Regular or random WLs, what's your preference?

[Joun23]

Fellow punters, do you have regulars or you don't want to make one?
I used to have a couple of regulars and only saw them for some time, but have experienced kinda sense of loss when they went back home.
Since then, I've lost interest in seeing other WLs for a while and am now hesitant to make another new regular as it was not easy to get over it.
How do you do it?
Welcoming any advice or sharing your experience.

[Kiryu0]

Definitely regular gives me the best comfort knowing they know my preferences and the service they provide. But I can't imagine trying to build the same rapport once they leave.

I might find a reason to just see more new girls more often again once they leave.

[MasterPaizuri]

I've done a few rounds now and hit it off with about half the ML's. Others, connection wasn't there.

But I'm doing a 1-2-1 system lol

1 preferred ML with good service (cause that's what it's all about)

Then see 2 diff ML's (explore new pastures)

Then back to the "regular" 1 thereafter

Currently punting once a fortnight so it leaves enough time for me not to develop too strong of a connection. We'll see if it works lol

[ergoproxy]

To op, yea I’ve been there. 2 years back, I was only seeing this WL in no5 who was very hard to book. Saw her almost every 2 weeks. But because she was always booked out, and only work 8-4, it wasn’t always guaranteed. So I started seeing other girls, if I couldn’t book her. She left last Aus last year but I connected with the other ones I was seeing.

I’ve reduced my punting to once every 4 weeks now with the other WL’s I’ve made connections with and I’m always guaranteed an excellent time.

[mn69]

To op, yea I’ve been there. 2 years back, I was only seeing this WL in no5 who was very hard to book. Saw her almost every 2 weeks. But because she was always booked out, and only work 8-4, it wasn’t always guaranteed. So I started seeing other girls, if I couldn’t book her. She left last Aus last year but I connected with the other ones I was seeing.

T Linh I'm guessing

[ergoproxy]

T Linh I'm guessing

Yep! She’s irreplaceable

[MrPB]

At the moment, I'm going with a intentional randoms - that is selecting random girls based off reviews, advertised photos and general vibes for the day.

[Johny77]

Still looking for a regular ML. I do envy those who have a regular or 2. I haven’t hit it off with any ML’s enough to warrant a return or regular visit. The search continues and that’s all good,

[rubtugtugger]

I think I dabble in both, I have a few regular ML's that I'll book with, but sometimes when I get the urge, I like to take the risk and see what's happening.

[11Bravo]

Fellow punters, do you have regulars or you don't want to make one?
I used to have a couple of regulars and only saw them for some time, but have experienced kinda sense of loss when they went back home.
Since then, I've lost interest in seeing other WLs for a while and am now hesitant to make another new regular as it was not easy to get over it.
How do you do it?
Welcoming any advice or sharing your experience.Isn't that a bit selfish? (Harsh, I know). If you didn't want her to leave, why not marry her? You see, bottom line, it's BUSINESS. Believe it or not, she has a life outside of THIS JOB, family and friends back home. And since you didn't offer a permanent position, you should be happy for her.

Don't get me wrong. I've been there WAY MORE than you. And not in OZ, but offshore, where the MO was long time (all night), playing house at your place. She arrives, you go grocery shopping, come home, she cooks dinner, cleans a bit (or more), watch some TV, some entertainment, sleep, a morning wake-up, and she leaves. Or maybe you take her to the cinema's matinee before you take her home. Maybe throw a dinner party. Or a pool party. Or out and about for dinner and clubbing... With a regular, seen every weekend, one for Friday, another for Saturday, for months. Unlike OZ, plenty of time to get to know each other personally. Still, bottom line, it's a business. I'm an expat, and just like there, in OZ, when I leave, I always tell them, "For ME, when I'm back, I hope to see you. For YOU, I hope I don't." This job, it's not like the high school guidance councilor said, "go be a prostitute expat, great career choice". Hopefully, it's TEMPORARY; then she moves on, back to her real life. Sure, for ME, I'm a bit down, but, for HER, I'm happy. They were nice PEOPLE, and I'm happy she's getting back to her REAL life.

My choice? I have a pitching rotation. Some for the fastball, others for the curve-ball, or the slider, or the change-up, even the spitter... Point is, there is variety with regulars. And of course, there are the scouting trips, looking for the bullpen, so when a regular leaves, another can step up. Just remember, it's BUSINESS, even though there can be a personal aspect to it, at least for the hour...

Blue skies... going home:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1NeWEs4qQG8

[Joun23]

Isn't that a bit selfish? (Harsh, I know). If you didn't want her to leave, why not marry her? You see, bottom line, it's BUSINESS. Believe it or not, she has a life outside of THIS JOB, family and friends back home. And since you didn't offer a permanent position, you should be happy for her.

Don't get me wrong. I've been there WAY MORE than you. And not in OZ, but offshore, where the MO was long time (all night), playing house at your place. She arrives, you go grocery shopping, come home, she cooks dinner, cleans a bit (or more), watch some TV, some entertainment, sleep, a morning wake-up, and she leaves. Or maybe you take her to the cinema's matinee before you take her home. Maybe throw a dinner party. Or a pool party. Or out and about for dinner and clubbing... With a regular, seen every weekend, one for Friday, another for Saturday, for months. Unlike OZ, plenty of time to get to know each other personally. Still, bottom line, it's a business. I'm an expat, and just like there, in OZ, when I leave, I always tell them, "For ME, when I'm back, I hope to see you. For YOU, I hope I don't." This job, it's not like the high school guidance councilor said, "go be a prostitute expat, great career choice". Hopefully, it's TEMPORARY; then she moves on, back to her real life. Sure, for ME, I'm a bit down, but, for HER, I'm happy. They were nice PEOPLE, and I'm happy she's getting back to her REAL life.

My choice? I have a pitching rotation. Some for the fastball, others for the curve-ball, or the slider, or the change-up, even the spitter... Point is, there is variety with regulars. And of course, there are the scouting trips, looking for the bullpen, so when a regular leaves, another can step up. Just remember, it's BUSINESS, even though there can be a personal aspect to it, at least for the hour...

Blue skies... going home:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1NeWEs4qQG8

Why not marry her?
You seem to have some serious prejudice. Not all MLs or WLs are looking for sponsorship to live in Australia.
Maybe some girls from SE Asia are but none of my previous regulars (not from SE Asia) wanted to live in Australia.
Don't you think it's selfish to make a deal with them to force to marry you? As you said, they have their own life and have right to marry a man they wish to which we should respect.

[mn69]

Why not marry her?
You seem to have some serious prejudice. Not all ML or WL are looking for sponsorship to live in Australia.
Maybe some girls from SE Asia are but none of my previous regulars (not from SE Asia) wanted to live in Australia.
Don't you think it's selfish to make a deal with them to force to marry you? As you said, they have their own life and have right to marry a man they wish to which we should respect.

Usually its the ones from poorer SE Asian countries (esp Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines). They marry out of necessity/money, rather than love.

Girls from wealthy Asian countries like Singapore, S. Korea, Japan, Brunei etc have no need to marry some old bald fat Farang guy for PR. They probably have more money than him lol theyre just here to work & earn abit of extra cash. Nothing more

And they will marry a guy that they genuinely like/love

[shtoopid_head]

I've done a few rounds now and hit it off with about half the ML's. Others, connection wasn't there.

But I'm doing a 1-2-1 system lol

1 preferred ML with good service (cause that's what it's all about)

Then see 2 diff ML's (explore new pastures)

Then back to the "regular" 1 thereafter

Currently punting once a fortnight so it leaves enough time for me not to develop too strong of a connection. We'll see if it works lol

I like this and I may follow this system

[JuneC]

I mix it up a bit, else they start feeling like your wife

[mn69]

I mix it up a bit, else they start feeling like your wife

Like a wife, except you actually get sex

[Abracadabra]

Like a wife, except you actually get sex

What can one say except touche!

[CFH]

i much prefer random.

[c1teh9]

I mix it up between new (added excitement) and regulars (guaranteed service).

[stallionmachine123]

I’ve got 2 regulars that I’ve built rapport with over the years but now that I check WeChat more start to see new girls.

[11Bravo]

Why not marry her?
You seem to have some serious prejudice. Not all MLs or WLs are looking for sponsorship to live in Australia.
Maybe some girls from SE Asia are but none of my previous regulars (not from SE Asia) wanted to live in Australia.
Don't you think it's selfish to make a deal with them to force to marry you? As you said, they have their own life and have right to marry a man they wish to which we should respect.Wow, your reading comprehension definitely needs some work.

Seems you're the one with prejudices...

MY point was this guy was bemoaning the fact that she left. So IF she was his MAJOR Honey, why didn't he make her an offer: wife, gf, mia noi... No shackles required.

Selfish? Forced to marry? WTF? I repeat (read slowly): "For ME, when I'm back, I hope to see you. For YOU, I hope I don't."

It's BUSINESS... A visit to Fantasy Land for an hour... but then you go back to IRL... And in a few cases, you keep in touch...

[Joun23]

Usually its the ones from poorer SE Asian countries (esp Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines). They marry out of necessity/money, rather than love.

Girls from wealthy Asian countries like Singapore, S. Korea, Japan, Brunei etc have no need to marry some old bald fat Farang guy for PR. They probably have more money than him lol theyre just here to work & earn abit of extra cash. Nothing more

And they will marry a guy that they genuinely like/love

Spot on! Exactly what I meant

[charles86]

I also have about 4 regulars and also mix with trying some new ones to spice it up


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[Joun23]

Wow, your reading comprehension definitely needs some work.

Seems you're the one with prejudices...

MY point was this guy was bemoaning the fact that she left. So IF she was his MAJOR Honey, why didn't he make her an offer: wife, gf, mia noi... No shackles required.

Selfish? Forced to marry? WTF? I repeat (read slowly): "For ME, when I'm back, I hope to see you. For YOU, I hope I don't."

It's BUSINESS... A visit to Fantasy Land for an hour... but then you go back to IRL... And in a few cases, you keep in touch...

You still don't seem to get what my point is...
You don't have to agree with me but need to comprehend the point before debating.

[personaa]

I prefer random but these days I stick with a regular as there is no quality around. Everytime tried a new and often inexperienced girl, it was down to regret and nothing else. So it's only a regular these days.

[11Bravo]

You still don't seem to get what my point is...
You don't have to agree with me but need to comprehend the point before debating.

You seem to be the one with blinders...
1. YOU said YOU experienced a sense of loss on her departure and were hesitant to experience that again. I simply said to look at the other side of the coin - she's going home to her life and you're staying here with yours...
2. You were the one implying marriage by FORCE. Where is the force? You mentioned PR's, not me. If she was THAT significant to YOU, why didn't you take steps to maintain the contact? (The marriage was an exaggeration to make a point which seemed to go over your head, to point out she really wasn't all THAT critical in your life).
3. She doesn't want to live in OZ? What's the problem with YOU moving with her to HER country? And not by force. Great way to see the world, having a non-exploitive relationship with a local. She was an expat, you can't be?

So, while we might differ on the semantics, seems we do agree that a regular's departure is her returning to her life, and you and I staying here with ours.

I have no idea how old you are - this is a NON-specific statement: I believe that before engaging in punting, one has to have a solid foundation of a history of REAL LIFE relationships. Then one can differentiate between P4P and a real relationship. Without that foundation, things can be misunderstood.

Bottom line: get back on the horse and ride to other pastures, being content with the memories you shared with her.

[Bman619]

They call it punting for a reason but I find as I get older, I prefer to fi d a good regular that offers great service and just return to see her again

[Maxxx13]

Random, don’t fall for anyone in this game

[Wtfeillz]

Random is better,
You can try alot difference experiences