your wife or partner

[flyingfish]

I assume most of the guys here have a wife or partner?

Do you guys wish she was into more stuff, would that stop you punting? I cut down so much due to rising costs.

Fantasies for my wife would be swapping, going to a swingers club etc but she's too shy to be around people.

Any other guys have fantasies like that for their wife but no luck in getting them to do new things.

Mines only into public play without getting caught, its okay but get boring.

[asnabc]

Everyone is different. It is about how each one of us gets turned on mentally from kinks or fantasies etc.

I'm personally not into any of the wild stuff, all I need is intimacy, a great attitude from the woman that they really want me. Kissing, DFK, passion etc..

Unfortunately, I don't think you can expect a partner to have the same kinks as yourself. Have an open discussion, respect their answers, and the response could be vague or indirect. If you can't get what you want then there is the option of.... punting.

[jackdaniels]

My wife is a starfish in bed which is the main reason I punt. I love her though.

[Abracadabra]

Everyone is different. It is about how each one of us gets turned on mentally from kinks or fantasies etc.

I'm personally not into any of the wild stuff, all I need is intimacy, a great attitude from the woman that they really want me. Kissing, DFK, passion etc..

Unfortunately, I don't think you can expect a partner to have the same kinks as yourself. Have an open discussion, respect their answers, and the response could be vague or indirect. If you can't get what you want then there is the option of.... punting.

Very insightful..
Very true....

[Xzaga]

My wife is a starfish in bed which is the main reason I punt. I love her though.

Yeah pretty much the same here and why I punt

[yunglean]

The Akaash Singh bit on prostitution not being cheating comes to mind https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHV8o9cyVYk

[Sendmetheacti]

Mine has basically checked out sexually. When we got together it was 3-4 times a week. Before we lived together it was every time we met up.


Since we moved in...
Haven't had vanilla sex for 4 years.

Every few months a handjob for 10-15 seconds before she gets tired and goes back to looking at her phone.

Ya know people say how can you enjoy fucking hookers, it's all fake and she just pretending to be sexually into you.

My answer to that is atleast the hooker bothers to pretend..

But silver lining. Most guys are stuck fucking an increasingly less appetizing women..

[Sendmetheacti]

It is but she's great as a friend and financial partner.

Were doing well in life, and I do care and love her.

But she's definitely not a sexual partner in any sense of it.

[Axeman123]

It is but she's great as a friend and financial partner.

Were doing well in life, and I do care and love her.

But she's definitely not a sexual partner in any sense of it. Ditto that. I can fully understand y single blokes would trouble to comprehend it. That's why couldn't be critical of any hooker. There's just some I wouldn't see again.

[94wreckers]

Mine is hot asf, if I could fuck her every single day I wouldnt need to punt. But she only gets horny every 3-4 days.

I need something more regular than that. Soooo punting it is ;)

[Azrael]

Why do most women’s sex drive diminish? I say most because I only know a few that openly are still horny at close to 50 years of age.

[Axeman123]

Why do most women’s sex drive diminish? I say most because I only know a few that openly are still horny at close to 50 years of age.Ask yourself if they are single or not. Divorced or never married, they fuck for what fucking is meant to be.

[Azrael]

Single in one instance so yeah she has no baggage and looks half her age.

[Johny77]

I do wonder if familiarity breeds contempt in the bedroom, when it comes to wives/partners.

In my case, I have gotten used to the variety whether it be with WL/ML or women I have met socially. I have had a few FB’s and tend to get bored or less interested in seeing them after a few hook ups. This is not a good thing. If I were to meet a girl I am interested in pursuing a relationship with, I fear it would not last.

[Sendmetheacti]

My theory is that women don't have the same type of sex drive as men.

They have a sex trading drive instead in that their sex drive is weighted towards what they can get for having sex.

The sex itself is never the goal. So when you first meet her, there's a lot she can get by having sex with you, but after marriage, house kids.. there's less and less she can get by having sex thus she desires it less.

Guys on the other hand want sex for sex sake itself.

If you divorce her, she will suddenly find her sex drive again because there's something to gain for it again.

[Hedonisticfun]

I assume most of the guys here have a wife or partner?

Do you guys wish she was into more stuff, would that stop you punting? I cut down so much due to rising costs.

Fantasies for my wife would be swapping, going to a swingers club etc but she's too shy to be around people.

Any other guys have fantasies like that for their wife but no luck in getting them to do new things.

Mines only into public play without getting caught, its okay but get boring.


... and having writing that flyingfish , how would you feel if your wife / partner wanted more than you could provide , not satisfied or wanted with other men , women , couples ? I know of one WL that openly advertises as married (her Facebook profile , with hubby featured , matches her ad) as does everthing EXCEPT vaginal penetration restricted only to her husband

[GoldfishMan]

My wife loves it when I get horny for her. Not always up for it due to period migraine etc, but more often than not.

Just last night I was extra horny so after kiddo had gone to bed, I took out the Stuart Weitzman thigh-high heeled boots in black suede that I got her years ago and a pair of her g-strings in white, and got her to wear only those items for me. Fark, I only lasted maybe 20 seconds before I blew in her, lol!

Luckily I'd loaded up with V and was able to follow up within 30 mins with a good hard fuck and a second shot. Really can't complain about my wife in the sex department.

[BubbaDiesel]

My theory is that women don't have the same type of sex drive as men.

They have a sex trading drive instead in that their sex drive is weighted towards what they can get for having sex.

The sex itself is never the goal. So when you first meet her, there's a lot she can get by having sex with you, but after marriage, house kids.. there's less and less she can get by having sex thus she desires it less.

Guys on the other hand want sex for sex sake itself.

If you divorce her, she will suddenly find her sex drive again because there's something to gain for it again.

Agreed, I've always thought basically the same thing. My partner needs the stars to align for her to be in the mood now. When we first got together it was several times a day, these days I get it once a month (twice if I'm lucky). I love her and take care of her needs, both emotionally and financially, but everything has to be PERFECT for her to feel connected and us to do the deed. Me, I need the physical attention to feel the emotional connection so it's rough going sometimes. Good thing I can still lace up my boots for a punt or else I'd be screwed in every way BUT the right way.

[robnorth]

Sometimes you just wanna fuck something different. I'm fully into the the bimbo type when punting because I normally go for the cute/wife material.

[ReginaldBubbles]

My theory is that women don't have the same type of sex drive as men.

They have a sex trading drive instead in that their sex drive is weighted towards what they can get for having sex.

The sex itself is never the goal. So when you first meet her, there's a lot she can get by having sex with you, but after marriage, house kids.. there's less and less she can get by having sex thus she desires it less.

Guys on the other hand want sex for sex sake itself.

If you divorce her, she will suddenly find her sex drive again because there's something to gain for it again.

Women are hornbags, same as men. If she doesn't wanna fuck you then that's on you.

[Zoobender]

Women are hornbags, same as men. If she doesn't wanna fuck you then that's on you.

This is true. They are horny just as much as men but they don't want to let on. This sexy blonde I was trying to fuck kept saying no to a date...but she kept messaging me. Good morning and gnight messages and then throughout the day. Ran her own business and was busy as hell so I knew she was into me, but she was busy and didn't want to commit to a date so she wasnt head over heels. She said in one of those messages that she never sleeps with anyone unless it's serious, younger me would have given up but I've had alot of experience fucking these women so I just said yep that's OK, let just see what happens with timing etc for the date.

Anyway few weeks later I took her on a day date, she likes physical touch so I made sure to be very touchy whike being respectful. After a couple of hours she invited me back to her place.

House tour, drinks and then into her bedroom. I raw dogged her 3 times, came in her pussy twice and mouth once. Left after 4 hours. She messaged a few days later to ask for a second date but I said no. Moved on to another chick.

Got tested all negative. Horny chick. Loved my cock

[shtoopid_head]

This is true. They are horny just as much as men but they don't want to let on. This sexy blonde I was trying to fuck kept saying no to a date...but she kept messaging me. Good morning and gnight messages and then throughout the day. Ran her own business and was busy as hell so I knew she was into me, but she was busy and didn't want to commit to a date so she wasnt head over heels. She said in one of those messages that she never sleeps with anyone unless it's serious, younger me would have given up but I've had alot of experience fucking these women so I just said yep that's OK, let just see what happens with timing etc for the date.

Anyway few weeks later I took her on a day date, she likes physical touch so I made sure to be very touchy whike being respectful. After a couple of hours she invited me back to her place.

House tour, drinks and then into her bedroom. I raw dogged her 3 times, came in her pussy twice and mouth once. Left after 4 hours. She messaged a few days later to ask for a second date but I said no. Moved on to another chick.

Got tested all negative. Horny chick. Loved my cock

Well aren't you just a player of the game

[Zoobender]

Well aren't you just a player of the game

Maybe I'm the one who got played. Like I said she was horny. Just as horny as me. Girls are good at hiding it. Just have to work out which buttons and press those. Nothing new and nothing hard about it. Just takes some experience and a lot of let downs to learn lol

[Jamez11]

Women are hornbags, same as men. If she doesn't wanna fuck you then that's on you.

If this was true, you’d have a lot more dudes on E&B’s charging $250+ for sex. Could you imagine an equivalent of Ginza, but a bunch of dudes servicing 5-6 girls a day😳.

[lilpump619]

If this was true, you’d have a lot more dudes on E&B’s charging $250+ for sex. Could you imagine an equivalent of Ginza, but a bunch of dudes servicing 5-6 girls a day😳.

Sex is a physical need both for men and women. Women get it easily so you don’t see them paying for it. For all those fellas claiming their partner is not into sex, if shes not getting it from you, she’s getting it from someone else. You satisfy all her needs except the physical one lol. Sex does get boring with the same person overtime.

[ReginaldBubbles]

If this was true, you’d have a lot more dudes on E&B’s charging $250+ for sex. Could you imagine an equivalent of Ginza, but a bunch of dudes servicing 5-6 girls a day😳.

First of all, I imagine it's a much harder job for dudes, having to get it up and keep it up when fucking unattractive women and do to that multiple times a day. Second, it's way easier for girls to get a root if they want than it is for guys.

[Zoobender]

If this was true, you’d have a lot more dudes on E&B’s charging $250+ for sex. Could you imagine an equivalent of Ginza, but a bunch of dudes servicing 5-6 girls a day😳.

The virgin has spoken. Women don't need to pay for sex. They can get it anytime from any man.

Men need to pay for it. Women are horny as fuck.

[scorpio85]

Women are hornbags, same as men. If she doesn't wanna fuck you then that's on you.

Everyone, man and woman have different appetites. I'm sure there are plenty of dudes who can go months and months without sex. I'm just not one of them as with most of us here.

[Zoobender]

Everyone, man and woman have different appetites. I'm sure there are plenty of dudes who can go months and months without sex. I'm just not one of them as with most of us here.

I agree there are women who lose their sex drive. Obviously we don't waste time on those.

[Jamez11]

The virgin has spoken. Women don't need to pay for sex. They can get it anytime from any man.

Men need to pay for it. Women are horny as fuck.

Yes, that’s my point, they can get it a lot easier than the vast majority of men but they’d rather not. Healthy men have 20 times the testosterone of women and men produce more than a quadrillion sperm over a lifetime and women produce a fraction of eggs.

It’s common knowledge men on AVERAGE are massive horn dogs compared to women.

[Zoobender]

Yes, that’s my point, they can get it a lot easier than the vast majority of men but they’d rather not. Healthy men have 20 times the testosterone of women and men produce more than a quadrillion sperm over a lifetime and women produce a fraction of eggs.

It’s common knowledge men on AVERAGE are massive horn dogs compared to women.

I've met alot of women who are fucking animals. It's not testosterone that drives sexual appetites. Women peak sexually for longer than men. The needs are the same The difference is the why they want sex and the ability for a woman to just walk up to anyone on the street and bang them. They have this ability so they don't need to flaunt it. We don't so we need to show of.

[Maxxx13]

We just aren’t physical anymore