why would you THINK you can just stop that randomly?
Honestly anyone that's like 20-30yo. Just stay single until it's not taboo to say to your wife that it's her duty to have sex with you when you want it.

We've been trained to think that saying that, or thinking it is somehow 'dirty' or 'nonfeminist'. It's bullshit. That attitude is literally what separates us from animals and allowed humans to build functioning societies for thousands of years. The idea that you can go out, work hard, and when you get home there's a warm meal, and a wet pussy waiting for you. That's why we went to the moon. That's why we built factories, and nukes and washing machines.

Until that feminist attitude that it's wrong to expect your wife to fuck you regularly disappears. I promise you, you will have MUCH higher happiness and be far wealthier just fucking a hot WL every week or so. Thank Christ it's legal in Syd. And lord bless the working women. Literally holding my sanity and a large chunk of Sydney's married population's sanity up.

[Golden Rod]

Perhaps some of the married men here could write reviews on their own wives? I’d be interested to see how many positive reviews would be written.

[personaa]

Perhaps some of the married men here could write reviews on their own wives? I’d be interested to see how many positive reviews would be written.

Interesting! You want members to post reviews of their wives? Haha. That's a new section for sure!

[tcrawford]

Problem is with both sides imo. Once people get married they let their bodies go and neither looks appealing to the other anymore.

[Footballpunter]

Can't agree more. The relationship game is quite messed up , thanks to Social Media!

There is this trend on TikTok and girls keep talking about their dates. 99 percent keep on saying the guy was not upto their standards, one girl even said the guy was decent and quite nice but she didn't want to proceed. I think JD Vance summed it up very well; society of cat ladies on the horizon!

Really didn’t think I would get a JD Vance reference here LOL

[fnmfnmfnm]

Thing is, when marriage and kids come into play then priorities change and sex goes down a couple of rungs in the wife’s priority list. As women aren’t physical beasts like us, what turns them on changes too. I saw a previous post saying that all of sudden helping out around the house, with the kids etc. can go a hell of a long way towards attraction, which I believe.

I think, if you’re with the right woman, she will want to please you if you’re doing your part of the heavy lifting with family life. Unless you’ve married an absolute cunt who either wants you for your money or just wanted marriage to keep up with the Joneses and would’ve been happy to marry any half compatible guy for her.

Me and my Mrs arent nearly as sexually acrive as we used to be, but admittedly I put in a lot less romantic effort, she probably doesn’t feel as sexy in her body after popping out a kid, and in all honesty it’s much easier to just hand over a hundred or two to fuck a smoking hot tight thing who will wait on me hand and foot for the hour. It’s a damn shame but it’s the reality for so many.

[jedibear]

Interesting! You want members to post reviews of their wives? Haha. That's a new section for sure!It will be called the Starfish Section...

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[gco0307]

Have been married for 36 years and still going strong as I move into the phase of life I will call 'semi-retirement' of not working fulltime while my wife has been retired for a few years already.

Through the years we have been swingers (together and as a couple) and have frequently had our share of fun although this has slowed tremendously following a severe motor accident we had which impacted physically and mentally, as well as the dreaded female menopause impacts.

That all said, I still have my massages with ladies from time to time and am one of the very lucky that not just does my wife know, but she fully supports me having my levels of fun.

Our sexual activity has waned as mentioned but the overall relationship remains strong and we still 'need' the company of the other and still behave at times just as we did all those years ago when we met. We still sleep naked, with our wrinkly bodies and still let the other know when eye candy is around that may be of interest, we slap the others butts or grab other body parts in public as for us, the older we get the more fun it is to be stupid and remain childish.

Our kids are long since adult and while one remains in our house, he knows the way we are and gives us plenty of freedom.

Through all this, woudl not change a thing (hope this kind of meets the intent of the OP)

[Sendmetheacti]

Thing is, when marriage and kids come into play then priorities change and sex goes down a couple of rungs in the wife’s priority list. As women aren’t physical beasts like us, what turns them on changes too. I saw a previous post saying that all of sudden helping out around the house, with the kids etc. can go a hell of a long way towards attraction, which I believe.

I think, if you’re with the right woman, she will want to please you if you’re doing your part of the heavy lifting with family life. Unless you’ve married an absolute cunt who either wants you for your money or just wanted marriage to keep up with the Joneses and would’ve been happy to marry any half compatible guy for her.

Me and my Mrs arent nearly as sexually acrive as we used to be, but admittedly I put in a lot less romantic effort, she probably doesn’t feel as sexy in her body after popping out a kid, and in all honesty it’s much easier to just hand over a hundred or two to fuck a smoking hot tight thing who will wait on me hand and foot for the hour. It’s a damn shame but it’s the reality for so many.

Your right, but I think I understand the underlying reason for this. Men have a way higher sex drive than women. No matter how many purple haired crazies try to tell me that's not the case. It obviously is the case.

Marriage made a lot of sense when you COULD demand sex from your wife and she couldn't really refuse. But even 'thinking' that way is now rapey, and not political correct. And THAT'S where we went wrong.

Putting women in charge of sex and reproduction, is like putting men in charge of breastfeeding babies. Their body just isn't built for that. They have nipples, and women do have sex drives. But they absolutely shouldn't be in charge of controlling when sex happens.

I'm 99% sure this is why every developed feminist country is having a population collapse. Our species I think is DEPENDENT on male horniness to propagate. if you leave that to women they just don't want it enough.

[Sendmetheacti]

Lucky rare case I think. The rewards of marrying a unicorn from another time.
Modern women are cooked.

[Sendmetheacti]

She's a great friend, and fun in a lot of ways.

Just if it was a hooker, I'd ask for my money back because nothing actually happened.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Men with happy satisfying relationships wouldn't be on a pay for sex forum.

[ReginaldBubbles]

Well this thread is going great

[ColesBag]

I punt & have civvie sex twice a week on average. I'm happy with things. I keep things compartmentalised. Life is good.

[keebab]

I punt & have civvie sex twice a week on average. I'm happy with things. I keep things compartmentalised. Life is good.

Where are these civvies you have sex with? I want in!

[GoldfishMan]

The divorce thread was quite eye opening and I'm sure it helped some brothers in similar situations.

But I want to flip the table and talk about the other side of the equation - are you in a happy long term relationship or marriage? If so, what do you think makes a good partner and what makes your relationship work? This would be a good thread especially for the younger brothers in their 20s looking to settle down.

And yes, before anyone points it out, I do believe you can be in a happy relationship and still punt, or at least visit this forum :cool2:

Well to start with, don't even think about settling down in your 20s. At that age, you're likely not financially up for the challenge, plus you haven't given yourself enough "play time" to satisfy that part of yourself. Play time is also important because you get to know what type of girl you really like so you make the right choice when you eventually do settle down.

I'd say the only important factor that you can control when it comes to choosing the right partner is her age. She must be at least 10 years younger than you, because of the biological clock and how slow men mature mentally vs women.

[Double_Adapter]

If I'm not mistaken the only happy stories are the ones with a happy ending.

[Jamez11]

The divorce thread was quite eye opening and I'm sure it helped some brothers in similar situations.

But I want to flip the table and talk about the other side of the equation - are you in a happy long term relationship or marriage? If so, what do you think makes a good partner and what makes your relationship work? This would be a good thread especially for the younger brothers in their 20s looking to settle down.

And yes, before anyone points it out, I do believe you can be in a happy relationship and still punt, or at least visit this forum :cool2:

No point asking for any positive points of view here mate, in my experience a lot of happily married men in loving relationships don’t punt, so you’re going to get an extremely biased opinion, you can already see all the feminized negative Nancy’s complaining about “modern women/dating” despite you specifically looking for positive feedback.

I have quite a few close mates who are very happily married, we’ve been friends since primary school so we’re pretty open with each other so would know if there were any serious issues. One, divorced quite young and very early in the marriage, financially it was split 50/50, he got remarried and has a young family with the new missus. A brother got divorced, it was extremely difficult at the beginning, especially with a young family but things have settled, he’s in a new relationship, they have a blended family and doing fine.

Also, if you think it’s fine to punt when in a serious, “monogamous” relationship you should probably avoid getting married in the first place. If you want to find a decent woman and potential wife, it helps to be a decent man and husband.

Is marriage a risk? Yes definitely… for both men and women. It just depends on what your goals are and who you are marrying which will decide if it’s worth it.

[robnorth]

It's not even dating and social media, which is it's own nightmare. But it IS a winnable game if your okay looking and smooth talking, or just wait until your 30s with a good job to catch the rapidly wrinkling club girls when they're trying to catch a lifeboat.

The problem gets so much worse when you actually get married to one. Because she almost universally will just stop sex. I'm 99% sure marriage as a thing only makes sense when the wife's duty is to put out regularly. Feminism is the issue.
Once saying that "the wife's duty is to provide sex to the man" became 'rapey' and sexist. That was it. That was the end for marriage.

It's not worth it.

You're simply not going to have sex with her no matter what. She will have 101 excuses, she will say you don't cook enough, you don't clean. This or that.

It's like bitch I can get my dick sucked by an 18 year old Jap girl that looks 100x better than you for $160. Why the fuck would I spend the entire weekend cooking, cleaning and giving you a back massage for a lazy handjob that I'd ask for my money back and leave a bad review if I paid for it.

Yes your fun to hang around, yes I love you. BUT good god woman. You have ONE main job. The big reason I married you and not just hung around with my friend Dave for the rest of my life. It's because I can FUCK you.

Why would you take that away? Why would you THINK you can just stop that randomly?
Honestly anyone that's like 20-30yo. Just stay single until it's not taboo to say to your wife that it's her duty to have sex with you when you want it.

We've been trained to think that saying that, or thinking it is somehow 'dirty' or 'nonfeminist'. It's bullshit. That attitude is literally what separates us from animals and allowed humans to build functioning societies for thousands of years. The idea that you can go out, work hard, and when you get home there's a warm meal, and a wet pussy waiting for you. That's why we went to the moon. That's why we built factories, and nukes and washing machines.

Until that feminist attitude that it's wrong to expect your wife to fuck you regularly disappears. I promise you, you will have MUCH higher happiness and be far wealthier just fucking a hot WL every week or so. Thank Christ it's legal in Syd. And lord bless the working women. Literally holding my sanity and a large chunk of Sydney's married population's sanity up.

This is funny AF esp the 18yo jap gobby. I can hear your voice.

Can't tell if you're a married punter or not though. Would make it funnier in different ways if you were single or married.

[Revenant]

Problem is with both sides imo. Once people get married they let their bodies go and neither looks appealing to the other anymore.

That’s why one strays isn’t it?

[EKA]

I gotta say, very wise words there! I have a married mate, 5 years in complaining I have more sex than he does. I'm only a once or 2 times a week punter.. so can understand his frustration.

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Well, as a married guy (for almost 10 years) I can understand your mates.
I'm married and I still try new girls I find on EB and SB etc..
Why limit yourself to one girl (aka wife) when you can f*ck more in your private time?
My solo trip to Japan back in Jan was fabulous.
I had different girls in my hotel room every night for like 10 days, and now I think I don't even have sexual fantasies anymore. Lol